Life Advice You NEED to Hear 🌟
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Sharing life advice that everyone needs to hear-especially recent graduates! These are things that I would tell my younger self, and any recent college grad. Taking risks, getting to know your inner voice, being proactive, stretching your comfort zone, and investing in yourself.
What advice would you add for lessons everyone needs to hear?
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I am now 16 minutes older but also wiser. Thank you
@chimu2387 4 жыл бұрын
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@rudig5698 3 жыл бұрын
exactly 🥺❤️
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Your comment is so sweet.
@intentionalliving7326 3 жыл бұрын
Ha ha yes, but still the youngest you have ever been 😁
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@keslygunawan6948 5 жыл бұрын
1. Take bigger risks when you're still young! 2. Get to know your inner voice / your intuition / your guiding light / your heart! 3. Be Proactive, not Passive! Don't expect things to come for you, but go out there and take action! 4. Stretch your Comfort Zone! If you're not growing, you're shrinking! 5. Invest in Yourself! Time is your greatest asset, you can use that time to read book, pick up new skills, take courses and learn new things / hobbies!
@MorningMarjolaine 5 жыл бұрын
Approved!
@studywithastranger4108 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@katrina6145 5 жыл бұрын
thank you
@MM-um4pi 5 жыл бұрын
i love you so much.. thank you so much
@rookiia1701 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😍😚
@nora.c 5 жыл бұрын
My favorite quote: "Dreams don't work unless you do"
@MorningMarjolaine 5 жыл бұрын
Don't just dream, live your dream!
@vorsable6029 3 жыл бұрын
And that is called an ambition 😊
@intentionalliving7326 3 жыл бұрын
So true!! 🤩
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Thank you for using KZfaq to create impact in this world. Keep doing what you do Aileen.
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
thank you so much 💕
@CoffeeWithC 5 жыл бұрын
Lavendaire Thank you!!!
@niffrincontrols8607 3 жыл бұрын
Hi lavendaire..... .. I really like the first one... You said in the video. I am 12 years old Love from me Nivashini (my name)
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@MrsUTCVoice 4 жыл бұрын
I am 48 but I listened to this to advise my daughter, so no matter how old you are your advice is helpful.
@chosendebbie 5 жыл бұрын
Stretching your comfort zone really does make you feel stronger! And that's a powerful thing because it gives you courage to embark on the next project! Beautiful message!
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
it is true! 💕 hope you have a great week!
@intentionalliving7326 3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏻🤩
@maltie123 5 жыл бұрын
In regards to your first tip, in my opinion those things don't have to pile up just because you get older! How you live your life as you get older is up to you - you don't have to take out a mortgage or have kids etc. Just a thought! Can be a lot of pressure for young people to try and do everything now! You're great Aileen, been watching for a while, just wanted to touch on that! 😊💕
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
it's true :)
@cheska3002 5 жыл бұрын
That part about finding your inner voice really got me! My parents words always got into my head and they'd tell me "You can't afford to take risks while you're young" and that made failure seem like a bad thing. They'd point out all the 'bad' things that could happen... and it kept me from doing the thing I really wanted to do with my life- make music! Lavi Loves, what's a risk you've been afraid to take?
@summerjanette2124 5 жыл бұрын
I really needed this I'm a recent graduate and I've been feeling down... but you are totally right.
@intentionalliving7326 3 жыл бұрын
🤗☀️✨✨
@huamanwages 5 жыл бұрын
Considering our environment problem, i think it is safe to say that investing in the right food and clothes is also important ! ;) But thank you for the other wonderful advice/ reminder!
@Marie-oh8es 5 жыл бұрын
Soooo true, I literally just wanted to write the same!
@giuf175 4 жыл бұрын
And it's also investing in yourself to spend money on food and clothes
@ChloeEichel 4 жыл бұрын
i started crying the moment you said take risks while you're young, i've been terrified to leave california and go to college in missouri where my twin sister and brother are because i've fallen in love with this place. but i live with my step family and they're extremely cruel to me and i can't afford to move out here on my own so i've decided to go back to where i'm from and take a big risk because i'll never know how things turn out if i don't try
@shira1022 3 жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? I hope you're feeling beeter💕 chace your dreams girl!!! You deserve the best, dont forget it
@rainbowcupcakegames 5 жыл бұрын
So happy there is someone like you in this day and age to spread positivity. I wished you were around when I had graduated college (more than 15 years ago). Definitely wished someone told me to figure out myself. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@intentionalliving7326 3 жыл бұрын
All good because now we (older grads) really appreciate and understand that advice 😁🤗☀️✨✨
@minimalistthrifter4987 5 жыл бұрын
Having a child is a risk in itself. You must find your inner voice, knowing your values and beliefs constantly. Having a child is definitely getting out of your comfort zone. It’s not easy. You need to invest on yourself to always be there for your child. Because if you don’t learn to take care of your own life, your child will suffer. Pet peeve of mind when someone thinks having a child equals to being held back when really it’s the opposite. I have traveled overseas with my daughter. I have hiked more. I’ve started reading more. I’ve become more open with my family of what I want. I have taken long road trips with my toddler. And so on. Being a mother is an adventure in itself. ♥️♥️♥️ I guess what I’m saying is that the title is misleading. It’s not for everyone. It’s just for younger people.
@mariagratia3612 5 жыл бұрын
"Keep learning outside the school" Thank you Aileen, you really inspired me. This year i will graduate from campus and i still confuse with my life, with my ability etc. But from now, i will increase and find my own way .. just for my life. ^^
@lorenafernandez9141 5 жыл бұрын
Ahh!! I’m graduating HS this week and I’m not necessarily lost in life but I need motivation and this is what I needed thank you! 💕
@l.k.roline4296 3 жыл бұрын
So how is your life ? Did you achieve everything you wanted even though the covid is still out there ? (Sorry I sound I litle bit weird and random but I really hope it turned well for you)
@lorenafernandez9141 3 жыл бұрын
@@l.k.roline4296 hi, thanks, things are going well. The pandemic halted some of my plans and a lot has happened in my personal life and school life but I’m determined to reach my goals one step at a time.
@l.k.roline4296 3 жыл бұрын
@@lorenafernandez9141 I hope you will, good luck 🥰
@Jasmine-zu5vm 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for spreading positivity and insipiring me!!💗😊
@TABI2110 5 жыл бұрын
OMG! The comfort zone shrinking it happen to me, I'm not that person who likes going out amd socializing but never realized even though it was on my own terms I did that a lot, and now that I move out, it went from 100 to 0 and now that I am making friends going out and meeting with them has been a struggle but I'm trying. There is no way I'm letting my anxious head control my life! 💪
@bookishtopics 5 жыл бұрын
You're a big inspiration to me. 💖💖💖
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
grateful for you
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
Spanish subtitles are available! Click "CC" and check the video settings. Thank you to the contributor listed in the description 💕
@bjzzzz 5 жыл бұрын
This is video is full of such brilliant advice. "If you're not growing, you're shrinking" is something I've never thought about!
@ohnonad 5 жыл бұрын
as a recent graduate, thank you for the advice & inspiring me 🌷✨
@staycdnb 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for consistently posting such inspiring content. I hope to evoke the same empowering feelings you evoke in me in my audience. You are such a strong and beautiful lady. Never change. Much love ❤️
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
i appreciate that - thank you!
@ancelaa_ 5 жыл бұрын
I'm a recent graduate and hearing your advice, enlighten me a lot. Thank you so much for this amazing advice. I'm a fan
@lexieg.419 5 жыл бұрын
graduating in 4 days and this is exactly what i needed to hear while on the verge of completely giving up, thank you 💓
@katrynapona 5 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you made this video! Im 21 and just graduated from college 5 weeks ago and I think your course will be a great tool for me and others! I definitely will purchase or hopefully win the scholarship, because everything you mentioned in this video is my life right now. Thank you! 😊
@cosmocelli 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the wonderful advice, Aileen! I, no, we, needed this so much ❤️
@tamannazamanauthy7423 5 жыл бұрын
Loved the lessons you shared. I remember how it impacted me when i heard about your experiences during your college, i could totally relate and it inspired me so much. Thank you for sharing these beautiful lessons again. You sound more refined and confident than before! It's really beautiful how you've evolved through years ❤ lots of love Aileen!
@kaironical3237 3 жыл бұрын
“The only constant thing in life is change” -Aileen. Thank you for this
@samsidaampuan9620 5 жыл бұрын
Hi. I really love your videos. I've learned a lot of things, and realization. Thank you for spreading self-loved. 💞
@anujakindo4854 4 жыл бұрын
You are so amazing you have unknowingly helped me so much when I was feeling low and depressed, I always reach to your content when I feel lost and it has always been so helpful Keep on your good work I adore you . Love n more power to you girl❤
@nomibeardiy9248 5 жыл бұрын
How can I subscribe a billion times??? I just found you today and have already watched over 6 videos I think. You’re helping me so much already with my way of thinking. You’re going places. Foreal! So awesome!
@berenyililla5733 5 жыл бұрын
In a world, where you could be anything, be kind;)) It is reminding me to you☺
@NenaLavonne 5 жыл бұрын
I will upload a video at 100 🦋❤️
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
i love that quote!!
@berenyililla5733 5 жыл бұрын
@@lavendaire ohh my gooosh thank you for reply😍😍! You're awesome! Keep going!😎
@prateekshachatterjee3168 3 жыл бұрын
I'm literally in tears right now...because I came across your channel and I cannot stop admiring you and getting inspired by you, Aileen. I will be graduating soon. But am so lost and stuck. My life is so messy right now. but if am feeling even lil better, lil hopeful right now, its all because of you :'( i so wish i could hug you and tell you how much I'm grateful to you for making such life-changing videos and lessons :'( You are like an angel with the guiding torch. You're an extremely beautiful soul, Aileen :) Please keep motivating. Keep inspiring. And keep spreading those words of love and courage. the world needs people like you. ❤
@rosegoldmermaid 5 жыл бұрын
Wow Aileen I'm really gonna need this! Thanks for the constant GREAT content! 💓 Lavendaire is THE BOSS! She inspired me to create my own channel about self love and personal growth 💪 LOVE YOU AILEEN! Thank you for the amazing inspiration.
@SimpleHappyZen 5 жыл бұрын
Such lovely advice, thanks Aileen! 😄🌱✌🏻 I can relate to the comfort zone shrinking when working from home 😊 It's definitely something I need to keep in mind
@dineshwagadare 5 жыл бұрын
I love your videos. They are so helpful , useful and calm.❤️❤️
@eydsgn 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you! ❤️ Thanks for this motivational speech. I needed it. I love your videos and content. I wish we were friends.😊 It would be great to talk with someone like you. I am trying to find out my own way.. who really I am, after a difficult and depressing time. I am proud of me that I am healthy again and now I need clarity but I know I have to give myself time even if it's hard to be patient but one day everything will work out for me. for the best. I believe, everything happens for a reason. Again, thanks for this video! ❣️
@arannivian 5 жыл бұрын
I work from home too and what you said about social anxiety was right. Whenever I go out, there's something 'hit' you to step back and stay safe in the comfort zone. Now I think that I should go out more often :') thanks for your advices, Aileen!
@isabellab5806 5 жыл бұрын
Just graduated from HS and while I do not consider myself lost in life and know where I’m heading, this served as a great source of inspiration and motivation💛 thank you
@victoriasosing2639 4 жыл бұрын
Hi, I am just a newbie here been watching your vlogs and I learned a lot from it so far. I love that you put a subtitle at your video, especially that my surroundings is so loud so eventhough I cannot hear it, I love how I read it, and remember it. love watching your vlog from the Philippines!!!
@faraesthetics7161 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you this come right at the moment!! You are such an inspiration Aileen!❤❤❤
@belli9281 5 жыл бұрын
thank you!! ure a godsend i really needed some general life advice right now.
@AnnChan 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. More power and God Bless
@meetalipalekar3168 5 жыл бұрын
One of the most underrated channel 🤗 u need more subscribers
@NatH-mi9gd 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this, I'm really thankful for you and your channel. You are like the big sister I never had
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
aww 💕
@kimarroxii5154 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you LaviLoves for your kind and sweet words for motivation in life. :)
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@sarast7768 4 жыл бұрын
This is one of your best videos😍❤u are so amazing Aileen😊
@juliacattarossi3992 5 жыл бұрын
hey, aileen. i'd like to tell u how calm and happy your videos make me feel. i'm always looking forward to watch your videos since you give wise and sensible advice and just the way you are motivates me to realize more things day to day and be active in some sort of way. hope you're doing gr8 ;)
@dynamitereborn99 3 жыл бұрын
Hiya. I'm nearly 22 and graduating in a year's time and I needed this! Thanks!
@hellocat1302 5 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your videos and the positive energy you seek to spread. I personally try to invest in my relationship with God everyday so I try to relate to your videos through that form of self-betterment. I wanted to share that for me personally, it can be challenging for me to hear about manifesting this dream life for myself when I know that God is truly the one bringing me blessings. We are the most important to our lives at the end of the day but I feel like our jobs on this earth isn’t to just make ourselves happy but to help others as well. But of course, we need to be in a good place mentally in order to help others! ☺️ I know that many people are discovering self-care and how important it is so thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom! 💖
@rizapaolahawkeye 5 жыл бұрын
Amazing video. I really needed to hear something like this.
@daughterofchrist4726 5 жыл бұрын
You're so good in every way...you're beauty with brain ...I'm so much obsessed with your video,it's making my life so much easy and you 're making me a better person with Your every single video..it's so much helpful...thank you so much for your hard work for ourselves..keep your good on..much love and best wishes.
@katiemynette4285 4 жыл бұрын
Heart of Kentucky. I'm much older than you, and I'm experiencing a real growth spurt. My grandmother said we grow our whole lives. So, it doesn't really have anything to do with chronological age. You have many good ideas. Some of them may take a lifetime.
@peyam6895 5 жыл бұрын
I loved it the advices were really good and of course i write them down...love you dear 🧡🙌🏻
@savi3165 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! I never knew that I could be motivated this much in just 16 minutes. It's my first time here and I'm already in love with these tips and content. I'm definitely subscribing. Thank you ❤️😊
@_withluvrxmy8979 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for these advices , i feel happy when i watch your videos honestly because you motivate me 💜
@lucindasmith9619 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all of this advice My favorite one of your videos is the stress one because I am very stressed from school lately
@ashleetunnell1101 5 жыл бұрын
Just graduated and I needed this ❤️ Thank you
@Audrey-vf8gb 5 жыл бұрын
Wow, I really needed this. Thank you so much! Anytime I nedd inspiration and more guidance, I look up to you. You truly help a lot. Thank you!!
@amruthamadhavannair1056 5 жыл бұрын
This is what I really needed now.! I was lost somewhere and couldn't find and its was difficult to track on. You helped me at the right time.! 😘😘
@thinphilanthropist4139 5 жыл бұрын
One of my fav quotes is this: No wind is a good wind for those who don't know where they are going.
@idajosefino 5 жыл бұрын
you don't understand how much i needed these tips. thank you, as always. x
@thahav2772 3 жыл бұрын
Thnku for everything cause Ur advice and the way you live changed me so long ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@RababAlhunaidi 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the motivation. That was very helpful
@hananaitahmedouali1965 5 жыл бұрын
Oh what a coincidence, rabab i love your channel thanks for your valuable contents keep going😊
@hellymichealroberts357 5 жыл бұрын
This video made my life a whole lot better thank u
@mayweallread4731 5 жыл бұрын
amazing tips !! thank you just graduated college so this is very inspirational
@SonicaSuon Жыл бұрын
Thank you Aileen ! U r so inspiring ! ❤
@heyjhood 5 жыл бұрын
i needed to hear this ~ thank you so much!
@Klara_is_finding_herself 4 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear these pieces od advice. Thank you ❤
@jcwalrus 5 жыл бұрын
Excited about your new course! Is it relevant for an over 50 who is still finding her way?
@mlpdiamonds7530 5 жыл бұрын
I love this video Lavendarie ( sorry if I spelt it wrong). I've been watching your videos for a while and I love them. They have really help me. And I was wondering if you have any advice for homesickness.
@itsaboutangel 5 жыл бұрын
Yay! You’re close to a million subs! So happy 💓
@rafaelicedrim3904 2 жыл бұрын
Yours videos are so amazing. I love learning with you :)
@RealPolya 9 ай бұрын
Aileen, thank you for being such a light! I am so inspired by you and your story :)
@lavendaire 8 ай бұрын
thank you for your kind words! ♡
@nidhi9746 5 жыл бұрын
Love it!!! This video really inspired me to pursue my dreams!
@alexadilone22 5 жыл бұрын
I’m a recent grad! Thanks for the video
@Simon-je7ko 4 жыл бұрын
I really like your channel. Your videos really improve my life. It makes me see things differently. We only regret the chances that we didn't take.
@mukulikamukherjee5754 4 жыл бұрын
You are amazing.. Your videos helped me grow... Thank you love 🌼
@missmisschelle 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for another amazing video with amazing advice ❤️
@anni1619 5 жыл бұрын
Best timing Just graduated! Greetings, Aileen!!
@melissameli6474 5 жыл бұрын
love you keep up the good work
@wafaaali8278 5 жыл бұрын
Journaling is really a great way to know what is your inner voice
@winifredkal 5 жыл бұрын
I'm a Nigerian graduate!!! Thank you for this💙
@arline6528 5 жыл бұрын
so inspiring and eye opening 💕🌸 thank you so much 😊🙏🏼
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
thank you for being here 💕
@kiaramnm 5 жыл бұрын
hey i know u
@arline6528 5 жыл бұрын
Kiara Vanhaerents haha :)))
@chatswithny1348 3 жыл бұрын
Good advice, thanks for sharing
@khamillee 5 жыл бұрын
This is life changing. I really loveeeeee your videossss. They are all so motivational to live your life in a good way💖🌟
@bananamilkoo859 5 жыл бұрын
I AM SO PROUD OF YOU , LOVE YOU💛
@spaces3345 5 жыл бұрын
Omg how did you know I needed to hear this?!?❤❤
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
the universe is guiding you 💕
@intentionalliving7326 3 жыл бұрын
Great advice at any time ☀️✨✨
@Stephaniealicianaturalhair 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for giving this advice ! Moving forward !!!!!! :)
@payaltalekar1866 5 жыл бұрын
Love this whole message in the vedio. I was needing this at this point of my life where I am at choice point in my career. Thankyou for sharing insights about this topic..
@nurerreyanajusi3207 Жыл бұрын
Hello my love, welcome back to lavendaire🥰🥰. U're so inspiring dear🥰. I'am yana 25 years old from Malaysia. All of your videos was so beneficial to me. Thanks for all guide, inspiration and motivation. May god Allah SWT bless you whereever you are 🥰🥰
@kaitlynlee3384 4 жыл бұрын
This deserves more attention. Thank you
@superadna8502 5 жыл бұрын
thank you sis
@hibak8196 5 жыл бұрын
The shrinking of comfort zone is so freaking real
@VanAnh-bw8np 5 жыл бұрын
You inspire me alot! Thank you and have a wonderful day! From Vietnam
@hannajalbuna3257 3 жыл бұрын
You are such an inspiration❤️
@hy930807 5 жыл бұрын
Uni got my feel so fulfilled and happy and more confident. After uni I just feel like my life paused...and stuck in time. Month after month no reply or rejection to the jobs. I loose motivation and passion to draw as a result no new portfolio to apply job with everyday I jus feel like I’m wasting life
@alexandrachrobakova9394 5 жыл бұрын
I’m from Czech Republic, I graduated and thank you so much for this video ❤️🥰
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