7 ATTRIBUTES OF A WIFE by RC Blakes

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7 ATTRIBUTES OF A WIFE by RC Blakes
In this KZfaq video, RC Blakes discusses the concept of wife consciousness and what it means to be a wife. They explain that being a wife goes beyond just being in a relationship or being married, but it involves having a certain level of internal awareness and character. He highlights several qualities of a wife-conscious woman, including being emotionally available, not compromising dignity, desiring to make her husband's life better, avoiding drama, maintaining balance and self-care, nurturing her husband, and expressing gratitude. RC emphasizes the importance of developing these qualities and striving for harmonious living in order to create a strong and fulfilling marital relationship.
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@RCBlakesJr. 7 ай бұрын

GREAT DAY FAMILY! I believe this conversation today will be extremely enlightening for women and men. PLEASE LIKE this message, it really helps our message to go farther and reach more people.

@vesnab.1553 7 ай бұрын

It really is the Grace of God coming through you to me. Just try hard not to be proud of it, because it happens to me also to become the channel of God sometimes,but at the same time I'm at the bottom for such a long time. I'm really not at the path of salvation but God uses me as a channel occasionally, these two things are not connected

@user-jw3fv5gx9b 7 ай бұрын

I have enough and I am enough... Praise the Lord...🙏🙏🙏 Atheist doesn't mean you are from the Devil or the dark side. I respect all Religions but I choose to believe in God of the Universe and His Son made man, Jesus Christ...🙏🙏🙏Yrs, single ess IS the Ideal unless you are lucky enough to find a partner that Believes what you Believe; same yolk...🔥🔥🔥🫶🫶🫶🌅🌅🌅💯💓

@sensybil524 7 ай бұрын

This message was presented thoughtfully and thoroughly. Godly wisdom was shared to give us the understanding we need. Thank you🙏🏽

@catinanunley1111 5 ай бұрын

I’m so thankful that I found you and your beautiful wife on the “Dear Future Wifey” podcast. I too was molested by my father and an uncle. I have carried this atrocious secret for over 45 years and I desire to be free from the traumas of my past. I have done a lot of inner/shadow work, but I’m STILL healing and growing. Thank you for your wisdom and service to women like me. I look forward to attending the Queenology conference in August and meeting you both.

@heather7119 7 ай бұрын

"The wife in you is only activated by the husband in a man"....🤯🤯🤯

@danilove8127 10 күн бұрын

Real shit!

@meriemali5068 7 ай бұрын

I am a muslim . And i am a big fan . Ur a great man

@RommanysWorld 7 ай бұрын

I’m a Buddhist. And, I’m here every week to listen to Pastor RC Blakes!

@raphael210 6 ай бұрын

I’m Muslim to too and love listening to him

@user-xx7xx2ek4i 6 ай бұрын

Im a Muslim too and I love to listening too …💗

@christinagurrola5335 6 ай бұрын

I’m not religious and I love listening to him

@PetitHibou72 6 ай бұрын

Catholic here, and he teaches me so much I did not grasp as a younger woman. It’s never too late to figure things out, and I’m so grateful to learn with you all from Pastor Blakes.

@LadyWright 7 ай бұрын

"He's the safest man you've ever been with." Wow!! Preach!!

@afarongordon 7 ай бұрын

Wife conscious: 32:40 1. She’s emotional available 37:30 2. Never compromises her dignity 42:31 3. When you desire to make your husbands life better 45:28 4. Not given to drama 47:16 5. Balance and self care 51:14 6. Nurture your HUSBAND intimately/sexually 55:03 7. Grateful and appreciative

@layparisss 7 ай бұрын

❤

@maamemaame1611 7 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤️

@KM-oy5yh 7 ай бұрын

AMEN AMEN 🎉

@rykishadouglas328 7 ай бұрын

Thank you😊❤

@suebaybee 7 ай бұрын

I did all these things in my marriage. He finally comes out and says : he was too young to have gotten married, & he couldn't give me what I deserved due to all his brokenes and that he hope to one day find himself." ...

@vittoriaidara 6 ай бұрын

"A woman enforcing her dignity is the glue that binds the husband's heart to her. " ❤

@alishadennis7769 5 ай бұрын

I think 🤔 you meant the glue to bind her husbands HEART ❤️💓 HEART.... AND NOT HER HURT 😮 to her husband 👞 ♂️ 🎉🎉🙏...😅

@vittoriaidara 5 ай бұрын

@@alishadennis7769 thanks 😊

@moniqueharriel757 6 ай бұрын

On point !! My husband is everything I dreamed of in a man . A true man of God loving ,selfless , honorable, trustworthy , dependable. He’s the man of my dreams . Thanks for your great teaching Pastor Blake’s 🙏🏽❤️👏🏾

@Well_Woman_WORD_Woman 7 ай бұрын

So true! We are "raising future adults; not children." As parents, we must be mindful to raise children who will have the qualities to be healthy spouses.

@m.s9146 6 ай бұрын

I love that, “being a wife is a ministry,” indeed it is.

@sherrellholden5721 2 ай бұрын

Marriage is wonderful, and my mom was a great model!

@christinerose9561 7 ай бұрын

“If all you have is God you have enough” hallelujah I agree! If all I have is God that’s MORE than enough!

@sylvieb5498 7 ай бұрын

I understand now why I could never really fully submit to a man … I have never been married. I felt used by most men I went out with. How sad. I never felt completely loved by anyone.

@Amanda-if1wn 7 ай бұрын

It would be nice to see genuinely happy couples. You see males with dead eyes. Love starved women. A worn out man with a dominant wife :) My ex husband was a narcissist monster. He once told a story about this beautiful girl he really liked. They went to bed right away. He said after it he was furious and threw her clothes at her and made her leave. She must have been devastated. People are so broken. I’ve given up on any expectations. I would be impressed if I observed others happy. If a man does not love God. He will never love you girls. Don’t do it! Keep your kids safe. Get wise please. 🙏🏻

@emmaanyanwu7343 7 ай бұрын

Just wanted to say, THANK YOU Bishop Blakes. You and First Lady Lisa are saving lives through your teachings!!

@joycewatt8289 7 ай бұрын

Great message! 👏🏽 Yes AND AMEN 🙏🏽 In 16 years of marriage thus far….it has been by the GRACE OF GOD! I am convinced that a stable, healthy and sustainable marriage does not happen APART FROM GOD!

@joycewatt8289 7 ай бұрын

43:58 Yesssss If you have no desire to HELP him then he doesn’t need a HELP MEET. Help him in the vision God has given him or his dream and/or goals. Help him build and support a family. Help him make a house a home. Help his health improve. Help his finances improve. Help him laugh and relax. Help meet his sexual needs. Key word “help” If you can’t or won’t Why would he want to be in covenant with you 🤔

@heather7119 10 күн бұрын

@@joycewatt8289 and vice versa! U are 💯 correct!

@iamjessie.b 2 ай бұрын

I thank God I found this Channel. God knows this is what I needed. My desire to be a wife and a mother one day is so great. I’m thanking God for you and having the power to pray over us women. God brought me here.

@missnova4157 7 ай бұрын

-trust your own judgment - dont get stuck in the trauma of your past -healthy enough to give man opportunity to prove himself

@layparisss 7 ай бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏽

@susan5048 7 ай бұрын

My husband died 2/12 years ago . We had a good marriage. My heart was shattered . He was the second husband lost through death. I had to learn who I was all over again.

@FoodieQueenBee 7 ай бұрын

I cant imagine the pain you go through. May The Lord’s peace be with you dear!

@ButterCookie1984 7 ай бұрын

Sharing a lot of death with strangers.

@Well_Woman_WORD_Woman 7 ай бұрын

Absolutely! We have to be humble and teachable in order to grow and become an amazing spouse.

@maryhasnolambasmr 7 ай бұрын

You are like the father I never had. I believe that your advices are gold for so many women. "If the only thing you have in your life is God you have enough"❤❤

@JustAGalAndHerDog 7 ай бұрын

I was emotionally available but after a recent breakup I’m currently temporarily emotionally unavailable while in my season of healing and growth.

@Well_Woman_WORD_Woman 7 ай бұрын

Amen!!! God calls us to have dominion over animals, not each other.

@ilissawalker7051 7 ай бұрын

Indeed 💯

@afarongordon 7 ай бұрын

Intro: 9:31 Wives must be developed 13:22 A girl is raised through observation to be a wife 15:21 She’s shaped through intentional mentoring 25:47 the wife inside her is activated by the husband in the man 29:09 what does a husband look like?

@layparisss 7 ай бұрын

❤

@tvocetm 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for this.

@user-ex6gr6xb4v 7 ай бұрын

19:16 A wife may be molded by the grace of God Just want to add this too 😊

@godislove3840 7 ай бұрын

Pastor can you also do the 7 attributes of a husband

@KM-oy5yh 7 ай бұрын

AMEN AMEN 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

@korynnpatterson1156 7 ай бұрын

I wasn’t taught to be a wife but I choose to be one. Thank you for this message❤

@user-by4uk5xb3g 7 ай бұрын

As a BM I can appreciate this message. As a BM single no children in college I often meet BW with children with at least 2 kids the hardest part is I get called selfish for not wanting to date or entertain SBM being a step dad is such a thankless job you know it bothers me because I see a lot of BW don’t have standards for a man until they have birthed children by other men that didn’t partake in these BW becoming SBM🙏🏾👑

@lwinston5950 6 ай бұрын

As a single mom I totally understand both sides. I hate I didn't value myself enough and wait until marriage. I truly believe everyone is entitled to what they desire in a spouse.

@youmnaamir4152 7 ай бұрын

“ A wife consciousness will never compromise her dignity & self respect “ 👏👏 Thank u so much father RC , that comes in the very right time. I’m a muslim girl yet i love your messages and it empowered me to end a lot of shit in my life ❤❤

@ladyzinada5341 7 ай бұрын

Good for you

@LynnDaniels-et7tx 7 ай бұрын

Amen. He that findsa wife finds a good thing not she that finds a man. Wait on the Lord hear his word. Tk u pastor Blake's great message

@champagnespirit7446 6 ай бұрын

I am a Whole Wife by the Grace of God, Whilst Walking in my God Given Assignment ⭐️

@theevolvingblackwoman 6 ай бұрын

Great message Bishop Blakes You are such an inspiration to us … I am a wife and because I know it , I walk with dignity and pride as I work on myself and wait for my husband… It’s a lot of work to stay focus at times, but the daily confidence I gain from keeping my virtue intact is amazing.. Also I would love to hear your views on Women who are divorce and still believe in abstinence until they re- marry .. the reason for this is that a long time ago one guy told me I should be happy he is talking , because I told Him even though am Divorced with children, I still believe in sex only in marriage.. The date ended and I took a taxi home and blocked him Long story short.. I think some men think because you were married before, you are free for all

@diamondunicorn2421 2 ай бұрын

To each his own , everyone is on their own journey. And your words of encouragement are appreciated! Thanks to you and your videos! Watch you for few years while I was single and overcoming certain obstacles with men and within myself! I’m now married to an amazing and God send man who continues to allow me to grow and become the wife I was always meant to be!

@joeyjo7553 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for teaching on woman’s issues. Some of us didn’t have an emotionally present father/mother. The church sometimes does more damage than good when they should be talking about certain things they rather judge those that speak on these important subjects. Thank you a million ❤

@summersoft7 7 ай бұрын

You hit the bell on the head

@overcomerbtbojesus 7 ай бұрын

Yes! I totally agree that’s why the divorce rate is so high in and out of the church

@luzvargas1063 7 ай бұрын

The better I treated men the worst they acted 🔥🙏

@amerokeewiya1320 7 ай бұрын

You have to choose the right man who actually deserves that treatment.

@luzvargas1063 7 ай бұрын

No one ever took a slack for me! That happens to very few women . God bless those

@BecomingaQueen 6 ай бұрын

Never going to take this damn crown off again! 👑

@RondaMcgruder-ot2td 4 ай бұрын

I appreciate your sound doctrine in the area of marriage and family relationships. Keep up the good work. Ronda Miller

@JessicaWhite-oo6jd 6 ай бұрын

I love rc Blake's encouraging word how to be a woman not to beg or to chase men im loves being a woman who intelligence

@macoshal.brewer4230 6 ай бұрын

Amen! I don't play about me! I don't compromise my dignity or respect.

@stefblanco3887 7 ай бұрын

That was here in Detroit when the young lady said she was content with being a single Christian woman. I remember her.

@ladyzinada5341 7 ай бұрын

Amazing Message for KINGDOM WOMEN. We trying out here to get the marriage thing in order for our husbands. 😊

@zephaniahfrancois4548 7 ай бұрын

10:04am. This is true because God Himself has covered me with grace to become the woman wife and ambassador that I am still becoming today. It’s Hid divine intervention that continues to mold me. He brought your ministry into my life to empower me with language for the work in me He’s been doing to restore my virtue and dignity. He’s always positioned me under ministry that aligns with the work He’s doing in me and my purpose. So grateful for you and First Lady ❤. Love you!!!

@lindsay3043 7 ай бұрын

10:25 This all day long. I love my parents unconditionally but they were no where to be found in my childhood 🙏🙏🙏

@v.magaly 7 ай бұрын

Merci Pasteur. Je suis française et je vous remercie pour vos vidéos. Elles m'aident à guérir doucement de mes traumatismes et à apprendre ce que veut dire d'entretenir une relation saine avec les Hommes. Je ne comprends pas tout en anglais mais avec vous c'est fluide😊 Merci :) Magaly

@TheNeen9 7 ай бұрын

Smash that like for our Pastor! 👍🏾

@amyj.4992 7 ай бұрын

I'm old school, I was southern raised and also raised by healthy masculine men as well as the healthier black women to be a wife. I'm not ashamed of that

@queenconscious2989 7 ай бұрын

Listen! When I tell you that God always uses this man to deliver a timely, needed message for me! Whew!! Praise the Lord!!!!

@Marebear-bt4rp 7 ай бұрын

That's a darn good question 🤔 👀 🤣 😉 😅

@queenofthesouth4205 7 ай бұрын

Absolutely, social media is a blessing and a curse.

@kenniel1756 6 ай бұрын

I’m excited for my spiritual change to open myself up for a real relationship again. I def. Need to set boundaries because I’m always told,” you wear your heart on your sleeve” but I really pray about things and fail a lot of times listening to God during his protection. I’ve never understood love as I came from a 2 parent home and they were never married, but I desire to break the stigma of broken Black homes. I’m “ old considering bc” but I just know my husband is looking for me

@gabrielachavez2781 6 ай бұрын

This is exactly what I needed today. I have been hurt deeply and suffered trauma from the pain of being in relationships with selfish men. After giving my life to Christ and working on myself, I have recently tried out dating. It's not been the most successful so far but I can feel that I am healing thanks to our Lord and Father. I have been able to practice all of the things you've mentioned naturally. Many things have been scary to me, like opening up, but with Faith, I have been able to open up and to enjoy the experience. I have also been terrified to fail miserably as I've done in the past but now, I just don't see that being a possibility. When I walk with God, He guards my heart. He lets me know if I should leave or stay and that keeps my heart away from the suffering I have been afraid of. I can now walk away with dignity and feel relieved that I am healed and I shall not be afraid.

@linnetgithuku 7 ай бұрын

When i enforce my dignity...thats the glue that binds my husband's heart to me

@iammayoush 6 ай бұрын

I’ve successfully cultivated these qualities thanks to your help ❤

@joycewatt8289 7 ай бұрын

Absolutely! The role of a wife is a ministry in and of itself and Singleness “in righteousness” works well for those God has called to that ministry as well.

@o2kute1 6 ай бұрын

Dave Hollister did his Thang, as usual 🔥🔥

@GraceE02 7 ай бұрын

@RCBlakesJr I am a middle aged woman, Ive never been married. I have always feared marriage, mostly because my parents had a dysfunctional marriage. My mother was a “superwoman” when it came to our home, she was more of the head of the house than my father who was extremely passive. I always felt I could not live up to the type of wife she was. I have read books listened to your and others KZfaq channels but I can’t seem to shake the fear. I’ve always sabotaged my relationships. Any advice on how to get past my fear and trauma?

@jean_6524 7 ай бұрын

❤God chose you for a resource for females,I'm thankful 🙏🏽 🙌🏽

@uniquelovett4644 7 ай бұрын

That intro song is AMAZING!!!!

@kristinaherrejon7181 7 ай бұрын

I know, it’s a beautiful into. I love it!!!

@luevondataylor6286 7 ай бұрын

I love it and wonder who it is

@Sxarxah 7 ай бұрын

what is the title please 😍

@Adjiee90 7 ай бұрын

One of the most helpful videos I’ve ever watched.

@dhaimasimon3764 7 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@Empress-lala7jy 7 ай бұрын

Thank You!!

@Nyqueela922 7 ай бұрын

I’m excited for this

@andreawilliams-epting8573 7 ай бұрын

Thank you 🙏

@deas555 7 ай бұрын

Bishop I could listen to you all day.

@miyahx7516 7 ай бұрын

Thank you

@fredajohnson506 7 ай бұрын

Wow these are some very good points on being wife material I truly believe I'm wife material because of the things you pointed out I been married before but he wasn't God choice it's was my own doing but I'm going to be even better wife because God healed me from my brokenness now I'm ready for my God ordained spouse I'm.going be best wife every way since now that God mold me into woman after his own heart Thanks Pastor RC Blake's for this very incredible message it's very excellent teaching God bless you and Lisa and your family Love you guys ❤

@nicharr7796 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your teachings.

@lithabrown529 7 ай бұрын

This was wonderful and clear! Thank you for this!❤

@nurseasb 7 ай бұрын

Thank you Pastor ❤

@jacquelinejackson5559 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this message!!

@The1sista 7 ай бұрын

This is the most amazing video on the subject out there. Thank you! Much love

@user-ub8il5et3p 7 ай бұрын

Thank you, 😊it's a blessing to hear your encouraging words.

@perrydolly 7 ай бұрын

On top and going higher. Another teaching hit out the park. TGBTG🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

@daphnehall5416 6 ай бұрын

This has been really genuine!

@vesnab.1553 7 ай бұрын

My sorrowful heart really enjoyed this word today♥️

@_Angela289 7 ай бұрын

This message was on time and Thank you for pinning the store information I’ve been looking for the queenology hoodie ❤❤❤

@sarahpeyton3824 7 ай бұрын

I can see that…. What an honorable statement concerning your home & Lady Lisa! Love it!!!

@user-mr3le4hs4e 7 ай бұрын

Your content is incredible. Thank you so much. I oftentimes listen to the same video several times. God bless you

@user-jk8jk3ky8r 6 ай бұрын

ABSOLUTELY WONDERFUL MESSAGE/WISDOM!

@rachellerockel 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for your ministry. It’s life changing.

@eriessencetv 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for your videos. May God bless you and your family ❤

@lucindagalloway3316 7 ай бұрын

Good morning Pastor this was indeed a great message. God bless you.

@donnajeffreys8252 7 ай бұрын

Thank God for you too pastor

@gail_7192 7 ай бұрын

Great words as usual very well said.Great message.Thank you R.C Blakes!Amen🙌🙌👏👏👏👏

@lisabrockington2938 7 ай бұрын

Good evening Bishop Blakes

@louisegriffin8032 7 ай бұрын

OMG yessss I Waited all day for this meeting 🎉🎉😂 I love this theme song!!!!

@agankokohappiness7500 7 ай бұрын

Please help with song title.

@ladyzinada5341 7 ай бұрын

@@agankokohappiness7500Queen by Dave Hollister I think its made for RC Blakes Ministries. Im not sure tho.

@LashelleMonroe2 7 ай бұрын

@@agankokohappiness7500 Name of the song is SHE, by Dave Hollister

@jackieheath3748 7 ай бұрын

Thank you, RC. This is very timely and Greatly appreciated that you continue to expand on your wisdom and pour into us. Your insight has been Mind Renewing and I Thank You 😊!

@kelliefletcher7290 7 ай бұрын

I just want to say thank you for all you and Lisa do Bishop Blakes🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾! This really has touched me and I will be listening over a couple times and taking notes! GOD Bless you both and I send my love from Rhode Island❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@LacareeciaMclaughlin 7 ай бұрын

This absolutely blessed me and the message was clearly an answered prayer 🙏🏾 I really Thank God for using you for the people!

@meseretwoldie2262 6 ай бұрын

Amen, God bless you brother. I'm from Ethiopia.The right lesson on the right time!!

@elaundra 7 ай бұрын

Mr & Mrs Blakes: Thank you so much for this video. I absolutely love how inspiring your marriage is and being raised strong in my faith, I have lost faith due to wanting a husband more than anything else. In turn taking it out on those closest to me. When there was more work for me to do internally and your video made that clear in such a sense that was poetic. Reason being; how you referred to your love for your wife Lisa. You both are wonderfully inspiring and I truly appreciate the content you create. Thanks so much!!

@fambam6709 7 ай бұрын

Thank you Bishop for these wise words of wisdom. I love you so much and have an amazing day Sir!❤️🙏🏽

@nataliemoore9965 6 ай бұрын

This teaching was so powerful.

@ZolotoeSolnce 7 ай бұрын

This message really touched and uplifted my heart. It was very interesting to listen about wife-consciousness. Thank you so much Pastor Blakes! May God Bless you and your family.