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@patriciavasara10513 жыл бұрын
50 yr old woman here who has been in many relationships. My advice: Don't act, don't play difficult to get, don't make him jealous because whatever mask you decide to hide behind will eventually fall of, yes: you will get busted sooner or later. Be authentic, be yourself. Have a good life that doesn't spin around men, have hobbies, passions and goals. Pursue them. Be happy single, but if the right person comes along and makes your life more amazing grab him. If he ghosts you or play games he was never the right person to begin with, better you figure that out sooner rather than after 2 kids and a mortgage. Have boundaries. Finding a good man who you're compatible with is not that easy and you will kiss a few frogs in the way. Don;t be scared. Life is short.
@caro87123 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@cristie71543 жыл бұрын
Thanks ❤️
@cristie71543 жыл бұрын
Yeah these advices dont realy work for a long term relation. ,,Don't let him see you'' when you live together? I have doubts.
@orcuttcat3 жыл бұрын
Another 50 year old here , and I second this .
@koygoddess70803 жыл бұрын
Facts. 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
@rebeccajones86284 жыл бұрын
Just IGNORE them. Go about your life. That works.
@ciggytwiggy4 жыл бұрын
That is true
@rinnetease4 жыл бұрын
true hehe i just logged out my account for a day so there would be no notifs and so when i logged in , bruh i got the "i miss u" message from him LMAO
@pamelalott4334 жыл бұрын
Awesome tips!! I really needed to hear this! Thank you!🙂
@Angel-sh7bz4 жыл бұрын
一郎 lucky💀
@sweetgirl4u2474 жыл бұрын
It does
@TT-yf5qs4 жыл бұрын
I wasn’t looking for another full time job
@sadiehill47644 жыл бұрын
Girl same 😂😂😂
@maribelsohan67254 жыл бұрын
I hear you 😂😂😂
@notoriouslysue4 жыл бұрын
It's not at all. It's worth it.
@roshondarichard40494 жыл бұрын
Kk Wats right
@All_starrSquad4 жыл бұрын
Exactly.. I will stay single
@GenniferLee4 жыл бұрын
Women need to focus on themselves and not revolve their lives around pleasing men.
@marialester18824 жыл бұрын
So true...
@jilldurham54984 жыл бұрын
I do just that but it isn't meant to be with these men.
@chae14614 жыл бұрын
but yet we’re all watching this videos.
@victoriahaas93644 жыл бұрын
@@chae1461 but that is ok too. always have an open mind and be always a little detached.
@victoriahaas93644 жыл бұрын
they are simply not worth it. Just have a great life with our without them. not very important at the end of the day. So all this advice he gives is funny to watch and honestly exhausting. Just have fun out there girls!! don't take men seriously. They don't take us that seriously and this guy proves it with all this exhausting advice. hahahahahaha
@xoxoemilyxoxo39223 жыл бұрын
"Keep your social circle strong so you don't even have time to miss him." My social anxiety: "say what now?"
@Dragonwithagirltattoo33 жыл бұрын
Right? 😅
@christinaradebe44873 жыл бұрын
🤣😂🤣😂 thats me
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤.....
@jessywest62063 жыл бұрын
This wont work for me because i literally dont hang out with anyone, and i have literally no friends🤣 R.I.P Me
@jessywest62063 жыл бұрын
@@karenlong5282 thats so stupid. Nobody wants their toxic exes back. Get a life. You should have moved on to someone new. People like this are ridiculous. I have absolutely no sympathy for people like this.
@oliviah.47414 жыл бұрын
Good God, Imma stay single...
@cloryl59684 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha...
@aroura96334 жыл бұрын
Ikr......
@crimsonravenstarseed77994 жыл бұрын
😆🤣
@marybingham41734 жыл бұрын
Sounds like way to much work😫
@naomicarson95864 жыл бұрын
When he said say no.... for no reason i cant
@conniemaravilla24364 жыл бұрын
I did this and he started thinking I wasn’t interested so he left me 😂
@lonelybae36034 жыл бұрын
Connie Maravilla yup it’s confusing
@brookebenton81924 жыл бұрын
😄
@Sunflower-uh3em4 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅😂😂
@La-Vie-Of-Sadie4 жыл бұрын
Samee!
@gabrielladots59904 жыл бұрын
1. He is not ready 2. He was not that into u
@Elizabeth-mf3dn4 жыл бұрын
It sounds like having a second job 🤣😩
@dianajohn58634 жыл бұрын
You see😀😃😄😄😃
@jenniferpratt0604 жыл бұрын
My God yes
@Empowered_University4 жыл бұрын
😂
@bluedeveraux1864 жыл бұрын
Yup a super laborious , mentally taxing one!
@mefo52694 жыл бұрын
Babysitting
@ohlalamuah58324 жыл бұрын
If you want a long lasting relationship stop acting like an immature adult playing games. Be wise and treat others the way you want to be treated....just saying.
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
I mean, if the "golden rule" and courtship meshed that well together, that would be fantastic! Unfortunately, the are rules to courtship. I don't profess games in my videos, but rather shifts in mindset and priorities. I feel women fare much better by leaning back in the beginning, letting the man lead (because he needs that to feel invested in you) and making yourself a priority before any man. Once you're in a committed, long-lasting relationship, the rules change ("golden rule" all day!). But if a woman gushes her heart out to a man in the first month of dating him because she wants him to do the same in return, he's going to bolt. Sad but true.
@ohlalamuah58324 жыл бұрын
@@datingcoachryanpatrick coutship is a period in which a couple have the opportunity to get to know each other so why pretend to be someone you are not, why play the hard to get card to keep him interested, i mean if a guy really see you as a potential life partner he will accept you the way you are and if he doesn't well maybe he isn't the right guy for you and you need to move on. Please ladies don't sabotage your relationships with stupid games...put aside your fears and insecurities and be yourselves, give love without expectations, a wise guy always appreciate a wise woman who is not afraid to express her feelings.
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
@@ohlalamuah5832 I'm 100% OK with disagreement on this channel, and I think we might just be missing each other on this one. 🙂 Again, I don't promote games here. If only love and attraction were as simple as showing a man love right when you feel it (when he may not even be interested *yet* or on the same page at all). Either way, I appreciate your perspective here 😉
@narcismebelgie4 жыл бұрын
Ryan Patrick If a man were available only once a week for some time, I would think he has a double life. ;) And arranging especially an event with friends - to trigger in him that you have other options. That’s also strategy. We have to teach people to develop selflove and from there we will do the right things.
@ladennayoung29394 жыл бұрын
Yep! Some people are full of games.
@marah32984 жыл бұрын
Men love the chase. Some women feel bad about doing these things, but the truth is, you’re doing them a favor. Men don’t enjoy relationships with doormat women. Always have strong boundaries.
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Yes and women shouldn't feel bad *at all* because men appreciate these things in the end. Great points, Mara! Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries! 🙂
@marah32984 жыл бұрын
Ryan Patrick aww, thanks for your response!
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
@@marah3298 You bet Mara! Thanks for watching and chiming in on these threads! 😃
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤.....
@Poodle_Gun5 ай бұрын
You misspelled "bored"
@chrissynight66884 жыл бұрын
Isn't that interesting that we do all this naturally, when we are not interested in a guy, and it makes him go crazy after us ?
@kimberlyjanice82674 жыл бұрын
In Monica from Friends famous catchphrase voice "I know!".
@christinecarver16654 жыл бұрын
👏 👏 👏 👏
@GoldenLight224 жыл бұрын
Totally true.
@FarihaIslam-ji4kx4 жыл бұрын
oh god so accurate that it gave me goosebumps
@NK-yo4um3 жыл бұрын
Yepppp😂😂
@sanazsu4 жыл бұрын
Well....I’m looking forward to meeting my husband....in heaven! 🤲🏾 😩 😂
@christinaradebe44873 жыл бұрын
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣 you done ✅
@christylarsen49713 жыл бұрын
Yup im actually so sick of trying to date im looking forward to dying alone and having my cats eat me.
@sanazsu3 жыл бұрын
@@christylarsen4971 Giiiiiirrrrrrrl 😩😆
@Jihanf2924 жыл бұрын
It seems a lot of work. Screw him
@margaritam.91184 жыл бұрын
Jihan Faradilla but not literally 😌
@aaliyahyasmin31583 жыл бұрын
yes that's actually what I'm trying to avoid doing and its proven quite difficult...
@Yani-lf9vl4 жыл бұрын
I need to stop watching these videos.. everytime I watch em I realize I eff'ed up all the steps! 🤦♀️ and now I feel crappy.
@Dragonwithagirltattoo33 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@brokenwideopen3 жыл бұрын
Bhaha me too. But I am learning SO much.
@Bogna13 жыл бұрын
We are not perfect, we all make mistakes and many things from past, childhood effect our choices and way we act. Don't be hard on yourself, let yourself learn, grow and appreciate your effort and values. Good luck on your journey (I am also on my way)/
@tracivela91373 жыл бұрын
Same here.....😭😭😥😂😂
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤.....
@852AKong4 жыл бұрын
How To Make Any Guy Miss You- Ryan Patrick: Make yourself a rare commodity and prompt him to put in the work. 1. Don't initiate reaching out. 2. Be sparse with the details (not even in a long-term relationship; pull back on the things he doesn't need to know or none of his biz e.g. I'm busy NOT: I'm going out with my friends now but I can do Friday) 3. Don't be a yes girl (probably a doormat); say NO. 4. Showcase the goods, then remove them. Be totally present when dating him during first phase, but don't see him more than once a week for the first 6 weeks of dating him. 5. Host a group event, for him to see you socialise. Not to try to make him jealous, but just that you have other options when it comes to men. 6. Giving him the rare gift of intimacy (not sex the first 30 days; intimacy is not sex). 7. Be OK not missing him - don't idealise him; have him wondering whether he is missed. Keep your social life strong.
@inesyh65614 жыл бұрын
Goshhhh
@lindseyt6704 жыл бұрын
Well I fucked up
@momentsformoms94674 жыл бұрын
Linds N lmao me too.
@23magneta3 жыл бұрын
I did these things when I was young and guys ended up thinking I wasn't interested. Lol. It's best to just be yourself. Don't play games.
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤.....
@itsjess28594 жыл бұрын
“This isn’t a game” “You need to have a strategy” 🤷🏼♀️😩
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Yup! If you don't know where you're heading, love has a tendency to meander and go down some weird roads if you're not careful 😬
@itsjess28594 жыл бұрын
Ryan Patrick I love your information and honesty about it all. It’s great! Very insightful
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤.....
@itsjess28593 жыл бұрын
@@datingcoachryanpatrick oh boy i have been down some dark and twisted roads 😂
@chiarabales17684 жыл бұрын
The thing is, I have tried this method of making someone miss me. Doesn’t work if he or she just doesn’t want to give a hoot. I think you have to live your life and let what comes come and what goes go. It is that simple.
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤.....
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤....
@neardeathexperience11114 жыл бұрын
I was about to join a dating site but this has exhausted me before signing up 😃😜🤣🤦♀️💁♀️🤷♀️ *taking a nap*
@bjg40022 ай бұрын
Oh no not dating sites ,lol ! Married men hang out there!!! Trust me.
@emmaytaccount4 жыл бұрын
If this is how men work. I seriously can't be arsed
@margaritam.91184 жыл бұрын
Emma Jones 😆😆😆
@nsingh3234 жыл бұрын
Well, if a guy is this complicated than I don’t even want him because I m a doctor and he should know that if I m texting him back I m interested oh him and please at 30 I so don’t need to play games with anyone. Just be honest and behave like grown ups and grow some spine because I have enough stress at work and don’t need that in personal life. It’s sounds so complicated to be honest and I wish I was into no one.
@Anna-je8sg4 жыл бұрын
When a men really wants you it doesn‘t matter if you write him as soon as you see his message or say yes when you have time.
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤....
@Anna-je8sg3 жыл бұрын
@@karenlong5282 god no please not I'd rather die
@anneg77733 жыл бұрын
@@Anna-je8sg lol 🤣🤣🤣 savage
@JulieMelillo4 жыл бұрын
If you have to manipulate, he really isn't into you. That said, do be confident and stand strong in yourself. That's attractive to everyone.
@catherinagianella18964 жыл бұрын
That's exactly what I was going to write Be genuine, be confident and cut the BS I feel sorry for men or women who have to play games...that s never going to be a deep meaningful connection. You will just attract people who love the chase.
@queenizationlabsexedselflo32284 жыл бұрын
Boys and girls. Just. Be. Yourself. Confidently. That’s the sexiest thing of you.
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤......
@Misspennylemon4 жыл бұрын
Jesus, this is too much hassle. Guess I'm gonna stay single 😿
@christinecarver16654 жыл бұрын
😔
@christylarsen49713 жыл бұрын
Amen to much of a hassle
@christinecarver16654 жыл бұрын
I'm a doormat. 😔 I need to learn how to say, "No!"
@sofiaelizondo1544 жыл бұрын
You are a princess and worthy of the best!
@christinecarver16654 жыл бұрын
@@sofiaelizondo154 Thank you so much!! 😄
@samirj13873 жыл бұрын
Is that really your face?if so,i'm into you cuz i wanna make you my queen and let you to be my crown
@KristinThorisdottir3 жыл бұрын
Christine Carver doormat is maybe too strong.. however many people are codependent. Could it be that?
@marsrock4453 жыл бұрын
That really hit me when he called me a doormat
@jessiewilliams21504 жыл бұрын
No one I like wants a relationship with me so...
@susannejensen42954 жыл бұрын
Same.
@christmassnow374 жыл бұрын
The one I have I don't want and the one I want only wants sex...go figure
@mightyobserver124 жыл бұрын
You're pretty
@upserlivinthedream4 жыл бұрын
Same here Jessie! Keep your head up girlie! There's no way we are meant to go thru this life all alone. ;)
@kallias.35034 жыл бұрын
@@christmassnow37 you just described my life...
@lauramiller17724 жыл бұрын
So all men like Scorpios, got it. 😂😜
@adjorkorsowah52704 жыл бұрын
LMMFAO
@melissalewis53834 жыл бұрын
Men and women Scorpio’s we all ready know this! And why did I watch your video? Because I’m bored 😐 #scorpiowoman🤷♀️
@libralove73434 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same.. this is a Scorpio tactic. I can’t....
@jennifera90344 жыл бұрын
HAHA IKR!!
@kellyanderson76244 жыл бұрын
Been dealing with a PSYHCO, CONTROLLING, NARCISSIST Scorpio, he needs to get over himself. Smh
@crownedone88374 жыл бұрын
"Seeing him only once a week for the first six weeks of dating" wow, that DOES seem counterintuitive...but makes sense at the same time.🤯
@youcanEAD4 жыл бұрын
I am so happy that I didnt have to do this with my boyfriend. This is too much for me 😆. I was friends with my boyfriend for 12 years before we started dating so he fully knew and understood me. 3 years together so far and it's been the best!
@ladennayoung29394 жыл бұрын
That's good!
@gavhlev28534 жыл бұрын
Ladenna Young But one day he’ll get bored might be tempted to be with other women...
@youcanEAD4 жыл бұрын
@@gavhlev2853 lol that's quite the assumption about a relationship you know nothing about. Anyone can get bored with anything. A guy or girl can get bored of someone playing games to keep them interested and move onto someone more willing to give them the attention they want as well. What it breaks down to is absolutely loving the person for who they truly are for a long lasting relationship. But that requires both people to feel that way. It's hard to find. I was lucky I found it. We have now known each other for 15 years. I think if one of us was going to get bored we would have already. We have had nothing but a blast.
@youcanEAD4 жыл бұрын
@Cindy Lou it is! It's like one day it just clicked. I was actually talking about him to another girl and telling her how great and sweet he was and I was like wait....wtf am I doing? Why am I not with him? And then it just all came together from there. I know we are lucky. I have a lot of other guy friends that it would have never worked out with like this. But for him and I it did. It just clicked.
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear it's working out! "Friends first" is the way to go! 😉
@janeparsons92194 жыл бұрын
I think it depends a lot on the man in question. If he has a healthy ego and good self esteem then all these things will probably work well. If he is low in confidence or traumatised then he will never advance himself enough to initiate anything. Not all men - especially as you get older are without flaws and a history that can make a person loose self confidence, that doesn't make them less valuable and your interest might be a game changer for them...
@Poodle_Gun5 ай бұрын
I don't think guys who overchase have high self-esteem; I think they have something broken in them. This behavior attracts low value women: borderlines, sociopaths, narcissists, addicts. These are the same dudes that tell you that they always end up dating crazy women: they do. It's similar to a porn addiction.
@varsharajput11203 жыл бұрын
I seriously know my crush doesn't like me but still I watch these kinda videos lol 😂😂♥️
@varsharajput11203 жыл бұрын
@@danielokosun8543 awwwwwwww that's so cute !!!
@elisakrivas3 жыл бұрын
This sounds like a lot of work. Can't I just be myself and hope for the best? 😁
@sweetsmarts35884 жыл бұрын
F*** these mind games! Whatever happened to just falling in love?
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
When has "just falling in love" served anybody? If you don't know what to do with that love, how to nurture it, how to grow it.... how the heck does that benefit or serve anybody truly? Love involves *work* and most people don't want to deal with that part 🙂
@sweetsmarts35884 жыл бұрын
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Falling in love why I got married and stay married for 13 years until our son died from SIDS...Thank you very much! 🤨
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
I’m very sorry for your loss, Sweet Smarts. I feel for most people, love ends up becoming much more complicated than the act of “falling” itself. It isn’t the phase where love ends up or settles(I.e. The “honeymoon” phase); it’s simply an entry point, based on my response to your original comment.
@sweetsmarts35884 жыл бұрын
@Pizza Passta I will agree with that! The mindsets of people have so changed. Relationships take time, which people act like they don't have anymore.
@sweetsmarts35884 жыл бұрын
@Pizza Passta I appreciate any video that warns you of pitfalls, regardless of what they are. I guess I'm glad I'm in my late 40s instead of my 20s. At this stage of my life, I'm not hoping and waiting for someone to "wife me" and give me a family.
@grisettramsey39024 жыл бұрын
Sorry, I'm not the type of woman to wait around for something to happen by adhering to a set of rules. I listen to my female instincts and just say what I feel if necessary. If he likes you, he'll stick around. Some of these tips can backfire on you.
@newgaim4 жыл бұрын
This video tells me to be the complete opposite of my personality and if these tips really work, I'd probably prefer to stay alone forever.
@rhondaguerra12364 жыл бұрын
I think you have great ideas for new relationships. The only thing I would caution your viewers on is the being unavailable thing. It's important not to be to available, but my thing is if you don't have time for me, I don't have time for you. It's a balance and if it's off it could deflect a possible match.
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Good point, Rhonda! I try to make that distinction when I bring up the idea of availability, but I'll really try driving that point home more clearly in the future 😉Thanks for watching!
@frenchiegonewild72644 жыл бұрын
Yep, everything that's easy attainable is simply boring and less interesting
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
No doubt! Thanks Andrew!
@meenanaicker89994 жыл бұрын
@@datingcoachryanpatrick guys I think my boyfriend is getting cold feet and I am devastated
@keumnimlim24214 жыл бұрын
Omg Ryan is saving you so so much time!! I'm surprised to see the whiny comments! I'm a single mom re entering dating scene after 10yrs, and I learned the hard way that everything he says is true. I would send good morning text every morning and be so predictable. Ryan, thanks for the content you put out there! So helpful!
@riehafsah44694 жыл бұрын
Did all of the 7, he ended up thinking that I went out with other guys or looked for a chance to socialize with more guys Men ARE so complicated
@BaibaVulgaris4 жыл бұрын
Well, its only logical :))
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤......
@FreedomUninterrupted4 жыл бұрын
How to make any guy miss you:... Move on or Find something important to do!
@AnnetteMarieHairPrincess4 жыл бұрын
“Weeds out” the ones that aren’t that into you and you are left open for the right one, meant to be. Save you from drama, chasing (ew) , disappointment and wasting time. Sex: As my mom use to say “why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free.” That still cracks me up. She was right.
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤......
@saphy5324 жыл бұрын
Met a guy on tinder and i really like him. Been watching a lot of your videos
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤......
@drnicoleosaji34354 жыл бұрын
In essence don’t give him your heart and don’t fall in love Wow they should scrap up all those fairy tale books we idealized love by
@hdp88894 жыл бұрын
I never initiate anything, i do me if they want to follow then follow if not im still doing me regardless. BYE and NO
@jasminelove1014 жыл бұрын
Yeah I agree , when someone sees u have spontaneous life, it’s good energy. And everyone wants to be a part of tht energy😍 it’s all about energy/good vibes. Like Chris brown said “let the energy flow” haha
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Totally good energy! Just make sure you're doing it for yourself so that energy is genuine 🙂And you're the first person to quote Chris Brown on here, I love it! Lol
@jasminelove1014 жыл бұрын
Ryan Patrick yeah always genuine :) and thanks for getting back! Now Thts genuine because I know everyone has a busy life☺️
@haleymoon6574 жыл бұрын
This is so helpful thank you. I’m trying to date for the first time in two years after my seven years long marriage and I’ve found it very challenging and at times hard to understand men. They reach outs tons initially and get you very interested but then as soon as you show them that you are they go MIA . It’s the strangest thing to me and I can’t tell if it’s because they have completely lost interest in me now or what lol I hate the game of it all.
@svp53104 жыл бұрын
Imagine Ryan Patrick being your bestfriend
@lifewithtamia58874 жыл бұрын
I don't know how to react😂I'm pretty much the girl who did everything he didn't want us to do
@sorayanasser5584 жыл бұрын
I would not want anybody who I have to play so many mind games to keep them interested. A healthy relationship should never be that much work.
@queenofcups884 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤.....
@onatnomramiel3884 жыл бұрын
this is a loooot of work😆im just gona be me,take me or leave me.
@lak1294Ай бұрын
This is the best video I've seen on what The Rules authors (from the 1990s) counselled. Bravo Ryan! 👍
@penelope55344 жыл бұрын
I'm old and married now, but excellent advice. Wish you were around when I was still dating.
@lanaodierna75314 жыл бұрын
Yeah I’m a needy lap dog! 🥺
@LovettbalngoodsLLC4 жыл бұрын
Some men love you saying YES! like he would pay for my dinner when we go out or movie etc. but I will PULL OUT MY CARD /money and say “I got it” and I would say NO. THEN HE WOULD PAY ANYWAYS. Just knowing I can take care of MYSELF is turning him on. Men love a Independent woman. And I now that we are together now. I don’t mind splitting a bill. He still pay. Haha. I love ❤️ that man
@olabalu65973 жыл бұрын
All this is really great advice Ryan :). With my ex boyfriend I was answering and being too available for him, abandoning my own things. That was the most stupid thing to do
@theletoutshow86754 жыл бұрын
Amazing! I need to focus on myself and make myself better day by day and he'll end up fearing to lose the high quality of a woman that i am.
@oliviadell56184 жыл бұрын
When texting, however long he took to text me back during a text conversation, I try and wait at least half that time if not longer. In the long run, it helps me calm down.
@vivianmicheau31254 жыл бұрын
I love your facial expressions when you talk. It's adorably funny.
@michele82084 жыл бұрын
This information is true. Always play hard to get. Always be unreliable, unpredictable. My grand mother taught me this. Men are very visual, image IS everything. Never try to please him, that BORES him.
@Tyreyan4 жыл бұрын
You're different from the other date coaches because they don't give you the word or words and if they do it's just- eh. But your videos actually make sense, and you even told us the word was 'no' without forcing us to watch the video (I will anyway) and your videos have actually been helping with my relationship!
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@gemimahapuch89804 жыл бұрын
No it isn't a game at all!and i agree 100% all Ryan's teaching..such an informative.thank you Ryan you never fail to amaze us regard all your Relationships ideas and opinions😁😁😁😁👌💞💕
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Awww that's so sweet! Thanks Gemima! 🙂
@scottblain5394 жыл бұрын
Seems like a pathway to a shallow relationship that’s bound to fail eventually.
@littlMousie3 жыл бұрын
Be loyal but never let him forget you have options. Be safe for him to open up to, and encourage him but don't be afraid to call him out for dismissive behavior. Treat him important but don't make him the center of your universe and rearrange your whole day around him. Finish what you were doing before you text back, apologize for the delay if it was longer than a half hour. Men are not complicated, they don't like to be chased, and the awareness of a little competition will cause them to focus on winning you. Be up front about what you want and what you are offering then stick to your boundaries. Every now and then tell him you will be out for the day and be out for the day, not hugging your phone...wanna make him smile? Partway through that day tell him you are thinking of him. Most importantly dont ever let him get away with not treating you how you want to be treated! If he starts slacking, tell him you aren't feeling it right now. Never forget that for every guy out there willing to treat you bad, there's another wishing he had the chance to show that other dude how it is done ;)
@notoriouslysue4 жыл бұрын
I've been listening to a few of your videos of advice to women. I'm older now and been married 25 years. BUT you speak truth. After getting my heart broken a few times when I was young. I actually thot up much of these things as well. Never be too easy or to hard to get... be a mystery, let your secrets tricky out over time. Make sure you look him in the eyes in the bedroom and never let him forget that night. Anyway... I was proposed to at least 100 times before I got married and stayed married. You are helping women who want to find a good man... so many feminists don't realize they will want a marriage one day.. and it will be too late. Oh, also the 'fear of losing each other' just a bit, is a very good point. You did a really good job!
@TT-yf5qs4 жыл бұрын
Imagine always saying you’re busy and you both actually like each other, then he thinks you are too busy or playing games and he moves on lol smh
@nata34673 жыл бұрын
I find this exhausting
@MyAngelCastiel4 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I don't even have a social circle. 🤣
@elinepols28313 жыл бұрын
That awkward moment when he says don't be the first one to text/call but if your not yall are just not gonna text at all😂
@anneg77733 жыл бұрын
I think we should stop texting them and just say BYEE
@janett37284 жыл бұрын
What if he does the same thing to you?
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤......
@missanthropy22514 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video on what to do if you showed too much interest and were an open book in the beginning and how to reverse it if it’s possible?
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
This would be an interesting one! Noted! 😉
@theresebryant25264 жыл бұрын
Yep. Me too.
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤.......
@DaggetFireGirl3734 жыл бұрын
Make sure you tell them in the beginning that your just dating so it doesn't go into straight up boyfriend
@peta71663 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ryan I love your videos...I’ve stumbled across them at a time where they are so relevant 🙄 the saying “When the student is ready the teacher will come” is soooo true, thanks again 😊
@datingcoachryanpatrick3 жыл бұрын
You bet! 🙂
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤........
@mariflorvlog89174 жыл бұрын
Ladies I didn't do anything to get a diamond ring on my finger,the guy pursued me,he protected me,he make my problems as his problems,we solved the problem together.I can tell you just be natural and and the real love will come to you effortlessly Godbless you all ladies 😘😘
@lylablueabdul55033 жыл бұрын
R u kidding me? I love a man who says yes to everything I say. I was with a guy like that for a few years and he has been hard to replace. Rare to find. Ha ha ha
@2020girlygirl4 жыл бұрын
How do you get them to miss when you are quarantined together?
@1stBornRubyRose4 жыл бұрын
So I don't need a dating couch but I love watching your videos. Good job Ryan.
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤..........
@esthermbindu733 жыл бұрын
Wow, i have really learned, the reason why i decided to look for advice is because i was married for only 3 years and he left me without any fighting, have been a lone for the past 13 years and now that my broken heart is healed I decided to look for a new love, thank you 👏👏👏👏👏
@JSMIN-gg3xl4 жыл бұрын
But when I say no they always complain and be like “wow you don’t wanna hangout with me”
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Just be like, "Yeah I'll hang out when I'm available. Why don't you hit me up next week and I'll check my schedule." 😉
@queenvenus35644 жыл бұрын
I totally messed up on my latest experience it seems
@meljstephan4 жыл бұрын
I got ghosted by a guy after 9 months of dating, albeit very casual dating. Like he stood me up for a date, never explained why, and never responded when I asked to meet to discuss the relationship (when I was going to break up with him). I kinda figured by now he might miss me even a little but he seems happier than ever. I'm fine with breaking up because that's his prerogative, but I wish I had an explanation or any sign whatsoever that I ever meant anything to him 😒 We were friends before dating, too, so he just flushed 4 years of friendship down the toilet.
@alextravelsph3 жыл бұрын
Nahh to many games, i’m honest on what i want and i’ll tell him if ok good if not byeee
@ferociouscherub98194 жыл бұрын
Great video! Going on a girls trip & sending pics of you having fun is a way to have him miss you!
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Yes, but I wouldn't text him those directly. That would come across maybe a little too obvious if it's too early in the relationship (under 3 months). I might instead throw those photos on Instagram if it makes you happy. Maybe he sees them, maybe he doesn't. That way, it isn't manipulative because you're not married to any sort of result by doing that 😉 BUT if it's been 3+ months with him, I think thats totally cool.
@ferociouscherub98194 жыл бұрын
Ryan Patrick; Great point!
@marah32984 жыл бұрын
Yes! Men love to see you go out and have fun with others, and it’s a classy way to trigger his jealousy!
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
@@marah3298 Classy indeed!
@lynlyn15934 жыл бұрын
Why can’t we just be honest about how we feel geeezzzz
@kimzastrow12684 жыл бұрын
Nobody misses me it is why I tossed all over the place and people have walked out the door and never came back that is a sad truth
@kimzastrow12684 жыл бұрын
How many times did you actually move in your life times how many times did your actually parents or people around you and I am not talking vacations just house to house....
@kristinb.2233 жыл бұрын
Hahah, the more of these I watch, the more I am convinced I will stay single.
@Peachiiiiiii4 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video on how to keep a long distant relationship going without face to face meeting or some techniques to make message not boring, please. Thanks
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
I've got anew video on long distance relationships coming out on New Year's Eve Sapphire! Stay tuned! 🙂
@Peachiiiiiii4 жыл бұрын
Ryan Patrick Aw Thank you. Looking forward to it!
@annepro55484 жыл бұрын
Like another lady said, I wish I had the guts to try dating a woman. Trying to date a man is just pointless.
@maryanne46063 жыл бұрын
Healthy to keep perspective and your own life going too. Aside from his reactions. Just to be your rational best self when you do interact.
@klickingkayasmr75854 жыл бұрын
All of these reasons are why guys we DON’T like, like us. 🤦🏾♀️ But honestly, ladies, step 1 is: he just has to like you. Because even if you do all this, IF HE DOESN’T like you, you’re playing yourself! Great video!
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤......
@arbel76554 жыл бұрын
Look, I know these are meant to help us understand the way men think and react but they leave me feeling disgusted and hollow for the games that "need" to be played. I get that you say it's not a game but I feels like that. It's a dance but a little ridiculous at times to be honest.
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
The problem is you're dealing with his subconscious mind a lot of the times. You simply have to communicate with that side of him differently than "straight conscious" communication. I address this really well about why it may feel like "games" in my video coming out this Monday dealing with *emotionally distant (and unavailable) men*, so be sure to check that out 😉
@arbel76554 жыл бұрын
@@datingcoachryanpatrick I will. I appreciate your thoughtful response given my whiney comment. I think I should forgo worrying about it until the exhaustion passes. Meanwhile I can prepare with your advice. Thank you :-)
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤........
@nociable4 жыл бұрын
Definitely games...regardless of how you want to call them.
@marjoriefin11714 жыл бұрын
Playing hard to get is a NO for me. If we like each other then GO, but if not then GOODBYE. Let's not waste each other's time, money & effort. Simple as that! 😏
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤.........
@dalbert-cv2dk4 жыл бұрын
I wish I heard this advice when I was young and single.
@Semitry4u4 жыл бұрын
Head games, yes means no, no means yes. Totally confused. thank goodness I dont engage in these games anymore. Too hard to figure it out.
@justineshaffer10594 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!
@anngreen34954 жыл бұрын
While you were advising us to be sparse with the details (which I also read as holding off on the story of one's life); keeping our lives full; having preferences and being able to voice them, etc, I thought - how safe you are keeping yourself if, in fact, he's really not as into you as you would have liked to believe he is. If he really is not that interested, then you've lost nothing, and especially not your hopes.
@trevorjohnson17494 жыл бұрын
Great advice I was going through a difficult break up used this technique and now my bf and I are back together thank you soo much
@nitz30124 жыл бұрын
Haha! my (now husband) asked me out three times before I said yes and said he loved me several months before I returned the words. I wasn’t unfriendly or aloof with him we had tons of fun, I just knew my value and wasn’t going to hand it over until I knew he was the right guy. Married over 15 yrs now ❤️ I think I also knew his worth at the time too and wasn’t going to string him along if I wasn’t sure. I had a lot of respect for him too.
@jodyjingles79684 жыл бұрын
What a lovely read this was.... Good on you :-) . This is what all us single ladies are striving for.
@desiremathabomokgope40803 жыл бұрын
I wish I found this channel earlier in my life
@karenlong52823 жыл бұрын
I know a man who can help you get your ex back, was the only person that helped me get my ex boyfriend back after 5 years of texting him (+1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤.....
@AngelWhitney19854 жыл бұрын
You ain’t lying cause I do this to men all the time and they won’t leave me the hell alone I just like being single don’t have time for relationships
@urszula21694 жыл бұрын
I'm happily married and still like to watch your videos. I find them empowering :)