How to Make your EX Regret Breaking up with you

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How to make your ex regret breaking up with you
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@twiston43 Жыл бұрын

They wanted you out of their life, so give them the gift of your absence.

@Sam-us8qt Жыл бұрын

The easiest way to stop remembering your ex is to talk to yourself "what is"your name" doing now?". Keep mentioning your own name instead of her name and she will not always be in your mind anymore.

@letlhogonoloramaboea1661 Жыл бұрын

I broke up with my ex and I don't regret it at all even if it hurts. I'm tired of being ignored and breadcrumbed. We have limits as people and I have had enough

@angels.digitaldiary Жыл бұрын

Same sis

@blacademic Жыл бұрын

That is totally understandable. You have to be strong in your decision when it comes to being mistreated. This one of the few exceptions where I say the dumpee should reach out first to make things right with the one who left

@alfrensuseno9263 Жыл бұрын

@@blacademic in this case should the ex reach him/her first ? Because I think my ex in same position

@blingblingnelida Жыл бұрын

@@blacademic Hola Coach Blac.. Appreciating your Genuine Professionalism. All the Videos are so Educational Understandable as well.😊 I am continuing in learning Listening Leaning on them... I enjoy them and applying it in my Journey of Life...I am in NO CONTACT WITH MY BELOVED ONE HE SEEMS QUIET FOR 33 DAYS....😢 Nèlida

@powerhousemethod Жыл бұрын

Good for you! God is please with you. I honour you

@plasticmonument320 Жыл бұрын

My ex reached out an hour ago because she can’t live on her own financially after 3 months. Sounds like she just regrets not having a provider. Wouldn’t even say goodbye to me. Not going to be used… Stay strong. Know your worth.

@blacademic Жыл бұрын

Proud of you! Definitely do not allow yourself to be used by anyone

@powerhousemethod Жыл бұрын

Exactly! I had two narc women leave me for the grass is Greener bahahaha

@rosemariefelgenhauer6957 Жыл бұрын

@@powerhousemethod😂😂😂

@rosemariefelgenhauer6957 Жыл бұрын

Im sorry .. I press mybe a wroy emoicob

@anniyangX Жыл бұрын

Where do I find generous men like you? I paid every dine every time we went out and I always overpaid to compensate for the no sex part I need my refund and I’m a good looking hot girl it’s not like he was forced to stick with a fat and ugly woman

@1111spiritualone Жыл бұрын

it’s been ten months no contact #there loss. they have no access to me unless they show up at my house. I’ve had nothing but blessings since they left. I don’t want them back at this point. i reflected and i have a lot of options. i was dumb to be so loyal and caring to them.

@shawny979 Жыл бұрын

Yes, Thank You. I feel the same.

@DcDiva521 Жыл бұрын

Sunday... Coach I did the no contact thing. Now I don't have the same feelings. I want to be left alone , don't want to be betrayed any longer. Thank you for helping my regain my worth.

@free2bme604 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this ! And the reminder they lost me I didn’t lose them !

@davidcoppotelli3957 Жыл бұрын

There LOSS Our GAIN

@paulwilliam8176 Жыл бұрын

I love making their heads spin with all that distance that they asked for! Your speaking the truth brother!

@sumeracass8651 Жыл бұрын

🎉 forreal

@bossbruda Жыл бұрын

65 days from the breakup, really going good, thanks a lot bro for the videos🤝❤️

@benithacalloway8286 Жыл бұрын

It took me 90 days

@cocobird8289 Жыл бұрын

90 days here.. 💪

@blacademic Жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching bro!

@chrisjones4131 Жыл бұрын

Bro, I so appreciate your videos! They have been apart my healing since my break up a month ago….

@lorriewinder3947 8 ай бұрын

Coach Blac you are amazing... Everytime I'm feeling depressed and listening to you,you make me feel more relaxed and confident...thank you!!!

@hexhub3826 Жыл бұрын

It's funny... At this point I don't think I care anymore... There's a lot of things I have to take care of, which includes my health and physique... And financial wealth... I kinda care, but I don't.... If that makes sense. I'm transitioning...

@Why19501 Жыл бұрын

And even after all that, I was sad but your videos really helped me thank you

@romanbukharevich9841 Жыл бұрын

Great video my ex and have been broken up since January and it's going real well I love being single and now she is with a loser boyfriend lol 😆😆 love it

@richardmagombo6647 Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@june922 Жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯 I am in same situation as you

@darkchthonian856 Жыл бұрын

My ex girlfriend regretted breaking up with me the very night that we last talked. I'm happy now I've been working on myself and I've been getting in shape. I haven't talked or seen her since August of last year, I was a wreck at first however, I moved forward with my life

@june922 Жыл бұрын

Been no contact for 10 month now with my ex and it feels good.

@EmilySandersLMT 6 ай бұрын

Sunday! I watch them all coach. You are a blessing and getting me through a really tough time right now! I’m grateful ❤❤❤

@antoniocavarelo7708 Жыл бұрын

Blac a lot's of thanks men , God Bless U 🙏❤

@unbreakablebuffy8150 Жыл бұрын

Great advice! Sunday ❤

@svitlanasamarina4546 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your kind words. You help me more then you'll ever know.

@tashab7524 Жыл бұрын

Sunday! Love your content, Coach!

@ruthdeliah2 Жыл бұрын

Sunday! This no contact thing can be so sticky and grey… you give the best advice though. Thank you!

@blacademic Жыл бұрын

Thanks man! It's hard, but it is necessary

@NessaVee73 Жыл бұрын

Watching. Love the advice

@jermainecrosland4263 9 ай бұрын

Sunday. Great videos 🙏🏾

@shirleynorman4492 Жыл бұрын

Thanks, listen to you. It helps me a lot..... very helpful 👌

@Adam-op9wo Жыл бұрын

Sunday. Appreciate the wisdom

@-alyssajram Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the video!

@benitocarlos7240 Жыл бұрын

Sunday Thank you coach!

@NewyJon7787 3 ай бұрын

Really needed this today, Thank you bro

@Kelliedavis Жыл бұрын

You have such great advice. I'm new to the channel. My ex thinks the grass is greener on the other side. He realize whY he has lost one day. It's hard because we have a daughter together

@danasmith8390 Жыл бұрын

THIS Preach. Is it Sunday yet? 🤔 this man speaks truth

@jensennnicole 11 ай бұрын

Sunday thank you for your perspective

@THEAMERICANDREAM1107 2 ай бұрын

For sure you this video is helpful

@tineitei5392 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!! Sunday

@KyleDittemore Жыл бұрын

Appreciate you!

@powerhousemethod Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this

@brianrogers1360 Жыл бұрын

Sunday- thanks coach

@luisaladsou6131 7 ай бұрын

Thank you Coach

@jazzy47827 4 ай бұрын

Good Advice

@dorothywilliams9290 Жыл бұрын

I really do appreciate you

@chepierastaman Жыл бұрын

Sunday,shout out from Nederland🤞🏽♥️®️.

@kimberlylewismckinney6099 Жыл бұрын

My ex broke up with me on friday 🥺 I hurt so bad my heart ❤️ hurts

@manuelahurtado4904 Жыл бұрын

Me too, on Friday. After 2 days before our 6 yr Anniversary.😢

@shanawazahamed3759 Жыл бұрын

O God this man is just genius

@user-xx2fq3ff8c Жыл бұрын

You are the best❤

@uprightman100 Жыл бұрын

Sunday....Good info

@Angelamar819 Жыл бұрын

Don't regret it Stand on it.

@maryjocunningham3596 Жыл бұрын

Watched this and many more!! Sunday🤩😊

@kazayanraawban2089 Жыл бұрын

Sunday. Much love Family

@xchris4955 Жыл бұрын

Thanks 😊

@Why19501 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for helping me along my journey…my ex went out with another girl he works with and he’s her manager, she got super drunk (rather he got her super drunk cause I doubt she bought her own drinks) then she told him all about her boyfriend and their unstable relationship--this date blew up in his face and he blamed me for it 🤣🤣🤣

@Pinpolish Жыл бұрын

Thank you. SUNDAY :)

@tonyserwatuk6741 Жыл бұрын

SUNDAY! New subscriber here and I would like to suggest more content pertaining to self help and self improvement during ‘no contact’. I appreciate your perspective but also feel that ‘no contact’ needs to be promoted as more of a self help journey than a strategy to win back a dumper. I appreciate you brother.

@blacademic Жыл бұрын

I don't disagree, I try to mix in self-improvement inside of these messages not only in separate videos. Self-improvement, and self-discovery is a necessary part of the journey

@ado897 Жыл бұрын

Sunday!❤

@dillybopp9217 Жыл бұрын

I been losing my mind for 4 months i called her everyday called her job went to her house like 2/3 times she got a restraining order then dropped it cuz it effected my job. She treats me like shit i been with her for 4 years she tells im a werdio i took care of her as much as i could i basically lived for her nd now im not worth nothing she tells me the worst things i ever heard from a person im on day 3 with no contact praying for better days

@spinosaursfan Жыл бұрын

You doing all that is crazy bro. You need to be strong for your self. Who cares what she thinks. She left you. Pick up, move on, improve your self. GET IN THE GYM!

@Danski6 Жыл бұрын

2 weeks of no contact he has been blowing up my phone off & on .. I’m pregnant with our 4th child but since we broken up and officially called it quits he has been in a relationship with someone else and I didn’t know . He said he wanted our fam back & even after I found out a few weeks ago he said he still loves us he never lied about that I just hope that karma gets him and he regrets everything .

@hjroyalhairdesign4221 Жыл бұрын

you amazing

@ohiogirl3924 Жыл бұрын

I appreciate you so much but would you be able to provide some things to do from the dumpers point of view versus the dumpee?😶

@tamarasuber Жыл бұрын

I’m really struggling with my breakup. I miss him everyday. He is a peace. I’m trying to move on.

@marthamartin23 Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry you’re going through this, but try to be strong. You’re going to be ok. I know the feeling as I’m going through as we speak.

@hjroyalhairdesign4221 Жыл бұрын

Sunday..and thank you

@tammylapenta621 Жыл бұрын

Do you have any videos pertaining to how to act if you were not an attentive or emotionally available partner?

@tamaradavis7571 Жыл бұрын

Sunday!!

@sherryalbert4895 Жыл бұрын

SUNDAY THANKS 👍👍👍

@vanessadsouza3366 Жыл бұрын

Coach thank you for your valuable suggestions.... It would be great if you could do a video regarding the mindset of a narcissistic and avoidant ex. If they've broken up under the context that they want different things when we haven't pressurized them for anything

@benithacalloway8286 Жыл бұрын

The avoidant are little brothers with the narcissist. They live in the same house. They get what they want then dismissed

@hjot483 Жыл бұрын

I'm not coach. Much experience with narcissists! It's a personality disorder, they simply don't have the capability to care. You are there fuel. They suck you dry then move on to someone else. When you start to get your life back or you think you can spar with them, does suck you dry again. You may try to fix them show them not everyone is bad. Remember they don't care about you only themselves

@gregsilva1472 Жыл бұрын

I’m seeing a pattern of many women calling their exes narcissist.. I wonder if this is because most men are narcissists? or most women just use say that a lot? I don’t know

@benithacalloway8286 Жыл бұрын

@@gregsilva1472 It’s because the women never fuss at them. Women who call their ex narcissist is because they always give them the eligibility of a doubt but those ex never have a clear conscience to recognize that it is 2 way street. But they love the one way all the time. It’s abusing or power.

@rockstarpmk 10 ай бұрын

Sunday!

@krishna-pf1in Жыл бұрын

Bro my girl is back I thought she is not going to unblock me but it's been 2weeks its not exactly no contact but she missed me,😂 i can't believe she missed me, because we have a very bad fights ,I was messaging her every 1 week it's been 2weeks I tried to send her msg and she unblock me and talking good, I think she missed me, I was thinking of having no contact after a final try of messaging her,but she messages me herself. But I am sure I should be careful and shouldn't be needy and creepy stuff,thank you for your advices in the hard times,but we didn't discuss about love or something we are just talking but she is sweeter then before for sure I don't know what it is.

@benithacalloway8286 Жыл бұрын

Happy for you 🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽don’t talk about love at all

@dylanbernadina4767 Жыл бұрын

Definitely happy for you bro ! Let's continue this

@kalvin1744 Жыл бұрын

good shi boy 😊

@user-ot9tk3iz1f Жыл бұрын

sunday!

@terrodar19 Жыл бұрын

Got a friendly divorce 2 months ago, she said she lost all feelings years ago and that is true for a number of reasons. we share 3 kids, and im pretty sure shes been talking to some bum for about a month now (i do care but im letting go now). ive made real changes and shes noticed, shes under financial stress thats for sure… its gonna take time for this to happen, and im a good looking dude

@justblazin94 Жыл бұрын

Day 91 since breakup, she talks to me once a month, but no progression in repair the relationship. I miss her every single day

@willow_pillow Жыл бұрын

In my opinion, go full no contact

@IslandGurl85 Жыл бұрын

Keep going the no contact Your absence and your silence is a lot You will have the last laugh it will be too late don’t go back to what had broken you

@lakishabrown2639 Жыл бұрын

Forgive her and move on. The day will come where you can also see the bad and release. God was protecting you. Let it go. You are great. Something really good will happen to you. Trust in it and pray 🙏🏽

@marinajones2309 9 ай бұрын

Coach - your a star 🌟 I'm an older lady so I don't do social media much but myself & DA stubborn ex used to chat on whatsapp. I notice he watches me on there - should I put myself on private . I'm in no contact 2 months now - no begging or pleading. Your advice would be greatly appreciated - peace ✌️

@darthasriel1550 3 ай бұрын

Girl cheated on me multiple times, after i cut her out of my life, she tried to reach out by making an excuse on returning my jacket,she drived at night to my house,and she tried to talk to me and hug me but i avoided it

@bernardgogo8009 Жыл бұрын

Sunday. It's been a week now since she broke up with me. it hurt so deeply. I wish I could get over it as soon as possible. I'm having a lot of sleepless nights, not being productive at work, etc. I just hope I won't break the no-contact rule. the first girlfriend to have in my life and in my early thirties and then this happens. I guess marriage isn't for everyone.

@arthurdane8508 Жыл бұрын

Im going through a similar thing, week in as well, was with her for 6 months and she says she wants to be single. Itll take time, its okay to not feel good. But take the alone time to improve yourself

@adokpalucy9810 Жыл бұрын

Hmmmm, can't sleep, he hurt me so badly

@bernardgogo8009 Жыл бұрын

@@arthurdane8508 be comfortable. You still have a chance to win her back.

@bernardgogo8009 Жыл бұрын

@@adokpalucy9810 be comforted. I understand the feelings. Hope we all get through this

@jenniferduarte3299 Жыл бұрын

Ty for your videos!! Going on two mo No contact. Miss him like crazy but what can I do? I refuse to call him he’s back with his ex of three years. We were only six mo. So I think he’s moved on and happy. I will except that and move on. Stay Blessed ❤

@benithacalloway8286 Жыл бұрын

I think he used you as a place holder. Believe me no one uses someone in that matter and be happy. Wait for Gods confirmation. Wait for your receipt.

@Afternoon99 Жыл бұрын

You don’t deserve him at all

@Down2Clown636 Жыл бұрын

Sunday. Day 19 no contact staying strong

@BettyFlecha-rc1rf Жыл бұрын

Sunday ❤

@gracezopf9133 Жыл бұрын

Sunday!!!!

@Trueblue03 Жыл бұрын

Thanks coach blac for that chat we had everything seems to be moving forward she’s the one texting first and telling me she missed me 👍🏾 will see how it goes

@free2bme604 Жыл бұрын

I need a session with you asap

@lumpy19722323 Жыл бұрын

Sunday👊

@kimdelaney1825 Жыл бұрын

I wish you would advise on when its necessary to walk away to save yourself respect and dignity. Sometimes doing this is not only liberating but a GREAT DECISION FOR YOURSELF!!! OH BTW. No contact has been in full effect since The end of December 2022!!! I Definitely know my value/worth!!!

@kimdelaney1825 Жыл бұрын

@catholicreflectionsfamily313 ?????

@user-oc1ip4rm1p 11 ай бұрын

Sunday 😊❤

@chrisphillips9800 Жыл бұрын

Sunday ❤️

@soufsidessb9658 Жыл бұрын

Sunday 💯

@quentinh7644 Жыл бұрын

My wife a banded me 5 months ago, now she’s trying to reach out saying she wants her best friend back smh

@fixmybox2138 Жыл бұрын

If i initiated no contact saying it will be a while before talk to you again after she left me should i initiate contacf

@carlitos4556 10 ай бұрын

My ex broke up with me because she said she was emotionally drained and tired of the chances but, I was trying to make things right and I always treated her good now we are in no contact for like 1 I’m sad and want to text her but won’t I wonder if she would ever reach out to me

@tayoowolabi-rk2qd Жыл бұрын

I really enjoy the video but I want to ask, is this video applicable to a woman who had already sued for divorce in which the hearing is coming up in a couple of months? I am thinking of giving her the divorce she is requesting for without me objecting to it in the court. What do you feel?

@adenikeadegbite835 Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry, give her what she wants.

@mavisadupoku6250 Жыл бұрын

My ex broke up with me without any reasonable reason and went back to his ex before me 😂and now he wanted to come back again after hearing I wanted to travel from someone 😅

@mavisadupoku6250 Жыл бұрын

Yea he lost me and am happy 😂cox am worth it

@missal7257 Жыл бұрын

Im such in a very unbearable situation. My man left home and its been a week already. He is not contacting me,its killing me..I dont know what to do and how to keep living with out him. Day and night im waiting for him.😢😢

@sholomobenyosef9659 11 ай бұрын

Saturday

@meme-zv7kw 10 ай бұрын

Fellas my ex called me back ...I went no contact for two days and today. I sent a pic of myself at the top of Stone Mountain having fun. We just talked for an hour.

@mathapelokwakwa4250 Жыл бұрын

It's been 10 months of me and my ex not seeing each other or texting... And I've reside somewhere.. And he always go at my place where I used to stay busy asking people to call me outside... And this Saturday I'm planning to go at his place to ask him what does he want from me... It's been 3 times of going at my crib. My question is must I go or leave..?

@mukasahalima1567 Жыл бұрын

Tode i broke up with ma ex i made a mistake but he has refused to forgive me we were planning to start living together

@deraclare1033 Жыл бұрын

Sunday💖

@danieltaylor1777 Жыл бұрын

Me and my ex has a child together how does no contact work if we still got to contact each other for my child

@user-by3wj3qn1d 9 ай бұрын

Sunday….!

@reinalooper3314 10 ай бұрын

Sunday 🎉

@user-vk7zw4vw2o 6 ай бұрын

I dont understand why my ex always sound so irritated everytime wen i call ask him to get stuff for our child or complain

@mirandaread5447 Жыл бұрын

What if 2 months after the breakup I reached out and he said he’s had second guesses and bad days but feels like he’s definitely made the right decision and his friend and family have told him he’s returned back to his old self. In the relationship he was happy he was changing now he seems to act like he feels better off now.

@1111spiritualone Жыл бұрын

this is common, happened to me. sometimes people value too much what they friends and family think and end up sabotaging they own happiness. a lot of times those same friends and family are using that person for they own selfish needs like they time/attention/money/codependency and don’t want to see that person happy because they are not. Only you know the truth, but it’s obvious he isn’t ready to truly be happy.

@benithacalloway8286 Жыл бұрын

@@1111spiritualone sometimes by the time their eyes are open it’ll be too late

@1111spiritualone Жыл бұрын

@@benithacalloway8286 this is ALWAYS the case. Know you are the one that got away and god will bless you with your soulmate, just have patience and faith

@mottley5216 Жыл бұрын

🙏🏼

@meshabrown6185 Жыл бұрын

It’s Monday today🥰

@uu5637 Жыл бұрын

After no contact for weeks he gets back through phone calls and even asks me to meet him bt he never shows up on the agreed day...when he calls he brings up memories we shared and says how much he misses us...

@janetdacruz9400 Жыл бұрын

My ex went back to his ex. There is no chance for us, is there? It’s a year now since we were a couple. I saw him last week and it was just like we never separated? Can I start the no contact even if he is with someone else?