How to Manage Multiple Interests

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How can you deal with too many interests?
How can you juggle many hobbies at once?
This was one of my worst struggles.
I'd jump from skill to skill, hobby to hobby, business plan to business plan.. all for little success in anything.
But over years of experimentation, I've settled at a fine balance.
You CAN pursue many interests AND make progress in each.
With some careful decisions, sacrifices and time-management techniques, it's possible for you to become a well-rounded person.
One who satisfied every aspect of their curiosity and achieves success in many faculties of life.
If you see the 'Renaissance Man' or 'Polymath' as an ideal worth labouring towards, then you'll benefit from this balance.
This video is everything I've learned in my own journey, for staying focused enough to progress all while branching out to build a diverse skill stack.
Enjoy!
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TIMESTAMPS
00:00-00:30 We Are Generalists
00:30-1:20 The Danger of Many Interests
1:20-2:45 My Testimony
2:45-4:13 Choosing What Matters
4:13-5:15 Time Management
5:15-7:20 Design Your Plan
7:20-8:35 Defer to the Future
8:35-10:28 Reframe, Don't Replace
10:28-12:30 Avoiding Creative Jealousy
12:30-14:25 Can You Push Through the Struggle?
14:25-14:29 What's Your Best Advice?

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@coolman000099 2 ай бұрын

The full quote is : “Jack of all trades master of none, but still better than a master of one” so I think the author agrees with you

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

Some interpretations leave the last part off, but yeah I prefer that one

@shariarshuvo Ай бұрын

this feels like enlightenment

@Jakerbryant Ай бұрын

This was a quote by Shakespeare. The whole point was to say the opposite of whatever everyone takes from only half of a quote. now we’re at the point where we do not know who said it why they said it or even how we are supposed to use it.

@burningspeed2096 Ай бұрын

@@Jakerbryantlmao

@johnmobley9369 Ай бұрын

It’s like your stat sheet being an even spread instead of solely relying on one skill but that being said you’re the marker of your own talents and hobbies and you can be the master of All. It’s good quote to help guide you but things like that can never define you.

@kstenef7222 2 ай бұрын

I've never felt so understood by a stranger in my life

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

Thanks, it's an issue not discussed enough

@paladinkhan 2 ай бұрын

@odysseas__ glad to have been recommended you and hear your perspective

@shariarshuvo Ай бұрын

this comment is relatable.

@AngelicWitch444 Ай бұрын

Same, I’ve struggled with this my whole life and most elders see it as something bad bc they think I should only focus on getting a job and make money but that’s what makes me feel trapped and I hate it!

@omgarock4024 Ай бұрын

@@odysseas__ Hi

@JesseGeeTorres Ай бұрын

Love the quote “You can have it all, just not at once.”

@gera_eb2588 Ай бұрын

A great quote, also the one that goes "you can only eat what you have on your plate" (or something like that).

@inski666 14 күн бұрын

wait that hit lmaooaoa

@ZainSuleiman666 Ай бұрын

This guy casually provided the answers to my life in 15 minutes

@sean_underneath Ай бұрын

I feel like I'm seen through the phone it scares me a little, like these are the thoughts I never shared with the world

@nishayadav5115 Ай бұрын

I second you two. Just can’t emphasise enough how badly I needed someone to explain me this and take me through this dilemma.

@odysseas__ Ай бұрын

Haha cheers, wish I had my own answers..

@Martin-kn1cn Ай бұрын

@@odysseas__what is the most pressing question you’d liked to be answered?

@lya8771 23 күн бұрын

exactly

@MyMattinthehat Ай бұрын

As the saying goes, “The master has failed more times than the student has tried.” - Somebody

@jasson7106 Ай бұрын

❤.

@Kinjo7 Ай бұрын

"I'd rather be kicked once than kicked 10,000 times" - Bruce Li

@eshanahmed2483 Ай бұрын

Pretty sure it was “I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks 1 time but the man who has practiced 1 kick 10,000 times.”

@user-iv1he3oo3o Ай бұрын

😊@@jasson7106

@mattheworr8604 Ай бұрын

@@eshanahmed2483it’s funny how distorted quotes like that get, thanks for clarifying

@inkbythebarrelandpaperbyth6905 2 ай бұрын

1. Write down hierarchy of interests. Write down skill hobbys. Ask whats most important 2. Time management. 3. What can i defer to the future. 4. Everyday tasks you could find enjoyable 5. Following interest is not always fun.

@Oysters176 Ай бұрын

Also consider that your interests are never alone. They are not simply your interests, sometimes the interests you have are for interactive purposes, or simply to 'know' stuff, so that you have some basic 'minimum'. Sometimes it is to improve yourself, or improve those around you, or to make someone else proud. Same with friends. Sometimes a friend in school is just to protect yourself, to not be alone, sometimes.. it it to make an actual friend, once you two prove trustworthy. Mathematics is a basic minimum to me, I do not love it.. However.. Knowing Complex Analysis, Algebra, and other topics is a good minimum baseline, It is true I could have picked other baselines, but I considered that a good one to pick.

@ccwwbb Ай бұрын

Do people that make these lists take into consideration that they’re taking away views (possibly income) from these creators, and disregarding the efforts they put into the videos?

@Oysters176 Ай бұрын

@@ccwwbb We all adapt ourselves to what our loved ones and the world demands of us.

@MrCharlieTech5 Ай бұрын

I would add “What is important to me now?” Also “Why is this important?”

@joedohn Ай бұрын

@@ccwwbbI felt the same way before but the creator liked it so I think he’s cool with it. Also some people will still watch to either verify the information or get more of the details they came for from the creator who they came for. I read this comment before watching and Im still going to watch the whole thing cuz I want more context.

@forincognito22 Ай бұрын

"In a span of 10 minutes youve been exposed to the results of years maybe decades of practice and experience in 50 different crafts and hobbies" That sums it up perfectly

@jabbads65 5 күн бұрын

Thank you, an observation that alot of people (me included) have fallen into, we see the 'glamour' and forget the 'grime'. A simple video that is packed full of nuggets of truth - thanks again.

@VaibhavShewale Ай бұрын

the desire to do many things and just wanna rest all the time is where im dangling!

@heartsandmindsathome Ай бұрын

I’ve been there, too. For me, it was rooted in perfectionism. Knowing I can’t do it perfectly, will keep me from starting. I’ve had to learn, it can’t be all or none. Some, is better than none. 💛

@mcharbo8726 Ай бұрын

I think you can rationalize your way out of that: 1. Ensure youretake care of balanced diet and good sleep. 2. Remind urself there's only 24 hrs in a day and that point of memento mori. 3. The most important moment you can change is now. 4. Fatigue is often a stress/avoidance response. 5. If u just get started u will be further along toward ur goal than avoiding it altogether. Make the checkbox item "get started" instead of "start and finish the thing". Just by getting off the couch and winning that mental battle is an achievement. It's the hardest part!

@christineb2640 Ай бұрын

I’m going to watch this again it was so good, thank you ❤

@lohithreddy6629 Ай бұрын

exactly lmao

@ninedude_yt_main 2 ай бұрын

Avoiding Creative Jealousy is big. I can relate.

@juhokettunen8245 Ай бұрын

Yes, same. I'm glad the video pointed it out, because it can really crank up the anxiety and feeling of lower self worth. I need to be more conscious of this.

@magdazofia2474 Ай бұрын

Agreed. And it seems like if more people heard this nugget of truth, we could cure a lot of anxiety and depression that is rampant in some parts 👀 🌎

@_carbonarawhore Ай бұрын

Yesss i hate it, and social media exacerbates it

@iorinohana Ай бұрын

It indeed is, specially for people who already suffer from low self-esteem. So glad this video pointed it out. I very often have to limit my time on socials because of this.

@ede2362 26 күн бұрын

Same my mother is a cellist and my father played the violin and I get really sad because I never really learned an instrument, but on the other hand I know they will never paint as good as I do and thats okay everyone has different skills, the world would be pretty boring otherwise

@g00bleck Ай бұрын

This isnt just advice for chronic hobbyism, this is advice for life.

@CrisOnTheInternet Ай бұрын

Chronic hobbyism sounds pessimistic lol

@g00bleck Ай бұрын

@@CrisOnTheInternet it definitely can feel that way sometimes! Lately I feel like balancing all my hobbies is more of a burden. I'm in a position where I have to give some stuff up for now

@auzanwidhatama9421 Ай бұрын

⁠You’re not exaggerating at all, i feel like these interests are exciting me and, at the same time, overwhelming me. I envy people who can consistently focus on something they’re good at 😅

@wiandryadiwasistio2062 Ай бұрын

hobbyism?

@alexj-t2331 Ай бұрын

@@g00blecksave some hobbies for later! I’m saving learning the guitar for when I’m an old lady because I already know how to knit lol

@alvinihalbiswas Ай бұрын

"If I can't avoid it, I may as well get good at it."-knocked me off.

@beantea5592 Ай бұрын

Been struggling with skill addiction my entire life. Gymnastics, martial arts, magic, painting, woodwork, music, fishing, jewlery making and plenty others.

@odysseas__ Ай бұрын

Never seen it phrased like that, interesting. Cool selection though

@theRonbert Ай бұрын

magic????? edit: i realize you are talking about sleight of hand and not literal wizardry

@beantea5592 Ай бұрын

@theRonbert haha yes. Believe it or not, out of any skills I may have, it's probably magic that I've found the most useful and, in many ways, has helped me with other skills. I think it's due to the way you have to practice it and the understanding of the nuances. The subtle ways you use your hands and how you can direct people's attention. There's just little understandings you pick up from it.

@beantea5592 Ай бұрын

@@odysseas__ thank you

@revolvency Ай бұрын

As generalist, I learned that we can achieve anything, but not at once

@basseygodwin7384 Ай бұрын

Valid

@ThanosOneuntoward Ай бұрын

not all at once but you can do it all

@matina4552 Ай бұрын

I like how KZfaq decided I need to get this recommendation based on the stuff I watch.

@BC-bn7xd Ай бұрын

My yt algorithm is like "yo chill down, i dunno what you're on about anymore" My yt feed right now: Violin stuff, engineering, space time, micro biology, programming, drum and bass, bread and baking, atla, ... And the list goes on

@mohammedyahia2621 Ай бұрын

@@BC-bn7xd Bro you can't be literally me more than this 😂

@meowrbius Ай бұрын

@@BC-bn7xdlol true. yt is now confused which topic to feed me

@yehnij Ай бұрын

Could not be more true lol. 🖐️

@jaisuryaprabakaran Ай бұрын

True 💯

@kiette 21 күн бұрын

I’m over 50. I became disabled sooner than I expected. I am acutely aware that I don’t have too many decades ahead of me… And I still found a lot of value in this video.

@Lawarot 4 күн бұрын

Videos like this very easily come across as pretentious and/or giving obvious/naive advice, but this one was just a normal guy explaining how he's trying to make the most of his life - I appreciate that a lot

@odysseas__ 4 күн бұрын

Thanks, that's what I hope

@DanAbsalonson 2 ай бұрын

Yep. I want to be a marathon runner, a painter, a fiction writer, a comic artist, a picture book author, a prolific reader, an audiobook narrator, a publisher of multiple podcasts, a songwriter who records and releases albums, and much more. For now I find that writing down tasks I want to do everyday to chip away at these goals helps me continue to always make forward progress instead of watching KZfaq all the time. Great video. Nice tips. This topic has been on my mind a lot lately.

@odysseas__ Ай бұрын

Absolutely. It's the mundane everyday that gives you the results you look for. Thanks too

@Sayntario Ай бұрын

I feel like modern society has conditioned us to think of all of those things in strictly a professional sense. So when you say your want to do and be all of those things, people think it is arrogant to work at being them all.

@Cyprous Ай бұрын

@@Sayntario yeah, you dont need be a professional in every skill, but u still can get good with time in multiple things in life, just dont take it so seriously and just progress slow, but still, its how i deal with the life and enjoy this.

@noompsieOG Ай бұрын

That's so weird I do all of these apart from the publisher stuff. I have the blessing of not having to be enslaved by a job so I have all the day to do all these. It's a choice I made once I realised that I'm gonna die one day so I'm making the most of it. I just took up snorkelling last week and its awesome soon I'm doing scuba tonight I'm playing music at a vodka distillery.

@marcydarcie5884 Ай бұрын

@noompsieOG How do you manage to do all of that, are you rich or on welfare?

@cprestia Ай бұрын

Hello there, violin teacher here! Your practice habits are actually great! Replace one 30-minute practice session with a 30-minute lesson with an in-person teacher and you’ll probably unlock more progress than you expect. Three half-hour practice sessions a week won’t get you into a major symphony, but it will definitely get you to a satisfying place where you can express yourself through your instrument. But yes, thank you for this video. Like many of us here, I need this reminder from time to time.

@adamjohnson5307 Ай бұрын

Beautiful way to look at idea of practicing anything. 🤌🏾

@odysseas__ Ай бұрын

Thanks, I'm relieved to hear it from authority! Will definitely do that once I can

@canobenitez Ай бұрын

acknowledging this is so huge, you can enjoy something without being a master in it, hard to grasp for me but it is so important!

@CVerse Ай бұрын

100% this! I started teaching violin to kids for a year and since then I can see the tremendous progress they make from never touching the violin to playing a concert for their family. It really is rewarding. You can practice at home, but without a guide you’ll eventually get stuck somewhere

@KalebPeters99 Ай бұрын

Yeah, as a piano teacher I was actually impressed at the volume of practice he mentioned doing! The issue is knowing WHAT and HOW to practice efficiently, and a teacher could really help with that 👌

@danieltkach2330 Ай бұрын

I'm a piano teacher, a Maths teacher, an English teacher and a Martial Arts teacher. I've learned a lot about many things, and being this way makes me both proud and sad about myself. I'd love to be a master of one thing, and really know it as many people know. For example with piano, having studied for 20 years I can play very complicated pieces, but not as well as a Concert Pianist. Same with martial arts, I'm not bad, but definitely people who have dedicated their life exclusively to this training can beat me. So in the end I feel like I know nothing and that I can't do anything, but some days where faced with certain situations I realize how much I actually know and can do, how weird I am, and how worthy it was leading a life as a learner. So I could probably say I'm good at one thing, and I do consider this, one thing: Learning-Teaching. This was an awesome video. Thank you so much.

@juanramonsilva1067 Ай бұрын

I have always thought that this world is so beautiful, vast and precious that my biggest regret is not being able to live 1.000 years so I can learn all the things that my mind marvels all. You name it, music, painting, astronomy, biology, physics, math, history, etc. Sometimes I feel weird because nobody else is marveling at the world the way I do, I thought those humans were long dead. But this video is refreshing, to learn human curiosity is alive and many can relate to this.

@_strife Ай бұрын

Another important point is that when you get good enough at something it becomes more automated and it takes less space in your brain and easier for you to do.

@Kingjames1828 Ай бұрын

Facts and then u can keep on finding more things u want to be good at

@felicialally5703 Ай бұрын

This is so true

@odysseas__ Ай бұрын

For sure, that's a great point

@Nakkiteline Ай бұрын

great point mate!! i found that in playing guitar, practicing gets easier and easier, and it's easier to allocate more time to it too when you advance. also a good training program is something that eases practicing very much

@radheya Ай бұрын

yess I absolutely can vouch for this....great point!!

@justins0172 2 ай бұрын

When you're watching hundreds of youtube videos to get and feel better about what you're doing and how you're living. And then you watch this one. And you finally turn off the device. Thank you.

@odysseas__ Ай бұрын

I appreciate it, hope it can inspire you into action

@magdazofia2474 Ай бұрын

Beautifully said

@sxuede Ай бұрын

This is exactly what I needed to hear. As someone who wants to do cinematography, cooking, language learning (currently Japanese), drawing, content creation, travel, dancing, soccer, and so much more yet struggles to even get up in the morning and having to battle my mind always saying "you're so lazy, start doing something, you're not doing enough," it sucks. I'm always met with the "I'm too young" or "I cant afford this" and then I'm left waiting for when I can start and constantly keep on seeing these videos of "start now. the second best option is today" and everything is contradicting itself. This is exactly the reality check I needed. Thank you stranger!

@willske2382 Ай бұрын

This is one of the last things my grandpa sent me before he died, thank you

@dinocarosi4303 14 күн бұрын

That's a nice connection to have because I think this video has quite a lot of value for our lives. Your grandpa must have cared about you and your life path.

@itsdavidmora Ай бұрын

I immediately did your journaling prompt, but with a twist: I made an x-y plot where x is "how sad I'd be if I never explored this deeply" and y is "how excited I feel about this right now." I helped me identify dangerous disctactions (high excitement, low sadness if I never did it) and also my priorities. Thanks for this useful video!

@Soundbeforelight Ай бұрын

Omg, I love this and I'm absolutely going to steal this practice.

@Oscar12640 Ай бұрын

I'd love to see a picture of how this looks like. Seems like a great idea, but I'm a bit confused haha

@tracygeorge6994 Ай бұрын

That sounds fantastic

@waylonk2453 Ай бұрын

Well thought out!

@extrasoggybagel9015 Ай бұрын

@@Oscar12640what are you confused about? Draw a horizontal line (x) vertical line (y) that are touching on one end to form a half-square. Then plot your points based on the criteria. The higher up a point is, the more excited you are. The farther right it is, the more sad you would be if you never did it. Ideally, you want your goals to be as far up-right as possible, and realistically, they probably arent

@mattiewashere9866 Ай бұрын

you have no idea how specific this video is to me, i saw the title and i immediately clicked. there is nothing more beautiful than the feeling of being understood :)

@odysseas__ Ай бұрын

Glad to hear it!

@ReikensEolys Ай бұрын

Same, nice to catch some good ideas to avoid endless possibilities and aspirations

@ayamrudin7985 Ай бұрын

That profile picture is somehow beautiful.

@NonLethalGhost Ай бұрын

Same, but I was expecting some detailed plan and more strategy oriented that was more practical, but I am really glad it went in this unexpected way, focusing on the more overall important thing.

@milanaomo Ай бұрын

another tip that I have for people like me that get excited a lot about learning different things: ask yourself, do you actually wanna put all the time into learning that skill? think through the process and decide if you wanna go through all of that. at least that's what helped me list my priorities :)

@darioole2134 Ай бұрын

The renaissance did not end, it continues in many of us, pure gold video , thanks.

@igorvinicius8087 2 ай бұрын

The clarification on why I feel bad watching TikTok was so enlightening. Thank you!

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

Yeah it hit me hard too when I first realised it. Much appreciated!

@joshuawilliams2427 2 ай бұрын

Tiktok is for the weak

@magdazofia2474 Ай бұрын

Aww! And feel bad watching Instagram 😔 Funny food for thought friend: I joined tik tok a few years ago and the beginning when it asked for my interests, I decided to put things I enjoy, but not things I creatively strive for (ex: I’m a photographer, I did NOT follow photographers). Instead I followed mostly comedy and maybe sometimes I would search ‘makeup trends’ if I had a day I wanted that. But I ONLY followed if the creator themselves seemed genuinely sweet cool smart or funny. I potentially only got lucky.. but Tik Tok is so weirdly enjoyable for me and somehow I’m not addicted to it (especially weird because of how terrible Instagram made me feel vs how much I still get SUCKED in if I ‘visit’ IG world). It’s just a thought. An experiment. Next time you open a new social media account.. follow people and topics you LIKE but don’t aspire to 🤷🏼‍♀️

@miguelmojica8485 2 ай бұрын

We should embrace polymathy! It’s more humane than excessive specialisation.

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

Definitely!

@SimEon-jt3sr 2 ай бұрын

Uh huh huh first world views. There's a reason people wanted to be specialist. It's less work and stress.

@miguelmojica8485 2 ай бұрын

@SimEon-jt3sr It's a fair observation. I am from Mexico. I am in the process of documenting and analyzing how excessive specialization, in controlled contexts, is harmful to innovation and the economy and the development of institutions for the long term, especially for a new era of automation and AI. Of course, polymathy needs to be implemented and promoted from all areas of a society. I am aware that a working person cannot allocate time to other activities because of inequality issues. My proposal for public policy in Mexico is aimed at addressing socioeconomic problems and changing the paradigm in education to ensure that future generations can develop and consolidate their intrinsic human characteristics, which are polymaths. The polymathic vision must be democratized and for this there must be multisectoral collaboration. In one way or another, many times we are already polymaths, but we do not continue with this development because of many institutions.

@Oysters176 Ай бұрын

@@miguelmojica8485 Yes!~This is real diversity and tolerance. Not the crap we had in the 2010's. Fuck that woke shit.

@ChaoticNeutralMatt Ай бұрын

Well I think both approaches are fair. It's a rather complex topic, but it has no moral bearing on a person, the path they follow.

@GP120 Ай бұрын

He went from Logo design to icon design, that man is wild!

@carolineforbes007 15 күн бұрын

I wanted to spend my time trying different things to keep myself occupied but I failed to realize that I was out of focus while thinking of multiple stuff at once. This video came as a true life changer. Thanks mate 🙌

@mesamane Ай бұрын

Crazy how strangers can understand your struggle better than family.

@BePresent. Ай бұрын

Too right!!! My mum is always saying oh you haven't finished that yet or you havnt started that or this yet ..I have just been diagnosed with ADHD and I'm 44 I still feel like she tries to control me . This guy 👆has just literally unlocked my brain

@TheAlison1456 14 күн бұрын

crazy how people in similar circumstances with similar problems, which families and children don't actually share, are similar see lindybeige's "never trust your agent"

@samueldjames Ай бұрын

'Defer to the future' makes me think of Derek Sivers quote: don't be a donkey. A donkey can't choose between food or water and then dies from a lack of both. Pick one, pursue it, then do the other in the future.

@CadeChurch Ай бұрын

Good video. I’m currently finishing up medical school and all throughout school I have had to find a balance between studies, writing music, reading, cooking, meditating, and working out. Balancing everything brings me the most joy in life, although it is a significant challenge. Others act like it’s impossible, but if you’re intentional, as you laid out, it is worthwhile.

@odysseas__ Ай бұрын

Absolutely, it's tough but worth every drop of sweat. Good luck!

@bearieroblox6451 3 күн бұрын

This has been a big problem for me, I’ve always wanted to be the best at something but can never stop switching hobbies. Just the past three weeks I climbed a mountain, picked up rock climbing, and started kayaking. But throughout my time on earth as a 22 year old I’ve done multiple martial arts, painted a lot, tried learning violin, tried composing music, skiing, powerlifting, 3-d modeling in blender, game development, and even attempted scuba diving. I always get very good at these things I try, maybe like top 10%. But for any of it to matter or to make a career out of such things I’d need to get into the top 1%. But I can never find myself being dedicated enough for the long term. I fear I’m wasting my time and always regret what could have been if I poured all my time into one hobby, but have just never been able to do it.

@HetPatel-fz6kg Ай бұрын

I don’t know HOW KZfaq recommended me this but I have been struggling with this thought so much! There is a million things I want to do but I also wanna rest and chill and just smell the flowers but just feel like there is not enough time for it all!

@odysseas__ Ай бұрын

Smelling the flowers is just as important!

@kwekswilliams6884 Ай бұрын

Same here

@ProseAndPetticoats 2 ай бұрын

I am an author, a reader, a musician, I love making clothes, and I'm a BookTuber... I do all these things after work. Sometimes it's so overwhelming (especially keeping up with my KZfaq channel), but I can't let go of any of these things. I love them all. They give me energy, but sometimes I forget they also take a lot of energy. I feel better now that I began to divide my time into blocks, like you suggest, but I find it hard to keep to it :) I can't believe there are so many people that don't have a hobby, while I'm here trying to make the most out of every single second! 😂 I feel like I barely waste time - even while listening to youtube I'm busy. I need to get better at making a schedule :) going to work on improving that! Thank you for the interesting video. Great topic!

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

Well said, that's exactly how it feels. Thanks and good luck!

@espartaco2028 2 ай бұрын

Clothes? Really? That is AWESOME!! Something we use every single day of our lives and yet, we walk around off a shelf from some same story, looking like oatmeal shaped in Glad trash bags.

@ProseAndPetticoats 2 ай бұрын

@@espartaco2028 I like the Victorian style, which is very hard to find in the stores, or even online! :)

@SananSelf-improvement 2 ай бұрын

@@odysseas__ Yeah I want to do this but I feel that I can't able do this. Any advise?

@imogen4535 2 ай бұрын

An author, musician AND a seamstress? Literally all of my goals 😭 how long did it take for you to get decent at sewing may I ask?

@josh_swanson Ай бұрын

I especially agree with the point that we can defer some hobbies to later. I remember reading some quote that said people greatly OVERestimate how much they can accomplish in 1 year, but UNDERestimate how much they will accomplish in 5 years, or 10 years. Just going hard into one hobby a year, and changing every year - by 5 years you'll have done so much, and hopefully still practicing enough to retain what you learned.

@alexrawlings541 5 күн бұрын

My work has been badly affected by this issue because I've been coping with the stress that comes from being unable to juggle everything badly, and I was just reprimanded for making a bad error today. Tonight was the first night in a long time that I've had to face that the way I'm living my life is untenable, and I started to spiral. I'm very thankful that this video came across my feed because it reminds me that I'm not a failure and I can keep moving forward. Thank you for this.

@ian-online 3 күн бұрын

I'm cheering you on mate!!

@AnyerSpinoza Ай бұрын

I'm watching this video while having other 30 browser tabs opened

@ConnorHopson Ай бұрын

Haha same

@_berengar Ай бұрын

Just 30?

@DrawinskyMoon 7 күн бұрын

500 tabs are open for me.

@f.d.6667 2 ай бұрын

OK... some advice from a multi-interested, multi-talented dude with a 28-year career in design and product development and art and teaching... The multiple-interests-dilemma has been an issue for me since art school. After reading all the books on "scanner-personalities" and "refuse to choose advice" I came across Emily Wapnik's book - and then it dawned on me: most "Multi-Talentism" is just a layman's term for ADD/ADHD. Last year, I finally bit the bullet and got tested for ADHD (and Aspergers)... BINGO! After experimenting with a few different medications I now can pursue multiple interests with much greater success AND don't feel restless and like a failure all the time! My output has increased, my motivation is improving and finally can fully enjoy being a multi-interested person, now that I know the neurological reason for it. So, if you are multi-interested but can never finish a task, consider looking into the ADHD/ADD thing.

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

I've heard about this link often, glad to see it turned around for you

@sandrakranzwinther3286 2 ай бұрын

Exactly my thought😊

@sindistefanova 2 ай бұрын

I'm really glad you've figured out the neurological reason for being a multi-interested person! I had a similar journey in finding a biological reason, although I don't have ADHD. I learned about the three doshas according to Ayurvedic medicine - Vata, Pitta and Kapha. Basically everyone has either one, two or rarely three dominant doshas. People with a Vata constitution are similar to people with ADHD in the sense that we get bored more easily, that we need to have multiple activities we can switch between, otherwise we are actually unhappy. Having too much Vata can actually lead to ADHD. Learning about the doshas has been super valuable for me in accepting that it's okay to have many interests and not being "a master of one", because I don't actually want that and I wouldn't be happy with it. Dr. K from HealthyGamerGG has some great videos in explaining the doshas for anyone interested!

@isadurika 2 ай бұрын

I don't have ADHD, but I do have obsessive compulsive personality disorder (ocpd, not ocd), and I also manage multiple interests at a time. After some therapy, I've learned how to keep them hobbies (because they were almost like a full time job in the past). I'm very serious at studying my passions hahahaha but I'm now comfortable with taking a break from them.

@f.d.6667 Ай бұрын

@@isadurikaI like your approach: getting some professional to look into your behavioral patterns so you can find the neurological / psychological reasons for said patterns. That's a solid foundation for lasting progress!

@gingerbreadzak Ай бұрын

00:00 🌱 Embrace curiosity and exploration, but manage it effectively to avoid diluting your focus across too many activities. 03:19 📝 Prioritize your interests by ranking them based on importance to create a realistic plan for improvement. 04:27 ⏰ Implement effective time management techniques such as scheduling on Google Calendar to align with your priorities. 05:23 🗓 Allocate time according to your priorities, giving more time to what matters most while still making room for less important activities. 07:30 🚫 Temporarily defer less important interests to focus on the ones that matter most in the present. 08:53 🔄 Reframe existing daily activities to improve skills without adding extra time to your schedule. 10:42 📱 Be mindful of shiny object syndrome triggered by social media, and focus on your own valuable skills rather than feeling inadequate. 13:01 🎢 Understand and navigate the emotional stages of skill development, pushing through challenges to achieve mastery.

@jeffrey5602 Күн бұрын

Thank you, I needed to hear that today. I always feel so guilty about some of my hobbies like guitar and chess. I always kinda feel I can get super good at it but the reality is I won’t, and I need to be ok with that. Getting better at programming and getting deeper into machine learning is my no one passion and what I put all my effort into. Luckily I also enjoy sports a lot and play tennis sometimes maybe too much even. The problem is the whole world of computer science in itself is so full of different interests, it’s hard to focus, have to make a second priority list 😬

@odysseas__ Күн бұрын

That's an interesting point. And yes sometimes the only thing that helps us not feel guilty is recognising success in other areas. Best of luck!

@ShireTown1824 2 ай бұрын

This is totally me. I dive deeply into different hobbies and personal development. I manage this by diving as deep as I can, as quickly as I can, so that I can get a sense of how much time I will need to commit to the task in order to achieve a high skill at it. This helps me narrow down my true interests but gives me the chance to explore more hobbies or options.

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

I did something similar, it worked a treat. Focused hard into one skill for a few months, then left with clarity and.. an extra skill, with the decision to pursue it further

@heyy.im_mithi Ай бұрын

I want to be a singer-songwriter. I want to be a a published fiction writer. I want to be an actress. I want to be a cinematographic youtuber. I want to do all this professionally. I also want to keep participating in my various side hobbies - crocheting, photography, skateboarding, reading, language learning (currently learning french which is my 4th language), clay art work, sketching & painting, Morse code, cooking & baking, instruments (piano, guitar), becoming ambidextrous, etc. I'm also only 15 and I'm glad I watched this video. I'm slowly realizing the truths of what i truly want and how to achieve it, and also what to let go and what to postpone. It feels like I'm always in a vicious cycle of tackling everything all at once, spending every moment of my time not taken up by school or sleep in my various interests, burning out spectacularly, picking myself up, and repeat. Every tip in this video really resonated with me. It'll be a struggle but I hope to implement true time & stress management in my life from now on, and also prioritizing what I love the most while not relegating the main reason I love my life - spending time doing "nothing" with my friends & family.

@odysseas__ Ай бұрын

Amazing to see such a range. Hope all goes well for you

@InParacosms Ай бұрын

Very wise for a 15 years old. Wish I had that mindset at your age. Keep going ✨

@meowrbius Ай бұрын

I'm also like this. I think prioritizing the best out of these that can secure you financially is the first thing to start with. Then slowly incorporate new stuff. Rotating hobbies are also nice way to keep life less boring.

@leenaken5626 Ай бұрын

You're so similar to me, I literally want to do so much as if explore everything this world has to offer from study about marine to becoming an actress it's weird how I simultaneously want to explore individual aspects of everything and this infinite curiosity never ends

@starlipika Ай бұрын

you sound like a clone of me oh my gosh

@teacake_94 Ай бұрын

In such a hyper-stimulating age it’s nice to see other people struggling with managing their time. I was starting to think I was the only one! Thanks very much for this!!

@avid_learner718 Ай бұрын

This has been bothering me since I was 16. Glad to meet someone similar.

@odysseas__ Ай бұрын

Yep, it's a lifelong annoyance. Hope it goes well for you

@metallic4888 Ай бұрын

same here brother. gave up playing an instrument as a teenager, and now that i’m older i realize i just needed better time management lmao.

@andyjoseph4198 Ай бұрын

I really needed this. Because of me having the desire to do many things, I have never grown. I'm almost 30, and yet I have achieved nothing. Thank you for this video. I believe that God must have caused me to come across it.

@teriyakov Ай бұрын

Don't be so hard on yourself. Sounds like you've achieved some level of awareness. Consider yourself lucky. Some people never get there. It's all uphill from here buddy :)

@abigailjackson2843 Ай бұрын

I feel the same way - I focus on the things I want to do that I haven't yet and that's makes me feel like I haven't done anything... A fun exercise is to write down your life's story as if you're telling a complete stranger - you start to realize all the things you did that you don't count because you already did them!

@austinhernandez2716 Ай бұрын

I feel the same, I'm 26

@sonofbaconator3503 3 күн бұрын

I'm an accountant learning to become a data analyst while researching my interest in architecture and this video popped into my feed. I think the algorithm knows me better than me

@Noah-qh4ds Ай бұрын

This might be my favorite video of all time. Not only did it touch on every anxiety I’ve had for years, but it’s reassuring, knowing that someone achieved something that I thought was possible. a while ago I wrote out every single one of my hobbies, and then highlighted the ones that meant the most to me. in the moment, he brought me comfort I was able to settle down a little bit. But hearing you talk about your hierarchy makes me want to go back and actually focus on that same practice I started a few years ago.

@Hatter5150 2 ай бұрын

I really enjoyed this video. I’m almost 60 and have struggled with having a ton of interests all my life. My best advice is to take advantage of where you are and utilize the resources that are available. He’s absolutely right that you don’t have to do everything now and to realize your life will change as time goes on and will be full of transitions. For example, I lived in a major city for 20 years. During that time I took full advantage of living there: exploring the city, going to concerts, theater, enjoying restaurants, going out with friends, attending lectures, enjoying parks, meeting people, going to meetups, etc. Now, I’m retired and living somewhere else and in the middle of a transition. It’s been a bit of a challenge but now I’m trying to set up a schedule where I don’t burn myself out with all the things I want to do. 😊

@eronaraujo9698 2 ай бұрын

well done

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

Love that story, it's a perfect example. Thanks too!

@user-rd1lc9nd5q 2 ай бұрын

I have a 50 item list of things that I want to do but because it’s so long I don’t do any of them. I browse KZfaq. Fortunately, I landed on this video which is just what I needed. I have whittled my list down to 4 primary items and 3 secondary ones. Your suggestion has perfectly fitted my needs. Thank you so much. Now I just have to take action.

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

Much appreciated, and I'm glad to see you jump on it immediately. Good luck!

@ShayHarding Ай бұрын

Taking action is the hardest step, and continuous action is even harder. The happiness over time chart explains this very well.

@coolcatbaron Ай бұрын

The best thing one can do is to never use any social media without it being an intent of yours, instead of using it out of opportunity and boredom. Don't be a slave to it. Assign hours or appropriate moments where you allow yourself to use it and disallow when there was no planned intent beforehand.

@davidyasdin2699 Ай бұрын

Bro your video was the best one I've watched over the past 15 years of seeing Yt vids and im not your classic meme watching guy. Keep getting better ! Thank you so much for your work !

@luanahelenac Ай бұрын

Dude, everyday I scroll youtube looking for self improvement videos, and I've been watching tons of them every week for years, this video was so far the BEST video I've seen in a long time, I'll watch this everyday because I'm this kind of person, master in graphic designer and working as it for 17 years, professional DJ for 9 years, event producer for 9 years, actress for 12 years, percussionist and singer for 10 years, in a serious relationship with cook for 7 years and everyday I came up with a new interest to learn. The only thing I have to say is THANK YOU, your video gave me hope and a method to follow

@jay-dunn 2 ай бұрын

Just to note, the quote ALWAYS gets cut short, and therefore the meaning is completely changed. The full quote is actually: “A Jack of all trades is a master of none, but still always better than a master of one”. Fantastic video as always!

@tupoiu 2 ай бұрын

This is also wrong lol (quite obviously, considering that a master surgeon is sometimes exactly what you need). en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jack_of_all_trades

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

Thanks! And yeah a great way to spin it on its head. Of course there's moments where you want a master, but in general, its true

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

It's a mixed interpretation but both are right depending on the context, as you say

@theedxqboi 2 ай бұрын

This made my morning! Thank you!

@katm8128 2 ай бұрын

It’s “oftentimes better than a master of one”, and not “always”, which is much more applicable to real life. Sometimes, you do need to be or need a person to be specialized in one thing

@fasttwitchmedia149 2 ай бұрын

I am 65 and I am going through this now. You are a great teacher. New sub.

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

Thanks, and good luck in all your pursuits!

@fasttwitchmedia149 2 ай бұрын

I also teach at a college here in Massachusetts. Our students can benefit from your thoughts/ideas as well. I will make them aware and show this in class.

@SavannahSchrader 2 күн бұрын

Sometimes seeing someone who is, or has been in such a similar situation as yourself is tear-inducing. This is one of those things for me. I have both ADHD and OCD, so I am obsessive, a perfectionist, inattentive, and abundantly creative. This creates a storm of creative-jealousy, taking on more than I can handle, and being completely devastated when I fail to keep up with all of my pursuits. This video really helped, thank you.

@PiyerX Ай бұрын

I didn't knew THIS WAS THE EXACT VIDEO I NEEDED in my current situation surrounded by all my multiple hobbies. Really thanks a lot!

@feelsunbreeze Ай бұрын

The avoid creative jealousy almost made me cry. So real! Thank you for those words!

@andrethebest6310 2 ай бұрын

I just started college and I developed a few side interests such as drawing, game development and music producing, but I was really struggling with making solid improvements to each individual hobby, since I struggled with allocating time to them, this video was really helpful, especially the calendar part and the last tip. Thank you so much, keep up the good work!

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

Nice diverse range there, hope you can achieve all you want!

@keracreates7976 7 күн бұрын

if there was ever a video that spoke ever so loudly about my inner conversations as a MULTI PASSIONATE CREATIVE is this ONE !!! Thank you

@odysseas__ 7 күн бұрын

Much appreciated

@anteklaskowski3600 Күн бұрын

I just realized that I watched a video that cured my insecureness and negative thoughts about myself. This will propably help me more than any psychiatrist or guru i saw or met. God bless you mate.

@odysseas__ Күн бұрын

That's inspiring to hear, thank you and God bless you too

@user-wh3qj8sb9x 2 ай бұрын

Honestly I really needed this. I feel bad when I don’t get to a hobby, especially if it’s been over a month since the last time I did it. Basic chores (cooking, cleaning, hygiene practices, etc) take up so much time some days that I can only focus on work and school.

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

It's tough with the energy and time they take up. It's all a careful game of balancing those two factors. Hope it goes well for you

@LilyLeeTracy Ай бұрын

It's so comforting to know that so many of us feel this excited overwhelm. I've had to learn so many of these tips through experience along the way. What has worked best for me is what you mentioned, choosing the ones that are most relevant for the time of my life that I am in. Deferring to the future the other hobbies, but in a hopeful way, something to look forward to when the time is right rather than a procrastination.

@user-cc8ld4ng2q Ай бұрын

I wish I could put more than a single like to this video. I have struggled with wanting to learn and know everything. Hardest part is to leave some things go, sacrifices. Thanks for this! I send you a hug, a big one, I know what you've been through.

@Josukegaming 6 күн бұрын

This is great advice, thank you so much! I think social media really is to blame for a lot of shiny object syndrome, lower attention spans, and feeling inadequate, which all combines to just jumping from hobby to hobby only ever hitting surface level before moving on.

@averagecat7070 Ай бұрын

Glad someone is here with the same feeling of not wanting to be boxed in

@kekamirza Ай бұрын

I always thought why am I like this? I have certificates in Music, dance and recitation, art, Ceramics, graphic design, 3D animation. I am happy that I explored all the things that I liked by my early 30s, that now I'm more clear about what matters the most, what I like the most to do and what I will be able to maintain as my hobby. Though yet I have some more interests to explore that I couldn’t in the past. Managing time is the hardest part here that I still struggle with. I can't manage more than two different focused works. So my mom alwayas told me, you are going to be jack of all and master of none. But I mastered one thing that I put my most focus in. So finding out one major interest is very important I realized. Btw, thank you for this video! Relieved that I'm not the only one like this in this era. 😄

@user-bz1gj7bv9v 26 күн бұрын

Organizing thoughts through writing is huge. I love your “informed optimism” chart!! Super helpful and ultra relatable!!!

@BenjaminBoster 21 күн бұрын

Thanks for putting this together. I love nuggets of truth along the journey. I've been struggling with feeling these same things where I've spent so much time chasing after new interests only to realize I've mostly been learning and not producing much. I have dozens of unfinished projects and I'm trying to push through the sometimes darker middle to get to the light at the end of completing each of them. Now it's time to go work on your first exercise!

@adamjohnson5307 Ай бұрын

I feel so GUILTY when I don’t work on a particular craft. Oh and don’t let it be a Saturday afternoon when I truly don’t have anything else to do. Sometimes the only thing I want to do is make something but in that moment I have no ounce of motivation to get up and do anything. And later I feel awful for wasting another day. The bizarre part is, I have plenty of ideas and plenty of unfinished projects I could work on. So there is no block. However, when I am in the mood it’s beautiful and I can kill 3 hours and it feels like 1. I just wish I had that drive every day. 😞 This is so spot on. I used to woodwork for about 6 years when I lived in a house. And i played guitar and ukulele. Now I live in an apartment and now I sew which I used to do in high school, and do sculpture. My mind doesn’t care what the craft is. It just needs to make stuff or I get what I call creatively frustrated and now I’m anxious. Happened to me when I was deployed. I resorted to designing furniture in google sketchup that i never built. lol but it felt good 😅

@odysseas__ Ай бұрын

All relatable, especially the drifting motivation. Wishing you well in each pursuit

@kubaszostak7222 2 ай бұрын

This channel has quickly become my personal favourite, keep that going

@freddy77. 2 ай бұрын

same

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

Grateful to hear that, thanks!

@user-cc3le7tz6z Ай бұрын

As someone who is confused about all my interest taking me away from my focused academic goals time after time. I am really glad for your advice. I knew most of them from other youtubers but it felt so rash... It just didn't make my mind feel the intention or actual reliability because they never explained it in a reasonable way. They were all like do this do that make a routine and schedule. All of that felt so robotic and unnatural. Your way of explaining kinda have my two brains to actually reasonably accept these facts and the actual influence of them in our life. Thanks pal!!

@SamBoga 29 күн бұрын

You my friend just gave me the solution on how I can make myself better. Being a chronic ADHD patient, I often struggle to stay focussed. I have so many hobbies and I want to do so many things. Now I know what I should do. Thank you man, I hope I can reach my desired goal, sooner or later!

@MaRio-dr1qx 2 ай бұрын

the fact i was doing a little bit of research regarding this topic just a moment ago and u just uploaded felt nice and well timed

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

That's great

@Daemuse0 Ай бұрын

I just want to say thank you. I stumbled across this video in the mist of trying to figure out how I can combine two of my favorite hobbies and getting some insight on this topic has been a huge weight off of my shoulders, I now have a better understanding in what hobbies are important to me. Really appreciate it.

@odysseas__ Ай бұрын

Thanks, real glad to hear it

@prodbywuski Ай бұрын

really felt what you said at 11:47. social media gives us so much stimulation and shows us so much stuff without context that our brains perceive it as if everyone's doing something while you're sat there wasting time, when in reality, those people have their unique niche, their skills they've been working on for years if not decades, and what you're seeing is only a biproduct of that. its great to see someone reminding us to not get lost in what other people are doing, and pace yourself.

@odysseas__ Ай бұрын

Well said, and I'm glad to hear it!

@DerekReelz Ай бұрын

This right here is the video I always needed but never searched for

@user-ry1cc1im6f 2 ай бұрын

Es lo que me ha pasado toda la vida, fue triste para mi ver que en la universidad sólo se hablaba de un solo tema y ahora con 32 años trato de hacer todo lo que me gusta pero a veces no alcanzo y termino frustrada... Definitivamente priorizar y diferir es excelente, en mi caso escribir en un diario mi actividad de manera retrospectiva me ha ayudado mucho.

@donovanoakes9566 Ай бұрын

To see someone go through basically the exact same thought process as me to try and overcome this feeling is incredibly comforting. A part of me feels like I am going insane sometimes with the amount of things that I want to do, and one day when I finally decided to write down them down, it was the best decision I ever made. Being able to have a physical representation of what's actually important to me and what I should be focused on saved me in a sense. Thank you for a beautiful video, glad to know that I am not alone, and there is other people out there that can understand what I'm feeling.

@romabroadberry6914 Ай бұрын

I feel like this video was made for me as I’ve been thinking a lot about my several hobbies lately and how I can’t stop but I’ve always been told to just focus on one thing

@aldo6532 2 ай бұрын

I was sent a notebook with marking pens to get me into note-taking and organising my interests. Due to my many interests I got too overwhelmed to even open the book. I've now opened it for the first time and dedicated the first page to my interests and which ones I want to focus on. My goodness there were SO MANY!! Like around 50!! I obviously don't have the time to dedicate to all those This video has been the first step to me seeing some progress. Thank you so much, I'm truly grateful. I'll try time management and see if it works for me. Thank you again 🙏

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

I appreciate it, and hope it goes well!

@Pinkie-Red-Studios 2 ай бұрын

Dude perfectly timed, yesterday I commented asking you about this in your video. Thanks for uploading dude ! I’ve been loving your channel so far.

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

I'm grateful to hear it! And yeah haha I was happy to see your comment

@ScientObject40 Ай бұрын

This is probably the most important video I've ever watched/will ever watch. Thank you for your insight.

@bwagner6246 18 күн бұрын

It's so obvious to rank one's interests, but I've only just today done it. Thank you for the advice, stranger.

@ymfreaka Ай бұрын

Not being able to properly write down the path I've walked in the past year felt like it was sabotaging the progress I'd made on my journey to efficiency. I knew exactly why I needed to master various areas simultaneously, but failing to make the thought processes and pivotal moments that would make me efficient a permanent part of my life was consuming me. For the last month, instead of sitting and crying, I decided I needed to establish a proper note-taking + journaling system and started doing so. Beginning to note down thoughts that I felt would take me to the next level in my life, along with new learnings in my work and hobbies, changed everything. Until I watched your video, I WASN'T EVEN AWARE that I thought the progress I made in the last year was lost. Every point you mentioned in your video seemed to bring back this entire year I thought I had lost. I've never felt so understood in my life. You've made an unimaginably significant contribution to me. I will never forget you and this video. My deepest thanks to you. You've gained a new follower, supporter, and friend. May all the best be with you. (And a little advice to those who've read this far, START A JOURNAL!)

@CarlYota Ай бұрын

The thing that helped me the most with this is learning how much TIME you have to put in to get good at something. Everything has a TIME cost. If you want to play piano the way you see it on KZfaq it’s gonna cost you five years of 3 hour daily practice. Same for drawing. Same for dancing. Same for just about any skill. These are simply too expensive. A problem people have is that they see specialists doing cool stuff on KZfaq and then they want to do it to. But once you internalize the cost your brain will determine it’s not worth it. You have to run a proper cost benefit analysis and lots of people fail to understand the cost. Sometimes you have to try things to realize how hard they are and how much time you have to pay to achieve them. Then you’ll lose interest. After doing this for 40 years you eventually get the point. A lot of people who let thier interest run away with them are kinda assuming they will be able to achieve what they want with reasonable time and effort. They don’t understand that the people who are inspiring you got that good by neglecting everything else in thier life. They specialized. So unless you want to specialize you have to put such nonsense aside.

@ssjcosty Ай бұрын

There’s effort indeed, but there are cases where some people are able to get really good in a very short timespan. For example, I follow a fingerstyle guitarist who learned how to play guitar and started posting videos of his performances the very same year and he was very good at it from early on. Now, I also play fingerstyle guitar, and have done for 20 years, and yet I can’t compete with what this guy managed to achieve in just a few years.

@trudyannbuckley Ай бұрын

As someone who has put so much pressure on myself that I burn out and feel shame for not practicing, I can also speak to a few things I've learned that may sound counterintuitive to your video, but I think they could compliment your ideas, they just have their time and place: 1) It's okay to only practice for two minutes sometimes. 2) It's okay to let a hobby go for a while, even if it feels important to you. 3) It's okay to chase the joy in a hobby until you feel curious enough to take on the more challenging parts. 4) Having constant contact with someone who also does that hobby can make a WORLD of a difference in your motivation.

@odysseas__ 24 күн бұрын

These are great points

@JohnnyGTR-pn6pw 4 күн бұрын

agreed , especially the second point, if you practiced that hobby enough your muscle memory will make it easy to get back into it

@robbielouie Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing this. I really needed that. Been feeling quite miserable for the past weeks 'cause I wanted to do lots of things, which made me overwhelmed. I'll plan out for this month and see for myself for improvements.

@A12345AI Ай бұрын

You need a good schedule. Freedom to ignore schedule on schedule. Leave options. You have them.

@rere5020 2 ай бұрын

Really refreshing to hear that some break and balance from constant grind that internet promotes

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

Yep, too common nowadays. Many liars too. Thanks.

@gera_eb2588 Ай бұрын

Seeing this video brings me peace of mind because I identify with this issue a lot, an endless list of things to do that only seems different ways for me to do absolutely nothing. "Wasted potential", that's all I could hear late at night w/ just me and my thoughts. Gladly, I'm at a point in my life where I've gained enough maturity so I can do some of the things that I love and have self-fullfilment because of it. Personally, professionally, socially, etc. Also, I thought (as anyone does normally) that my struggles where self-contained and no one understands my obstacles. Generalists, renaissance man. Before this video I didn't knew the existence of those concepts and how could that apply to me (or anyone that feels the same). As weird as it sounds thanks a lot, KZfaq algorithm. You just won a new suscriber. Thanks for the video, keep it up!

@vinceflores 5 күн бұрын

Avoiding Creative Jealousy: that point is so truth, i feel constantly ashamed and bad generally because social media... because i can't do it all, and it's true... you can't do it all

@pragvanshsingh1579 Ай бұрын

Dude the happiness/time graph literally oppened my eyes. It was a another level insightful thaught

@odysseas__ Ай бұрын

Glad to hear it!

@ylnst 2 ай бұрын

This is one of my most asked question that hasn't been answered enough, thank you so much for this video!!!

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

I'm real glad to hear that -much appreciated!

@woodfamily5229 Ай бұрын

I just turned 45 yesterday and learned so much from you, young man. Trying to implement it will be my next step. My biggest problem is that I take layoffs from hobbies because I just suddenly and without warning lose interest in them for months or years at a time. Then I suddenly get super interested in them again and almost have to start from scratch again just for the cycle to continue. It's super frustrating. One thing that has helped me in monumental amounts was getting rid of all social media. I no longer see people doing all the things that I want to do and doing them well like they have all the time and talent in the world. It's been absolutely game changing to not look at stuff like that.

@yours_truly42 19 күн бұрын

One moth late but I'll say it anyways: You're like a British Van Neistat. Totally no BS, no intro, right to the point. Perfect.

@odysseas__ 19 күн бұрын

Cheers!

@denes.andras 2 ай бұрын

The fact that the used painting (around 7:20) was painted by a hobbyist while being so professional is just amazing!!!

@odysseas__ 2 ай бұрын

Wow that's a nice coincidence, I had no idea

@canobenitez Ай бұрын

the fuck! Vermeer was a hobbyst?

@denes.andras Ай бұрын

Well, it's not a checked fact. Our art history teacher was talking about the fact that he had much amounts of money reserves and that's why he could afford much better paints than the average painters. But sources indicate that despite losses, he still painted, but wanted to make profit as well. So noone really knlws, I suppose.

@thesmokinggnome 2 ай бұрын

You are very well spoken, this video speaks to me on a lot of levels. I've always attributed my countless hobbies and barely any finished products to un-diagnosed ADD/ADHD. I've been a "space-cadet" my whole life. In my early 30's now, I see more value in my skills these days even though they aren't always apparent. The bit about scrolling tiktok or youtube and seeing such great creations, yet feeling inadequate is undeniable. I suspect its because throughout history humans would contribute to their community, no matter the task. So its like when we see stuff like this, we are left empty because we see the finished result and weren't gaining skills through participation. This is only my suspicion, and I think it bleeds over into many other facets of the internet as well(looking at you, social media). Thank you for sharing your experience, all the best.

@odysseas__ Ай бұрын

Thanks, and that's a great point. We're born to be useful members of our group, and if the internet makes that group the entire world, it's easy to feel behind