You know what's crazy? I've been using your methods and advice... IT WORKS!!!!!!! LMFAO!!!!! IT FREAKIN WORKS!!!!!!
@ApolloniaPonti5 жыл бұрын
HAHA. Awesome!
@marcog8325 жыл бұрын
Agreee
@imdudhoque55595 жыл бұрын
LMFAO means?
@funnyjonny97845 жыл бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti honestly you are so beautiful.
@imsundered61765 жыл бұрын
Martyn Watson It means “laughing my f***ing ass off”
@djefardeur79584 жыл бұрын
Rule number 0: Come as you are and if she doesn't like it, then walk away!
@t193u4 жыл бұрын
djef ardeur -Period!!
@neverstopaskingwhy19344 жыл бұрын
Even if ur a nice guys ur brain is wired to be horny around girl so u need to fully control ur hornyness hope that help you out see her as person with no sexual desire ya im just copy pasting this helpful comment here so people see it and get help
@onegodyeshua99224 жыл бұрын
Facts.
@obedmadimbatshitende78534 жыл бұрын
NeverStopAskin tru
@niceguy4914 жыл бұрын
Well said
@peeteepaablo85224 жыл бұрын
So basically: be yourself, do whatever makes you happy, don't change for anyone and stay single - got it!👌🏾
@andreiuscoleman24754 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@noobsaibot85323 жыл бұрын
LMFAO 🤣💯💯
@rollingekko6143 жыл бұрын
Lol 💯
@DALivi-dc7jz3 жыл бұрын
Basically 😂
@stevotsux903 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@sal24174 жыл бұрын
The person that cares less about the relationship, controls the relationship
@Hashslingingslasher-2 жыл бұрын
Isn't that true ... and sad. Iv had conversations with people about it before, openly talking about this idea, in the end i dont think it changes much talking about it
@Hartholz2 жыл бұрын
True.
@tumbleweed43157 ай бұрын
It’s crazy that we have to play these games. Not my idea of a high quality relationship
@jackmiranda46084 жыл бұрын
I like being the nice guy and I like me just the way I am. That’s good enough for me. All I can say is, it’s their loss.
@johnkoci70193 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@thulasmash21953 жыл бұрын
Being nice guys we just can't help it. I guess we're the type women are meant to take advantage of.
@biteme45733 жыл бұрын
Yah...??? And thats why you don't get any pussy...
@alijawad61783 жыл бұрын
Watch the video. She said to embrace it. But basically, don’t drop your life for her. If anyone is too available, it means they don’t have a fruitful life. People who are sometimes busy seem more valuable.
@josefmuller16413 жыл бұрын
I understand this problem too well because I'm too much of a nice guy down to the core and even once could be considered the epitome of one I am sure. With enough healthy help and advice as well as the willingness and work to change You and I can change to something more ideal and we may never be perfect and it's not to change for everybody But to improve and level out ourselves which happens to be attractive and very good for a woman as well
@vectord_dream18835 жыл бұрын
Truth is that women don't know what they want...simple!
@ademolakoledowo72565 жыл бұрын
Excellent
@lyricall51585 жыл бұрын
Underrated comment 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
@Eng_Tech85 жыл бұрын
I would like to send you a check for that truth
@leewally88935 жыл бұрын
Too complicated and expect too much!
@dakingdonecome10715 жыл бұрын
Well said! 👌...
@BilalAslamIsAwesome5 жыл бұрын
1. 2:20 - Say what you want 2. 5:23 - Have goals and put yourself first 3. 7:30 - Stop always seeking approval 4. 8:50 - Face your fears and change your mindset 5. 10:22 - When you're in conversation with a woman, slow down
@AmonEKO4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for writing down here. This bitch always talk so much. Really thank you for saving my 12 minutes and learn the important parts
@kaosisonwachukwu78374 жыл бұрын
AmonEKO TV common bro why call her Bitch?
@Karansingh-mn5lp4 жыл бұрын
@@AmonEKO 😂😂😂😂
@dreamchaser10974 жыл бұрын
Amoneko tv😂🔥no filter🤜🏽
@abranisdz344 жыл бұрын
@@AmonEKO hhhh youre right bro. Hit the point
@Yeahbuddy-yf2cv4 жыл бұрын
Just got told I was hot by a girl, asked her out she said I just got out of a relationship I need to get myself back together before I date someone, a week later she’s with someone else. I swear to god I’m done being nice
@abhinavchandran68193 жыл бұрын
True
@JoseHernandez-th2ff3 жыл бұрын
Maybe that could’ve been her ex she got back with and was a bit confused at that moment
@olalerupaul3 жыл бұрын
Never date someone that just broke off a relationship
@nelsonhibbert52672 жыл бұрын
Would she have said that to Chris Hemsworth, or Henry Cavill? When women are interested they'll make it obvious and jump straight on an opportunity. She just wasn't into you. Women make rule for betas and break rules for alphas.
@cosmic687 Жыл бұрын
that happened to me! except she didn't say I was hot lol but we flirted and then I went in. silly mistake! boy am I feeling stupid now! here's what I think: men fall in to the trap very easily when lead on by the hot ones especially, and this comes down to experience. taking the bait. imo, you have to play the game for a while, as stupid as it sounds, before taking the plunge otherwise they think you are gullible and easily lead, which can also mean weak-mindedness. when they don't know you, this is a big turn off to them (unless they fall for you straight away). they like a challenge, otherwise they think they can dominate you, which in fairness in marriage, does happen a lot lol. its cat and mouse and part of the fun for them. I was told this by a female colleague, that the girl I went for wanted that game to carry on for longer before getting involved. however I think these relationships are doomed, as nothing would stop her from being with you if it were love at first sight.
@aaronjones60373 жыл бұрын
How can a nice guy not be nice! That’s why he’s nice...he’s not fake!
@enniswhalen24283 жыл бұрын
@ A J - Not to worry, they get JUST what they deserve . . . .
@soartustus4964 жыл бұрын
Simple rules 1.Make your money 2. Love yourself most 3. Don't care too much 4. Be resolve 5. Don't let her know you love her too much even if you do. 6. Women minds are in a state of confusion.
@dylansandoval29024 жыл бұрын
Straight facts 💯
@edgil83414 жыл бұрын
On the spot
@mussakaboza285hemed54 жыл бұрын
Exactly 👍
@jaimehargrove12124 жыл бұрын
My man 😎👍
@deficator7504 жыл бұрын
So stay single.
@cricket4you3305 жыл бұрын
Being single and focusing on yourself the best thing you can do! Rest will follow!😎
@EJayyDreadHead4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@litbics99654 жыл бұрын
Me: also still single 4 years later
@vintagemontage29514 жыл бұрын
You still would have yo learn how to love them...
@0Hitmanofnorway03 жыл бұрын
Doing that for 10 years now. Not helping at all. Think ill take my life soon. Im so lonely
@erindeerhart55383 жыл бұрын
@@0Hitmanofnorway0 Yeah man, it's both good and bad advice. This behavior may initially attract women, but if you don't know what to do with that attraction, then it's not going to help in the end.
@siamaknooraei8533 жыл бұрын
Women are more attracted to the idea they have of you than who you are as a person. This is what I’ve learned in my 35 years. The algorithm brought me here ;)
@gp53 жыл бұрын
1) Say what you want. This is how this worked for me: First girl - I was making the decisions, I lead the way, I want this, I don’t want that. She later complained that I was too controlling and that I should also let her have some say in things (I thought women liked men who took control) Second girl - After the first, I took it down a notch and let the second girl have her say and let her make some decisions, etc She later complained that I was the man and that I needed to make the decisions and take control. What the hell do you women want? Seriously?
@vashj2123 жыл бұрын
Have you tried to balance it? More like, controlling but also listening.. like you control her but ask her first what she wants.
@josefmuller16413 жыл бұрын
It really depends and you gotta communicate and talk things out and then decide who is good for you, you will eventually find that person and You will need to change and improve some things but generally they will be patient and not so demanding and critical
@majorgrub17303 жыл бұрын
@@vashj212 Not worth the time and energy
@kemarpalmer42023 жыл бұрын
Basically you need to just adopt the two things u said
@TuucciZ3 жыл бұрын
Almost as if women are not a monolithic entity with only a single opinion and personality
@paulgrimm78425 жыл бұрын
Never ever ask a women . Where do you want to eat. Never do it! I’ve been married 43 years and my wife still can’t answer that.
@deonj49864 жыл бұрын
Paul Grimm lol
@robjay78624 жыл бұрын
Wait a minute...why are you here? 🤔😂
@maisorobert774 жыл бұрын
@@robjay7862 good question Robert 01010101010101
@VSAK20074 жыл бұрын
You are right. They are to be led. They are their most happy when they follow.
@kingtut72134 жыл бұрын
VSAK2007 how women think, brought to you by a man lmao
@amraboulseoud4 жыл бұрын
I will not go out of my way to impress a woman , I am what I am
@mercmanmagik52504 жыл бұрын
Facts.
@TriforceOfTheGods804 жыл бұрын
Pointless anyway, why bother. Unless she has med to high interest & med to high availability, not interested.
@matsuwd-emethdaath40024 жыл бұрын
Did any of you watch the video or just reply to the title only with presumption?
@Mindbender554 жыл бұрын
Needy
@sintayehudejene16484 жыл бұрын
thank you men
@BunziD3 жыл бұрын
Be honest, Respect yourself 1st, Know you are never her "only"... Stay on your purpose. ✌🏿️❤️💪🏿
@MasterMurga3 жыл бұрын
Ma brotha
@mercadorodriguezgerson35493 жыл бұрын
"It doesn't has to be her." one of the most important advices.
@DTHUNDERDK3 жыл бұрын
That one line she just had to say 😂
@JTDyer216 жыл бұрын
The worst thing you can do is try to please a woman. It will never happen.
@jimjones71685 жыл бұрын
John Dyer you can please them by not giving a fuck about their stupid shit.
@TitanT385 жыл бұрын
Not lying man. I bent over backwards for a past girlfriend and the more I gave, the more she wanted.
@decoy26365 жыл бұрын
Never change for her. She will simply lose respect for you. If she doesn't want you as you are now, she sure will not be able to stay with you if you change, and submit to her demanding you change. Women are Narcissistic by their nature,no morals,no principles and never loyal.
@troywilson7475 жыл бұрын
The beguiling nature is that of the devil..this is what they seek...
@troywilson7475 жыл бұрын
@@TitanT38 you shouldn't bend over backwards for her or anyone
@rickrossi74265 жыл бұрын
I said what I wanted on the last 3 women relationship I was in, I told them I wanted honesty, all 3 lied to me within 4 months. Women today are not very honest and play more games than men.
@kulitsadventure74825 жыл бұрын
kenny ross heres the thing women act like nice is bad and go to another than have kids with him jalf nice guy and gets fucked when he leaves her for another. When she should of stayes with the nice guy sit on that
@nikkog39245 жыл бұрын
kenny ross You don't say
@rubenmacias10715 жыл бұрын
You are attracting those type of women.
@83thechaz5 жыл бұрын
Women are like publishing companies-send your beautifully written material and if they reject it there is always another company. After dating a “mentally fucked up woman: Borderline” I’m not afraid to say I forgot this mentality. Well from now on I’m working to get it back again.
@jamescalder51155 жыл бұрын
Then you are dating the wrong kind of women
@Intension1234 жыл бұрын
Simple rules: 1. Stop wasting your time on women. 2. Stop giving them free attention. 3. Stop validating women, by complimenting them online or offline. 4. Ignore women, stop looking at them. All they want is that sweet validation. Women never initiate contact and never put any effort. (except if you're a tall and good looking guy) So why would you? It's all one sided, having to jump through all sorts of hoops and even then it's never good enough. Just don't bother.
@dannyornelas18414 жыл бұрын
I strogly agree
@MONKEYSCHANNEL3274 жыл бұрын
Focus on your purpose or finding it.
@jakemf14 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the women of 2020
@prodigyhimself17504 жыл бұрын
What if I dont think I'm good looking and not tall, what do they want when talkin to me about their life? This is a confusing time😖😕🙃
@christophercash64863 жыл бұрын
Yes DONT bother.. if you try you’ll be rejected
@RussoOrantes32373 жыл бұрын
If a woman wants a man she's gonna be with him . The minute she gets bored of him . She dont care about how much money ,looks or success he has . That goes out the door . FACTS!!
@icetray27275 жыл бұрын
I don’t need to be rich, I don’t need to be powerful, I just need to be me. And I’ve always been proud to be me, and I never regretted being me. And that’s all I ever will be.
@edwinkarani55934 жыл бұрын
That's right..
@ms-kv7ci4 жыл бұрын
@@edwinkarani5593 and because of that you are powerfull !
@libertypltd41984 жыл бұрын
I treat her like she's replaceable, while focusing on my life! Its always kept them wanting more and on their best behaviour
@brianmars86244 жыл бұрын
Right on! Women need to be managed!
@rayj.45274 жыл бұрын
LOL. That's a smart tactic.
@duellinksrebel1434 жыл бұрын
🔑
@c78sanchez14 жыл бұрын
Why would u want a woman who settles for less?
@kwolfdan39764 жыл бұрын
And how did you do that?like it.s replaceable ?can you share some info?
@Reyvius784 жыл бұрын
*"No woman wants to have a man around that is not secure with himself"* Guess i'll just die alone lolol
@lilmighty89574 жыл бұрын
Felt
@welcometohell52334 жыл бұрын
ill stick to being a nice person. women can grow up or be ignored.
@dylanmcnaughton71894 жыл бұрын
No one is truly secure with themselves, just know what you want in life and get it. If you don't know what you want just start something and give it your all you'll fall in love with it as you go
@emanuelgarcia79462 жыл бұрын
Bro bitches be stupid assuming you insecure when In reality they the ones always wanting attention
@lywill68323 жыл бұрын
I have a lovely relationship that’s falling apart day by day because I lost my confidence and spark ⚡️ due to health and finances, I realized I’m doing all the opposite in the above and it’s making her lose interest and started talking to others, I’m going to start trying these from today and see how best it works. Watching it alone has made me feel better About myself . I will keep you updated
@blackinews98924 жыл бұрын
My father died when I was 12 yrs old, he never was able to teach me how to treat a woman and what not to do. I learned the hard way from plenty of mistakes..and dating different women.
@tevinmoss124 жыл бұрын
Same here bro
@brandonmartinez77544 жыл бұрын
What did you learn
@mxgx75084 жыл бұрын
My father is nice guy that never taught me anything ,women, work ethic, life,thank god i had a grandmother who taught me about, work ethic,and a lot about life,women well that's another story.She just said I'm going to teach you to do everything for yourself that a woman can do for you.lmao,but seriously thanks grandma
@reggiemccoy32654 жыл бұрын
Hey I Lost My Dad At Age 12 Too But My Dad Always Told Me There Are Times You Can't Trust No Women 💯
@marvelous13584 жыл бұрын
Dad didn't die. He stayed and abused every member of the family physically and emotionally. As a result I think I tend to shy away from conflict and confrontation which a strong man shouldn't. I just thank God I'm starting to realize all this shit now I'm 25 and moved out.
@WarrenGee73235 жыл бұрын
It took me years to learn the things she said in this video. I got married at 23; and did a lot of the things Apollonia said you should not do, and she is right. My wife at the time lost respect for me, and I could not understand why. Hard life lessons. As I got older my confidence grew, and I stop looking for the validation of others and women I dated became even more drawn to me. So yes; share your life, but don’t give up all your time to one person, in the long run they won’t appreciate you.
@irshaadyare9935 Жыл бұрын
Me too I married the same age with u bro and as our love we’re better I became nice guy and she completely lost but after break up I learned not to communicate a girl everytime whatevwr she is to me now no one can make sad 😂😂
@MikeSmith-fe3ng4 жыл бұрын
I never had a problem with dating and always had a girlfriend. That doesn’t mean I always knew what I was doing, hahaha. I wish I learned this back in my high school and college days. This is a true life skill that should be taught in high school or college. It’s really plain and simple. A woman wants a man to be a MAN!! A woman wants to look up to her man, not have her man looking up to her always seeking her approval and validation. This is having ALPHA qualities and CONFIDENCE. Great video Apollonia, and keep it REAL. Thank you.
@JeffersonRah Жыл бұрын
This video just told me everything i was doing. I was the nice guy. The quiet guy. Fit, nurse, passive, and went about my way. Everything said here is true.
@sanctuary83964 жыл бұрын
This video is a wonderful insight to why millions of women are going to die single.
@robertpadua60964 жыл бұрын
Lol
@jakemf14 жыл бұрын
Boom
@aizensosuke60314 жыл бұрын
So that includes mens too?? Equal proportion
@ajwalker23654 жыл бұрын
Precisely
@katrinajade55864 жыл бұрын
Hey guys don't say that
@Julio-ez2np5 жыл бұрын
I used to put her first, love her too much, then noticed I was second or fifth in her list of priorities, most women I met, maybe all. Istopped being the nice guy by experience, by learning how cold most women are, even the "good ones". They swear they are good in their own imagination though. They make you bad, they make you start watching over your shoulder, they make you be careful with them, they make you not be too good to them because at the end they be ungrateful as heck. I hate to say. You have to keep a balance
@ArthurDhillon5 жыл бұрын
Amen brother! Truth!!
@charlesfreeman33294 жыл бұрын
Great comment about stopping the nice guy routine from experience I honestly KNOW that most men change via the same way myself included
@jeremylim77784 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree with you more. I was too nice to my ex and she gradually took my niceness for granted because I was too available. We've broken up for more than a month now, and I feel good thinking how much she is missing out when she initiated the break.
@chokeonthis29324 жыл бұрын
Real shit, but it's the design of the 20th-21st century, there is no equality on Earth in any shape and form, and men never used to complain about these things because you just take the woman you want and then you both know your place, but we give them too much now and they keep wanting more.
@deficator7504 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t have said it better bro. Women really teach men that being nice will make them disrespect you. Period i have experienced it myself.
@viallymboma98743 жыл бұрын
Well...what most ladies on KZfaq adverts wanna explain only after you have purchased their coaching program, you you have clearly and very well simply explained it...👌...thanks
@romeosantiago96712 жыл бұрын
Everyone needs to listen to Apolloia’s advise. These are jewels of knowledge. And when I say; “everyone” I’m also talking about women too. Because too many women play childish shenanigans. They’re the type of women that watch their potential knight in shining armour walk away, only to be replaced by a loser in aluminium foil
@suryakantsingh18635 жыл бұрын
1. express clearly what u want(tricky) 2.dont be always available(for respect and shit) 3.dont seek validation(appears insecure or something) 4.face ur fears( so u appear masculine and mysterious lol) 5.dont talk too much and too fast(I agree with this one)
@theoracle21795 жыл бұрын
When I get a girlfriend that’s when all the friend zone girls act interested in me.
@RatedPG644 жыл бұрын
Don’t fall for it!
@Angelica._.officalll4 жыл бұрын
Yes, they play mind games. When I was in my early 20s I was sprung on this one girl at my job, but in her severe friend zone, so much so that I could never muster the guts to share my feelings (we were both bank tellers). But she knew how I felt. One day she told me that one of her friends liked me. Then she told me that if I ever got with the friend, nothing could ever happen between her and I. And I...... fell for it. lol I should have talk to the friend but never did. Now I regret the opportunity lost. And to make matters worse, she ended up sleeping with one of MY friends. What a great woman, eh!? What. A. SUCKER. I. was. You can't make this stuff up.
@classicslayer4564 жыл бұрын
They dont want you they just want your attention dont fall for it bro.
@nycholaus4 жыл бұрын
I only tried it once, but found it is true that wearing a wedding ring makes other women hit on you.
@shidbufu25644 жыл бұрын
😀
@bishopwalton31224 жыл бұрын
I'd rather be single than stop being who i am. (Nice guy)
@mdotbeedot3 жыл бұрын
You can be that, just as long as you're assertive and not too much of a pushover.
@CosmicHarmony583 жыл бұрын
@@mdotbeedot Exactly.
@deanwongonline4 жыл бұрын
I like your insights Apollonia, very practical and profound. Everything starts in the mind and most men give away their power to women when they lose their way and forget their true purpose, always remain true to yourself and your ideals.
@Dsinkz5 жыл бұрын
If a woman limes a bad guy over a nice guy, then they will only learn the hard way If a woman is attracted to negativity then she may have issues that may relate to her childhood or something A true partner will accept u for who u are
@hilsonvision15 жыл бұрын
Men, it's time to man up and handle your business and only get with women who want to add to your positive visions and goals. You can't be a leader if you aren't going anywhere! Women follow strength, bravery, and courage which is what it takes for any vision worth having. Apollonia, when you talk, it seems like you're saying what a woman like yourself, is attracted to and I can respect that. It sounds like me!
@halcioncocaine20965 жыл бұрын
Accept your childhood at your peril!
@ArthurDhillon5 жыл бұрын
Woman will adopt qualities of her man.
@rthelionheart4 жыл бұрын
I used to be a nice guy years ago. These days, I just simply don't give a rat's ass anymore.
@sonnyblack714 жыл бұрын
Believe!!!
@MA7-65854 жыл бұрын
Great.
@iJuanGutierrez3 жыл бұрын
Idk why I laughed hard @ I don’t give a rats ass anymore 🤣
@lanreoshisami89343 жыл бұрын
I do the same thing and now ladies want me to notice them.
@walterbrown29973 жыл бұрын
The Doctor Jekyll turns into mr. Hyde who disrespect women I get it
@juinxxviii6243 жыл бұрын
I’m done putting in the work and jumping through hoops and being disappointed. My life, my terms and I’m not compromising anymore.
@chrisirving8683 жыл бұрын
you saved my relationship twice, I'm the needy nice guy who waits by the phone.... i'v come along way to stay out of friend zone. I say what I want and she responds in kind
@starboy58883 жыл бұрын
Great to hear. We live and learn from our mistakes. Bad boys were once nice guys but the harsh reality taught them to unlearn the blue pilled nonsense
@gk70035 жыл бұрын
It's great to see a woman that actually speaks the truth on this. A lot of times when women give relationship advice it's crap, but Apollonia is good!
@jschultzf36 жыл бұрын
A girl I knew in college used to say “nice guy, no butterflies” for the nice guys that got dumped into friend zone
@christiansnaturestudio65995 жыл бұрын
Evil guys that put into prison for life
@paulbaransky40864 жыл бұрын
What zone were you in. I'm guessing the friend zone as she was being honest and upfront with you.
@iquan_trans99054 жыл бұрын
I WATCHED THIS VIDEO 3WEEKS AGO & I FOLLOWED THE ADVICE💘✌ ooooh no i can't believe this it just WORKED perfect thank you Apollonia
@dvanheld4 жыл бұрын
I've watched a few of your videos in their entirety and I have to say thank you so much for the great advise. I was questioning myself a lot I've the past week with what's been happening with a girl that I'm dating and didn't know if I should stand up respectfuly or gravel at this point in the relationship because she's starting to play mind games. She didnt play them in the very beginning so it really threw me for a loop that shes starting to play them a month and a half into the relationship. But like I said after watching a few videos which were all great by the way I got my answer. I love that you are straight to the point, are real and no fluff. Keep up the amazing work! 🙂
@mac1bc5 жыл бұрын
This is actually decent advice. The problem is trying this with these immature girls out there will get you nowhere. And there's a lot of them out there
@JulioCNY5 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@texasmade27195 жыл бұрын
Do not make a woman everything in your life. Have a life of your own! See other women ...dont have her be number 1 in your life. Have options. Dont care too much!
@leewally88935 жыл бұрын
Very true !
@leewally88935 жыл бұрын
Very true
@gamingsoul03995 жыл бұрын
Because we are busy being number 1 FOR A WOMAN AND NOT OURSELF.
@tomlee62635 жыл бұрын
Yup
@matthewevans10925 жыл бұрын
Bingo
@jtbatista3 жыл бұрын
I've been all these flaws with the exception of needy. Never was and never will be. But I have been the type to drop what I am doing, focus a bit more on taking her out etc and making plans etc. Try my best to be there etc, Still got dumped after a year and a half together in a freaking pandemic lmao. Why? Most women, not all, are so impatient. Working on stability as usual, but women seem to want full products. Even if some say they don't but you guys mostly do!!!! Lmao Anyways, I appreciate this segment. Taught me a lot to basically do me and put myself first.
@chrisjames97374 жыл бұрын
I haven't seen any woman who likes the truth they love players
@Deephouse_Gent664 жыл бұрын
AGREE, bruh! I'm 53, and in my experience very few women accept a man for who he truly is, largely b/c most women come into it with a preconceived idea in their head of how they feel a man should be, or what they believe a man is.
@drjohnsonhungwell51154 жыл бұрын
Same here I don't even bother with them it's a waste of time let them go find the dirtbags of their dreams.
@norsegamingtv16864 жыл бұрын
@@drjohnsonhungwell5115 True! I have been on a few dates and from my experiences women don't really like it if you were married before for some reason it's a turn off for them. Hell I lied once and this girl literally told me lying leads to cheating. I'm like shit, so you tell them the truth you are a red flag, if you lie you are a red flag.
@jakemf14 жыл бұрын
Boom
@emmanuelamissah91314 жыл бұрын
Yeah majority of women like players
@TooToo2465 жыл бұрын
How about we swap roles? I don't do shit, and if the woman likes me, then it's her job to attract me!....Stop chasing women guys, I've been doing it for the past two years and it worked wonders...Of course when you do that you can't choose tail, tail chooses you, but hey, the quality of tails gets better with time as you get more confident
@enniswhalen24285 жыл бұрын
@Mic Rophone - From what I have seen, more and more guys are just sitting back,waiting for women to approach THEM, so they can at least know that the woman is actually interested.
@VikCalo5 жыл бұрын
Guys just be a man. Don't be afraid to say no. If you have no drama. Be cool. But just know your not for everybody. And avoid women that aren't reciprocating the same interest. Some women want what they can't have.... Peace
@paullolows15965 жыл бұрын
You are the man. Liked what you said in your last sentence
@halcioncocaine20965 жыл бұрын
Force her to reciprocate 😮😁🙀
@ArthurDhillon5 жыл бұрын
My boy told me this about women. We men also want what we can't have. Never thought about the opposite. Thanks brother!! Stay woke.
@hirobrin54363 жыл бұрын
I have never seen a woman so brave and honest in treating a delicate topic with simplicity and efficiency. God bless you apollonia, you are a gem💎💎💎
@ApolloniaPonti3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@francescofashionconsultant46593 жыл бұрын
Thanks for these precious suggestions ..really helpful! We kind of know them but we forget and don't consider reality 😊
@kenneycooper61995 жыл бұрын
I'm from Georgia and it's amazing how many beautiful women in Atlanta choose to be with a thuggish man or someone who disrespects her over someone who would respect her and treat her like a lady. I don't have anything against the thug life, not hatin' at all. It appears that Apollonia is right, their self esteem must be low.
@movie300004 жыл бұрын
What's important is not to become one of those men. The woman with a weak psychology is second's away from falling to another hand.
@alukoboluwatife20404 жыл бұрын
Really that sucks
@Deephouse_Gent664 жыл бұрын
Trust me bruh, it's the same in Chicago, and probably anywhere that thug life and drug dealers exist.
@GleckODunn4 жыл бұрын
It's not always the "thuggish" ones who disrespect women. That's a stereotype. Sometimes it's the one with money, because.like many other materials in their life, they're replaceable to them.
@taolang10894 жыл бұрын
Kenny Cooper, yeah man I totally agree with you man. That's right! I can't change of who I am because I'm really a nice guy that's respects women, I respect them on everyday basis and that's all but I don't treat them like Goddesses. I'm just on my own way. I stopped dating for 15 years. I learned my lessons. Women don't want Nice Guys but they want assholes and dickheads. That's why I seperates myself from others, the only time I need women is only for pleasure that's all. But for everyday basis I don't don't talk to them if it's not a related matters about my works, because I'm a Licensed Contractor and a Handyman I met a lot of women everyday as my customers/clients, most of them are single moms, widowed wives, divorced wives, and some cheater wives but hell I don't give a damn about them! What I really give a damn about is what I came for, and that's to fix their Houses, do maintenance repairs, and building, home improvement stuffs I'll do it and work on it and gets paid and get the fuck out of there.
@nightlifeking5 жыл бұрын
Took me 10+ years and thousands of dollars lost to figure all this out. My top issues were not putting my priorities first, as much as your girl talks about spending all this time with you, don't get comfortable and leave your friends and personal hobbies and goals to the side. Those are the things that make you interesting and keeps her on her toes. She'll just end up losing respect for you. In your head you're thinking "chick I gave all this up for you" don't do it! The other was putting women on some unearned pedestal. Women are insecure and craving validation just like men, when you stop putting beautiful women on pedestals they'll start dating you. Secret tip to this. Actually make friends with beautiful women (don't try to date them) when you start being around them more you'll realize how Normal they are. You can then use your beautiful friends to be your social proof. You can meet their friends or they will make your dates jealous. Good luck fiyz
@ArthurDhillon5 жыл бұрын
Never EVER leave your homeboys for pu$$$yyy
@troywilson7475 жыл бұрын
What kind of bullshit is that?..a real man needs no proof cause there is nothing to prove.. And fuck making anyone jealous..That's the mentality of a woman
@ARKIMM4 жыл бұрын
I use this METHOD ALL THE TIME 🙂🙂.
@KpxUrz57452 жыл бұрын
I learned the truth of what you say from reading a nonfiction book, where the author was a scam artist (art forger), and lived a very edgy existence in Manhattan, and he hung out with gorgeous models who also lived that same existence! He was no hunk or prize, but got them all in bed as part of his daily life (all residents in the same east side flophouse hotel).
@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 Жыл бұрын
Why would you make girls your friends bro? I did that in high school when I was actually cool with them but now as a adult I can’t that happening maybe
@thegodfather19074 жыл бұрын
First you make the money, then you get the power, then when you get the power, you get the woman.
@iJuanGutierrez3 жыл бұрын
I agree, woman want to go on an adventure they don’t want to be the adventure.
@ShadowNash108 Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad to have a copy of Dr. Robert Glover's book No More Mr Nice and this book changed my life.
@chrissalley94686 жыл бұрын
Its easy to not be the "nice" guy. Just don't do ridiculous favors that they ask unless you are in a relationship with them. Be respectful but protect your time and resources. I guarantee that you will find out everything you need to know
@leewally88935 жыл бұрын
Do not worship them or beg them or be controlled by them!
@motivationlectures70784 жыл бұрын
_1.Say what you want.(Dont hesitate) 2.Have Goals,Put yourself First always. 3.Not always Seek Approval/Validation 4.Face your Fears/Fix them & confident 5.Slow & steady conversations thanks._
@AlexAlex-mh8je4 жыл бұрын
I love your videos. You are clearly better than most of the PUA and others who make this kind of videos.
@michealemmanueln.98522 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more with tip number four."face your fears"..it works just perfect
@youtubewatcher69534 жыл бұрын
Anybody else tired of jumping through hoops just because you want someone beautiful in your life?
@catsung58844 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️😃
@Deephouse_Gent664 жыл бұрын
I don't need a beautiful perfect '10', I'm totally happy with a very confident and down-to-earth '5.'
@pr0faker4 жыл бұрын
if you are looking for someone 'beautiful' instead of someone that loves you good luck finding that mystery unicorn as a normal person.
@Gravitywalker204 жыл бұрын
Light the hoops on fire, and watch them burn. Stop wasting your time with women. Your life will be better for it.
@jeradblazek6774 жыл бұрын
@@pr0faker beauty is in the eye of the beholder, firstly. Secondly, there's no indication that what he meant was physical beauty. Someone who loves you, respects you and supports you is beautiful, regardless of looks. Someone whose secure in themselves, authentic, easy going is also beautiful, regardless of looks. Beauty isn't a one dimensional diamond my friend.
@Prodibber5 жыл бұрын
Hands down the most informative & BEST 12min video i’ve ever seen. I feel like a new man already. You are 100% on point and made me realise, damn, i was doing so much shit wrong
@calvindthao952 жыл бұрын
I’m excited for the future, thank you for always giving solid advice!
@ApolloniaPonti2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching! You are always welcome!
@DanielSmith-np4fe3 жыл бұрын
WOW👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾.....that was fantastic!!....I'm a man at the age of 62, knowing some things and willing to receive others!.... I'm glad GOD has brought your teaching my way.😀👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾......I fill blessed!! I see the ares were I need to grow in, and quite frankly I'll be loving the opertunity to do so!....We men need it lke u share it!!.... Keep up the good wrk ...and I plan to keep listening, thanks again....Danie! P.S. Will be getting some of ur material!!!..☺😊
@kerryfoster15 жыл бұрын
Yes do not give up fishing, football, computer games, reading, going round your friends. In fact anything you enjoy doing without her. You NEED your own time and space, and that will make you more valuable as an individual. Do not be afraid to say NO!
@jackdaniels26575 жыл бұрын
She thinks we can read her mind. The truth is women always contradict themselvs
@halcioncocaine20965 жыл бұрын
The truth will contradict itself🙈😍
@hypernel17984 жыл бұрын
@@halcioncocaine2096 what do you mean
@realtruth974 жыл бұрын
They want you to be perfect. They want the secret mind telepathy conversations. They want you to have money. They want you to be full of muscles. They thinks they deserve everything, but never want to put in any work.
@TheThetaMan4 жыл бұрын
@@realtruth97 facts
@michaelsanchez84573 жыл бұрын
I got the message. Stop being nice. So, I saw this woman carrying a bag, and she was struggling. I thought about stopping to help her, and then I realized, that would be nice. It was a great feeling just driving on and having a great day. It's very freeing.
@CosmicHarmony583 жыл бұрын
Lmfao, I think you got it twisted 😂 But I get your joke
@mazenl73383 жыл бұрын
This is not just a video for getting views for money This is really good And btw tip no.4 is genius You are really good . Thanks
@TheDumontShow5 жыл бұрын
This woman is correct. Keep it 100 with all of them. When you are older, you don't have tine to beat around the bush. You gotta do what you gotta do for you and she has to respect that
@dalion77905 жыл бұрын
I'm a woman who dates a woman and got to say WOMEN ARE WORK! I say just be yourself love yourself and let her be added happiness and second to you!
@B8AL10N4 жыл бұрын
stfu....you have no say in this....
@Machaoo4 жыл бұрын
hey thank you so much for this amazing video and it really helps
@EnlightenedMaster_Saneiv3 жыл бұрын
When I found out that ALL women ( in my opinion), have "Daddy Issues" ( which can be extremely positive experiences or extremely negative experiences with their Father , or somewhere between those two extremes ), it was a huge breakthrough for me. I'm 65, and I am not good looking, I would definitely not be attractive to a woman based on a possible financial benefit to them, etc. I've been told that I have an honest, straight-forward, dominant "vibe" ( and I think a lot of women pride themselves on their intuition, whether it is right or wrong ), I cannot go into public, grocery store, etc. without making a strong connection with a woman, including if my (30 year younger) girlfriend is just 1 aisle over from me when I'm shopping. It is worse when they see you with an attractive young woman...for some reason they think it is open season for hitting on you, and if my girlfriend sees it, it makes me look like a "player", which I am definitely not. I couldn't even offer a date a ride in a nice car ( 20 year old used car ), and I don't own my own home ( primarily from a divorce), I'm on social security, so I really know it's not related to money. A "date" for me is Pizza and then home to TV ( but I am open to a lot of good conversation )..now the problem is, how do I give off the opposite "vibe" without having to say a word to these women that are interested in me ? It is putting a strain on my current relationship. Sometimes to me it boggles my mind about "why" ? are they attracted ???...I have girls attracted to me who are very beautiful, very intelligent, very high IQ, beautiful runway model who was 25, etc. etc...( FYI, these qualities are usually not in the same woman )....I guess it's delusional, but I actually think that if given a little time that there isn't a woman that I couldn't attract, as long as she is single, and it's difficult to get that attitude out of my head... The point of this comment is not to brag about my exploits, but just to offer another opinion, that I have no "game", I have no "pick up lines", etc. etc...to encourage other men to just be yourself as your first priority.
@Marty074555 жыл бұрын
Good advice honestly. I've been friend zoned one too many times and now I'm just gonna focus on myself, do my thing, and not try to chase after women. One girl I had a crush on even flat out said this to me..."you must not get laid very often...you're a super nice guy". All I thought was wow, that definitely validated the fact that women actually think that. Needless to say I definitely stopped talking to her cuz I learned I had zero chances with her lol But it was definitely an eye opener at the same time. Stop being the Nice Guy!
@philmatoph4 жыл бұрын
damn.
@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 Жыл бұрын
@@philmatophthat’s crazy
@SuperPoshposh4 жыл бұрын
Confident women don't need assurance. The biggest problem nowadays is women are confused, clueless, We men don't have time for your insecurities.
@jamesarmstrong90423 жыл бұрын
Yes
@josefmuller16413 жыл бұрын
It honestly goes both ways
@bTwice2x3 жыл бұрын
Say it again 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@thechrisshow94763 жыл бұрын
These are like training tips for your dog. Just be who you are fellas and live your life how you see fit. It’s good being single.
@isaiahdrye2184 жыл бұрын
You don’t have to be a douchebag to get the girl. Just approach her with confidence and assume she likes you already. However, putting yourself first is always the best option 🔥
@CosmicHarmony583 жыл бұрын
Bruh, exactly!! I use this pick up line on woman all the time and it works 70 percent of the time.. "Aaaaaaaaaye my future ex wifey! take care of you for only 2 years of your lifeeeeey!" 😂 The majority of them literally think it's funny and they go along with it.. And than I'm in 😆 No friend zone for me bro, I'm in a relationship now cause of it
@ApolloniaPonti6 жыл бұрын
Do you have a question about being the "nice guy"? Ask below...
@bobbymitchell82736 жыл бұрын
I have 2 tell u i am so taken with u your over all and all around speaking skills they are astonishingly relevant and that's hard 2 accomplish or fake. U are the real deal and that is so attractive as well i am now a queen ponti groupie lol. That's just jokes but i truly have real respect 4 u dear lady !!
@thecastle096 жыл бұрын
how do i say no to my ex wife?? always askingfor money etc....ugh.
@Benny.136 жыл бұрын
Apollonia Ponti are you single!?
@MrSpeedsta6 жыл бұрын
I can validate with some of your points but tbh the majority of the topics you brought up all are obvious things to do. No matter if we are brutally honest, and 100% straight forward and tell the chick whats up its ultimately the chick who gets the say so if she wants you or not. I’m supposed to be okay with a chick not texting me for 4 days to a whole week or two and not ask hey why are you not hitting me up and she says, oh you’re too overwhelming like wtf. You got to show a girl you don’t give a fuck about her in order to be with her like wtf lmao ass backwards female logic.
@martymar69316 жыл бұрын
Naw she's married bro.
@realiztik66705 жыл бұрын
Rule 1 don't be a sucka
@jimjones71685 жыл бұрын
sami sadler you show any real kindness to women they will destroy you.
@iamr44za5 жыл бұрын
@@abryepenez124 I should've read your comment way before. Too late now
@BihFaca115 жыл бұрын
Jim Jones exactly. Just be a savage bro. Even if you hurting inside Don’t Don’t ever never show it, if you gotta cry go for a good drive but don’t ever let then know you bothered no matter the case .
@abrahamj51315 жыл бұрын
Don’t get too attached*
@ArthurDhillon5 жыл бұрын
Too many simps out there.
@lkshpnd693 жыл бұрын
Being honest.. Means a true friend.. Helping her always..
@KpxUrz57452 жыл бұрын
Your channel is much appreciated. I wish this (and the internet, for that matter) was available back when I really needed it more. No one can imagine this, but back through college I did not even have a landline telephone; all I did was work, and there was just no way to have any social life. That's a far cry from every 8 year old now demanding a cellphone. And now for the more important thing I wanted to say: You are truly blessed with one of the most beautiful names (first AND surname) that I have ever heard!
@RichardBorrowsPhotography5 жыл бұрын
Facing a fear was the best one.
@andrecameron31305 жыл бұрын
Growing up in Jamaica I never knew it was possible to be too nice.
@ApolloniaPonti5 жыл бұрын
Jamaica, I spent some time there on a missions trip and also have Jamaican in my family so I know what you mean here. :)
@andrecameron31305 жыл бұрын
Glad fi hear dat . ha mi fi tel yu
@rohansimpson96055 жыл бұрын
Yardie in the house
@andrecameron31305 жыл бұрын
@@SirBrucie you done know
@fatboy198315 жыл бұрын
Jamacan women can be very loud and angry. They are almost always sweethearts if you offer just a little kindness. Many Jamacan women have never even experienced kindness in in quantity.
@n.romaphoenix7.t.7513 жыл бұрын
Dear Appolonia Ponti you rock! I mean you nailed it! I do like the way you've handle this topic because it's a fact. Right now I found many good tips in your video.. I'm your fan from Atlanta Georgia USA. Thank you so much
@paulpainter49394 жыл бұрын
Love your take on things. I already know most of what you're advising, I just can't stick to it when I should. Been separated 2 1/2 yrs. but always staying true to each other. She blocked me and all that for about the 3rd time shortly after I went to her in the hospital and got her prescriptions for her that she asked me to get. Been acting weird every since but back in touch again with new phone number and seemed like getting back on track. After having breakfast together twice and a lunch at one of our favorite places that I paid for but had to leave before we ate because my father fell and needed me to help him up.(that sucked!) Thought that was really going to be my chance. She wouldn't go out with me or do anything on the weekends so I asked point blank what was up? Just be honest, was there someone else? She said yes that she has been seeing someone. I'm destroyed! I'm lost and dying 💔 and if and when we talk now she talks to me like she hates me and always has to hang up instead of having a serious conversation. She's killing me! Mentally, emotionally and yes...even physically! Your thoughts would be greatly appreciated and thank you in advance. 🤮🙏
@morgancarlos94714 жыл бұрын
I know of someone who can help you restore your lover back
@tonysteel13775 жыл бұрын
Relationships are overrated; nothing but games and Jedi mind tricks. So pleased that I'm content at being single. Any standup man who looks halfway decent, and has above average numbers, will never have an issues with landing various women. Single life certainly works for me; I'm only bothered when I wanna be! Quite frankly, I value money over p*ssy.
@Rivs51175 жыл бұрын
Just be yourself. It's crazy how you have to act totally different just to get some woman's attention. Focus on getting money and traveling the world. The right woman will come into your life if she wants to build something with you.
@lunalynd4 жыл бұрын
My wife just passed away, I am now 66 still in good health,house is paid for. Don't have plans to be with anyone else for now. But I really would like to learn how to be happy and content being single. I think this time around the woman will have to come to me, and if that doesn't happen so be it. I want to travel and enjoy whatever time I have left;and just play my guitar.
@dipolelodipolelo792 жыл бұрын
Brutally correct
@George-um2rt2 жыл бұрын
What’s worse we consciously took the word nice and made it something bad, it’s not even like it’s some weird confusion nobody notices it’s right in front of us. People even say “but… but…. nice guys aren’t nice they have expectations!” Yea, that’s why “nice” should stop getting attached to the common descriptor term for that type of man. Yet here we are doing anything but that.
@stanyganyani18454 жыл бұрын
I'm loving this, putting it to work ASAP.
@sudiptochoudhury9904 жыл бұрын
To cut the long story short first learn to love yourself then think about someone else👍
@crtv36965 жыл бұрын
I've never dated and I'm 33, I'm definitely listening tho.
@davidharris87974 жыл бұрын
CR TV dude contact me immediately
@dur-durmediagroup37524 жыл бұрын
Wtf is wrong with you Don’t shy women say what you want
@lombebwalya12654 жыл бұрын
Bro...
@alexmacias12344 жыл бұрын
my guy
@zrugel4 жыл бұрын
yeah, I'm 33 and I've only dated once. we should hang out.
@robertbrozewicz80033 жыл бұрын
Excellent. You Apollonia make me feel that finally I can understand so much more about women and myself Relationships and life.
@mikechilundu99573 жыл бұрын
Wow thank you so much.I hope I will be a different person from now onwards
@clashkid835 жыл бұрын
So... don't be yourself, jump through hoops, play mind games. Thanks for the advice.
@keviscold4 жыл бұрын
@Sunday Dunaway Who is we?
@jakemf14 жыл бұрын
Lol
@dalkeiththomas93523 жыл бұрын
That's it right there ^
@datstovey3 жыл бұрын
That's how you get women
@writer82974 жыл бұрын
I have a group of friends.. I'm an ass with them, pretty mean, (mean cause im naturally like that not following anyones advice) NONE of the women like me.. meanwhile there is one friend whos extremely nice with them and gets all their attention.. everyone likes a nice guy including women, what this videos dont tell you is that being the asshole technique only works on certain women.. women who are not worth a single second of your attention, youre better off being nice to women and finding a gal who would love the real you and respect you.
@jakemf14 жыл бұрын
Yah the bad boys of the world disagree! It has been proven over and over the less you care the more they do the.
@deniahmadhendra88422 жыл бұрын
Apollonia Ponti is one of my best coach in relationship.
@peterpalashevky74233 жыл бұрын
Apollonia: what is that awful weather outside your window all the time? (Laughter)
@ceciliapena32943 жыл бұрын
It’s a beautiful view. It over looks the port of Miami. It’s posted in July (hurricane season)
@continuouswave346 жыл бұрын
This has worked well for me because it was true: “I think there is a spark between us, and I want to find out more. I’m thinking X PM, X night, X restaurant.” And if she is hesitant, ask what do we have to lose. If she says no, say “too bad, I thought we could have had something” and walk away. Now some women like to play hard to get, you are on your own on that, I never play that.
@ApolloniaPonti6 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! Exactly!!!! You got this! -Apollonia
@AlexanderLodge-he3fq Жыл бұрын
I'M GLAD THAT WOMAN CAN SEE THAT I AM WORKING ON MYSELF FOR THEM
@jays37103 жыл бұрын
Thank You so much Apollonia! Your Wisdom is greatly appreciated😃