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I think prayer is the first step. Make yourself more vulnerable with God. Circumcise your heart.

I was just searching his videos for that too! I'm a convert (post marriage), my husband is not Catholic and not interested in Christianity/Catholicism. I could really use advise on navigating TOB in an unyoked marriage. There are NO resources out there, no one talks about it. I imagine this is a common problem people face, and I don't know why it's never mentioned.

These comments are a year old, but I wonder how both of you are doing? I find myself converted post-marriage also, and am looking for resources for ladies in my situation.

@@Jack_-jy2drAm still in the same situation. thought I'm not technically speaking a "convert". Just discerning Christianity I suppose.

Yes! Me too!

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They portray it as ever single sexaul encounter is supose to be this Woohoo experience (Mary appearing Fatima)? That's not real life. what about people working long hours, time restrains , money. Maybe you only have time in the bathroom for quickie before the kids start bangining on the door.

we’ll if you don’t have time I’m assuming, you’re giving into your selfish flesh in the moment.

@@Maverick-zy7yu so having a quickie giving in to being selfish? With busy lives , and maybe, and short time of privacy is all you get? Maybe you're just happy procreating , and to have the required amount of kids you want and than stop having sex? Than you never have worry about giving into "selfish sex?" I get a kick out of how they say that Catholic sex is so open and freeing , but yet after you're married. " By the way we have all these other rules you got to follow too." "And if your thinking of having a quickie better look it up in the manual to make sure we're not sinning?" They certainly are concerned with how when, and with whom you're having an orgasm with and what kind of sex you're having. What should the standard sexual encounter look in a catholic marriage ( or better yet what puritans of the church wished it looked like?) 30 seconds of missionary just once every 3rd Saturday of the month? Sad thing is its Probably Be more than most are getting. Lol 😆 Catholicism - The faith where nothing is allowed.

@@Maverick-zy7yu People have busy lives with kids , work, time restraints ( people are struggling more now than ever and weekends away with the 2 of you - or even a date-night isn't in the foreseeable future) or course you're giving into the flesh, how does one not? Whether the 2 of you sneak into the bathroom for a quickie - before the kids start banging on the door, or if you write on the calendar weeks ahead time you"ll think about sex and things you might like to try - That's fleshy! Otherwise what? Just completely sterile and clinical sex? And really every time you have sex it's supposed to be this Woohoo experience? but the fact is being a wife many times in a marriage she will obligate her husband ( marital debt from the bible?) with sex when she doesn't want to ( staring at ceiling counting the cobwebs and thinking "I should really clean that") - apparently that's ok according to scripture, but tell me how that's sacrificing? I call BS - this what happens when people are still looking for direction from a bunch of celibate old men regarding how, how often, whether, for what purpose, with whom and when to orgasm? That is sad, unnecessary and unproductive. We always had really good sex in our marriage, and it got us through some really rough patches and lows in our marriage and one thing we had when money was tight and helped us reconnect intimately. otherwise if that's the case I pity the person who turns to any church to address their sexual quandaries. Most Catholic people just have sex and get on with life. Really.

@@Maverick-zy7yu People have busy lives with kids , work, time restraints ( people are struggling more now than ever and weekends away with the 2 of you - or even a late-night isn't in the foreseeable future) or course you're giving into the flesh, how does one not? Whether the 2 of you sneak into the bathroom for a quickie - before the kids start banging on the door, or if you write on the calendar weeks ahead time you"ll think about sex and things you might like to try - That's fleshy! Otherwise what? Just completely sterile and clinical sex? And really every time you have sex it's supposed to be this Woohoo experience? but the fact is being a wife many times in a marriage she will obligate her husband ( marital debt from the bible?) with sex when she doesn't want to ( staring at ceiling counting the cobwebs and thinking "I should really clean that") - apparently that's ok according to scripture, but tell me how that's sacrificing? I call BS - this what happens when people are still looking for direction from a bunch of celibate old men regarding how, how often, whether, for what purpose, with whom and when to orgasm? That is sad, unnecessary and unproductive. We always had really good sex in our marriage, and it got us through some really rough patches and lows in our marriage and one thing we had when money was tight and helped us reconnect intimately. otherwise if that's the case I pity the person who turns to any church to address their sexual quandaries. Most Catholic people just have sex and get on with life. Really.

Maverick-zy7yu People have busy lives with kids , work, time restraints ( people are struggling more now than ever and weekends away with the 2 of you - or even a late-night isn't in the foreseeable future) or course you're giving into the flesh, how does one not? Whether the 2 of you sneak into the bathroom for a quickie - before the kids start banging on the door, or if you write on the calendar weeks ahead time you"ll think about sex and things you might like to try - That's fleshy! Otherwise what? Just completely sterile and clinical sex? And really every time you have sex it's supposed to be this Woohoo experience? but the fact is being a wife many times in a marriage she will obligate her husband ( marital debt from the bible?) with sex when she doesn't want to ( staring at ceiling counting the cobwebs and thinking "I should really clean that") - apparently that's ok according to scripture, but tell me how that's sacrificing? I call BS - this what happens when people are still looking for direction from a bunch of celibate old men regarding how, how often, whether, for what purpose, with whom and when to orgasm? That is sad, unnecessary and unproductive. We always had really good sex in our marriage, and it got us through some really rough patches and lows in our marriage and one thing we had when money was tight and helped us reconnect intimately. otherwise if that's the case I pity the person who turns to any church to address their sexual quandaries. Most Catholic people just have sex and get on with life. Really.