Hey fur, i myself go through this quite often, let me tell you one trick that you can use, if someone tries to make a joke about you, you tell them that you didn't understood it and that if they can explain that "joke" to you or if they can repeat it, the person making that joke will feel awkward and when they will repeat it or explain it, it will not be funny anymore. And after they were explaining it or repeating it, in the meantime you can think of a sassy comeback, the one that i use is "really?" With a weird face expression. And for feather, don't see the present love that will stop you from breaking up, think that ,can you live with all these restrictions for the rest of your life? No right...then there will be a day, when you will have to back off, so why not now???

I have seen girls being proud of their bfs who are possessive! Recently my cousins gf told me in a very casual manner " he doesn't let me wear such dresses.. he didn't let me do this or that... " i could see a subtle glow of pride and indulgence which secretly announces " look how romantic he is! He cares for me soooo much"! I was taken aback... how someone let the other person control them! Prachi di u r right.... it's not him... it's the girls who don't take the hints initially and try to justify the unhealthy insecurity.

Feather- This was the same thing with my ex, he used to do all those things like not allowing me to do anything, i had completely lost my freedom, I was living on his restrictions, after 2.5 yrs of relationship with him, I realized he's not the guy I'll spend my life with, coz it's my life I want to spend it my way not his way. I broke up with him then he cried & started to ask for a chance, but I never turned back, I just moved on, after some days, both of us forgot each other, & I'm in a happy place right now, living my life fully as I wanted. That step have completely changed my life.

4:25 I love my skin colour and apne gore hoke kya ukhaadh liyaa aunty is the best comeback i guess!

When you had a boyfriend just like feather, but were smart enough to realise and break up on time. My ex, used to tell me to do such bs by saying " you say you love me , but cant even delete an ig acc for me?" "cant even change your phone number for me?" " cant even stop talking to everyone else for me?" yes i was dumb enough to do everything he asked for but, fast enough to realise. Its been two weeks since we broke up and I AM SO FUCKING HAPPY RN

Feather, there might be other reasons like low self-esteem, trust issues or something else in the guy. But that over-possessiveness in guys towards me or my girl friends has actually been proven later for them having an extra official/unofficial affair with someone else. And trust me, possessiveness or jealousy is neither healthy nor romantic especially if this is to much extent.

How mature woman she is...lots of life experiences 🙏

Feather, if it's 5 months or 5 years, possessive people won't change at all. They will say they will change but they won't. Trust me it's always better to break up initially rather than getting deeper with him after few years. And you will get a guy who will respect each n everything you are. These kind of relationships take you to depression, mental suffering and what not. I recovered from all this with counselling . So I suggest you think about ur Future and take a better decision as Didi said.

Trust is an important part of relationship and if that is absent there is no point in being in that relationship.

Yesterday a boy said me oh u r suffering from hair fall.. Ur skin is not so bright like before.. u look old... I cried whole night..And today I spent 20k in parlour.. now I am in guilty situation.. why I get so hurt by these kind of comments on my looks & living😕😞

"Fur" These peoples trying to insult you. Many times it comes from their personal insecurity and please don't listen to them. They can go at any level to hurt you if they know they are affected by you and also don't show them by your body language that you're hurt, most of the time its for their entertainment. Similar series of events happened with me I am a 22 year old girl with medium body built. I was around 68 kgs last year so people at my home( we lived in joint family) they used to call me fat and now when I lost weight and am 56 kgs they are now saying yeah girls should not be fat. So just understand they are "fucked up" peoples and they just need a point.

Ohh prachi di... This is what I exactly do.5:14 One of my roommates keep taunting me about having a little big bust. I reply in the way like -oh ..Common..I love them anyway..they make me feel more sexy..Btw you should consult a doctor for your too skinny body seems like u r suffering from kushtrog...😐 🤐 See I know this was very mean...bt this is only way to tell them u r happy what you are...And no is perfect in this world..,😊

I face the same....my skin tone is dusky and TBH I never neverrrr felt bad about it..but people oftenly taunt me for my skin tone...like for example I heard someone saying his boyfriend is with her because of her money otherwise there is no match (my boyfriend is handsome 😆) although my boyfriend always tells me that he just loves my skin tone.... Another veryyyyyyy recent example a girl (she is the same girl who said there's no match b/w me and my bf I won't even call her a Friend now) we used to talk so much like about Animals and all...than on a sudden day I put a status like "chido bhyi jitna chidna hai" and she took her on herself and then put a status like kali kahi ko terse hi to chidungi mai... I'm so fair without Even foundation..... I'm so slim.... I'm Proud God made me so fair and what not Obviously it hurted me alot but I just moved on because I can't dip my face in gutter....and you know the moon is not afraid by barking of the dogs....😊😊 But ya deep inside it hurts just because I'm not fair doesn't means I'm not beautiful....skin tone never neverrr defines Beauty

"No restrictions is okay in a relationship" 🔥 ditch this guy girl! He has to grow up. Don't let him pull you down.

You make us think so deeply di! ❤️ Thank you for such suggestions. 😊

Let me be kinda precise and straightforward. If someone insults you, try and ignore it for the first time, giving a hint (change the topic or, continue with what you were doing, as if you didn't hear it) and try to get over it..because y get into unnecessary arguments with useless people and hamper your mental peace? BUT, If you get insulted for the 2nd time from the same person, try picking up on their weaknesses /flaws and crisis ( nobody is perfect and nobody has a perfect life, mind you!!) I know it sounds mean, but people cannot handle it if you are too generous all the time! My boyfriend's mother often criticises my looks, saying I have pimples, I have thin hair, etc. Even my boyfriend body shames me quite often. Initially i used to ignore but now I pick up on their imperfections and make fun of the same. She herself looks pretty ugly (sorry to say) and isn't that educated or sophisticated. So i often show her pictures of my family members who are extremely educated, doing great in their lives and very beautiful as well . She ended up feeling insecure these days!! Did kinda same thing with my bf. I guess I am finally able to shut them up!

Fur, if someone insults or bothers you , think one thing? Are they perfect to treat u like that? You know who u r don't even give a damn to those who treats u any less . U have to.

This girl is wonderful💓 please suggest me more channels similar to this

Thank you so much for this solution praachi, I'm exacting going through the feather's phase now💔 it really hurts.

Feather kindly break this relationship❤❤!

You are really a boon di♥️ Your work really helps alot😭😭 ♡♡

Oh prachi didi....thanks for share ur views with feather I told the same thing almost 70%....she doesn't hear my words sometimes she thinks I not liking her relationship with that guy but I have concern for her....so I will share this video to her at least I want her to open up to her bf why he so possessive...

Tbvh my conversation skills are improving because of your videos ❤️

Love the quote prachi Di ❤️Thanks for the video

Di cam you suggest any good councellor in bangalore. Please can you please reply.I really need one.. I search and thr are so many options.. I don't know whwre to go who are good

What are the ways to deal with the insults coming from workplace?

Sit down and talk?....Hhh!...People will insult and run. And next time when we remind them; they already gone through memory loss. Nice advice though.

Very very useful dii... suuperb

Hi Prachi, there are working environment insults too. Would be good if you cover that too. And I want you to cover the work place scenarios also along with personal scenarios which are common to both, feel like mostly you're focussing on personal lives/ marriage lives and giving examples related to it. (As there are working people watching the videos.) Appreciate your work, keep going!! 😊

Yes feather ,plzzzzz plzzz break.up with him !!! Do this favor on yourself 🙌

How can you be so awesome Prachi Di!!! More power to you!!❤❤❤❤

Love the first response :) :)

Seriously this video very useful in my life

I also go through this situation....like fur....

Vry much needed for me 😘😘😘best video

Hii diii .... I really wanna share something... In the Winter season..when there is severe cold..., I start shivering and imagine things that are not usual... It happens to me every Winter... And then I suddenly start crying... I cannot express any1 how I feel... But I really wanna know the reason behind this... And wld be very thankful if u wld help me...

I am not confident enough so people taking me for granted.....plz...give some tips to increase self confidence and creat a good personality......that everyone respect me ....

Hi di.. I'm a 20 years old girl dating a guy since more than 1 year. I'm really loyal to him and I'm sure that he loves me. But I'm in a abusive relationship. He keeps on doubting me and has trust issues. I'm even not allowed to have any male friends or add any male in my social media. Prachi, u can't imagine to what extent he abuses me. I'm a lil healthy girl and he even keeps on taunting me about my weight and figure whenever we have any argument. You would suggest that talk to him clearly about it but I've already done this and this didn't work. He also has problem with my dressing..I don't want to stay with him anymore but he keeps me blackmailing me that he will tell my parents about us and show them our photos or blackmail me that he will commit suicide.. He has even called my dad twice but I managed somehow. I don't have anybody to talk to about this. I really need your help. Please suggest me what to do. (also i belong to a quite orthodox family so i can't tell my parents about him)

A lovely video di as always di

14:41 you're right some girls are not even realizing its toxic

Waw dear u doin great work...

Yes, its absultly right repetitve insults causes anxty,loss of cnfdnce in the long run.

I love that .very helpful. My child who studies in grade 1 missed his online eng class.n the teacher text me plz be responsible. I feel its rude .please tell me how do I respond to that.

Didi please make a video on exam motivation and how to study effectively for long hours

I love you Prachi Di

I love you Prachi di❤️

please show us your dog! 😍🐾

I want your help. I Badly need it. Where should i contact you. Plz reply😊

Prachi deee love uuuuu 5 th comment

Prachi mam where to write letter that you read

But dii kaafi saare cases mei aesa hota hai ki jo boyfriends hote hai woh apni Girlfriends ko dhamki dete hai that i will slit my wrist if u leave me or break up with me...so what should girlfriends do in such cases where the bfs are threatening the gfs

What to do if family member inselt.... I'm 24 and just fed up with my parents and family member stuff.. so pls help with some motivation...

Useful video

Hey di ,I want to tell u something I am medico ,my caste is general (karana)n me jise pyar Karti Hun wo schedule caste h,3 yr hum together h ,mere liye koi aur ladka na dhund le isliye me Ghar me bata Diya ,my father is a politician n very powerful man ,wo aur meri maa Raji Nahi hue aur Apne sar ko chun Kara k Kasham laga Diya ki use realtion Kabhi b mat rakhna ,but he & me connected through god n we love eachother so much ,boht bada jhtka laga ,meri maa bap boht roye,papa n Bola bp high hogya ,maa ne papa k health ko lekar mujhe daraya ,Mera Bhai mujhe support Kar Raha tha but wo papa mama ki dukh ko dekhkar bola bhul jao ,hum tym pass Nahi Kar rahe the eee kese bhul Jaye ,har gurubar ko saibaba ki arti Karne jaate the ,milke puja karte the ,pehle SE hin Saibaba Ka ashribad humare upar h ,we r emotionally connected but mama papa chi chi bol Kar samaj ki Baat ki kisike samne khade Nahi ho payege ,me tab SE ajj tak dar ke kamp rahi hu kyunki me aur kisike Saath Nahi rah Sakti ,marjaungi lekin nahi rahungi ,apni padhai khatam Karne me still 2 year h , depress m hu still hope nah Hari Hun me na ki woh (he),me jitna pyar apni Papa maa se Karti hun utna hin use ,ese kese chutki mein bhul jaun ,I know Kuch b Nahi ho Sakta but me Saibaba ki puja Karti hun wo hin humko itna waqt Saath me rakha ,hope Nahi harungi , saibaba har waqt mere Saath h ,wo zaroor sab thik Kar denge ,hope ki Sahare jinda Hun kyunki abhi tak meri maang khaali h ,Ghar walo bata Diya Kuch b Nahi h ab relation ,hum contact me BHI Nahi rahenge lekin me hamesha hope me jiungi aur Woh bhi Baba ki puja Karti rahungi aur humare marriage ki kamna karungi , saibaba be with us ..... Caste system hata Kar kya Sarkar sabhi ko ekk Nahi Rakh sakte ?!!kya h yeh Papa maa emotianal karein hum aur bahar Nahi ja sakte ,muhan nahi Dekha sakte ,aur hum mental depression me kese jiye ?I m clueless but I believe in my saibaba 😢

Your every word are exact di ❤️

Prachi di aapko thand nahi lagti💙☃️❄️

You Are Just amazing 😍❤❤❤

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please guide me how to write letter to you

Can anyone share the I'd of Miss Prachi so that I can share my story with her and get the feedback....!

Hi prachi di 4th comment!😇✌

Hey Prachi di and everyone I don't have problem like that whatever it's happened to me something My question is in my family always talk about marriage I'm 19th year old doing my graduation and also I'm in a relationship but I don't want to marry don't know why whenever I think about marriage I get angry I don't know why Ps: I love my boyfriend he's a nice guy yeah we fight a lot but I love him

Hi Prachi, whr I can ask u questions like others as I don't find any email id s aswell..pls reply

Love you didi😍😍😍

Same here My own first cousin sister seems jealous of me as she is really short and dusky which I don’t think is bad .. I don’t take my fair complexion seriously She gets really bitchy and mean without any reason .. I just called her up and asked her to better not repeat it again .

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I just can't forgive them

and there are some people who will always talk bad about you and to you so ... stay away , stay safe 😂

from where I put my questions to you Prachi .. is there any mail id

Why didn't you post any video last week ?

How do i write to you di?

Please make videos on breast growth enlargement

What to do if in the second scenario is not your boyfriend but he is your husband?

Pahle ek baat batao! aap itni khubsurat kyon Ho. ❤️

Can someone share prachi sis's email id??

Is yours "AUNT AGONY VIDEOS?I Am confused,do you have anything to say apart from advising?

Prachi, what's your email id