this is legit what i’ve been needing

I've recently felt drawn to she/they pronouns. I think I prefer them interchangeably, but I'm still marinating what does this mean for me and how to express these to others. Thank you for the video! Also, your doggo is SO CUUUUUTE!😊

I tasked my friend to use them on me and she said “where tf did u think of that idea”. I- dude I just feel more comfortable in my body. She still doesn’t use them on me tho

I use she/they I have been so confused if I’m non non-binary I prefer they/them they helped figure some things I can identify with being non-binary and binary

thank you! this really helped me out. in the last month ive been trying to figure out my sexuality, still trying. but now im wondering about my pronoun. i was wondering if i could use she/them even if im not confused about my gender but i just like to be called them. glad i found this video. also you deserve so many more followers and veiws.

My friend Kat told me, they're fine with she and they so one can use what they are comfortable with when they adress her. But Ash (another person from my school) is easily offended if you don't mix the pronouns up (also she they)

Thank you. this really gave me clarity and made me feel like I belong somewhere. I've gone by she/her my entire life (I'm still a child so yk-) but I was on a comment section and people didn't know my gender so they addressed me as 'they' and it made me really happy for some reason and I liked being addressed as they/them but I also liked she/her but I also knew I wasn't non binary. Hearing you say that if I like certain pronouns I can use them, made a light go off in my chest and it literally felt like glitter so thank you. :))

Hey thanks for this , been kinda struggling with this for a while. One of those things that can be hard to ask people about when you don’t really understand yourself enough

For the past few weeks I’ve been so confused with my sexuality, pronouns, and just life in general. Glad to see I got one thing going right.

i think usually people put them in the the order of preference, like if they like he the most, then they the second most, they’ll put he/they, or they/he if they prefer they over he. I’m not an expert or anything i just think some people do it like that

I’ve been figuring out my own pronouns Currently going by He & They

I've seen people use he/they and she/they i've confused Thank You i've needed this

Wait, so if I’m comfy with she/her being used alone, they/them being used alone, and the two being alternated, then would I say I use she/her, they/them and she/they or just she/they?

This was the best video about mixed pronouns I’ve seen and helped me figure out how I identify

I’ve been thinking about my pronouns and I think I’m most uncomfortable with she/they, I personally don’t mind if anyone doesn’t alternate. I just don’t know how to tell people, even though I know they’ll accept me because they already accepted me being bisexual Update: I’m genderfluid and my pronouns change

This was genuinely so helpful. My friend uses she/they and I tried looking up how to properly use them. This was the only thing I could find that actually helped me! Thank you!

Thanks a lot, my friend came out to me and wanted me to use he/they pronouns. I didnt know how to use it until I found this, thanks.

I’ve had she/ they as my pronouns for some time but recently I feel more drawn to he/him . I’m still thinking and experimenting on these pronouns .

I have a genuine question: so I started using she/they and I feel really quite comfortable with it and I want to get a flag. Should I just get a non-binary flag, or are there any flags for people who use she/they or he/they pronouns?

My friend uses any pronouns so I like to do a back-and-forth pattern with him. For each when I'm talking about them, I use he. Then next time I use they. Then next time I use she. But most of the time I just end up using they. 🤷‍♀️ Even though they got new pronouns during lockdown, and he can't really hear me talking about him, I always try my best to use a variety of pronouns, and more of he/they to make up for when she's been called she/her for the entirety of her life before that. He hasn't told his parents and stuff, because their parents are probably completely clueless about this stuff, so Imma just try my best to use more he/they to make up for that too. I'm hoping I'm doing well, IDK tho. 😊 Still proud of myself for my own efforts and proud of my friend for figuring out the pronouns they're comfortable with and having the courage to tell me. 😁

“One reason is that… they just like it.” You have no idea how much I needed to hear that. I’ve been wondering whether I want to stick with she/her or switch to they/she (my cousin told me that you can put your preferred pronoun first), but because it was mostly used by non-binary people I felt like I didn’t belong or that I shouldn’t be using these pronouns. Someone called me they once, it felt nice, and I ran with that without really thinking. But I also read it in a story and it sounded confusing, so I started questioning my choice. It sounds silly and it’s a dumb reason for questioning my pronouns but I don’t do well with thinking about things too deeply until day or months later. I think I’ll stick with they/she, just because, well, I like it. I wanted to get this out there. Thank you for anyone who read this whole thing

I like to sing old songs, to myself and sometimes friends. I use they and them and Some Enchanted Evening still sounds just as lovely without leaving anyone out who may be listening.

Yup, this is it, this is what ive been looking for. Thank you for creating this❤️❤️

She/they just feels so comfortable to me lol

Thank you so much for this video! Last week I was talking to my mom about my pronouns and what to use when she is talking about me or interdusing me to someone, she was very confused, and since I am still learning, I was very confused on how to explain it to her. SO thank you so much!

as soon as i figured out my sexuality BAM she/they starts lookin real good

thank you so much for this!! i was afab and identified and identified as nonbinary, and this kinda helped me figure out that i feel comfortable with he/they!! while i still prefer they, i still like the idea of being perceived as masculine, so this really helped!! ^^

I’ve been questioning She/They but I wanted more information about them and I think this helped me a lot

Thank u so much for this video. I've been struggling with this for a while and your video was like a signal. I was being rude to myself bc i thought my pronouns were just a weird feeling but now I'm very sure about my identity. Thank u again, I hope you're doing amazing!!! 💗

My friend uses they/he and today i almost accidently said she because it sounds similar to he but im glad i have the mind set in mind to correct myself if i say something wrong.

Ahhh thank you I’ve been thinking about it and I didn’t really understand it so this helped QwQ

i’ve been in a crisis for the past week and this helped so much thank you so much

This is really helpful for me personally. I am thinking of using he/them and your video helped me to gather my feelings in one mental space to look at in a constructive manner rather than the headless chicken run I've been on for the past few months

V helpful! I have a few friends who use multiple pronouns and I've been wanting to learn more about what to do! (Obvs I know asking them directly is the best bet but I wanted to learn more in case I meet someone who uses both who I don't get to ask directly) :) Thanks for this vid and your hair is rad!

thank u !! i’ve been confused about pronouns & how to use them properly but i always want to make sure i get them right . this really helped me ! 🤍

I recently started using they/she and I was looking for a video like this to show my mom to maybe help since she's struggling to remember the they/them. also your dog is so cute and beautiful

Thank goodness for this video! I’ve been so afraid of offending someone by using these pronouns incorrectly.

wonho in the background just makes this so much better for me. thank you so much

Thank you, and Happy birthday! Have a great day... Going back to the video, I also use He/They pronouns as a signifier to others to use both "sets" of he/his and they/them, so I completely agree with you there... I am glad other people use these in the same way because I find it difficult to ask people what they mean by the pronouns they choose.... As for other topics you can talk about, could you do a video on where to find other genderfluid beings, on the internet or irl? Thanks again 😋❤

thank you for explaining this so well ! i was really afraid that preferring to use she/they pronouns would be offensive to the community since im still not entirely sure if im bi (still figuring it out) but i just really like being referred to as them ^^ i also love your dog nakita (what a pretty name honestly, i might steal for my next pet hehe) and i hope u guys have a great week

Ty for this vid. Sending you positive vibes 💞

this video was extremely helpful for me! i have been wondering about which pronouns to use because i knew for a fact that she/her didn't necessarily fit right with me but i still wanted to use she as a pronoun. i knew i could use she/they but i was so confused with if i even could! i'm going to start using she/they officially now that i understand the use of these pronouns now 😆 thank you so much for posting this video 🥰 i'll be looking forward to new videos that you'll post in the future 😄

thank you! this was very informative but made very simple! i feel like she/they and he/they aren't explained enough! question: (using one example here) is she/they different from they/she or are they interchangeable?

Thank you!!! Very concise and welcoming 😊 I’ve been using she/they for about a month now I really like it

Thank you so much for this video! I'm currently in the process of writing something and I really wanted to ensure that I properly expressed combination pronouns since I have a character who I'm making he/they. If anyone else has any suggestions or comments for how I should write them, please let me know! 💕

Alright. i needed this.

Thank you so much! This video really helped. I wasn’t really sure if I was allowed to use she/they pronouns if I don’t identify as a non binary person. I’m totally gonna go by those pronouns now, it just feels right. ^^

I recently found out my sexuality as bisexual but lately felt it was Pansexual. So now i go by either one. And lately i started questioning my gender. I felt comfortable with she/they. But when I read something i saw the word ‘he’ and instantly felt happy? It was like i felt so comfortable and started smiling and such. So that’s why i think i might be he/she/they? I just say i go by any pronouns. When I researched it, all that came up was non-binary, gender fluid, or gender neutral. But when I researched those i still counts understand. Like I don’t identify as male. I identify as female. But I’m so comfortable with she they and he.

The option isn’t available to me... I’m under 18, does that have something to do with it?

I have been recently confused about my gender its just she/her hasn't really felt right to me I started feeling drawn to he/they and I think I won't be changing that I tried experimenting by asking my friends to use those pronouns and yeah your video has helped me so thank you so much for that I hope you have a wonderful day/night btw your dog is so cuteeeee

As a conservative Texan, I’m genuinely curious how to address my they/she coworker!!! This is alllll new to me and I typically say “hey girl” to all my coworkers but when I see ‘her’ I don’t thinks saying “hey they” would make sense! And to say ‘her’ name would be too formal sooooooo what do you say in those daily settings ? Sorry, I’m trying to be sensitive even though this topic is very new school to me and I still have traditional beliefs 😅

Thank you so much! This has been super helpful!!

Your video was such a relief! Thank you

Thanks for the video! I will soon be working with someone who has indicated she/they pronouns in their email signature and was trying to understand the pronoun mix a lil bit better (basically, do whatever floats your boat is what I'm hearing), and also how to use them well. This kinda answered both questions. Thanks!

Thank you for this

thank you for this !!!

thank you so much, seriously. hearing how valid my pronouns are makes things so much easier.

Thank you dude, helped a lot!

Where u got that Chain from?

i need this context 😭

Thank you so much this really helped me 😩🙏

I told my friends I'm demigender and use she/they pronouns and they only use she/her pronouns. Idk how to tell them that I'd prefer if they alternated I don't want to annoy them ;_;

so helpful thank you for making this video

Happy late birthday- Thanks for the video btw

the person who I have a massive crush on is a He/They, and I had no idea how to use it, because ive always went by He/Him, and this video was really helpful!! Now I can correctly use Their pronouns without hurting anyones feelings!!

superrrrr useful, thank you so much!

People are a lot more. That means user name. If you are trans and/or non-binary, you are most likely gonna choose a name that doesn’t fully describe your gender. For example, on game, I was Eclipse cause it was space themed like the game. I was called he/him and I immediately wanted to correct them... but then it got me thinking, waaaiiitttt.... Now I go to an app where I talk with people. On a group chat I see people waiting for me to respond saying things like “I think they’re busy?”. I realized some days when I read that, it made me happy, and other days I felt neutral to it. Which is completely different from he/him pronouns cause my brains first thought to those are “NO”. She/her also some days felt good while other days it felt neutral. I’m AFAB btw. I think I’m girldoe, which is like genderdoe, where I am genderfluid but not encompassing masculine genders and also being more tied to feminine genders. I personally feel a combination of female, agender, neutrois, and every so rarely feel mavrique. This makes me neither 100% my gender assigned at birth (called cis) nor was I 100% not my gender assigned at birth (called trans). I found isogender which is the third label in the cis/trans/iso thing. It makes me happen to finally learn that!

When I read the title I just assumed that Nakita the Husky was a furry and that “Nakita the Husky” was their handle online and then I saw the first 5 seconds of the video and realized that Nakita is an actual husky

Thank you so much!

AHH thank you sm for this!! i’ve been confused for a little bit and his helped so much

I've always felt connected to nonbinary but also being female and idk y but today just hit me that I can very much be both, I mean she/they feels nice and I've always disliked my birth name and it also hit me that this could be a big reason why.

If you're not present, then you'll probably never know

could i use she/her/they/them? or she/they? because i like to alternate between she/her or they/them like she wants icecream for their birthday? but id also be fine with she wants icecream for her birthday or they want icecream for her birthday. YK? but idk what pronouns to use...idk if i can use four...

THIS WAS POSTED ON MY BIRTHDAY

thank you so much for this

i use he/they pronouns myself, and find it hard to explain how to use my pronouns to people in a way that makes sense. this is super helpful, thanks for this :>

Thank you 🛐🛐🛐

Im so new to this and this video helped a lot. Im still a little confused bc I want to experiment with he/they bc I like them, but im female Idk where I am in the spectrum, and honestly I'm lost

I'm demigirl and I just wanted to know if she/they meant this or choosing between she/her and they/them and using it. So thank you :)

tysm for this,, this acc educated me :DD

Is it ok if I use she/her/hers/he/him/his/they/they/theirs as an agender person born as a female?

So, is it ok to want to use she / they / he but be a woman? I feel comfortable and like all three, but I feel like I’m a woman so I’m worried that’s wrong.

I'm supportive if respecting gender pronouns and showing respect to all human beings. I was just wondering what people think about being able to change other constructed characteristics e.g. age. I fully support gender pronouns but not mandation by law as it gets confusing and can be potentially dangerous to change protected characteristics. What do people think of legal mandating of pronouns and other characteristics?

You’re dog is adorable!!

I had to Google this and nothing showed up :> ty for helping me!

ily thank u

Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️

If someone uses she/they pronouns, is it ok to only use she when referring to her?

Hi! I'm really glad that you told us how to use the pronouns, it's really useful information! Unrelated (I post this on all videos): Some support for anyone: The crisis lines are on google. Maybe search up the instructions to. The instructions for Canada: just text the word text or Text or TEXT I'm not sure which one. They are also on Quora (the phone numbers) if you search up something bad mental health related. They show up at the top if you click on the page from the website. Numbers that you can call are on google, as well as su1c1de prevention lines. Make sure it's the right one for your country.

Their is plural in that case correct? As in “their” birthday.

So I go by she/her, but I'd like to educate myself on the topic because I don't want to accidentally be ignorant when I meet someone that uses them/they, she/they etc. Now you mentioned 'fae', and I didn't know that was a pronoun. How do I use it, and what exactly does it mean?

I have been using they/she pronouns, since I prefer they/them, but in my language there is no good gender-neutral option that fits me. (Our equivalent of they/them is Identical to the feminine singular version). So my Bio actually looks like they/she if you can read both languages, but I would feel misgendered when someone would use she while speaking English. Just to give an example of someone with mixed pronoun usage, without wanting someone to change it as they like without asking.

Thanks!!

I use He/they because I'm born male but I am questioning.

everybody say thank you

Is there a difference between she/they and they/she? I tried to look it up but this helped the most so thank you!

I have a problem like: i like it when my boyfriend says “my girlfriend” or “that’s my girlfriend” but i also hate when anyone uses the (she) pronounce to refer to me i want people to say like “ that’s their bag” or use they/them around me but i also dont have a problem to be called a girl , but I really hate it when someone uses the she/her pronounce, what am i ?

tysm for this my friend uses she/they and i wanna use em right!

Thank you.

Today I changed my pronouns to she/they and I was worried that I didnt have the right to do that. This video was really reassuring and helped me be more confident. Thank you XD