How To Sound Confident In English (Even When You’re Not!)

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Let’s say you have a job interview tomorrow morning.
And let’s say you haven’t reached your English breakthrough just yet, and you feel a little insecure about your English (and by little I mean you’re so anxious you can’t sleep).
Since you don’t have enough time to become 100% fluent overnight, but you have to look confident to get that job - here’s what you’re left with. You gotta FAKE IT.
But how can you fake confidence?
Glad you asked. In this episode, I’m going to share with you 6 things that will make you sound and appear powerful and confident in English, even when you’re not.
And the best part?
When you fake it, it does affect your inner state and you become more relaxed and cool, and when you’re relaxed and cool, guess what? Your English is more fluent.
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@azizali5193 4 жыл бұрын

this woman is epic, I mean all her videos that I've watched so far, describe the exact experience that I'm going through, these videos just relieve me and make me feel that I'm not the only one, thanks a lot for all the efforts and the experiences you're sharing with us, this is exactly what an English learner should watch and follow. I gotta say that even though most of other channels and videos of English learning made by native speakers are so helpful, they're irrelevant compared to this channel. good job Hadar I really appreciate this and good luck

@ewanfuentes215 Жыл бұрын

Im 110% agree Aziz Ali, aside from being energetic all the time her positivity is so contengious. You’ll feel encougrage because she feel you as a non-American speaker. She’s amazing 🤩

@-flabber6663 4 жыл бұрын

Hadar, my confident to speak English is much higher than the criticism of the native speakers, coz I'm speaking two languages and he or she just one. Doesn't matter if my English is good or bad, I try my best!

@davidm.8299 4 жыл бұрын

I have been studying and practicing English for almost 20 years now but this is the first time I will pay attention to my intonation and rhythm, this couch is amazing and I am pretty sure that following her advise in a year I will speak in a totally different way more confident and eloquent, Thank you for helping us in a way nobody ever did !!!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻✨

@SoulAndGarden 2 жыл бұрын

I had a trauma in public speaking 3 decades ago. Until now I'm still struggling with my nervous voice when talking to people. Thank you Hadar, it's never too late for me to find my true voice and be as confident as I'm supposed to be. I'm practicing with you everyday. Cheers from the Philippines 🇵🇭.

@Georgiana400k 4 жыл бұрын

Dude you almost solved my entire life with this. 🙌🏼

@hadar.shemesh 4 жыл бұрын

Oh😌 you made my day 😍😍

@josesanchez4331 3 жыл бұрын

Me 2.. hahahaha

@anyangthiep8802 3 жыл бұрын

My one take away is I want to talk like I know what I'm talking about. Because I do know what I'm talking about. Speak with confidence and self assurance. My second take away is for me to know every situation I have to use the words that will empower me and not diminish what I'm trying to say. Good attitude and authority matters. Thank you so much💐💓🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

@ivomoreira42 4 жыл бұрын

btw, another outstanding and absolutely worthwhile video, as always. Thank you, Hadar! You're such an adorable person with an admirable talent for teaching!

@sha6267 4 жыл бұрын

Watching Hadar is one of the best things I do in this lockdown!!

@xblasterrific 3 жыл бұрын

Glad I found her channel.

@stephaniebarroeta373 3 жыл бұрын

I love the way she explain, because I'm pretty sure that all of us have those problems with the confidence. And she is like: Common! Just Speak even if you make mistakes.

@stephaniet6114 4 жыл бұрын

So many things you talk about in your videos resonate with me, especially the ones dealing with language insecurity. I think my choice of words and my negative self-perception as a non-native speaker of English sometimes get in the way of what would otherwise be a successful interaction. Still got a lot of work to do, but I'm glad I stumbled upon your channel, Hadar! :)

@mamymimma 4 жыл бұрын

True, and if you keep smiling, you'll end up feeling happier ♡

@Juniorsaxplayer 4 жыл бұрын

Hadar, you have NO IDEA about how inspiring and helpful you've been to me and my English students in Brazil!!!! YOU ARE AWESOME!!!! Thank you sooo much for such precious tips!

@Spokenenglish12 4 жыл бұрын

Incredible video as always! Hadar You have always been awesome!

@axelfoly9260 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot !! You are amazing teacher and coach-psychologist! Watching your videos for me is like meeting with an old good friend.

@marymc6701 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Hadar! You khow that you are actually (teaching)! Not like the other teachers in KZfaq! You Rock! you really are. You give us a huge amount of information. Every single second of your videos is worthy. and I swear I've learnt a lot. I hope you are having a wonderful time !

@TheYaruka2010 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! .😊 I was doing this many times..you were so right about it..thank you ,let's keep it up! 😊👍🙏

@eveo2223 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Hadar, you're a lifesaver! I will start with slowing down and preparation.

@CarlosGarridoSv 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you ! Your videos are helping me so much!!!!!!

@lpasgsni522 Жыл бұрын

My admiration for your incredible skills as an educator. Your ability to teach the complexities of the English language clearly and engagingly is truly impressive. You have a natural talent for inspiring learners and igniting a passion for learning within them. Thank you for all that you do and for sharing your gift with the world.

@angelaurena8456 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the good advices! I'm so happy that I find you here in KZfaq. I used to apologize for my accent. But I will be preparing myself for the future 😌. Thanks.

@Mudda33 4 жыл бұрын

Hadar, I really appreciate your help. definitely you have the point "fake it until you make it"

@adrianarufinosiqueira829 4 жыл бұрын

You are my best inspiration!!!! Thank you so much!!!!

@mehriaalbert6263 3 жыл бұрын

Excellent class...You are amazing. To answer your questions, all the above. 🌷

@ngoctrucnguyenhoang5431 2 жыл бұрын

I used to like Rachel English but I love you now. The way your teaching pronunciation is a light for my studying speaking English. thank you so much. love you Hadar.

@xiomaraguedezazuaje3625 3 жыл бұрын

It is a pleasure to hear all the preparation that is behind this video. Here is the thing , I was struggling identifying where to start to come accross confidence: pace and intonation. Thanks for your tips

@777afsal433 4 жыл бұрын

I have watched a lot of videos to learn the accent and proper pronunciation of words. Out of all, Hadar's videos have been the most helpful and worth keep watching through the accent betterment journey. Thank you so much Hadar.

@rebecapadilla8261 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Hadar, you are my English Teacher now and then. I have been learned more topics in English since I see your videos

@edwindilag4470 3 жыл бұрын

I will do the preparation. Because in preparing, I'll be able to adjust my voice, intonation, find the suitable words, watch my attitude or myself in the mirror, and correct my pace in a voice recorder. All these things are necessary to boost my confidence.

@SunshineSurfsup1 4 жыл бұрын

You're the best on YT for V/Os for ESL or otherwise! Stellar coaching. I watch daily at least once a day. (Side Note: Your hair is amazing! Part genetics for sure, but you clearly know how to make curly/wavy hair look great every time. Hard to do! :)

@gopalchand4993 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much Hadar for sharing such a valuable vedio.

@Jorgealbertorincon Жыл бұрын

Awe! Hadar, you are pretty amazing. I discovered your channel one week ago and I felt... inspired and motivated by your content.

@gabylopez6990 2 жыл бұрын

Each time I understand you more , thanks !!!!

@eneidamedeiros8139 3 жыл бұрын

I will start changing my Attitude. I need to pay attention to other features as well. Thank you so much. You are great! Congratulations

@CarlosMarin-lp9xe 4 жыл бұрын

This video helped me so much, Thanks Hadar!!

@jordanalfaro9877 4 жыл бұрын

I am so glad I found you! My problems, I believe, are intonation, the “z” sound (I don’t know the rules of when to use it with a word that is spelled with an s, like “was” and when to elongate a vowel, like I just noticed on one of your videos, for example”feel”. I will look to see if you have already cover that topic and if not, I would love to see a video on that subject. You give me hope! Thank you from the bottom of my 💜!

@HerdyHutabarat 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much that you always encouraging us to be more brave in trying something over and over again eventhough sometime we make mistakes.. The way you teach is inspiring..

@nadiirayuusuf7328 4 жыл бұрын

This is really amazing topic that I really need to know specially intonation so thank you so much

@dorotheap.8306 Жыл бұрын

The intonation of the sentences.. and my attitude. Thank you this is helping a lot

@chanchan-rd2tg 4 жыл бұрын

Love you so much.watched all your Chanel and sooooo agreed with u!u r so nice. I always confuse about how to improve my English.but after ur video. Obviously I find the best way to learning English!

@ASha-di1zt Жыл бұрын

Many great points here, especially on intonation, language, preparing.

@nlipskaya Жыл бұрын

You are so charismatic! Thank you so much for your vids❤

@mida793 3 жыл бұрын

Hadar you are amazing! Your way of explaining and talking is so easy and attractive. I'll try to keep my voice even when speaking. I usually go low pitch when speaking. And speak very fast...

@RaynerGS 4 жыл бұрын

Delighted video, you rock as always. Salute from Brazil and see you in another next video.

@hugomazzei2716 4 жыл бұрын

Excellent lesson. Really very useful. Thank you for sharing and for your effort in making so many of us improve our ability to communicate in English.

@julianandresgomezcastro227 4 жыл бұрын

Wow your speech is amazing. Thank you so much you've taught me great things about intonation that i never learned before

@Shivdas-nl5pk 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 😊 for the tips.

@sm.martin 3 жыл бұрын

Transmitting the idea that you are trying to communicate and achieving it, is the most powerful strategy I ever experimented to get and feel confidence. Since then I know that focus in communicate with passion drives the complete strategy. Thanks.

@MaxLambrecht 3 жыл бұрын

Powerful video! Helped me a lot. Thanks you so much

@luigi5326 3 жыл бұрын

Bravo !!! 👏 You're amazing as always, really 💯

@gg-yo8sl 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much .It was incredible.Sure I need to focus on all these points to gain the confidence especially pace , as you said I talk very fast to end the conversation and cover my mistakes!!

@izemmeriem6598 4 жыл бұрын

The first two things that I'm going to try to work on are voice and pace. I could definitely relate when you brough up voice and pace; I do speak quickly and reduce my voice due to stress of course and the fear of making more mistakes. Yet, I'm going to work more to improve them. Thank you Hadar it's really helpful.

@Abophoto 4 жыл бұрын

Wow, I love this video, there so many good tips in it. I think I will start to work a bit more on my intonation. Thanks so much, it was very interesting to watch!

@pattycandle3596 4 жыл бұрын

Hello from France ! The most important thing for me right now is working on my voice and intonation. Thank you for this video!

@medsonsibale7126 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you teacher Hadar, for today's english lessons, and I will work on how to arrange word's when I'm speaking english.👍

@macmohanku 3 жыл бұрын

Just found your channel today and I already feel like that I have changed my life. thanx, a lot.

@carlosagaitan 4 жыл бұрын

Hadar, thanks so much your class is great.

@orlandoandrade9829 4 жыл бұрын

Hadar,You are a wonderful teacher. I loved this video.

@P_dePedro 2 жыл бұрын

You are amazing, thank you for your advice

@alejandraprada6836 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks! I think preparation is the most important part of my goals.

@karimfinjan5553 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, was really helpful.

@hernancordobab.4666 3 жыл бұрын

Definitely, I'll stay with you, I love your point of view to teach. You're good-looking as well!

@csat2710 2 жыл бұрын

Am gonna work on my intonation and pace these two thing I need to improve. Very importantly thanks for your valuable suggestions. Thank you ma'am.

@peladito2006 4 жыл бұрын

I love this teacher. Good Knowledge!!

@paulacesana8439 3 жыл бұрын

I will pay more attention to my intonation and pace! Thank you so much!

@Tatiana.11 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks fot the tips!! They're really useful. Sometimes what use to practice my speaking skills is the shadowing technique with youtube videos, but the thing is that I feel very thirsty and I get tired while speaking, I don't know why, and it stops me from practicing :/

@Training.Engineering Жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot for your very very good advices.

@zeeshanfarooq7180 3 жыл бұрын

Pace ...is the most imoprtant thing i want to focus on .. I was literally confused about it and never thought about it .. But you directly told me how to work on it...

@nicolaibecerrozki1724 4 жыл бұрын

Great video. Thanks once again. I'll share it.

@suzi12blue 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for all you do to help and encourage people like me who are not native English speakers.

@LeandroGabriel79 4 жыл бұрын

Great video. I'm currently struggling with lack of confidence. But, answering your final question, definitely preparation. But I also need to pay attention to pace and attitude...

@Deep_mindfulness 4 жыл бұрын

Really you covered the whole basic things in just one video and I was just going on wrong direction as my English speaking journey but after seen this video I have clear map to go head on journey. Thank you so much for being a path maker.

@Bloomsales 4 жыл бұрын

Great video. I'm excited to have found your channel. Thanks!

@taniasmalzer9495 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!!

@bushraikram6173 3 жыл бұрын

Super!!! This so powerful, I wish I knew that when I was learning English initially. I picked up some bad habits. well, it is not too late.

@ravindradhumal8201 3 жыл бұрын

preparation is the key. thanks

@andreadickinson3076 3 жыл бұрын

very good class thank you I will apply it !

@secoha 4 жыл бұрын

Amazing tips. The video made me realize some important points I should improve. Thank you so much

@santodebiasi4341 3 жыл бұрын

Good Teacher, You are the best!

@abas1045 4 жыл бұрын

I can have much benefit..Thanks Hadar

@abdalmenam2580 4 жыл бұрын

All your lessons fantastic

@noeestrada1086 4 жыл бұрын

Very useful tips Hadar, thanks a lot

@dianaqv9099 3 жыл бұрын

Love this channel ❤❤❤ I've recently found this channel. And it changed like almost completely my point of view. Love it

@hadar.shemesh 3 жыл бұрын

🥰🙏🏽

@anyangthiep8802 4 жыл бұрын

My take away is I'm gonna start paying attention to my voice, intonation the words that I choose, I will definitely pay attention to my attitude, as well of pace I use and preparation is a key as well.

@tannazbaghersefat2827 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Hadar thanks for the information, I feel that I need to work on my intonation and I should be prepared before my speech. Love you Hadar : *

@patriciaaguilerajb007 3 жыл бұрын

Teacher: I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!! Words alone cannot convey how grateful I'm for your helpful channel! May God bless you! Hugs from Brazil!

@hadar.shemesh 3 жыл бұрын

You just conveyed all those emotions! Love♥️🙌

@duakhan3621 4 жыл бұрын

You are amazing serously !!! Your strategies helping me alot. Keep it up with such more videos. Thankyou ☺

@ahmadrezvani4643 4 жыл бұрын

Thank hadar ..great

@williemadrid9137 4 жыл бұрын

You're amazing!

@fernandotriana7961 Жыл бұрын

Very good advice, I'm shadowing you at the same pace as you are speaking and I've been improving a lot my pronunciation, intonation as well as the pace, and so many other things " hugs from Cali Colombia"

@ahmedzahra2440 4 жыл бұрын

Excellent coach , Hadar

@denissecsotovillanueva1334 4 жыл бұрын

I simply love your videos, I feel so identified with nearly all the situations you come up. I want to know more about the membership that you mentioned, I'm an ESL non native English teacher and my fiance is a native English speaker whose English teaching experience has recently begun. Additionally, you mentioned an English online club, how can I get access on it? And again, you're an excellent teacher!