Cutthroat 73 Be the change....;) I will be teaching my daughter and introducing her to Thich. You do the same, and then this passes on through them and then others in beautiful ripples

hey man its what were doing right now.

you clearly need some love in your life. go find some peace somewhere.

I love you too. whether you're unable or unwilling to even love yourself. peace brother.

ya i figured doesn't mean its cool man. the anonymity of the internet can be dangerous and hurtful to me and you. i respectfully doubt you be talking this shit in real life eye to eye.

We are all children when it comes to these things so often. Compassion starts with forgiving ourselves and being our beloved. It works, I changed my life and health with that primary awareness from which a lot springs. Speak kindly to yourself, having been in the military you know you are the only soul guaranteed to be with you at the last breath (at least in physical form) so treat yourself like the treasure you are.

I'm older and still learning 😲

As long as your learning

dhoyt902, thank you for being humble and willing to receive.

Thank you for sharing that

YOUR HEAVEN MY HELL you're very troubled.

Well I think the reason why adults instinctively do that is because its a lot of work to avoid using concepts and words that kids will never understand.

Agree. It has its place though, did she understand is the question, it's okay talking to some kids like adults because they understand easily but others need to be talked to differently as don't understand what some words or theories mean in a certain style of speech. And kids are generally intellectual in different areas....like adults ! Lol

Gabriel Maximus These generalizations are delusional. How does one talk to an adult that all adults without fail will understand the intended message of the one communicating with them? Do you see the false premise in this generalizing? No, we don’t know what we all mean. More generalizing, more delusions. Generalizing does nothing but delude ourselves into thinking the world iz black and white when it’s actually infinite shades of gray. That’s the beauty of it, the perfection of our infinite potentiality. Even when we speak the same language how you perceive the meaning of any word can be interpreted many endless ways. Same language, same words, yet very different meanings. There iz no one particular way of speaking or listening to adults or children. Listening iz about understanding, seeking first to understand before seeking to be understood iz wisdom, compassion, peace, it iz an act of love and there iz nothing that can overcome that, not even language nor the perception of the words being used.

@@highvibefreqzshow5967 I disagree, but see where your coming from, I think. I was meaning more that I know many adults and children for example that know all of the names of the equipment used to ride horses, or ride motorcycles etc and many that don't. I was meaning for some they need to be told different names, unless they've had prior learning I've met many that wouldn't know what a saddle or bridle is and would call it the seat and face straps for example. Some 7 year olds understand science that is taught for their age, others I knew left school early because they were understand science for 11-12 year olds. I wasn't meaning things like poetry and lyrics that unless the create says otherwise are open to creative interpretation. But facts are not. 1+1=2 not 7 ...? I agree in speech yes, tone is important. Someone could obviously type that they love you but be saying it sarcastically or begrudgingly and the reader think wow they must be feeling really emotional etc

why are you so stunned? kids can focus and if you have kids who are all over the place it is a reflection of their poor parenting.

Her parents have obviously shown respect for their young child. Children learn by example.

I do that all the time because I was trained to be accommodating. Stare quietly into their eyes and keep nodding in agreement. It doesn't mean you agree or understand. It means you know how to stay safe with people who will never see your perspective. BTW, spiritual bypassing-just smiling and acting like the fact that hurt people hurt people makes everything ok-is not doing something healthy with your anger. It's denying and disowning your emotional guidance system. No, you don't need to punch people who verbally,emotionally, and/or physically abuse you, but you DO need to honor what's happening to you, and speak your truth. Parents don't like it? Then stop violating your children's boundaries. And forcing children to go along with your beliefs instead of facilitating them in finding their own is a violation.

😂

Olivia Bell oh thank you, finally someone who shares my point of view...

Thanks for sharing😊

As a teenage girl, there were a few boys in my class who would try to 'grope' my body, they would draw pictures of my face in an unflattering way, kick me on my birthday, and pull my chair out so I fell to my bottom on the floor twice. Due to this unbelievable humiliation, I felt angry. Of course decades later I was angry whenever I remembered it. I'm nearly 40, and only recently I have realised they couldn't empathise with me. They were suffering so much being the person they were, they could not even see what was going on. I've had the anger for decades, and now it's slowly dissolving. Personally, I've noticed that it's more of a process and not an overnight miracle of forgiveness of the situations I had to be in. If I were suffering like them, who knows what I could've been capable of.

Amazing wisdom, thank you ❤

...I dont think it was her question, she does not look like beeing so wise.

@@saucerfull1 what is your intention here my friend?

@@Mr0Anonymous0 ???

@@saucerfull1 what point are you trying to make?

@@Mr0Anonymous0 ...I already said what I wanted to say!!!

We can and we must! :)

Because both parents are too busy working or self absorbed with their own life instead of spending quality time speaking and bonding with their children who are brought up in nurseries or by nannies. Government created two income families and family ruination started since then.

Maybe

@@saraswatkin9226 maybe

@@saraswatkin9226 lol yeah because wars and violence and crimes and bullies, etc. did NOT by any means exist before that.. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

thank you.. b.c i thought he said butt

Sein Maestro "the butt is useful somehow." works either way. 😁

I'll never forget those words, so beautiful.

*bud*

Psycho Zoikum b m

Kav604 yes they are connecting at eye level. And presence is felt. I like how she is immersed in the flowers. Precious. His words touch me

She is very sweet, I imagine she can feel his pure loving soul.

she didnt raise her hand before she spoke

killmeister2271, she is still a child who is in the process of learning. Most people forget to not interrupt from time to time, especially learning children.

plumvillageonline...She is shy and insecure and Idont think that she understands what he is saying...she is just 8 or 9 years old. This is a strange video although he is right!

Just psychology/mind studies in general. It’s absolutely absurd how important it is yet treated as an elective. Feels intentional to be honest.

You should read the tao te ching by Lao-Tzu! 🙏Namaste

@@widowbones I was reading it - up until where he said that the Tao that is written is not the Tao. So, I stopped reading.

07-1 I think we need the first option for a bit xx but the only way to change is the

@@HumanPatientAssn that’s lame !

@Greg LeJacques if you read the words what does that make you🙈

Don't cry.......... Life is too short

Black Bass Whispers yes. It's also important for parents to teach there kids when they're young by being respectful and honest and teach them how to not get mad.

Wonderful comment..love it!😍

...why crying!

@@garyparker1220 rubish... you will teach your children respect by beeing respectful...and... everybody can get mad!

@greglejacques1094 It isn't pompous just having a positive attitude about the child.

He is free ☺️

@greglejacques1094 he is free from negative senses, anger, afraid of dead, anxious, suffering, worry, etc

Why u so angry all the time

Kids being cruel to your kid... thatll bring out the sense of justice in anybody. Its the reason I struggle so much with the idea of having children. Life might be good but there's the rest of you people out there too amd even yoir kids are irredeemable monsters

I too feel abnormally angry when i witness small injustices. I learned that this crippling empathy for complete strangers stems from my own emotional needs that were not met as a child and my feelings were never validated. Ex: when i cried I was told to stop crying or i would be given something to cry about and i heard “oh well” alot when i would express my concern or opinion. This revelation about of my childhood helped me understand that my malignant empathy for others causes me to neglect myself over the feelings of others. I’m working on creating a balance between my own needs and others I’m a nurse practitioner so i am able help others in order to fill the void left from childhood, but its caring for that little girl inside me that is the challenge . I’m sorry that the traumas created by others are affecting you too. I wish peace, a long life, and happiness. Namaste

May you find a way to use your anger & turn it into something beautiful ❤

galkema So true.

Sometimes I had this ability naturally as a child but I realise I have lost it as an adult. I think because it was/is rarely encouraged in children.

we can do it!!!

good point about Mr Rogers.

Agreed. The art of transmutation.

Anger can't be either out or in. It's a momentary appearance in consciousness. To try and be angry continuously for 5 minutes is as hopeless a task as lifting a truck.

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@@MrCmon113 I used to work in kitchens, and believe me, some of my old co-workers could remain in a state of anger all day long lol. If you try to suppress them, emotions will be stored within your physical and energetic body; in this sense, the anger is being held in.

@@shermansadventure1151 The second part of your comment doesn't jive well with the first one. I don't think the cooks "suppressed" the anger, did they? They "let it out" and yet more anger was always available.

Andrew Brady 💞

Andrew Brady Psalm 104 : 34,36 ,,, Jesus loves u unconstitutionally

Areza Khoshi Aahh, yes, this is true! But I think you mean to say "unconditionally". ;)

Areza Khoshi hahahahahahahahahaha

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Sarah Morris yes. be kind but then leave that mean person the hell alone. even an amoeba moves away from toxins or other unpleasant stimuli. ♥️

It appears that your boy is emotionally intelligent.

That's a sort of aesthetic of not giving a shit that's often conflated with mindfulness. You can be 100% enlightened and kill your enemies. You can be totally void of a self and suffering and attachment and work hard to change politics.

Ya son gonna spend a lifetime a push ova😂

Jean-Marc Pierson not meaning to sound rude, but what is the difference between holding on, not letting out and suppress? I feel like I missed the point u meant to explain although it should be obvious to me 🙁

@@AbuRas0 Suppression implies either ignoring the energy within, or actively pushing it away, as if it wasn't there. When you feel emotion, it means you have a powerful potential for energy within you. Many times, the moment a person feels that energy within them, they are immediately compelled to release or expel it into the world. When someone releases energy in this way though, it often comes out in ways that, at the very most, serve no function to better the world around you (wasted potential), and, at the very worst, actually harm the people and the world around you, or impede progress. The way a person releases their emotional energy is often habitual, and a learned behavior by watching how those they grew up around expressed their emotions. This is why you sometimes see children end up in the same places that their parents did. Their energy guided them there, because their learned reactions told them to release that energy in that way. And, what you release into the world is what determines your path. Instead, be mindful of the energies both within and without. When you feel an emotion, hold onto it, and think about it. Think of the many ways you could use it, and which ways would be most beneficial to you and the world around you. Then, when you have a clear direction and purpose is when you can most effectively utilize that energy. This is different than suppressing your emotion, in that, when you are suppressing them, you are NOT being aware and mindful of it, and not thinking about how it would be best utilized. You are pushing it down deeper, and pretending it doesn't exist. It is best to never do this. When you try to push emotion down, it has the habit of bubbling out, and being expressed in even worse ways than if you had immediately addressed it. I hope this has answered some of your questions.

Mr.Dandelion thx m8

that's the very thing we need, to know the difference. otherwise it's very easy to make ourselves suffer

@@Goblin-King I know you wrote this 2 years ago. If you are still around, thank you. Your explanation really resonated with me in a time where I’ve experienced exactly what you warn about with suppressing emotion.

Marta Helena Henao Aristizábal Whenever he talks I always feel like he is a living buddha and can't help to smile and I totally focus on him. He's definitely a buddha in my eyes

me too

Justin Tweed .

We all are

Buddha means "being Aware" , and his great awareness indeed prove it that he is great.

I have never "gotten" that as a Buddhist you should be ashamed of anger. Just the opposite, why should you feel shame for a natural and instructive feeling

@@elizabethheyenga9277 My anger leads me to think and act too quickly before I can understand the whole situation. Anger feels like fire inside.

@@nguyenphuctringhi9830 It comes from your subconscious mind. It's how you defended yourself or attempted to get your needs met when you were ages 0-5 y.o. Try researching ways to reprogram your subconscious mind. There are many videos and information out there on this. I recommend Nu Mindframe youtube channel. Watch her earlier videos. She has so much on early development and ways to change our behaviors and unhealthy patterns. Edit: And yes age 0 (inside the mother's womb). If the mother is stressed etc. an unborn baby can absorb this energy.

I hope that one day instead of feeling shame, you will feel compassion for yourself.

@@pennPi thankyou PennyPie for the information link. I too suffer shame from anger that skyrocketed after 4-5 years of domestic abuse.

Léon Ruhe respect, he deserves to addressed as Master, not this guy

His comment was an offering of respect in itself. And, after all, he is a guy, amongst a master, and various other descriptive terms.

Chi Hai Truong I'm sure he doesn't mind

Neither have I.

Léon Ruhe maybe only in front of camera

When husband beats wife, wife cannot smile and say , poor man he is suffering, he is sick, I am not angry with you, I only love you, these things are possible only from monks point of view , because they have no intimate connection with anyone, some husband they physically abuse wife and children without any mercy , then how u will say poor man , he is suffering , I love u, the wife will pray if he had died some day soon

Not possible for people living in abusive conditions , may be possible for monks

@@galaxyash7360 maybe you can read ajahn bram book's where he give a case in australia a wife that get abusive by her husband for a long time then this women get meditation exercise frequently and still serve his husband as house wife, after some time her husband change the behaviour.

Totally new way of approaching problems

@@samueljohnson3628 , I will try reading that book, thank u for your advise

@Chill Out that's true, we all suffer in one way or another and don't always show it.

That's typical.

Because looks are deceiving. Most suffering happens in silence

Believe me they are suffering

They probably have a deep insecurity they distract themselves from with an opposite facade

Not a doubt

Sorry to correct you but I think he is from, and passed in Hue.

@@ngocduynguyen1977 are you sure? Did she write the comment on the day he passed?

@@ngocduynguyen1977 You could be right too! Let’s be right together!

Your heart has eyeballs?

"Hate leads to suffering"

All my life i was grasping to different religions etc which is most likely just a calling for spirutality which was not there in my family as a child. I let go of the desire to get a child or children it was a relief for me atleast. So i can focus on healing myself and others. Buddah thought me that i can let go of all the things i desire, it was like a miracle when i got some courage to see that my desires was causing suffering in the moment, when i let go of the desires i be free and happy.

@@kennystarfighter9919 I can relate to you! I grew up in a Hindu family. But my parents were not that religious and they did not teach me about spirituality. As a kid I was really into Christianity so I converted into Christianity and then left the religion. And became an atheist, and a agnostic and again a Christian. But now I am really inclined to learn more about Buddhism. I may even convert myself to Buddhism. Not so sure about that but some teachings of Buddha have helped me a lot! And I'm still learning about Buddhism.

Your question is VERY judgmental and self-righteous...no wonder it offends them.

Your question is very judgmental and self-righteous....no wonder they are offended.

That’s an Incredible question. Raise yourself before you raise a child.

lotus only grows on dirty mud, it means even the worst person has an iota of beauty in him/her. Look into their iota beauty.

@@enkii82 mud...muck...all the same when it comes to the mind.

Maybe no one around you actually know this either, and perhaps it's you instead who can let them in on this helpful piece of advice.

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