I knew my relationship was over when I Clicked on this Video.

To me it is over when your PEACE is compromised.

It’s over when your insides tell you. Listen to it. We all know, we’re just afraid of losing that person but at the end of the pain, we get stronger. Love your self. You’re worthy

My relationship is over because I’m truly no longer interested in being disrespected.

It's over when your spirit can't rest and there is no consistency in peace within the relationship. The simplicity of these things say alot when your not receiving them.

If There Is No " Respect ". . The Relationship Is Over.

A person will only treat you how you ALLOW them to. Set standards, know your worth.

It’s over when the pain numbs you...

ONE huge clue to know it's OVER is when you're always RETHINKING any situation..... when you know the TRUTH

When you’re the only one fighting that’s when you know it’s over!

My worth is really high...I'm guilty of settling for less. Never again.

If you clicked on this video to find out, it’s been over

When phone calls /FaceTiming turn into texting, you spend less time together, he can spend days without speaking to you , they unfollow you on social media, than block you ...etc some don’t verbally break up with you , they do it in a punk ass way.

Arguing during the dating / courting stages is a red flag as well.

Your relationship is over if: 1. You break up to make up. If you're on chance 3-4 the relationship is over. 2. How long has it been. If it's been more than a year and y'all still have power struggles, a lot of arguing and constantly bumping heads. The relationship is over. 3. How much effort is being put into the love? Are either of you really trying? Going on dates, spending quality time, communicating and getting to know each other, doing the things y'all did in the beginning. 4. If you're on and off, or have to keep taking breaks from the relationship every few weeks/ months from your partner. The relationship is over. 5. If there is ANY FORM OF ABUSE, the relationship is over. These are not my words, but a summary of what Tony said.

If someone loves you they will do what it takes to make it work.

1st time, a mistake, 2nd time a choice, 3rd time a habit.

I knew my relationship was over when I no longer wanted to sleep with my husband or want any physical touch.

It’s over when two people are no longer willing to WORK on the relationship

Everyone just wasting each other’s time

Come on now. That's why I'm by myself. I'm so tired of giving everything and getting nothing.

Oftentimes if the guy is not quote-unquote in love, it is because he don't love himself. That can be for several reasons, usually he is not financially established or he's just not where he want to be in his life. I'm saying this because many ladies take to heart that a guy is not in love with her and it's not her fault or anything that she did wrong.

"Break up to make up, thats all we do. First you love me, than you hate me. Thats a game for Fools"

It’s over when I see there’s no reciprocation nor alignment between us. Pull the plug and move on. That’s why I establish boundaries and standards before I step into a union with a woman.

As woman we must be responsible for what we allow to happen to us. Love yourself first. Everything else will come as God allows. Blessings yall!

Facts: I just ended a 10yr relationship 6 of those years married. Just glad I finally held myself accountable for my own happiness

Respect my mind Respect my time.

After the second time I’m out. After 6 month I’m out. More then 2 years no way. Thanks Tony! No time to be sad n stress. God ain’t send you here to be sad with that guy!

When he disassociated him self from me, ok.

The Bible says !when you do all you can do !!then stand!!

Literally this made me cry cuz I know better

Well it's official my relationship is over. 😭

Tony you are not playing with these videos! Uploading and speaking life into us everyday. Thanking God for you and Blessings from the messages!

My relationship after 5 years is over. No communication, no sex, no intimacy, silent treatment from him. No effort from either side. It took me 5 years to know that this must end.

Tony..some men don't want to be married but want the benefits of what a husband receive and the line that is used "you got to wait and see" or "just give me some time it will happen". Giving out false hope instead of being honest and just say I don't want to be married. Off and on relationships do transpires in this situation.

This was spot on. I never understand why people so proudly say “I’ve been on & off with my partner for X amount of years” they gloat while saying it as if it’s something to be proud of because of the years/history.!! It’s a disgrace. Nothing will be different after trying it out so many times.!! It’s ridiculous. Thank you for breaking this down Uncle Tony ❤️

Most men and women try each other, that's just not something I'm really Keen on doing. Disrespecting me 1 time is a warning 2nd we are done.

Love and Respect go hand in hand. If there's no respect, there no love, if there's no love, there's no relationship.

You have to get up from the table, when love is no longer being served. Shout out to Nina Simone

My relationship is over due to I know my worth. And I worked to damn hard to get where I am today. Glory be to God his Grace for me. ☺❤🙏

You know it’s over the minute you stop kidding yourself. And the bad one in the relationship knows it over when the other one wakes up.

It’s over when he never bothers to spend time with you and claims he is busy every single day and he tells you he wants to take a “ break”. Nah man let’s just end it and break ups That’s what I went through with my ex.

Thank you for this. Have been single for 2 years. My last relationship was traumatic. And your video is helping me choose a better partner in the future.

Do not kill yourself trying to be an exception to the rule I felt that 🙌💯

When u said u got your wife flowers, I felt neglected. I'm in a relationship for 9 yrs onward and never got flowers. My sister gets flowers every mth and she's been dating only for one year.

Spot on 💯. U should give them one shot if they are not making an effort to compromise and make the relationship better. It's time to kick rocks if they refuse to try and meet you with love, respect for you, admiration and hard work to please you as best they can. Life is to short to live in missery

I wish I had all of this information as a youth! I think it would be great if you had this as a curriculum for fathers to walk with their daughters through. That would be amazing.

Thanks..My ex was a Narcissist..i new i had to get rid if him before I stab him...

If I must provide a man w answers yet he still fail the tests, it's a wrap for me..Regret for wasted time leaves more time wasted

You know it’s over when everything they do irritates you. You don’t want them talking to you, touching you, etc. I knew my relationship was over when he went away on a 3 day trip and I did not miss him at all and was dreading him coming home.

No more respect ,no more affection !

"Where is the effort?"

I was like on chance #40, in my 14 years with him (2 daughters together)..the last mistake he made (major one), left me broken and questioning my worth but it was the last mistake. Been single since last October and not looking back. These videos are opening my eyes. Thanks Tony

Probably watching this video is a good indicator, it’s not thriving😂

I agree tony if you give to many chances more than 3 chances and still no changes not learning and growing keep making the same mistakes over and over and over and arguring about the same things over and over still they not learning from their mistakes. No no 3 strike you out. I got tried for telling my last ex things we need to work on to grow he would agree to make changes i saw very little change i would tell him how i feel on certain things over and over and over same things he always say he sorry and he will do better guess what he did it again and again not trying to do better i am not going to keep repeating repeating and repeating myself about the same problems no. I was so done done he didn't listen didnt change didn't care or didn't take me serious so i just walked away from the relationship once im done im done 3 strike you out. he want me back no im not going back no back and forth with me oh no. Im not going to waste my time and im not settling for less because i deserve better better. Im happy single and blessed I know my value and worth and he was not for me God has the right husband for me one day. Everyone if the person dont respect value or know your worth dont waste your time and dont settle for less. God bless everyone thank you God and tony for this message i needed it. 👏👏👏👍👍✌✌☺

Everything you said was on point, GOD BLESS YOU SIR

When you have meeting of the minds with understanding and respect for each other. You are like soul mates. You have come to trust, love and honor each other. This is what everyone wants to have what you have with your spouse Tony

I your partner show u who they are after the first time take my advice and leave and do no contact they will value you more depending on the person or situation now if they a cheater there is no accidents on that so just love yourself and leave...

Glory to God! God reveals what we need to know through His servants. Be blessed!

I appreciate you Mr. Gaskins

Thank you and I appreciate your wisdom.

I dated a guy from and on for 12 years.. I got remarried and divorce and got back together for like 6 months. I finally broke up with him for good and he is still not married. He and his present girlfriend have been together for almost 4 years.. Some men don't want to be married and they need to let the woman/man know so time wouldn't be wasted.

Your videos truly help with healing. Thanks so much for your insight and all your efforts. You are a Godsend. 🙏❤️

It’s over when you’re on this video sitting there thinking about it . You deserve better so let it be known.

Thank you for this video! 5 Great ways on how to tell these grown boys its it's really OVER. Be Blessed

Thank you Tony , I really needed to hear this. A lot of women stay in relationship and do not know when to leave and we allow men to disrespect us and we stay because we love them. Thank you

SAY THAT TONY!!!! 🙌🏽

" power struggles under 2 years is normal ". TF NO ! If we're having power struggles after 3 months, I am OUT. It means he is not ready and has communication problems. Not something I wanna deal with.

Thank you so much for letting God use you! I’m new to your channel and I’ve learned so much.. blessings to you and your family

PERIOD !! I love my self too much to be played or disrespected.

I asked my guy at the time did he put any effort into our relationship he clearly told me he didn’t so I made him my ex... I knew at that moment of me constantly trying to make things work wasn’t for me so I had to take my heart out of it. That love that I once had for him is no longer available

This video poped up and it was a universal message to me . Now I am sure aftee two and half years of a relationship we are over . It is the emotional abuse by leaving me for no reason and then coming back saying I want to marry you then neglicting me , running away from communicating with me and finally LEAVING me due to stupid reasons no one can relate .. He is toxic but I am letting go feeling I worth more than that ..PEACE 💜

OMG... This was the ONE! Touched it all. I'm in it 30 years...

Watches video... Considers relationship...😬 Aight, Ima head out 😅

You are describing Narcissistic abuse !

You're videos have been helping me .God bless

This video is right on time 💯

Thank you Tony, This was an eye opener!!

Thank you very much Toney because of your teaching I were able to let go of a toxic relationship.

You are so much on point when it comes down to the exchange of mental & physical methods of cohabiting daily with one another. God bless you for bring things to light in relationships on many different levels.💟💛💚💟💛💚💟💛💚💟💛💚💟💛💚💟💛💚

Tony that is a big fact. I was in a relationship with my ex for 4 yrs and jus 3 days ago I said bye because of eveththing you have stated I'm doing no contact will see what happens.

Thank you so much.I really appreciate you👑

It was good to hear this, it's definitely opened up my eyes

Thank you Tony and I appreciate you for such good information. I've been through everything you've said and talked about. I prayed and ask god to give me the strength to leave my husband. Like you said any kind of abuse is unacceptable and I've moved on. What's sad, I still have love for this man but know I must love myself even more. I know God's got better for me and I deserve to be treated with the upmost love and respect always. God bless you Tony and thank you for helping me see the light. 🙏❤❤❤❤👍

Thank you for these videos Tony 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

Great TEACHING!!!! Tony & THANK YOU Ms. Gaskins (wife)for your love of God's people supporting & encouraging Mr (Tony) Gaskins so that KNOWLEDGE, advice,insight,helping & healing flows to God's people 👐🏽👐🏽.Great woman supporting a gracious man....#me1day😊

Wow!!! Amazing video!!! Thank you for uploading this video!!! God Bless you always Tony!!!🙏🙏🙏😇😇😇😇🕊🕊🕊🕊💥💥💥💥💥

This is On Time!!!!

Tony you are a very wise and gifted young man god bless you and your wonderful wife and entire family I enjoy your conversation 😇👍

So True King..

You're RIGHT...

Tony u guys talk a lot cause u got nothing to hide and have structure and compassion for each other

THANKS GOOD KNOWLEDGE SHARED

We need more good men like u...good luck on your marriage and future never thought I'd be looking this up but hey we learn from our mistakes

How long does it take a baby to learn how to walk and talk... Whewww. That's that WORD being brought forth. Teach brother. ❤️

Your info is so valuable

Speaking the truth!

Mr, Gaskins. I love this video!!

Mr Tony you arr exactly right. 12 yrs can be like yr 1 when you put in the effort. Marriage doesn't mean the same old thing when you work to keep it fresh. Knowing what you partner likes and making effort to keep him or jer interested.

It's over after the fact they lied and put in situations I didnt deserve to be in such as cheating I dont sell myself short my value is to high but now I will start from scratch and reinvent myself namaste let keep Houston strong again