How to stop arguing with your partner--in just minutes | Roderick Jeter

How to stop arguing with your partner--in just minutes | Roderick Jeter | TEDxSanDiego

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9 ай бұрын

Why Be Angry? You can settle most any disagreement with the one you love is just minutes. No Fuss No Drama. Rod’s game approach helps couples overcome seemingly insurmountable disagreements that have lasted decades, in just minutes - NO FUSS NO DRAMA.
/ @ybangry Reach Rod Jeter on Linktree linktr.ee/mrrodjeter IG @mrrodjeter Facebook mrrodjeter and LinkedIn www.linkedin.com/in/mrrodjeter #TEDx #TEDxSanDiego #TEDxSpeaker #whybeangry #ybangry #couplescoach #relationship #relationshipadvice
Rod Jeter is a navy veteran and married father of 5 adult children. His career spans from being a real estate broker to entrepreneur, and he has a master’s degree in software engineering. Married for 12 years, Rod and his wife were kicked out of marriage counseling on the fifth of what was supposed to be twelve sessions. It was admittedly Rod's fault, but never the less, he was moved to find a way to help couples see results faster than traditional counseling. Rod created a game to help couples resolve their disagreements in just minutes. Rod’s goal is to create happier homes and help as many couples as possible solve conflicts and disagreements with less drama and more fun through the YBAngry relationship tool. ybangry.com.
Watch couples resolve disagreements in minutes at / @ybangry Reach Rod Jeter on Linktree linktr.ee/mrrodjeter IG @mrrodjeter Facebook mrrodjeter and LinkedIn www.linkedin.com/in/mrrodjeter
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@eviep2 9 ай бұрын

I have learned that for me, at least, ego and pride gets on the way of most arguments. Once I understood that and kept my ego/pride out of it, I can pretty much resolve any issue with a clearer mind and greater openness. Life is so short.

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Absolutely!!! Life is short.. Let's spread this video and the YBAngry Movement and let's all be happy.

@alibhatti5592 2 ай бұрын

Right Bro🎉

@kristentt 2 ай бұрын

Yes. I totally agree. Unfortunately, problems still occur when the OTHER person refuses to do the same

@YBAngry 2 ай бұрын

@@kristenttThis game removes the egos and negative emotions from the conversation.

@detectiveback6371 9 ай бұрын

I tried this with my narcissistic ex during our relationship and it didn't work. This technique works assuming the relationship itself is healthy sadly

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Are you saying it did not help you resolve the issue at the moment?

@Gzerus 9 ай бұрын

That's right

@detectiveback6371 9 ай бұрын

@@YBAngry It helped in the moment but not in the way it should, i remember spending several hours trying to calmly list reasons just like in the video and what happened was alot of running around in circles. example: "I want to spend time with my friends" "So you dont want to spend time with me?" "response, yes i would like to spend time with you however, i've already spent alot of time with you this month and haven't spent time with my friends for a long time" "I want you to spend time with me and you spending time with your friends means you chose to not spend time with me. meaning you don't want to spend time with me" Narcissists are usually irrational in their arguments/wants from you so when you try to speak to them calmly and in a reasonable manner it will always go in circles unil they either get what they want or emotionally withdraw from the situation alltogether resulting in a later narcissistic collapse. Its a good techique that cannot cure a toxic interpersonal or intimate relationship. It would also only work assuming the person you are communicating with is rational.

@alexc4300 9 ай бұрын

Impossible to work with a narcissist - not only is it always about them, but they don’t even maintain consistent positions - it’s whatever suits them in the moment.

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

@@alexc4300 If someone truly have mental or emotional deficiencies then nothing works. I have seen this game help couples resolve seeming insurmountable disagreements. I've said many times before; if a couple does not win the game, somebody doesn't really want the relationship to work or somebody is lying. I guess I should start adding, somebody is not well. But looks, as far as I am concerned, if the game lets you know you are not compatible, then it has still been a valuable experience. If you take heed.

@user-nn8gv5is4q 9 ай бұрын

I’ve known Roderick for many years. He was always the calmest guy in any situation. I am glad to see, him succeeding in developing this conflict resolution tool for the world. Good job my friend, sharing your compassion with the world.

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Thank you!!!

@Lyndanet 9 ай бұрын

you’re so fortunate to know this man he must be really fun guy to hang with at a party

@fairygurl9269 9 ай бұрын

Anger is a Sign of Pain or Fear Of It. *Much Compassion & Respect

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@fairygurl9269 9 ай бұрын

@@YBAngry 🤗

@cherylmillard2067 9 ай бұрын

Start here>>> 2:20

@samuelwilliams7079 9 ай бұрын

The hero we need

@jaspervanschaijk7479 9 ай бұрын

Wtf intro took ages

@YBAngry 2 ай бұрын

@@jaspervanschaijk7479 I wanted to give people an idea of the vision I have for the world, once people start using this process.

@YBAngry 2 ай бұрын

@@samuelwilliams7079 This really works. A quick and simple way to get what you want from your spouse without arguing...in just minutes.

@taylornewall9178 Ай бұрын

Thank u

@aprilperkins1932 9 ай бұрын

Awesome. This is exactly what my marriage is in need of. Ways to be able to communicate to resolve issues without elevated attitudes.

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

@@MrDave1963This process has many benefits. Once there is an agreement, if someone doesn't follow through, instead of being angry and yelling, just play the game again. We all can use a reminder every now and then.

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

@@MrDave1963 Don't try to get her to do it for help. Do it for fun!!!!

@ewalichorowicz4614 9 ай бұрын

A good sense of humor can disarm any conflict. Laughing together is fun and helps people relax, so the issue dissolves. I like what you said: "the relationship has to win or you both lose". Thank you so much for the giggles!

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Yep, sometime we let ourselves get in the way of our relationship.

@xtrasweets 2 ай бұрын

We stopped fighting after listening to this, didn’t write a single thing down

@YBAngry Ай бұрын

Actually once you learn how to play, writing is not very necessary. I'm glad this works for you. Please spread this video and help me change the world...one couple at a time.

@stevintwiggs8255 9 ай бұрын

This was the most impressive video that I have watched in a long time. This stuck with me like glue” The relationship must win or you both lose. That was a eye grabber that will gain the attention of many. Rod you are making a difference in the lives of many individuals keep up the great work I'm proud of you

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Wow!! Thank you for sharing. Hopefully we will look back ten years from now at a much happier world.

@W_Bin 9 ай бұрын

💯 focus on a single issue of disagreement. reduce that issue into a simple yes or no question both write down reasons to support yes or no answer 1 person reads the most important detail that they have written down. Without debating person 2 repeats back in their own words what they believe person 1 means. ("what you're saying is, you would like...") Person 2 will then ask is that right. Person 1 says yes or no. Person 2 responds to what person 1 MEANS. (Not what person 2 thinks person 1 means) They continue focussing on this detail and the remaining details, 1 detail at a time, until the issue is resolved processing the detailing writing slows communication giving them both time to think and respond thoughtfully (much more effective than the quick emotional response that often happens in disagreements)

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Looks like you have it! Please share!

@alvahamilton2707 9 ай бұрын

We often hear but don’t listen. We sometimes listen but don’t understand. Rod Jeter’s YB Angry techniques helps couples remove barriers to meaningful communication. If there is even a smidge of care, compassion and commitment in the relationship, I believe these techniques are fail proof. The RELATIONSHIP wins! Well done!

@YBAngry 8 ай бұрын

Absolutely! One of the main rules to this technique is that both parties must want the relationship to work. They must care. Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts Alva!

@audreyjacobs1 9 ай бұрын

Such a powerful way to present a simple idea that can save America. Thank you.

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Thank you Audrey for providing an awesome platform for me to share my idea worth sharing!

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

TEDxSanDiego

@FreeLance_60 9 ай бұрын

EVERYTHING IS INTERCONNECTED

@YBAngry 7 ай бұрын

What does "everything is interconnected" mean as it relates to this video? Thank you in advance for your response.

@pepsteruncini 9 ай бұрын

In the Marriage Clinic by John Gottman, having studied couples for 30 years, they found that resolving conflict is NOT determinant for couples staying together or having a great relationship. They say that fixes like this normally work for a little bit, but the day-to-day is harder. Most couples that stay together have unresolved conflicts. Things like learning how to repair and accept each other's bids to restore the relationship during and after an argument are more important than "Resolving" conflicts. This is still a great tool, but he overpromises at the beginning with his intro.

@jareknowak8712 9 ай бұрын

Your comment is more valuable than the video. Thank You.

@pepsteruncini 9 ай бұрын

@@jareknowak8712 I'm so glad to hear! Your comment made my day!

@jareknowak8712 9 ай бұрын

@@pepsteruncini You're welcome!

@RowansApothecary 9 ай бұрын

This is called active listening, and it is integral in communication. I learned this when studying neuro-linguistic programming and cognitive behavioral therapy.

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

It is, and the game helps people use it in there relationships.

@dominiqueadevereaux8820 9 ай бұрын

Good job Dad!!! Congratulations❤ Proud of you! 🎉

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Thanks Babygirl!!

@YBAngry 5 ай бұрын

And Thank you Babygirl for designing the game.

@leonard9636 9 ай бұрын

Ok, this is useful and smart 😂, I'm trying this in my current relationship

@YBAngry 6 ай бұрын

Good luck!

@joycewilliams6194 9 ай бұрын

Great talk! This technique teaches active listening which is the key to maintaining a good relationship.

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Correct! That's what they call it. I think people learn to play games and build habits much easier than learning that sort of stuff. 😂😂😂

@argeonmcwilson98 9 ай бұрын

Excellent tool to learn how to communicate with your partner. People must want to fix their marriage and the issues in order for it to work. It’s a start to something that could beautiful when a marriage/relationship is worth working for. Both parties have to be willing to explore this. Great tool! I’ve played the game and have referred to others. It’s definitely a game changer.

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Absolutely!!! This game is not designed to fix a relationship once one or both parties have completely checked out. It's designed to keep them together by resolving the small issues that permeate into other issues in their lives that become big issues. As long as they both still want it. It works!

@DrJenniferMWellsDC 9 ай бұрын

Well done, Rod! 👏🏻 Wishing you all the best in your endeavors around the YBAngry movement and game.

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Thank you Jennifer!! I appreciate you taking the time to comment and helping the YBAngry movement off to a good start.

@MRk0peryto 9 ай бұрын

It's an easy solution. The main issue is how to make it happen. How to convince the other half to talk and not to argue and how to stay patient and strong when not everything goes as planned.

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Funny thing, the game doesn't leave room for arguing. Just stay on track and you'll see, it comes natural in the game.

@user-oc3kr8lg6v 9 ай бұрын

This is absolutely amazing and I feel like if people really sit down and take the time to do it, it will help a lot more people’s relationship! 😊 this was really good unc

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Thanks!

@KellysMagicalRealm 9 ай бұрын

For me I learned I have to stop dating toxic men! Simple! That will end all relationship drama! I’m not saying I’m perfect by any means! However I can’t deal with cheating, lying or men with addictions anymore! It’s too much!

@nancyinthegarden3160 9 ай бұрын

I was alone bc of this 40 yrs ago. I opted for a female puppy. She just wanted to please me. No lying cheating scheming Don Won. I’m sure that’s not the way to spell it but you get what I mean. I will say that if us women would hold onto our stuff longer, men would learn to practice the labor of the catch. We’ve made it too easy to jump in the sack with them. They’ll never change that way. It’s really a woman’s world. We just haven’t realized how ti negotiate the territory around the world. Withhold the prize would do it. I’m sure if this one thing in my life!!!

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Maybe you should play the game with the man before getting into a committed relationship with him. If you can't win without a history of bad memories in the mix, you're probably not compatible. Simple as that. Share this video to help me spread the YBAngry Movement and make the world a happier place...one couple at a time...one issue at a time.

@gitgen1887 2 ай бұрын

This happens when you ignore the men that are safe and like you then having the bad boys confuse you.

@user-xb2fw9tw6j 9 ай бұрын

This game really works! If we can all try this game, it will change our society one game at a time! Try it!

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Yes yes! One couple at a time...one issue at a time.

@YBAngry 2 ай бұрын

I still have to watch this from time to time. It was a wonderful experience, and it's all so true. Why Be Angry?

@markwilcox8212 9 ай бұрын

Awesome job Jeter. It's amazing how you have simplified the art of resolving disagreements. All loving couples should be able to utilize "Y B Angry" in their lives. God bless you and yours my Brother.

@YBAngry 8 ай бұрын

Thank you Mark!! I appreciate you taking the time to comment. I am hoping that YBAngry will change the world...one couple at a time.

@waltergreen354 9 ай бұрын

Relationships are central to our lives and avoiding being angry is central to maintaining healthy relationships. You presented your helpful tool in a very humorous and effective way. Thank you, Rod.

@YBAngry 8 ай бұрын

Thank you Walter. I appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts. That's a great example of "Say it now!"

@CMS_10 2 ай бұрын

Wow! So happy I found this video. I pray this works. We love one another so much but the arguing is destroying us 😥

@YBAngry Ай бұрын

@cms_10 It will work! It always works, if you follow the rules.

@stuweintraub 9 ай бұрын

Such an important message… Please teach this to the whole world.

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

That's my goal! Thank you!

@preecherdavis2054 9 ай бұрын

Wow! This is absolutely a game changer!!

@YBAngry 7 ай бұрын

Yes Sirrrr! We need more people to believe it is possible and just try it!

@gilperetzutube 9 ай бұрын

I loved your talk when I saw it live, and it's great to watch it again. I will forward the link to many of my friends. Good luck!

@YBAngry 8 ай бұрын

Gil!! Thank you! I am glad you enjoyed it. Thank you also for sharing the talk and helping me make the world happier...one couple at a time. Thank you!

@adrianriley8042 9 ай бұрын

Great info and presentation. All around great job Rod....

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@gloriajeter2278 9 ай бұрын

Hi , Mrs jeter I love the game and will tell everyone about it,it really help us. Thank you.

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for that confirmation mom!

@brianneshank7153 9 ай бұрын

Well done! I love your message. Keep up the great work! 😁

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Thank you Brianne, and thanks for participating. Glad it worked for your relationship, as usual.

@user-zi9ws2en6e 9 ай бұрын

Very Helpful tips thank u

@YBAngry 6 ай бұрын

Noooooo, thank you for watching and taking the time to comment!!

@sherececocco 9 ай бұрын

Thank you.

@YBAngry 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching and taking the time to comment! You are very welcome!!

@metatrongroove2824 9 ай бұрын

TED came with a gem here

@YBAngry 5 ай бұрын

Absolutely!!!

@feliciajackson2675 9 ай бұрын

Message makes sense. Nice delivery. Congrats on the success of your game that is making a positive impact on relationships.

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Thank you!!

@YBAngry 5 ай бұрын

I'm trying to change the world...one couple at a time. Spread the word.

@hegensmanagementconsulting6251 3 ай бұрын

OK I’m gonna try this with hubby….. thank you and great speech

@YBAngry 2 ай бұрын

It works much better I'd you actually have the YBAngry game

@chantalallan8019 9 ай бұрын

I love Roderick, he's hilarious! If I could carry a mini him in my pocket everyday I would so that every time I hear people arguing I could just bring him out to stop them arguing haha.

@YBAngry 8 ай бұрын

Just say "Why be angry? You can settle most any disagreement with the one you love in just minutes...no Fuss No drama." Then give them the link to this video.

@TimMcDonald-fv4tt 9 ай бұрын

Brilliant Talk Rod

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Thank you Tim!!

@calebjpryor 9 ай бұрын

I love this man's message and how he delivers it. I will be sharing this a plenty

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Yes! Yes! Thank you!

@larryjeter177 9 ай бұрын

Surprisingly enough. I’ve see the after affects of this game/system. It it’s worked wonders, when the relationship is the goal.

@YBAngry 8 ай бұрын

Yes, the relationship must win, or they both lose.

@annan4866 9 ай бұрын

Brilliant!! ❤

@YBAngry 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching and taking the time to comment! You can help change the world...one couple at a time. Just share this video and help get the world out. Be a part of the YBAngry Movement!

@CarenGlasser 4 ай бұрын

Great presentation! I love the way you break it down. Why be angry?

@YBAngry 4 ай бұрын

Thank you! I am just a regular guy, so I created this so that regular couples can play and win. Please share!

@billiewolfe5192 9 ай бұрын

Best TED talk I've ever heard. 😊

@YBAngry 7 ай бұрын

Me toooo!!! Please share it!

@gitgen1887 2 ай бұрын

Ever? Ever?

@productionmark 4 ай бұрын

Beautiful. Simple. Elegant. ❤❤❤

@YBAngry 4 ай бұрын

Yes, the simplicity is a big part of why it works

@user-bm2vo6dc3g 9 ай бұрын

It sounds as if this keeps people on track and keeps them from bringing up old, insignificant topics that derail effective communication. One important point discussed at a time! Great job! Where can this game be purchased?

@YBAngry 7 ай бұрын

💯 absolutely!

@vmaichel7414 9 ай бұрын

Love it.

@YBAngry 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching and taking the time to comment. Please share!! Let's change the world...one couple at a time.

@dandycadent 9 ай бұрын

Great talk !

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@user-mj2pg9ku7q 9 ай бұрын

marriages and relationships has factors that contribute to happier and healthier families. YBAngry is a building block that include those important factors problem solving, building basic relationships redirection, and sponsoring the opposite feelings and emotion’s creating positive responses. This is the most impressive creation made having the love for relationships and how to keep them together and happy. It does create a better tomorrow and bright future bonds within two individuals keep up great work it is making a difference in the world today. Thanks for sharing !!!

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Wow!! Very well said!! Thank you!

@lancelotkamaka2563 9 ай бұрын

I really love this.

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@lawrencejeter1812 9 ай бұрын

Very impressive and interesting talk.

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Thanks you Sir!!!!! I appreciate you and your lady playing the game to settle your issue almost two years ago.

@ZUL8R_DAVE 9 ай бұрын

Awesome!!! Thank you Rod!

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Nooooo! Thank you for watching and being a part of this YBAngry Movement.

@shawncberry 9 ай бұрын

Bravo Zulu Mr. Jeter! Great message.

@YBAngry 7 ай бұрын

Thank you Sir! Please share!

@louismosley811 8 ай бұрын

Loved the message you sent out. Great work. Going to try this technique. God bless

@YBAngry 8 ай бұрын

Thank you Louis. This process is very effective. It's so much easier to resolve your disagreements when you're having a structured discussion.

@YBAngry 6 ай бұрын

Did you get around to trying the technique? Did it work for you?

@louismosley811 6 ай бұрын

@@YBAngry yes it did

@YBAngry 6 ай бұрын

@@louismosley811 Awesome!!

@Bharrisonspeaks 9 ай бұрын

So good

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Thank you sir! Looks like you have a TEDTalk yourself. Thank you!

@lotfibouhedjeur 9 ай бұрын

I didn't care for the 2-minute plus intro, but the rest was delightfully insightful.

@YBAngry 7 ай бұрын

Thank you Sir! I thought it was important to give people an idea of how much of a difference this could make in the world. Thanks for commenting.

@joshuabonnell1987 6 ай бұрын

It's all about communication, and sadly, some lack of communication, that's why I have remained single for over 5½ years. I'm big on communication. Communication is key

@YBAngry 5 ай бұрын

Hey Josua, I have coached more than a few couples that stated they were good in the communication department, but playing the game made them realize otherwise. They would have to repeat steps in the process of multiple times because they were not being as clear as they thought.

@user-wx8uq4hj4n 9 ай бұрын

Wow incredible

@YBAngry 7 ай бұрын

Thank you!! Please share!!

@helenbrown5599 5 ай бұрын

This is an amazing technique

@YBAngry 5 ай бұрын

Absolutely!! Please spread the word!!

@user-fc4ji7hb4x 8 ай бұрын

Nice talk. I enjoyed the topic. Where do we find the game? I’d like to learn more. I liked the example of your parents. 😊

@YBAngry 7 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching and taking the time to leave a comment.

@Letimota66 9 күн бұрын

Sorry , it was my phone . Had to go to settings and adjust 😂

@yovrajsinghh 9 ай бұрын

Greatest speech ❤❤❤

@commander_lactose7372 19 күн бұрын

i have done everything he has said step by step with my partner and tehy refuse to communicate reasons why they feel the way they do, what can i do im trying so hard....

@lizi.2503 16 күн бұрын

I feel like we didn’t fully heal before we fell in love and the question is why our discernment is a muck, why didn’t we realize during the love bomb that they would become bitter, jealous, lazy?! I’m with you, we will prevail. You and I learned soooo much having this self awareness for ourselves and our loved ones. You are an empath. You are gifted. Never be defeated by a narcissist.

@sunsetatshabooms4558 9 ай бұрын

Video starts at 2:28

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Nahhhhh, the video starts at 00:00. We need people to think of the possibilities. The world need hope.

@sandipagrawaltalks 6 күн бұрын

👍

@KANA-rd8bz 9 ай бұрын

thats my boy there

@YBAngry 7 ай бұрын

I'm trying to make things happen. Thank you!!

@claudiafitzzpatrck6334 6 ай бұрын

I really thinks this works. I think me and my boyfriend will try it. I really believe in it

@YBAngry 6 ай бұрын

It absolutely works!! You'll see.

@diyingsugapetoria3140 9 ай бұрын

❤

@YBAngry 5 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@likejane 9 ай бұрын

So, we need to write the issue

@YBAngry 6 ай бұрын

Yes, after you agree on an issue to settle you will put it in writing. This serves as a reminder and helps you remain focused on the issue.

@diaryofawimpycollegegirl5149 Ай бұрын

How do you use this technique with someone who gets mad and drained from talking about problems someone who would rather sweep them under the rug and act like they don’t exist rather than fix them? How do I get them to a point where they actually want to discuss it without making their anxiety rise and then feel attacked

@YBAngry Ай бұрын

The game provides the structure and environment to take care of all that.

@lizi.2503 16 күн бұрын

I’m in this situation and I think the other person in our lives needs healing. I really think they refuse to face the pain that they’ve been inflicted with and we, as lovers are held to an expectation that we will distract them, make a new life / family, make it all better. NO!!!! We must ALL face our pasts and realize the role we played, forgive the role others played, recognize the lesson from the experience and move forward towards our personal goals one determined step at a time. Never alone. I hear YOU. ❤

@YBAngry 5 күн бұрын

@@lizi.2503 Well said. Keep in mind that playing the game will allow you to have the calm clear conversation that puts you on the right track.

@CorbinB-Rax 2 күн бұрын

TEAL SWAN. < watch her ADAM LANE SMITH You're dealing with an AVOIDANT. You have to know this.

@BLOODFART309 9 ай бұрын

Rod, you broke the code to understand women and cause communication. Nobel prize should go to you sir!

@YBAngry 7 ай бұрын

Nobel Prize!!!! That's a great idea, but for that to happen we have a big impact on the world. You can help me by sharing this video. Thank you!

@hanson3637 9 ай бұрын

Please upload a video in each day

@poshiwizzy 9 ай бұрын

Second to comment lol Now let’s watch🤭

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing!!

@user-ud6vi2qp8h 9 ай бұрын

How it can help me to make my boyfriend find a job? He doesn't work for 8 years, and I asked him to help me to provide us money many times. My back hurts because I have a heavy job, I didn't have free week for years.

@YBAngry 6 ай бұрын

If you play the game, it will help him understand you. It makes him use active listening.

@cosmologybey0 3 ай бұрын

When two or more people argue, they are actually fighting each other. Just that it is not a physical fight that they're having. but a neurological fight.

@YBAngry 3 ай бұрын

@cosmologybey0 I never thought of it that way. Nicely said.

@NitinSingh-ur5iq 9 ай бұрын

I'm single but preparing😊

@YBAngry 8 ай бұрын

Knowing this process will save you loads of frustration and pain.

@VesMe-wj1oh 2 ай бұрын

Except that written communication has shortcomings too. You may read the statements of your partner with an annoyed, angry, accusing voice creating the opposite situation if what he demonstrated.

@johnrainsman6650 7 ай бұрын

You gotta control your cool as best as possible. I know this from experience. My project partner was in my face about negligently forgetting a few important things for our project, and we failed. Yes, it was my fault and he was right, but still, I couldn't tolerate this fact and his criticism, so I snapped, "At least I'm not on the spectrum." He looked so petrified when I said that. I realized that was a terrible thing to say. He won't talk to me. Is it that wrong to address someone's ASD to their face?

@YBAngry 7 ай бұрын

One of the reasons couples have said this game works so well is because the game removes emotions from the process. We are much less resourceful when we are angry. Thank you for watching and commenting. Please share.

@YBAngry 6 ай бұрын

Did you and your partner get over the issue of you yelling about the spectrum?

@johnrainsman6650 6 ай бұрын

No. Was it that bad, acknowledging their disorder?@@YBAngry

@YBAngry 6 ай бұрын

@johnrainsman6650 You were not acknowledging it. You used it as an insult and you know it. You said you snapped.

@johnrainsman6650 6 ай бұрын

@@YBAngryOkay, I admit it. I think people with ASD are lesser. And that they even defy the whole "normal is subjective" philosophy. Is that so wrong?

@latisamcallister6938 8 ай бұрын

Awesome 👏 Thank you for your boldness. What an innovative way to save relationships. Continue in your creativity.

@YBAngry 8 ай бұрын

Thank you!!

@RizwanMujawar 9 ай бұрын

Try handing down a notebook and pen to angry woman. I am sure a paper shredder would fail in front of the job she would do to that notebook.

@YBAngry 7 ай бұрын

Nope, it works!!! Of course it works much better if you have the actual game.

@ditafadhilah5214 9 ай бұрын

Subtitle please

@anddygalarza2337 9 ай бұрын

Please!

@MarkozArte Ай бұрын

OK so you telling me. that the moment a disagreement starts, I should tell my wife, honey lets write down our disagreements and then talk it over. She would just ignore me and continue being angry.

@nnnn-hh6hx 5 ай бұрын

wactj this wid ur significant other ❤

@YBAngry 2 ай бұрын

Yes, please share with other people you want to have peace in their relationship. Thank you!

@insafinsaf180 9 ай бұрын

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

42 what?

@celestialcircledance Ай бұрын

Because I'm on my period lol . Sometimes it can't be reasoned away .

@YBAngry Ай бұрын

You'll be surprised!!! This approach has power.

@Letimota66 9 күн бұрын

Dude! You talk so fast and you sound robotic

@ajaysivaramakrishnan7283 8 ай бұрын

Introducing a n gry bi rd /

@YBAngry 8 ай бұрын

Angry Bird? No one gets angry while playing YBAngry.

@YBAngry 6 ай бұрын

Noooooooooooo, this is not angry bird. I hope this conflict resolution process get s popular as that Angrybird game.

@tiagogchannel 9 ай бұрын

I thought I was going to see something interesting and he starts discriminating a bunch of people, wtf?

@YBAngry 8 ай бұрын

What do you mean? Where is the discrimination?

@kingdomofgodiswithinyouBling 9 ай бұрын

Don't

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

Don't what! It works!

@kingdomofgodiswithinyouBling 9 ай бұрын

@@YBAngry just don't argue...

@seanleaf3165 9 ай бұрын

Women will not listen.

@circa1890 9 ай бұрын

Sounds more like you may not be choosing the right type of women.. 😏

@canadiangemstones7636 9 ай бұрын

Glad to see Bill Cosby is back, educating the youths.

@jumpyonthehill 8 ай бұрын

It don't work on narcissist

@YBAngry 8 ай бұрын

I believe it does work on narcissist.

@YBAngry 6 ай бұрын

I think I have recorded a couple narcissist. The process will work.

@bukurie6861 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for interesting video❤😍🫠🌏🪬

@YBAngry 9 ай бұрын

You are welcome!

@larryjeter177 9 ай бұрын

Surprisingly enough. I’ve see the after affects of this game/system. It it’s worked wonders, when the relationship is the goal.

@YBAngry 8 ай бұрын

Exactly, it's not a game where you can win alone. The relationship has to win or you both lose.