How to Stay Positive During Your Worst Days

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@alyr6545 3 жыл бұрын

Every time I watch one of your videos I feel like I just had a strong cup of coffee and I'm ready to take on whatever.

@Logan-nf3fz 2 жыл бұрын

feels like he understands and cares. not just a sales pitch

@Freshadventures_ 9 ай бұрын

Thats good to know. First time here on this channel.@@Logan-nf3fz

@jonattomo 3 жыл бұрын

Anticipate drama, Delay Response, Allow + Socialize Sadness, Healthy response = Health, Daily G3 journals + Review (G3 = Gratitude, Goal, Good thing(yesterday)), Progress + Perspective. Thank you Brendon for sharing your insight.

@estelaramirez779 2 жыл бұрын

Thank uuuu!

@Cococonutt 3 жыл бұрын

I listened to this closely today and I’m very appreciative that you posted it. I’ve been in a dark and empty place these days, I do not recognize myself at all. I need to cling to voices of reason in these dark times.

@lukaskkramer 3 жыл бұрын

Hi there, just wanted to let you know that I appreciate your openness about what’s showing up for you and I congratulate you for not giving in to the dark times and for continuing to hold on the positive voices such as Brendon’s! For me personally, life can often feel like a roller coaster, but I’m actually starting to appreciate the dark valleys. I know it sounds weird but it’s often been during those times of pain and uncertainty that I was able to find nuggets of incredible value and insight! I’m sure that you, too, can find the wisdom in what you’re currently experiencing! You’ve got this!

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@alandrade0726 Жыл бұрын

Good job bro. God created and selected people like you to serve him, and to assist others through our hard or dark times of our lives. God bless! Thanks, My Mother is in her last days on this earth. And a little support from the educated and empathetic ones, helps a lot. Even if it is temporarily. We should always be grateful for whatever we have, while we have it. And don't ever forget that what comes around goes around. My Mom was there and still there throughout my life, now is my time, or all of us time to realize this fact and be there for our elderly parents. And others, love your neighbor as yourself. God Bless!

@rebekahpowers1595 2 жыл бұрын

I just discovered this guy and he is gold

@buzzlightyears12 2 жыл бұрын

Brendon, after divorce, I knew professionally really hard days were coming, and as they are here right now, your teachings are paramount. Thank you immensely!

@MisterPol 3 жыл бұрын

The past is the past. You can't change it. Don't dwell on it. Focus on what you need to achieve today!!

@MisterPol 3 жыл бұрын

btw, thank you Brendon for inspiring me to start filming videos about self development!!

@WelcomeChangeRealty Ай бұрын

You may have recorded this 3 years ago but it feels like it was meant for me today! Thank you for your practical wisdom. 🙏

@VictorRegouin 3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree that sharing emotion is such a important part!

@irisgonzalez-caulder4817 3 жыл бұрын

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@BrixsDNAfortnite 3 жыл бұрын

Brendon’s work is a jewel in KZfaq. Build his teachings into your life operating system. I‘ve have, and is a GAME CHANGER

@lukaskkramer 3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations on doing the work!

@lindahebb4832 2 ай бұрын

This video is worth watching like once a month because it’s easy to forget these things and it’s all good stuff to have in your tool kit plan ahead anticipate drama prime the day with gratitude goodness goals appreciate the content

@anjalisharma-ff2ce 3 жыл бұрын

Watching it at 3am. It's been a sleepless night. (I've never had sleep issues before.) Hope this somehow helps. Thanks, Brendon!

@bigdemo5733 Жыл бұрын

Army Vet! This video helped me literally instantly.. Thank you sir! Keep spreading positive energy! God bless!

@andreyche193 3 жыл бұрын

I remember a guy I knew in the university: he was like that positive! Then he had an episode... When he came back after a treatment he was more like a regular guy, not as "energetic".

@lorriheffner2747 Жыл бұрын

I am literally doing the comfort tasks while I’m listening to this instead of doing the needle movers so this is like really on target for me thank you so much

@MyRandomArt452 3 жыл бұрын

Allow yourself to be sad..and share..my mom passed away last week..finding it difficult to accept..your tip allow sadness is so true..but so difficult for me to share my feelings with others.

@JuanGArangoTV 12 күн бұрын

Sharing emotion leads to someone losing their job in my line of business.

@francois5863 3 жыл бұрын

Heck, I did tidy up my shoe closet yesterday! And yeah, it was a bad day. And yeah, it was a delay tactic. And no, it did not improve things. Today I'm gonna make progress on what matters -- heck yeah!

@Meowwolfwarrior 3 жыл бұрын

I've found that the hardest days are usually the most rewarding at times because of how you perceive the perspectives available to you to learn

@QueenJLee420 4 ай бұрын

Thanks so much for having these free videos on KZfaq. I'm at a point in my life right now where I'm trying to be more positive and a better person. Hearing your words really helped me. It's also nice to hear you saying some of the things my loved ones are. I would love for more people to watch your videos, there's too many humans that just don't know how to be people these days and it's sad and scary😢 I'm actually terrified for the future!

@krish.5823 2 жыл бұрын

Yup! Will do.

@migueldiaz973 3 ай бұрын

Amazing, thank you Brandon! Your videos always level me 🆙 And my team.

@MekonenMeteor123 Жыл бұрын

Don’t pay my bills got it. Thanks, Brendon!

@EsmondQuinn 3 ай бұрын

Really clever explanation and no unnecessary verbiage! Respect! + subscription

@joserobertolima5575 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Brendon. I’ve been doing lots of those things you’ve shared .. one that I remember anytime is telling me and my team : what’s going to fail here ? ( anticipation of drama as you said ) .. over and over again we still get in trouble when we miss this portion of anticipation but we are getting there 😀

@Shawntiworld 3 жыл бұрын

Your book helped me greatly in my first years as an entrepreneur and I’m so happy and grateful to watch these videos right now as I’m stressed and need a revisiting of your concepts. Needed this !! Thank you Brandon!!

@lstephaniechung 4 ай бұрын

"Brendon"

@xoxomangakcorxoxo 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Brendon! I love listening to your advice!

@cmoore6485 3 жыл бұрын

Disappointments are unmet expectations. I Iove what you said about expecting drama, especially with certain types of people.

@wendycollier3001 Жыл бұрын

Brendon cracks me up! Thank you, for bringing humor to these conversations! LOVE this content.

@rustystephenson7327 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Brendon🙏 I enjoy listening to all your content, it helps me immensely

@merelymystic Жыл бұрын

Watched this as I started my morning and was exactly what I needed. Thank you! I always learn and laugh so much while watching your videos.

@timeaftertony5247 3 жыл бұрын

Makes total sense, thank you very much for these videos and expanding the way I think if things I'm truly enjoying all these great techniques!!

@bethanybalencic8960 3 жыл бұрын

Your work changes lives and thank you for that!!! Obsessed with your book HPH and always blown away by the golden nuggets of knowledge in these videos! I consider myself to be a high achiever, but take so many things away from all your content and you always tell me exactly what I need to hear in the moment-the point you spoke about at 21 minutes in has my name all over it. Thank you and I look forward to attending a seminar or taking a course in the future!

@kamalkamal 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your support team

@lou-annjordan7621 3 жыл бұрын

I came on KZfaq looking for a song and came upon this. It's so what I need. It's the weirdest thing I recently started...like a day ago...my Masers and I am TERRIFIED. So terrified I feel like I can't hold it together. I want to roll up in a ball and hide from life.

@soumyagoswami5342 3 жыл бұрын

Beautifully explained. I needed this to link up the broken parts. Thank you.

@SlothLinn 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I have a lot of closets Brendon, and while I am aware of them, I must admit that I excuse them all as somehow being good for me, instead of being the time wasters they are. I will be more aware of my closets and the excuses I'm making, and opt for more productive things instead!

@lukaskkramer 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for being so honest about what's showing up for you, Linn! A question that has been really helpful lately to the people around me and myself in the context of what you shared is, "What's the good that's standing in the way of the great?" We still only get 24h a day and it's often not just about cutting out the things that don't serve us but also the ones that aren't moving the needle as much as others could. Hope this serves! :)

@mjmallari3856 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, Brendon! Brilliant perspectives and ideas.

@Brightestlightt 3 жыл бұрын

Love you brendon you beautiful soul don’t go unnoticed thank you 😊

@amyshin1693 3 жыл бұрын

thanks a lot for this. I needed it. Recently, whenever I felt disappointed and sad, I have been driven to go outside to run immediately. Its great to know that I am doing something right to cope with my current situation in a healthy way.

@clarecostello1975 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for giving of your time! I really take so much out of what you say

@justinshuemake5450 11 ай бұрын

thank you for the advice brendon

@laura-youtube1453 3 жыл бұрын

Awesome video, Brendon. Very appropriate for this time. I have been delaying that emotional response since Nov 3. Some days are harder than others. But I know that Justice and Integrity will prevail. We have a strong country, a strong democracy. It's a hard time, but it will pass too. Thank you for being a rock in uncertain times.

@GenaJoy 3 жыл бұрын

Just what I needed to hear. Thanks Brendon for your work!

@elektromorales3471 2 жыл бұрын

Can across this and I am greatful for the wisdom. The person I truly care about likes to do alot of busy work when they are down. Then the actual root of the problem becomes even bigger. I've searched for ways to describe my thoughts and every time I try I am misunderstood.

@katerynasmyrnova4373 Жыл бұрын

You are amazing, Brandon/ Thank you for sincerity and humour !

@nupurchoudhary5351 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this video! I m in a dark place today in terms of my business and personal life at the same time. I gained some prospective. Will try to follow as much as possible and will certainly come back to watch this again.. 😊

@ProspectivePlans 3 жыл бұрын

Loving this advice for staying positive when things look grim! #RisingToBe #AsWeRise #Riser #KeepRising #ImARiser

@Nigel925 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the inspiration Brendon!

@ThePermacultureStudent Жыл бұрын

Always SO Good - Thank you Brendon!! Much Love!! - Matt

@ali18398 3 жыл бұрын

Love you Brendon! Thank you!

@archievergara9881 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this... very helpful. Thank you for giving me a boost 🙏

@Michael-uj5ex 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Brendon, this was really helpful 🙏

@angelaconceicao1829 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your explanation.

@TheLegoKoala Жыл бұрын

Half way through and already a fantastic video. Went through a break up yesterday and wowza this guy is so relatable I feel like I’m in the board room with him 😂

@snowmass5310 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Brendon ! Love the tips.You look great !

@Azure_Fox 11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this. This is going to help me a lot. Wish me luck!

@donnaranetta Жыл бұрын

I love it! Very insightful. Especially sharing the meaning and purpose of journaling the 3G's. In the past, I would start journaling then quit so quickly, but the 3G's sounds like fun. I will definitely put effort towards this b/c I see the benefits it will have on my life. Thanks Brendon. I just discovered you as we speak and you already made an impression on me. Cheers to many more positive growth lessons!

@viincreations 2 жыл бұрын

This video always helps me feel better

@simchaehrman6529 2 жыл бұрын

you're amazing! (A little creepy😎 But I felt the need to write it😅)

@holycal7218 3 жыл бұрын

I saw this on an ad while playing music and cleaning, it helped a lot and makes total sense, sharing it to my fb.

@lindahebb4832 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for posting

@amberleaf7 3 жыл бұрын

This is great content, Brendon. Thank you.

@stevejakab Жыл бұрын

Loved this Brendon, thank you!

@DanaKot336 3 жыл бұрын

A very important content & information ! Thank you so much brendon! 🙏🏻👏🏻

@ofentsemaluleka5836 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Sir.

@advancedbehavioralchangesl4883 2 жыл бұрын

Just what I needed today to remind myself what I’m doing is spot on. Five of these habits I learned from experience and it’s what I teach to my clients. ….What I love!!! Is how Brendon breaks them down into perfectly explained buttons and added depth and dimension to each one. The only one I hadn’t learned was progress and perspective in as much awareness since my business is only a 1 year old. Powerful. I’m so glad I’m part of growth-day zoom!! One day I visualize myself a coach there. ⬆️⬆️⬆️

@misbahyasin5024 3 жыл бұрын

Much needed video,I appreciate your time and efforts

@user-vw9sd5cv7l 3 жыл бұрын

Loveeeeeeeeee your videos. They've helped me so much. Thank you!

@zarafshan6058 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing work!! Thank you so much 🙏🏼

@1nedaa 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this lesson you are amazing!

@lisamurrey671 5 ай бұрын

Thank you. This was helpful.

@teresahager8771 2 жыл бұрын

The part about “organizing the closet” was surprising. Ironically that was just what I was doing as I was listening to your video😂😂. I felt I have an issue with self love and cleaning out my closet to get rid of anything I didn’t love to make room for nicer things as I embark on my weight loss journey . Also I’m cleaning and organizing my entire house for a “fresh start “ to get rid of the clutter so I can focus on what really matter. I don’t feel like it was a stall tactic but maybe I’m missing the mark, any advise ? . I’m learning so much from you . Thank you for what you do !! You are truly gifted!!

@roxannejoseph7213 3 жыл бұрын

Your so right...even when you realise that you need to do these things to be better..to cope better..we have to do the hard things that will help us progress...thanks Brendon!! Repeat, apply, repeat apply!

@amberleaf7 3 жыл бұрын

You’re so right (not “your so right”). Different words.

@aurimaslazickas5241 9 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing , should incorporate some of the ideas.

@demshi1 3 жыл бұрын

This video made my day! Thank you so much 😊

@ARTGALLERY396 3 жыл бұрын

You are so kind 😍

@oyukybetanzos7163 3 жыл бұрын

I wished you had Spanish videos to this ! my Mom has dealt with anxiety and depression her whole life and I want to help her how your videos help me understand my mind more.

@lenkakopecka3156 3 жыл бұрын

I just love you, thanks!!

@godiswithus3939 3 жыл бұрын

My big thing staying freaking productive with all the distractions at home

@donalpanko9261 3 жыл бұрын

This video is great for overcoming distractions to stay focused. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jc6SjKWTlc7Zfac.html

@kurisuchiinu1206 Жыл бұрын

Love this topic. Though I agree with sharing but I don't have anyone to share it to because they also share it to others. So instead, I write it to my journal just to express it. It helps! I also do shadow work to see the side I'm not seeing in myself or refuse to see in myself. Saved this in my list. Thank you!

@VarkeyGeorge-px7iw 10 ай бұрын

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@gojo2194 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@Mahvishsm 3 жыл бұрын

The closet insight is so true😮!

@88kveitekaker Жыл бұрын

Dude… This is good stuff! Thank you!

@sadakayoutube7661 3 жыл бұрын

The video came in the right TIME!!

@shahinansari6234 3 жыл бұрын

Enjoyed it so much.

@michaelpaul4854 3 жыл бұрын

I already have the HP Planner. But what I will do from now on is implement the 3 'G's.👍🏻💪🏻

@sherimillman53 Жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤️

@timeaftertony5247 3 жыл бұрын

I'm saving up to be apart of your challenge, I'm so excited... I will get to work with you one day!!!

@art.soul.education 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! 🙂

@sanjaypersaud7427 Жыл бұрын

Great job sir.

@carolrodrigues6015 Жыл бұрын

Very helpful..thanks bro.

@leticiarachel1306 Жыл бұрын

Thank you very much for helping me every little step of my life. I hope I can have the opportunity some day to be with you in your training .

@NickHarrison-pm3on 6 ай бұрын

Hi dear

@larasmith490 3 жыл бұрын

🦋I’ve had so many bad things happen, I’m not surprised by much anymore

@aishahsiddiqqh1395 2 жыл бұрын

Ive not found a way out of my dark days. I suffer with depression, menopoause and now health issues. Yet ive always been strong, healthy. (Wonder woman) Sometimes I do laugh at myself but I laugh in a mad way. Which, others get worried. They cant see wonderwoman is tied mentally. Ive always tried to be positive every morning I open my eyes with gratitude for the rising, get up and realise its the same and has been for the last year plus. Trying to change always for some reason brings me right back to the negative and deeper in dispear. I hear what you are saying thank you, but my mind keep saying dont compare yourself, which, I don't. So im at a loss and dont know what to do. However keep up you work, its very interesting and will continue to help many. Bless up

@crownmenovember700 3 жыл бұрын

my man said "their breaking up with you, you didn't think they weas gonna blame you?!" lmao. that was hilariously true

@larasmith490 3 жыл бұрын

🦋Sadness or anxiety is not emotions I easily deal with - work in progress

@tammieproffitt464 3 жыл бұрын

SunMed CBD Water Soluble 750mg Broad Spectrum is great for anxiety! Best wishes

@vm9356 3 жыл бұрын

Very helpful info. Thanks

@jeffreyzie 3 жыл бұрын

Really helpful. Thank you

@navdeeppasricha8819 3 жыл бұрын

love that you are challenging us :)

@jtbjr3 Жыл бұрын

Solid advice.

@RSSASMR 3 жыл бұрын

These are powerful tools that are very proactive! It's that little nudge that puts you back on track when in a slump Thanks for this; very informative💡

@lukaskkramer 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly! So often, we might be thinking that we need to make revolutionary changes to our lives when 2 simple tweaks would do it!