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I remember 3 or 4 years ago, I watched your videos for the first time and I thought "I want to be like her, I want to know where to go". Now I am where I wanted to be all along, teaching private lessons, writing a textbook, preparing a video series to teach Japanese to anybody, and I cannot be more happy. I'm so glad I found your channel and I had your advice by my side the whole time I was at uni. I hope your 2019 will be a fantastic year!

Summary: 1 Live aligned to yourself 2 Have greater self acceptance, love and confidence 3 Prioritise 4 Stop overthinking 5 Know what keeps you motivated 6 Keep exploring, don’t settle

The biggest take away for me was "stop overthinking and just do it". This year I want to take risks and be fearless 🌻

Here’s to living our best life in 2019! 🎉🙌🏼

Can not wait to conquer 2019 with self-love, self-growth, and self-forgiveness.

Stop overthinking is the one I really need to work on. I worry so far into the future of what *could* be rather than focusing on now and what *is.* I’m the kind of person that likes to plan ahead and know things; I’m not fond of surprises or the unknown, so just leaping in and doing things is sometimes scary, but I know it can be rewarding. Thanks for the tips, Aileen!

Aileen, I want to say this, I started watching your videos since last Feb. I started know about self love through you. Making simple steps with self love like yoga,meditation , reading books and listening to podcast I did overcome my anxiety, depression. And even I came to realize my purpose on this world. My life hereafter will be guided my purpose. I am grateful every moment that God has shown you to me at the right time when I just felt "everything is over, I am done". I never forget you in my life. Thank you girl!!!😍❤

I'm diagnosed with depression because of serious family problems and staying motivated is really hard for me. 2018 was the worst year ever, I felt like I don't deserve to life and because of my lack of confidence in myself, my own body and skills it was really hard for my to change myself. I always wanted to change but I didn't knew how and I couldnt think clearly because my thoughts are a mess. I tried severall crash diets were I didn't ate anything for days until I nearly collapsed because even I'm not fat I thought being underweight would make me happier . I did a lot of workouts for a period of time , there were days when I felt confident but when just a small negative thing happened I already felt uncomfortable and i ate more and my own mind made myself down . Im in highschool and my grades dropped and I just wrote grades like 5 or 6 and in class and when I wanted to learn I couldn't focus so I gave up. I gave up without trying it again. I didn't do any homework or learned. I just layed in the bad all day and did nothing productive. I just watched Yt or I tried to sleep because their wasn't anything I wanted to do that brought joy in my life . My lifestyle was really boring. I lost also the interest to everything that I used to like . I don't realy have friends I can talk with so I felt alone. Also the professional help I got was useless . I wanted to kill myself. I almost was about to cut my vains off and not just for one time. I wanted to change but I didn't knew how until I discovered ur channel one week ago. It was almost 2019 so I looked for motivation videos on Yt. Usually those videos don't help me but your videos inspired me. I started to do a journal and it helped. Right know I know what I want and I know the best way to achieve my dreams. I also kinda changed the way I think. The last two days I was really productive and I felt happy after a long time. Today I felt depressed again but I watched your video right know and I'm inspired again. I'm really grateful for your videos. I want you to know that you can change other people lifes and that you're a big inspiration for me. Without you I may wouldn't be alive anymore. I know that my path to become happy is going to be hard but I will try my best. Also I'm very sorry if made a lot of grammar mistakes because I'm from Germany and I never was very good in englisch grammar etc.

What you talk about on #4 reminds me of a message I just heard of from TD Jakes regarding going forth even if you're scared. Like Moses, grabbing the snake so you can get your staff. And to not believe negativity but reinforce positivity to yourself. Your video is just confirmation. I thank God for you!

Literally editing a “ How to be more productive in 2019” and I’m watching Lavendaire! Just the reboot I needed ❤️❤️❤️❤️

You're one of my "motivation triggers" 💛

Happy 2019 everyone! 😊💕 Aileen was one of the first people to inspire me to start a youtube channel. A year later, I’m making New Years resolutions to keep working hard and hopefully one day become a full time youtuber! Never give up on your dreams! 💪

The most important thing I am taking with me is always that if you want to give (and us women, we love to give), you have to have something to give. So, taking care of my own needs is a priority.

watching this 5 days before 2020, and inspires myself to rock next year ♥️

My intention this year is to not be afraid/avoid steps that will help me reach my goals.💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

Connecting is the four step method (Connect, Listen, Trust, Act) that teaches you how to disengage your mind to access the intuitive part of you, called your Self. In the practice of Connecting, you learn how to connect to the Self. You eliminate the feelings and emotions that come from the mind and keep you from having the results for the life you want

One of the best ways to live 2019 to its fullest potential is to get away from stressors and do things that make you feel satisfied.

Happy new year everyone! Is anyone learning a foreign language this year? (Just curious 😁)

Happy New Year lady! Great advice. 💜

This is the first thing i heard in the morning and trust me this is what i needed. Thank you so much....its as if universe actually knows what i need and when and then sent the message through you....! now i know 2019 is my year..!!

Needed this this morning ❤️✨My intention this year is to rebuild my good habits I had last year (devotional/ journaling, weekly/ monthly planning, daily & nightly skincare), and build new ones that I’ve been procrastinating on (photography, KZfaq, education in general) 🎉🎊✨

Who else is gonna make 2019 their year?🥂 Btw I also make videos💛

I didn't want to include intentions for 2019 in the Instagram comments, but I tagged 2 friends and I'll leave my intentions here-- my major goals for this year overall are to become more disciplined, spend my time more wisely, and take better care of myself, physically and mentally. 2018 was a pretty bad year for me as far as personal growth and development, it really feels like I hit rock bottom, so the way I see it there's nowhere to go from here but up, so we better get to it!

The problem with trying to live my BEST life is that it’s been a quick road to burnout. Especially when I’m dealing with mental health issues, pushing myself can be a very bad thing. But on the other hand taking risks has led me to some amazing experiences. I guess there is balance in everything.

I’m having such a hard time finding a perfect planner with all my needs met. And I sent it to the universe and after sometime I found you through MichelleB. This tells me that the same can happen with everything else I desire and also that I can get my hands on a perfect planner for me❤️I’m so happy. Thank you for existing 💕

I have so much love for this video. I love that you specifically mention listing motivation triggers. Even though I'm so motivated to change and grow at the start of a new year, there is always going to be a "slow period" or slump. There are so many people that just tell us how to get started, but I love and appreciate that you touch on the subject of HOW to get back into the groove too. Thank you! I'm making my motivation list in my 2019 Artist of Life workbook now!

I feel like for a more insecure, introverted or shy individual it's always the hardest thing to get started or to share something with other people as opposed when you're used to it while also being authentically you. On the other hand I think it gets better in time if you can be patient with yourself and the process you're in. It's good to dream big but it can also be daunting at times so we can take smaller steps and be proud of those accomplishments too which is something I had to learn since I used to rush something or jump too soon into something else, kind of all over the place but then also having perfectionist tendencies so yeah, it's not always so much about being successful but about what you can do and the amazing things you can bring to the world and it will always give you something so then the creative energy is flowing in a balanced way. ♥

You are on my motivational playlist. I recently dropped out of Law school because I felt pretty miserable. I'd been there for 7 months and I remember that ever since week one I knew deep down that wasn't my place but I held on,because I felt pressured by my family's expectations. After some soul searching I realised that I wante to pursue art and watching your video helps me stay motivated because everyone in my familiy is kinda freaked out and saying I'm wasting my potential.

I'm building momentum with baby steps and keeping in mind it's not a matter of all or nothing, I'll do my best to keep consistency but, one day at the time, working in one of each of my goals and learning how to plan and prioritize.

ADORE the idea of a motivation starter pack.

I truly agree with the enemy within and living for yourself, its a mix of self love yet awareness of the enemy within. I cannot wait for your videos this year and the whole journey, much Love Aileen

Last night, I was again downgrading myself for not being able to meet certain expectations. It's like I have really lost passion on things which I used to love and now I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't know if it's a matter of I WON'T do it or I CAN'T do it anymore. And this morning when I saw your video, it made me realize that the pain I had the last 2 years could be just a part of my becoming this year or even the years to come! Taking risks I am afraid but it is indeed true that through the difficult road, one would definitely grow😊😊😊

What you said in the end is NOT super cheesy. Nothing but the truth and so motivating!

We need more people like you in our youth, This generation of Teenagers (including me) need to watch your videos that can guide us instead of other influencers (no hate but some influencers can really mess up ⬆ the way we think we do things).

I loooove the way you articulate yourself! Your voice is so gentle and soft yet it can command the attention of a goldfish lol aka me :'D. Happy 2019 Aileen! Thank you for the great vid!

My best motivation trigger is to watch a Lavendaire video or listen to The Lavendaire Lifestyle!!! Happy New Year!!!!!!!!!!!

I’ve never felt more personally spoken to through a video IN MY LIFE until now. You made me feel worthy and excited for the new year, thank you so much for this video Aileen 🙏🙌💗

Once i have stopped being ambitious bcoz of failures, disappointment...i have been watching your old videos daily for past few weeks...u r such s positive vibe and inspiration...I have made up myself to take risks, live my own lyf, planning my days accordingly...Tq so much for such positivity Love from India

Lavendaire beautiful and key reminders to return to the road of self love and self confidence, relinquishing our old patters that stem from raw rooted ancient beliefs and self judgement. I love your channel and light. On my own channel, I dedicate my 2 decades of living through loss and communicating with our beloveds in spirit who want us to life vibrationally happy and healthy today and have messages for us to transform illness and conditions holding us back!! I am subscribed, blessings and love xx

I've found your channel last summer with your Dream Life Series, and I'm addicted since then. :) I've taken a risky path last summer, left my day job, put a big X on my career to follow my heart and start a game development studio. Starting a business for the first time is tough, but I love what I'm doing and this is why I truly believe I will succeed, it is just a matter of time. Sometimes I feel down because of all the uncertainty related to my project, and things take much longer than I've thought, but then I discover one of your motivational videos and it helps me to get back on track. Sometimes I just need to hear that everything's gonna be alright. :) God bless you Aileen for what you're doing.

I am so glad you are talking about self love, it is such a huge and important part to talk about. This year I have two guided words - Growth and Believe. They stand for self love, believing in myself and growing as a person.

My goal this year was to have discipline and be productive lol what a coincidence. Perfect video for the new year!

honestly her videos are the relaxing things i need after a long day

Happy New Year's🎊 I just want ti say thank you for being you because i truly look up to you to motivate me and you inspire me to be my better self. Your aura of positiveness, vibrant energy, love and passion to grow does impact many others to find their inner peace💜 Wishing everyone happy and loving vibes~💞

People can be discouraging sometimes.... But listening to you fills me with hope and motivation... Love you ❤️

"Self love is your greatest weapon." 🔥🔥🔥 Love this. 😍

When I was watching this I was breaking down . Watching it again because self love is important. I shud really learn to love myself which is the most difficult task when ur going through a breakup, but I can do it, I will love myself , won't give up

I did follow your store 🌸,I'm gonna get better at dancing cause I feel inspired when I see others mastering it, moreover it makes me feel free and UNSTOPPABLE and unstoppable is my word for this year 🍃

I am serious. I have not even completed watching the whole video and I felt like thanking you so much for making me feel like I am amazing, for building my trust on to my intuition. For just putting so much of positive energy in me that yes I can achieve my goals and that my goals are not just dreams. They are my life and I am happy living in them and achieving them. Thank you thank you so much. Lots of love💞

Happy new Year to you!!!! 🎉🎉🎉💞💞💞 you are right!!! We have to prioritize ourselves, not thinking about how other people say, not being influenced by their negative opinions about us ...That's what I'm working for long time!!!!😉😉😉❤

My intention is to be highly optimistic this year so watching your videos from last year made me create my theme..So this year my Theme is " Optimism & Magic". I have already started to have positive thoughts and to reject the negative thoughts very strongly. I am into rewinding myself back to zero when having a negative word come out of my mouth. So looking up for your videos. Love all of it. You kinda have some power in you cause you steal my attention so much and lighten up my heart.

I've already started to change! I got a new job, because I love to teach and learn and feel burn out from working with children. Have been meal planning and prepping better, and working out. I feel so much better from there. Hearing my body when it says I want to move. Trying lots of new things and while it's not the best, it's the best I can do and learning from there. No one will judge me more then I do, so I am working though it. Thank you for the videos! They are awesome and helpful, they remind me to take care of myself.

Ur videos motivates me...love the way u exaplain...i jst love ur content...😚😚😚

I'm going to make a "Start Creating" video because in one of your older videos you talked about how being done is better than being perfect and I've been living with that phrase these past couple of months and it completely changed by life.

Such wise words my Dear! My intention is to have as much Peace and Love as I possibly can this year!! After more drama and heartache then I thought could be possible ended 2018, I want this New Year to be For Me for once!! Time to find that spark I had so long ago. I've followed your new shop of course! May you have the best year yet!! Xoxo Hugs from Napa, Ca.

Yes that's how it done the best I'm all myself

Entering now on Instagram! Excited. My intention for the year is to publish my fantasy book in the winter. I’ve hired a writing coach to help me stay accountable and get my work ready for publication

The world is a better place because you're a part of it. Thank you for always sharing such great inspiration and good vibes

Happy New Year to you, Aileen! Journaling is really what I want to exercise in my affiliate marketing business for this year 2019, so I can record my daily events; writes down great ideas whenever it gets into my mind and takes note things for the success of my business.

thank you SO much, lavendaire! this year a new chapter in my life will begin as i am finishing school and will be moving out of home into a larger city in summer in order to pursue my dreams. it's extremely terrifying to me because it's a step that is far outside of my comfort zone. thanks to your video i manage to see it more for everything i could gain than i could lose now. thankyouthankythankyou!!!♡♡♡

you bring calmness to me in a different way. thanks for this!

Aloha!!! I decided to push myself to start my KZfaq channel to encourage others and inspire them to be their personal best. Thank you for being a special part of my decision to go for it. Work in progress. Keep going no matter what. God blessed us with abilities, dreams, and we have to take action.

It was a blessing in disguise to discover you on my recommended videos on youtube. Since last year of October, I've learned a lot of things especially about myself. There had been a lot of realizations and reflections, all thanks to you. Currently, I'm on to starting this new year with love; for myself, my passion, and the world. Your advices will always have a special place on my journey. Hopefully in a span of 3-5 years, I'll be the person whom I kept on dreaming of ever year. 💜 Thank you for your tips, Aileen! I hope you're also doing amazing!

my motivation trigger is watching your videos. ✨☁️💜☁️💜☁️✨

I start living for myself last year! I feel so much better about it!!!!!!

"The best time to start is now." thank you so much.

Your hair colour really suits you. And of course,your are a woman of substance. Thank you Aileen!!!

Love listening to you. It has a calming affect. Your wonderful

many people ( youtubers ) will say to do yoga , do cycling , get clear skin and habits for living your best life . I like how this video is good for everyone and all the tips are universal . sorry for my bad english

I note down this Video to motivate me during the year. The point about not to let them hurt you is exactly what I needed.

I cut my hair on December 27 and know I regret it so bad.I miss my old hair so much and I just wanna cry and hope it will grow fast.I know that the body image is not as important as the soul, but it is very hard for me to understand it.I am also making my FIRST vision board and lemme tell you, I am hella excited.I am putting long hair images,glossier and vs perfumes,Bella Hadid's body and some cute clothes...also a passport and some beautiful views from LA and a festival that's gonna be in my country...last but not least, I want Shawn Mendes concert tickets.I hope everybody gets their dreams reality this year ❤

You’re so amazing, though you’re so young you’re mind is so knowledgeable and wise... great advice 👍 I look up to you everyday,, I watch your videos every time they upload. Thanks to you my business is growing. 😇

"Live for yourself and not for others!" - Ditto! I've struggled with this and I want to make it happen this year.

listening to you really makes me happy. Your advice are very practical!

Let's make 2019 incredible! Happy New Year to everyone💜✨🎆

You're my source of motivation !!💛🌄.... every time I feel down and sad, I play one of your vedios then booom !!! I'm back again 😊😊 thank you for being an amazing person 🌼🌻

Still watching this today!!!! 💐💫🌈☀️❤️

love this video. Thank you for sharing!! :)

you are such an inspiration , got that new year new beginning spirit right in ... thanks Aileen lots of love

One of my motivation triggers is to watch your videos Aileen 😊

You are an inspiration for me . Thank you for your advices and for your work to help people make the ir Dreams come true ! I wish you have a wonderfull 2019 . Love , from Argentina .

timeless video on how to live you best life! With intuition and gratitude =)

You are my motivational trigger whenever im down I watch a bunch of your videos and it does the job for me 😁

Loved the video. My theme of this year is "just do it" so your video came at right time. Thank you so much. Love you.

Honestly, you videos are my motivation triggers, they're so helpful, thank you so much, really :) Have the best year! :)

This video was suggested to me at the right time in my life. Thankyou for this useful information ☺️🙏🏽

Happy new year Aileen! Your videos are getting better and better! Love the colors and your b-roll.

these are great tips. i'm planning to move to another country this year after graduating college (probably taiwan or south korea). there's a lot of things that make me hesitant (family, money, language barrier, etc) but in my heart i know it's what i want to do to expand my worldview and improve my language proficiency (i already speak conversational mandarin and very basic korean). your tips are something i really needed to hear, in general and for this adventure i'm taking this year! thank you for being genuine and thoughtful as always.

Maybe all dreams cannot be achieved or maybe all dreams are not the right/best ones. I think it is right to both care for ourselves and others. Thanks for the good video.

Needed this today in 2020! Thank you for the beautiful information! ❤

I just love watching your videos, so inspiring and love the theme colors.

My motivation trigger is from you! Everytime i watch your video, it boost my productive mood :) thank youu

Its 2022 here.still i watch your videos❤ better late than never 💫

The best time to start is now! 🙌🏻

Thank you so much....for the videos.u r my inspiration

This was so motivating! I feel like 2019 is gonna be my year.

Hi Eileen, I would love it if you could do a video on how to plan for a podcast interview. Your notes on your other video /plan looked really helpful.

I feel like you’re helping me to go through my life I do have a dream you are too good to be true I feel like I know who you are you are just like me

I love you‘re videos! I am still learning to be more productive,to love myself like i am and retch my goals,you’re videos inspire me!!!(JBTW you’re voice really calms me down)❤️