Did the coffee test on my last girlfriend... Did not go well... Pulling up into Starbucks parking lot... "Hey, before I take you out, I've got to respond to some business emails. Can you run in and get me a regular coffee with cream?" "Sure! Give me some cash..." already failed, handed her a 20. She came back with a 20 syllable latte for herself, a regular coffee with no cream for me, and a new travel mug. No change. Broke up with her the next day.

You forgot the waitress test. Find a restaurant, place your orders, conveniently head to the bathroom to wash your hands, and quietly ask the waitress to tweak your date's order (tip her ahead of time). Not drastically, but like the side salad got the wrong dressing on it or whatever. Watch your date's treatment of the waitress (or waiter, no preference). How she treats a service worker is indicative of her arrogance or humility. The easiest way to reveal an entitled, abusive person.

"Women understand women and they hate each other." - Al Bundy

My wife still makes me breakfast in bed almost every morning, after 27 years...

I just pop the question to my ex-girlfriend: "if you want to get married, we need to sign the prenup". She started shaming me for not trusting her and for thinking about divorce already. Then, I asked her: "Do you love me or my money?". "You of course" she replied. Then, I said: "so if you love me, why do you protest signing prenup that separate our finances?" Bitch immediately said ciao. Dodged a bullet right there!

I dont hate gold diggers. I just cant afford them. NOTE: I can afford them now.

I did the coffee test on my girl. She bought the coffee, got me a croissant I liked and texted me if I wanted anything else?

As a mom of two successful, kind young men~ also a single woman~ I wholeheartedly agree. The art of loving your man seems to have diminished. If a women is selfish in the beginning, hold on to your pants because she is a spoiled taker😁

The best way to attract a quality woman is to be a quality man... The reason you put up with bad behavior from others is because you don't respect yourself.

Dumped my ex straight after I went into hospital, she only came once to visit, when I called she said she had no money, I said ok I'll come to reception and I'll pay for the taxi..... you guessed, didn't come.... got better, came home and I told her to move out... gotta whole lot of abuse, tears blah blah... never looked back

I’d just like to shout out to all the quality women (wives, girlfriends etc) out there who truly love their men and demonstrate it. We do appreciate you and recognize you as a cut above the chaff.

Wish I seen this 18 years ago would of saved me a lot of pain, money and time

Three test I used to use, when I actually dated: 1. How does she manage her finances, wants vs needs. 2. How does she react to high profile divorces, and ridiculous alimony/child support judgements. 3 Ask about her previous break ups, does she take ANY blame for failed relationships.

I'm 45 and I've had quite a few girlfriends over the years. When I bought my place I decided to remain single for a while and get my shit together. That time allowed me to get my head and my finances straight. Last year I met a real diamond and I'm so glad I took that timeout. Don't ever be afraid to be single, it was the best decision I ever made!

I test them before I even start dating them. When I see a good looking girl, I walk up and say do you wanna do it? If she says my place or yours, I say look, if you gonna start argueing this early, just forget it.

Had my first wife sign a prenup and was so glad I did. I remember when I had her sign it she said she would not try to take my money or house, and I said that is great, then you should have no problem signing the prenup. She reluctantly signed it. She still tried to take everything when we divorced, but the prenup saved me.

I use the napkins test. Go to a food place but not a restaurant, a place where you get food, get your own napkins, sit and eat. Order food, pay for your and hers (this is kind of important) and conveniently forget to take napkins before sitting down. At some point she will notice there are no napkins and can do one of the 3 things: 1) get up get napkins for herself but not for you (red flag, you have to re-test her) 2) get up and get napkins for both (she will tell you that they are for both) GOOD SIGN!!!!! 3) ask you to get napkins (dump her immediately without finishing food. You paid for it, the least she can do is to get napkins)

As a woman, I thought I would hate this video, but you are obviously a high quality man.

01:37 - 1. Get her to buy you a coffee . 02:38 - 2. Saying "no" to something you aren't interested in 04:47 - 3. Have the prenup talk.

The test of all tests is look at her mother looks and attitude. That's what your going to get.

if a woman won't love you at your weak moments she is not for you

A good woman is supportive and nurturing. If yours isn't making your life better and happier then dump her and be single.

The only women in the comments saying to forget the tests are the ones terrified, knowing they would fail them and be alone.

“I make the mistakes so you don’t have to.” - Rich

saving some lives with this video here

I don’t know how I stumbled upon this video but I’m glad I did, sending this to my brothers right now 👍🏼 they’re genuinely caring, motivated young men, and as a women I know how self-serving many young women can be.

Have A buddy talk you down while you are out of the room. See if she defends you Ect?

I see a lot of upset women and some upset cucks in the comments. To me this is very simple. If a woman has an issue with paying for guys coffee ones, one should run away from her as fast as possible. If she can't sometimes take a "no" for an answer, one should run away from her as fast as possible. This is just common sense. He is not suggesting to leave your girlfriend in the woods to survive as a test or even "shit test" them all the time. These are very simple and easy tests. I might be lucky, but I am shocked a woman could even fail a "coffee test" or a "no test". What kind of person would fail that?

not saying I just heard bad ideas but, I spend a lot of time making sure my wife's needs and wants are met daily. I prioritize her. In return she provides my needs and wants, I'm prioritized​ by her. I've been happily married to my wife for almost 25 years now. 4 daughters, 2 granddaughters, I'm a Happy guy. It's simple guys, you BOTH enjoy each other's company and EACH of you priorities the other. If that's not how it is, move on. But ask yourself one question, am I ready, able and mature enough for a great relationship ?

I really trust this guy, because he’s older, bald, but still has a badass beard and he goes to the gym. Man i must be easily convinced

As a divorced male over 40 it makes sense to say no when you really do not want to go. It also makes sense to expect the woman to pay in relation to her ability to pay, and to go to places that are within your resources. At this age many women have made bad choices and do not have two nickles to rub together. However, a woman that offers to pay for a meal or a coffee or actually makes food for a day trip is way better than one that has the ability to pay and still has the attitude that she deserves a free ride. Case in point: I dumped a six figure woman who refused to offer to pay after the second date. Another woman was really pissed off when I once left my wallet in the car glove box, not as a test. It was ridiculous in relation to all the other times I paid - needless to say it opened my eyes. She was gone too.

Best test i've ever heard of: About 20 years ago i met a male who told me that if he or his mates ever got really serious about a woman, they'd set up a situation where their best looking mate would attempt to seduce the potential mate..... you can guess the rest... And this was 20 years ago...

Some of my tests :- A: Caring Test : If she dismisses a suggestion or opinion, go quiet, see if she notices B: Patience Test : Out walking slow down to notice something, does she keep in sync or becomes inpatient C: Team Test : Any job. Start cleaning up, does she help or just watches you work. D: Lazy Test. Ask her to an early breakfast, see if she wants to reschedule to later. E: Fakeness Test. Arrange a casual activity, see if she dressed appropriately light/no make-up F: Princess Test : Take her out of her comfort zone. MMA Fight. Paint Ball, Controversial Speaker G: Friends Test: Politely disagree with her friends. see how much influence they have over her.

We all have different ideas of high-quality women Personally, I mostly overlook physical appearance A good women 1- Is responsible.. if she has nothing she is interested in professionally(housewife), she should AT LEAST be able to do tasks and chores around the house 2- A women should respect your dreams, and your passions.. she should NEVER want to deter you from achieving your goals. 3- If she is able to stay with you through the bad times.. she deserves to be there in the good times.

My suggestion would be to keep the prenup test till the very very last and use it only if necessary. My wife passed every possible test while we were dating and past every one with flying colours and more! Bringing up a prenup would have put our relationship back 10 steps into the negative. When you do bring it up it is questioning trust. If that has already been established there is no need for it. I got married at 22 and we just celebrated our 43 anniversary! The best decision I ever made!!

As a woman, I agree completely with this video & it’s awesome advice!! I have a lot of guy friends & my husband also has a lot of friends that definitely need to do this!! They’re lives would be so much easier

Notice how your lady acts toward wait staff in restaurants and in similar situations. If she is not respectful with them - good chance you are in for some shit.

I used to drive a JUNK TRUCK. I could afford better, but that was my filter test. Gold diggers stayed away from me in droves. But I found one who didn't judge me for the car I drove, or the clothes I wore. ( I wore work clothes a lot). No tests required because they judged the cover of the book before opening it. I just had my 26th wedding anniversary. Now I drive nicer cars and wear nicer clothes. None of them are perfect but neither am I. So I'm just sayin' "don't look for perfection because none of us humans are."

If she doesn't let go of her phone or refuses to go anywhere without it and wont let you look through it at anytime besides search history. That there is a major issue, she shouldn't have anything to hide.

Fraud protection caused my card to decline at a pizza place in a bad neighborhood. My girl stepped up with cash to cover. Took me many years, but I think I’ve found a keeper!

Another good test is for the man to state one normal, widely known difference between men and women like “Women have a tendency to be more emotional than men.” And if she starts going off about toxic masculinity and third wave feminism then you need to drop her.

You’re describing women with NPD. Narcissistic personality disorder. I’m a female and it runs rampant with women today. I’ve had to terminate so called friends because of this very thing.

Thank God I saw this video before getting into serious relationships. Really helped me find the right girl for me. I did these three tests and some others and all came back positive. I’m thinking about proposing. I know your against marriage, but I want to have kids and it’s better for kids to grow up in a stable home with parents who are together.

Omg, I was just talking to my sister about pre-nups... I don’t care about the money I just want to love someone and give em my all!

Of course a decent honest woman would buy a coffee for you. Agree if she tries to shame you it’s bad. Agree on prenups too.

#1. Don't jump into bed too fast, you'll be thinking with the wrong head. Take the time to get to REALLY know her... and a week or two will NOT suffice. #2. How does she treat her family? Her friends? Strangers? Is she kind, considerate, thoughtful? Does she put herself before others, or is she always considering others first? This will tell you more than almost any other test. #3. What are her closest friends like? Do they have a social conscience, or are they all about themselves. Big loud WARNING bells should be sounding if her friends are useless.. this is what she's attracted to. #4. LISTEN TO HER CAREFULLY. No, seriously, listen to the content and context of what she says. Nobody but nobody can keep up the "i'm an angel" bit for long..cracks ALWAYS appear. #5. Listen to your GUT feeling. That's the warning sensor that we all to easily ignore..because we KNOW her... after 5 or 6 dates.... or a month or two, and she's fantastic in bed..so what? Many of them are great in bed, but they have no heart or soul...it's all about them. Carefully consider this. How long did you know your best bud before you felt that you could truly trust him? I'll bet it wasn't a few days or even weeks. It takes TIME to really get to know someone...anyone, get used to that idea. If she's REALLY the one time will tell, and time doesn't lie.

Any other women watching this because you’re curious? 😂

I am the nice guy who always ended up getting run over because I said yes to everything. Since discovering the word NO, every woman good or bad ALWAYS show their true colors when I say it! It'll keep you out of trouble 9 times out of 10!

Best filter for a high quality woman is you to be a high quality man.

Speaking as a woman, this is 100% true. Most women can't help but want to fulfill our basic instincts, which is find the best provider, and some women (actually a lot) are selfish bitches when it comes to that. A couple of other tips for you guys out there wanting to avoid the bad ones: - If she gets offended when you make little jokes/comments and starts going off on some feminist rant, say bye. - If she never compromises, apologizes or admits when she's wrong, leave. - If every time you get into an argument, she starts to cry and make it out to be your fault, you're being manipulated. We women can cry on command and we know it upsets you.

I did the shit test in 1983, not knowing a shit test would even exist at that time, and it was for a movie!... well she paid and passed. We were together for 33 Amazing years ! However she passed away in 2015...my best friend. So it works men.

Used to date a this older guy (same income as me) who never paid for anything, never bought groceries or cooked a single meal, only agreed to go to museums/ galleries or events if I paid for it, because he was happy just doing free stuff. I had an honest conversation with him telling him how I'd really appreciate it if he made a bit more effort and contributed every now and then, doesn't have to be expensive stuff, maybe pay for coffees or call and offer to pick some groceries up on the way home etc.. He had a boy strop, called me shallow and then didn't talk to me for a week. Obviously didn't work out. I clearly should have shit tested him, when he kept forgetting his wallet for months, or going to the toilet every time the bill arrived.

When a woman fulfills my emotional needs, my whole world brightens. So guys, besides sex, those are the 2 reasons we need and want women. For soothing us and allowing us to fulfill our need for emotional intimacy. There is no substitute for a woman’s feminine powers. None. That is why we bother.

I am a woman and I say *these tests are actually the good kind of tests*. Not because "i am not like the other women, i am better, blah blah blah" but because it is only logical to recognize that there are shitty women, as there are men and we should be cautious about who we are devoting our time to. So, back to the tests. I deem them great because they are not these pointless tests that will irritate your date. More specifically, they test with a discreet way if: 1) she respects your private space, if she has manners 2) she isn't in it for the money, but because she likes you. and she is petty and if she can't give some dollars for a coffee 3) she sespects what you like and what you don't . I would like my bf to come to me in a lot of places I woud like to be, but I wouldn't be happy if he didn't enjoy himself. What is the point of two ppl going somewhere to have fun if one if their lover (i mean the second person) doesn't enjoy it? 4) - i am sorry, i can't comment well enough for the prenup :P I know a girl who once dropped her pen and called her bf from the other side of the room to come and pick it for her (he came and picked it, idk why). She thought it as a test to his loyalty. There is a limit in testing and must be done with respect to the other person. The only thing that this test proved was that she had a shitty personality.

EXTREMELY helpful video - I just subscribed (and turned on the notification bell)... That car test from "The Bronx Tale" is VERY accurate. I tested it on a this "gorgeous" female, who I really liked and cared about, and she failed, but I still ended up getting engaged to her - TERRIBLE DECISION, lol! I called it out after she caused serious emotional (and physical) damage (She turned out to be a sociopath).

It's hilarious how livid some women become when they learn they actually need to put in effort to keep a man around.

But what if she goes with you to a football game (which she hates), wouldn't you, for equality, go for the date at the art gallery to please her?

My favorite test: take her somewhere where there will be alcohol served and attractive men. Watch how she interacts with other men and treats you in that context once her inhibitions are slightly lowered. A good girl will not embarrass you, make you jealous, or make you question her. In fact, she'll do things to avoid that.

The Key test still works. You open the door, let her in, walk around, and see if she opens your door. Still happens.

My personal favourite test: Keep the first date cheap. If she's low quality she'll get mad that you're not treating her to a fancy dinner.

I made up the "nap test". For some reason women freak out when they find out that you just laid around and took a nap in the middle of the day. It's like they expect you to be a workhorse and not rest when you're tired. I experienced this once and thought it was just that one girl, but I've seen it several times now. So if a woman can't respect your need for R&R, she needs to go. We aren't packmules to serve women.

Listen ladies always offer to pay the tip especially if he's paying the bill. If he continually says no to doing something that you like to do however, don't continue to date him. Relationships are about give and take on both ends; he should be willing to spend sometime doing things that you like to do and you should be willing to hear a no once in a while too. Ladies most of all have your own life, your own hobbies, read books, exercise and keep your business private!

The coffee test is very efficient and powerful. And during this test, you can ask the girl to protect the coffee in her hands while you are driving so it does not spill nowhere. Bad women will grudgingly accept, or tell you right away, don't you have a cup holder. (if she says that, I 100% guarantee you with my life she will be an horrible wife)

1. Pretend to forget your wallet and see how she reacts to cover you, if she gets angry, cusses you or shames you, bye Felicia. 2. Disagree with one of her interests and see how she reacts, if she uses shaming tactics, bye Felicia. 3. Mention your money management and how you will not be sharing your life savings with your partner hypothetically, if she reacts badly...

Most of the channels I'm subbed to talk about how women test men. About time a channel switched it around!!

I’m a woman and agree with all three. Regarding number 2-if my husband had a hobby or something that interests him and wanted me to be there for support or just to experience it with him I’d go.

As a 28 y.o. single woman (never married, no children), your videos have opened my eyes for the better. Thank you for sharing your experiences for the betterment of those, like myself, who are willing to digest and apply it.

I recently started dating an actual nerd girl and she asked me out on the first day. When the bill came she grabbed her purse and was going to pay (It was our first date so I paid) Second date we went to a mongolian bbq and she looked at me and said "It's my turn. You already paid for the first date." And she paid.

Three great tests to determine the character of the person you are dating. I’ve never had to do these on purpose. In almost every relationship I’ve been in, they’ve come up in one way or another. The key is paying attention to how your partner reacts. Some women freak out if the man doesn’t pay for everything - so forget about her ever paying for you. The ultimate test is the “No” test. I’ve exposed many female narcissists by just being honest about my true feelings. If they try and shame you or use the silent treatment - run, do not walk, for the exit.

I'm a pretty independent male. Soldier with multiple combat tours. That being said it's a good idea to do things sometimes which you think you might not be interested in...what's wrong with an art gallery. Expand your horizons.

The first time my husband and I hung out, I brought him stones... the pretty kind... crystals and such. First date, he didn’t have any cash on hand and his friend wanted to have sushi. I said I have lunch it’s okay. He said no I’m sorry but that is embarrassing I asked for his wallet and put 150$ in his wallet handed it back and said, there, no embarrassment and kissed his cheek. And the dream I had chanting his whole family’s college chant, war eagle war eagle 🦅.... when I had no idea about Auburn tigers or the eagle they send over the felid and chant before every home game. He said in every instance that happened. I was that girl that lifted the lock on that car door. He had never experienced this before. He was a professional photographer, the woman he was surrounded by were 09’s, and mostly 10’s. He said the bonus points with me just kept coming. My unwarranted criticism never came. I always always think of the other person. Doesn’t matter what I need in those moments. Because I live life to be of service to others, and then myself. We have had some difficulty in our relationship yet I stuck through it, brought his feet back to the earth and grounded him. He is quite humble for my actions, because most would have divorced him and would be living off the alimony. Not I. I lived through five marriages with my mother. I watch the twisted thing she would do to these poor men. I saw her give out abuse as much as they gave too... was always tit for tat relationships, i’m so thankful for watching witnessing and learning what not to do. She not only did this to her lovers she would even do it to friends. Deep down it was hard to love someone that treated others like trash. But a stepfather that ruled me with an iron fist. I’m one tough bitch because of him. And I’m extremely kind and bighearted even though growing up it’s was military time in our home. Every second of the day. So when things got greedy with him. I called haul pass. He could have all the fun he wanted. He left for a job and my blessings. Fear hit him. He was about to lose his diamond in the rough, over his little head that loved to play. I knew my worth, I knew my strengths... and I did have fun, and Peter if you didn’t dear John me because you were fearful of love as the love of your life left, we would be together to this very day. Yet, life needed to go as it has. Because my husband and I are strong today. The respect ✊🏻 I have and the love I receive as well I too reciprocate, is amazing! Been together 19 years, married 16. He told me the move I took made him straighten out. That the people he chased could not stand in my shoes and he would have the greatest loss of his life if he did lose me. I’m so grateful we are together. I wanted nothing more than to be his wife and care for him in his elder years. He has 15 years on me... and I’m glad I listen to my inner voice. That mistake can happen. And forgiveness take time but can mend a relationship without having to break it apart. It was my dream to marry once. Or as until death due us part. Thankful he supports my dream... and that’s to be loved and appreciated!

I don't get some the hate in the comments. The stuff he is saying can save ur life.

Too many dudes think with the small head and not the big one.

You are very right. But most men ignore good women because it would require him to be a better MAN. Many men are not into that

1. cup of coffee test. 2. art gallery test (no test) 3. prenuptial test....got it

These are VERY reasonable tests! How are women mad at this? My woman shit test would be much harder than this to pass,lol. I''m sorry to barge in on these guys threads but I only do because I feel like I can offer something. I've been married for 20 years and we are very happy and very much in love. #1 test- one of my favorite things to do when we started dating was cooking or baking for my husband, then boyfriend. And I loved bringing him any kind of food, drink, anything. A woman who can't bring coffee is a woman who has no interest in taking care of a man. I'd take it a step further to shit test her. Mention your favorite cookie or dinner and see if she wants to make it for you. If she doesn't know how, is she willing to try? #2 I think it's awful when women drag men to things. I was raised old school. My dad never did women crap like going to the mall or anything like that. I never did that to my husband when we were dating or now. I go alone, with friends, my mom anyone. That's a control freak who needs the man there all the time. Further shit test.....can you hang out with your friends or do a hobby alone? Is she one of those girls that has to be one of the guys? My husband's friends all went to a strip club for a bachelor party. There were 5 guys and one guy brought his wife. I don't care if he asked her to go or not. Any woman willing to go to guy's night or won't let a man have his own hobby without her is far too needy and high maintenance. #3 this is reasonable as well. When we got married we were both broke and in our 20s so it was easy, lol. But fair is fair and any money or assets a man had before meeting me should be his. What empire we build together is ours. And yes it's hard because a traditional woman meeting a successful man will know she's not going to be bringing money to the table but she should be bringing something of more value. Taking care of a man, showing him respect, loyalty, giving him a lifetime of companionship, a good sex life, good meals and making his home a place he wants to come home to will be value in itself. I'd still have no problem with a prenup. 2019 shit test...does she support the Me Too movement, lol. Does she like songs, movies or stories about a woman getting revenge on a boyfriend? I hate that stuff. If a man cheated or does a woman wrong, then leave. I loathe stories of women who burned his collection of something or keyed his car. It makes me think he was justified in cheating. Is she super competitive? Does she have to win at everything?

Just remember there's an exception to every rule. Sometimes a woman won't reach over to unlock the car door because she's so shy she kind of freezes. And once in a while, go ahead and do something she really wants to do even if you have zero interest because it would thrill her to share it with someone like you. My girlfriend loved Opera and invited me to a show, and even though I hate that shit I went anyway because: a) I knew it meant a lot to her, and b) I could experience something new, say I did it, and never have to do it again.

One of the best ways in how I see if she's a good match for me is to ask questions about people that are in her life. What do you think about your Dad? Do you have a Best Friend and hear what she has to say. Does she bad mouth others? Just ask questions and wait. Be funny and always be positive in my view. Don't bring up bad ideas. If she start to bad mouth her Dad, her BF, or EX. DONT ADD TO IT! Just hear what she says and go off that and if you don't like it then you can leave. Again great Channel man 👍

Thank god I discovered this channel when I was 15. I'm 16 and still watching these videos

I was dating a girl for nearly 4 years. I told her I wouldn't marry her until we had been together 10 years and she would have to sign a prenup. She got all offended when I said that. In hind sight I am so glad it didn't work out. I now see how hard she was dragging me down as well.

Be careful gentlemen. If you’re getting to know a woman and you “leave your your wallet at home” or inflexibly refuse to participate in events because you’re not interested, you’re not testing her. You’re actually putting up a lot of red flags for her that you’re only looking out for #1. Yes, you need to be careful who you date. And you need appropriate boundaries. But these tests are going to sink the ship. You’re better off looking at her long-term relationships with friends and family and seeing how stable they are. If she isn’t good to those people, she won’t be good to you. You can also look at how she manages stress. That shows the true person under the mask. And you need to find someone you trust to be in your corner when it all hits the fan. Be wise.

Even if she's cool with you poo pooing the art gallery initially, are you never planning on compromise? Are you cool with her never being the hottie with you at the game that she came along only to support you? Pretty sure if you're never willing to compromise, she won't either and dump you for someone who will at least be supportive of her interests now and then. #2 test will cause an otherwise happy marriage to fail. There are way better ways to find a solid woman.

"I make bad choices so you don't have to" - love it!!

The "no" and "prenup" test works amazingly 👌 That reaction the "no" always is a good tell tale sign

I'm a female myself, and a lot of things that you said, make a lot of sense, and are very logical. If a women freaks out for you not wanting to go to a romcom; or freaks out bringing up money in a conversation, when your trying to being logical about the situation just to gather insight. Then of course shes not going to be date worthy (or marriage worthy). If I look at it in male's perspective, I wouldn't want some crazy broad mooching off of my hard earned money, or waste my time in something that I wouldn't enjoy. Even as a female I wouldn't want those said things either. And as for paying for food/coffee for someone who left their wallet at home, then I don't see the problem with it. My friends and I help each other out all the time, even to just loaned them a few dollars here and there for something to eat.

I am so down for a pre nup agreement. It's a safety measure for both parties. It's good to feel in control of your own affairs and know you have your own worth without leaching off a man for it.

There is à KZfaq video were à pro basketball player was getting married they agreed on a prenup the wedding is about to start and she still hasnt signed the prenup hes said he wasnt going to marry then the pastor and family said get married anyways he looked at them and laughed and perceeded to walk out the door and called off the wedding....Perfect

I see a lot of men in the comments that have potentially been the victims of selfish women that are encouraged to be so by society. i just want to say - there are good apples out there that respect themselves and you. it is a hard world right now, with leftism spreading like a disease. but be patient, remember the Golden Rule, and you will find her. with love, a woman💙

Here are some other tests... 1. Tell her your birthday and see if she remembers. 2. Do something physically challenging (bike ride, hiking, etc) and observe how much whining/complaining occurs. 3. Ask her to help you with some repetitive or boring task, and see how helpful she is. 4. Tease her about how some of her shoes look, and see if she laughs, gets angry, or gets upset. 5. Don't say much to her one date, and see if she asks "Is everything okay?" or "Did I do something?" or just gets angry right back at you.

Something I tried is the beater car test. Iv got several seriously nice cars but iv also got a little gas saver car I bought for my daughter when she gets license. I rolled up on first date in that gem and parked right up front. But this girl never flinched. On about third date when I opened garage she was really smiling then. We still dating and we laugh about it now.

Prenup ALWAYS!!! You worked your ass off , that’s your money not anyone’s else money. That’s so mess up after divorce ,the person who did you wrong or just because things didn’t went right, have half of your money! If both worked together and made the money together it’s another thing. That’s fair. Me personally , all these tests you said, I do the same when I start to talk with a man. I totally agree! P.S: Sorry about my grammar, English is not my primary language. Hugs from Brazil 🤗

So some people still have cars that do not use FOBs. What I did last night was unlock her door, kept the drivers side door locked, walked around, and of course pulled my car door handle to open it and was "surprised" it was locked. The girl I was with instead of unlocking the door from her side, reached over the drivers side seat and flipped the lock. Case in point, it still works.

Hey you Canadian hipster, I do confess, that is good advice even for a 51 year old divorced yank.

What's the leading cause of divorce?????????? Marriage

Always ask her if she can make you a sandwich if she tells you to do it yourself. Get up and leave. I've worked 60hrs a week for 20 years for a women who made me that sandwich.

I’m a woman and some of the stuff you say is what I tell my friends, male or female. A lot of the time the reason a relationship ends, the problem was there since the beginning. Don’t just let go of red flags just because it’s the beginning and you’re trying to impress them. You’ll waste your time.

One of my shit tests is picking her up on the first date in my 20 year old GMC van, I leave my nice car for later dates if there is one.

There is a balance in relationships. A certain amount of, "taking one for the team," is somewhat reasonable, but that hopefully should work both ways. But if your partner is always coming up with stuff you don't want to do, that may be indicative of a bigger incompatibility issue. With that said, however, there also shouldn't be a problem with saying "no" to some things. And that is his point. Find something to say "no" too and see how she reacts to it. If she can't handle being told "no" to a museum, how the heck will she react when it's something that actually matters?

Am I a unicorn or a fool? I supported my ex & our kids single-handedly for 5 years. We had an awesome home, and I bought myself the sports car I always wanted. He obviously felt emasculated even though I never controlled his life. I am agreeable for the most part, probably to a fault. He eventually got a pizza delivery job just to get out of the house. That's where he met all the randoms he would cheat on me with. I could have walked a lot sooner but really wanted my family to work.

My wife payed for some of her own meals while dating, she buys me gifts and so do I. Even though she makes less money than me, she buys the groceries for us willingly. I lucked out!