How to Overcome Jealousy | Stop Being Jealous

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Ayushi Mathur

Ayushi Mathur

2 жыл бұрын

No one enjoys being jealous and yet it’s a common emotion we all feel at least once in our lifetimes.
The voice in our heads can fuel our feelings of jealousy by filling us with critical and suspicious commentary. In fact, what our critical inner voice tells us about our situation is often harder to cope with than the situation itself.
Here’s how to overcome jealousy:
1. Identify what you’re actually feeling.
2. Be aware of what gets triggered. Think about the specific events that cause you to feel stirred up.
3. Ask yourself what critical inner voices come up. What types of thoughts do these jealous feelings spark?
4. Think about the origin of these thoughts.
5. Practice calmness and staying vulnerable.
6. Seek your own sense of security.
DM me if you need more detail on how to overcome feeling jealous!
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@trinityp8575
@trinityp8575 Жыл бұрын
Jealousy is a normal human emotion. Let’s stop marking it like something shameful. But we need to teach people how to handle it and how to not harm others with those feelings physically, energetically or emotionally.
@AyushiMathur
@AyushiMathur Жыл бұрын
Exactly the same has been addressed in the video
@trinityp8575
@trinityp8575 Жыл бұрын
@@AyushiMathur yes, I didn’t speak against the video just expressed same view as the video 🙃
@AyushiMathur
@AyushiMathur Жыл бұрын
@@trinityp8575 yes! Figured that ✨
@sunnyP78
@sunnyP78 10 ай бұрын
Oh, seems like the video practical session is going on here😅😅
@AquaticStarchild
@AquaticStarchild 4 ай бұрын
It's a childish, insecure feeling that represents a toxic mindset. I'm not normalizing it but please don't hide it so I can stay clear of you.
@goharali3446
@goharali3446 Жыл бұрын
Once you determine what is making you jealous, even though it won't be solved. You have to be happy about others' success.
@dollysingh3430
@dollysingh3430 Жыл бұрын
True
@jackvillan5151
@jackvillan5151 10 ай бұрын
How do I decipher where my jealousy is coming from? I’m 38 and have lost every woman I’ve cared for because my own insecurities
@T3nyys0n
@T3nyys0n 9 ай бұрын
​@@jackvillan5151Ayo bro looks like you're talking about my future rn💀
@jackvillan5151
@jackvillan5151 9 ай бұрын
@@T3nyys0n best advice that I was never given and had to learn the hard way is to not let a woman know how much you like them, don’t be clingy. If they ask then tell them, but don’t wear your heart on your sleeve. Lost the woman of my dreams that way
@AquaticStarchild
@AquaticStarchild 4 ай бұрын
@@jackvillan5151 I'm not sure you want to hear it but it stems from covert narcissism rooted in insecurity. Instead of building your own happiness you think other people get stuff easily when in reality everyone has their challenges. The more you focus on bettering yourself in a substantive way the more you'll stop worrying about others. They're not taking anything away from you unless you let them.
@user-sc4pl8si8v
@user-sc4pl8si8v 9 ай бұрын
Jealousy is normal but when u don't over come it, it ruins ur life. I have been through it and I'm going through it. Just because it's normal doesn't mean that it's good for us. Everyday because of my jealousy, I suffer. Suffer a lot. Not a day that I went to sleep without crying, not a day that I perished my anger, not a day that I experienced a hand full of happiness. Peeing is natural, but it's harmfull to u and your surroundings when u do it in middle of your house. Jealousy is normal, but it can also reach a level where it would perish the one who owns it. So please, just because something is normal, doesn't mean that it's healthy. Jealousy is sickly unhealthy whether it's normal or not.
@AquaticStarchild
@AquaticStarchild 4 ай бұрын
Thank you! It is a toxic mindset that stems from self-occupation where you harp on everything others have instead of building yourself and bettering yourself. All this time spent thinking about "me me me" should be spent on being grateful for all the things you do have, making the best of what you have.
@user-sc4pl8si8v
@user-sc4pl8si8v 4 ай бұрын
@@AquaticStarchild trueee! U r speaking facts! I hope people learn to realize their unhealthy emotions and correct it rather than stating that it's normal...
@ip.1993
@ip.1993 Жыл бұрын
Even if we know the answers but still can't try to avoid it.
@rajatmishra9993
@rajatmishra9993 2 жыл бұрын
Very underrated channel. Great that I found you from Big Brain
@AyushiMathur
@AyushiMathur 2 жыл бұрын
🙏🙏
@richardaleman2985
@richardaleman2985 2 жыл бұрын
@@AyushiMathur not me not jealous 💐👸🏻
@maneesha5170
@maneesha5170 3 ай бұрын
I got over envy by practicing appreciation!
@JRFAimers
@JRFAimers 9 ай бұрын
Jaa rahi hu ye video relatives ko send karne👍🏻
@mariejones6324
@mariejones6324 5 ай бұрын
But what if we already freaking know? I can see outside of myself. I know I'm jealous. I admit it. I know where it stems from...... but I still can't fix it! Help me :(
@user-jp1cg5br9e
@user-jp1cg5br9e Ай бұрын
Same broo😓
@tarabaumgarten3827
@tarabaumgarten3827 6 ай бұрын
Yes, I know it’s insecurity. My issue is now what. Acknowledging that I have a severe inferiority complex is far from curing it. To not even mention that it’s not entirely false, if it’s objectively true that others are doing better than me (not just from looking idealized instagram posts, but from genuinely knowing what they are doing in their lives and what I am) I’m terrified of (rightfully) pushing people away because of the obsessiveness I feel
@Lolamaryjane21
@Lolamaryjane21 10 ай бұрын
This is an actual chill pill
@Imrevertedtoislam
@Imrevertedtoislam Жыл бұрын
What after that?? The problem won't be solved after addressing it
@AyushiMathur
@AyushiMathur Жыл бұрын
Full video: instagram.com/reel/CgQ2obmllmu/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
@katiehughes6933
@katiehughes6933 Жыл бұрын
I want to stop be jealous
@mels.luvs.
@mels.luvs. 10 ай бұрын
I sent this to my ex bestie 😊
@anuananu12345
@anuananu12345 8 ай бұрын
It's literally killing me I have a crush and he's now getting in a relationship with a young girl (7yrs younger to him. ) I'm unable to resist n it's in my mind since 6pm (it's 2:40am of next day).
@maneesha5170
@maneesha5170 3 ай бұрын
Let go! And be Happy for him ( atleast this is wat id do if I were in ur place)
@b.k.701
@b.k.701 5 ай бұрын
Beautiful lady.
@nelequest7517
@nelequest7517 8 ай бұрын
I'm in a long distance relationship and I'm jealous of my boyfriends friends because they can spend time with him and i can't. He's not doing anything wrong and i don't know what to do about it.
@ahnasachdev
@ahnasachdev 2 жыл бұрын
Hii ayushi mam.. I need your help on this.. I'm a grade 11 student, preparing for a competitive exam... I actually feel jealous of my friends who are better than me at studies.. this leads me to feel High anxiety which I'm unable to control. How can I overcome this? Please help
@AyushiMathur
@AyushiMathur 2 жыл бұрын
Please remember - you are your only competition. No one else is. Focus completely on your own progress, try to do better than you did yesterday or in the last exams. Everyone has different circumstances, everyone has different lifestyles. You can’t compare one to another.
@ahnasachdev
@ahnasachdev 2 жыл бұрын
@@AyushiMathur thank you so much mam! That really solved my problem to a great extent !
@imsorry3217
@imsorry3217 Жыл бұрын
Mine is with something else. It's very personal to me, but I want you to know that you're not alone. 🥺
@mariamartiez
@mariamartiez Жыл бұрын
Thanks my uncle got a iphone 14 now im not jealous
@koolywool404
@koolywool404 Жыл бұрын
i hate it that my bestfriend is tryna steal my personality and she's tryna be me which she can never be and i hate it so much i feel insecured
@Streeinstyle
@Streeinstyle Жыл бұрын
Same case here It's so annoying ikr now i feel insecure about every other girl out there
@maneesha5170
@maneesha5170 3 ай бұрын
Feel insecure? ?? Wth...dude she copies u cuz u r gr8!! This must be uplifting ur confidence and Not pulling u down!
@roshni...5411
@roshni...5411 Жыл бұрын
Bahut sahi hai mam
@lillazrshot746
@lillazrshot746 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@user-oe8jw1ec2h
@user-oe8jw1ec2h 7 ай бұрын
When I think that in what's thing does I am jealous nothing
@rajaganesht6135
@rajaganesht6135 Жыл бұрын
Really very very good message super proper msg correct
@katiehughes6933
@katiehughes6933 Жыл бұрын
And need to stop be jealous
@user-jg9wd2oc7c
@user-jg9wd2oc7c 11 ай бұрын
Mam you look so beautiful😊
@Marcus-po6xw
@Marcus-po6xw 10 ай бұрын
You are jealous of her
@s_prince4928
@s_prince4928 Жыл бұрын
When she is with her best friend
@miraculouslyperfect3890
@miraculouslyperfect3890 Жыл бұрын
I don't mean to intrude but that could be cause of your own insecurities or you don't feel secure in your relationship.
@sudeshnadas8732
@sudeshnadas8732 10 ай бұрын
What should I do after addressing it?
@user-fg9xq8so8i
@user-fg9xq8so8i Жыл бұрын
Jealousy is good
@BoomerBo
@BoomerBo 8 ай бұрын
I get jealous if one of my male friends have a crush even tho i don't like them and i hate it i want to stop it bc i wanna be happy for them but i can't
@Jungkook-sl9si
@Jungkook-sl9si Жыл бұрын
What should I do if i don't know what's going inside me but I cry alot after thinking deep still I don't know about it
@ernestperspective4671
@ernestperspective4671 Жыл бұрын
Tel me how to finished it coz other people success do make me jealous
@Marcus-po6xw
@Marcus-po6xw 10 ай бұрын
Me too, every single day
@anjanasharma4036
@anjanasharma4036 Жыл бұрын
Hi ayushi mam..I need your help on this..I feel jealous from my friend who got 1st rank in 10th grade and first time I got second rank with difference of just 4 marks 😔😔 this leads me to high anxiety which I am unable to control.. how can I overcome this?? please help ( sorry for bad english)
@Xireal
@Xireal 8 ай бұрын
I recently jus Thor jealous because my neighbor have a bigger room and a bigger house but look at mine, small house, no self room, sleeps with my mom, poor family… 😭
@user-pd4md6xb3r
@user-pd4md6xb3r 10 ай бұрын
My friend is really beautiful and older guys at my school told her that and i always get jealous but i don't show it😅🙁😔😤😭
@Marcus-po6xw
@Marcus-po6xw 10 ай бұрын
Me too
@naheedrahaman6898
@naheedrahaman6898 6 ай бұрын
if i know the reason what makes me jealous... than what should i do?...
@ehi3iwiwuhs109
@ehi3iwiwuhs109 Жыл бұрын
Can you pls help me with it actually I was consider too much beautiful when I was 13or 14 and was complimented by other but now my elder cousin sister get more compliments by other every where she goes I feel very jealous😢
@AyushiMathur
@AyushiMathur Жыл бұрын
What others say shouldn’t affect us so much whether it’s positive or negative. The more we attach our worth with other peoples validations, the more we’ll suffer
@ehi3iwiwuhs109
@ehi3iwiwuhs109 Жыл бұрын
@@AyushiMathur thanku❤
@arvindkrishna7035
@arvindkrishna7035 Жыл бұрын
Is there a short or full video where you give us a perspective on finding a solution for controlling such powerful emotions.
@AyushiMathur
@AyushiMathur Жыл бұрын
instagram.com/reel/CgQ2obmllmu/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
@bhargabborah4194
@bhargabborah4194 10 ай бұрын
When someone of your equal improves more than you then you are jealous. This the reason. You said to find out the reason of jealousy and this is the reason. But how reduce jealousy you didn't tell us.
@greeksalad4783
@greeksalad4783 Жыл бұрын
I'm jealous cause she's not my girlfriend. 😢
@keishas6162
@keishas6162 Жыл бұрын
Why anger though? Why be angry at someone else because you're jealous? I don't understand this.
@miraculouslyperfect3890
@miraculouslyperfect3890 Жыл бұрын
Probably cause they have something that we don't. It just causes more negativity which can lead to outrageous behavior.
@Redvelvet.18
@Redvelvet.18 Жыл бұрын
​@@miraculouslyperfect3890I agree
@haryanvijaat1604
@haryanvijaat1604 7 ай бұрын
A girl teaching how to control jealousy.
@saltysergeant4284
@saltysergeant4284 Жыл бұрын
Ok, so what do we do of you tell the person what makes you jealous, and she keeps doing those things? How do we overcome that aspect, when it's constantly being pushed into our minds?
@AyushiMathur
@AyushiMathur Жыл бұрын
Then it’s time to have a serious talk about it and see if you can meet mid way. If not then recondition the relationship
@saltysergeant4284
@saltysergeant4284 Жыл бұрын
@AyushiMathur yes ma'am. I tried that. It's not like she's doing it intentionally, and I don't want her to feel like she has to watch everything she does and says. I know she loves me. How do I kill the jealousy in my own head, so it's not a worry about what she does?
@Kasaneru_M
@Kasaneru_M Жыл бұрын
I have two classmates who sit infront of me, and I hate the one infront of me. The one sitting near the one that I hate, is my classmate and we're really good best friends. The one that I hate hates me back, and I despise her in every way. How can I overcome stress and anger like this? She's super annoying and even a crybaby. What do I do?
@Marcus-po6xw
@Marcus-po6xw 10 ай бұрын
Love your enemies
@Freedom83125
@Freedom83125 23 күн бұрын
Try the "I've no enemies".
@katiehughes6933
@katiehughes6933 Жыл бұрын
And now at I have sad it I don't to say it a aigan
@roddurdas4239
@roddurdas4239 9 ай бұрын
Male bff
@katiehughes6933
@katiehughes6933 Жыл бұрын
I was jealous of some have a baby
@NadirAli-vg1lt
@NadirAli-vg1lt 5 ай бұрын
Hindi me bataien plz
@chethan6520
@chethan6520 7 ай бұрын
Are you suffering from depression?
@henryst19
@henryst19 5 ай бұрын
It's hard to watch the video since you put the subtle back and forth up and down😢
@divya5797
@divya5797 10 ай бұрын
Im in a relation called friends with benefits..... Now that person is getting married.... Nd he is my best friend too.... I don't want him to b with other girl.... He treats me like his 1st priority..... But im getting fear that if he marries he gonna change my priority... This thought making me feel very insecure.... Nd im getting panic attack even anxiety attacks.... By overthinking i hv emotionally broken.... I don't know with whom to share this... Soo i texted here ... If someone know solution plz help me
@AyushiMathur
@AyushiMathur 10 ай бұрын
If someone wants you to be in their life, they will choose you. This person does not prioritise you.
@divya5797
@divya5797 10 ай бұрын
@@AyushiMathur i feel soo insecure....! I just can't even imagine him with that lady ( whom he gonna marry) what to do...!!!
@RobertNadia-jy3qo
@RobertNadia-jy3qo 9 ай бұрын
Try to forget and let it go. If he wanted to be with you, he would marry you instead ❤
@chunautisankhala9466
@chunautisankhala9466 Жыл бұрын
Reel title... How to overcome jealousy In end of reel - find the cause why you feel jealous🤷‍♀️
@Mindfulwandererz
@Mindfulwandererz Жыл бұрын
What next ! obviously somebody feels jealous coz they have addressed the fact on what they are jealous of..
@AyushiMathur
@AyushiMathur Жыл бұрын
Full video: instagram.com/reel/CgQ2obmllmu/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
@katiehughes6933
@katiehughes6933 Жыл бұрын
Be bauces want to be mum
@Lolamaryjane21
@Lolamaryjane21 10 ай бұрын
I am rich i am abuntant...... i have a job that pays me at least $1,000 a week
@aayush135
@aayush135 Жыл бұрын
Kindly add words like relationship and all in the title. Your content of the video is exactly opposite to what the title of the video is 😡
@MDIsmail-mz4fy
@MDIsmail-mz4fy Жыл бұрын
I observe your channel...drishti or big brainco people and I am so fucking irritated on KZfaq...I feel KZfaq algorithm is working against you.
@thegoodmusician8569
@thegoodmusician8569 11 ай бұрын
Even God is jealous
@Tba999
@Tba999 3 ай бұрын
Your accent is distracting. I feel like I’m getting advise from the local convenience store
@AyushiMathur
@AyushiMathur 3 ай бұрын
Then don’t take it :) you do you
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