How To Romanticize Your Life || Being the Main Character of Your Life 🌷
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3 жыл бұрын“You have to start romanticizing your life. You have to start thinking of yourself as the main character. Because if you don’t, life will continue to pass you by. And all the little things that make it so beautiful, will continue to go unnoticed. So take a second, and look around, and realize that it’s a blessing for you to be here right now”
Hello friends! Today I'm sharing some of the ways that I romanticize my life, along with tips for how to be happier and appreciate the little things :) I often think of my life as a movie, and I have started to remind myself that I am the main character of my life. I've started to focus more on living in the moment, and appreciating the little things. There's no secret to romanticizing life. It's just about viewing the world with a bit of added magic and actively trying to be enchanted by your daily life :)
I hope you enjoy the video and cottagecore/light academia vibes! Sending you a warm virtual hug and some homemade chocolate chip cookies! 💗
✨ Amazing people & resources mentioned in this video:
- Opening quotes about Hayo Myazaki and living your life like a Studio Ghibli movie are from Umbylievable and Falastinniya on Tumblr. / umbylievable & / falastinniya
- Autumn Rose (literally the happiest person I've ever seen on social media. Please go check her out. She's the one who I quoted about living in the moment and the difference between happiness and satisfaction. She's absolutely amazing, and she'll change your life for the better)
/ @officialautumnrose
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- Chelsey Jade Curtis (She is the one who said the amazing quote about how romanticizing your life is like focusing on the soundtrack and not the plot. Also such an amazing and positive human being! Her instagram page is such an uplifting, feel-good place)
chelseyjade...
- Twenty Something Podcast (such a great listen! Their "How to Romanticize your Life" inspired me so much!)
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- @Christinaelisabethrose on tiktok also inspired multiple elements of this video. Her aesthetic is stunning and such a calm place to go when you've had a stressful day. Please check her out, she's absolutely amazing! www.tiktok.com/@christinaelis...
✨ Music in todays video:
STUDIO GHIBLI VIOLIN MEDLEY by JuNCurryAhn Ft. Albert Chang
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La Vie En Rose covered by Daniela Andrade
• La Vie En Rose
Blue Mountains by Gabriel Witcher
• Blue Mountains - Gabri...
Gold by Rob Simonsen
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- All other music is from Epidemic Sound :)
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@MagicCritical 3 жыл бұрын
you can romanticize your life without being aesthetically perfect. romanticize that ugly cup of coffee while studying, romanticize your trip to work or college, romanticize making dinner with whatever you have in the fridge, romanticize your time studying a subject you don't like by playing some music and drinking something you like. you can romanticize laying on your bed on your pajamas playing games! it's not about wanting to be her, is about loving who you are and what you do. once you are happy with what you do, you'll look as happy as her.
@annaliarose 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed, it is all about the mindset.
@alisonhaag1015 3 жыл бұрын
Love this!
@MagicCritical 3 жыл бұрын
@@bubblegum999 not the city per se but your life in it yeah, tots! You're the main character
@Alex-bw8xx 3 жыл бұрын
@@bubblegum999 Well you can also still find positive and beautiful little things about your city too while loving the life you have there Maybe think about it in anokther way than the things you hate about it and maybe you can actually find some things you love about it that never crossed your mind before
@thecharlotte2326 3 жыл бұрын
A good example is chaotic academia aesthetic
@alyshacinnamon8129 3 жыл бұрын
“Live your life like every moment is beautiful and charming” *gracefully rises from the toilet*
@alyshacinnamon8129 3 жыл бұрын
But on a more serious note I did really enjoy this video, and perhaps I shall start romanticizing my own life to give me the motivation I once had.
@taraedi6274 3 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo 😂
@starish9715 3 жыл бұрын
Was it the little one or big one ? 🤣🤣🤣
@ren7056 3 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo
@saraperidott2013 3 жыл бұрын
You go girl!! Ascend from that porcelain throne! It's beautiful to be human and gratefully so. The flushing mechanism is a gift, how many a time once we let it go and rose from our contemplation, our moment of giving a crap. From henceforth we will take none from no-one! Rise my dear lilies 👑
@Sakshi-gr6eo 3 жыл бұрын
People: real life ain't Disneyland Her: hold my aesthetics
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
😂☺️💗💗
@crystalfelicia9924 3 жыл бұрын
UHH
@klaudinegarcia8932 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@warumwarum5369 3 жыл бұрын
😂💕
@natalidolll 2 жыл бұрын
Disneyland is about witchcraft and evil wizards
@goddessloretta776 3 жыл бұрын
Anyone else cry through this WHOLE video? I suffer from depression. This was so beautiful to see and be reminded that life is beautiful no matter how bad I mentally feel. I'm inspired. Thank you!
@shannonr4360 2 жыл бұрын
I had to hold it back but it got so close! I also have depression and am slowly recovering from all that I have lost these past 3 years. The thing that got me through the most was actually doing just this without even realizing it. Just trying to appreciate the good moments and see the beauty in all the little things around me. I am slowly treating myself better each day and it feels amazing. There will always be good and bad days but you can always find something small to make it just a little better. I hope you are able to do this as it really does make a difference in happiness. Good luck to you!
@mysticmaril2372 2 жыл бұрын
I am crying without reason
@art-yh6yw 2 жыл бұрын
I know this is late but you are worth everything good in life. There will be good times, morning will come eventually, it won't always be night. Good luck and all the best, you are art and always love yourself!
@palomaperez4774 2 жыл бұрын
Same right here! This is wholesome and somehow good for my anxiety
@laurengaskell2098 2 жыл бұрын
How do you feel now? I want you to know that you can prevail over depression. There is hope! I had been depressed for most of my life, since around 8 years old, with two super extreme episodes in high school and uni. But year and a half ago I managed to heal finally. I have never felt so good as now. Please, do not give up!
@dudybug 3 жыл бұрын
I deliver pizza as a night job and I love driving and looking at the Christmas lights and I love seeing people’s front door decorations and delivering to the regulars and delivering to little kids that are so ecstatic for pizza they can’t contain themselves. It is ALL about your attitude.
@lauraelizabethbrown 3 жыл бұрын
Somehow you made something as simple as a pizza delivery sound beautiful and that's awesome.
@Moonietie 3 жыл бұрын
Ah this made me smile, reminds me of how happy my little boy is when I order a pizza, he has to run and tell the whole household "mum's ordered pizza!"
@brittney1591 3 жыл бұрын
I love this comment :’)
@kikajencova6989 3 жыл бұрын
This comment made me smile. Its really all about the worldview and attitude. ❤️
@jiliciar.1423 3 жыл бұрын
@@lauraelizabethbrown Ikr. Helps me see the beauty of life.
@francescasalazar3670 3 жыл бұрын
I am the main character and this is my villain arc.
@RadiantBleu 3 жыл бұрын
I'm in my redemption arc
@krisjenner0000 3 жыл бұрын
i’m having my monthly self doubt arc 😚😚
@francescasalazar3670 3 жыл бұрын
@@krisjenner0000 omg bestie! go get that character development!!!!
@parttimeemo8363 3 жыл бұрын
I'm like the misunderstood anti hero
@RadiantBleu 3 жыл бұрын
I would like to retract my earlier statement: I have been thrown back into my anti-hero plotline
@LindaCaztell 3 жыл бұрын
I love how you didn’t need anyone else to create those moments of happiness. As someone who has a hard time socializing and maintaining relationships it was beautiful to see 😊
@Theblondebass1 2 жыл бұрын
I didn't even notice that! What a great perspective. I'm in a slightly different situation where my husband has been gone for 3 months now with the navy but you're right, she made her own happiness without needing anyone
@vessyioannou259 Жыл бұрын
@@Theblondebass1 She has her husband to film her.
@tabifiedler6944 3 жыл бұрын
I work at a movie theater and I just love seeing how happy people are to see movies and get the concessions food. I love working in a place that gives people so much joy :)
@Heathermathewhandhearts 3 жыл бұрын
I love the movies for the memories created there with the people I love. Now I go all alone just to try to capture that feeling again.
@mayanovak2497 2 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺🥺🥺
@moonshorses 3 жыл бұрын
as a very suicidal person, this hits hard. yes, there is ALWAYS something to live for. always something beautiful, always someone or something that loves you. so if anyone else is struggling, please know, you are loved. by the sunshine on you face, by your favorite novels, by your cup of morning tea. you are loved by your pets, your bed. there is always something to live for, so please, please stay here to love each of them as much as they love you back
@ana_ella 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I needed to hear that
@andraste6746 3 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful. I have very dark times. But I take comfort in the small things and I try to soak in those moments that feel special-warm sun on your face, a storm, a smile from a friend, a connection with someone.
@moonshorses 3 жыл бұрын
@@ana_ella im glad i could be of use
@moonshorses 3 жыл бұрын
@@andraste6746 thank you bby! this response is so moving, 100% yes! there are beautiful things to live for, even in the darkest of times
@thankunext1625 3 жыл бұрын
I love this
@cyana5867 3 жыл бұрын
A saying I saw on a mug . . . “It takes so little to go from Bread and Water to TOAST and TEA”
@chemirestyles3572 3 жыл бұрын
I love this little quote
@notavailable708 3 жыл бұрын
Means?
@Rose-gf1se 3 жыл бұрын
I dont think i get it
@notavailable708 3 жыл бұрын
@@Rose-gf1se saamee
@NA-vt6mz 3 жыл бұрын
@@Rose-gf1se means simple bread with fire can be a toast and simple water can be tea if cooked
@briana14333 3 жыл бұрын
How can you not smile watching this?! What a beautiful philosophy. My takeaway is to never lose that childlike wonderment and appreciate all you have.
@esem3511 2 жыл бұрын
Yes same!!!
@otherlands94 3 жыл бұрын
I am laying in my bed and was crying during the first half of this video cause i feel i just dont have the energy to be so happy anymore.
@charlote500 3 жыл бұрын
I have depression and anxiety and I also felt sad when watching this, because it made me feel like I wanna be perfect like her but then I realised that this is all for a video..her life isn’t really like this every day. She might be mentally well or she might have mental health problems but the video makes it seem like it’s all perfect. Anyway this made me sad at first but I realised that her life has to be inperfect too. But we have to find beauty in all the inperfect stuff..I go to therapy and I’m slowly getting better, there are bad days and good days. I know I can do it and you can too! 💜 I hope this comment made sense..hugs and love to you!
@dontme8174 3 жыл бұрын
Bro like I don't even have the capacity to read anymore
@otherlands94 3 жыл бұрын
@@charlote500 I am also looking for a therapist rn and feeling better since lockdown is now over in our country so we can actually have a life again - thank you so much for writing this though, it means a lot
@luckyrabbitnumber 3 жыл бұрын
At the beginning of the video she wakes up and talks about romanticising life, and then some moments later she’s eating a pristine breakfast. Where did the miraculous croissant come from? She later break the fourth wall and tells us about how she went to buy it from a very prestigious French chef in her city. What was it like to go to that place and buy the croissant? How much time did she take filming and editing this to make it look perfect? That’s not in the movie though. The bedsheets are Vintage Rose ,by Fadfay, you can find them on Amazon. Basically it’s all a show! Duolingo *is* a game, then play another videogame. Her life is not perfect. She is just like you and me. There are many beautiful material things on screen, but that doesn’t mean she’s always super happy with them. Seems she’s trying to find happiness just like everybody else and I think it’s really creative to do a video like this, but I would guess that she has a lot of bad days too! She doesn’t put them on KZfaq, of course. If she can find some happiness from doing this videos that’s great and something wonderful to share with the world, but don’t feel sad because it’s not really her real life...
@peepindis 3 жыл бұрын
I suffer from bouts of anhedonia, too. And no, videos like this just aren't really helpful in times like this. The creator does a good job and absolutely is not out to make people like you and me feel badly. In fact I think she does a lot of good for her viewers. You can always come back to this once you're feeling better. For now? Protect your mental health. And hang in there. Please. Can you tell me what does make you feel engaged or less-bad right now?
@michelledesroches4627 3 жыл бұрын
It’s mindfulness. Staying present in each moment and using all of our senses.
@IshaSharma11 3 жыл бұрын
True
@nusaibahyusuf9994 3 жыл бұрын
So true
@RecaJ333 3 жыл бұрын
YES! I've just gotten more into candles..and WOW. It really changes the mood. I love it! So simple, yet magical.
@someonesomeone25 3 жыл бұрын
I wish it worked for me. I still just find it all very boring and miserable.
@velerina2017 3 жыл бұрын
Yes. Something not new to today. That's how the saints and monks told us to live thousands of years ago
@minho4U 3 жыл бұрын
This video makes me want to cry because I once viewed the world this way. A magical place. I just can't remember when everything went downhill.
@johnbull4580 3 жыл бұрын
Relatable 😆
@theuniquebean 3 жыл бұрын
You can find that place again. It’s still inside of you. Hugs💕
@vibewithmabel 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate... It will get better again, I'm sure
@AEHudg 3 жыл бұрын
Word.
@ametrineambrosia4929 3 жыл бұрын
@@aracelymehl4354 no enjoying sunrises? Or the taste of food in your mouth and your favorite music in your ears? You are being forced life or death not to?
@gretam2779 3 жыл бұрын
The people watching her run in the parking lot: 👁👄👁
@veenathomas5920 3 жыл бұрын
But i just love how she doesn't care about how people thinks about her. She just enjoys her life with no buts😊
@Kirasanban 3 жыл бұрын
Live your life like a Ghibli movie ... and that’s how I accidentally ended up married to a cat
@mmelivresque8613 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂I can't
@gabrielamarcus 2 жыл бұрын
I wanna marry my cat! He is so cute!!
@nanan8992 2 жыл бұрын
👁️👄👁️
@fippy 3 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say thank you so much for this vlog. I'm 53yo and I have 40% burns after being set on fire and after everything I've been through and raising two boys I had forgotten to enjoy the pretty little things in life so today I purchased a copy of Anne of Green Gables, bought a very pretty vintage English plate with a bunch of pink flowers on it and a silver candelabra to put next to my bed. You might not know it but your vlogs do change people, you remind us to reset and to take time out to enjoy the little things in life like dancing in the rain...which I always do every time it rains...again, thank you. Fip.
@moonlightbae333 3 жыл бұрын
Hello I hope you are all right
@coconut602752 3 жыл бұрын
God bless you dear 💛🤍
@neutron4375 3 жыл бұрын
Remember when you were a little girl and your family/best friend/teacher doted on you and you believed that anything is possible; when you had a favorite doll, when just seeing a beautiful flower on the side of the road or a cute kitten was enough to make you grin from ear to ear, or your favourite candy brought you so much joy. That girl is still inside you. Live for her.
@ametrineambrosia4929 3 жыл бұрын
😘
@judylloyd7901 3 жыл бұрын
@@neutron4375 You can't live for the girl you used to be, you have to live for the girl you are now. And that's a good thing 😄😄👍👍
@stardust9295 3 жыл бұрын
1st step: move out of your parents toxic house and live on your own 😂
@nevamoore5192 3 жыл бұрын
Totally possible with time and hard work, I think you can start smaller for now.
@hojasdehierba111 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness, yess!! With hard work we can do that but now everything is so expensive:( the most rentable is live with other people
@eeaotly 3 жыл бұрын
@@nevamoore5192 Hard work always equals low pay. People should stop using this word. Instead say "meaningful work".
@lifewithlj4202 3 жыл бұрын
I felt this in my soul
@reipixel9654 3 жыл бұрын
YESSSSS we got this!!!We can get out from this togetherrr
@rachelgalen1160 3 жыл бұрын
the cinematography skills are insane... i felt like i was watching a movie!!! so beautifully made 💖
@ladycatherine7696 3 жыл бұрын
My parents managed to achieve the perfect balance as a team. Papa's life revolves around efficiency and results, whereas mama is a hedonist at her core who spends her days indulging in pleasures and making our lives ethereal. I cherish my days in my parents household, I was growing up around fresh flowers for mama used to have orangery/greenhouse, sit-down candle-lit dinners, dinner parties, horse riding, reading novels with mama while sitting by the lake, and because of papa, I was blessed to do it in the highly coveted locations.
@martynabrzostek9300 3 жыл бұрын
Romanticizing my life is truly helping me to cope with my mental health problems, with my anxiety and a feeling that I have to achieve as many things in a day as possible - it calms me down, lets me to enjoy little moments of peace and happiness :)
@Gabriela-lf2ic 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, i feel same! I'm very productive person, but sometimes I need to calm down!
@mic6074 3 жыл бұрын
I didn't have a name for It, but I've been trying to do this to help with my anxiety aswell! Also to try to slow time down, cause I know if I let it it will go by way too fast.
@leahclarkmusic5762 3 жыл бұрын
Me too! It’s done wonders for my terrible anxiety x
@danielagomez7014 3 жыл бұрын
I’m going through trauma from my last relationship and this has been helping me so much!
@kiziemizie 3 жыл бұрын
polska!!
@SimplyBeautiful516 3 жыл бұрын
Oh the beauty of this video is making me cry and smile simultaneously. At first I thought “ I want to live in her world “. And then I realized “ Actually, I want to create my own world like this “.
@unicornkate2797 3 жыл бұрын
Let me tell you that you are going to! You are going to make yourself a world that is beautiful and perfectly imperfect for you!
@kialevigne8858 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! 💖
@nevamoore5192 3 жыл бұрын
Go for it and good luck!
@grangerscottege571 3 жыл бұрын
𝙸’𝚖 𝚜𝚞𝚛𝚎 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚠𝚒𝚕𝚕 𝚋𝚜 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚕𝚎𝚢 𝚊𝚝 𝚒tシ
@SimplyBeautiful516 3 жыл бұрын
@@grangerscottege571 What a wonderfully kind thing to say. Thank you. 💕
@jnlnmrrn 3 жыл бұрын
This video reminded me of how I felt as a kid. Every little moment I felt like I was in a movie, like I was playing a role and every move I made was special and magical. I was so happy and got lost in the moment, in little things. You reminded me of having those moments again and trying to get lost in those beautiful little moments.
@Nnnmmmkkk 2 жыл бұрын
Your comment made me realize that I too lived this way as a child. I’ve completely forgotten about it, so thank you so much for the reminder ❤️
@greeniscoollol 11 ай бұрын
Aww ❤❤❤
@greeniscoollol 11 ай бұрын
@@Nnnmmmkkkagreed!❤
@user-gh4qj9to6c 3 ай бұрын
So true
@dinakasap 3 жыл бұрын
She is literally living the live I've always dreamed about
@intentionalliving7326 2 жыл бұрын
🤩
@serenawayne 3 жыл бұрын
Six years ago, I could never imagine living my life like this. I tried to commit suicide several times that year. Accepting that I couldn’t die was hard, but slowly I started to try and find things worth living for. About 3-4 years ago I made myself start practicing self love. To say this was hard is an understatement. I used to disgust myself. Deeply hate myself. But somewhere along the way, I actually started to fall deeply in love with me. Madly in love. And as i fell in love with myself, I fell in love with life. And how beautiful a simple day in my life can be. Without realizing it, I started to live my life “romantically” or as the “main character.” Seeing the sunshine, the beautiful mountains out my window, playing with my cats is enough to live for. I skip and spin like a child at the store. I live in the moment exactly however I feel like. I am so happy to see others finding out this secret to life and sharing.
@izusmallmight8953 3 жыл бұрын
😍😍😍😍😍😍 I'm so proud of you 💖💖💖💖💖💖
@jiliciar.1423 3 жыл бұрын
This made me smile, wow.
@serenawayne 3 жыл бұрын
@@jiliciar.1423 thank you ☺️hope you are well and living your best life ❤️
@serenawayne 3 жыл бұрын
@@izusmallmight8953 thank you! I am too, I am so proud of how far I’ve come! Hope you are well and going after your dreams ❤️
@imaneelfish594 3 жыл бұрын
I don't know why but I really cried when I read : "I actually started to fall deeply in love with me". Thank you for this beautiful comment. You made me feel warm, happy and proud of you even if I don't know you. Stay safe 💜.
@plutolip319 3 жыл бұрын
As a child I have actually always romanticized my life but growing up when people tell you "your life is not just your own" its a little hard to be the main character because I feel like I am being a little "self centered". but your video inspired me in a new way ❤ thank you so much:)
@helenebennie3961 3 жыл бұрын
You probably have to strike a balance. We ARE the main character in our own story, but we cannot think about ourselves and what we want to do all the time.
@nekokitty90 3 жыл бұрын
Tbh I don't think looking at yourself as your own main character is selfish in its own. Obviously we shouldn't be rude or inconsiderate to other people, but to me it's about finding the good or beauty of small mundane things in your life and enjoying them. I think this will also cause you to have a good effect on whoever you interact with because you'll be happier and more content, and peacefulness you have with yourself is what you will share to people in your life.
@centaurora913 3 жыл бұрын
I also did this as a child! When I became a teenager, I struggled with self-love, because, I felt like if I was confident, and if I enjoyed my life, then I was stuck up. But those are different. If you refuse to acknowledge and care for others, that's self-centered. But I think that refusing to acknowledge and care for yourself is also selfish. Taking that time for yourself is just choosing to let yourself be happy.
@bluelotus2021 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@emmajohns338 3 жыл бұрын
It's a great habit to start it from a young age, you have n-number of time to love yourself. If you do it when your a little older like me (I'm 21) You probably wouldn't have the time since, your life is fully packed up. As a child I didn't ejoy much, I regret it alot now. looking back I just wish I spent more quality time outside, instead of being stucked inside my room. now I realise what I missed out on, I would restart my life if I had a option, sadly I cannot.
@mattbrewbaker 3 жыл бұрын
Lovely way to approach daily life. Thanks for the vid. I’m reminded of a quote by Nietzsche: “We should consider every day lost on which we have not danced at least once. And we should call every truth false which was not accompanied by at least one laugh.”
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
🧡🧡🧡
@selynkimxx 3 жыл бұрын
I am a person who is a romantist and dreamer. So, thinking about harsh daily lives and problems or reality has been making me so hard and painful for the recent years. The problems like getting a job when umemployment rate is high, unsatisfying lifestyle, me not being a rich person, or being not famous as i want... things like these made me give up on life sometimes. The thought that my reality is so different from my expectations or dream was so unstandable. But this video made my romantic/dreamy side re-bloom. The important thing is my attitude toward life. If we try, we can make our boring and harsh life feel like a rainbow. (ofc, we have to try to really change our life as well.)
@taylorgray3147 3 жыл бұрын
If Anne Shirley was a real life person...
@iheartkt7778 3 жыл бұрын
my thoughts exactly!
@camirami2781 3 жыл бұрын
Omg it's true!
@smilingfaces6009 3 жыл бұрын
I beg your pardon??!!! I am real
@ancientgypsy3014 3 жыл бұрын
She was a real person
@missmayflower 3 жыл бұрын
@@ancientgypsy3014 no. She was a fictional creation of Lucy Maude Montgomery. She had some characteristics of Lucy Maude, but she was fictional.
@kaleidoscopekayley 3 жыл бұрын
I think a lot of people forget they are the main character of their story.
@intentionalliving7326 2 жыл бұрын
🤷🏻♀️
@HypeerChick Жыл бұрын
I always feel like the person helping others push their story along. A plot device, a lesson learned, a person they took a characteristic from. I’m really trying to remove myself from that character but it’s so hard!
@audraelynnegrimmelhaussen8808 3 жыл бұрын
I remember living like this as a young girl and being encouraged by my dad and grandma to be as girly as I can but somehow as I grew up and the harsh reality of Life set in, I lost that side of me.
@ryanneclaritas 2 жыл бұрын
My sister, she's still there. The spark of her still in you can be blown until red, vibrant, and glowing once more! Do not despair.
@SK-ut6tw 2 жыл бұрын
You're normal. Life isn't rosey and fake like this.
@alaskabane5340 2 жыл бұрын
@@SK-ut6tw well, of course not but it's still worth it to sometimes think about the little things, the mundane experiences and live in the moment
@nebulonicc 2 жыл бұрын
I watched this a year ago when it came out and that whole year afterwards was the best time I'd ever had in my life. Because i realized, romanticizing your life isn't about your life being perfect, it's about accepting the imperfections as they are, and finding them beautiful regardless. It's about finding joy in just being human, about finding the beauty in being sad or angry or nervous or embarrassed and embracing them because they're such a unique experience to you. It's about allowing yourself to follow your impulses no matter whether they will make others judge you because they make YOU happy. It's about dancing in the rain and breathing in the sunshine and laughing at yourself when you slip and fall. It's about listening to music, really listening, and listening to the birds outside and watching the squirrels outside and sitting in the shadowed corner of your room because you can hear yourself sing better there. Sometimes I forget this, and I have recently, but I came back here because I missed being in this mindset. I became angry at myself for having emotions, I found myself chasing happiness and pushing down everything else, but I found when I did that there was no happiness to be felt. But I'm ready to accept myself again, my new self. I'm not the same as I was last year and that's okay, I'm different now but I'm human, and that in and of itself is beautiful.
@katelynm.9510 Жыл бұрын
This just made me cry. You’re doing great. Hang in there! Sending you all the good vibes ❤️
@majagrabowska568 3 жыл бұрын
This is so cool, but let's remember that when you're depressed it's good to start with washing your teeth at first. I know it might sound ridiculous, but life's not always bubble baths. Still, great film. Really pleasant
@housewifingit410 3 жыл бұрын
Facts!
@ethnocentricfun991 3 жыл бұрын
Yes brushing you teeth and taking a 🚿. It really helps depression
@lunallena2933 3 жыл бұрын
💯
@andraste6746 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Going through a bad patch and the side of my bed is so cluttered. I think I will try and clear it off to make one pretty space. The entire room is not a possibility right now.
@malaikaking5550 3 жыл бұрын
@@andraste6746 please do. One step at a time. Hope you feel better soon.
@jiminisafairy6243 3 жыл бұрын
I do this every day and I didn’t realize it was a thing 😄 I just don’t see why you wouldn’t feel like you’re in Narnia when you walk through snowy woods or feel like a princess when you look outside your window, or wouldn’t buy flowers for yourself. ☺️
@biorastorm7002 3 жыл бұрын
Yess ♡♡
@clairebeane3455 Жыл бұрын
I have always lived my life like this. I hope I never lose my childlike wonderment. Many people consider me immature but I would strongly have to disagree. I believe that living life in a romantic, joyous manner, finding beauty in each moment is quite mature, while keeping one young and lengthening one’s life. 💜💜💜
@autumnthemaker 3 жыл бұрын
I’m excited to start my journey of romanticizing my life!! My anxiety makes me want to shut out the the world and my thoughts- I constantly have my headphones in so I can’t hear my bad thoughts. Now I want to start listening to things around me and take things slow. Appreciating every moment.
@charlief2085 3 жыл бұрын
I do this too with headphones. It’s easy to block out thoughts that way. But I feel like if I stop and listen to the world around me I’ll find beauty in it and if I listen to my thoughts I can work through them better and become more at peace. Although that’s easier said than done 😅💖
@caroline7420 3 жыл бұрын
Romanticising one's life does make one so much more grateful. I used to just trudge through each day waiting for exciting things to happen but when I started slowing down and enjoying everything it made a massive difference. I no longer despise winter and I'm even excited to go on a adventure in the snow. I'm really enjoying every day and finding little blessing in anything.
@chemirestyles3572 3 жыл бұрын
I want to enjoy winter ❄️
@IshaSharma11 3 жыл бұрын
Its love
@helenebennie3961 3 жыл бұрын
That's lovely. I'm sure your different attitude has affected many others around you in a positive way.
@brilanova4847 3 жыл бұрын
When you think about it... this is exactly what people were doing when they’d take photos of their food or something like that and sooo many people would give them nonsense for it. Something I had to learn with this was just not caring what others have to say about it 🤣❤️
@giulia5636 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I thought.
@Aizucita 3 жыл бұрын
I used to have a toxic friends who would say shit every time I'd take a picture of the sunset sky or of a leaf in a little pond or my food at the train station. I'm glad I never caved and kept being me and enjoying the little things. I'm also glad that person is no longer in my life
@nini5484 3 жыл бұрын
My ex would criticize me for taking pics of everything that I thought was beautiful or just wanted to memorize in form of a picture. Whether it be a building, a tree, flowers. He even made a fight about it. Glad he's gone.
@sb-pl1wx 3 жыл бұрын
yes!! the small things don’t seem so small when you romanticise them. i was at my grandmas today, we sat in her garden, eating soup and bread rolls she had just warmed on a fire and honestly, i felt so happy and content.
@taliw7736 2 жыл бұрын
Aw beautiful hope you enjoyed
@Jade_fawkes 3 жыл бұрын
So this is what life’s like without kids?! 🤣🤣😅 only kidding! Such a stunning video!
@anaisanais7336 3 жыл бұрын
I thought the same 😂 I guess I’ll have this life when the kids leave and I’ll drop the husband LOL
@mxflint1715 3 жыл бұрын
@@anaisanais7336 oh my god what a sad thought...
@martinacampea2756 3 жыл бұрын
This is why I will not have children hahahaha
@squidaker 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@merepriyekrishnji 3 жыл бұрын
@@martinacampea2756 same. I also don't want to have. But why am I thinking about this. I am just 14😂
@kithester5850 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t help but think that the music choice was intentional☺️. “La vie en rose” is to look at the world through rose colored glasses. It perfectly fits the video in every way🌱
@IshaSharma11 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@paula-kristin_friebel 3 жыл бұрын
The music definitely was intentional! La vie en rose is one of my favorite songs. It always takes my imagination to the best life I can have and deeply calms me!
@everglowup 3 жыл бұрын
"Getting dressed up for no special reason" okay... I love her 💕
@vianperspective1888 3 жыл бұрын
We could say that she is not realistic, that she does not have her feet on the ground, but if you think about it, that is exactly who she is, a realistic person.
@riggs20 2 жыл бұрын
There’s a line from a Sheryl Crow song that has always stuck with me: “It’s not getting what you want, but wanting what you’ve got.” That’s happiness. ❤️
@kimmychangas 3 жыл бұрын
My relationship ended last week and I've been having a really tough time being by myself. This video really inspired me to stop feeling sorry for myself and try my hardest to make the most of every moment. Being alone doesn't have to mean being lonely.
@theartofnaturegermany 3 жыл бұрын
Oh I'm sorry to hear that... But it is so beautiful that you still see the positive also in this situation, that's so strong 💚
@applebrush7600 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear you are going through this. But each day does get better. Especially with the positive mindset you already showing. My prayers and thoughts go with you.
@susefink6099 3 жыл бұрын
I am sorry to hear that... I am a single mum,i think i know how you feel...i wish you all the best😊 I think her videos may help you a bit,so keep watching and have a lovely day or evening,where ever you are☃️
@susefink6099 3 жыл бұрын
@Rain Elizabeth beautiful idea🥐☕☃️
@102483989 3 жыл бұрын
Being solo is very romantic, many beautiful stories are about the girl who was alone at some point! This could be just one part of your very romantic story!
@jofranco 3 жыл бұрын
Beautifully made video!
@kelsey8362 3 жыл бұрын
Yayyyyyy Jo! 💖💖
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness thank you so much 😍🙏🏻💕
@dianauria8889 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I started experiencing all this beautiful feelings towards every little detail when I began to put God first.
@annajamal781 2 жыл бұрын
me too
@jadeoh8310 2 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@ryanneclaritas 2 жыл бұрын
Yes. For He is Beauty and Goodness itself.
@rachelwaite8394 2 жыл бұрын
amen!! hallelujah!! praise the Lord!!! Jesus is coming!!! so glad you said this, beautiful sister!! to anyone reading this, believe that Jesus died on the Cross for all of your sins, past, present, and future, that He rose again on the 3rd day and you WILL be saved if you believe this in Him alone as your Savior!!! He is coming!!! please believe and tell everyone!!
@Alesanascreamokid 3 жыл бұрын
Romanticizing my life has helped me in so many different ways. I would reccommend it for anyone that spends alot of time alone and has a tendency to fall into depressed and-or anxious states 🌺
@girlboss4024 3 жыл бұрын
i love how she’s so patient with everything, even stirring her tea, like I genuinely cannot stir my morning coffee without spilling any because I just can’t wait to drink it😭
@lettenlina1708 3 жыл бұрын
same sis💀
@nodiggity8746 3 жыл бұрын
That's because she's filming a romanticized video
@curiepatoorie3536 3 жыл бұрын
You should meet my sister. You two would get along. 🤣🤣🤣
@jupitersemkyi 3 жыл бұрын
I don't think that's a bad thing tho. Its just that the main character of your life just loves coffee so much that they get so excited about it every morning. I can totally imagine a Ghibli movie scene where the protagonist is just like you. You do you.
@barrista123 2 жыл бұрын
That tea though oh dear as an English person it just filled me with horror 🤣taking a milky cuppa to a whole new level there .
@dolladolldoll2862 3 жыл бұрын
I was having a really hard time today because there is little to none excitement in my life. I’m a single mom of 3 and all I do is parent my small children, today I felt like giving up and this video just made me feel better
@xDRickiexD 3 жыл бұрын
I‘m sure you‘re doing great! Keep going, better times will come 🌻
@queenofeastafrica7853 3 жыл бұрын
Dolladoll, I am a single parent with 3 children too, you are strong and you’re doing a wonderful job. Just take a little out for yourself in the evenings like a long bath.
@bovanunen2663 3 жыл бұрын
Hi! Maybe the podcast Find the Magic could help you out. It’s mostly about motherhood and is centered around finding the magic/beauty/wonder/enjoyment in those everyday moments, these things that are usually just mundane. I personally enjoy it a lot.
@kianaw.8096 3 жыл бұрын
you’re wonderful. stay strong
@thelmabarros1680 3 жыл бұрын
Pls enjoy love best 🎁🌎 your beautiful children.how bless you are with so many ojt u have the best live to Be bless to be blessing to your beautiful children Put God Alrighty Frist Always everything will fall into happiness love joy ✌💯Prosperity be bless Always Enjoy you New beginning every day 🙏💪👐🌞
@eileennielsen5165 9 ай бұрын
This was great to watch.😊 For me,once I graduated from H.S. and had a paycheck, I could sometimes buy myself things I wanted to surround myself with, SEE a certain pretty or special to me (like leaving a book open w/ my handkerchief on it, where I stopped reading). I really didn't think about what is now known as " mindful or intentional " thinking". A true romanticism has that inside them,part of their personality, make-up. Not saying there is anything wrong w/ learning it. Sometimes people think being a "hopeless romantic has to do w/ physical love, boyfriends, husband. Well I guess that is a small part of it, but it's more like picnics, reading under a tree, long walks in the woods, antiques, cuddling w/ your dog ( like you were doing. Making tea with loose tea in your little teapot if you have time for a leisurely bkfst. or doing it for your afternoon tea w/ some classical, or instrumental music playing. Candles, drying flowers by hanging them upside down in your kitchen or entrance way or??. One doesn't have to be smiling and happy every minute. That's not reality for our mind or bodies. I have suffered from depression for probably 27/35 yrs! I have many incurable illnesses that CAUSE depression. This past yr. Has been horrid. I surrounded my self with bright colors, journaled (which I do anyway). Other things also. Just threw that in because I noticed a comment before mine about depression. Had a counselor come to my house, would drink tea while we talked. Gave me a little bit of comfort. Love to read, read alot of poetry. Did as a child. Usually a romanticist , hopeless romantic just has these things inside them naturally. Again, you can bring these things into your life if you never have. I ALWAYS use special, pretty seasonal napkins and I don't have a family anymore. Just how I am. I live on the top floor of an Apt. Bldg. I never close my blinds at night because I want the sun to wake me up.No one can see me in my jammies or undressing way up here! I always lived in historic houses once married. It was glorious! Growing up in Massachusetts, my father always built our homes colonial architecture. He was on the Historic Home Preservation list. I miss New England so much! 😑. But I can pretend that's what's outside my bldg. I miss having a German Shepherd, that I can't pretend😑😑 Had them my entire life. Thank you for this enjoyable video😊 Where in New England do you live?
@elinal.4625 3 жыл бұрын
It's a beautiful video and intention but sometimes we just need to let go of the idea that every moment has to be perfect and beautiful because it puts us under pressure. We are allowed to live our true emotions and sometimes life isn't romantic at all but that's OK.
@candydemure 3 жыл бұрын
Little things I do to uplift my day: watch relaxing videos like yours, work on an aesthetic Pinterest board, listen to music while making a craft, have tea time, and when it gets dark turn on my string lights and light a candle.
@FB-bo3sj 3 жыл бұрын
My 4 year old lives this life already i think its time i join her ! She wants everything cute n beautiful n organized lol
@marchian19 3 жыл бұрын
whoever is reading this, i hope you, yes You, have the most beautiful magical productive day, week, month or year ever bcs u deserve it i was really sad over something pretty tragic that i cannot control or stop and while trying to calm myself down and mute out some noises i decided to listen to music and stumbled upon this great video💜 glad that it happened💕 i love miyazaki and love the aesthetic✨
@suraya_ 3 жыл бұрын
I always love looking outside every morning and smiling even when there's no sunshine because just because you can't see the sun doesn't mean it isn't there
@Bridgton1 3 жыл бұрын
She reminds me of me and how I’ve been my whole like since I was a child. Even the red hair and sheets. Even as a little girl I liked old fashioned things. Lol I’m 60!
@andraste6746 3 жыл бұрын
Same I am 50 now but have always been like an 80 year old 🤣
@heythatsjaiden 3 жыл бұрын
Can I just ask what you regret most in life ? So I can learn? I’m only 16 but I feel as if I’m running out of time already
@andraste6746 3 жыл бұрын
@@heythatsjaiden I regret not trusting my instincts when it comes to people. Learn to listen to your gut and follow your instinct. And enjoy each day, don’t live for the future.
@lesleyhubble2976 3 жыл бұрын
@@heythatsjaiden definitely not running out of time, I’m 60 with a daughter of 18. I’m learning not to regret because as you get older you care less about what other people think, and you find people’s life experiences bring you together. Don’t wallow in misery, do what makes you feel good and happy as long as you don’t harm others. Just live, learn and enjoy life
@MarioWario 3 жыл бұрын
@@andraste6746 amen
@maplecosy9429 3 жыл бұрын
I call that ' Living in Gratitude.'
@alicia8239 3 жыл бұрын
Great video! Love the vibe. Just a reminder that it’s also okay not to be okay. Romanticizing your like might help you see the world in a more positive light, and enjoying the little things in life and being in the moment is CRUCIAL but it’s not always a good thing to try to kind of mask the reality. If you’re going through hard times, enjoying a beautiful sunset might not be enough to get better... Everything is a matter of balance :)) Very nice video though, no hate intended
@Morrocanprincess 3 жыл бұрын
I live a great life right now. So peaceful, my own place. I do what I want and away from toxic family members. I am sooo grateful. There was a time I thought when I was under 17 that it was impossible.
@emraldsakura2201 3 жыл бұрын
Her: living in a cute victorian era setting with cute vintage clothes, furniture and stuff.... Us: living in the stressful modern era setting with no money, no space and no cuteness 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I hope we can make the most of what we have too and enjoy life like she does too, this video is aesthetically pleasing 👌👌👌👌👌
@shelbyrenee6826 3 жыл бұрын
If you think about it the people who lived in the time period where every house looked this way, and everyone dressed that way, they did not romanticize it. There was a lot of bad and ugly too. The cool thing about it is that there is also beauty. And decades from now our time will be romanticized. So instead of waiting for that time, do it today. Romanize your life today.
@ladyfoxwf1075 3 жыл бұрын
@@shelbyrenee6826 there was never a time where every house looked like this
@mariamartin9478 3 жыл бұрын
@@ladyfoxwf1075 I think that what they meant is that back then this aesthetic was the norm so people didn't really romantisize it as much as we do now
@helenebennie3961 3 жыл бұрын
This video is very aesthetically pleasing but is there no cuteness you can have in your life? If you can't afford all the pretty stuff, could you afford one pretty thing? If you can't afford one pretty thing, could you pick a flower? (It could be a dandelion.)
@SarahAnew 3 жыл бұрын
And also living with toddlers wrecking every room in under 5 seconds. She’s adorable.
@NasikaSakura 3 жыл бұрын
I didn't know there was a formal mindset behind this. Being an artist, I would do this naturally with everyday moments, or I get very excited about little things for extended time. But, when someone criticizes me for it, it instantly steals away that joy and puts me in a depressed mood. ;( Why destroy someone else's simple, innocent joy? And my "friends" have done this. It hurts, terribly. I struggle with severe clinical depression and moderate to severe anxiety as symptoms of PTSD. I don't think they have any idea how much an accomplishment it is for me to find and experience that joy. It feels like such a betrayal when someone you love and supposedly loves you criticizes that joy. How do you cope with such things?
@HeyAngie 3 жыл бұрын
You are the most important person of your life. If someone criticize you for being happy over little things, even though it makes you feel bad, then this person doesn't deserve your friendship. You seem like a lovely person and I'm sure there are good people out there would be happy to be part of your life. You just haven't met them yet. Don't give up
@BouncyBrown 3 жыл бұрын
Tell them it makes you happy and invite them to try it! Your friends might be depressed or anxious too (it's extremely common), so that might be coloring their view of the world.
@lauraelizabethbrown 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe they're just burnt and cynical. Honestly it sounds like they may be a bit jealous of your ability to see beauty in the little things. It takes time, but maybe these people can learn from you.
@joanae8189 3 жыл бұрын
I totally get you. I remembered once, I received a packaged from France and I didn't noticed that I was so happy about it. My father criticized and mocked me: "why are you so happy for such a silly thing?". It ruined my moment. What bothered me is that I allowed it and being and adult I still didn't know how to defend myself and my few good moments. I wish I would've had the awareness that my depression is in part due to the toxic people around me. My family doesn't do that on purpose; they just don't know how to be happy.
@Witch-wz3lp 3 жыл бұрын
It's usually jealousy.
@themaydiariesxo 3 жыл бұрын
I have felt so lost in the past two years, wondering when will my life will feel like normal again. And watching this video has brought on a new sense of hope, I have no idea how long it will last. But it’s videos like this that feel like you’ve gone into the depths of my mind. I don’t think I’ll ever be thankfully enough for this 🤍✨
@Rosie-pg5kn 3 жыл бұрын
I love this so much❤️ I always hated the term “live everyday like it’s your last” because there’s so much pressure then, to make everything perfect because it’s your “last day”. This video gives me “Live everyday like it was made for you” energy. Romanticizing your life is so important because it helps you remember to appreciate every good moment that much more 🥰.
@Lizlalaith 3 жыл бұрын
"Live your life like a Studio Ghibli movie" is one of the best pieces of advice I've ever heard
@hani5383 3 жыл бұрын
I read it somewhere that when you get excited for little things that's when you're truly alive...🌱
@CelestLa777 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been saving this video for a rainy day, it’s so aesthetically pleasing. I do feel like I have been doing this for a while now I just need to figure out how to balance this and setting long term goals for myself without fear of failure.
@peachesncream7890 2 жыл бұрын
been feeling stuck and very out of place mentally, spiritually, and physically in life for some time but binging some of your videos has reminded me of how wonderful and special every moment really is
@nomadicgamer9466 3 жыл бұрын
I think this video just changed my life. It reminded me of the innocence that I had forgotten through time and awful experiences. Standing out in the rain was something I adored. Finding joy in miniscule things that most people wouldn't notice - like the sun glinting off of snow and making it shine like diamonds. I noticed that one day. And then I see this video and now I understand why that moment was so important, but at the time I couldn't understand why. Now I do. Thank you. For way too long, I have been shoved aside by the world (and myself) to being merely a background character in my own story. I'm pulling myself to the forefront. It's time to enjoy the little things again - though they're not so little at all. It's also wise advice from your video to enjoy even the mundane things - or rather, make the mundane not so ordinary, and I appreciate that a lot.
@ejcandelaria6010 3 жыл бұрын
This 🙏
@flavia6386 3 жыл бұрын
This is the video that I didn't know I need it untill know. Ps: I LOVE that you put la vie en rose in the video!!
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
That makes my heart so happy!! ☺️🥰 Ahhh yes La Vie En Rose is one of my favorites 👌🏻
@dancingcloud8557 3 жыл бұрын
@@DarlingDesi I am subscribing to you dear 👌
@rinapereira 3 жыл бұрын
I slowly stopped feeling like a main character after I graduated HS. My mom always said I had a romantic view of the world, but anxiety is painting it grey. I didn't realize it when it was happening, but having to figure out what to do with my life made me focus on heavier things. After getting my law degree and realizing that it's not what I wanted I felt so lost! And so the past four years have been like a storm. I have my moments of joy, but they still are not a good amount. I know that for lots of people I have a good life, but it still hurts me that I don't feel satisfied with my job. And the things that I might enjoy working on are really difficult for me to achieve right now, I live in a country that's been going through lots of crisis, so I don't have enough money to move to the places where I can try and do the more creative things I like, and besides that, the culture is not valued here. I do try do live in the moment, but I have to think about the fire because right now I don't have enough to afford things going south. Everytime I forget about it something happens that make me stop and worry again. I wand to have a independent and stable life, so I can be able to help my parents if they need me. So far I still feel like a burden. So I decided for now to just try and have those thoughts on my mind and let them be my hobbies for the free times that I might have. But slowly I'm doing small things I enjoy. Like making scented candles and showers with only the candlelight. Growing flowers from seeds and watching them being beautiful. It's not a lot but it's something, right? I had to start from somewhere. And today I bought a really beautiful journal so I can go back to writing all my thoughts and feelings. They may not be pretty all the time, but my journal is pretty enough for me to feel like all is going well.
@gravity_studioz Жыл бұрын
You got this!! -'v'-
@lorrainewhitlock5377 3 жыл бұрын
I had forgotten what it was like to be happy or how to romanticize a situation. And your video made me feel good and inspired
@MJ-ys5cs 3 жыл бұрын
The location, the place, the clothes, the things around you are what helps in romanticizing one's own life. It's very hard when things around you are ugly and you need money to change all of it and you do work for that money in multiple different ways but it still hardly comes.
@andraste6746 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I think making everything special would be out of reach of a lot of people, maybe a little chair and a corner that can be a special place?
@julied5162 3 жыл бұрын
Go to Goodwill or second hand store and find beautiful teacup and plate! Or really pretty blanket something that makes you feel beautiful!
@shreyab25 3 жыл бұрын
@@julied5162 sorry to say this, but not everyone has access to goodwill or something since not everyone lives in America, there are countries where people, everyone hasbmoderate money, and there are no goodwills that can help since a lot of people use all the things they buy to max
@julied5162 3 жыл бұрын
@@shreyab25 As I've only lived in America my comment was based on my experience of living on a budget. I understand that not everyone in the world has access to the things I take for granted. I was just trying to encourage the poster about the little things they could do that don't cost a lot.
@katharinabutzko2832 3 жыл бұрын
Try to make the best of it:) find joy in daisies that grow next to sidewalks and maybe take a walk through a nearby park if you can, drink your water out of that one fancy glass you own, wear your favourite hoodie as often as you can. You don’t have to spend a lot of money to romanticise your life:) Remember that you are loved by everything around you and have a great day 💗
@Keapix 3 жыл бұрын
KZfaq just recommended this video to me, and it’s really lovely.
@Cyb3rDReI 10 ай бұрын
this video has become a comfort to me over the years, i find myself returning whenever i'm seeking motivation and i'm sick of being sad. this is one of the things that helps inspire me to get up and forgive myself for being so tired, then take another chance at being happy. thank you i
@freakishchick182 9 ай бұрын
Loved this video. I like thst little captions throughout. It seems that romanticising your life is very similiar to just enjoying and apprecisting the little things and thing that bring you joy. I am inspired to start romanticising my life more. Thank you for sharing this.
@rominaginapignalosa4668 3 жыл бұрын
She's like Tangled 😍✨ when Rapunzel is the first time out of mothers house she's just amazed about everything! 😍 And it's so beautiful.
@lorenaelizabethch585 3 жыл бұрын
Me: trying to romantizes my life, living in a crowded city in a latin american country, is a little harder but, i know, is not impossible😆😆
@machatigeri8257 3 жыл бұрын
You don't have to live in a quaint European town to romanticize life. You can romanticize living in a crowded city. The people, their chatter, their lives, the cars driving down the road, the smell of whatever delicious ethnic food you eat, the brightly colored buildings. You can put your hair up in a nice way. You have to appreciate the life you have and see the positive light in everything!
@lorenaelizabethch585 3 жыл бұрын
yeah that was i said, but here everything is less beautiful 😅 we still have a lot to do in the cities, we must to go and build the beauty, not just find it
@Mel-gu9qe 3 жыл бұрын
En conclusión, escapemos de latinoamerica 👁️💧👄💧👁️ ✌️
@chathumiadithya6309 3 жыл бұрын
I have everything . But i haven't a romantic reason for living . : Exam after 10 days\`
@RadiantBleu 3 жыл бұрын
You can find beauty ineverything, even a puddle with oil in it, sometimes you just need to shift your perspective
@livinlareve 2 жыл бұрын
This made me feel a little younger and happier. I appreciate the sweet reminder that it’s not silly or frivolous to add the little things and simple pleasures into your life that make you smile.
@lexiunderwood1594 3 жыл бұрын
if only there was no such thing as work and school 😭
@katieblake 3 жыл бұрын
Your videos are like little movies! They are so gorgeous
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
That’s absolutely the nicest thing to say 🧡 Thank you so much, Katie! 🙏🏻
@Eliana-gu5vx 3 жыл бұрын
And we get a lovely new movie every week❤😊
@relaxationhealing2 3 жыл бұрын
Don't know if someone is reading this, but if You are: You are amazing and beautiful!I wish You a wonderful and happy life where all Your dreams come true!I believe in You!
@samikshasharma5988 3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@be_my_clementine 3 жыл бұрын
I really needed this. Thank you
@christiana_mandalynn 2 жыл бұрын
This is so beautiful. And such lovely advice! To be honest, I was getting a little jealous and thinking, that I wish I could have a morning as tranquil as yours, or that as a mom of 4 young children, I can’t spend time reading my favorite books all day, playing the piano, watching beautiful period drama films, taking naps, etc. *BUT THEN*- You gave that beautiful, inspiring, big sister moment outside in the snow of how we cannot control the events that happen to us, but that we *can* choose how we respond. We can train ourselves to see the beautiful things in the world. We can be grateful for the lovely little things. Tears sprang to me eyes as I realized that, although my mornings look *very* different from something idyllic, I *do* little things that help bring a romantic feeling into my life. For instance, my children may be hungry and persistent around my ankles for breakfast, but I put on my beautiful floral apron and am making scrumptious whole wheat toast with cinnamon or honey. I light a candle or use an essential oil diffuser to make the house smell nice in the morning. I put on some peaceful music to start off the mood, sometimes classical, guitar, or a soundtrack playlist. First thing in the morning, I wash my face, brush my teeth, get dressed in my favorite clothes, and do quick makeup, to “show up” to my life feeling ready for whatever happens. And I go on make-believe adventures with my kids every day: sometimes we are on the bunk bed going on a boat through the rivers of uncharted Africa and passing stuffed-animal crocodiles, and sometimes we are creating a farm out of blocks for the toy sheep and horses. And we always adore watching Studio Ghibli together. I realize that there are endless opportunities to insert a bit of romantic whimsy into your life, even if you have kids. Because children are the endless creators of imagination and fantastical moments, and they always live in the present. 💛 Thank you for the lovely video! It is such a good reminder to see the absolute beauty, like to just pause and look out the window when you hear a bird chirping, and to relish such a freeing, happy sound and search for the little creature, instead of just tuning it out. It can make your life magical!
@n3ss14s 3 жыл бұрын
thank you for doing my day better, after a long day of work in the hospital dealing with death and thinking of leaving all behind, this video gave me the reasons to not give up, and be thankul for all the small things, happiness that I have, that I can give to people who needed, just like this video.😊
@tracyp444 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for what you do and for all you give at your hospital... You're an angel on earth...😇 Stay safe .....
@micaelanunez5539 3 жыл бұрын
Last night we had a snow storm and at midnight I got all bundled up and and just stood out in it. The silence was so amazing it was the most present I’ve been ❤️🖤
@slothimations Жыл бұрын
I’m starting to try and make my life better, I’m in the middle of deep cleaning and what I find really helpful, I know most of the people here don’t know studio ghibli, but sometimes I ‘pretend’ I’m in one of the films and I’m the main character, I know it sounds childish but it really makes me feel like I’m worth it ❤️❤️
@mollyc-e1608 3 жыл бұрын
this whole piece is so aesthetically pleasing, the definition of cottagecore!! so nice to see someone genuinely enjoying life so much, big main character energy!
@tessg7616 3 жыл бұрын
Sometime during the past few years, I started to forget how it felt to be happy. I’m not sure when it started being that way, but I started tearing up because I just remembered how I used to feel happy. Thank you!💕
@chemirestyles3572 3 жыл бұрын
☕️❤️
@seri_steam 3 жыл бұрын
I love this, such a cool concept. I would love to see an adaptation tho that includes a 8-10 hour work day and family obligations, and balancing this concept with that life.
@JB-og8gn 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t think this is about creating entire days out of strings of moments like this. Most of us can mindfully stir our AM coffee and feel grateful for it, even if that’s the one thing we do all day.
@moviemusicjunkie007 5 ай бұрын
The joy is inside u and u bring it every where and let joy around u enter your life
@GiArruda 2 жыл бұрын
Not everybody is in the time to be romanticizing YET. Sometimes you still gotta heal and learn to even start doing the minimal, and thats ok! I was the happiest and loud person I knew. After a trauma 4 years ago, my life simply turned grey. I had to strugle a lot to be in the place and mind I am now, and I'm not even near like this, in the video, but I soon will be. I believe in that. I survived so much, it deserves to be romanticized from now one. I'll get there. You will get there. We deserve this.
@sunflowers2469 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t know you but glad you’re making progress ! 💖I think being like she is in this video, is beautiful, but it can’t be like that all the time- it’s not realistic because we will have ups and downs, distractions, a full range of emotions, moods & perspectives, and that’s ok. I think maybe trying to have a day /afternoon/moment like this once a while or just appreciating when you do have those moments is do-able. gratitude lists really help too! have you listened to Brene Brown? She’s great, and Abraham Hicks as well
@GiArruda 2 жыл бұрын
@@sunflowers2469 thank you 💕 i will search for them!
@WithLoveKristina 3 жыл бұрын
This was so lovely to watch. I'm right in the midde of learning to romanticize life as a mother of four. It's harder when you've got four little ones needing you and creating chaos, but I've realized even now it's possible. I can simplify our lives which opens us all up to value the little things more. I can learn to enjoy their play/chaos time as creativity and imagination instead of just seeing the mess. And, as I've always tried to do, I can romanticize myself a little in getting dressed and feeling good about ME. Finding your channel was perfectly timed, and this video was perfectly timed too as I plan to minimize what we own and create a more beautiful home in which I can teach my children to romanticize their lives by teaching myself to romanticize motherhood.
@hsoderberg9929 3 жыл бұрын
Check out the daily connesiour, I think you would enjoy her as she is also a mom.
@andraste6746 3 жыл бұрын
It is really hard with little ones. Don’t be too hard on yourself when it goes pear shaped at times because it will. But this is a lovely intention.
@MsJujubee3 3 жыл бұрын
Are they needing you and creating chaos? Or are they showing you unconditional love and creating memories by being present? Life is all about perspective. I yearn to be a mother.
@Tearsofasilentheart 3 жыл бұрын
A breath of fresh air. My kinda way of living too. I actually love spending time at home in my own bubble. The outside life stresses me out far too much. 😊🌹❤️
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t agree more 😌🧡
@Sweet4chokoreeto 3 жыл бұрын
I'm in the middle Of trying to change my life for good and this gives me so many reassuring Vibes that I'm doing it good. Two months ago I painted my walls pink, I bought a planner and a journal, I'm learning new topic on audiobooks, buying nice smelling tea, scented candles before bed... I been on treatment for depression for 6 years and slowly recovering. All of this nice things and avoiding toxic people in my life makes me want to live for this little pleasures and moments. Specially dancing in the rain, that one is great to feel the happy energy of nature pouring on you.
@taliw7736 2 жыл бұрын
This is why I am blown away by your channel and studio ghibli films, even the simple everyday parts like cleaning, having a tough mental health day or week, being sick, or having to be on lockdown, gardening and eating can be extraordinary by changing your view and taking some time to be in the moment
@belindaknowles7440 3 жыл бұрын
Things that made me happy today: waking up early to enjoy the morning, my giant dog laying across my lap, my blueberry and banana smoothie, a drive with with my husband, snow, and this wonderful video❤️🙂 Thank you!
@dirthmother 3 жыл бұрын
If I saw you outside, dancing and playing in the rain/snow, it would make my day because you just radiate such joy and playfulness! Here in Germany (yes, hello, greetings from Germany :D) people are often very serious and closed off in public, even the children
@JulieWatches 2 жыл бұрын
I used to hate doing chores, but since I tried romanticizing my life (I even started listening to peaceful piano instrumentals while I work), I started to enjoy things like doing the laundry, sweeping the floor, and washing the dishes. Chores suddenly became these peaceful, quiet moments for me.
@danielle3308 3 жыл бұрын
I love that you're spreading this message! As people, we can be so negative but sometimes we need a reminder that we create the world we see. Even if someone did all the stuff in this video, they could still be unhappy. It's all in perception. I get to choose how I see life, and I love that!
@charlotteisa 3 жыл бұрын
I live in Germany. when I happily walk through the area Everyone: 👁👄👁
@krystalhaugland 3 жыл бұрын
😅💕💕💕
@katjahochmuth1341 3 жыл бұрын
Keep walking happily - you are not alone and not the only one🌻🌈🥰😁😊 German too ;)
@drawianator664 3 жыл бұрын
Same, in the Netherlands lol. Everyone is like; >:(
@lettenlina1708 3 жыл бұрын
lmao true, as soon as you show any sign of happiness you're the odd one out💀
@DarlingDesi 3 жыл бұрын
So I shouldn’t move to Germany? 🙈 Anyone know of any countries where people walk around happily? 💕
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