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Gabrielle Budd woow 😳

Don't base everything on that one man. Doesn't mean a thing. Don't be afraid to speak up the next time. A man that likes you will appreciate you speaking with him.

@Carly Fournier God was protecting her from being another one of this man's mistresses.

In hindsight most of the time I felt rejection I found it was God protecting me from a mess. 🥰

I REALLY like your comment. It is simple yet very profound. ❤

Amein agreed

Amen 🙏🏽!

Hello

I agree amen.

True, I agree.

I love this. Thank you

Do ladies want to know why I dont step up its because Im not interested. I am 32 in my life I have only asked out 4 people all were Nos of course but i remember them clearly because it was from the heart. I need to feel in my heart and my soul that the person is worth the time and effort that we would get along well and be the bestest of friends

YES, YES, YES and once again: YES! I’m a christian guy (27, freshly and happy dating) and I approve every part point of that advice 👍 1. I do get suspicious, that a girl likes me, when she takes her time to talk to me. 2. Any honest (important) positive comments on my skills were more worth that ANY thing, she could else do for me. (Don’t get discouraged by guys possibly awkward response to your compliment, neither push it to strong, just let him know, that you like the way he does stuff). I want for my girl & future wife to be the best, to serve her and be appreciated in my ability to navigate the world, grow and reach my goals in a way God helped me to develop over time. That feeling of being respected is iiiiiiiiiiiiiiinvaluable. A very strong fuel. Use with care and honesty:) 3. Inviting a guy to do something for you is an awesome strategy! Win-Win-Win-Win. One thing though: he might just be friendly and not romantically interested, buuuut you might still have great time and a problem solved (or at least partially solved, or at least get a new perspective on the issues, guys lllove to give there perspectives of issues 🙈) and you two might know each over a little bit better, no pressure:) or he might be interested, but just be busy at that time... dunno) just some thoughts of mine. Best of luck, sisters!!!!! Pray for your relationships, be patient, trust your Creator and let Him shape and prepare you for the life he has planed and prepared for you 😌✨ God bless you!! 🌿 !

@@petersayatshkin7454 Thanks for taking the time to write out all of your feedback on these!

Peter Sayatshkin thank u for the insights

ugh to late

Thank You.

Evelyn Calderon Tu sera mia, nomas no te pierdas en nuestro flow.

You are SOOOOOOOOOO CORRECT !!!!

Evelyn Calderon exactly amen

Not without some effort on your part.

You must make the effort to position yourself

Tehillah Praise 😂😂

Oh nice

Tehillah Praise my current situation. Will tell you how it goes 😂😂 I’m not flirtatious but I know how to be nice.

Tehillah Praise will try that 😂😂

😂😂 But also 💯

Wow lol

I agree, a man won’t know how someone feels unless they tell them. It won’t hurt just letting them know you’re interested, that’s definitely not too strong or initiating anything.

I like it!!

@@chloeleinster251 I love anything that is too strong. I am looking for nice woman to get married .

Child of God Yehovah exactly! a good example. ❤️

Trish G amen she slept at his feet in submission

Ruth pursued Boaz. Ruth PROPOSED marriage to Boaz. That Leverite Marriage deal took 6 to 9 months to carry out, while she pursued him. And this wasn't just an oddball situation because Levirite Marriage was the Law, for everybody. Where does the Bible say a man is to pursue a woman? Don't put words in God's mouth.

@@scottwhitley5542 Ruth didn't pursue him - she invited him to pursue her. Look at Adam and Eve, Isaac and Rebekah, Jacob and Rachel, Moses and Zipporah, etc... Biblically, after the man had an evident relationship with God, had a purpose (job or calling), then his wife was led to him. Then, he pursued her.

@@BluDrop5 Great examples, well said!

I would have to agree with you, however, with today’s society with metoo and feminism is just harder to approach. Not only that, women hides their signals more these days with showing their interests. (Not saying you, just in general)

I don't know your heart, but incase you are, or you will... Please don't think playing mind games to excessively keep him chasing is a Godly way either, that's playing mind games, and it will almost always lead to game over, and if not the buttons will be stiff so you won't get very far in the relationship. If a woman is excessively trying to make me chase her beyond what's natural, I'm backing out, unless God told me otherwise. I understand it's natural and I find it cute but when it comes to excessively trying to bend the strings to make him chase you, it will exaust him and you will become selfish, and end up sincerely accusing him of being selfish because you feel neglected, but he isn't actually neglecting you, it's because you probably have wounds of past hurt which God needs to heal, and if you keep that mindset, you'll be insecure throughout your relationship, because when he's unable to you'll be insecure about it. It's covetousness for attention it will hurt your heart, and it means you need to ask God to fill your heart to be the main one you need attention from. I've got some past wounds that need healing to, it's painful.

This is true. I also don't think there's fault in a woman observing a guy she is interested in and genuinely engaging him in conversation as a clue to your interest. Feel him out as to personality etc. This will also illuminate how you can best proceed. Some guys are more reserved and guarded, especially with modern cultural hypersensitivities

I. agree with you on all of this as it most certainly is. Be blessed always. 💖💖

And women need to stop giving good guys attitude

That

Johnny Thus very true my friend.thank you

I’m hoping so I surly SMILE every chance I have when bi bump into him.. HE Smiles back and he gives me his full attention... an we both hinted about coffee together sometime and he answered I like that... but nothing had be of it yet... so tell me Johnny, should I just continue going onwards and just forget it.... may he really don’t want to get know one another

Well said!

That fear, any fear I believe are works of the devil. We shouldn’t be fearful and think negatively and dwell on our past rejections and bringing that mindset into our present circumstances . So, we should always remain positive of the possibilities that the person may reconsider accepting you back even if they rejected you the first time. Relationships are a big commitment to handle too.

Marvel: Spider-Man the fear of the Lord is the only righteous fear🙌🏾🙌🏾😁

Divine Diva Come be my freind will see if you can handle the beauty I am, like all the girls who want to eat me like a desert. 😍😚

I'm dying of laughter because I do both 1 & 2!!! I'm in leadership & super social, talkative.. it's the Jesus in me to be social & all that. And I mass texts or write encouraging notes to both guys & gals all the time!!! 🤣🥰🤣🥰

So glad this was helpful! God bless :)

This is so me as well.

Thanks for admitting your shortcomings. You being authentic and honest about it is the first step to doing & being better. Keep doing better & you'll get a different result. An honest woman. Very admireable. 💯✔

Definitely have been making this same mistake as well!

Me too.

Ebony Oliver amen 🙏

Speaking as a man, I assume that if you give a guy an "obvious" hint, and he acts like he doesn't get it, odds are, he knew exactly what you wanted, but he wasn't attracted to you, and he wanted to spare your feelings and avoid a potentially awkward situation by rejecting you outright.

Typically, a man is clear (e.g. verbal, non-verbal, the way he treats other) about what he wants. Thus, he wouldn't show friend vibes to someone who he wants to be romantic with. So, if you perceive this, move on because he's not ready (for whatever reason) to be in an exclusive relationship with you.

I love your anserw

But if we ask God then how we can understand and read the signs he gives us?

Sugeta Arul so good and so true! I believe this 100%

So true!

I believe God gives us multiple good Choices.

mmm lasaga oof😂😂🤧😅

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Come in dude. That's how my name is. Lol

@Tyler Gibson in Hebrew its without the H

Listen to Yolanda Adams's song, "Open My Heart." Ask God for guidance. He will answer. Trust in all that He reveals to you in due time. You will know.

This is so beautiful! ❤

@@LoveFirstYou ❤ God bless you, I'm taking this advice all the glory to Jesus Christ !!!!

So glad you enjoy these videos :) 👍

You need to teach the rest of us. I’ve fumbled a bit

That's so sad 😭

You welcome Maria :)

So beautifully said. I agree. 🙂

Gracias for so True praying on if it is the person, an asking MyDad♥️☝️♥️🕊🙏🏼

This!! ❤

How do you flirt without being sexual?

Correct, Thank You!! Words and actions too Can be non sexual. We as Christians have this thing so mixed up. The comments confirm why so many are single.😔

Loraine Wilson you have pinned it.i also second your complement

@@smokerx6291 I kind of hate that I'm so "flirty" without being sexual..I get told this often 🤨 I smile, give eye contact a lot, laugh, compliment people, but it's just my personality. Ironically, the one person I do have a crush on, I act exactly the same around him as I do other people..the only difference is I try to talk to him more than other people and how nervous, happy and warm I feel 😫😅

Amen! Thank you Bethany! All glory to God!

I'm the same way Patrice Wiley so I've had to learn gentleness the hard way :)

Pushiness. Dominating. Strong Character...why does a woman do this? Why are people men or women needy? How do you heal if you have been hurt and you turned around to be the dominating one? You forgive, but your gentleness is about gone out the door like way back?

Tanya Stevens agree, I need it TOO!

Yes, I love this idea, great suggestion. I will add it to my list and hopefully do this soon

Yes please!! I was horribly abused growing up and trust is hard for me.

"But Jesus on his part would not entrust himself to them, because he knew all people 25 and needed no one to testify about anyone; for he himself knew what was in everyone." (John 2:24-25 NRSV). If Jesus didn't trust any then how can we?

Tanya Stevens YEESSS

it's about the long term effects... some men become lazy and spoilt when women do all the pursuing. I've seen it and it can be quite exhausting for women😕 don't set your daughter up for a life like that

@@kannot1 It’s about the long term effects... some women become lazy and spoiled when men do all of the pursuing. I’ve seen it happen too and it can be quit exhausting for men. Don’t set your sons up for a life like that. 😂

Lol

It has to be real... pursuing seems like effort... but if you love each other then surely it’s no effort?

Is there childish conversation happening between you two or what? Personally I think the man should pursue the woman. But both parties should show interest😊

Amen Disa Jardine, so glad this was helpful to you :)

It might be hard at first but the more time you spend w him the easier it will get.

I am having the same issue, we are in the same group so we get to contribute on group level but when it's just the two of us, I get really nervous so I normally have someone join us for a chat but I do text him alot basic things like what our brother is talking on

I have spent a long time studying how to get a man to love you more and found a great website at Covert attractor audit (look it up on google)

Moroccanluv88 Bite the bullet..gurl

Just talk to him I promise it’ll be okay

My pleasure! So glad the videos have been helpful :)

Tamara Hathaway PHILIPPIANS 4:3 well said

Amen, it's encouraging to hear this, God bless :)

Awww.... being in the "friend zone" is not a bad position. I would recommend that if you be the best friend to her that you can possibly be, eventually she will come around. Use that position, out shine the competition. You will win her over! Blessings to You!!!

I'm so glad they are helpful to you! God bless!

You are welcome, God bless!

it isnt pursuing ..letting a guy know by paying attention to him that youre intrested....until then he isnt probably going to even think to ask you out...yet you never know...lol, would you like to got out:? just saying david777aqua4Jesus gmail.com and be humorous ok Romans 8:28&29

I agree with you Alina, women of God, don't worry about having a guy or no. Because God have plan for us and now, we just focus on our relationship with God until God says it's time. When the time comes, you'll just instantly knew He was the God Chosen one for you. We don't have to go looking or pursuing any man. Because God knows our timing. There's a reason for closed door ❤

My pleasure!

Hi Fuzzy Mino Kitten, here's a video for introverts kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z9l9qrZoppPQiJ8.html let me know if you have follow up questions after watching it :) God bless

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Like what Mark said, the importance of signals, if he ended up early it is a signal that he it is not that in to you..... God always have the best in mind for you. It His will not our will be done. 😊🙏🙌

Celeste Cummins, I would assume he's not clueless and is just not interested. However, if you become friends or know this person well you may realize he needs help :)

cool now relax...keep loving Jesus, and leave it in His hands...He will shake you when it;s time...dont try and do the job for Him

I'm so glad this was helpful to you :)

Same here 👏

Whew!!😂

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I hope you kept going back!

Thanks Lulu Love!