"You can tell truth by your feelings?" Ah, no. You can tell the truth, and a person can still not believe you because of how they feel.

The last thing she spoke about was not bringing up the past. That "past" is what made me the person I am now. Not just for a year or 2, but for 32+ Years if marriage, I thought my life was mine, it wasn't, he made choices that effected both of us, but I had no say. I didn't find out about MANY things for most of that 32 years.

Omg,you are so right my ex and I were talking about something I did to break her trust and then she went back on other things I did in the past,and I was just defenseless after that

Just found your channel and wanted to say thank you sharing your knowledge with us. I learned a lot and it has made a positive change in my relationship of 9 years. Take care.

thank you Stacy!

Thank you

What is someone supposed to do when they’ve been lied to, the other person owned up to it, you think they’re lying about something else but won’t admit to it? Is that a sign of broken trust and how does one repair that?

Apologies are an effective tool to soften and healthy relationships.

Can you pls do a video on self forgiveness

Can I send this to someone that have lose my trust

THANK YOU SOOO MUCH;) xo

Please say prayers for me and my husband Travis Michaud for our marriage and our finances and our job searching for job offers.

I have money issues and have broken trust with my husband because of it. I really need to sort myself out because I hate our fighting

Hi Stacy, My wife caught me vaping delta 8 thc again after I promised I would not (not the first or second or third time) and now is holding firm to the line in the sand she drew and does not care what I do anymore and wants to live separate lives in the same house and needs her space. Although she did qualify it with “right now”. She even brought up divorce. I have quit harder substances, actual thc and cigarettes in the past. My justification was stress from new ownership at my job but really I was mentally addicted. I have thrown out all the vapes. Do I have a chance in saving this marriage and rebuilding or regaining her trust again?

I feel like my trust has been broken. I wont go into details. But it took me years to realize it. Im talking about friendship not a dating thing im single lol

I have a problem with my relationship I need help

Hi there, I was insecure about who I was so I lied to my partner about my past (made up a whole life almost) and came clean to her willingly. If she wants to, how can I help rebuild trust and move forward in a situation like this? I don’t have insurance so therapy would be extremely expensive but I would be willing to pay for it

I have hurted my partner a couple times and he forgive me. We got okay in 2 weeks, but after that I did something that hurt him again and made him to finally leave me. I have been crying everyday hoping we will still be okay, but because he said we'd be okay if we finally part ways. I agree but I only want time and space for the both of us, so that I can't do such hurtful things anymore. I agree that it's for the both of us but I still want him back:( I cannot even explain why I did horrible things many times to him. I do not understand myself, that's why I agreed that we won't be talking to each other anymore. But I don't want to forget him like he said. I just need time and space, I still want him back when the time is right. I do not want to look selfish. I regret everything of what I did. What should I do to be sure that we'll be okay like we used to?:(

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Hey I recently broke up with my ldr boyfriend because things were getting really tough. The only thing we were holding on to in the ldr was our love and trust for each other. I have dumped him previously too when things get tough. I don't know what else to do...its like a natural response i guess. For him, being done is never the solution because I'm the one for him...or was. After this breakup, he says he can't trust me again. I have hurt him deeply and he says he needs to rethink where we stand. I don't want to lose him..but no matter what i say, i cannot make things right. I was in a very bad space, physically and emotionally and i felt completely alone. So i thought breaking up would be the best thing for us. I realize i was wrong. I don't wanna lose him. What should i do?

In re: The Past: Big Factor: Was the behavior ... like an act (or multiple or ongoing) acts of personal Betrayal ... ever owned, explained? Was accountability ever taken for the personal transgression? If so, that's one thing. But if not ... Sorry. Still a very live issue. If you don't wanna hear about over and over ... RESOLVE IT!!! It's that simple. 🎼TD, Boston

Staying out of the past is litterally the only thing she does is stay in it and it has been years? What do you suggest for someone who is constantly reminded of the past?

I was the one who broke their trust and i have got one more chance and they told me that they talk less to me and i am super sad

What are examples of small vulnerabilities? The small openings to prove actions for trust

How can I contact you and better explain you my personal situation so that it can be solved? Perhaps an Email would work.

So question I’ve searched for I broke trust talking to other women not putting on social media not married. Then she cheated. Done what I done on but on steroids. Everyone says to ignore not bring it up till she’s ready to speak of it. But now she’s single but we married.

There are some ok points, but her advice is oddly more demanding on the victim than the perpetrator. Bite me once, shame on you, bite me twice, shame on me.... There ARE things the victim can do to respect the efforts of the perpetrator, but the perpetrator needs to be the one going to the extreme to regain what they violated and destroyed.

Thank you