How To Protect Yourself From The Effects of Negative Experiences

How To Protect Yourself From The Effects of Negative Experiences | Salman Asif Siddiqui

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4 жыл бұрын

Everyone has gone through difficult phases in their life or suffered some injustice at the hands of people or circumstances. In this video, Salman Asif Siddiqui talks about the things one can learn from reflecting on such experiences.
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@themani998 4 жыл бұрын

Your thoughts and analysis really touches my heart and mind.

@abidamgardezi7925 3 жыл бұрын

*شکر الحمدللہ رب العالمین سب کچھ کے لئے جو کچھ رب نے دیا جو رب نے لے لیا جو کچھ اب ھے اور جو کچھ آئندہ ھو گا سب میرے رب کی مرضی سے ھوا اور آئندہ بھی ھو گا*

@muhsinkamal9988 4 жыл бұрын

I guess I don't have any good childhood memories. But I have learned A lot from that.. I'll never treat my subordinates like my father😢 (sorry to say but) all I remember is dad scolding, dad abusing, dad punishing, dad not listening to me etc.. He is died years before but I am psychologically damaged.😢 Un k liay dua krta houn ab bhi laikin seekha us say yee hay k qasam khaayi hay k us jaisy nahi banna mujhy😢😢

@javeriaibrahim8536 4 жыл бұрын

Same to my family

@worrylessansari. 4 жыл бұрын

Same hai mera bhai..but mere abbu apne liye bht ache hain par hum bacho ko apni wajah se gunhagar bana rahe hain..kyunki control ek wkht tak hota hai uske bad hona band ho jata hai...mere abbu ko bacho se koi matlab nahi hai chahe bachche maren ya jiyen royen ya tadpe unko koi matlab nahi hai humse..bas unko time par khana khana hai time par sona ha bas 😭

@alikhansahab8356 4 жыл бұрын

Same here but from my mother Allah unhay hidayat dey Ameen & mn me yeh sabaq seekha keh mn kabhi unn jesi nahi banungi In Shaa Allah

@prettypicture1000 4 жыл бұрын

Same brother mere saath bhi Aysa hee Kuch hua hai. Walid to mere adawat rakhne waale insaan hain. bachon ke saath iss Qadar politics khelne waale ki poori zindagi tabah kar dee.. Maa par bhi hamare saamne zulm kia itna hum sab ke saath besakhta maar peet gaali galoch kee. Har saal umrah karte hain. na jaane Allah ki bargah mein kiss tarha jaate hain. Lekin mere maamle mein Aur badtareen baat ye rahi ki unke mazloomon mein bhi Apas mein Ek doosre ke liye hamdardi ya wafa nahi thi. Woh bhi sab nafsi nafsi mein lage rahe. Saari family bikhar gayi. Maa Nè bhi humko dhokha diya. Jawan hone lageen hum to hamara hasad kia. Iss qadar ki Zulm karne waale hamari Saas sasur se bhi dosti kar Lee Aur mil kar hamari gheebatein karne lagi. Mere Dono maa baap abhi bhi hayat hain Aur Abhi bhi politics khelte hain, ladte hain, na haq badhuwayein De kar ke daratein hain. Hamare bachon ke saath bhi badh salooqi karte hain. Woh bhi ab unse jaan chudate hain. Dua karo Allah humko inse panah de

@mohammedmuaaz1033 4 жыл бұрын

اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کو صبر دے اور آپ کے نیک ارادوں کو کامیاب کرے۔stay blessed

@sabreenshafi6807 4 жыл бұрын

The wound is the place where the light enters you. Rumi

@asma_anwer 4 жыл бұрын

Zabardast👍👍

@safiakulshekar 4 жыл бұрын

Magar log sirf zakhm denewale se bugz rakhke zindagi guzar dete hai

@uzmafareed6646 4 жыл бұрын

@Amir Hamza astughfirullah Allah give you hadaya

@syednajamhaider9767 4 жыл бұрын

Subhanallah wa jazakallah.

@suchmuch4025 3 жыл бұрын

@Amir Hamza go learn Islam then lecture about it

@humeraakmal4077 Ай бұрын

Parents are also the parents for first time and have zero previous experience. They do their best according to their abilities. Everyone should ponder on their flaws.

@motivationalcouncillor3116 3 жыл бұрын

I am responsible ...B's yahee kehtay kehtay khud ko mazboot karta Gaya.. Golden saying for me

@hasanrashid4806 4 жыл бұрын

Aameen...Allah Aap ko istiqamat ataa farmaiye Aameen!

@sz4653 4 жыл бұрын

The most beauty of Sir lectures are he always correlate life bitterness with Islamic n Quranic Teachings thru which we can understand very easily. No doubt,Quran is The Best Holy Book thru which we can learn many life skills.

@rehareha4044 4 жыл бұрын

ماشاءاللہ ۔۔۔ سلامت رہیئے۔۔۔ اللہ آپکو خیر ہی خیر عطا کرے۔۔ آمین ثمہ آمین یا رب العلمین ۔

@rehareha4044 4 жыл бұрын

@Amir Hamza سر سلمان آصف صدیقی صاحب کا بتا رہے آپ؟؟؟

@rehareha4044 4 жыл бұрын

@Amir Hamza کیسے؟ ایکسپلین کردیجئے پلیز

@umulqura5350 3 жыл бұрын

ہماری ایجوکیشنل ٹیم نے ایک نئی سکیم آف سٹڈی متعارف کروائی ہے جو تین سال سے انتہائی کامیابی کے ساتھ ادارہ ام القری" پبلک سکول احمد پور لمہ میں جاری ہے ۔۔۔ پرائمری اور مڈل تک بامقصد تعلیم کے فروغ کی اس سکیم آف سٹڈی کا نام آسان تعلیم رکھا گیا ہے آسان تعلیم سکیم آف سٹڈی سیکھنے کے لئے ہمارا چینل سبسکرائب کریں ۔۔۔ آنے والے دنوں میں اس سکیم آف سٹڈی کو لائیو سیشنز میں سکھایا جائے گا آیئے فروغ تعلیم میں ہمارا ساتھ دیں اور اپنے ادارے میں آسان تعلیم جیسی کامیاب سکیم آف سٹڈی اپنائیں

@ilmohikmat1099 3 жыл бұрын

Amir Hamza I think qadyani hy

@murtazaji 3 жыл бұрын

Siddiqui sab, I believe, we all need to follow a perpetual process of awareness and thus, the process of wisdom, your personality does fit appropriately to the preaching you are trying to put-forth...well done!

@Mohammad-Awais 4 жыл бұрын

ایسے ہی (مختصر) نئے وڈیوز کے لیے منتظر۔۔ 💖

@ateeqamirza7710 4 жыл бұрын

Forgiveness is a gift you can give to yourself it sets you free otherwise you live in the the prison of your own thoughts

@sidrakhalid5443 2 жыл бұрын

True words,I'm going through the same,I wanna 4give someone bt I can't forget,I can't,wht shd I do😢

@ateeqamirza7710 2 жыл бұрын

@@sidrakhalid5443 don't try too hard just try to not talk about things that hurts after some time they start diminishing

@sidrakhalid5443 2 жыл бұрын

Thaaaankuu dear,I wil try my best

@KiranShahzadi-js7yk 2 ай бұрын

جزاک اللّہ خیرا ! الله رحم کرے ہم سب پر اور معاف کرنے کا ظرف عطا فرمائے آمین🥲

@Jorjina.hayatt 4 жыл бұрын

This is one of the the MOST ESSENTIAL Insight that was much much needed in our lives, jazakAllah khyran kaseera for sharing this important message.

@sssso4d 3 жыл бұрын

Very nice may Allah help us to follow these steps

@rozinaraja3904 7 ай бұрын

ماشااللہ بہت اچھا کہا آپ نے خود جب سے سب کو معاف کیا ہے تب سے پر سکون ہو گی اب میں ان کے لیے دعا کرتی ہوں ان سے مجھے ہمدردی ہوتی ہے

@deen_over_dunia297 2 күн бұрын

Jazakillah khair. Alhumdulillah . I'll practice this InShaAllah

@faruzai1621 3 жыл бұрын

Ap buht azeem insan hain💕 Ma Sha Allah

@faisalazad1127 4 жыл бұрын

Aameen,SubhanAllah.jawabdahee ka khauf muafi mangna or muaf krna dono aasan kr detahay.

@worrylessansari. 4 жыл бұрын

Mere abbu jo ki apne liye bht ache hain namazi hain kisi ka hura nahi chahte kisi ke sath bura nahi karte...pr unko na mummy se na hum bacho se koi matlab hi nahi hai hum unke samne rote rahen tadhpte rahen bimar hon kuch bhi ho chahe kabhi poochte tak nahi hmse k kya hua hai..baki wo apne sare haq jante hain ki mujhe khana time pr chahiye sona time par hai...hame zara bhi nahi lgta ki koi hamare abbu bhi hain bht akela feel hota hai bap ke bina..ab kis dil se aise bap ki khidmat ki jaye? Bht mushkil hai bht ziyada

@alikhansahab8356 4 жыл бұрын

Ji bhtttt mushkil hota hay..... Allah aap ke liye aasanya farmae Ameen

@sanji546 3 жыл бұрын

U are still due to this

@mariabhatti1604 4 жыл бұрын

It's so important to be smart enough to realize timely that you're being affected by parental discord, and have the right approach to do something to improve your situation. Sadly we're not able to realize the impact of parental discord and take necessary steps on time. This results in depression and many other issues.

@alikhansahab8356 4 жыл бұрын

Soo true mujhe realize krne mn bhttt se hogai but it's never too late

@amalfatima1070 4 жыл бұрын

Mery pas tu alfaz he nhi hoty , great insan Hain mashaAllah ap. Allah ap pr apni rehmat or fazal frmye asanian Ata frmye hr jahan main. Aameen

@sz4653 4 жыл бұрын

We all were psychologically damaged in childhood by parents but after yours videos we are becoming strong day by day.Very well said that we shud behave with our parents respectfully. We never learnt any wisdom till before we watched your's videos. This topic is really very very sensitive...may Allah make us good parents what shortcomings we have seen in our childhood,our children should not see those memories.Ameen

@alikhansahab8356 4 жыл бұрын

Ameen

@kishwersadaqat2054 Жыл бұрын

الحمدللہ ۔۔۔۔جزاک اللہ خیر آمین

@Ayeshakhan-et2oz Жыл бұрын

❤❤Bht acha lga sun k bht sad the r video smny a gae shaid Allah ki trf sy ....jazakAllah hu khir ❤❤

@rukhsanashareef1766 2 жыл бұрын

جزاک اللہ خیرہ V.true motivational video

@shaistaanjum8356 3 жыл бұрын

MashaAllah BarakAllah. JazakAllahu khairun kaseera for sharing it

@HNK147 2 жыл бұрын

Amaizing sir سبحان الله وبحمده سبحان الله العظيم جزاك الله خيرا كثيرا بارك الله في علمك و عملك

@ahmarinzahid2799 3 жыл бұрын

Thankyou so much. I cant put into words how accurately you have addressed my issues. May Allah bless you

@muhammadyaseen6638 3 жыл бұрын

My dad is alive. But I am traumatized mentally. People look at my father like a beast.. Sorry.. But that's what I have heard again and again.. Hadd darje ki bd akhlaqi.. Mere adaat bhi os tarah adopt ho rhe thy lekin ab nahi hoga aisa! Inshallah I am changing myself from very beginning. Sir I argued with them about some big issues we always had in our home like abusing, teasing, religious extremism( mar kar 16 pare Quran Majeed hifz karawaya hai..🙂), Main Morning main Namaz padhata hon aise jagata hai ke nend mein insan dr jata hai lohy ka darwaza zor zor sy katkatata hai Dil mein Dard hone lgta hai.. Ab bhi zinda hai aur yahi sorate hal hai.. Main serf iss pr shukr krta ke mere Ma Baap zinda hain.. Main eldest hon.. 1 sis 2 choty bhai..4 hain.. Because of those arguments they are all against me teasing me everyday that you are VERYY religious or like the whole DEEN is for us.. Etc I again thank Allah that He almighty has given me One quality: patience I respect them and I have quit arguing them.

@syedhammadhussaini3000 4 жыл бұрын

I 100 percent agree with you

@muhammadmahmood2929 3 жыл бұрын

Bht achi bate or khyalat Allah hmen seekhne or amal ki tofiqe de

@mrs.aliramzani3637 4 жыл бұрын

Ilahy Aameeen ya Allah سلام علیکم و رحمۃ اللہ و برکاتہ. بہت بہت شکریہ. دعاوں میں یاد رکھئے گا.

@umulqura5350 3 жыл бұрын

@abidamgardezi7925 3 жыл бұрын

*کبھی اپنے آپ کو بھی معاف کرنا چاہئے ھمارا اپنے آپ کو معاف کرنے کا حق ھے*

@ranamuhammadhamza8727 2 жыл бұрын

ALLAH apko jaza e khair day . Ap ne bohat khoob soch di hai zindagi se seekhnay ki . Isi tarha insaan ki insaan ki ek achi personality bnti hai aur ek waqar peda hota hai

@ayeshashazi2898 6 ай бұрын

Subhan Allah. Quran had taught me this... The lesson had gotten a lil blurred with time. Jazak Allah kheran kaseera for reminding. Beautiful tips for a peaceful happy life Forgiveness is the key word.

@AbdulRehman-jk1bf Ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@nimrashahzad6924 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Sir.. Allah tallah apko sukoon, mutmaeen or khushhaal zindagi guzarney ki taufeeq dey..

@FatimaAMurad 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for directing our thoughts in a positive way.

@prettypicture1000 4 жыл бұрын

Bohot Acha topic hai. Very good talk. Ye Mera Bohot bada masla raha hai. Isspar koi religious speakers ne Abhi tak baat nahi kee hai. Maine to nahi dekha iss mauzu par deep discussion . Ye Allah ki taraf se mere saamne aayi hui baat hai. Allah Aapko iska ajar De. Jazak Allah khair.

@abubakarhusainrashidi7990 2 жыл бұрын

مجھے جس چیز کی ضرورت تھی آج آپ کی ویڈیو میں مل گی، آپ کا بہت بہت شکریہ، میں یہ ویڈیو بار بار دیکھوں گا.

@Rajpoot6002 4 жыл бұрын

آمین ثم آمین۔۔۔اللہ آپ کو لمبی عمر عطا کرے۔

@ahsanasad1080 3 жыл бұрын

Subhanalllah... Allah Hu Akbar.... Jazakallah khair... Allah Bahut hi Gahari Baat... Kitti Asani kr di Aapne...Speechless....just . End with Ameen

@roomanamagsi368 3 жыл бұрын

bilkul sir hamara deen Islam bhi hme yahi taleemat deta he bilkul yani darguzar or bardasht se kaam lena

@shahnoor2210 4 жыл бұрын

I think these sayings are 4 me.. Sir I have no words.. really

@FarahAhsan1 2 жыл бұрын

Keep closure to Allah...forgive everyone

@hassamsalahuddin4093 4 жыл бұрын

Ameen! We need this.

@sameenanazsameenanaz1069 4 жыл бұрын

Exactly sir aap ne sai kaha hamen muaf kr dena chaiya maaf krna hamare piyare Nabi ki sunat hy or Nabi pak ki zindgi tu hamare liye bhtren namona hy

@AasiaKanwal 4 жыл бұрын

Yes,you are right ,always look for a lesson in unpleasant experiences.👍👍 We should show kindness towards our parents.🤲🤲

@umairkhan5943 5 ай бұрын

my parents made me suffer and tells hadiths and quranic verses which were in their favour and made me fear of Allah in a way which wasnt pleasent. They used religion for their own favour.made me marry a girl of their own choice. In the end they made me trap in a cycle of guilt which had negative impact over my mental health

@raffatperveen3150 3 жыл бұрын

Jazzak ALLAHU Khairain Khathera dear brother very positive and thinking as a Muslim Alhamdulilah

@tilawatequran2466 3 күн бұрын

Wahh Zbardast ❤❤❤

@kirannajam4793 9 ай бұрын

May Allah bless you always ameen 🤲🏼

@horsetvhorsetv4259 4 жыл бұрын

سبحان الله والحمد لله رب العالمين الرحمن الرحيم ملك يوم الدين. جزاك الله خيرا يا اخي فى الإسلام

@horsetvhorsetv4259 4 жыл бұрын

@Amir Hamza لعنة الله على الظالمين.

@sanazaheer542 4 жыл бұрын

Beshak Me Esa sochti hu Unka amal unke sath Mera amal mere sath.

@suneelahyder7991 2 жыл бұрын

Shukrallahumdlilah.... lekin insan phir jitna uth uth k chle zinda mh hota

@haziqlucky5299 2 жыл бұрын

You belive me mere parents ny mjse bht nainsafi ki h aur abi tk kr rhe hain aur mai aik lgta h jese syko patient bn gai hn kio k mje aisa lgta h k parents se ki poch ni honi mai uneh bht apni taqleef btany ki koshish krti thn lkn wo mje glt chalak aur makkar smjty hain lkn aj pehli dafa apky mun se sun kr aisa lga jese h koi smjny wala ye masla b

@mustafakhanmustafakhan5671 3 жыл бұрын

جزاک اللہ

@hackthelives 2 жыл бұрын

Say Alhamdulillah for you have achieved something spiritual because of the wounds ❤️

@Loveanni347 3 жыл бұрын

Dili sukoun mila iss video say .. May Allah bless u .

@shafiaabbas2704 3 жыл бұрын

Jazakallah Bohat khoob

@qavisajjad5957 3 жыл бұрын

Kiya khubsurat bat hai waah. Dua par ameen

@motivatethemuslimummah8009 4 жыл бұрын

Masha Allah

@anbreenhayat3320 3 жыл бұрын

You speak so well, ماشاءالله trying to learn from your knowledge..

@durriashah9485 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely right sir I thought you answered my question. Great

@nasirajibeenkhan2293 2 жыл бұрын

MashaaAllah

@thingsaboutislam7370 4 жыл бұрын

MashaAllah very inspiring May Allah Bless you, Strong man!✨

@snajam2297 4 жыл бұрын

MashaAllah !!! Zabardast lecture. . . JazaakAllah sir

@hinausmanali3247 3 жыл бұрын

Your learnings and experiences are significant in your life

@uzmasidiqui2697 4 жыл бұрын

Bhut zabardast Allah AAP Ko sehat o salamati de app ki zindagi ko Barkat asaani ar khushiyon se pur kr de ar AAP se razi ho jaye ameen Duaon ki Talib ap ki student Umme Ahnaf. Jazakallaho Khairan kaseera wa ahsanul jaza fidduniya wal aakhirah ameen ,🌺🌺🌺

@umulqura5350 3 жыл бұрын

@HumaKhan-rj2tt 3 жыл бұрын

A teacher hateful ly treated me in class just because I was brilliant and talkative. I stopped speaking in class to avoid people's hate. My very close relative verbally abused me so much that it completely changed me. I lost confidence. My boss was Hyper and short tempered and very political to push me back and promoted less qualified people. It demotivated me and I lost interest in getting promoted. I don't know how to make my spirit alive again. I am not angry or hateful toward them. I accepted. It as my fate but lost my shine, interest and life. Just dragging it.

@Tobehonestfragrancereview 2 жыл бұрын

Bohot shukriya sir Allah aapko achcha rakhen

@krishnakumarnonia5229 4 жыл бұрын

dil se pranaam apko. i am from india. i got my answers of my questions. i will follow your suggestions.

@arshadazmi9754 2 жыл бұрын

بہت خوب، بے حد شاندار سوچ.

@zaraqureshi73 2 жыл бұрын

Very difficult but it’s true and why in our life only 3 time I think we need to forgive every pray time Tahjjud and nafli namaz

@erumashfaq3387 4 жыл бұрын

Thx God someone talk about parents injustice.

@alikhansahab8356 4 жыл бұрын

Yess

@quickeasyideacookingfoodti2622 4 жыл бұрын

So touching 😢 😪

@shawaizfamilyvlogs9235 2 жыл бұрын

I think most parents feel ashamed to admit thier mistakes. They never feel sorry ☹️☹️ .

@qasimjavid5348 4 жыл бұрын

اس موضوع (کسی کی وجہ سے کسی کا دل سخت دکھا ہو ) پر زیادہ سے زیادہ بات کریں، شکریہ

@qasimjavid5348 4 жыл бұрын

تو تم کافر ملعون ہو جو ایسی باتیں لکھتے ہو ۔ جہنم تمہارے جیسے کافروں کے لئے ہی بنا ہے جس میں تم جاوں گے ۔

@Mouvieclip932 2 жыл бұрын

Jazakallah

@Salma_zahir-m9y 2 жыл бұрын

Jazakallahu khairan for ur excellent lectures

@Plumish24 3 жыл бұрын

Most needed dose sir جزاك الله خيرا

@hirakhanum6971 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊

@adaabhy9461 2 жыл бұрын

JzakAllah

@fatimarasheed971 3 жыл бұрын

JazakAllah

@mussarattahira3383 3 жыл бұрын

Ma shaa ALLAH

@hinausmanali3247 3 жыл бұрын

More worries more learnings more reflections more insights More wisdom

@zikraaaacademy 4 жыл бұрын

عمدہ

@ridhaibnmuhammad6157 2 жыл бұрын

Mashallah bohhat koub

@bjanmohamed Жыл бұрын

Beautiful lecture, Jazakallah

@babaranwar5462 3 жыл бұрын

Your voice is very soothing and lessons are very useful.

@husnarajabeen8453 2 жыл бұрын

الله آپ کو اجر اعظیم عطا فرمائے

@parvezalamnadwi4179 3 жыл бұрын

Bahut shukriya sir

@binteadam7259 3 жыл бұрын

Very heart 💖 touching .

@Reviews-World Жыл бұрын

Shukr h in social issues pr ab open baat ho re h.

@rozenabutt5456 2 жыл бұрын

ALLAH'S BLESSED

@syedomerali338 3 жыл бұрын

Maa baap kitna bhi zulm karo wo manzor hoga uno acche ke liye karte mgr dosro se ek second bhi bardasht nai hoga

@gufranahmed8641 2 жыл бұрын

Aameen

@yahyakhan6275 3 жыл бұрын

Masha allah

@MrRehan1982 2 жыл бұрын

beautiful. thank you Salman Asif Siddiqui. we need more ppl like you !

@GoogleGoogle-pn9qt 3 жыл бұрын

Allah apko bhi dono jahano me khus rakhay

@wajihasyed3904 3 жыл бұрын

V true

@hamnakhalid6377 3 жыл бұрын

JazakAllah .. I really needed to see this video rn.. I feel like google is reading minds now.