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@angelicacalalang29733 жыл бұрын
"One day when you are walking down the aisle, looking at the love of your life. You'll be thankful and you'll realize why it did not work with anybody else." ☹❤
@chinni00183 жыл бұрын
Dr Frank can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
@chinni00183 жыл бұрын
Text him on whatsapp
@chinni00183 жыл бұрын
+2347044509792🙏
@daniellaresco68522 жыл бұрын
💖😭
@Randomthings-onlinee2 жыл бұрын
Broken yarn bb? Hahahaha
@marzky33893 жыл бұрын
sa lahat ng nagmomove-on,sama sama tayo sa pagiging best version ng mga sarili natin.. hnd mn madali, pero walang susuko
@MariaDeLeon2 жыл бұрын
☹️
@jane_espacio2 жыл бұрын
sad but true
@justineagathagaddi4642 жыл бұрын
😢
@caiperico59972 жыл бұрын
😔
@thankyouu70872 жыл бұрын
thankyoyy
@alamischerryanns.56673 жыл бұрын
How to really move-on? By Real Talk Darbs Here are the key points to remember: 1. Feel the pain and don't be scared 2. Make a decision 3. Focus on yourself 4. Realized your self-worth 5. Give yourself a time to be alone 6. Allow yourself to be selfish in order for you to be selfless 7. Don't find the right one be the right person to someone Thank you so much for this on point advices. I've learnt a lot from this. New subscriber here. More power po.
@lizavillacorte47462 жыл бұрын
💜💜💜love yourself more ..acceptance is the key for everything..life goes on ..
@hannahfernandico61532 жыл бұрын
Thankyou
@christophermartinprado55602 жыл бұрын
@@hannahfernandico6153 🙂
@softthick85092 жыл бұрын
Totoo kailangan talaga e feel ang pain at e iyak mo para ma relieve, saka mo ma tanggap na wala na sya.. 100% accurate👍
@mr.reindeersfriend730 Жыл бұрын
Salamat po.
@chinggay84613 жыл бұрын
Di mo ksalanan, ngmahal ka lng. If u are not valued. Walk away, dont look back. Move on...
@marygraceperez75544 жыл бұрын
"do not find the right one, instead focus to be the right person to someone"... 👏👏👏👏
@maryjoyantipuesto96912 жыл бұрын
Hindi ko akalain, aabot ako dito. Sana madali lang ang lahat! 😭 bumalik lang siya para iparamdam sakin yung ganitong heartache. 💔😭 walang gabing hindi ako naiyak. Makakamove on din tayo, dahan dahan. 😭
@genecranel2032 Жыл бұрын
My Girlfriend just broke up with me earlier this day.. I'm so devastated, Just like what other people been thru.. I'm glad I Found this video it made me cry on the earlier part realizing forgiveness and acceptance and the fact she is gone now.. without the assurance of coming back, after finishing this content, I feel lot better now and learned a lot as well, I'll be going to take this lessons to heart , step by step little by little, I'll be the best version of myself for myself and for the people's around me as well, mark this day "February 11 2023" I'm going to back in this comment section when I'm fully healed.
@markuchiha7737 Жыл бұрын
Love yourself now. Only you and God are the best allies you can rely on during this tough time. Have faith and this is only temporary. You deserve to be happy. Whatever the reason of the separation, you have to find yourself.
@MsLin10 Жыл бұрын
Halos sabay pa po tayo ng healing process but little by little magiging okey rin po tayo.Get up!and Love our self❤
@omarprudenciado-realtytv87065 ай бұрын
Fully healed naba?
@julieannfajardo25855 ай бұрын
Sir ano po balita sa moving on mo?
@fsmaryjoy11812 ай бұрын
Naka move ka po ba sir o naging kayo ulit ? 😢
@destinegraceboado2014 Жыл бұрын
I'm on the process of moving on I hope this will help, thank you Kuya Darbs!!! Yakap sa lahat ng sinusbukang mag move on! 😔
@maricelserenio146 Жыл бұрын
Fighting tau sis😢
@janlouisemakiling347411 ай бұрын
🙏🏻
@analynochea2111 ай бұрын
❤ yes move on its so hard 😢
@anthonypaguirigan55826 ай бұрын
Ang sakit sakit.
@chachamontemayor213 жыл бұрын
Break up this time of pandemic is so hard😭😭
@lilyeighty6613 жыл бұрын
EXATLY, 7 months na nung nag break kami, masakit pero isipin natin SELF WORTH NATIN. IN THE LONG RUN, magpapasalamat rin tayo na naka move on tayo. I have learn na never beg, just please never beg. SELF WORTH AT MAGDEVELOP NG IBANG SKILLS NA MAG EEXCELL TAYO.
@miinlee52453 жыл бұрын
Its happening now s akn. 4 yrs n kau dmi n plano tpoz nlmn mo nlgn mg 4 mnths n pla cla ung subrng mnhl mo xa kla mo xa n ung ksma mo hbng buhay nd pla Then i ask him he full nlove with that grl sbi ms mahal nya aq Anung claseng tao un
@miinlee52453 жыл бұрын
Same mi sissy pro tnangp qn its so hard pro icipin mo nlng nd nya dserve pgmmhl mo
@junmiramistv3 жыл бұрын
totoo po yan.sobrang sakit.kami ng asawa ko kahapon lng nghiwalay.ang hirap mgmove on.lalo n pinagpalit nya ng anak nya sa my perang tao.
@raffygeorginacolens76703 жыл бұрын
True ive been there 😔
@ydee40883 жыл бұрын
It really is not easy to move on, and I may be struggling today, but i know i'll be better in time... 😭
@jholove38833 жыл бұрын
i feel you ate its not easy to move on 😭😭😭
@fritzgallo67783 жыл бұрын
I feel u .. Its not easy ..
@edriellevlogs33303 жыл бұрын
Me too 😭😭😭 akala ko hiwalay na sila putang ina he only used me
@PDeeBB3 жыл бұрын
4yrs na nga ako nagmomove on e😂 (6yrs kami) . Mag aasawa na at lahat lahat c ex e, d pa ako totally nakakalimot😅. Kapit lang.
@emilymanggay47103 жыл бұрын
I fell you po 😭😭😭kaya natin to
@jpcorpuz47663 жыл бұрын
Legit yung kapag mag isa ka tapos doon ka aatakihin ng pag iisip . Legit yung akala mo na nakakalimot ka pero mali pala. Legit yung mas pipiliin mong tulog kesa gising para mabantayan lg sarili mo sa pede mong magawa dahil sa lungkot. Legit yung sama ng loob na naiipon sa dibdib mo. Legit yung sakit na ipapaalala ng mga bagay bagay sa paligid mo kahit piliin momg h'wag na umalala pa Legit yung kahit isang minuto di sya nawawala sa pag iisip mo Legit yung mga oportunity na nasayang dahil lang nasa estado kapa na gusto mo kumalimot at Legit yung kumakalimot ka nang taong minsan naging mahalaga sa ala-ala mo.
@MsLin10 Жыл бұрын
I really feel it
@sarah-bs2dw Жыл бұрын
super true
@charlesborromeo1735 Жыл бұрын
Tama sir . Depression nga po nllbanan ko ngaun. Hrap ipilit ung srili s hndi tkga nagmmhal ng totoo . 16:50 16:52
@ming96804 ай бұрын
@@charlesborromeo1735hayyyyyyy . How r u na po
@mitchchannel4292Ай бұрын
Ngayon ang nararamdan ko ngyon
@ameltonpangilinan6961 Жыл бұрын
"stop finding happiness in the same place you lost it" ❤️
@itsmevan20233 жыл бұрын
If you know what you bring to the table, you will not be afraid to eat alone. 👏🏼
@dulcealcantara13993 жыл бұрын
Same tayo, at the age of 47 wala p rin asawa. Ang tanong ko din, bakit lagi ako iniiwan or ung mahal ako nawawala din s huli.. inisip ko nlang may plan si God para s kin.
@elisamallari3424 жыл бұрын
Hindi ko alam kung bakit bigla ko nalang sinearch yung "How to moveon" at pinanuod to. Pero it really helps me, selfworth is the key. ❣️
@ctto3838 Жыл бұрын
kamustaaaa
@36Nep2 жыл бұрын
1. Feel the pain 2. Make a decision 3. Focus on yourself 4. Realize your self-worth 5. Learn to be alone 6. Be selfish to be selfless 7. Do not find the right one. Be the right one.
@hannasangabriel90912 жыл бұрын
This is my first time listening to you, sir. We broke up this January. We've been together for 8 years. Thank you so much! I finally have the courage to let go and move forward. Thank you for your words of wisdom and encouragement 🙂
@nuckingfuts95272 жыл бұрын
potek matindi to 8 years. kami nga 1 year lang hirap na e. this month lang
@chillydate2522 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the advices, selfish pko talaga at hindi pa maka move on ..16yrs relationship. Para akong namatayan...
@tinalarcon63792 жыл бұрын
grabe i feel you,, we broke up this january, 4 years together, napakahirap tanggapin pero wala ka nang magawa,
@almandmejilla26062 жыл бұрын
Kung 8 years to kami going 4 years. Kaya ko din! Laban lang tayo. 🥺✊🏻
@shaneallensebastian99982 жыл бұрын
Awww. Same. We broke up din last january and we've been together for 6 years. And i dont know how to start again
@minggaysworld4 жыл бұрын
Honestly di ko namalayan na nakamove on na pala ako. I returned to school immidiately after break to make myself busy... slowly I put myself together and become a strong independent woman. Pasalamat pa nga ako kase kase nakawala ako sa toxic relationship.. I can't imagine na madami pala akong pwedeng gawin.. And pwed din palang maging happy kahit wala akong partner. Thanks to RTD and I really enjoy listening to your advices..🌻🌻🌻
@RealTalkDarbs4 жыл бұрын
Mei Donoghue hello mei! Im happy kasi nalampasan mo na pinkamahirap na part. Learn to love being alone ksi that will be your foundation that would lead you to the right relationship
@janicedoria62193 жыл бұрын
Sana ako di'
@melodyroguel23 Жыл бұрын
Darating din ako sa sitwasyon na ganyan wag ko lang hayaan tlg bumalik uli.
@Idk-u2j4 жыл бұрын
sa 16k people na kelangan talaga e search sa youtube kung pano mag move on, WE CAN GET THROUGH THIS 😊😘
@aprilsantos58843 жыл бұрын
Gusto ko un sinabi niya, instead of clinging to your emotions of being hurt, focus on your career or self development and prepare your self for the right one for you. Kasi past is past kahit anung pagiiyak mo jan di kana babalikan , ayusin mo sarili mo para kay the one na darating sa future, definitely pagkakataon na lang ang inaantay!
@maykigarzon2 жыл бұрын
Saw this for the first time. Broke up with my bf of 3 years. Not actually break up kasi iniwan na lang nya ko bigla. I’m so down and broken. Feeling ko iniwan nya ko sa era. Sobrang sakit kasi feeling ko binigay ko lahat kahit di ako perfect. Making a promise to watch this video everyday until I become better. Thank you so much Kuya Darbs. This video really spoke to me. I know this would help me heal. God bless you! 6.13.22
@joyceyap70842 жыл бұрын
Same here 😭😭😭
@rueljr.ibarbia26812 жыл бұрын
Thank you Kuya Darbs, I've been watching most of your videos. It helps me a lot in overcoming the pain day by day caused by someone whom I loved for 2 years. Not fully healed pa, I know it's very difficult to move on, I know naga struggle pa ako today, but hoping to reach that point na magiging okay na ako. Sending virtual hugs to all na kagaya kong naga move on. Makakaya natin to 🤗
@edisoncamingawan66122 жыл бұрын
Amen
@g_aguilar6090 Жыл бұрын
Kaya madami ang traumatised sa pag ibig dahil sa lintek na pain and sufferings na naranasan in the past relationship. Healing is really a long process.
@leanfaithsantos9744 Жыл бұрын
Experiencing so much pain right now, feeling the pain and loneliness, It's so hard telling oneself that he's gone and I need to live and build myself alone, the trauma of cheating repeated, that causes so much pain in my heart🥺, Thanks for the advice Real Talk Darbs, I do hope everyone who experience being broken will find it's peace and worth someday, We deserve to be love, Everything happens for a reason, maybe God has a plan and put us in this situation because something good is about to come.♥️Amen
@rosemarieantonio5642 жыл бұрын
umokay ako bigla. panoorin ko nalang ulit to when i get sad.
@MrsPatch-dc1rp2 жыл бұрын
I hope one day when I come back to this video, I have already apply the words you’ve said. Slowly, I know I will be okay. My love will be gone for 4 years to pursue his dreams, and I will be stuck here in our place, our city, our dreams for each other striving to move on and find courage again to fight. The moment we get the results from the academy I know that there’s nothing I can do anymore but to accept the fact that we both love each other but it won’t last because we both need to grow and learn on our path. I really pray that he’ll get accepted because I know how much he has to sacrifice the things he love the most to pursue his dreams. And i’ll always remember his favorite quote, “ the hardest choice requires the strongest will.” We might have promised each other to not leave each other’s side but I know that God has a better plan for the both of us. I just have to keep reminding myself that if he is the one for me, no matter how far I will travel and venture, our love will always find us both. But if he’s not the one and we’ll just forget each other in the span of his study in the academy, that’s God’s way of telling me that I am not the one he is supposed to end up with, God has prepared a girl so much better than me, and eventually I have to accept it because I, myself always wants whats better for him even though I am not that person. I just really have to let him go, to grow and learn, and while he create his own path and venture on his journey, here in my place, I will focus on myself and on the things that I love. So when the time comes that the person who’s meant for me will come, I am ready to accept him wholeheartedly and I will be able to give all the love that he deserve. P.S my grammar might not be on its best form, but this is how I really feel right now. Hope i’ll be better soon.
@MrsPatch-dc1rp Жыл бұрын
He wasn’t able to attend the academy, and we both ended things brutally. Now, I’ll be watching this video and rereading my comment, realizing that we weren’t meant for each other. No pursuing of dreams or different schedules, it was the internal conflict that wasn’t communicated made us end things between us. I am ready to take a step in my new journey. You are all in my past, I have to welcome my present. Thank you, and good bye.
@bscpe1_saludaresjohnmarkn.1582 жыл бұрын
I fake moving on in front of people, but once I'm alone the sadness overwhelms me again.
@geonalopez55063 жыл бұрын
It's been a year but it still hurts. This is what I needed the most, thank you 💙
@julieferdelacruzzzzzz3 жыл бұрын
This message is for me. I'm on a healing process. 🌻🌻 I can't afford again to lose someone just because I'm not that totally healed. We need to go through the process, so that next time we can offer the best version of ourselves to someone that God is appointing us to be with for the rest of our lives.
@sherwinmontanejos73172 жыл бұрын
And I'm into it!! powerfully mindset lift us to be the best version of yourself.
@misshope33604 жыл бұрын
My 5yrs relationship ended because he cheated on me, he got another girl pregnant and when i ask him about it, seems like he's blaming me for everything. 🙃 It's devastating, considering the fact that I did nothing but to love him with my whole heart and accept everything he is. It's so heavy that i found myself crying every night, overthinking. I pity and feel sorry for myself for letting them ruin me, emotionally. I had a lot of questions in my mind for the past months. I'm so happy I came across to this video. It's like all of my questions have answers now. 🙂 I'm still in the healing process and hoping to feel better soon. Thankyou for this. 👍
@RealTalkDarbs4 жыл бұрын
Miss Hope happy to help. Hopefully your healing starts soon
@margracey99404 жыл бұрын
i think same ng mga reason yong boys na tayo yong bini blame..
@lilyeighty6613 жыл бұрын
fuck I know the feeling
@MaryJane-rv8wn3 жыл бұрын
𝑰𝒇𝒚😭
@miinlee52453 жыл бұрын
Sme 4 yrs kmi pngplit aq hbng kmi p 4 mnths n pla cla. Peo pg mga gnyn ng cheat nd yn mgttgumpay s bgo nya relationship
@d-perezjuliet49563 жыл бұрын
“Because of pandemic, we broke up" No. Hindi dahil sa pandemic. You broke up with that person not because of pandemic but because hindi talaga kayo ang para sa isat-isa. I mean hindi kayo ganun katatag para lampasan ang pandemic na ito.
@miniworkaholic3 жыл бұрын
Tama. Ako din iniwan during the pandemic. At some point gusto ko sisihin yung nangyayari pero hindi e. May chioce ang mga taong nang iiwan.
@kathdeubago42712 жыл бұрын
I just finished praying and saw this video. Thank you, I needed this.
@maricessorilla94142 жыл бұрын
I really need to hear it now 🙂.. thank you! Its good to know that there is someone who understand what we really feel.
@iemcassandraf4 жыл бұрын
Going through an extreme heartbreak right now that i just had to shut myself off from friends and family. This video helped me a lotttt. Thanks for this RTD! sobrang nakakatulong ka.. 1. Feel the PAIN and go through it. 2. Make a DECISION 3. Focus on YOURSELF 4. Realize your SELF WORTH 5. Learn how to be ALONE 6. Be SELFISH to be SELFLESS 7. Do not find the right one, be the right person for someone Kudos. ~ keep em coming, keep inspiring!
@RealTalkDarbs4 жыл бұрын
cassandra filasol i am so glad you took it to the heart! Amazing! thank you for watching!
@riannederiquito31713 жыл бұрын
Experienced and still going through a heartbreak. But I am confident that it wont last any longer
@SirAbug4 жыл бұрын
Move-on na guys!!! be yourself!! love yourself first!!
@jhenbalboa91813 жыл бұрын
thank you kuya darbs, listening to you really help me to realize that I need to prioritize myself and forget the person who destroy me and take advantage on the time that I am lost and weak. Maybe time will heal me.
@misskiansa112 жыл бұрын
Go through all those pain and cry it all until you get tired crying and you will feel better through the process. That number one advice is really how I get over a love ones 🥺.
@talapascual53864 жыл бұрын
I'm on the process na. Moving on from 7 years relationship is not easy, but it's not impossible to do so din :) Ang sarap lang makapakinig ng perception ng lalaki. Salamat dito! :)
@mr.kennethsolomon2 жыл бұрын
Musta Ang pag move on?
@aaljohn3722 жыл бұрын
Musta na boss?
@mariaroxannegojar2 жыл бұрын
How are you na po?
@justineagathagaddi4642 жыл бұрын
How are you po? Were on the same page right now. Same 7 years. 😢
@geraldenedawisan93692 жыл бұрын
Must sir??
@jayviesfitspiration94934 жыл бұрын
Acceptance is the real secret of moving on😊💚
@RealTalkDarbs4 жыл бұрын
Jayvie-Ann Guade yep pero thats a macro advise. How do you arrive to the feeling of acceptance?
@jayviesfitspiration94934 жыл бұрын
@@RealTalkDarbs its a matter of accepting the fact that your not meant to be together po. You both deserve better. Feel the pain, forgive then move on😊
@RealTalkDarbs4 жыл бұрын
Jayvie-Ann Guade fair enough. But easy to say. Most people know that but why it os difficult to do? Coz they dont know where to start? Accepting, telling them to move. How? If ill tell to be in a place where youve never been before and say you asked me how to go coron island palawan (for example) ill tell you ride a plane from manila then when you land ride boat. Easy to say right? And my answer was not wrong. But thats a macro advise, you need specifics on how to buy a plane ticket and where in palawan you need to land. You also need which boat to ride, where to find them and the costs. All of that is necessary. So when giving advise and we tell them you need to accept the fact. That doesnt make the advise wrong but the question is how?
@jayviesfitspiration94934 жыл бұрын
@@RealTalkDarbs I feel you but I just broke up with my 7yrs relationship last april 17 he cheated on me twice but then I accepted the fact that where not meant to be that's why I let him go freely to find his own happiness and contentment that he didn't see/feel towards me😊💚
@angelevekaye46303 жыл бұрын
Yes exactly very on point 😊😊 let time heal you first 😊
@kobeatecson3 жыл бұрын
i am crying the whole time watching this video!!! it's worth it to watch! taraaa move on tayo! ❤️
@babsc15724 жыл бұрын
Yes, it's true. It happened to me. It took me a long time to grasp everything. Healing and moving on is a long process. As time goes by you will realize you have finally moved on with the person and with the situation. Matatawa ka na lang kapag maaalala mo... Now following you. See you around. Take care and keep safe.
@erlindarobis59582 жыл бұрын
napaka tanga ko ngayon 😭🥲 lahat binibigay ko.
@RocyleiJaneCOra2 жыл бұрын
@@erlindarobis5958 Fresh from break up po ako kahapon lang masakit pero kakayanin he was my first bf but now i need to let him go
@silentguy61274 жыл бұрын
Yes, accept the FACT that it is FINISHED.
@RealTalkDarbs4 жыл бұрын
Silent Guy yessir
@annecherrysantos58213 жыл бұрын
Ikaw ba toh??
@annecherrysantos58213 жыл бұрын
Madaling sabihin kasi hindi ikaw yung nasaktan..or kasi hindi ikaw yung tunay na nagmahal sna na madali lang iaccept..sna nga bukas makalawa wla na yung sakit..yung sakit na parang halos araw araw papatay sau dahil sa bigat na nararamdaman mo..😢😢😢
@wilmanalla18193 жыл бұрын
Hindi madali pero wala ka nmn choice dmu mapilit ang isang tao kung dina masaya sayo...
@pinkoctober35633 жыл бұрын
@@annecherrysantos5821 same here
@aizcabug-os2273 жыл бұрын
I agree po. Sabi nga, let's love ourselves in such a way that others would know how we should be loved. 😊
@Hajima032 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much real talk darbs I'm agree I'm applying to myself all said.how to moving on.good bless.🙏
@maxshunt43403 жыл бұрын
Sobrang realtalk. Always kase natin natatanggap yung mga advices na tanggapin mo nalang, hayaan mo nalang. It's like sobrang daling gawin non. We're almost 5 years na before she fell out of love. Nagsawa, hindi na niya kaya maging masaya. I admit naman na may mistakes ako, but I changed and she knows it. It's just that I'm too late I guess. I tried to fix it naman, tinanggap ko padin siya despite of everything she has done to me. But yun nga, I was too late na. So I decided to stop nadin. Pero ngayon sobra kong nahihirapan knowing na may iba nang nagpapasaya sakanya. Mas nananaig padin yung pagmamahal ko, hindi ko kayang magalit. Mas gusto ko padin siyang mahalin, mas gusto ko padin siyang tanggapin. I rely my happiness to her by a large scalee. Like what you said, ginawa ko siyang mundo. But after watching thiss I really think na hindi ko na alam yung self worth ko to the point na sisirain ko yung sarili ko for her. So this is a big helpp as in. I'll try to follow the steps. Thankyou. Goodluck sa healing process ko and to all the pips na nakakaranas ng situation as of this moment. Kaya natin to.
@kopiseaf.58353 жыл бұрын
Totoo. Umikot angvmundo sa kanya but in the end iniwan ka pa din. Sabi nila..you dont destroy the person you love
@bumanlagrhyzen56302 жыл бұрын
How are you na po?
@sarahjeantangonan8301 Жыл бұрын
same story as mine.. 5yrs in a relationship before being dumped.. it's been almost 4yrs since he left me pero until now i'm still hurting.. it isn't easy to move on.. 😕 😪
@erickceleste4275 Жыл бұрын
same po tayo subra hirap mag move on lalo na may nag papasaya na sa kanya
@ming96804 ай бұрын
Its been 3 years since nag comment ka po dito. I hope you're better right now❤
@officialselenator586 Жыл бұрын
Focus on being the right person. This really made a lot of difference on how I feel right now. Thank you Kuya Darbs ❤
@maylateves77 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Kuya Darbs. 💓 I will be back commenting on your videos once I am fully healed.
@ness2579 Жыл бұрын
This is the best advise. I like most the part that once you make a decision it should be final. And make yourself best for yourself not for others. I like that. I always listen to this to remind myself always if I became weak. This make strong
@Maryam-qw8it3 жыл бұрын
Thats why i always end up broken because i always find the right one without asking myself if i am the right person to someone. Thank you kuya Darbs for the advice🙏
@marilynhernandez89723 жыл бұрын
I was in a very bad situation 4yrs ago and im thankful i have moved on for quite a long time now. And watching your video now made me smile because i actually did all what you said and moving on was the best journey i had after the break up💜💜💜
@mariloucainap56352 жыл бұрын
how long did ittake foryou to finally movedon?
@acepatrickaquino3559 Жыл бұрын
ngayon ko lang nakita tong channel na to. i need this. Thank you. Makakaya mo din to ☺
@karinacrumbley16473 жыл бұрын
So true, just what I need to hear and what I need to do. Ty
@nestytabsing21314 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SA LAHAT NG ADVICE. NGAYON MASASABI KO NASA TAMANG PROSESO LANG AKO ❤️
@xialinsy68164 жыл бұрын
From the bottom of my healing heart,thank you❤❤
@RealTalkDarbs4 жыл бұрын
Ling Saga happy to help
@vanessagomez4102 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your wisdom! Im in the process of healing from a broken engagement 💗
@ethelalon39512 жыл бұрын
This is the best self talk about MOVING ON....that i ever heard, so far. Very applicable ang points. At panalo ang ending sentence. Suskow pow i need that ,I commend u sir Dab. 💜
@daebautista45323 жыл бұрын
Ang hirap mag move on lalo na kung sa umpisa ng relationship nyo nag live in na kayo agad tapos after 2 years nagka anak na kami kasi hiniling nya sakin na sana bigyan ko daw sya ng anak pero nung lumabas na yung baby namin after 1 month nakipag hiwalay na sya dahil lang sa mababaw na away. Siguro naghanap nalang sya ng dahilan para maging malaya. Hirap na hirap ako mag move on kasi ayaw ko lumaki yung anak ko sa broken family dahil ako mismo lumaki ako sa broken fam at sobrang hirap non. Kahit may bago na sya hanggang ngayon umaasa at pinag dadasal ko pa rin na sana balang araw maisip nya na mas masarap umuwi sa mag ina nya na laging nandyan sa hirap at ginhawa para sa kanya kahit pinagtabuyan nya ng paulit ulit.
@cartoonstv94642 жыл бұрын
Sending virtual hugsss ate🥺😔
@daebautista45322 жыл бұрын
@@cartoonstv9464 nakalimutan ko nag comment pala ako ng ganito hahahaha nababaduyan na ko sa comment ko 😂😂😂😂. Btw, masaya na ko ngayon. Time heals all wounds 🙏🥰
@cartoonstv94642 жыл бұрын
@@daebautista4532 Ate relate kasi ako ngayon hahaha kaya nagreply tuloy ako. Btw I'm happy for you po♥️
@nebridaemmarie30964 жыл бұрын
Sarap umiyak habang nakikinig.Feels like im talking to my kuya. Thank you po. Nakakagaan ng pakiramdam😊 It is really easy to forgive but to forget? It's the hardest part. It's my first heartbreak and i don't have regrets. Thank you so much po sa lahat ng payo.
@charlesborromeo1735 Жыл бұрын
.hrap tkga mkapag forget. Ako hlos iniiwan for how many yrs. And now gnun prin .
@vincere736411 ай бұрын
Pangalawang basted ko na ngayon taon hahaha pangalawang nood ko na din. Nakaka relieve talaga panoorin to. Salamat sir Darbs
@maanvelasco7041 Жыл бұрын
Thank you sobrang need ko marinig ito.. pasko pa naman 🥺
@rackyalob62444 жыл бұрын
Yes sir darbs napapahanga talaga sa mga wisdom talks mo♥ skl my past relationshp was 5 yrs ago. And instead na maghanap ako ng iba i focus my self pano ba maging worthy, nag focus ako how to finish my studies naging strong independent woman ako to be exact. At madami ang naka appreciate don. Nakita ko na ang worth ko na hindi ako basta bastang babae. Ngayon i have this someone na special sakin and he treated me as a his ideal girl.😇
@RealTalkDarbs4 жыл бұрын
Racky Alob im happy you got over it😉 see after all the, may happiness parin
@tet26594 жыл бұрын
Sana all... 😊
@tet26594 жыл бұрын
Need someone that can relate s story ko..😔 Im glad you made it.. Congrats 😊
@glaze____96223 жыл бұрын
sana alllll.... i hope ako din in the future🙈🙈🙈
@rackyalob62443 жыл бұрын
@@RealTalkDarbs but now he broke up with me kasi nakahanap ng malapit HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA utas🤣
@bhebesteban37803 жыл бұрын
thank you for advice kuya darbs :( still crying right now, someday he will realized how important i am :'(, nandon nako sa point na obsess napo talaga, diko kaya :( looking forward .
@jensanelali19963 жыл бұрын
Yes..its very true..feel the pain...me i put limit when i stop everything for us for my self to feel better.
@emilypadriguez2532 Жыл бұрын
Thank you kuya Darbs sa mga advice mo, mula nung napanood ko mga videos mo natuto ako mag move on at nalaman ko ang halaga ko.
@angelieepanis39753 жыл бұрын
This is the 3rd time that I listened to this video and it really hits me. 1month already since we broke up and I can still feel the pain. This advice of Kuya Darbs, help me a lot to go through the pain that I am feeling and realize my worth. Thank you Kuya Darbs, I pray that more people will be inspired the way you give advices. Mauubos ko na po sa kakapanood ung videos mo dito sa youtube. God bless you!
@jhomrusianafilms Жыл бұрын
Kumusta ka na now, ma'am. I need words huhu
@aljonjohnmahinay7610 Жыл бұрын
I'm currently at my lowest point once again. Pero this time, i want to help myself. I want to be better, to heal without doing self harm. I want to move forward pero ido not know my next step. Then i saw this video...THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!
@janzelvillavesencio9962 Жыл бұрын
same situation ,,i dont know where to start again. hirap kc need na bitawan tlga😔😔😔
@pancha86033 жыл бұрын
napaka real talk mo po... 😊 justified ung name ng channel niyo... the wisdom is so high... salamat po... napakareal talk po... decide whether to realy move on or u still hope to be together after break up... dats the stage most cant get over with... salamat po... its an eye opener...dats the jump start that most dont know... thank you for teaching me... salamat po kuya darbs...
@alyssadioso82683 жыл бұрын
Thank you Kuya Darbs. Nagising ako sa mga advice mo. I guess kaya din hindi pa ko maka-move on ay dahil nandun pa ko sa denial stage. I kept denying myself of the pain that I need to go through. I didn't realize I was only delaying the healing process simply because I'm trying to avoid the pain. In the process I was only hurting myself more.
@joannahernandez64563 жыл бұрын
Ending this year with a pain.... Feel the pain first.
@Blackfuse08MotoVlog3 жыл бұрын
Same here iniwan din ako ng minahal ko pra sa ibang lalake 🥺
@Iamhome19943 жыл бұрын
Same :(
@lizziesjournal61944 жыл бұрын
Sobrang helpful po..Thank you so much, he broke up with me during my lowest moment in my life..It was like its crashing to the bones, I always cry speciaally during night..I always stalk his account in dating site if he is online there thats how stupid I am for him! And now im trying to live my life on my own by learning new things and Pray as well but its still painful when I think about our happy times and his good qualities..
@godzero93 жыл бұрын
Thank you brother, your advice not only save my sanity but also my mind.
@eiyahgeronimo7202 жыл бұрын
solid tlga im on a moving on stage tapos eto mapaapnood mo laking tulong tlga 🤟🏻🤟🏻
@leebhug96573 жыл бұрын
It's really hard to move on from someone you gave every part of yourself.
@sheenasheena74643 жыл бұрын
Dr Frank can make your ex come back to you for a second chance. He was the one who helped me restore back my broken relationship of 3 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him.
@sheenasheena74643 жыл бұрын
Whtsaap him**.
@sheenasheena74643 жыл бұрын
___+2::3::4::70::44::50::97::92....
@lovelybacunas82512 жыл бұрын
True
@allyreyes57503 жыл бұрын
32k lang to nung nagpunta ako dito , NGAYON 99K na haha. Dami pala nag break up ngayong pandemic.😅
@itsgracie22603 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha 😅
@justinetan18132 жыл бұрын
🥲
@InspireWithImme3 жыл бұрын
This video recommended to me awhile ago by my good friend and this answered all of my questions since the last two years. Wow, just wow. It's been two years but it keeps haunting me because I just realized that I skipped the first and second steps of my healing process. This is an eye opener for me. All this time, I thought I knew everything but no. Indeed, everyday is a learning process. You may not know me but I am really thankful for this, Kuya.
@ebaogardenresort84473 жыл бұрын
I like the way u advice..and share yaah forgive and forget..
@francisgeneauguis83014 жыл бұрын
Let me cry one last time 😭
@deborahruthtayag15173 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with every step. feel the pain and don’t pretend that you’re okay kasi mas mahihirapan ka lang. its okay to be sad and hurt you’re allowed to feel that way because that means you really loved that person and its part of the healing process.
@innogee84233 жыл бұрын
Do you need help??
@memensalvador11723 жыл бұрын
Ang galing.. hindi ko namamalayan andun na ko sa 7th step.. ung be the right person for someone.. 😊
@patrickabellado12882 жыл бұрын
Ang galing niyo po magadvise sobra, dami kong natutunan. Thank you po sa mga advise niyo, it made me realize and learn the process of moving on.
@KuwentoPH4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for helping me move on tito darbs. Lablab! Your words are my guide to self-love and hopefully in time I can be full of love again that I have no room for it but to share it out to the world.
@RealTalkDarbs4 жыл бұрын
You know what, hearing that from you makes everything i do worth it! Self worth since day one😃
@KuwentoPH4 жыл бұрын
Real Talk Darbs I'm glad. Eto real talk. now, if I feel that I'm about to do something stupid, (like texting my ex) I all of a sudden hear your voice in head saying "Wag mo na ulitin, bes!" 🤣 kudos to you and your craft. Salamat sa inspirasyon 💜
@RealTalkDarbs4 жыл бұрын
Kuwento PH hahah naging boses ng konsensya mo na pala ako😂😝 keep it up! Wag na maging marupok
@tomandreijimena53923 жыл бұрын
Kuya Darbs Thank you for this advice. Reality hits me, its easy to say the word acceptance but I carry this for almost 8 months and I'm still stalking her on social media. (nagmahal kami ng walang label then bumalik siya, naiwan ako sa ere :)) But now I'm ready little by little, ayoko ng biglaang pagbitaw. 1. The only way to get out, is to feel and go through it. 2. Make a Decision. 3. Focus on yourself and find yourself worth. 4. Learn to be alone 5. Be selfish in order to be selfless. 6. Do not find the right one, be the right person for someone 7. Be the right person for someone.
@ayin68SV Жыл бұрын
Looking forward door the new journey of moving on..Sna meron ng the One at YoLO..
@marygraceestrada1431 Жыл бұрын
Watching Kuya darbs videos over and over again everyday is actually a big part of my moving on process.Thanks for your words of encouragement it help's me a lot😌
@tindaviid4 жыл бұрын
Watched this video for almost 10x😂 This is very helpful kuya darbs I swear🙌🏻 Thank you🤍
@juliemarlobido97914 жыл бұрын
I really need this kind of thinking right now. My kids needs their mom now more than ever. It is really not that easy going through this process. Thank you so much for this Kuya darbz 👍👍
@spencersadueste10214 жыл бұрын
relate ako sau sis.i have kids who need me kailangan ko maging malakas at matatag para sa kanila.it's been one week andito pa rin ang pain.i dont have someone to talk to.im praying for my healing and i will start loving myself..uunahin ko nman ang sarili ko kc naubos ako.
@kopiseaf.58353 жыл бұрын
@@spencersadueste1021 i feel this
@ninajanerica57032 жыл бұрын
Crying while listening and watching to this vid. I hope the next time I get to re-watch this vid, I'm already fully healed as I deserve to be... 💔
@sharlynnicolebago86653 жыл бұрын
Worth it napanuod koto♥️ that's true in the first place you make a decision na bumalik sa taong yun either nagsinungaling man siya, you say na napatawad mona siya pero bat binabalik balikan mopa kahit nakikita monaman na tina try niya yung best niya para lang bumalik loob mo skanya, sana in the first place di mo na binalikan diba but end up na iniwan parin hahaha toxic. Pinipilit niya pa bumalik para ano? Pagsawaan niya haahaha paka imma.
@princessamado5054 жыл бұрын
need this now 😢😢😢
@paulinetrinidad5612 жыл бұрын
I'd lost a man, a friend, and a partner, but not myself. So I set out on a journey to recover myself, to use this breakup as an opportunity for development and self-discovery rather than an excuse to dwell in self-pity. I find it difficult, especially because I don't know where to begin, but I know it's a worthwhile process.❤️
@ignaciochristianlloydm.5204 Жыл бұрын
thank you kuya darbs, now alam ko na di ko deserve yun tao na di ako pinahalagahan kagaya ng pagpapahalaga ko sa kanya. mali ko lang masyado kong pinaikot mundo ko sa kanya at ayan na ang di ko uulitin.
@reynandamarillo484 Жыл бұрын
Ang galing, andito ko sa point na to eh pero mostly nagagawa ko lahat ng advise felt the pain now, I am thinking this was a blessing in disguise thanks na napadaan ako dito I know that I am doing good and what happened was right.
@marcomanorina44664 жыл бұрын
Feel the pain and go through it. Solid kuya Darbs. Sampal pero magheheal parin. Salute you for advise.
@RealTalkDarbs4 жыл бұрын
Marco Manoriña thank you! Just go through it. Dont delay
@marcomanorina44664 жыл бұрын
@@RealTalkDarbs Salamat po darbs. I still want to feel the pain and proceed in making a decision.
@philipandrewfacistol95793 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this! im going thru pain myself now, ended an almost 2yr relationship because i became selfish and decided to fix myself alone.. now i regret it :( it really hurts that she pick to be alone rather than building herself back with me but i cant blame her because ive been toxic for a long time now im healing and hopefully one day ill be back in my comment here and just laught off everything :) and i promise to be a right person to the next person i will love
@maryjoysancover60772 жыл бұрын
I really fell you 😭😭😭
@hexiee86942 жыл бұрын
kamusta?
@jewellpetalcorin30932 жыл бұрын
kamusta?
@jemenanapila5827 Жыл бұрын
Kamusta?
@philipandrewfacistol9579 Жыл бұрын
WOW ITS BEEN A YEAR? HAHAHA NOW THINKING BACK, IF IT DIDNT ENDED WILL I BE IN THE SAME SITUATION RIGHT NOW? MAYBE ITS A BLESSING IN DISGUISE TBH, SOMETIMES RELATIONSHIPS HAD TO END FOR YOU TO HAVE A SELF REALIZATION AND KNOW YOUR SELF WORTH so to those who are still moving on, kaya nyo yan :) nakaya ko nga laban lang!
@jennelyncruz32722 жыл бұрын
Thanks po kuya..d po tlg mdali..pro as i listened to you mdami ko n realized and you are right po..hbang in pain iniisip ko yes lonely but not alone..God bless po . Salamat po
@jecil51285 ай бұрын
Sheeeyyt shakkkeet Gusto ko mgtambay lage dito parang Ang sarap sa pakiramdam,natauhan agad thank you kuya darbs sa advice sa mga broken vow este heart like us ,pag bumabalik sa isip ko ung mga nangyari pinapanood ko ulit to 😅para ipamukha sa self ko 😅apaka outch tlaga
@inangmoyern3 жыл бұрын
Kapag iniwan tayo ok lang masaktan wag mo lang tambayan 😂
@missindependent26013 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this kuya darbs.. i broke up with him cause he dont see my worth. 😊
@kellzcordilleran3128 Жыл бұрын
Thank you kuya.. words really amazing.. tagos.. bagay niyu po maging adviser
@cassgriffin10402 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir 😔 handa na ako kalimutan sya kahit sobrang sakit.