How To Know When You Have Found Your Person: 1. A person who looks at you in a way that touches your soul. 2. Runs a race with you in being selfless. 3. Treats you so good everybody else becomes invisible. 4. Will be so solid and consistent they will heal you from all insecurities. 5. Will believe in you so much they will inspire you beyond your comfort zone. 6. Brings peace into your life. 7. Does not require you to change.

When you met the one, you become the PRIORITY.

I've been married 18years to what my friends call a Country brother. No one thought I should marry him except my mother. Turned into a 6 figure man, been good to me and I'm so thankful I didn't listen to the girlfriends who to this day are single.😅

I am definitely waiting for this one because EVERYTIME I think I’ve found the one soon as I relax BOOM God show me every reason he is not it🙄

I'm so glad I've found my person. I'm so happy. He is treating me like a Queen and looks at me like a man has never looked at me before. He loves me so purely and vice versa. I've never been treated so well. ❤

The more i listen to your messages the more i realize how deficient as men we are of such integral life lessons, cause you really are pouring years of wisdom, that actually makes being committed to one woman and building a wonderful family, very very exciting regardless of the life challenges.

Much love to all the Queens of America from New Zealand 🇳🇿 ❤🎉

Mr. Blakes, the way you chuckled when you said, "The way she looks at me.." I can tell you are smittened by the First Lady and that is a beautiful thing.🙏🏿

Sometimes it gets hard having faith that there is still kingdom men out here, but its messages like this help restore my faith. This was a great message❤

“This isn’t build a bear” 😂 this is so good Bishop! Your person accepts you as you are, Amen!

Peace surpasses all understanding. I don’t want a drama king.

Your person will bring peace ...

Your person will Run a race with you in being selfless! Wow. THIS is so POWERFUL & Beautiful

As a mother I am a Bear and a cougar when it comes to my children. I will do whatever it takes to protect them. When my daughter was dating her now husband I was unsure about their relationship. Then, I watched them interact with each other. I watched him look at my daughter as she entered the room spoke volumes to my heart. I knew then he loved my daughter. I thank GOD for allowing me to witnessed the love he has for her. It put my mind at ease with their relationship

Releasing the man who I thought was my husband, and opening my spirit to the goodness of self love Jesus has for me. When the time is right I’m thanking God in advance for the husband he’ll bless me with and praying that we become a kingdom union walking faithfully in the purpose God has for us both. Claiming it in the name of Jesus, amen.

I pray that my person finds me, or I find my person soon❤

Father to so many!👍🏽

Can’t wait for this. So excited. You are truly the father I never had. Thank you.

My internet daddy❤ thank you for your ministry

Smooches 💋.... I would like to add something for the ladies. When Adam saw Eve he recognized her immediately as his wife, so when you meet your man, he will immediately recognize you as his wife.

Bishop Blakes… You are Christ’s husbandry. Thank you for honoring His bride ❤️🙏🏾

Broken Men look for the lust but the Man of God knows his wife by her Spirit

You’re all in my business today Bishop. I prayed about this very thing earlier today. It’s a spiritual and emotional connection first. It’s not about the physical or financial when you’re in the right place spiritually, mentally, and emotionally.

I almost didn’t even tune in to this; just in a funk personally. I’m so glad I did! It truly blessed me 🙌🏽 🩷

Your person will be used as a vehicle of healing…

Peace is priceless

I wish i had your teaching when i was 19 i was so confused of what love is truly is. I didn't trust God i was trying to make my own decisions. But now im so grateful to God he showed me who i truly am when i started to first seek his kingdom. I feel inner peace ive never experienced before

Lord, let these seeds take root and bear fruit, in your Holy name, Lord Jesus🙏🏾

Your person will believe in you as much as you believe in yourself.❤❤

This is so true. I gave my late Husband and Best Friend a card for our 20th Anniversary that said When I found you, my heart knew it was home! And two weeks later, God called him home.

Dear Sir, I have been following your videos for a while now and focused on my own healing and well-being. A man came into my life again whom I have known since my teen years. I married another and so did he, we are divorcees now and both experienced abusive painful relationships. In my mind, all men were now the same and I initially gave him a hard time getting to know me. Thanks to Yah the Almighty he recognized in me what I didnt see at the time bc I was and am still healing from mental abuse, codependency and trsuma bond. Now the fog is lifting and I am seeing many things, not only this man for what they really are and your guudance got me on a path wanting to explore what it feels like to be healed and loved right. May you be blessed. All the best for you and yours from north germany

Love THAT…Lady Lisa looks at you in a way that touches your soul! Amen👍🏽

Thank you Bishop, each time i listen to you i remember my late father, he said something to me years ago about a man i was dating: " i donot see the look of a man that loves a woman", and he was right. The right person brings REST, PEACE etc A woman has to be self loving, self respecting and emotionally healthy to discern, she can enter another relationship and still be a good woman despite being treated badly in the past. Super refreshing.

Consistent, has Integrity and Honorable…👌🏼

Hi, Why not WAIT on GOD, for the RIGHT MAN. Just Wait. TRUST GOD! Those that wait, on the LORD, SHALL RENEW THEIR STRENGTH,. They shalll, mount up, with wings, they shalll not grow weary.

I’ve experienced this with the love of my life, we have broken up, but I still believe that he is my person. Ive never felt this way about anyone before 🥺

Bishop Blakes you have a good sense of humor. 😂😂 After the honeymoon he want to change your nose. 😂😂

Your person doesn’t require you to change

Are we also going to talk about the fact that whoever the guy singing this theme song is singing His WHOLE face off! My great God in Zion! 🔥🔥Someone please share who this is. Bishop Blakes always has amazing content. May God continue to bless and advance his ministry’s reach!

Good Evening Blessings Everyone, Greatful too be here with You All❤

I Thank God for your ministry Bishop, every time I listen to your words I experience another level of healing and deliverance. God knows we truly want and need to know the truth, from the heart of a Father! God bless you and Queen Mother Lisa! May The Lord God truly bless you all indeed!

Yesss RC Blakes… you need to know I was ready when my husband arrived thanks to your teachings. So grateful I found you. I didn’t have a dad or really a mom to show me the way. Now I have the marriage some could only dream of. Thank you from the bottom of my heart

This is my FIRST TIME hearing a pastor speak on the rest of that “submission” scripture 😲… it is to be “submitting one to another”. Thank you Bishop. And I LOVE your explanation about what being selfless looks like ❤. Thank you thank you aaaaand thank you for allowing the Holy Spirit to use you this way for the world. Bless you 🙏

I agree , this is why when you are in a relationship with a man and he shows interest in another woman , you need to walk away, that's not your man because I know when I find my person, he will be the most beautifull person to me.

You don’t know how much your videos are needed. I been saying this forever … these females be allowing cheaters to cheat on them for years and staying because they don’t have anywhere to go or got kids and they’re my first love … a bunch of excuses… I’m sharing your videos!!!

Rc Blakes u truly are the father I needed and was stunning for my whole life u have taught me so much and I am completely and truly grateful to God he seen it fit for me to run across ur video one day father daughter talk it had changed my life love u and first lady blakes and hope one day to be able to do wat u and she do becuz I don't think I'd be here today of it wasn't for u being the father I need3d my whole life ur an amazing man!!!! And I can only imagine the jewels that'll be on ur crown one day becuz u truly have changed so many lives beyond measure!!!!!

I met my person a few years back. We dated for 2 1/2 years. But I ended it because I was immature and not healed. I chased toxicity bc I craved that “passion”. This man was my person and even 3 years later, I haven’t gotten over him. But it’s too late. 😢 I only hope we will find our way back to each other some day.

I haven't even entertained the company of a man because I trust God I'm believing in God that he's preparing me for my boaz and if it's not who I think it is that's okay because God knows what's best for me.

👀😂😂😂😂 Bishop, I hollered, when you said " She got her clothes soo tight that you can see her blood pulsing through her body "...🤣🤣🤣 Thank you Sir, for all that you do in teaching the word of God and therefore helping to build healthier, loving and more sustainable relationships. We love you & Lisa. 🙏🏾

I found him RC!! Thank you so much for helping me on my Christian Queen Journey!!! God bless you!! I’m re-watching this video again today 6/26 but now I got my King so it’s really fun watching it now

“This ain’t build-a-bear” I laughed so hard!!! 😂

this man said “i said that thing” and “i approve this message” 😂 period. great content as always. thanks RC, many blessings to the Blakes family!

😂The spiritual humor delivers a healthy punch every time. Always brings the word straight no chaser 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

Sadly that Man Didn't loose all the insecurity from 30 years ago. I can't be in a relationship were I don't feel loved but smothered by doubt. So I moved On... I am enjoying this new sure man. There is a stable secure peaceful way he moves in life. We Got This❣️ As for marriage we both have been married before I'm a widow and he's been divorced 10 years. We're Great together and have Marvelous time(s). We don't live together yet I had a brief conversations about it. I've told him I want to still go forward with us. However God leads this relationship to go. 🙏🏾😇❣️🥰

I'm here for it! To learn and grow. Thank you Bishop and First Lady Lisa. 💖💖💖

Good EVENING SAINTS OF THE MOST HIGH!!!😊😊❤❤❤

Bishop that's the kind of love I've prayed for a quicken in my spirit when he looks at me.

Emotionally whole ❤

SOUNDS LIKE A MESSAGE FOR A QUEEN / KING don’t have to settle for less❤

I'm definitely waiting for God, to send me the right one, everytime I feel that he's the one , he turns out to be the wrong one, I'm just going to have to wait on God's timing 🙏🏾

“Voluntary accountability!”

I absolutely love my hubby and he loves me equally. All seven of your discernments are facts Bishop RC Blakes! My husband is truly my soulmate and I am to him as well! We rest together! To God be the Glory!!❤❤❤❤

This is so....Refreshing Bishop! My God, the truth will set you free! Hallelujah, and thank You Jesus!

No lust, no passion, no peace for 29 years. Now I see peace and home with another.

I always like his videos before I even listen because I’m confident I’ll like what he’s sharing ❤

I had all of this in someone, but he wasn’t healed enough from his childhood trauma (foster care system/abandoment) to allow us to continue. After a 22 highly toxic, codependent, loveless marriage/relationship, the guy I dated after was still a breath of fresh air. Rather than be brokenhearted, I see him as a prototype, a reminder that true love is and will be available to me when I’m ready to receive it.

This hasn’t even premiered yet and I already know this is going to be good!!! Much needed🙌🏾

Bishop & Lady Blakes….Thank you For THIS WORD!

I can listen to you all day RC Blakes may the Heavenly Father continue to use you to enlighten us women with wisdom when it comes to a serious and healthy relationship.

God has used you as a vessel To teach and to minister God’s Profound Word. I have been listening over the years to your Teaching’s. I pray for you and Your Queen Mrs. Lisa Blake’s. I would like to thank you for this Beautiful, Powerful teaching That helps me to understand When I know that I have found The right Man for me. Thank You so much to you and your Beautiful Queen Mrs. Lisa Blake’s.🙏

No, I’m not looking for my person, He will finds me!!

You just can’t underestimate PEACE! PEACE in all things, all ways and always ❤.

Bishop thank you so much for teaching us Queens how to behave and trust God and The Holy Spirit for better discerning a quality man🔥🔥🔥🔥👑👑👑🎯🎯! Hailing from Massachsetts

I cannot wait to meet this man- until then, I am happy satisfied with the Lord. Thank you for this message- love to you and Lisa!!🤍

I needed to hear this ❤😊 I believe I met my person because he brings so much peace, I can be myself with him, and it's so easy and no toxicity he's a grown man, not about any games.

My boyfriend and I recently broke up and he is everything that this video explains. I needed to find a swnse of self and self love and deepen my own relationship with God. I dont want to loose him but i cant force him to stay. I dont know what to do. But im sure he is my person.

Yes , I made it for a live ! Ready for this word ♥️❤️

Wow! This was so awesome and beautiful all at the same time! That's the kind of love i desire Lord!

What I’m happy about is 1 thank you Mr. Blake’s for you love and telling us ladies what some of us may not have been told growing up, and LADIES I’m proud of us for standing on faith to meet our Boaz no matter what we have done in the pass the Heavenly Father forgives us so let’s forgive ourselves and work on us🤎🤎🤎

GOOD NIGHT ALL , Many Blessings Sweet Dreams

They encourage you 😊 yes pastor that's true

Another great video! If I were looking for a mate, I can add this to what my father told and showed me. I had a wonderful father who taught me how a man should treat a woman. I had a great example. I am not looking for a mate. I am open to the idea of marriage, but not in search of it. I believe if God desires for me to be with a man, He in his own infinite wisdom will make that happen. I actually have been single since April 2016. I really enjoy the solidarity of singleness.

Wow - That/This is so true. The way a Man looks at you/me. Amen!

I’m waiting for My King, Bishop

I’m just now getting getting this message, 55 and single, just learning what my one will be like. Years of being changed by 6feet 6figure and 6pack

Be fully blessed Bishop what a sharp statement if they do not prioritize my peace they are NOT my person🎉❤

AMEN and Thank You Pastor Blakes for your wise council !!!

Great Father/Daughter Talk

All this is so true ‼️ My person is definitely from God, He’s My Neighbor & God revealed him to me over a year ago he has all the qualities that your naming 🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️ Thank you so much for always looking out for your Kingdom Daugthers🙌🏽🙏🏽❤️

I found this Person 20 years aggo . Its my Best Girlfriend ❤. Whe are always there for eachother and Support.

I can't wait to meet my person❤❤❤

Exceptionally deep wisdom and so helpful …thank you ❤

Neither wants to serve one another...This is thee truth!!

What a word. Thank u for being a father to women who didn't have one❤

I like your background music❤❤❤❤

Please do a video on mother wounds soon.... I'm starting to realize how big that is now. Im such loser around men and I don't know how to act cuz she never taught me. I'm just pathetic. She never taught me what it means to be a girly, a valued cherished and loved woman, or a female person in relation to men. Cuz *she's* not. That's why she stays with my abusive dad and sticks up for him even tho she's always been the breadwinner. Please talk about this.

YES SIR, YOU'RE TEACHING US BISHOP!

Pastor!!!!! I am happy to hear your voice again! Forgive me for falling out due to the people managing your web

You change my life n life style n you teach me to be a great women n a wife too be

You explained the discord between men and women on point! Very informative and well explained. I'm thankful that you allowed God to minister through you.