HOW TO WALK AWAY by RC Blakes
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HOW TO WALK AWAY by RC Blakes
In this KZfaq video, RC Blakes discusses the topic of how to walk away from a bad situation or relationship. He emphasizes the importance of waking up to one's own worth, accepting the truth about the situation, loving oneself, and keeping promises to oneself. Bishop Blakes emphasizes the need to prioritize oneself and make decisions that align with God's plan. He also mentions the importance of establishing boundaries and listening to one's feelings. Ultimately, Blakes encourages viewers to love and value themselves enough to walk away from toxic relationships.
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@RCBlakesJr. 9 ай бұрын
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@PetitHibou72 9 ай бұрын
♥️ So, SO grateful for this timing. Thank you, Pastor Blakes. 🙏🏼 In the thick of it *right now,* the walk is so tough but I can’t ignore any more divine warnings.
@OTMaraH 9 ай бұрын
@@PetitHibou72 yes sammme🙏🏿🫶🏿🫂💕
@lala5061 9 ай бұрын
I can't wait to get into this message tonight Pastor Blakes, this is the exact message I needed to hear! By the way u clean in that Polo jacket! 😎
@CaramelCali 9 ай бұрын
Pastor who sings that intro song?
@terricaray1461 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for this wonderful deliverance I truly needed to hear but actions speak louder heard ❤ . Love you both ..
@Didi-fr5ic 9 ай бұрын
I listened to you for almost 2 years after a man broke me , I did not date :) then after those healing I met someone but I had my wisdom from your videos in my pocket, it wasn't even a month in and I walked away from a man who's could not lead or move it forward, I felt so empowered. My time with men are limited I always give a man a chance when he ask for my number I think its brave but what happens after that is my decision until a man has earned my mind and soul. All thanks to you. I also went back to church and fix my relationship with my mom❤
@kendrawilliams5703 9 ай бұрын
Awesome Queen!
@misstangie84 9 ай бұрын
That’s beautiful what a testimony 🎉❤
@dyancelne 9 ай бұрын
Amen
@Nolagirl7530 9 ай бұрын
Amen hallelujah Jesus
@latoyakight8125 9 ай бұрын
Amen!!! Queen Mentality!!!
@marisolrivera5255 9 ай бұрын
Walking away from unhealthy relationships is part of self love and its best to wait til God has the partner for you . Know your worth and heal ❤❤
@electricred91 7 ай бұрын
Amen ❤
@Drea640 7 ай бұрын
That’s the medicine right there! Thanks to Pastor Blake’s I am empowered doing just that. Previously self doubted but that is changing daily❤️🙏🏽❤️ Eternally Grateful 🙏🏽
@marianmoore76991 Ай бұрын
Amen. What a Blessed word spoken ❤👏💯
@tiffanylamb2316 9 ай бұрын
“Putting yourself first is not selfish it’s mandatory “ ABSOLUTELY 💯
@joyobessa1364 8 ай бұрын
💯 Queen 👸 🥰👌
@jasmineflower9879 8 ай бұрын
Empaths need reminding of this daily. This is not advice for narcissists.
@donnetted 9 ай бұрын
Sometimes we had trauma in childhood that led us to be vulnerable to toxic relationships.
@emiliarichard235 9 ай бұрын
Exactly
@VonnaBlessed 9 ай бұрын
Agreed
@cassandrareed3257 9 ай бұрын
Absolutely and this is what I have learned through this whole process! You see, most people are avoiding relationships because of their past experiences, they want to avoid being hurt and yes it is painful but I now know that each relationship was trying to teach me something. It wasn’t until recently that I discovered I have issues with childhood trauma! This is why I have consistently connected with Men that are emotionally unavailable! I understand now that I have to work on myself! I was born to teenage parents, right there you and both know there was resentment towards me. I have to pray and go through a healing process that consists of getting therapy, loving myself and understanding my value so that I will not allow anyone to use me for their own selfish needs again. Thank you Pastor ❤
@donnetted 9 ай бұрын
@@cassandrareed3257 Well said. I applaud your methods of healing. Nothing better than prayer and therapy!
@clair.elliott 9 ай бұрын
Parents are your first trauma bond
@YahToldMe 6 ай бұрын
I’ve had men approach me or show interest and I’m learning how to sit back and let them initiate things. I don’t text first, if we’re texting and they stop leading the conversation, I don’t text back. I remain detached in my own little world. I wait for them to make the plans. This is working for me because it shows me not only their true level of interest, but their true intentions. Ladies if a man really wants you…he will pursue you and make it known. Don’t settle for anything less just because he’s paying you a little attention. No. Hold back and wait for him to go all in first. Also…keep listening to this man here!! He KNOWS what he’s talking about!
@antoinetteadame0526 Ай бұрын
Agree! Attention is not intention. I’ve learned that from pastor Blakes
@godschild1616 9 ай бұрын
A year ago I walked away from a 26 year very toxic marriage! I have been listening to Bishop Blake's for over a year and man has this ministry made a huge difference in my life!
@Lahmari1 9 ай бұрын
Where did you go? How did you get away?
@rachelvaughn3035 9 ай бұрын
How did you do it?
@zurigee6 9 ай бұрын
36 here. It hurts, memories of family, children. Wasted decades waisted.
@0227vina 9 ай бұрын
28 here and it hurts but when you heal you understand so clearly why you HAD to walk away in order to save your life.
@ninalove1280 58 минут бұрын
25 years here. I should’ve left yesrrrssss ago. Still haven’t actually left but I’m so tired of the merry go round! Tired of the disrespect, him not hearing/seeing me. I’m definitely scared but I really need to get out of this vicious cycle!! 😢
@tonya1529 9 ай бұрын
Walk- W-Wake-up to your own worth. A-Accept the naked truth. L-Love yourself more. K- Keep your promises to yourself.
@kendrawilliams5703 9 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@wakethemupllc4404 9 ай бұрын
I love the note takers! 🙌🏽👑💕
@vondawarner-laws3325 8 ай бұрын
❤
@JessMariaDwyer 8 ай бұрын
@@wakethemupllc4404me too! ❤
@reginatabb4068 9 ай бұрын
Many years ago I walked away from someone I was intimate with an noticed he was not consistent in seeing me. It didn't take me long to realize he wasn't for me. I chose to walk away to save my heart and myself. I created a Soul Tie and learned how to deal with that from your Soul Tie lesson. Thank you Bishop for your Anointed teachings.❤
@taniaarmenta3485 9 ай бұрын
I know this too well.
@prudered1 9 ай бұрын
Probably
@TonyaTonyGowins 6 ай бұрын
THAT'S WHAT I WAS IN A SOUL TIR RELATIONSHIP WHEN TWO ENTERWAIN WITH EACH OTHER IT SEEMS LIKE YOU. CAN NOT LIVE WITHOUT THE OTHER PERSON I WAS TAUGHT TO NOT TO CONITUNE TO HAVE SEXUAIL ANYTHING , WITHOUT
@TonyaTonyGowins 6 ай бұрын
TO HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH SEX IT WAS MY HUSBAND OF 35 YEARS I DON'T KNOW BECAUSE I DO NOT TRULY BELIEVE THAT GOD WILL TELL YOU TO LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND NOW I DO BELIEVE IN CERTAIN SITUATION WE HAVE TO LEAVE I STAYED BEFORE THE LORD ON MY FACE AND I CRIED OUT TO JESUS I AM TELLING YOU JESUS IS AMAZING WHAT HE WILL NOT DO FOR HIS CHILDREN THAT MAN WAS SENT FROM SATAN HIMSELF I KNEW KNEW NO ONE IN THAT CITY I WAS ON MY OWN I WANTED TO COMMIT SUCIDE BUT. MY GOD SAID NOT SO YOU SHALL LIVE AND LIVE MORE ABUNDAMYLY GOD'S IS GETTING READY TO RESTORE ME HE SAYS IN HIS WORDS THAT WHATEVER STATE THAT YOU'RE IN REJOICE REJOICE I HAVE BEEN A CRYING SISTER BUT. I AM GIVING GOD THE GLORY COMING IN AND GOING OUT DON'T ME WAYCH GOD
@NefertitiB 9 ай бұрын
Who else cried, released and walked through that door of breakthrough?
@malessiaweatherby3893 9 ай бұрын
Me!!❤❤😊😊
@linnette6493 8 ай бұрын
Me I needed this soooo much!
@arlysan__ 8 ай бұрын
Me ❤
@Christine-jg3hf 7 ай бұрын
Me Too! Thank You All My Sisrers & Brothers! May God Continue To Blessed Us All! Thank You God! 💋💞🌷🌹💪🙏🥰
@loveyouthemost88 7 ай бұрын
Me sis ❤
@tanagrant6252 9 ай бұрын
I'm walking away tomorrow. Moving from San Diego to Tampa to start over🎉
@teresatatum2287 5 ай бұрын
Praying all is well with you ❤
@theveryplumdarcey 3 ай бұрын
How is it going?
@Kashmir-lt4cx Ай бұрын
@tanagrant everything is alright i hope!
@mannasnature8261 9 ай бұрын
This was powerful!!! W-wake up to your own worth! A-accept the truth! L-love yourself more! K-keep your promise to yourself! Whew!!! Thank YOU!!! 🥳🙌🏽🩵
@Danful-mo5xx 9 ай бұрын
❤
@veronicalechiile9971 9 ай бұрын
❤
@katinag6064 9 ай бұрын
"Keep your promise to yourself" That's it!
@malessiaweatherby3893 9 ай бұрын
Amen!!❤
@gabipink9018 7 ай бұрын
❤
@jennifermartin7705 8 ай бұрын
Ladies let’s keep the promise, we are going to walk, and stay away. Something brought us to this video, something horrible, we will not be volunteers to let them break our hearts again
@verolvc3883 8 ай бұрын
❤
@redeemerliveth2589 7 ай бұрын
Amen so be it EL ROI the God that sees us has restored us Amen 😊❤
@user-uy6of7hn9w 4 ай бұрын
I love this, let's do it! I left my relationship yesterday
@yolondagoode9656 3 ай бұрын
Im pacing now...don't know how I'm a make it,but I can not take one more day of narcissistic abuse
@yolondagoode9656 3 ай бұрын
I'm trusting God to pull me thru
@maryhope4196 9 ай бұрын
Yer. Suffering with soul tie. I keep on thinking about someone who doesn't even mind about me. May God deliver me.
@maryhope4196 9 ай бұрын
Amen.
@alicethithi1648 5 ай бұрын
Me too
@audreymickens4390 2 ай бұрын
❤
@virgorising8123 9 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this. My boyfriend told me he is leaving after we just moved into this place a month ago together. Not knowing how I’m going to handle this I came across this. I know my worth and I’m letting him walk and I’m holding my head high and doing all that I need to do to stay good in GODS GRACE and nobody else’s 🙏🏾
@VonnaBlessed 9 ай бұрын
I'm in a very similar situation. Just moved in and signed a lease with my boyfriend. He just broke me and now I need to figure everything out. Im praying for us and other women in similar situations.
@BrendaBaBoom 9 ай бұрын
Keeping the promise to yourself is a superpower. Blessings 🌸
@dimediamond 9 ай бұрын
Ladies please move in with a man once your married and the Two of you can responsibly agree how to manage and navigate your household. Lesson learned and best wishes to you. God is able❤
@mrenae6798 9 ай бұрын
Guaranteed God will use this time to draw you closer to Him. Been there. It’s a blessing in disguise 💜
@lujogalactus6366 9 ай бұрын
Did he say why he is leaving? He may have a point. I’m sure god wouldn’t mind the extra company but there may be an opportunity for you to learn something about yourself that will make you more compatible… with another man… like he intended…
@juliebruns6208 9 ай бұрын
I have been single for 7+ years and haven’t even been interested in men in a few years. I’ve opted to improve me and my own consciousness. During the past year I started listening to these videos mainly to validate everything I’ve been doing on my own. I’m not going to stop because it shows me I’ve come a long wayyyyyyyy!!!! Even though I’ve healed I have 100% accepted that I may be single for life. Improving myself doesn’t mean I’m ready to meet a man. I appreciate this community of sisters to support each other whether or not we are in situationships!
@ninagarnett3160 9 ай бұрын
Great testimony. This is where I am
@gloriapasewaldt5364 8 ай бұрын
Great testimony. And you can still not be single for life. It's also nice to stay cautiously open
@juanitamontgomery8351 9 ай бұрын
I have been married 9 years and have been experiencing verbal abuse. I have to love myself and accept the truth that this marriage is not healthy.
@onevenus6040 9 ай бұрын
"A soul thats never disturbed will never move " ❤
@Kashmir-lt4cx Ай бұрын
@onevenus wdym?
@Millennialhome 9 ай бұрын
This man said we are sleeping on OURSELVES… let that sink in
@Kashmir-lt4cx Ай бұрын
@Millenialhome what man? Lol.
@quintessaedwards1567 9 ай бұрын
Thank you Pastor. You've gotten me through my divorce some years ago and now I find myself in another situation currently. Your message is right on time and needed. My dad passed away 2 years ago on Father's Day morning. I need him SO bad in this rough time. And here you are, talking to me like my father. Thank you for being obedient to the Lord. Many blessings to you & your family 🙏🏽❤️
@theinfamousninapink 9 ай бұрын
❤
@bridgetteconeal1580 9 ай бұрын
I promise myself! I love myself! I will never look back to that toxic waste! Thank you, Pastor R.C. Blakes!❤❤❤
@laleagosset1014 9 ай бұрын
I walked away from someone I love who wouldn’t commit after a year . It’s hurt but I’m know I did the right thing. ❤
@genxx2724 9 ай бұрын
Good for you. A man who wants you will take you off the market by marrying you. There are too many passive boys nowadays.
@monicaphelps6127 9 ай бұрын
Yes, you absolutely did the right thing by not allowing this person to waste anymore of your precious time. I had to do the same thing after a year, so you are not alone. God will bless you with the right mate; now you got that person out of the way, so God can send you his best in a mate. May God continue to bless you.🙏
@laleagosset1014 9 ай бұрын
@@monicaphelps6127amen 🙏
@sunnatural1272 5 ай бұрын
Great job! No need to waste time looking your best for him to go marry someone else within 5 months. Look good for yourself and your own health.
@antoinetteadame0526 Ай бұрын
Same here. I gave it 13 mos but saw the red flags earlier than that. I know my worth and boldly moving forward in my life. We are precious. Don’t ever forget thet
@chablaysexpress5579 9 ай бұрын
This is actually two days after listening to six signs that a man don't love you and yesterday I walked away from a toxic three-year situationship after listening to that thank you so much Bishop
@Kashmir-lt4cx Ай бұрын
@chablaysexpress who is the video from, and did you stay away?
@SchondaGray 9 ай бұрын
I have been married for 16yrs,4 kids later,I am making plans to walk away.
@Ehib_realty 9 ай бұрын
People are going to play with you when you don't know your worth 🙌🙌🙌🙌❤❤..So so Profound ...Thank you Sir
@tati0201 9 ай бұрын
OMG I just realized my value after 18 years of marriage. Finally got the courage from the Lord to leave and I haven't been happier getting to learn me all over again ❤. Thank you Pastor Blakes.
@priscillaturner812 9 ай бұрын
Glory to God!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@angelajames6223 4 ай бұрын
This video inspired me to love myself and stop using sex to feel love from someone else
@tyannaseton7968 9 ай бұрын
I'm 26 and just glad I landed on the right side of the internet
@desirahharris 9 ай бұрын
Wake up to your worth. Accept the truth. Love yourself more. Keep your promises to yourself.
@charisma1349 9 ай бұрын
Guilty as charged😩I have walked away and will stay away. Learned my lesson the hard way. Will never make this mistake again. Much love and gratitude from Toronto!❤🙏
@romanceoba5524 9 ай бұрын
I have walked away 2 years ago and it was the best decision. God is Good
@electricred91 7 ай бұрын
@@romanceoba5524 amen
@Christine-jg3hf 7 ай бұрын
All The Time All Yhe Time God Is Good! Blessings!💋💞🌷🌹💪🙏🥰
@mscrystalj 9 ай бұрын
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@Christine-jg3hf 7 ай бұрын
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@Fancy1450 9 ай бұрын
All truths. I needed this tonight, I’m struggling with walking away although I KNOW I had to, God showed me what I needed to see and Holy Spirit kept me stirred up until I broke and was forced to act. In no way did God ordain that relationship. Your videos have helped save me in more ways than one. Thank you for loving me and speaking the hard truths.
@numberone6266 9 ай бұрын
my whole story sis…. my spirit was gettn angry like nah we don’t do this this not it!!!
@Christine-jg3hf 7 ай бұрын
Me Too! AMEN! THANKS SO MUCH FOR EVERYTHING!💋💞🌷🌹💪🙏
@pistolannie0714 9 ай бұрын
My situationship was exactly as you described. Extremely sexual from the start and then I realized there was no trust or communication or future discussion it was just SEX. This went on for years! My self worth was and still is at the lowest of the low. But I WALKED away and Im slowly getting better. I still find myself missing this person terribly but then I wake up to the reality of what it really was. It really messed with my mind. I dont know if theres time for me. I feel I may be better off alone.
@Zen-cx5tc 9 ай бұрын
I share the same story. It hurts so bad. But we will be ok 🤗
@Christine-jg3hf 7 ай бұрын
ME TO ! GOD IS WITH US WE WILL GET THROUGH THIS TRUST! FAITH! THE BLOOD OF JESUS CHRIST! BLESSINGS TO ALL! THANK YOU GOD ! GOD PLEASE CONTINUE TO BLESSED BISHOP RC BLAKES! ALL MY FAMILY ON THE COMMENTS! GOD BLESSED 💋💞🌷🌹💪🙏
@jericaleigh 3 ай бұрын
This is what I’m going through rn and I’ve been dealing w this man for 3 years and every time we interact I feel bad.
@Kashmir-lt4cx Ай бұрын
@pistolannie no conversations on the phone, in person?
@Liberty12 9 ай бұрын
I thought I was in love! But I had lot of trauma in my life and he weaseled his way into my life! He love bombed me with everything that I needed to hear! I have now woke up! To God be the glory! Thank you for this message!❤❤
@cookiesmom584 9 ай бұрын
Ditto
@rebelwithapurpose 9 ай бұрын
Thank you this is confirming that I’m making the right move to walk away from 16 years in a marriage that was not producing fruit, verbally and emotionally abusive. It wasn’t until I started going to therapy I realized that I was functioning in dysfunction.
@YollyB 9 ай бұрын
I going through a similar situation. I’m walking away from a 12year marriage that wasn’t producing no fruit and was abusive on all levels. This was definitely confirmation that I need to keep looking forward and don’t look back and trust that God got me.
@mickeyChelleTV 9 ай бұрын
Sounds like my situation right now. It killing me to walk away
@dhaimasimon3764 9 ай бұрын
"Truth disturbs the soul because a soul that never disturb was never move." Omg!!
@Uwhowhereareyou 4 ай бұрын
I'm an expert in walking away from toxic relationships. It's true ! If it isn't right, why stay ?
@teresairene66 9 ай бұрын
My God! I am watching this with tears in my eyes. Words cannot express how tonight’s message spoke to me. You spoke to the little girl in me who was raised without a father and never had a father-daughter conversation. I stayed in a 28-year toxic marriage because I did not know my worth nor prioritize my feelings. I then turned around and repeated the cycle in a 2.5-year relationship with a man that was nowhere close to my level emotionally, mentally, intellectually or spiritually. I should have never entertained this man let alone committed to him. I receive this word and I promise I will walk away and never look back. Now that I know better, I must do better. THANK YOU FOR BLESSING ME.😢
@danyellg3079 9 ай бұрын
🙏🏽💔
@fredua7 9 ай бұрын
Yeeees👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾God's got you. Every step of the way-He will give you strength
@sarahbethjones7829 8 ай бұрын
@tmac323 you spoke my very experience with your words here. My heart is holding space and prayers for our healing right now. God has a greater plan for you and I lift you up in prayer for our heavenly Father to make you feel his love and blessings as you heal and grow in wisdom 🙏
@teresairene66 8 ай бұрын
@@sarahbethjones7829 Thank you for your words of encouragement. Be blessed, I will pray God’s healing power of your life as well.
@ateker1 9 ай бұрын
Just walked away from a 5 month relationship and this is great timing. Thank you Pastor.
@Didi-fr5ic 9 ай бұрын
Good for you girly , now put all that energy back on you :)
@user-sh6fj4cv3w 9 ай бұрын
I am a silent watcher. I had to comment today because you spoke directly to me. Word! Thank you so much. Your sermons helped me. I truly appreciate you.
@Christine-jg3hf 7 ай бұрын
Same Here babe God Blessed Us All!💋💞💔🌷🌹💪🙏
@asiaquick1687 8 ай бұрын
This really touched my soul “ I got to be my own hero and save myself “
@teresatatum2287 5 ай бұрын
❤this comment
@michellebrown6580 3 ай бұрын
My God at age 56 I just woke up and realizing my value and worth been in a toxic relationship for two years and I got the courage to walk away and I’m never going to let anyone devalue me again!!
@curlyms.t4862 9 ай бұрын
Lord I needed this SO much!🙌🏾 Pastor Blakes, thank you SO much for letting the Lord use you! You're such a blessing to us & the Kingdom! 🙏🏽❤️
@Iticaconamor 9 ай бұрын
Well, some men really do not know or are aware of a great woman. For their own upbringing and even at our age, I'm 64 and they truly have lots to learn. Sadly, but I'm better off walking alone, but with God, He is the ONE that has held me in all my times.❤
@cabazoncabazon5952 9 ай бұрын
Amen!!!!!!!
@helenajolie8419 8 ай бұрын
I am 39 years, walking away, in a place where everyone tells me i am old. I am Christian, i value family and i believe in family. I feel vulnerable and i had to walk away from all i knew so that i may heal, love me and value me with God's grace.
@YahToldMe 6 ай бұрын
You are NOT old. You are wiser. And you are a rare gem. If you have a desire for marriage, it’s from God and He will fulfill it. Just keep trusting Him for your husband. It’ll be worth the wait 💕
@Kashmir-lt4cx Ай бұрын
@@YahToldMedo you call her a rare gem cause she wants marriage?
@lyndacreeley9536 9 ай бұрын
My Tears are falling as I listen to your caring, sage and divine words of Wisdom, Bishop Blakes. ❤💯✨🙏🏽😢
@rondaparker4866 9 ай бұрын
Thank You so much I made the decision to WALK away after fearing the person for many years and knowing my WORTH!! Amen!
@Nozie709 8 ай бұрын
I walked away from from a 6 years relationship that was toxic. He never appreciated me or loved me. Every year in our relationship he dated a different woman that he would move in with them when things didnt go right he would come back snd apologise. We share a 4 year old son that is autistic. I am on my own happy ,stronger than before
@Bound2Breakthrough 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this, I needed to hear this today as this morning I made the decision to walk away from my 2 year marriage which has been abusive. I’m so appreciative that you take the time to do these videos ❤️🙏🏻 it’s been 2 years of gaining experience and now it’s time to love me and respect myself again.
@desiree2299 9 ай бұрын
🙏🏽✨️❤️
@jrlatina 9 ай бұрын
Wow!!! Absolutely, I sit back and think to myself over and over again how did I let this narcissistic bum in my life! 🤔😡
@teresatatum2287 5 ай бұрын
Probably like that Toni Braxton song you was so in love, you couldn’t see past his smile
@Kashmir-lt4cx Ай бұрын
@@teresatatum2287what song was that one?
@teresatatum2287 Ай бұрын
@@Kashmir-lt4cx Toni Braxton love should’ve brought you home last night. Gotta hand it to ya Ya had me there for a while I was so in love with you I couldn't see past your smile.
@Kashmir-lt4cx Ай бұрын
@teresatatum2287 oh thank you
@Kashmir-lt4cx Ай бұрын
@teresatatum2287 oh thank you
@empresshunt7280 9 ай бұрын
I’m sitting here playing this over and over again. Literally. That’s how much this is feeding my soul.
@enigmaticladypisces3169 9 ай бұрын
Same thing with me. 💪🏾
@Christine-jg3hf 7 ай бұрын
YES LORD! AMEN!💋💞🌷🌹💪🙏
@gloriawalket1163 9 ай бұрын
I just love all your messages. You are appreciated by so many Bishop. I look forward to hearing you.
@violetmalpica2571 9 ай бұрын
I will second your emotion.
@Christine-jg3hf 7 ай бұрын
I Third That Emotion! Thank You All So Much! Am Going through All This Now! 35 Years Married!💔💔💔💔💔💪🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@melliemel9794 9 ай бұрын
Forgive me Lord 🙏🏾💔😪
@danyellg3079 9 ай бұрын
💔💔💯🙏🏽
@callonthemidwife1874 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for making these great sermons for us. Pastor Blakes.. 🤛🏽
@user-px9tl9cj6f 7 ай бұрын
I was crying listening to this message; GOD has given me the strength to walk away. Thank you JESUS/ R.C BLAKES
@servirtud 9 ай бұрын
Hi, I am Catholic and I love your ministry. Thank you with all my heart. God bless your family, your mind, and your intentions. We are living in a broken society and healing and tuition make a difference. ❣
@paulchris5662 4 ай бұрын
Me too
@paulchris5662 4 ай бұрын
Got heart broken yesterday and am healing through Bishop
@NS_32 9 ай бұрын
I got so used to undermining my feelings and talking myself out of it all the time. Now when I look back at some of the things I tolerated throughout the time I was in the relationship😔. Never again. Learnt I should learn to accept the truth early. Thank you Bishop for the fatherly voice you have for a lot of us🚶🏾♀️
@Kashmir-lt4cx Ай бұрын
@nomsa cause they indoctrinate you by telling you that you are too sense or too jealous, too demanding!
@lensim9100 9 ай бұрын
Don't hurry Pastor. If you make time to teach. I will make time to listen and learn.
@taniaarmenta3485 9 ай бұрын
Once GOD SAYS SOMETHING LISTENNNNNN!!!!!!
@adwoaajifowowe2997 9 ай бұрын
This is so true.I was a victim but thank God I am out.He gave me the strength to move out and move on
@bridgettetraveler658 9 ай бұрын
Walk away can be every situation & relationship in life. Sometimes it's DNA & sometimes it's a job. This is a beautiful video. Thank u Bishop Blake.
@carminagomez8105 9 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this, as a reminder to hold my value before our Lord Jesus Christ, and keep my promise to myself...I am a queen and have great value. Thank you Pastor! Blessings always 🙏😇
@theinfamousninapink 9 ай бұрын
This!!!! Right here!!! Yes!!! ❤❤🙏🏾🙌🏾
@santoshi8237 9 ай бұрын
😊ll
@santoshi8237 9 ай бұрын
😊ll
@klatham6306 9 ай бұрын
15:33 After we talk about walking away, can we discuss how to STAY AWAY??
@akeishaharris 9 ай бұрын
Amen..
@broco6608 9 ай бұрын
Maybe we can discuss what we've done to stay away. I moved across the country. Then I stopped sleeping with men. Celibacy helps a LOT!!!
@thelovelylife7451 9 ай бұрын
@@broco6608I agree with being celibate. Once I became celibate, I started looking at sex in a COMPLETELY different light. Now, I can’t even imagine sleeping with ANYONE other than my future husband
@jqgatlas4281 9 ай бұрын
@@thelovelylife7451Amen. I simply ghosted my ex, severed all lines of communication. Thank God I had no children with him. It was terribly hard at 1st, but submitting myself to the Lord helped me. I now know if God doesn't send him, I don't want him.💕🙏🏼
@jericaleigh 3 ай бұрын
That is what I am struggling w right now. I have tried leaving so many times and this man never even tried looking for me but somehow I was able to contact him again, bc I didn’t like the thought of him moving onto someone else, and also bc he never he fought for me to stay w him it never affected him that I was gone for 3 months. It broke my heart, and I was so desperate for answers, questioning if he was seeing someone else. Still bothers me and I am w him again, knowing once I leave he won’t even care. It really messes w my self esteem 😢😢😢😢
@stephaniebrodie5743 9 ай бұрын
I just had to say ouch on this one. You stepped on all 10 of my toes. I walked away. I woke up to my worth. I thank you for this message. 🙌🏽
@MysticButterfly22 9 ай бұрын
This message struck my heart tonight R.C. Your word, spared me literally from making a toxic decision with a man who I know doesn't Love me nor value my true worth, if he is willing to cheat on his girlfriend of 10yrs to entertain me and other things I won't mention on KZfaq. That speaks volumes. But I love myself enough to walk away from this man unsaved. Thank you so much! You are in fact doing God's will with your weekly sermons, and other platforms. Continue your good works and God Bless you and your wife.🙏🏽💖
@user-lm6xm3or4u 9 ай бұрын
Not only walk, but keep walking! We must love ourselves enough or more than that thing. It was just a thing not the real thing!
@raineya.8157 9 ай бұрын
Bishop came to SLAAYYYY the word ✝️and quicken us to awaken! 🔥🔥Thanks for this fiery word Bishop. "Trix are for kids" and we don't need a sugary-coated word when it comes to loving, keeping our word and honoring ourselves. Thanks speaking the word in the way that it was needed to be delivered.👏🏾💪🏾✅
@theinfamousninapink 9 ай бұрын
❤
@Christine-jg3hf 7 ай бұрын
AMEN!💋💞🌷🌹💪🙏🥰
@YahsGiftlove 9 ай бұрын
I am 2 days into walking away from a 10 year relationship, this popped up on my TL right on time
@Kashmir-lt4cx Ай бұрын
I guess marriage woulda been worse, only cause of the divirce procedure
@mineallmine8534 9 ай бұрын
This came just at the right time❤
@Blessed75463 9 ай бұрын
Bishop give to us, everyone will thank you for it later if not now🙏🏾🙏🏾.
@latinagibbs2770 9 ай бұрын
Wake up Accept the situation Love yourself and Keep your promises
@user-rd2mx8ri9h 9 ай бұрын
❤😢 reality is walking away is know as an empowering thing to someone who has felt a certain way for a long time
@marquisevans2201 9 ай бұрын
You Hit The Nail On The Head RC Blakes. You defined my marriage for me. I walked away and ended my marriage. I put those memories in my rear view mirror and tucked them away.
@yahchelrachel 7 ай бұрын
You have to get up from the table when love is no longer being served. I really needed to hear this even though I already know my time is up.
@patriciamitchell1924 9 ай бұрын
Very powerful...thank u for taking time to speak to us about having the strength to walk away ..U r truly speaking through the Lord's words..Yes I did put myself there and I wished I hadn't...I allowed my loneliness to take over and there the seed was planted😢I honestly need every one of my Queens prayer..God bless u all🫥🙏🙏
@cookiesmom584 9 ай бұрын
I started listening 2.5 yrs ago but went back to the Situationship. Went back n’ forth many times and strengthened the toxic bond. Everything you say resonates. Humbling myself to ask for intercession to break the trauma bond with this person who I desperately need to disconnect with. Problem is he did so many nice things and considered a loyal friend but not a good bf! Jesus help me “want” to cut the cord. 7.5 yrs. already and I’m not young.
@Shishi6969 5 ай бұрын
@cookiesmom584 I’m In the same boat, soulties ain’t a joke
@vivianngoato8669 9 ай бұрын
Trying to walk away from someone and I know they are not worth my time!I needed to hear this.its crazy how we get over selves involved with the wrong people the bond is deep I can't even explain although I haven't been intimate with them🥺 working on it
@tiffanylamb2316 9 ай бұрын
I have always been that woman to walk away… unfortunately you are shunned upon when you do and most males retaliate when you do but that is no excuse to not leave
@michelle_thepath 9 ай бұрын
Absolute fire 🔥 ‼️ For me it's spot on... Insecurity & not knowing my self-worth is sooo dangerous! Anger sometimes is sooo healthy because anger moves you to action!!! Thank you ❤ 🙏🏻 ‼️
@SavageQueen58 9 ай бұрын
Happy Anniversary to you and Lisa. May you be blessed with many more years. Thank you for all you do to help us heal. ❤❤
@africas_original 9 ай бұрын
Sometimes, it not walking away from a toxic relationship but walking away from a situation that was just supposed to be a season.
@cookiesmom584 9 ай бұрын
Exactly! 🙏🏼. That’s hard as well
@bonitajolie9341 9 ай бұрын
Yes indeed. Bishop, you are always dropping bombs!! I wasted most of my life away on someone who did not and could not love me. Can't get those years back. It almost claimed my life. Finally, I got out. I finally chose me! It's the best decision I've ever made, second only to choosing Jesus!!
@violetmalpica2571 9 ай бұрын
Bishop you are truly speaking wonderfully tonight. I could only apply this message to my relationships with my malignant narcissistic mother & brother. They have been nothing but detrimental to me.
@connievelez5478 9 ай бұрын
It was over before it started. Another entanglement, but more educated. I am now practicing self love and self care. I accept the truth. Thank you Bishop. Right on time message for me
@brettswiferose50 6 ай бұрын
I play these back always just to remember where I came from...
@osarah8074 2 ай бұрын
I do my best to keep the promises I made to other people how much more myself. I must keep the promises I made to myself..no going back.. never. I won't betray myself ever again 😢
@feliciawills1104 9 ай бұрын
Truth will Set Me Free ! I deleted his number and Blocked him ..🙏🏾🙏🏾
@J_Elle30 9 ай бұрын
A lot of us know we need to leave, for others it’s making sure we get out safely and with kids. So glad God gave me the opportunity to leave in peace and make a clean break🤍
@tacowboys6890 9 ай бұрын
Praise God , it happened for me many years ago, it was a semi clean break , law enforcement had to get involved but GOD! was THE LAW ENFORCEMENT to end it all with kids too!
@priscillaturner812 9 ай бұрын
I'm praying for a peaceful and clean transition out of this marriage
@J_Elle30 9 ай бұрын
@@tacowboys6890 so happy you all are safe✨
@J_Elle30 9 ай бұрын
@@priscillaturner812 yes! Lean on Him and He will make a way✨ praying for your protection and healing in this new chapter
@patriciabrooks6775 3 ай бұрын
God bless you Bishop Blake's you are so right and on point. All praises to God because I have learned to walk away immediately. I learned to watch the red flags. Then being in a intimate relationship with God I know how God sees me and what he thinks of me. So if God loves me then I in turn loves myself because I am fearfully and wonderfully made. So why would I let a man or anyone for that matter disrespect me plus the holy spirit will not let your heart be not settled you want be at peace. You feel its not right in your spirit. Thank you father God for knowing who I am in you and the love for me because you paid the ultimate price. Thank you God and thank you for blessing Bishop Blake's to bring us the word that you have for us.❤
@mariaallen261 18 күн бұрын
I agree. I had to walk away because I refused to accept a lesser treatment and I am proud of myself from walking away and standing strong.
@upendofancy1781 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much bishop, father, King of Queen! The impact you bring to us ,especially me as a woman ,May GOD remember you!
@missstarrynight7736 9 ай бұрын
Recently I walked away from a "friendship", or something I hoped to become true friendship. I realized that this person simply didn't value me enough to be my friend. I am not a "placeholder" and I refuse to be treated as if being in touch with me was a huge inconvenience. I cared about this woman, I tried to reach out to her, when she had some family problems, even if she was not that determined to reach out to me when I was in trouble, I used to offer my help and support, yet... looks like it was never good enough. I am done. If a person is unwilling to appreciate decent, genuine efforts to be in touch and talk honestly from time to time - I am not going to degrade myself and beg for bits of attention. Somewhere there might be people, who will appreciate me.
@enigmaticladypisces3169 9 ай бұрын
Omg!! I am about to cry!!!! You took the words directly out my head!!
@monicawilcox418 9 ай бұрын
Wow! You cannot get up u.til you wake up! ❤
@violetmalpica2571 9 ай бұрын
Lord knows, I need it this message today.
@olgaleo2 9 ай бұрын
Me too!! 🙏🏿
@romanceoba5524 9 ай бұрын
You are loved You are a queen
@patriciamitchell1924 9 ай бұрын
Pastor u r so right...yes u did get caught up in this relationship and I'm trying my best to get out of it
@kimberlymay9497 7 ай бұрын
No longer a victim, but a volunteer! This was good. Thank you🙏
@bernadettestrawder8365 9 ай бұрын
Constructive criticism harsh truth I needed to hear this message 💯🙏🏿♥️
@elizabethash4720 4 күн бұрын
I love this pastor and man, RCBlakes. Thankyou for this sermon from the heart .❤
@TheBurningBusch 9 ай бұрын
Happy Anniversary Bishop to you and Lady Lisa! May God bless you with many more glorious years together! I love you both! To God be the glory for your Ministry
@joannethayerrealtor3653 9 ай бұрын
This came in perfect timing. Thank you for giving me strength and reminding me that God loves me like I am.
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