No. Not if you have it set up correctly. He can have his own iCloud password on his device. And you have yours on your device. You’ll need to add his as your child under the “family” settings. Then, you’ll control his screen time on your phone.

@@ShepherdAtHome Thanks alot.

Which shared apps? I love the idea!

@@ShepherdAtHome I think through the Family Sharing setting you are supposed to be able to share purchased apps but I haven’t figured it out yet. For instance we purchased the Brainly app for math but not sure how to have it shared on my child’s phone/apple id. Thanks for considering this idea!

@@tinam4353 in the App Store, click the profile photo at the top. Then click “purchased”.

Change your passcode. The kids may have gotten it. Happened to me once, then we had a conversation about honesty

Yes. Set an “app limit” for all of the apps. That will shut it down after the desired amount of time. You can also add certain apps like FaceTime, messaging, or learning apps to “always allowed” if you want them to always have access to certain things.

@@ShepherdAtHome Thanks for the info

The bottom line is that as parents we can’t restrict them to complete morality. Kids will find a way around whatever we put in place if they really want to. It’s our job to just keep them from having immediate access & do what we can to guard them. Most importantly, I believe it’s important to address and lean into their heart. Why are they going behind our backs? Why are they lying? Teach them the importance of being truth tellers… etc. I’m not sure what you mean by “fix an iCloud account”. But I often suggest calling Apple with all iCloud questions. They are very helpful. I love the conversation!!! Please keep leaning in and giving it your best effort. If you’re engaging your kid with any of this, you’re already miles down the road to a stronger family. (Even if it doesn’t feel like it sometimes)

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Noticed your comment before… maybe you switched it. What was it about the 9 min mark that got to ya?

@@ShepherdAtHome sorry mate. I didn't need to comment that. Im not sure what you mean "switched it", but I can maybe guess. anyhow my comment was negative. Sorry. my doing. I just don't go for god stuff, personally feeling, its caused way more harm than good, over all. As not one, nor the other, but naturally all. I really liked your video, while I was sourcing info for a v important and worrying subject, then all of a sudden "faith" is involved..."noooo! please this is important!".... ... Perhaps a lame explanation, and only my humbley ponion, (also it just the harmless ol internet so no actual stress eh)...But yes, its a hard path to navigate, Im sure you'll agree (especially as a parent). Again sorry if I offended and thanks again for the info.

@@BenCazzola not offended in the least. I am indeed a pastor…. And I hope my channel can help people to build stronger families whether they believe in God or not. But my beliefs do creep into the content some. Nothing in parenting works 100% for everyone. So, I hope I can offer something to help people just a little bit and we can all be better off because of it. I really do appreciate you trying to keep the comments positive. Hopefully the video helped! I’d love to hear what you think about some of my other ones. Or if you have any ideas for videos as well.

@@ShepherdAtHome Thank you thank you chum. Your video really did clarify what is, quoted an alien thing to me, in a very human manner. Im a luddite with some stuff. And if your channel does just what you say, then 100% its a good thing, and likely more than most try. You're a good man. Family and todays concept of it, is another subject I think we could talk about for hours about, and agree on almost all shepherd m lad! (hold on, have you ever tried rearing sheep pal? the fluffy smelly suicidal buggers? they really are... ...adorabley stupid, way more one than the other). I will absolutely will check out your other videos, with better behaiour, I promise. ..to try. Right that was my last beer, and its been bloody good fun thinkin about you mate. Be well and carry on regardless!

Yes. You need at least iOS 12 or later. I looked and it looks like iOS 12 can be used on an iPhone 5s and later. Check you iOS (operating software) by going to SETTINGS > GENERAL > SOFTWARE UPDATE. That will tell you if you need to update it or not and what your current iOS is. Good luck! Please let me know if you have other questions!!

It should show up in your Notification Center. OR… check settings > screen time > then click their name. You might see it there. Sometimes it’s time sensitive and goes away. Have them do the request again. It should kind of come up as a text.

Thanks for your speedy reply I thought it would my self having experience with other software but it’s just Not arriving to my phone 🤨 an I also have no clue where to look for the option for anything specific to this issue

Maybe someone else is set up as the “parent”. Go to Settings > Family… click the child’s name. See if it’s checked that the have to “Ask to Buy”… if that’s not checked, then there is no request. If it IS checked, then look at who the “parent” is… maybe it’s going to a different parent or maybe you’re not logged in with the same Apple ID that is registered to you as the “parent”. Let me know if that helps at all.

@Shepherd At Home hay man sorry I forgot to reply, So your advice was what I thought the problem at first as I have two, so I reset the phone as nothing to lose, an realised it needed updating to the latest iOS am I just sorted it self out after a couple days

Not unless they have the passcode.

First of all, it sounds like he is really trying to hide something. I’ll have to look into the tech side of how to avoid that. But you may just need to revoke his privileges or something until he leaves it alone. I’ll definitely get back to you on this one.

Can I give 2 million thumbs up? I am rarely on FB but LOTS of other "stuff" going to fix this!

Exaaactly

Lol you got that right. I’m trying to do better.

When you set it up, you set a passcode. You can’t make changes without the passcode.

When they delete it….YOU TAKE THIER STUFF BECAUSE THEY ARE A CHILD

@@chrismason6796 they can't delete it.

???

Do you have a pass code?

"little feeble minds" bro💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

blud we’re already gone 💀 our innocence got fucking obliterated at 9 & 10, there’s kinda no point anymore 💀

Like... apps for parental controls? Or just apps in general?

Is it an older iPad?

@@ShepherdAtHome iPad Air 2 I’m not too good with technology Thanks for replying

@@masoomazaidi8881 so, I found out that you need iOS 12 or later to use the screen time feature. Your iPad Air 2 will only run up to iOS 10. So, you’ll need to upgrade the iPad. Then you’ll see it just like my video. Good luck! God bless you as you lean in to raise your kids!!!

I’m not certain, but I think they will need the passcode to erase the iPhone. If not, then it will be pretty tedious to continue to erase their phone any time they want to bypass the screen time rules. Which brings me to the point I’ve made in other comments… you can’t restrict them away from a heart problem. If they are willing to go to such lengths to avoid these rules, they have a heart problem. One bent on disrespect & rebellion. If that’s the case, they probably don’t deserve a smart phone. You could just get them a flip phone. Or… you might like to lean in with other discussions about what’s really going on in their life. A whole other level of parenting.

Oh yeah!!!! Go Gators!!!! That lamp shows up in lots of my videos!!! Thanks for tuning in!!

I remember when you used to use Qustodio… I’d love to try to step by step some of your setup and help everyday people see how to get some of your controls in their homes.

@@ShepherdAtHome that’s still a great app but as you showed the iPhone if properly set up, can give you so much parental controls. As the kids get older I also love Life360. I try not to use it to point things out but to help everyone be able to keep each other accountable in the car (this is more as an addition to the phone controls). All this being said we have to allow trust to build. So as the child shows trustable actions then more privileges are then given. “Rewards system”. Love the channel. Keep it going need more positive reinforcement.

Sometimes kids don’t like it when parents put restrictions. Everybody needs some form of guardrails. I can deal with some dislikes if the goal is stronger families. Have an awesome day.

@@ShepherdAtHome they can simply take their ipad or mobile duh