That goes with the saying, Love them anyway. What is important to note about grief is emotion doesn't stick. My Personal solution for Myself is to Love me more than any other thought. I don't know anybody else, that is more important than my emotions of feeling Good. Sometimes, even if you've spent time with someone, they just won't be up to your level. You can, like you emphasize still appreciate them for at least being a human.❤ I'm Glad for your perspectives. Being a Lesbian is the same yet different. Moving Forward should be Fun, we all can be Good to ourselves! Glad to see your posts they are productive!❤