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HOW WE MET! | 25 YEAR AGE GAP

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The Benson Tribe

The Benson Tribe

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Copyright is not intended. I do not own the rights to any music used.
•We tell the story of how we met. It’s a very special story to us. We hope you guys enjoy!
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+Edited on iMovie.
+Intro and outro song: Finish Line x Chance the Rapper.

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@cierrelanae7993
@cierrelanae7993 5 жыл бұрын
I’m 27 & my man is 47. He is amazing. Our relationship is beyond beautiful
@sincerelytrinice_6304
@sincerelytrinice_6304 4 жыл бұрын
First time seeing 2 ppl of color in this type of video. Wish u guys nothing but the best ♥️
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! It is very rare to see a relationship of color like ours. I think that’s what makes our relationship so unique.
@amberstewart5530
@amberstewart5530 3 жыл бұрын
Check out Alicia Kim’s channel. She is 37 years younger than her husband. They are Jamaican
@quelquun2018
@quelquun2018 2 жыл бұрын
@@amberstewart5530 I love their channel!
@lifealliancegroup
@lifealliancegroup Жыл бұрын
This is the second one I've found with two black persons; it's like finding emeralds in the sand and diamonds in the rough, but a whole lot of Euro Men Black women huge gap vlogs out there, interesting why that is !?
@liannaramos6887
@liannaramos6887 4 жыл бұрын
I’m 21, my man is 44. He treats me like a queen and does everything to show me he love me. Many older men seem to tend to know exactly what they want and have no time for games (notice I said many, not all...) You guys are very inspirational 💙 I’m also in the same boat, parents don’t know. Super scared but hopefully this weekend when they meet, all will be well.. Nonetheless, I will still love him despite other’s opinions. Thanks for sharing love 💙
@sepomushaukwa9006
@sepomushaukwa9006 3 жыл бұрын
Omg I am 21 as well and my man is 38 😍😍😍
@jacobmsp2311
@jacobmsp2311 3 жыл бұрын
Awww
@mariethompson4237
@mariethompson4237 2 жыл бұрын
That's because he is older than your father... 😐
@celestematthews3266
@celestematthews3266 4 жыл бұрын
I see nothing wrong with older and younger relationships it's the love that counts.❤
@kupendawants2no
@kupendawants2no 5 жыл бұрын
Wow he's very Handsome!! You guys are very cute together!❤❤😊
@layywavy7122
@layywavy7122 6 жыл бұрын
Y’all are such a beautiful couple!
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 5 жыл бұрын
Awweee. Thank you so much!!
@sw3737
@sw3737 4 жыл бұрын
I’m reading some of the comments ; people if you within 10 yrs of age of your partner that is not an age gap you are still in your age group. You should be at 15 yrs from that person age to be in age gap relationship.
@chrisbla7500
@chrisbla7500 4 жыл бұрын
Stacey true ❤️
@jsexychoc09
@jsexychoc09 5 жыл бұрын
My husband is 12 years older than me and we mesh perfectly, ladies dont be scared to date older men!!!
@jsexychoc09
@jsexychoc09 5 жыл бұрын
Okay you say that, but when I tell people our age difference they act like it's a big deal that I'm in in my late 20s and he is in his early 40s but thank you for your input.
@prettybee102
@prettybee102 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I rather be with an older man who treats me right...Than to be dogged out by a so called man my age . Not saying a older man wouldn't do that....but yeah lol
@mariethompson4237
@mariethompson4237 2 жыл бұрын
Keep your foolish advise to yourself.
@jsexychoc09
@jsexychoc09 2 жыл бұрын
@@mariethompson4237 um who are you to tell me wtf to do? If someone of legal age wants to date older that’s their decision.
@KwamyPrincess54
@KwamyPrincess54 5 жыл бұрын
We didn't work out but my last boyfriend is 9 years older than me. At the time I considered that a huge gap but now noticing the maturity level of guys around his age, I don't think even a 15 or 20 year gap would be bad. Plus, once you have an age gap relationship I think it's hard to go back. I really enjoyed your video and it gives me hope that I'll find the one no matter what! God bless!
@KwamyPrincess54
@KwamyPrincess54 5 жыл бұрын
I'm 21 almost 22 btw. I personally believe as long as the woman is 18 or older people shouldn't give her trouble.
@pleasuretube2132
@pleasuretube2132 2 жыл бұрын
Single man no kids looking for one Seriously
@mermaidmonroe1947
@mermaidmonroe1947 5 жыл бұрын
I’m currently dating a 53 year old he’s 29 years older than me
@mermaidmonroe1947
@mermaidmonroe1947 5 жыл бұрын
ous BOBB ‼️‼️‼️‼️
@tonyjohnson7917
@tonyjohnson7917 5 жыл бұрын
Girl me too!! I am 25 and my boyfriend is 51. It’s nice having a relationship that is very mature and we’re we communicate a lot !
@mermaidmonroe1947
@mermaidmonroe1947 5 жыл бұрын
Talia A it’s very refreshing
@jagodamakijewska8548
@jagodamakijewska8548 4 жыл бұрын
I’m 18 and I’m seeing someone who’s 44. I don’t know how to tell my parents, I feel like they’ll be disappointed with me. There’s a 26 year age gap between us.
@Oceanusnovas-um2zf
@Oceanusnovas-um2zf 4 жыл бұрын
@@jagodamakijewska8548 Wow. That is a lot. Best of luck
@RachelLoveMartinez
@RachelLoveMartinez 2 жыл бұрын
Love has no limits between two mature adults. Age is just a number. Its not called your agemate or your bodymate. Its called your soulmate. When souls connect, true love manifests beyond the physical!
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 2 жыл бұрын
i like how you put that!
@pleasuretube2132
@pleasuretube2132 2 жыл бұрын
Single man no kids looking for one
@RachelLoveMartinez
@RachelLoveMartinez 2 жыл бұрын
@@pleasuretube2132 1
@pleasuretube2132
@pleasuretube2132 2 жыл бұрын
@@RachelLoveMartinez I m looking for one beautiful. Are you single ?
@pleasuretube2132
@pleasuretube2132 2 жыл бұрын
@@RachelLoveMartinez age is a number for me. I never think about for a good relationship. Only that we need a true feelings
@carrissapowell120
@carrissapowell120 4 жыл бұрын
My disease finance and I had a 17 age gap . He was an overflowing blessing in my life even for the short time God allowed us to ve together. We had a God center type of relationship that was beyond priceless. I pray one day that God bless me with this type of relationship that leads into marriage . I want to encourage you both to continue to keep God first in your marriage . God's overflowing blessings be upon you both and your sons.
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 4 жыл бұрын
sorry for your loss. he sounded like he brought you a lot of light and love. we definitely try to keep God the head of our relationship.
@saraabi7780
@saraabi7780 5 жыл бұрын
You guys are Beautiful !! i thought im the only one. Me and my husband have same age gap too . We been together for almost 5 years . We have 2 cute kids . God bless
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! We just wanted to share about our relationship. And have people know love is love no matter what. Congrats on your relationship and children. God Bless you too!
@mermaidmonroe1947
@mermaidmonroe1947 5 жыл бұрын
THOMAS is fine 😻 and I don’t wear glasses 😻
@feliciapattman
@feliciapattman 5 жыл бұрын
I DON'T wear glasses either but clearly he has a ring on his finger. 👌
@mermaidmonroe1947
@mermaidmonroe1947 5 жыл бұрын
feliciapattman and clearly you are reaching I was referring to his comments about hisself. Grow up it’s never that serious... God Bless!
@feliciapattman
@feliciapattman 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks babe God always bless .😘
@mermaidmonroe1947
@mermaidmonroe1947 5 жыл бұрын
I don’t argue with my sisters ever 🖤🖤🖤
@feliciapattman
@feliciapattman 5 жыл бұрын
@@mermaidmonroe1947 Good girl I wouldn't if I was you either . Sista have a nice night sleep tight
@nobs997
@nobs997 5 жыл бұрын
Age is just a number if a man is not broke
@je39981
@je39981 5 жыл бұрын
Those are the rules.
@Username0029
@Username0029 3 жыл бұрын
FFFAAAAACCCTTTTTSSS. Cash rules.
@ilovejesus9303
@ilovejesus9303 3 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅😅😅
@andrejackson1199
@andrejackson1199 5 жыл бұрын
His wife is gorgeous i see why he went to McDonalds everyday
@CatreaAYoung
@CatreaAYoung 5 жыл бұрын
Y’all are beautiful 🌹 Love is Love no matter the age God Bless ❤️
@novaclark1396
@novaclark1396 5 жыл бұрын
When love you fiend
@kenitastevens2102
@kenitastevens2102 4 жыл бұрын
I’m 40 my honey is 20 years older than me and we have a lot of ups and downs . But we are also best friends and over the years I’ve experienced and learned a lot from dealing with him and I’ve shown him a lot as well . Age is truly just a number b/c we never really worried about it .
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 4 жыл бұрын
exactly age is just a number. i have learned a lot from thomas and i feel i’ve taught him a little just as well. we are growing and learning from each other everyday and our love continues to grow stronger and stronger!
@donjazzy5510
@donjazzy5510 5 жыл бұрын
No point in an "age gap" story if the ages are not disclosed......
@ihama99
@ihama99 5 жыл бұрын
You can tell the age gap is at least 20.
@janellecumberbatch3651
@janellecumberbatch3651 5 жыл бұрын
The thumbnail says 25 years
@janellecumberbatch3651
@janellecumberbatch3651 5 жыл бұрын
Wish theu said their actal ages tho
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 5 жыл бұрын
Thomas is 53 and I'm 27.
@kippahthefrenchiewhippasni9689
@kippahthefrenchiewhippasni9689 5 жыл бұрын
@@@TheBensonTribe: Congratulations ! My Queen is 26 and I'm 47. Blessings to the Benson Tribe. Very inspiring.
@nayc7373
@nayc7373 4 жыл бұрын
Wow Thank you for sharing your story I understand how you both feel. I have the same problems with my parents on dating older men. I'm happy to see y'all making it through and never letting your love stops.
@coliarae
@coliarae 4 жыл бұрын
May God continue to bless yall, I'm also in an age relationship my fiancee is 43 and I'm 26, the absolute best relationship I've ever had he treats me like a true queen. Continue the love
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. Congratulations on getting engaged! And may God continue to bless your unity with your fiancé!
@gutchiespencer2714
@gutchiespencer2714 5 жыл бұрын
Well! For starters he does have a sense of humor.....”She does wear glasses.” 😂😂He doesn’t take himself too seriously. I like that....BTW! I love your music....it tells me you guys are Rocking. I’m subbing! I love you two...Is he jealous????😂You sounds like a Mama’s girl....
@teachthem4ever
@teachthem4ever 5 жыл бұрын
Why do you have music in the background? It’s a cool story time, but the music is distracting...
@divinelyblessedkb
@divinelyblessedkb 5 жыл бұрын
I love it!!! Blessings to you guys!!
@SuperKwame1
@SuperKwame1 5 жыл бұрын
Age is only relative to those see age as a guaranteed to their relationship! It will work! Just love ❤️ each other just like you would want to be treated.
@kingnaldo4058
@kingnaldo4058 3 жыл бұрын
I love this, there's hope for me finding a younger woman....🙏
@leticiaharris4208
@leticiaharris4208 5 жыл бұрын
I just stumbled upon your channel you two are a lovely couple.
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 5 жыл бұрын
thank you so much!
@ob2be1
@ob2be1 5 жыл бұрын
Yall are so cute, I love your easy going personalities. I'm approached by older men all the time but I never pursue it because of the reservations I have about the aspects of being so far apart in age.
@CHRISBROWNSLADY
@CHRISBROWNSLADY 5 жыл бұрын
ob2be1 you should give it a try. Treat you better than these young guys
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 5 жыл бұрын
it's all about your preference. if you're not comfortable with it, then don't do it. there is a lot of judgement that comes with younger women dating older men. But for my case, I knew Thomas isn't an "old dirty man" so I was completely comfortable with him. and he treats me like a queen. I couldn't have asked for a better man.
@mattisonyarborough246
@mattisonyarborough246 2 жыл бұрын
Age is just a number, IT'S WHO YOU LOVE AND WHO LOVES YOU that matters. My daughter's father is 20 years older than me. 10/02/21 ❤️😇
@JuukezeBarbie
@JuukezeBarbie 5 жыл бұрын
Y’all have the loving family I always wished I had..there’s no way in hell my brother would lend me his personal car and I wouldn’t hear the end of it if I took my mom’s car as well..on the other hand I make it a point to provide that kind of genuine love for my kids being that I know the pains and struggles of not having any kind of family support when we’re down and out 💕💕because I was young and dumb and couldn’t get my act together my brother sold my car to our cousin for $1k and then the cousin turned around and sold it to a stranger for $2k smdh all the while my bro n his wife would lend my mom’s car to my bro’s niece-in-law to go to work but the car would always come back in a lame condition (visor bent, dirt marks in the rooftop interior, coin caught in the window motor, and the list went on) this was from the in-laws exemplary side of the family lmfao
@itstylhr9263
@itstylhr9263 5 жыл бұрын
Y’all are adorable 😩❤️
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 5 жыл бұрын
thank you so much ❤️
@analyst1777
@analyst1777 Жыл бұрын
She has a great spirit!! They complement each other!
@iriscakearse6826
@iriscakearse6826 5 жыл бұрын
Y'all are awesome couple,, congrats me n my husband been together 14 years n it a age difference we had to hide the same way god bless u guys
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 5 жыл бұрын
it's always hard trying to explain a age gap relationship. not everyone will understand, but that's not gonna change the love I have for the person I'm with.
@iriscakearse6826
@iriscakearse6826 5 жыл бұрын
@@TheBensonTribe that's real
@divaasworld435
@divaasworld435 5 жыл бұрын
First I didn’t even know y’all where that old apart but this is a true definition that black don’t crack periodT. Y’all cute tho 🤗. I make videos too and will love it if you and anyone else checks it out ❤️
@carrissapowell120
@carrissapowell120 4 жыл бұрын
I was bless by y'all relationship journey story...This give me hope has a single person. I'm grateful that y'all vlog came across my feeder. God bless you both.
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 4 жыл бұрын
awe thank you! we’re happy we can encourage you. God bless you too!
@pleasuretube2132
@pleasuretube2132 2 жыл бұрын
Single man no kids looking for one Seriously. 24 years old by age
@robind.phillips2129
@robind.phillips2129 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your love story.
@mrsveronamayshaw479
@mrsveronamayshaw479 Жыл бұрын
I love you guys! ❤️👸🏾🙌🏾
@kayjewels1488
@kayjewels1488 4 жыл бұрын
Lol he made it known it wasn’t a slow night, I intentionally made an effort to make time to see you. Awwwwwww
@macdonaldgrazette1897
@macdonaldgrazette1897 5 жыл бұрын
Well first off,you guys are Jets fans so you're good in my book.Some younger women are looking for serious relationships and find that in older brothers...God bless your happiness
@natashajackson7932
@natashajackson7932 5 жыл бұрын
I know all about the age gap. My parents had the same age gap. 💕💕
@isaiahj.montgomery1440
@isaiahj.montgomery1440 5 жыл бұрын
Please make more videos
@AuntieCheri
@AuntieCheri Жыл бұрын
Cool couple!!! Nice vibe.
@rosemarygreen7350
@rosemarygreen7350 5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful couple
@tiarasiobhon
@tiarasiobhon 3 жыл бұрын
I love your story❤️
@beautyishername2257
@beautyishername2257 5 жыл бұрын
Me and my man have a age gap too. I'm 30 and he's 41, it's not really that big of a gap
@duaneanderson8871
@duaneanderson8871 2 жыл бұрын
Yes 11 years is not that big..as long as your relationship works ok and u guys are happy.
@josephvalentine7
@josephvalentine7 5 жыл бұрын
Big ups to u Big Homie !
@ribotcarolyn
@ribotcarolyn 5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful couple!
@Talesbyruby
@Talesbyruby 5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@mattisonyarborough246
@mattisonyarborough246 2 жыл бұрын
My 2nd HUSBAND was 10 years YOUNGER THAN ME. 10/02/21 ❤️😇
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 2 жыл бұрын
how did that age gap difference feel?
@vusimngomezulu2500
@vusimngomezulu2500 5 жыл бұрын
Ephesians 5:33.
@dorisfashion
@dorisfashion 5 жыл бұрын
I am 32 and my boyfriend is 41. I guess age ain't nothing but a number.
@mermaidmonroe1947
@mermaidmonroe1947 5 жыл бұрын
dorisfashion yes not that much older than you.
@christiancitychick
@christiancitychick 3 жыл бұрын
You guys look are so beautiful together 😍😍
@kyshabelike
@kyshabelike 4 жыл бұрын
Awwww💜💜💜
@pleasuretube2132
@pleasuretube2132 2 жыл бұрын
Single man no kids looking for one Seriously
@michaelread4293
@michaelread4293 4 жыл бұрын
God bless your union
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 4 жыл бұрын
thank you!
@Iknodeyhayden
@Iknodeyhayden Жыл бұрын
Y'all got me smiling at my phone. Such as beautiful union
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe Жыл бұрын
thank you!
@dorisfoote1756
@dorisfoote1756 5 жыл бұрын
age really ain't nothing but a number, love has no age limit to it, love allso,have no color to it..
@duffydon1741
@duffydon1741 Жыл бұрын
Let me tell yoll this truth, it will END IN TEARS!!!
@dorisfoote1756
@dorisfoote1756 5 жыл бұрын
very nice couple...he is very handsome, and you are very cute..God bless you both..
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 5 жыл бұрын
thank you ❤️
@Username0029
@Username0029 3 жыл бұрын
Ya'll look so much alike!!
@fitnesshigherselfhealthand7102
@fitnesshigherselfhealthand7102 3 жыл бұрын
How old is she that her parents can tell her to come home and who to date. She must’ve been younger than 18
@urflyest
@urflyest 5 жыл бұрын
Yea!...Do she know how a Stroke Stroke looka like?
@sepomushaukwa9006
@sepomushaukwa9006 3 жыл бұрын
How old where you each when you met?
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 3 жыл бұрын
i was 20 and he was 45
@rumbiasher9807
@rumbiasher9807 5 жыл бұрын
Sooo cute
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@sharonabraham5207
@sharonabraham5207 5 жыл бұрын
What a lovely couple, handsome man and beautiful Lady, woww!!!
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 5 жыл бұрын
thank you.
@CG-gc8ei
@CG-gc8ei 5 жыл бұрын
How sweet
@MsEbony-pl7bi
@MsEbony-pl7bi 3 жыл бұрын
Cute couple!
@alexacosta3834
@alexacosta3834 4 жыл бұрын
Love you boos. God Bless you Bo's off you.Amem
@kaylaolsom4484
@kaylaolsom4484 5 жыл бұрын
How old are y’all if you don’t mind me asking?
@Learninghowtorebuild
@Learninghowtorebuild 5 жыл бұрын
Yu do the math, she looks early 20s and he looks 40
@kaylaolsom4484
@kaylaolsom4484 5 жыл бұрын
Learninghowtorebuild stfu
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 5 жыл бұрын
no I wasn't underage. I just turned 21 when we started talking/dating. Thomas isn't that kind of man.
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 5 жыл бұрын
I don't mind. Thomas is 53 and Im 27. we just look a lot younger than what we are. good genes😄
@RDCFemmes
@RDCFemmes 5 жыл бұрын
Was she underaged when they started dating?
@TheBensonTribe
@TheBensonTribe 5 жыл бұрын
I had just turned 21 when we started dating.
@willa9791
@willa9791 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheBensonTribe dont pay this lady no mine... like your going to share something wrong... I rather see this than see our beautiful ladies dating the other side...
@NiaLacole2797
@NiaLacole2797 Жыл бұрын
Are you in a happy relationship is the real question because these people are.
@mrhateme87
@mrhateme87 5 жыл бұрын
Very weird. But hey!🤷🏽‍♂️
@robind.phillips2129
@robind.phillips2129 5 жыл бұрын
😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
@ENDofREGULATION30
@ENDofREGULATION30 5 жыл бұрын
This is weiiiiiiiiird...lol
@ebakindeji5941
@ebakindeji5941 5 жыл бұрын
How is it weird if they're both adults?.
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