Transform Your Life with www.blueprintreloaded.com/ Working hard lately! TONS of new videos coming. I'm also working on a new platform to host our CLASSIC content! It's expensive and amazing, so tons of time going into that. I also included my lovely ex girlfriend CJ Sparxx in today's vid -- follow her at instagram.com/cjsparxx -- we are still great friends years later, and she is a huge supporter of this community. I always felt bad I never promoted her Instagram when we were together. So tried to make up for it here by including some footage from a previous trip that we took (and then mixed it with footage from this year's trip). Be sure to follow her, she's one of the funniest people I've ever met, and say hi to her for me. Have fun! -Tyler

I'm impressed the cameraman was able to walk backwards for so long without falling over...

1. Everything I say has value purely bc it comes from me 2. Your perspective has value 3. Stop needing to be perfect 4. Make something boring interesting - cadence 5. “Release muscles” 6. Don’t rely on external validation - sense of internal worth is everything

Let's leave this life with as few regrets as possible.

I'm a copywriter and used taking notes on this vid as my morning write. Thought I'd copy & Paste for you guys. Also summarized in my own words at the end. Why did I do this? Because I am hungover and drinking coffee while watching this on a Sunday morning, lol. Went out last night, got hammered (i know, i know), puked on shirt, still pulled with puke on shirt, and now drinking coffee. Great weekend. Anyways... Here's notes. Tyler Tips: Beliefs you need to cultivate: 1) Everything you say has value because it came from YOU. You are worthy of holding someone's attention with you speech (and making them wait while you pause). Here's the crazy part: they will actually be GRATEFUL to be in the presence of someone who is comfortable enough to take time when they speak. AKA HIGH VALUE. 2) Everything you say has value because it's YOUR life’s perspective. Each person (even you) has a unique "energy signature" that is them in their entirety. We each have our own stories, own experiences, own focuses, etc. And these things merge together to form the person that is you. Nobody else has that same, literal-one-in-7-billion combination as you. Be courageous enough to share yourself with the world. Someone has to do it. Why not you? 3) Doesn’t matter what you say - it’s how you say it. Hold someone's attention while talking about ripping a leaf. Get them to stop what they're doing and light up like a christmas tree on the most boring of subjects. With good tonality, conviction, facial expressions, and high-level energy, people will want to hear you speak about anything. Tyler is a living example of this. 4) Let it go and see what arises like a magic 8 ball. Take a moment and think of 10 random words. Say them out loud. For me: monkey, jellybeans, silver, coins, coffee, mariokart. Where did these words come from? Who cares. Call it a higher power. Open yourself up to letting your higher power speak the words for you. Just BELIEVE those words are perfect, and they will be. It's not so much there's a "perfect thing to say"... but we need to consciously stamp every word that comes out of our mouths with the "THIS IS THE PERFECT THING TO SAY" belief. and it will become that. 5) Release muscle - sort of like 8 ball. Meditating helps a lot with this. When you are stifled, you are worrying about so many things, consciously and subconsciously. How you look, repercussions of social failure, how safe environment is, etc. Let it go. Release. Chill. You're good. Realize you're a dot on a floating rock and that your little social problem in some random bar is not a big deal. Overcome it by minimizing it. 6) Become aware of what your biology is doing to you. When we get negative social feedback in a new environment, our biology begins to feel threatened and the "I'm unsafe in this new environment" biological circuit kicks in. Become aware of the unsafe brain kicking in, and consciously re-create your social reality when you feel it creeping in. This can also be viewed as a type of "in-field meditation", IMO. When it happens, become aware, open another set, try again, and get a positive social feedback loop going despite any feedback you get. Use your CONTROL MUSCLE to let the Winner effect take hold of you, and then use your RELEASE MUSCLE when flow is initiated. 7) DEPENDANCE / NEEDINESS IS RUINING YOU. This may sound "self-helpy" on the surface but it is actually the CORE and FOUNDATION of being strong socially. You NEED people to give you a good response. Why? You NEED to live up to other people's standards. Why? Why do you need your best shirt when you go out? Why do you need the perfect haircut to be successful? Why do you need to make 100k/yr before you pull? Become aware of the blocks and limits you're creating for yourself & let go of them. Life is right now. Become the person you want to be right now. Stop waiting. Stop being needy. Fix yourself emotionally, unwind your strings, and see clearly. Summary: Someone who can't talk forever has some "unwinding" to do, and questions to ask. To make it as simple as possible to understand: You can't talk forever because you are valuing someone else higher than yourself. Once you learn how to value yourself more or as much as the person you're talking to, the rest comes naturally. EZ example: You can talk for years to your little niece, but not to the guy you're trying to make a business deal with. Real summary: Love yoself

This mindset helps with singing as well. Release release release, the less you try to control, the more control you have

AMAZING video, man!!! Curshing it! 🔥👊

Never thought I would come back after all these years, but here we are. Thank you, Owen, I will always owe you one.

The poor cameraman who had to do this whole hike backwards 😂

OG fans remember the hot girl and waterfall from tylers older video

Don't worry about the "perfect" thing to say. Just be authentic. People can sense that shit.

I've seen you do a few videos on how to never run out of things to say. This one absolutely resonates with the viewers.

Thank you for this grounding tutorial. I needed this. I've been on a journey that's similar to your early days. My brain unlocked this summer for about 3 months and I felt my winner effect after a long time. It was fucking amazing. After picking up many girls and conversing with many people and overcoming the depression I easily found a girlfriend. After becoming obsessive and being dumped by her I lost my winner effect and my brain re-locked. I ABSOLUTELY CAN NOT WAIT TO GET THAT FEELING BACK AND KEEP IT THIS TIME. Thanks for pushing me back in the right direction.

YOU BLOW MY MIND. This man is literally serving us the secret to life! Thank you so much

God I love you man

For some reason I always come back to this particular video, I have to watch it every now and then, it's so inspirational to me

Trying to be perfect shows that you care too much. 7:25 1. everything that you say has value because it comes from you 8:27 2. everything you say has value because it is your perspective. You're adding value. 9:24 3. Lower the bar for how good it has to be. It's not what you say, it's that you're interested in it. That's what matters. Your interest. You don't have to be perfect. In fact, stop trying to be perfect. 25:12 everything you do should be aimed toward avoiding being dependent and needy.

These videos are a blessing. I’m very grateful. Each new video made is so helpful. Thank you Thank you Thank you 🙏🏾

I love that you said everybody’s energy is like a unique snowflake. It’s so at odds with the character you named yourself after who would literally tell people “you are not a beautiful or unique snowflake.” 😂😂 definitely shows a lot of growth over the last 20 years

Owen man, thank you again, it's so hard for me at times because I easily forget the practical stuff when it comes to basic skills. It's quite funny really, as an artist I totally understood when you said in previous videos how you struggle not to fall into that "giver" category all the time. And that really got me hooked on self-help again after following the dating stuff for years before, to the point where even my family ask how it's all going and what i've learned from you guys! They ask this because I used to (still often am) very shy, anxious, awkward, feeling like i don't fit in, and if it weren't for you recommending the Power of Now in one of your (much older) vids I think five years ago, and for teaching me how to view life in a healthier manner, it's pretty likely that I wouldn't be here. You and the other RSD guys actually helped me to become aware of things so much to the point where I no longer needed my anti-depressants, and no longer self-harmed. I'm so grateful. I definitely fall under the "destructive artist" as Julien calls it (haha! xD) and each day is something new that I have to work on, and which strangely enough, keeps me grounded and focused on my bigger and smaller goals in my now hilarious life. A HUGE THANK YOUUU :D

Wow man incredible video!! Thanks for sharing !!!

I just watched this before meeting up with a girl and it was extremely helpful. I think his point of not trying too hard is very very important to emphasize. Thanks Owen! You're the man.

Fantastic vid and I'm glad you kept going to get out of the darkness! This vid + the truth about successes (1,3,4) are my faves. Had my brain turned on in different periods and it is simply phenomenal how natural you become and everything you say is just gold!

It is actually insane how insightful this information is, I would really wish more people understood these basic principals

Update to one of your all time GREAT vids imo. So greatful for this you have no idea Owen. Thanks.

Thank you for this piece of gold. Looking forward to your next uploads. Peace

Thank you so much, it completely changed me the next day.

These atmospheric/retrowave songs you started incorporating in your videos are the shiznet. Adds another level of enjoyment for me. Keep it real Tyler!

Always posted just as I need them!!

Came here to say Thanks...4 almost 5 years working hard and now i am FREEEEE , just watching the videos...theres nothing like being free...thank u Tyler...thank u so much...

The Robert Sapolsky reference keeps guys like Tyler at the top of heap when it comes to 'social reprogramming'. Bravo. #alphaIQ

Keep Rockin Owen! Best video I've seen from you in a while. Thank you!

*"Do you ever secretly wish that I would just tell you everything to say for the rest of your life ._. "* That made me laugh way harder then it should've

Thank you Tyler, love how you hustle to make and keep the quality videos, cheers from Argentina

Crazy!! Thanks for this brother. I will apply! Peace & much continued success!

It's crazy that I've listened to this advice thousands of time, but after I grow of see something work out in the real world, rewatching the video I learn things I didn't know before

Very important video!!! Thank you so much Owen!

Love you man! Keep it up, you're changing people

You're actually helping me Tyler. It's like you've heard me, known me and spoken to me before. Everything you've said is answering questions I have always had about the things I need to work on. Thank you so much for everything!

Unbelievable! Such valuable message, Gold! . So much value!

Exectly the video I needed right now. thanks as always, Owen.

You do a great work thinking about this so important things. Congratulations and thank you

I love how in the last couple minutes no one even so much as looks at you... all this “caring about what others think” is so much in the mind! Great video by the way Owen🤘🏻🔥

Thanks Tyler for such useful insights!

Thank you, Owen. This was very informative and help for me. I've experienced this same experience and feeling too! I just never knew how to translate it into words. And how make it more consistent. Going to let it settle and apply it now. Also beautiful editing and scenes!

thanks! love you!

Great video! Best I’ve seen on this topic

Thank you for this video, owen! You speak truth.

Very nice, this was a very rich tutorial. Thank you

Thanks Owen, You’re a living Legend 🙌

Owen...you really changed my life..The day when i found u and julian ... It changed me completely. Thank u

Pure gold awesome text just what I needed

tyler i love the direction your going, with the thumbnails the content! you're so cool!

thx for the tips... great content! I discover you yesterday!

One of the coolest videos of yours I've seen! Beautiful location too!

Love you man!!

Listen man, this is one of the Best videos I watched lately. So Thanks. Really, Thanks. From a nerdy introvert out there 👍

This works. guys i applied it whatever tyler said in this video and got the results you're only one step away from that experience and that feeling which tyler was talking about. All you need is just courage to speak up.

This content is free.... Thank you Owen.

OWEN IS THE GOAT!! HIKING AND GIVING A FREE MOTIVATIONAL SPEECH?! INSANE WORK ETHIC!!

Wow. Nonstop content 🔥. What a beast. Thanks Tyler ✌

The best content as always. Love you bro

If you sound passionate enough about it, anything I say is gold

Never enough of you! thanks.

Awesome video man got a new subscriber

Thank you. 🙏🏻

Low key one of the best videos

dope video, my dude! I'm gonna try those exercises out ASAP!

-This is beautiful. Thanks for the awesome scenery! Audio is fantastic. -Thank you for doing research into where the best success comes from!

Wow, one of the best! Thank you! Thank you! :))

Incredible video, thank you!

Thank you I love you.

Hey Tyler, thank you bro!

Yow owen I just wanna say thank you for all the years you've been unconsciously helping me throughout my life. Keep it up. Ps. You helped me on my first break up like 5 or 6yrs ago, and now. Freshly single from a 2yr relationship.

Tyler 100% spot on again here.

I remember you teaching us this stuff at the hot seat bro, great refresher

Internal value is important Thanks

Loving the content

Hey Owen I know that feeling you're talking about, I feel that same way when i have good interactions

Awesome vid. Looking more pimp every time! Cheers from Kingston , Ontario. - Jack

Watching a 2nd time! Wow! Thank you T!

Owen changed my life.

Boy did I need this

Incredible video man! So nuance and on point! Would love to hear your knowledge about having an internal sense of value! That would be great! Keep it up!

Thanks Owen, that was gold!

Interesting, thank you for the info Owen 😁

We are all born perfect.It is external influences like media and people we know who make us think otherwise.

One of the best videos ever

Epic as usual. Going out tonight to vibe some more with the world 👌🏾

Oh boy, love it! :)

Another great content video by owen! , it really opens my mind, a pure truth, no fillters or bullshit there isn't a secret for success, it's all about the same urges and natural behaviour we have as human beings. greetings from israel

Thanks - great video :)

I reckon this is his best video so far, defs worth a watch

Literally saving my life rn, thinking i was just not the same person

Awesome

Don't oversell or be too good Just have regular talk Everything you say is awesome.

Yeeeee! Let's get it!

Thanks for another amazing video. Would you consider doing a video on diet & nutrition? Just switched to Keto & my emotional stability has improved 10-fold. Would love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Thanks

Great video!

My god once again an enlighning video from Tyler