Any girls on this channel, take note: this is how much energy and effort guys put into going up and talking to you.

“Sex with me is like a roller coaster, there are pictures taken of you when you least expect it” 😂😂😂😂 This one cracked me completely

You know you've told a bad story when you hear "I find the defendant guilty of all charges" and now you're serving 9 consecutive life sentences

I love how he breaks everything down scientifically

“Imagine going to a car salesman and he starts talking to you about your family for 20 mimutes” great point lmaoooooo

This is aimed at men dating, but I’m using it to become a more interesting streamer lol

TIMESTAMPS (I'm surprised this video has so many view but no stamps) 00:05 Part 1: Verbal Chrisma (+intro) 10:58 Part 2: Storytelling and how to be interesting 24:02 Storytelling Q&A 30:35 Part 3: Humor 43:45 Humor Q&A 47:00 Part 4: Flirting I'm going to come back to these now and then and will fill em out more (unless anyone wants to help me in the comments :D)

Summary: Assuming the burden -you need to be willing to talk 90% if she's not yet interested -flirting is like a lawn mower -decide to make the conversation happen, push through 20 seconds even when it's awkward --short term --(energy and will) --long term -- (material, pattern, delivery) Proactivity of frame -desire for outcome is necessary (good outcome) -- get to the point don't just talk about anything, it's like a carsman talks not about cars but his family, hobbies etc. (The good outcome needs to be for both of you) -random conversations lead to random results = poor results -appreciate language Everytime you hear quotes, jokes, phrases write them down - study stand up comedy (write down lines) Point is the principle Part 2 Storytelling and "Being interesting" -show high value and create comfort to have sex with her It's a paradox But storytelling is good for both things Structure of a story: Situation -> interruption -> change -don't just communicate facts -a one-minute story can be told in ten or vice versa -there need to be some bullet point to let the story exist -just remember the bullet points The secret's in the specific! -add specifics to little things (hamburger example) ----- book: zen and the art of motorcyle maintenance 20:05 -you have to have depth in story to really communicate (emotional specific) -imagine yourself in the story you're telling -Improv Comdey is great for learning specifying -make it real as you play it Part 3: humor -don't brag in your story, you don't need to look good in story, the story will make you look good -lead through your story - take opportunities when they come (walking past eachother story (100% perfect girl story) -for a story to be good, you need to like the story yourself! Penetrate the Ostensible -be aware of multiple meanings (what are you doing for a living? -teacher -are you sure?), Words, phrases, intonations -don't treat conversation as literal Specific formats -setup/punch Creating a pattern and surprise is the joke -Rule of 3 3 creates a good pattern, that you can destroy later -callback humor -impressions Etc. -when you hear something funny understand what was funny and appreciate it What's exaggeration -just exaggerate Improv Format -when do a scene, firdt should be normal 1.look out for the first unusual thing -observe what's happening -you always get information, use it 2. Justify -interepret something into the thing you observed 3. If this is true what else is true -you don't have to be hilarious in game (it seems tryhard), just need to havr a more interesting than normal conversation -try to be interesting High value Humor -self-deprecating humor defeats the man purpose of game, it'll work against you -don't become the clown Humor and escalation -you can get away with (almost) everything if it's funny Part 4: Flirting How to differentiate between high and low value humor: -delivery and past circumstance (If she could believe your not self confidence, don't make jokes like: yeah, i'm a bit boring) -create tension but bad tension needs to be lessened Flirt ~ definition: To court *triflingly* or act *amorously*, *without serious intentions*; play atlove; coquet. -have a flirty tone -try rephrasing stuff in a flirty kind of way -touch can be relevant Flirting is an attitude first -the keyword is *playful* Push-pull -you're sitting in a tensed way, seems like you're focused, thats cool > If it's positive make it negative and the other way around Cold read and exaggerate -- firdt thing to say: hey; hey excuse me +UCB improv exercise > Interpret things into the behavior when saying hi Misinterpretation -sex with me is like exercise Frame > Technique - frame: excuse me, I saw you look over and wanted to help you get over your shyness -needs to be playful, out of the ordinary -get out of the boring -just ideas, you can approach normally Frame = the thing that controls the meaning: i'm trying to pick you up; you're trying to pick me up; I'm over girls, convince me, that i shouldn't be; etc. etc. =Idea of the purpose of the conversation Presuppositions -what are you assuming is true (do you find yourself attractice, try to assume something wrong and she needs to convince you) Plotlines -gives tension -adds spice and let's you get into right direction Like: "why are you so cute, I'm trying to resist women" !!!!Practice!!!! Without all these informations are to much Practice one after a time Have fun, be light harded Love words more and try to play with them

Todd, Just wanna let you know this is one of your best videos. Guys charge a fortune for teaching this stuff. I'm really happy your sharing such massive value. Much respect for you. God bless you.

Todd with this free content... youredoing gods work my friend

No matter how much game you have, especially if it’s a “dry spell,“ it’s good to watch some of these videos to brush up on your skills. Even if you learn just one thing it was worth it.

thanks a lot bro! good to see u cranking out the content- hope its win/win for u timestamp: 0:00 goal of this talk 1:15 attitude and philosophy assume the burden , 90-10 b4 hook point book todd talks about is 'making people talk' lawn mower analogy and percieving in the start of interactions + my sports analogy i always talk about! thats crzy! 4:50 proactivity of frame- outcome independence , half hour convo to nowhere + showing intent great point + car salesman analogy which is gold3n! have a outcome- it must be win/win 7:15 appreciate language, personal wit journal / study stand up 11:00 value/comfort - story stelling 12:35 structure of a story 14:00 story- 16:50 u can make your stories conscise or long 18:33 the secret is in the specifics like max said - sing a song and paint a picture oh and dhv without context is not effective 25:00 u have to seize the moment- brilliant story 30:35 go beyond the obvious 33:35 specific format- set up punch, rule of 3, call back humor etc

Quick notes for myself and others: 1) Assume the burden (90%/10%) and be willing to talk. - Come with the intention to give a good experience and have great sex (win-win). Study and appreciate language on your own time. 2) Tell a good story: situation, interruption, change. Develop bullet points, have great specific details. 3) Humor. -Go beyond the obvious and observe the nonverbals. -Emphasize different words in the same sentences. Learn the setup and punch, and 3 point rule and etc. -Learn how to exaggerate well by taking something mundane, take it to a new direction. -Improv format is to observe something unsual, justify it and if this is true, then this must be true. *Important* Have high value humor. Do not self depreciate yourself humor. -Develop alpha male humor. *Also important* You don't have to be hilarious. It's more important to be interesting and high value than funny and low value. Use humor with escalation. -How you deliver and what the context is helps dictate this. With a smile and sarcasm, you can disqualify her. 4) Flirting. Tools of the trade: - It's an attitude you use that is playful. Without serious intentions. - Physical flirting is following attitude first, technique second (just like verbal flirting) - PUSH PULL = I love you, I hate you. Negative first, positive next and vice versa. "You have a nice shirt, you must be trying to impress someone." - Cold read and exaggerating = Look at their reaction with the open. Justify it and work with it. - Misinterpretation: Treating something mundane and taking it sexual. Exercise: Sex with me is like..... - FRAME: Control how the interaction will be treated as or the purpose of the conversation as. Set it up at the beginning where it's not boring. Make it playful and not make it logical or boring. Continue to play with the idea that she is trying to seduce you or you are trying to have it fun and you're sick of girls hitting on you. - Presuppositions: Assuming things that are true. Make that interaction you want. - Plotlines: Creating general drama during the entire interaction. Tension and drama. 5) Practice. Attitude: light hearted, fun, and trying new things. Be playful. Love words and find the richness in language.

It's tough to do anything like a comprehensive treatment of verbal game, because it's such a rich subject, but consider this a good primer on the topic. I hope it helps your game massively, and I hope it helps you to appreciate words and language a bit more. And for more insane FREE content, be sure to check out toddwinnergame.com

conversation-skill should be taught in our formative years in the education system or have programs in the community that put strong emphasis on this, I feel they matter more than math, history or science.

This guy speaks from a rare, genuine perspective. I'm so glad I found this video.

- Flirting is an attitude first (keyword Playful) - Push Pull (I Love you, I hate you), also works via Bodylanguage . Creating a Rollercoaster of Emotions, while giving subtle signs of interest - Notice subtle things (Physical apperance, Clothing/Accessories, Body Language, Actions of her (weak handshake) and playfully exaggerate them or assume other traits etc. of her based on that - Cold Read/ Assumptions of her Personality or what she does (hobbies, job etc) - purposeful misinterpretations and sexual innuendos (when possible in a sexual way [you can find the sexual in almost everything]) -- having a flirty Frame (going in with an interesting/funny/non-serious Frame to play) [a bad/lame frame example: "Im trying to pick you up - a better frame : " You are trying to pick me up"]

I feel guilty for not paying for this valuable, life changing information.

21:48 good storys are like ass "It has to have some depth to it"

Few guys are so eloquent that they use the right word every time not even great orators can do it.

I've listented to so many damn podcasts,just hours and hours and hours and hours of many,MANY different podcasts. And by now,I can literarly talk for hours with anybody. Comes naturally. And I can shift in witch direction I wanna talk the conversation at any time. I remember talking to a girl for 7 hours straight. Literarly all night.

I realized these convo skills go far beyond game with women they relate to work, negotiations and even just meeting friends in a new place.

This is an incredible inside scoop of one of Todd's greatest strengths. Great video

This is an impressive video, one of the highest value adding videos i've ever come across. Real-life situational advice, love it.

Todd you are a legend man so much value in this clip thank you. Respect for your expertise in your craft.

You had me during the first 30 seconds when you said that people are going to appreciate and ''love'' Language just a little bit more at the end of this..Nice work!

Its always great when you first think that 1 hour is way to long to watch and then the hour is over allready. Great information. THanx bro

"Find the play in every word, every sentence and intonation."

i enjoy how he doesn't sound like a salesperson

I love "parasite" phrases and I'm digging Todd's constant repetition of "does that make sense" :D Joking aside, brilliant content!

you answered a lot of questions when you covered the telling a story part. thank you friend

Simply gold.

Good explainations and those simple examples (buying/selling the car f.e.) and small but important notes (why and how the 90/10 rule is temporary important) really helped me seeing my mistakes. I did so much right but those small things I misunderstood lead me wrong all the time. Real, useful and applicable instructions!

Bro , to put this out to anyone who could use help , for free , speaks volumes of your character... way to change the world for the better, The only word that I think you should add to this seminar. Is the word. Brevity. Keep at this sir! Thanx for sharing

aye bro the whole community love you and we appreciate what you're doing, I feel guilty even asking but one manifesto we all drooling for is a Validation Manifesto, all your manifestos have a fuck ton of value and show us how to and gives us all the contextual framework for how to use what tour teaching but a validation manifesto would be next level

That's Good game. 🔥

Someone once said words are the best aphrodisiac for a woman ;) Thank you for the value in this video, Todd

These videos are great for men at any level that they are at in life. I appreciate your humane approach towards people in general and the general gist I get from these is that you want everyone to be fulfilled. Thanks dude!

One of the best gaming tutorials on KZfaq. Thanks bro. 👍🏾

Please keep coaching and teaching Todd!

Thank you Todd, this leads from outter game fine point others omit right into inner game of self acceptance. I'll try to save up money for a bootcamp.

I have watched so many videos about conversation skills that tell me to do this and that. But never seem to teach me the thought process to how to get there or how to build my own plan of action through understanding what I need to work on. All the others seemed to be in a foreign language to me. Thank you.

RSD were wrong to let you got. You provide the information brilliantly and you give reason for it rather than just stating it as well. The only other coach I’ve watched that I’ve got this much out of is Jeffy. Good shit man!

this new stuff has been really dope

Amazing lecture, thank you!

So much information here. First step, appreciating language in the way he talks about. Keeping notes for interesting turn of phrases, jokes, stories & reviewing it. Like a comic would for standup but in everyday life.

Todd you are an angel amongst men. Thank you for this. I hope good karma will take care of you. Cheers

I watched this video once before and sort of understood but now it's blowing my fuckin mind and I'm sure it will continue to do so as I watch it more and more. Makes so many vague concepts make sense and shows me that I've already been doing pretty much all this stuff but understanding why helps exponentially in knowing when and helps me read the girl so much better without having to go into my head! How do you give this stuff away for free Todd haha. You're the GOAT!

Hey Todd, you’ve recommended countless great books over the years to us, and given you’re hands down the best of the best, a god among gods, and a living legend, you absolutely must write a book of your own!! Please!!!! As you and countless of us already know, videos can be deleted and lost forever such as the ones you put out in the past were with an endless amount of priceless information. Your book, however, will be with us for eternity...

Holly shit Todd, Ur speech made me have like a revelation.Now I know what was missing in my game and what and when to do.

How to never run out of things to say: have ADHD.

It's gold.

It is all about the details along with putting heart into what you say to the ladies. January 1, 2023. North America.

great work. The car salesman analogy made me laugh out loud, probably because im so guilty of it.

Im in sales and this is GOLD

keep pumping out that good shit

I didn't know what to expect with this talk, but I learned a lot. Great video. R.

you carry the conversation real well we just like to listen...nice job

Todd I'd love to take coaching with you! I'm finding myself drawn to you over most pua teachers.

I would've liked more on the subject on how to never run out of things to say.

Brother, this is gold. Super grateful!

Clean word flow. Clean presentation. I-approve. Thanks for sharing your light brother-light. Be well. Be love. Be light.

36:39 Todd needs to make an entire video of just impressions. Would watch in a heartbeat

When Todd asked who knew about the concepts of Value and Confort and almost no one raised their hand, I knew I'm old.

That is a top notch power point presentation.

25:33. -Lead through story telling "100% Perfect gir"l story - great seg way into NLP pattern. Very powerful sir Todd

This should be basic education for everybody tbh.

you missed a perfectly fine joke about meteors being long, burning hot things crashing into uranus.

Set aside dating, this talk is true for life. Good stuff.

I believe everyone would like to have a positive outcome. But by outcome independent they mean not quitting after rejection. I have a sales story I use of a bad experience with a small organization then getting a big deal with a multinational company on the next call. You do a good job of breaking things down practically.

This is great. 1 hour. Holy.

This is very important to my life

I love this so much. Thank you

I have to share this video. Straight forward great advice 💯

This won't be taught in school. School just makes people more awkward.

ima just keep watching this over and over till i make friends

Holy! Todd you have wayyy too much value 👌👌👌

I have been watching your videos and am improving on game thanks Todd

I kept getting like, distracted from like, how many times you would like, say the word like. It's like still an awesome video tho. Good stuff.

I love that your videos just get straight to the point without all the BS things that other 'pickup' guys add to make themselves seem 'cool' or trying to show off their douche lifestyle. I'm sure you'll blow up quick but don't change that please

Great job Todd! You basically Told the Story of, "Serendipity" the movie! Great Use of Referencing bro.

Aye I learned a lot from you my guy. GOD BLESS YOU !!!!!!!!!!!

Legend

This guy ends alot or almost all of his points with "RIGHT?" That's subconcious programming. He's giving useful information but don't let him take control. Take action. Apply information you'll learn waaay more. He said enough for you to take action.

Brilliant work Todd

Todd your the best bro, hands down.

Man like Todd !

Imagine if Todd was a professor for sociology. I would attend every class on time...

I can relate to a lot of the things that Todd is saying especially studying stand-up comedy

Books: - how to make people speak - Zen of motorcycle 1. Bear conversation when conversation stalls. 2. There should be an outcome. 3. "Girl I love you" destroys value. 4. Story has situation, interruption and change. If no - it's pointless 5. Good story - story without bragging 6. Story about girl and boy, you should catch a moment, you have control in life Setup punch (normal, not), 3 punch list (norm, norm, norm, not) Observe unusual (can find everywhere), exaggerate, make assumptions Good comedians for game - not self deprecating Dane Cook, dont be clown Flirt: repeat her, "you are hot thing flying through a universe" Sex with me it's like a...

This guy is a freaking scientist

Really well done vid Thanks I think these apply to more than just when I’m on the hunt. These are great tools when talking to anyone.

Wow there is so much good knowledge here!

I find girls like to talk about themselves. Maybe you put effort in in the beginning to get her to open up but eventually you have to let her talk.

Todd! Todd! Todd! Todd! Todd!

Yup, you're instantly my favorite. Thabks for sharing without all the bullshit.

Great content. Thank you sir. You are an angel!

Todd was definitely talking about Owen at 41:00

The new Todd content is HOT

Thank you for this video, I learn a lot from it, especially interesting topic.