How to NOT Care What Other People Think About You

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How to NOT Care What Other People Think About You - with Lydia Violeta

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Hey guys! This collab (filmed with the beautiful Lydia Violeta!) is all about tips and advice for how to not care about what other people think about you (or at least, how to care less!). I hope you enjoy this chatty little self confidence video 💛
SUBCSRIBE to Lydia for amazing revision, fashion and lifestyle content - / @lydiavioleta_
and make sure to watch the video we filmed for Lydia's channel (a Q&A!) ✨
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Hi my name is Jade and welcome to UnJaded Jade! I post every Wednesday abut varying topics I truly care about, from self confidence and veganism, to academic help and motivation 💛
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How old are you? - 17
What camera do you use? - Canon 750D
When did you start your channel? - 17th Feb 2017
P.S i love u. so much. thank you for finding me and for being here and for gifting me your time. you are so loved.

Пікірлер: 276

@gbesjumpoff4426 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you *SO* much for uploading this Jade!! I've been feeling so terrible lately & with coming back to school from the half-term, it's just been adding to my troubles. Just subscribed to Lydia Violeta, she seems so sweet & will be looking forward to both of your future videos in store for us 😘💗💗

@tinajones2059 6 жыл бұрын

MY FAVOURITE PEOPLE IN ONE PLACE I CANT HANDLE THIS

@yelena4465 6 жыл бұрын

A very important video, especially for your audience at such a tender age. I love these "life lesson" style videos and I think for we academics following you, your influence is paramount. I have found so many vegans and early risers (like myself) who have been inspired or driven over the edge by you. It is frankly amazing the work you do! I think more videos of this calibre will really not only be beneficial for your channel but beneficial to the community you have accumulated. Things like "The mistakes I've made and what I've learnt", "When I managed to keep going". Or even simple things like the 16personalities test, giving people a deeper insight into themselves at this highly critical time is important. Anyways, I love your videos and the work you do. I am looking forward to seeing more of your content!!!.

@KawaiiCrafts476 6 жыл бұрын

I’d just like to say I actually LOVE flared trousers and I think it’s better to be interesting than to just blend in with the crowd!

@PandaClare20 6 жыл бұрын

I was having such a down day today then this pops up just at the right time; thank you so much for uploading Jade 💛

@UnJadedJade 6 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad it could help in some way! ✨ I'm sorry you've had a down day Clare, it happens. I hope all is well and I'm wishing you a beautiful day tomorrow xx

@slickjumpedoverthelazydog 4 жыл бұрын

yep i am feeling down because I am feeling slugish because it's hot

@OliviaGreenhalghh 6 жыл бұрын

I love this! I love the fact you mentioned the impact of negative comments on youtube as it's so relatable! I think everyone should be able to express themselves in a way they feel comfortable because if everyone was the same the world would be boring! Lydia has amazing fashion and people that give her hate are just jealous! Everyone should feel good about themselves and feel comfortable in what they wear! Thank you for posting such a motivational video to be who you want to be! 💓💓

@andhxskxnkskd1271 6 жыл бұрын

Olivia Greenhalgh Omg I love your videos sooooooo much! ❤❤❤❤❤

@harrietblair8447 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video 💙 As someone who suffers with severe acne I often feel very self conscious about my skin and how I look, but inspired by you, I recently took the decision to stop wearing makeup, and I've honestly never felt more confident! I really hope this video will help other people who are struggling with confidence too, and it's so amazing that you make content like this! X ❤😘

@LetsStopThisSong 6 жыл бұрын

Hermione Granger i can totally relate and I hope your acne gets better soon!!!

@harrietblair8447 6 жыл бұрын

jackie Aw thank you so much, you too! 😘 X

@hridya.r 6 жыл бұрын

I always just automatically smile when I start your vids jade! Love ya x😉😉💜💜

@UnJadedJade 6 жыл бұрын

Reading this made ME smile! 🙈☺️ thank you for the love Hridya xx

@hridya.r 6 жыл бұрын

UnJaded Jade Well I do love making people smile😉💜you're so welcome xxx

@llrr6858 6 жыл бұрын

Wow, I can’t believe how on time this video came for me. I’ve been struggling with negative comments people close to me say regarding my life decisions. Sure this will help me, thanks a lot ladies 😘🤗

@UnJadedJade 6 жыл бұрын

Wow, I'm so glad to hear it! 💛 sometimes it's so easy to find yourself in these negative places, or feel overwhelmed by the opinions of others. Just remember to take time to recognise what YOU want and I'm certain that everything else will fall into place. Lots of love xx

@pooonni Жыл бұрын

Such maturity at this age is mind-boggling. I am 35 and can relate to how wrong I am at times with my own self and loved ones around me. Thank you for doing this video! So much love

@EleanorDaniels 6 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love this! ⭐️ You guys really have such refreshing perspectives on this topic, I will head over and check out some more of Lydia’s videos too! 😯😄💗✨

@UnJadedJade 6 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad you liked it! ✨ this was such a fun, chatty video to film. Lydia is also definitely worth checking out ;) x

@lowandbeland3416 6 жыл бұрын

Jade this was just brilliant timing for me

@lowandbeland3416 6 жыл бұрын

love you jade can't believe you replied it is an honour, everyday i go school i feel like a loner, my friends avoid me and are 2 face i get really stressed but i have to focus on education you are the best motivation!

@matthew5489 6 жыл бұрын

I SO agree with you on your point about cutting toxic people out of your life. This year I came to the realization that my group of friends were toxic for me; I found myself feel more self-conscious and just not good about myself after being around them. Life is short and I don't want to waste my time around people who don't care about me, so I explained to them how I felt and haven't spoken to them since. Although I don't really have anyone to sit with at lunch or hang out with on the weekends, I feel a lot more confident in myself. What I'm trying to say is that if you are feeling scared to "leave" a friend group or stop being friends with toxic people because you won't have anyone to hang out with - do it. I feel 10x better now that I have started valuing myself enough to know that its not worth remaining in toxic friendships.

@anjalijha5014 6 жыл бұрын

You and Lydia! Wow what a combination!! Was waiting for this one since so long!!!

@roryvioletmusic27 6 жыл бұрын

Last year while I was at a slightly unhealthy weight, I always used to feel like I was 'too big' to wear skirts or dresses so I never used to wear them to sixth form, and then one day I just went for it and wore a skirt and I know it sounds like the most trivial thing but it honestly changed my life! I have embraced who i am and what I like, and anyone who decides I didn't/don't fit their standards of 'beauty' are simply as you said it- toxic! Love this video xoxo

@chloedrewry1721 6 жыл бұрын

I am on crutches and have been over the last three years due to chronic pain. People say some horrible things to me and then there are people that are supportive this includes family. I am surrounded around what people think about me on general topics and then an added pressure about what people think with my crutches. I am also absent to college quite a bit due to hospital appointments and illness. No one actually knows what I am going through. The conditions that I have are very rare and most people have not heard about them. This video was really useful and it was nice having two peoples opinions with the joint video xx

@UnJadedJade 6 жыл бұрын

Oh wow, I can only imagine how difficult that must be! People can be so needlessly cruel :( please just remember that you're never defined by your condition, nor by your crutches. Those who choose to say horrible things are likely so ignorant to what you're actually going through (and it's simply a testament to their character!). Continue being the strong and beautiful individual you are! Lots of love ✨ x

@josephineskorupski6451 6 жыл бұрын

My sister had something that sounds familiar to your condition (she had crutches) and she managed to get better!! This guy actually helped her even though his illness was slightly different: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ldSJY5STlpymkmg.html he just talks about his experience with a chronic illness and how he managed to get better! U should really watch it just in case it could apply to you. So sorry to hear about your illness I know how isolating it can be xx

@sanaa1710 6 жыл бұрын

You're just so genuine, Jade. Everything about you, even your body movements/facial expressions that you don't notice you're doing. Also, great video.

@eviehallitt8122 6 жыл бұрын

you are SUCH a gift jade, ignore the negative comments!

@UnJadedJade 6 жыл бұрын

Awhhh Louise! 🙈 you're so lovely, thank you for this! x

@sujanaakbar6737 6 жыл бұрын

NEEDED THIS SO SO MUCH !

@miabhidey989 6 жыл бұрын

thank you for doing this video , my worst thing is comparing myself im different to my friends and i am so scared to be myself this has eased my mind and i feel like this has confirmed that i can do what i want and i dont need to be like anyone else X

@hi.7171 6 жыл бұрын

Two favs in one frame💕

@shalinichheda8927 6 жыл бұрын

yesss jades new videooo!!!! 💓💓💓 loved this collab

@JenJen4112 6 жыл бұрын

Such a good video with great people!!!Apart from that i would like to thank you .This past few days I had really bad time ,I was struggling to get out of my bed and I was unmotivitated and all of that stopped when I started watching your videos .So,thank you for your positive attitude and your smile .I hope you have a great life and continue making awesome videos .💗

@lillipad70 6 жыл бұрын

My mum has always told me that if someone ever said a nasty comment about me or to my it wasn't my problem, there wasnt anything wrong with me it was the other person saying the comments problem, they would say anything unless they had a problem with it or they had problems in their lives and the way they make themselves feel better is by degrading others and although this isnt ideal this idea allows you to understand that their is never anything wrong with you and I feel like that helps me get past mean comments from others. Thanks for the awesome, useful video once again and I just wanted to add a little point for anyone else who needs it xx

@tatianakimberley 6 жыл бұрын

I LOVE THIS!!

@UnJadedJade 6 жыл бұрын

I'M SO GLAD!! xx

@lavenderruffles 6 жыл бұрын

If I saw someone walking around with those cute pants on I would’ve been like ‘yesss girl get it’ haha

@lisaa1953 6 жыл бұрын

I came across jades channel a few days ago and she is actually really inspiring and she's just given me more confidence to not care about others and I also really found her revision videos so helpful

@tara7994 6 жыл бұрын

The collab I needed! 💚

@UnJadedJade 6 жыл бұрын

I hope you enjoy it! xx

@tara7994 6 жыл бұрын

UnJaded Jade I really did ly jade 💚

@halloween42 6 жыл бұрын

Two of my most favourite people in the universe!! 😍😍😍

@britgirl6835 6 жыл бұрын

Yes another collab!!! My fave youtubers in one video!!💗💗

@UnJadedJade 6 жыл бұрын

Hahaha I LOVE meeting people in the studying community - everyone's so supportive and lovely! Thank you for the kind words xx

@aleishasvlogs9506 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve just come across this video and it has really helped me to start feeling more confident in myself. I love your channel Jade! Thankyou so much 💕☺️

@paoladuque6234 6 жыл бұрын

I love how you thoroughly address the topics in such a genuine way.

@fizaowais2416 6 жыл бұрын

This video has made me so much better after a bad day. Thank you jade for always posting lovely videos xx

@reehach4196 6 жыл бұрын

THISSSS is the video I needed right about now!!! Thank you So much !!💗😊💗

@maisharaidah9047 6 жыл бұрын

Your video is like a gift for me every week . I really love the content . Though my country's education system is not like your's but the general tips help alot. I can not thank you enough ❤ .

@stylesbyliyah734 6 жыл бұрын

loved this video! honestly having bad skin is the worst and gave me different perceptive of how its seen thank you x

@francescahughes1024 6 жыл бұрын

Recently I have been bullied because of my disability and studious personality. I really needed this video after feeling inadequate lately so thank you it reminded me it's important to be yourself, regardless of what others think. Thank you Lydia and Jade, hopefully next year in sixth form I'll finally make some supportive friends as I've felt like I've never fitted in.

@Aldarrent 6 жыл бұрын

Two of the greatest youtubers ever making a video together!!!

@chrysoula5226 6 жыл бұрын

omg Lydia is amazing too thanks for collabing now I know more awesome people to follow!💗💗 *update* finished watching the video and it was a great reminder. Plus even if someone is, for example, looking at you in a bad way if you don't hang out with them why care? Like you are probably never gonna see that person again in your life.

@leadalaaker 6 жыл бұрын

I love videos where you just ramble about a topic! (Especially when you collaborate).

@sananaz3878 6 жыл бұрын

More study with me's jade! Very motivational xx

@irismay7370 6 жыл бұрын

So happy to see this- after the KZfaq awards I really got in to Lydia's channel! xx

@livinglife3967 6 жыл бұрын

I'm loving these collabs! They are so helpful! The editing is incredible aswell

@UnJadedJade 6 жыл бұрын

Awhh! 🙈 such kind words, thank you! x

@person1272 6 жыл бұрын

This is such a beautiful video!!!!xx It has already helped with my confidence loads!!!! Thank you both verryyyyy much x

@laylaa8759 6 жыл бұрын

I loved this video so much!!!! Great video Jade and Lydia you guys should collab more often! 🙌💕 xxx

@callmerka113 6 жыл бұрын

I’m really gonna need it now that I have my own channel 😂 Btw, Jade, you actually inspired me to finally do it. Thanks for spreading so much positivity 💖

@UnJadedJade 6 жыл бұрын

I just checked out your channel and I'm SO EXCITED for you Weronika! Thank you for the kind words ❤️ xx

@ireallydontknow3804 6 жыл бұрын

I just recently found your channel and I'm just browsing through your videos, they're absolutely wonderful! I look forward to more of your videos and I appreciate these types of videos LOADS and admire you for putting them out on KZfaq for everyone to see. You are truly a role model ❤️

@EleanorAvon 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing the idea of writing a list of what you stand for. I struggle a lot with identity and think this might help 🌻

@xo_eyebrowqueen_xo3440 6 жыл бұрын

Love both of you so much! 2 of my favourite channels on KZfaq ❤️✨

@swand1383 6 жыл бұрын

Guys! I got invited to an interview kinda thing for my ideal 6th form! I'm so excited!

@UnJadedJade 6 жыл бұрын

AAAAH THAT'S AMAZING! Congratulations! xx

@dariaa3380 6 жыл бұрын

Good luck! 💫✨ you can do it

@swand1383 6 жыл бұрын

UnJaded Jade thank you so much I know! I thought I didn't get in! AHHHH

@rebecca7898 6 жыл бұрын

Yesss girls. You do you! Such an important message💚

@ilonawinn4256 6 жыл бұрын

A phrase I like to tell myself when I am not feeling confident is "People are more worried about their own problems to care about yours." So even if a person in town may be thinking about how they don't like your sweater, chances are they are going to forget about you in a couple of seconds! This has helped me a lot! :)

@remylourdes 6 жыл бұрын

I just clicked on this video but this is exactly what I need right now so thank youuu😋 love you both!!❤️❤️Xx

@azka-dg1vl 6 жыл бұрын

I needed this so much. Especially with the amount of insecurities i have and the anxiety that tags along. Thankyou so much

@francesca4981 6 жыл бұрын

i reaaally needed this video and it made me re-think a lot of things! Thank you both ❤️

@UnJadedJade 6 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad to hear it! 💛 thank you for the supportive words xx

@adamhughes7152 6 жыл бұрын

JUST WHAT I NEEDED💛💛 (just thought I’d let you know your description says ‘abut’ in the li’l get to know you section x keep up with the fab videosss!!

@Atoshi531 6 жыл бұрын

I see Jade on my notif panel, I click.

@amandamakesstuff1383 6 жыл бұрын

Atoshi who wouldnt🤷‍♀️

@muffinmonster2634 6 жыл бұрын

That's what I did 😂. I clicked on the video so much

@sumaiyashabih8415 6 жыл бұрын

What a powerful collaboration! Jade and Lydia, you rock! I love and belive in all your ideas about life, goals and mindest. So many people need to watch this and start being themselves. Thank you

@No-my7vl 6 жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed this video and it really helped me and it made me feel so much more better about myself and you should definitely do more collaborations with Lydia ❤️❤️

@UnJadedJade 6 жыл бұрын

Awhh I'm so glad to hear that! Thank you for the lovely words xx

@lucymay1598 6 жыл бұрын

I have social anxiety and therefore really paranoid that people don't like me even if they have no reason not to . The struggle is real .

@millydocherty2260 6 жыл бұрын

You are both so inspiring and this video was really helpful. I am at a stage now where I know my style, my friend group and who I am, I am more comfortable with myself. This video is SUPER, it really helps. Tysm guys xxxx

@kateddey3441 6 жыл бұрын

Yessss thank you Jade, my best friend for 7 years has been talk in about me behind my back. I needed this, thank you. 💖💖💖

@alexkate9599 6 жыл бұрын

So happy you've made a collab together ! And on such an important topic with things so many of us need to hear 💗💗

@Juuullaaa 5 жыл бұрын

You are so intelligent, positive and beautiful person! I love your channel, keep going this way ❤

@DrMalaysarkar 5 жыл бұрын

Both of u are really sensible people in person and are amazing youtubers

@danieljevons1283 6 жыл бұрын

Once again another epic and helpful video by Jade (and Violeta) 😊

@daisyjx8372 6 жыл бұрын

Your videos make me so motivated in myself and have made me want to just be me so thank you for that! 💗

@jamilahussaini3434 6 жыл бұрын

Best collab. Love you both ❤️❤️❤️😂

@UnJadedJade 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! 💘✨ xx

@helenawrenne8802 6 жыл бұрын

I really appreciate it when people wear more unique and out there clothes because it's just so inspiring! 😍

@amiereid5525 6 жыл бұрын

Yes!! My 2 favourite people!! I love you videos Jade, you're such an inspiration to me and I'm so motivated by you!! ❤️

@amandamakesstuff1383 6 жыл бұрын

I so needed this! Especially with regards to youtube, because it's something I love to do but I'm not confident enough to tell people in real life about it. And Lydia's style is stunning!

@amandamakesstuff1383 6 жыл бұрын

And I get the thing about being scared to talk about veganism! I'm vegetarian myself and in the beginning I was so nervous to mention it around people (and still am to some extent) because I was scared they'd think I was judging them!

@ellienichonaill3219 6 жыл бұрын

Haven’t watched yet but I’m so excited!!!

@sophiem3375 6 жыл бұрын

Aww thanks for this amazing video, you guys are so real and relatable xxx

@paigechalmers3520 6 жыл бұрын

Honestly I love your videos jaddee💘

@UnJadedJade 6 жыл бұрын

It means SO much, thank you! 🙈 xx

@nessysamp2094 6 жыл бұрын

Yassss I love this❤️thank youuu I appreciate this vidd

@victoriawaite7032 6 жыл бұрын

So empowering, great advice girls!

@audreyparker3320 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for making this video. I really want my friend to watch it. So, she happens to be one grade older than I am ,and she wears glasses sometimes. Apparently, some girls were teasing her about wearing glasses so this Friday she is getting fitted for contacts. There is nothing wrong with contacts don’t get me wrong, but I was just mad that she cared about people teasing her. I might be getting glasses and if someone makes fun of mine, so be it! I really appreciate this video!

@eleanorthornton6221 6 жыл бұрын

love this love you hun xxx keep doing you lovely xxxx

@happya1462 6 жыл бұрын

You guys are so good with words this video was really what I needed thanks

@minimouse7374 6 жыл бұрын

It's crazy how Jade always seems to upload just what I need, whenever I need it!! ❤️ ilysm Jade :)

@salmaumma792 6 жыл бұрын

OMG thank u so much for this video. Love u guys

@arwen_m7786 6 жыл бұрын

This came at the perfect time!x

@ellienichonaill3219 6 жыл бұрын

This is so relevant to me at the moment... so this is very very useful to me 💛

@shannonfoster7717 6 жыл бұрын

Needed this video so much gal, school comes with such social pressures which we just don't need coming up to exams ❤ tysm for once again helping make life a little bit easier, amazing vid as ever 💞 Love you gal! Northern Irish one xx

@UnJadedJade 6 жыл бұрын

I completely agree! Awhh I'm so glad you like it Shannon! ✨ xx

@helenawrenne8802 6 жыл бұрын

YAAYYYYYY! MY TWO FAVES ❤❤❤

@amberfrizzell1578 6 жыл бұрын

Hey Jade, I just have a query for you... When you were I'm talking about eliminating toxic people in your life I completely agree...however, I have a toxic friend who has strong mood swings that I never know what to do with. I don't want to eliminate them because they are quite vulnerable and sensitive and I don't want them to feel isolated or rejected but at the same time, I don't want them making my life toxic...What would your advice be? (btw...awesome video xx)

@sanavalli4299 6 жыл бұрын

Omg this literally couldn’t have come at a better time I struggle with how people think of me because I can’t see properly

@MozaRegita 6 жыл бұрын

ayyyy we have another iconic duo!! i really like videos like these :) hope you're having a great day jade x

@taralennon7149 6 жыл бұрын

Much needed thank you!xx

@madisonnichole8044 6 жыл бұрын

My step mom called me stupid and if I don't want to be treated stupid don't ask stupid questions :( I struggle with anxiety and what others think. I also struggle with self love. Your videos make me want to be more positive and motivate me.

@nancystitt1364 6 жыл бұрын

absolutely loved this!! you guys are so positive it's so refreshing xxx

@esthermae7988 6 жыл бұрын

I love this!! You guys both have beautiful eyes 😍💗

@nipunikakalupahana6579 6 жыл бұрын

Wow this is an awesome video!! Love the fact that you two did this together. Thank you for the awesome video.. those tips and advice you guys gave make so much sense and really good.