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The soft startup is a strategy developed from Dr. John Gottman's research to help people maximize the likelihood of a positive outcome from a disagreement.
Research shows that 96% of the time, how a conflict begins is directly tied to how it will end.
So, if you start off with hostility, judgment, anger, and criticism... it's not going to go well.
But if you start with kindness, compassion, humility, humor, and curiosity... you have a MUCH higher likelihood of a positive outcome.
This video will walk you though some of the strategies you can use to maximize your chances of having a disagreement go really well.
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