HOW TO TELL IF A NARCISSIST IS LYING: Watch for THESE TELLTALE SIGNS

HOW TO TELL IF A NARCISSIST IS LYING: Watch for THESE TELLTALE SIGNS | LISA ROMANO

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3 ай бұрын

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Discover the telltale signs of narcissistic lies in this insightful video by Lisa A. Romano. Learn how to identify when a narcissist is lying by observing key behaviors and patterns. Narcissists can be difficult to spot due to their manipulative tactics and chameleon-like behavior. However, by gaining objectivity and watching for specific signs, you can uncover the truth.
Narcissists often surround themselves with those who bolster their delusions of superiority. Challenge them, and you must be prepared for their aggressive reactions.
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@jamnoise72 3 ай бұрын

Their lips are moving... LOL

@karinchristensen220 3 ай бұрын

You beat me to it.

@lovelv1278 3 ай бұрын

Exactly! Their lips are MOVING

@deb4610 3 ай бұрын

Yes!

@childofchrist7625 3 ай бұрын

Came to comment the same thing lol

@itz_kale7791 3 ай бұрын

😅

@caralee2617 Ай бұрын

Being with my ex narc for the past 8 yrs. made me observe this very pattern. I think they wanted to feel very important in a way that is disturbing. Instead of building trust with their intimate partners, they destroy the trust that they built with you (in that case lying when they tried to put you in their pedestal). Once they have a committed partner, they can’t stand being loved authentically by one person. Instead they go on and prey on other women that is susceptible to their love bombing. My ex narc was a compulsive pursuer in a relationship. He would go back and forth to the women he were involved before or try to meet women in complicated situation so that going public isn’t an option while having you as their main supply. In the end they destroy the very person that loved them. They are like toddlers testing your love for them. Showing and telling them you love them isn’t enough, they will cheat on your face to make you feel inadequate even if you are more than they deserve. They want to test your love for them so they keep hurting you and when you have enough of their abuse, you leave. Then they tell you, ‘you never loved me because you abandon me’. Well in fact it’s their actions and narcissistic behavior that made you leave or in other cases they discard you and will give silly reasons of the discard. Mine would use, ‘she’s crazy’, ‘she’s a nega-star’, ‘she insults me’, ‘she cheated on me’ et al. So with this pattern of infidelities and emotional abuse (who knows what else) it’s better to walk away. I did walk away and is now rebuilding my life with our daughter. We are struggling financially because I’m not earning enough to provide for my daughter but now we get to laugh and bring with us sunshine every day. No lies, no abuse and no fake love. We only live once, forgive yourself and move forward but never forget the lesson that narc abuse taught you. That is to respect yourself to walk away from what’s hurting and destroying you. That you deserve a life of solitude, happiness and love. Hugs*** :) Additionally I hired a private detective Barryinvestigation@gmail. com. Once I knew what the narc was up to, it got easier to get over that lying, cheating, sack of doo doo, loser. I didn’t need closure from the narc, I paid for it. Best money I EVER spent!

@Orquet-qj2nf 3 ай бұрын

1. They have consequences they want to escape. 2. They are bored. 3. It's Tuesday. 4. They are talking.

@chaoswitch1974 3 ай бұрын

Hahaha this is correct

@aprilwashington96 3 ай бұрын

😂 It’s Tuesday

@jvhobson 3 ай бұрын

They're lying if what they're saying makes them come off as very special, unfairly victimized, privy to hidden information or a combination of the above. If they fly into an abusive rage when you question any detail of what they are claiming, you've nailed it. They made it up.

@Believersundergroundinitiative 3 ай бұрын

Yes this right here

@Normalizethis 3 ай бұрын

Consistent inconsistency is who they are

@AA-wc3tw 3 ай бұрын

They are predictably unpredictable.

@lisaaromano1 3 ай бұрын

You can become a narcissist repellant and develop such self confidence, they will run from you! Ther more you know about codependency recovery, and narcissistic abuse, the more you become a narcissist repellant!

@jamnoise72 3 ай бұрын

The Lisa Romano narcissist repellent spray! I use it daily! ;)

@Yourcomputertutordotnet 3 ай бұрын

Does your advice actually work ? Or is it simply a pipe dream?

@phoenixrisin2269 3 ай бұрын

They all present differently, especially the borderline and histrionic. It’s an epidemic because of Schrodingers, betas, and social media. This society is creating monsters

@phoenixrisin2269 3 ай бұрын

They all present differently, BPD, HPD

@malibu-malik 2 ай бұрын

Yeah probably move away and don't look at me if they have any negative feelings. The ones who don't I do great with

@sunnykhan5451 3 ай бұрын

When they say I love you but their actions shows flirtings, shady as on phone etc break up to hook up with supplies then come back to rekindle, repetitive patterns gotta watch out...

@GeorgiaJakes7 3 ай бұрын

They are breathing !! 😂

@jamnoise72 3 ай бұрын

hahahaa

@francesbernard2445 3 ай бұрын

Yes. Breathing while virtue signaling when necessary. Something which my present family doctor and other doctors have to do too without them insisting on hero status always only for them getting to do so too. I don't know how or why it is that now I can sense that one of them who is at the time only a stranger to me sitting nearby based only on their body language and their speach even if that speach is being delievered to me and/or another person only in a different language which I do not understand at all.

@aprilwashington96 3 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@lisaaromano1 3 ай бұрын

Welcome Dear Ones! The better able you are to spot the patterns that indicate a narcissist is lying, the less likely they will be able to drag you into emotional dark holes! We got this!

@vickibaker8372 3 ай бұрын

Pray for Discernment !

@JRDavis-hj4si 3 ай бұрын

What people really need in this world at this time. That’s why “They” quit teaching logic, reasoning, and the scientific method. To fool, or make fools of, the masses. People have no discernment any more. You should be able to “see” better. Good vs Evil, Right vs Wrong, Threat vs Friendly. Teach your kids! They will not get this at school anymore. Tell them to believe in their gut. Help them develop that. Evil has never been more visible, yet so few can See.

@SowLoveJoyTruthLight 3 ай бұрын

@@JRDavis-hj4si they still teach those things. But it’s important to teach your kids to trust their gut, teach them to pray for guidance and protection and to trust in our lord Jesus, Heavenly Father, and Holy Spirit to guide, protect and provide.

@andreajeanneagnes9865 3 ай бұрын

"JELLO " comparison is striking. Right! Since they are regularly inconsistent and not emotionally regulated! 💯💯

@leojablonski2309 3 ай бұрын

Loved it

@sophiaandre139 3 ай бұрын

You are 59 years old! You look fantabulous! Love your channel 😊

@annemariepeterhoff7261 3 ай бұрын

You know they are lying when they open their mouth. If you have any doubts wait for the rage to start when you call them on it. They in an instant become the victim and you are turned into the abuser. They are exhausting!

@BashayG7175 2 ай бұрын

So exhausting 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

@AbstractM0use Ай бұрын

_"You know they are lying when they open their mouth"_ Only when you're wise to the fact you're dealing with a narcissist. If you're still trapped under their spell then you're too worried about trying to keep them pleased and calm. Mine was honest enough most of the time which made me think she wasn't a liar. In fact she was a pathological liar blended with enough truth to hide it well. She always turned things into being my fault and accused me of cheating and lying, when in fact it was her doing those things all along. I'll never live like that again, if I can help it.

@Believersundergroundinitiative Ай бұрын

You are not lying it's like babysitting an overgrown child with no pay whos parents taught them nothing

@VictoriaRuth8 3 ай бұрын

Someone beat me to the Punch! LOL Their Lips are Moving!!! 😂🤣😂

@giv2rcv 3 ай бұрын

Oh so right on! I just love Lisa! Wish I had her in my life 25 years ago! I had to figure it out on my own…marriage therapists didn’t even know how to put their finger on this, in the 90’s! So detrimental to relationships.

@AA-wc3tw 3 ай бұрын

It's sad how many therapists do not recognize abusive behavior and narcissism. I saw many therapists from age 20-34 (90s-2000s) and NONE of them used the words "abuse" or "narcissism", even though my NM, her behavior, and the way she treats me was a topic of convo in EVERY therapy session I have attended. Even the PhD didn't recognize it (he barely spoke at all, he was a terrible therapist). I discovered narcissism on my own, "diagnosed" my mom on my own, and brought these findings to my therapist at the time. Finally I have answers. I have known for a decade, and my life has dramatically shifted because I know WHAT my mother is and WHY she behaves the way she does and how better to handle her. Unbelievable, how inadequate the world of therapy really is......

@lisaaromano1 3 ай бұрын

You are so right, but the more knowledge we gain the less we succumb to the crazymaking.

@Mochi-fc6uy 3 ай бұрын

I definitely wish i found this behavior 20 yrs ago, would have saved me from loosing myself, iam happy atleast now i know what this behavior is and now it gives me power to control and make peace with myself

@arianasha 3 ай бұрын

@@lisaaromano1 YES !

@m.e.tuthill8874 3 ай бұрын

Trust me, therapists STILL don't get it!!

@valerieshy8749 3 ай бұрын

Daily journaling over decades has helped me so much with many things in my life including the narcissists I have had in my life.

@amandajohnson-williams7718 3 ай бұрын

Yes, I started journaling the last year of the relationship with the Narc. It really helped me to identify just how much I was being lied to by this person and make the decision to get rid of them in my life. 👍

@AbstractM0use Ай бұрын

@@amandajohnson-williams7718 I didn't keep a journal, but reading all of our texts over the last several years sort of had the same effect. There were issues I'd forgotten about, as well as many signs of her hypocrisy, verbal/emotional abuse, and gaslighting me that I didn't notice at the time. Now while reading those and knowing that she was cheating on me for much of that time helped resolve my anger and keep me in no contact mode. I'm on month 2 of no contact and still moving forward. We were together 13 years, so I'm still not completely over her, but I can tell it's getting better each day.

@glowinthadark 3 ай бұрын

I have been following you for years and years and you know what I no longer have any problems with narcissists of cut everybody out of my life and now feel completely free and at peace

@heathercurrie62 3 ай бұрын

Thank you. I was starting to feel bad about shutting my older sister out of my life. This just reinforced to me that I was right to protect myself from her in that way.

@Cnlg97 3 ай бұрын

Same. I actually had multiple instances of letting my sibling know I don’t want a relationship w/ her throughout childhood but I was already spiritually and societally guilted into the “forgive and forget” mindset. My rebellion (and power now) was NEVER forgetting (honestly never really forgiving of the actions either). I quickly learned that they can only TELL me to forget, but they can’t actually make me do it. Did that result in rumination, maybe, but at least they can’t continue dismiss my concerns for their comfort

@einstein63 3 ай бұрын

Classic responses from them......" I don't recall that.....give me one example" You give them one and they say..." that never happened" shortly followed by..."What about you, you did blah,blah.....(made up scenarios)". I think you just have to remember at all times that they are completely delusional and they can't afford to tell the truth.

@nyasharutambo2105 2 ай бұрын

Delusional always

@AbstractM0use Ай бұрын

My ex used to gaslight me and bait me into saying "I don't remember that" and then accuse me of lying because "that's one of the signs of a liar!" she'd say. 😮‍💨

@AremAsha 3 ай бұрын

And about the most stupid things. Like it’s a game to them to pull one over you, test how much you will believe.

@JRDavis-hj4si 3 ай бұрын

When they’re talking??? The funny answer. But really, When they’re being nice to you!

@Gma2aCouple 3 ай бұрын

Tired of the broken promises

@grandmais4you 3 ай бұрын

I’ve thought that exact thought that talking to a narcissist is like trying to nail jello to the wall! I was shocked to hear someone else say it! Thanks!!!

@dragonclaws9367 3 ай бұрын

He bobs and weaves in place and will monologue rapid fire as if he is manic, I call it the Watts weave. He loves lying so much he can hardly contain his glee. What comes from his mouth is me me me I I I. It's as if he is talking AT you not WITH you. It's very anxiety provoking. I journaled two years worth of his abuses to make it clear to myself and its the same awful things over and over.

@kudratbek1426 3 ай бұрын

If you remain resilient against a narcissist's attempts to trigger you and do not take the bait of their manipulative tactics, they frequently end up letting truths slip because they have been triggered themselves by their unsuccessful attempt to trigger you. This pattern has been consistently observed. The moral is: do not do what narcissists expect from you; their expectation is their manipulation.

@grandmais4you 3 ай бұрын

@kudratbek1426 this is extremely insightful. I see it now that you articulated it. Thanks for leaving this comment!

@kudratbek1426 3 ай бұрын

@@grandmais4you You are most welcome!

@wayneelliott1180 3 ай бұрын

The narc became spluttering mad when I melted away. The smear has gone on for years. The lies are absolutely mind-boggling. (I just spat coffee hearing your line about what they had for breakfast when they had sausage in their teeth lolololol!)

@jessa555 3 ай бұрын

Pathological liars, habitual cheaters and chronic clout chasers.

@Sommer-ho7pk 3 ай бұрын

Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it.

@DavidVelasquez9 3 ай бұрын

there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

@Sommer-ho7pk 3 ай бұрын

its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.

@DavidVelasquez9 3 ай бұрын

this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.

@brooklyniron1999 3 ай бұрын

This video is confirming that I need to go no contact with my mother. The irony is that my mother would hate herself if she ever met herself. Indeed she does.

@lulu-qw8xy 3 ай бұрын

Understand that!

@user-cl2wd1xd9c 3 ай бұрын

If they are awake; they are 🤥 lying.

@sofiacornejo1056 3 ай бұрын

😂

@sujata_155 3 ай бұрын

The narcissist blamed me for no reason and I apologised heavily and they madenfun of me and put me down. Thats how cruel they are, and they never are sorry for hurting people

@Juke582 3 ай бұрын

I could not ever tell my ex husband narcissist was lying!! He was just too good. He set up loyalty good with me right off so I would not question him that way! I never caught him in a lie until I saw 👀 phone bill suspecting cheating and confronting him! Detecting the lies is hard!

@csibiedit8046 3 ай бұрын

I saw one of the early mornings my ex comming from a strange place. He told me was not him. One week later he found a person who is exactly his copy. Two weeks later he presented his new fashion trend what he was wearing on that morning....They are lying so much that they can not keep the same lies., this is the reason that we do not know when they are telling us the truth.

@sofiacornejo1056 3 ай бұрын

Wow! 🧐 Hmmm … how scary . I currently have “suspicions “ yet, no solid proof 😮

@Believersundergroundinitiative 3 ай бұрын

Y'all need to understand this if your gut is telling you he is lying stop dismissing it he is , I used to ignore when my gut was telling me something was not right like a sick twisting rag feeling in your stomach , I do not ignore it anymore , when I get that feeling when he starts acting weird ajd different I let him know , I know you are up to your nonsense with some behind my back bs abd I catch him every time one thing they are is repetitive I have an investigate personality so if you are doing things behind my back lying acting like a nutcase because I asked a simple question you are a liar , become your own private Investigator know him , learn everything about him and you wont even need to ask him if hes lying you will know the moment he opens his mouth

@oregoncoastbeachcomber2060 3 ай бұрын

Oh yeah! Back in the 1990s I busted my now-ex using a phone bill and going to his work to confront him as he got off work. I waited by his truck and lo and behold, his current girlfriend pulled up in her car! I confronted her too. 😂 Got my divorce. 👍

@redonionsyummy 2 ай бұрын

@@sofiacornejo1056When you feel like you need to hire a detective.. and have been gaslighted.. it's time to leave..trust your gut instincts.. he's probably lying..write things down.. understand trauma bonding too.. you deserve better

@mheiseus 3 ай бұрын

If you mention any accomplishment, they will try and one up it...

@MsAvignon 3 ай бұрын

Yes. They have to be the ‘best’ at whatever. Or conversely the ‘worst’. Tell them you’re not feeling well and they have to one-up you, even if they seemed to be okay moments before.

@dyannroby3358 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Ms. Lisa for all your education. Married for 44 years to a narcissist personality and now dealing with dementia and anger. I only wish I educated myself at age 30 :) THANK YOU

@PennyIronwood 3 ай бұрын

You are 💯% Lisa! Thank you So much for educating me/us. Been watching your videos for a year now. So many lightbulb moments!! Working on myself and my exit. ❤

@dgvfsa66 3 ай бұрын

How to tell if ANYONE is lying....they tell a long drawn out story when it is totally unnecessary. They have to justify what their about to ask. I always tell them, cut to the chase. What do you want from me?

@dawnconnors8205 3 ай бұрын

Lying? They're not lying...I'm the problem...I'm too critical or judgmental or sensitive. I don't listen or follow thru or care about his feelings or complaints or needs or wants. I made him yell or lose his patience or sneak his purchases in the house because....

@chrissemenko628 3 ай бұрын

Made him call you horrific names, too! (If he was like my demon driven psychopath) Cheers. Christi

@dawnconnors8205 3 ай бұрын

@@chrissemenko628 I am sooo grateful that you brought up "demon" Driven is too kind. God's honest truth? It's demon possession and I think that it's there to keep you from fulfilling your soul's path/mission. The first date I had with my husband, 25 years ago, I asked him if he was a "user, boozer, loser, abuser?' Granted, I could have waited until the second date but phuck-it. All these years later, I should have asked what his blood type was. 15% of the world has a negative blood type. A good portion of that 15% are royalty and million-billionaires. Both of my husbands have neg. blood types.

@rock20055 3 ай бұрын

So happy to be free of this !!

@sirg-had8821 3 ай бұрын

Words start coming out of their mouths.

@rock20055 3 ай бұрын

They’re so pathological in they’re lying that you can get the truth by taking whatever they say, and understanding the opposite is the real truth or just listening to what they accuse YOU of and then you know exactly what they’ve done lol

@GoodnightM 3 ай бұрын

💯💯💯 and they wouldn't even understand these words if they heard this

@rbizzle18 3 ай бұрын

Lisa, tell the people to watch themselves and why they tell lies. by recognizing the kind of situations where i might tell a lie and why i would tell it, it helps me to recognize the situations where other people would be lying, too. hopefully this makes sense. if not, oh well. thanks for the video!

@James-Johnson313 3 ай бұрын

Do they know they are lying, or do they believe in their false reality and they are being genuine with their lies?

@glowinthadark 3 ай бұрын

Both

@phoenixrisin2269 3 ай бұрын

It’s called confabulation

@MonicaAnnQ 3 ай бұрын

They are a victim

@RavnThor 3 ай бұрын

This is amazing. Thank you, Lisa!!❤❤

@amandajohnson-williams7718 3 ай бұрын

Spot on Lisa!! ❤ very well explained x

@georgesontag2192 3 ай бұрын

I pray for every man that married this sweet caring woman, only to find out after the children arrived, that she was wearing a mask. Your home changing diapers and she now needs " space". She is really sleeping with co workers, lieing, preparing for divorce. You find out she just set you up for the house, alimony and child support payments the court will give. They wont care that she has 5 boyfriends. . I lived that life years ago. I know NPD now.

@PixieCropCircleDuster 3 ай бұрын

Wow! Did i need this today ❤thanks Lisa ❤

@alecstuart5266 3 ай бұрын

Very true Lisa. I have experienced all of what you just said.

@Julie-kh2wh 3 ай бұрын

thanks for your vidéos and by the way, i ADORE your haircut!🇨🇦

@Carolinekatongo 3 ай бұрын

Thanks Lisa. All those r very clear in a narcissist.Especially wen they unmask,i was shocked about my narc he lastly never cared to do force accusations on me which were clear lies and it was unbelievable for me.what a life.

@lindasacks8572 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for this. You have helped me so so much over the years.

@rickkillian2378 3 ай бұрын

My dad told us the same lies all the time that over three rest of his years he actually believed his lies himself where we did not

@BashayG7175 2 ай бұрын

When my narc ex-girlfriend mentioned the term "alternative facts," I knew right then it was time to get out

@fidelmashelton9491 3 ай бұрын

You look absolutely amazing. Thank you for your great advice. Dealing with a toxic covert narcissist, so draining to deal with. OMG....

@EyeKnowWhatsUp 3 ай бұрын

Thanks Kristen for sending me here thanks ❤

@csibiedit8046 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for this explanation, it is clear and beneficial, it stoped all my hopes that narciccists will tell the truth, they are unchangeable.

@phoenixrisin2269 3 ай бұрын

Confabulation on the highest spectrum

@lalunar8 2 ай бұрын

Yes I too thought people thought the same way and I am 50. Just thought all humans had that innate sense of being.

@rebeccaglaze3707 3 ай бұрын

You nailed it.

@MrBigzo0574 3 ай бұрын

You can tell they are lying to you if there mouth is moving

@lolitamedne9898 2 ай бұрын

Facebook this video (when I shared only with myself ) named 'Graphic violence' and 'Post moved lower in feed'... :D

@blablablatube 3 ай бұрын

A 6'1" six figure engineer former NCAA Div 1 full scholarship woman basketball player meets 6'11" file cabinet mover (diagnosed with child abandonment issues) working for same aerospace company. In two weeks of her going to his aptmt becomes pregnant. The rest is mind bending narc history.

@anettszabo108 3 ай бұрын

Sounds as a real sad story. ..

@phoenixrisin2269 3 ай бұрын

Golden child narc. Had one just like her. And didn’t even tell me she had a kid for a year who was worse than her. 🧞‍♀️

@lgroves336 3 ай бұрын

A big awake up moment? Under statement of the yr. I lived 40+ yrs thinking the same thing. Thing is if you wait and observe / watch then it will come out. What is done in the dark will come to the light. She should call it a fractured psychic. (soul / Ego)

@SilentFigure1 3 ай бұрын

hello looking so calm thanks for your life's work U are a living Angel.

@ChloeJones-ne6ck 3 ай бұрын

Haha my covert ex would always have a complain about work. Once, his friends who work with him leave that’s when he had a story to tell. I realized that 1 on 1 i their favorite because how would you know they’re lying.?? Now I trick them into asking a random ( nothing hurtful ) question they probably lied about to see if they say the same answer.

@JKDVIPER 3 ай бұрын

For me the worst part of the narcissist era was.... even though HIS ACTIONS STINK, and they’d been noted, proved, obvious, and simple FACT. My actions were also noted as well, good, ok, right, normal. Nothing you get extra credit for, but at least you’d like your life noted in reality by the people around you. But with this guy, he brings in OTHERS that don’t even know you or have a basis in realty to opine. Flying monkeys. He gets liars to help him. It hasn’t worked, but the threat looms. 🤢🤮☕️😎🤟🚫stay positive people. We are hip. 😀✊

@shiz1246 3 ай бұрын

I saw the title and knew the answer already! If their mouths are open…issa lie.

@user-mf7ll4nm4n 3 ай бұрын

I have empathy but I keep away from them.

@clarascully68 3 ай бұрын

You’re 59, you are gorgeous Lisa. ❤

@lisageeck 3 ай бұрын

His lips are moving.

@jamnoise72 3 ай бұрын

IKR hahah

@Godisgreat-777 3 ай бұрын

So true!!😂❤

@amycoffman9092 3 ай бұрын

Ok funny/weird story about a moment I had with my narcissistic boyfriend. This was about a couple yrs ago. It was early in the day and we were kind of arguing. Like the beginning of an argument maybe. I'm always quick to raise my voice and he is a much quieter talker. I start to raise my voice. It doesn't seem like I'm yelling yet. Just loud talking but I can see how someone else would consider it yelling. He says to me "why are you yelling at me?" I reply with "I don't know. Cuz I'm Italian." He looks me dead in the eyes and says "no your not. Your German." Now he met my 100% grandmother a few years prior. He for sure knows I'm not Italian. I was speechless. I just walked away. The way he said it to me was very serious. He's German so I believe in his hear he rewrote my history and penciled me as German like himself. Pretty clear red flag I'd say but by then i was already in too deep. Still kind of funny though

@jch8376 3 ай бұрын

It would be great If someone can make a video of this info but with realistic examples in a way that kids can understand, because kids in my opinion are the most vulnerable to narcissistic abuse especially by their peers.

@lindasacks8572 3 ай бұрын

I agree 100 percent. Sitting by and watching my beautiful grandchildren go through it is breaking my heart. The courts can't do anything about it. It all happens behind closed doors.

@mickiejonesy1712 3 ай бұрын

Oh my goodness! I see the family member and her abusive lies! I haven't spoken to her at all for 11 months. Yet, I hear from other family that she is calling me a liar with everything! I cannot stop her.I will not put her back in my life! I am instead going to prove her as a liar by being myself! It's sad really! I am always shocked by the things she has said and done! Always, painfully so! Thank you for helping me heal and sort out where the real me is! 🥰🥰🥰🥰

@solaura6218 3 ай бұрын

Yes people do lie. But more than that, people generally are not actually lying, they are passing on lies from others or the news or their education.

@patrickbinford590 3 ай бұрын

I just have to be me. And not worry about it. Watch those assumptions! They keep you locked into the bad relationship pattern (when it comes to dealing with narcissism).

@fidelmashelton9491 3 ай бұрын

Energy Vampires. Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde personalities that they have.

@jessieb.2714 3 ай бұрын

How to tell if a narc is lieing? When are'nt they. My boss tells lies about me to my coworkers. I asked her why. Next day, she says, ''cuz i get away with it. ''

@VitaminDF 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Lisa... what if your narcissist brother is the executer of your mom's estate??? I have questions that need to be asked. I don't want to have to go through a lawyer

@frankpatron868 3 ай бұрын

Lisa my teacher

@fayadkhairallah2760 3 ай бұрын

I'm narcissistic and I'm lovin' it 😮

@CL-hc8gk 3 ай бұрын

They are. Didn’t even watch yet.

@motowngirl5891 3 ай бұрын

When we plan to be together he is suddenly sick, it’s being going on a lot lately What does that mean, he is faking or not faking

@deborahphillips9034 3 ай бұрын

How to tell if a narcissist is lying….if they’re moving their lips!!!!

@kathyyoderlang7554 19 күн бұрын

How do I know when he's lying? His mouth is open.

@jamietodd9741 3 ай бұрын

Lisa please tell me how to stop being a covert narcissist in relationships.

@Invisibleanonymous15 3 ай бұрын

If I may ask, what makes you believe that you’re a covert narcissist? The vast majority of narcissists don’t even consider the fact they may be narcissists… :)

@dgvfsa66 3 ай бұрын

You're not or you wouldn't have asked.

@user-mf7ll4nm4n 3 ай бұрын

How to deal with enyy and greed

@dolores2022 3 ай бұрын

You know because their lips are moving lol 😂

@awakeningEmpath 3 ай бұрын

sausage in the teeth made me laugh

@JanSolo1611 3 ай бұрын

Are they speaking?

@francesbernard2445 3 ай бұрын

Lying or only believing that all of their advice should be called only, "That's living." Difficult to tell at first. I like Lisa A. Romano's Breakthrough witnessing videos about what it is like until getting their number. Lies in someone's life is the best way to put it. As for callng someone both a liar and very rude while expecting them to have been omniprescent all along while serving you in return that would not be a healthy way of living. Lisa is not like that. She has integrity.