How workplace bullying affects targeted persons.

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How workplace bullying affects targeted persons.

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Dr. Barrow continues her discussion regarding workplace bullying and how it affects targeted persons.
Relieving stress related to workplace bullying.
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@fergoesdayton 9 жыл бұрын

Workplace bullying is huge issue, that needs to be addressed.

@PersonWConscience 9 жыл бұрын

fergoesdayton YES.

@angelwishes3213 Жыл бұрын

Hopefully, but doubtful

@Joolz211 12 жыл бұрын

Workplace bullies are inadequate people who bully others to try and feel better about their pathetic little selves. Employees should have more protection from bullying at work.

@coreyanderson7424 2 жыл бұрын

Bullying happens even to the nicest, hardest worker. They don't care. In fact, sometimes certain types of people are threatened by that.

@piusjoseph1511 11 жыл бұрын

The affects of bullying in the workplace can be extremely debilitating. Sadly, some of these bullying tactics are directed at most anyone who is different and can be included as discriminatory.

@costazurra 10 жыл бұрын

We don't leave companies but we leave our managers!

@CplLe52irRC 9 жыл бұрын

Luna llena How can we manage stress when the managers are the cause of the stress?

@costazurra 9 жыл бұрын

Be smarter than them!

@lamzy3773 3 жыл бұрын

@@costazurra dumb advise

@costazurra 3 жыл бұрын

@@lamzy3773 You judge but dont give any advice so SHUT up OK

@lamzy3773 3 жыл бұрын

@@costazurra lol

@Musicpuzzle 10 жыл бұрын

I was the victim of workplace bullying at a psychiatric care unit where I was a therapist attempting to counsel patients in their own emotional issues and meanwhile had two coworkers who had no counseling background criticize, belittle, threaten and sabotage my work constantly and a social worker who told me if I get in her way she'd kill me. When I went to my manger and HR after having proof this was happen from other staff, the blame was redirected toward me. I couldn't take the constant harassment from people supposedly hired to help others and instead act as high school thugs.

@yaremilizbethdelgado8561 5 жыл бұрын

I worked in behavioral health nursing home that my coworkers treated me the same way. I enjoyed spending time with my patients and I had so much fun at work. But the other staff hated that and took advantage of the fact that I enjoyed doing my job to the point where I was taking care of 17 patients by myself. Theres so much more than that but I cant type everything. I felt guilty for being compassionate and loving towards psychiatric patients. Staff kept saying "they did this to themselves" and one staff actually said "that patient is urinating on purpose we should wait 2 hours before changing her so she doesn't urinate again" "shes attention seeking" I said "no we are changing her. You cant leave ppl sitting in their urine for two hours, that's wrong. And so what if its attention seeking she has a personality disorder, we have to provide her with love and care because that's what shes begging for, this isnt a personal attack on us."

@dawns9895 10 жыл бұрын

Why hasn't anything been done about this? How many people have to be hurt or die? We should have a right to go to work without this bull and provide for our families.

@annac7251 9 жыл бұрын

petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/end-workplace-bullying-america/B3Tg8VxR Sign this petition to help policies change

@dawns9895 9 жыл бұрын

Awesome!

@xenonkey7770 2 жыл бұрын

It’s shocking seeing this video now. I have been searching for answers with the workplace bullying I experienced…

@hannahhernandez2819 3 жыл бұрын

I have been bully at work and was fired because I stood up for myself I'm very depressed about it right now I cry every night and the people that bully me is sitting at work living their best life I have no one standing in my corner they told me life is 5% what happens to you and 95% on how you react

@beasaroseco5840 3 жыл бұрын

Good for standing up for yourself. I hope you find something better.

@deviantbookworm5826 11 жыл бұрын

I would wake up crying. That's when I knew it wasn't me. It was the workplace. My boss new what was going on and didn't care. He called me up and bullied me about my doctors certificate stating I needed time off. I quit. I'm still struggling with ptsd and social anxiety. I can't work as I have not faith. But I'm healing. Slowly. The union wanted me to sue but I didn't ahve the strenght. I now struggle to survive, but it was worth it. You can't win against these people.

@5ftsix712 5 жыл бұрын

I’m trying to recover from long term workplace harassment. It almost killed me .

@5ftsix712 5 жыл бұрын

The company allowed it for nearly 9 years .

@burningknuckle26 5 жыл бұрын

Me to. Deppression and ptsd

@rocker76m88 2 жыл бұрын

Same with me

@angelinapingitore8635 6 жыл бұрын

The Silent KILLER!!! It's everywhere

@33ashley33 11 жыл бұрын

I was told by lawyers, police, HR and management that there is absolutely nothing that can be done to someone that is harrassing someone. So I started harrassing this person at his home all through the christmas season and on christmas morning. He does not bother me at all and there was nothing anyone can do to me. Make the bully find the solution. It's your only hope.

@cherryjig7983 3 жыл бұрын

The online gang stalkers found where my new job was, & they called to tell about me exposing my Gang Stalking experiences & workplace mobbing at Sky Zone here in Pensacola, FL. The manager played fake "nice" & then lured me into the office, & 3 sheriff officers showed up to have me wrongfully fired & banned forever. I'm trying everything I could, to try to avoid attempting suicide.

@kdmil2002 11 жыл бұрын

I can see that this woman is a sweet soul and someone who a bully might be attracted to because they were perceive her goodness as weakness. Even her voice is gentle and sweet sounding and her whole demeanor seems humble. While these are beautiful characteristics in a person, in this world, the strong eat the weak. I am happy that she seems to have taken lemons and made lemonade by writing a book and helping others in the same situation. Good for her.

@EiziEizz 10 ай бұрын

Not the strong eat the weak, but the psychopathic disordered shitstains abuse and steal from the kind people.

@salv236 8 жыл бұрын

There should be a national register where you can name and shame bully bosses furthermore, I would go a step further by ensuring that managers under exams to ensure that they are licenses to become managers.

@Doriesep6622 8 жыл бұрын

Now there's a great idea.

@salv236 8 жыл бұрын

I would be happy to create a website that is for this purpose im currently retraining to become a web developer eventually once i have the skillset i wanna do this and have it live worldwide

@casparillo987 5 жыл бұрын

It's not just managers....

@salv236 5 жыл бұрын

@Dr Phil challenging however, obstacles are there to help you grow

@JoseGonzalas 4 жыл бұрын

Its the worst when you work for your family and the ones being abusive towards you are your own blood. I don't know how to procsss those awful emotions, so now im stuck with self hatred and anxiety.

@deviantbookworm5826 11 жыл бұрын

Leave it. I hope you left it. I was viciously attacked in front of another employee by my bully. I thought filed a report of harrassment and the other person lied in the report. And the "independent" investigator was the manager from the next office who the bully was friends with. Some workplaces are like high schools, if you are smart and kind you will be attacked and no-one will believe you are being attacked :-( Leave this toxic environment.

@Hawaiiansky11 13 жыл бұрын

Going to HR will only serve to makey ou look like you are out to 'get' the poor, innocent office bully / supervisor for trying to do their job. It WILL get turned around against you. The Bully WILL convince their superiors that they are "just trying to do their job, and don't understand why Suzie / Billy is having so many struggles...Poor Billy or Suzie." You WILL be seen as a trouble-maker and the bully WILL go on a full-fledged campaign to get you fired...and they will win.

@mandia469 Жыл бұрын

They always try to punish you when you go to anyone higher than them. I've had a couple of instances where I complained to a manager higher than my direct manager, and was then told by my direct manager that I should have followed the chain of command! And that I was out of line and wrong for going out of the chain of command!! Like bye.

@marathonhigh2471 8 жыл бұрын

Dear fellow professionals, if you deal with being bullied at the workplace - PLEASE report it immediately. You must realize your own potential. Even if you owe house payments, etc - leave that toxic environment. Your mind/body will appreciate your actions.

@Ralphyx33 5 жыл бұрын

Marathon High This is true, but people have responsibilities that they can’t run from so quitting isn’t a option. I’ve left dozen of jobs and ended up homeless once and almost again because of how uncomfortable I was at work.

@angelwishes3213 Жыл бұрын

@@Ralphyx33 amen

@EricaYE6 5 жыл бұрын

What goes around, comes around bullies.

@askyeshka726 7 жыл бұрын

my child is being targeted and mobbed at school BY teachers and the principal ,it is horrible.

@angelwishes3213 Жыл бұрын

Praying you see better days and a way to protect your child

@askyeshka726 Жыл бұрын

@@angelwishes3213 Thank You!

@buddysmart8550 11 жыл бұрын

I finally decided to put up videos of my getting bullied. More on the way for anyone that wants to watch. And yes, I was a target twice of work place bullying, many years ago.

@jefffuehr366 10 жыл бұрын

the people at your job will start participating with the organized gang-stalking. they know that they got lots of people watching you, so yeah, they're going to start coughing when they see you, spend a lot of they're time trying to make you think shat THEY want you to think, and they're going to try to ACT like you're not doing a good job, they're going to put 2-3 days of work on your work list, and then sit there & try to ACT like it's just 8 hours of work that you should be getting done, and they're also going to be reacting to everything that they watch you do & say in the privacy of your home everyday. welcome to organized gang-stalking ( a.k.a. the world class deception used to mislead millions of people about a target, while NEVER telling people the real story, or the real reason that they want ya watched ).

@KidPoe 7 жыл бұрын

Jeff Fuehr i know this is old but why do they cough?

@pjnalty 7 жыл бұрын

Tipoff that the target is approaching.

@lopezcora 6 жыл бұрын

Kid Poe They cough, laugh, clear throat, make some kind of random sound that seems normal..but..in the beginning they say or do something..excessively .... Many times..and they do or say something..to let target know that they are being followed..watched. Pretty close to 24/7. .. Im so sick of the people that have been harassing me..etc

@kamea4023 6 жыл бұрын

So true😢

@hollywoodartchick 12 жыл бұрын

Who is this naive called who assumes that you can talk to the boss of your bully about the problem? Doesn't he know that their bosses usually put them up to this behavior...or are personal friends of theirs? People who have not been thru it have no way of understanding.

@angelwishes3213 Жыл бұрын

I agree, must be beyond smart, open-minded, and caring to understand and support. Never met one single person in my life with these qualities, but sure they are out there somewhere.

@meloneymoore5102 2 жыл бұрын

We should be able to file police reports and open up investigations on workplace bullying. We should be able to file legal charges against employers for allowing and enabling the workplace bullying to go on. People who have been targeted by management and other coworkers should face jail and prison time while the companies should also be legally charged and seriously fined while being out on a public list as an abusive workplace.

@999timepass Жыл бұрын

Absolutely.

@burningknuckle26 5 жыл бұрын

California dept of public health did it to me. Bullied till i got deppression and ptsd. They are evil. I got panic attacks when i never had them before. I realized that i would start crying when I would drive to the parking lot or walk in the door.

@costazurra 10 жыл бұрын

I had witness to people getting hearth attacks because of bulling!!!

@annac7251 9 жыл бұрын

petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/end-workplace-bullying-america/B3Tg8VxR Sign this petition to help policies change

@vonve358 9 жыл бұрын

Anna C I posted my KZfaq video the other day about being bullied at work and fired when I reported it. After I made my video I received a courier delivered letter from an Attorney representing Monitronics. It was a cease and desist letter. The lawyer demanded I immediately stop posting anything regarding the company and stated I had "until Friday" to take down all of my postings. I asked the attorney what posting did he have an issue with and he refused to say. He simply said I had better take down all of my postings and my video and never speak of the company. I worked at the company. I had an experience at that company. The lawyer told me I was posting false statements and that Monitronics had "statements" (two of which were from two women involved in the bullying and the other three from their friends and cohorts who sat with them and who were friends with them). It was like a mob rule and the lawyer didn't care. I thought we had freedom of speech in America. How can a corporation sic an attorney on a person and demand that they remove "EVERYTHING" and say "NOTHING ELSE EVER" even about their own experience? I didn't know this was possible. I am being THREATENED.

@gateclif55 11 жыл бұрын

I was the recipient of workplace bullying for the last three years of ten before i finally left. I was experiencing chest pains anxiety and depression with thoughts of suicide. This employee had not spoken to me in three years, ignored me and refused office communication quite often sneering and degrading me in private. I approached my boss who told me to try to get along with her and apologize even if it wasn't my fault. (she often wouldn't speak to him for months as well). Eventually another

@mariamsattar324 10 жыл бұрын

i go through this but to GODS grace i dont have cancer i have anxiety because of negativity in the work place the problem is finding a better job noone wants to hire espeicaly inn a small city

@christinehaigh9807 11 жыл бұрын

I read something on bullying as to how it does affect people emotionally, and mentally, and physically,

@Angus1966 11 жыл бұрын

Never , ever let them force you out. If bullying is the reason for leaving then it is the wrong reason to leave , taker legal action. Your emplyee relations consultant called john is only condoning bullies in favour of keeping employers out of court.

@khemetsmom713 4 ай бұрын

The fact that this was 14 years ago and it's still insidiously pervasive is insane

@JacobLangedijk 10 жыл бұрын

I am very proud of all the young people , who,s life was changed because of the program

@annac7251 9 жыл бұрын

petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/end-workplace-bullying-america/B3Tg8VxR Sign this petition to help policies change

@auntstacey123 11 жыл бұрын

I had a bully manager that I reported to the higher ups & the advice I was given was to ask the bully to go with me into a backroom during lunch & pray. Can you see someone actually approaching a bully & asking them that?!!! That was the most ridiculous advice I ever heard.

@Jay_Flippen 10 жыл бұрын

3:00 That would suck if that "support system" of family and friends were actually the primary driver of the bullying and abuse.

@really5453 2 жыл бұрын

Definitely the case with me.

@Rayman1971 Жыл бұрын

I was pushed by a guy at work, right in front of the boss and a few others. Nothing was done, the boss just turned his back, and others were silent. So I flew right up to him, my hat brim was in his forehead, and I told him if he ever put his hands on me again, I would break his fingers. Then I went back to work, got a slap on the wrist, and the guy never bothered me again. In fact, we became friends!

@josephineananda 3 жыл бұрын

What about the covert narcs in the workplace?

@snarlysnail 12 жыл бұрын

I was told by lawyer that i would have a legal case against organization of wrongful dismissal..but I couldn't stay any longer, was making me sick, got a dr. note for time off, that didn't work, HR was no help, she had way too much power so I eventually left..

@colin6768 6 жыл бұрын

I've been working for 30 years and some of the biggest assholes I've worked with were in the school system. My last job was in a middle school and there were two people in particular who made my life a living hell. I had to take medical leave because of it which was unpaid. I left there two years ago and I'm still suffering.

@MrFaisel34 13 жыл бұрын

Yes, I know of a Nurse Manager who had been bullied to point of a stroke. One of the psychopaths would refer to her as stupid behind her back. Another would have one of the Nurse Manager's charges to report back to him on a regular basis in order to undermine her. Whenever the nurse manager would state what her staff needed in staff meetings, the psychopath would grimace in discuss and deny her at every turn.

@McMinnManiac 11 жыл бұрын

Yeah, you know if your above the situation and they know you have the ability to leave ,and say, they need your talents,some mangers have to demean you to mke sure you know they are the boss.As in it's not possible for anyone to do the job right perfectly unless the boss is doing it themselves. What it comes down to is ,there are better jobs out there ,and some may pay less but have better benefits

@Thundersnowy 8 жыл бұрын

There's no recourse. It's legal. Even if you have legal recourse, like a disability, they may or may not take your case, and if they do, you have a hard time proving it and winning. You get treated like you are just trying to be a martyr (my boss called me that) or you have an emotional or mental problem and you are suffering only because you are defective mentally. It's impossible to fight. Anytime your boss bullies you, he will be believed over you. Polite approach does not work btw. Bullying is emotional terrorism. They aren't after good relationships, they are after POWER. Politeness, only gives them more of your vulnerability.

@womensarmycorpsveteran2904 8 жыл бұрын

+Fabled Creature My God, you hit the nail on the head. It absolutely is emotional terrorism. They also tried to make it look like I was some kind of nutter despite a 42-year perfect work record with loads of accolades and never having any problems. Im afraid to work now.

@Thundersnowy 8 жыл бұрын

Cathy Ferrari me too! I totally believe you as it happened to me. I kept saying why doesn't my work history prove to you that I'm not lying? I kept saying shouldn't the numbers speak for me?? But I didn't know a co-worker had vowed to do me in. Somebody else confided in me that they overheard her saying that. My only crime, i hadn't joined her click as she ganged up on the weak and had everybody find faults about a person and point it out to the boss. It was her favorite game to find someone to overpower and punish to make herself feel powerful. I fell in her radar and I was done for. She had followers who lied for her. Who is going to believe that if I try to defend myself?? I tried to tell my boss that I was being bullied and he treated me like a crazy person too. What do you do if you really are being bullied? You can't prove it usually because the bullies are actors who convince people they are charming and charismatic. They make friends with the right people in charge who will never doubt them). They do their dirty work when there are no witnesses. Sorry it happened to you. There's no way to prove it. And part of the emotional terror is that your life is ruined and it looks like you are the inept crazy one. They take no responsibility for the damage done.

@womensarmycorpsveteran2904 8 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your comments, I really appreciate it. Just spoke with lawyer & told him to either shit or get off the pot.... It's been nearly a year now and if there isn't something done I'm going to the media. (It's that bad). Just had 2 nights straight of headline news where New Zealand is the worst place in the world for workplace bullying. Lawyer begged me not to go to the media, YET.

@brownb1959 8 жыл бұрын

+Fabled Creature So true! People don't make the connection with workplace violence and bully bosses.

@mockatielnoirbrand7702 5 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what happened to me and exactly how I was treated when I tried to assert my rights. If you play fairly, don't join cliques and are also a top performer - there's target on your back from the get go. It wasn't until I read Gary and Ruth Namies book about Workplace Bullying that I realized I was targeted precisely because I was a conscientious and hard working employee in a toxic workplace - not because there was any real problem with me. To late now. I have PTSD.

@ninjachild6910 10 жыл бұрын

I so agree this has got to be stop!

@videorate3526 4 жыл бұрын

I was just bullied so badly at a Burger restaurant during last 6.67 years. Why hasn't there been be a change in labour laws over the last 10 years. Nobody helped and now I'm laid off due to covid restrictions slowed the business. HR didn't help. I couldn't enjoy the last 6.67 years and lost ability to enjoy happiness in last 6.67 years?The problem is Top down straight from government lack of protections for workers. Even a social worker couldn't help.

@raymondhardwick5183 3 жыл бұрын

And be careful of undercover bullies and thay will wait until get in a private place like in a cab of a mixer truck talk down to you

@goodfoodgoodpeople 12 жыл бұрын

@SuperRedskinsRule So true! They act like they like you and want to help then bam you hear about them talking crap about you. I have finally realized these people are real and they really do want to hurt others that they are threatened by. It really has made me upset knowing in my heart now that people are this sinister..

@lilydalelah2 12 жыл бұрын

@Hawaiiansky11 This is true; a bully who is clever and focused manipulates coworkers, mgrs, and HR, then bullying escalates to a full-scale "mobbing" now with full backing of the org. In the rabid excitement/camaraderie of the group-think, empower each other to destroy/oust the target. They avoid dealing in facts and never ask "WHY do we hate this employee now? WHY was this employee highly regarded/valued before, w/ a sparkling clean employment record, but suddenly dog dirt?" Mobbing's insanity!

@angelwishes3213 Жыл бұрын

Agree

@spbg-tn5zl 5 жыл бұрын

I have a manager who justifies workplace bullying by citing what took place at the initial job interview, before I was hired. This manager seeks to limit my income based on her judgement about my initial job interview. I was not hired at that time, and was not an employee. This manager is simply trying to justify workplace bullying.

@michaelcalaty 10 ай бұрын

I WAS HEALTHY .. NOW IM 34-- I HAVE A BRAIN TUMOR - NON CANCEROUS - PROLACTINOMA -- I AM ALSO NOW A FULL BLOWN EPLEPTIC AND ALMSOT LIFE MY LIFE DUE TO LIFE THREATENIG SEIZURES THAT WAS laughted at and used photos of my bruised face with contusions from the trauma and impact of my nde to laugh at me and talk trash about me./ :( it broke my heart! I never been nothing but nice to all those ppl and was astonished at the level of hate ppl have for others when they only hate you and bully you bc they feel low deep down :( just an awful low vibration way of being brough disease into my life stress and negativity

@hallaisvanessa5863 Жыл бұрын

There are people who commit suicide because of what goes on at work!

@999timepass Жыл бұрын

Over 30 suicides at France Telecom.

@snarlysnail 12 жыл бұрын

hmmm..I worked for a First Nation's organization where I was terrorized by my boss who was very cozy with the higher level of authority and I did attempt to iron out my relationship with my boss by using human resources manager to mediate..instead he fueled her abusive authority..it was a horrendous experience, I did seek legal advice and was told that she was definitely building a file against me for dismissal, she had me documenting our department's system..which was a strong indicator..i left

@tlynch89 11 жыл бұрын

You can possibly contact the EEOC (a federal equal opportunity department) and file and official complaint if going through your job resources does not help. Don't go to State Fair Housing and Employment. I had a very bad experience there. Hopefully things are better for you now.

@gregoryforrest8970 3 жыл бұрын

Never talk to human resources about bullying or you will be the loser out the door you go, only people that should be talked too about that is one your union officials at the union not shop stewards if your workplace has a union two a lawyer that has and extensive experience with workplace bullies and knows just how to guide or help you with resolving the issues or claiming for emotional damages.

@Matt-oy7pz 5 ай бұрын

practical advice: focus on getting good sleep before work.. it’s much harder to cope with, if you’re tired

@theSpicyHam 9 жыл бұрын

Very ugly to see some lawyers willing to do this. I always knew they were utter malicious beings / roachy cowards. Do we have real men left here?

@shashankkulkarni993 2 жыл бұрын

Heart attack. Brain stroke Blood pressuring I m experiences this bullying at workplace affects your physical mental health. Insecure jealous physcopath at work created lot of issues in my job's

@999timepass Жыл бұрын

Lets connect on Facebook.

@Angus1966 11 жыл бұрын

Sadly when all else fails ,sadly when workplace division has been used as a tool to ensure employers power over solidarity to maximise profits , sadly this is a return to the bad old days when violence in the work place was an everyday fact of life.

@snarlysnail 12 жыл бұрын

I have since been diagnosed with cancer and am now seeing a counsellor to help me overcome my fear and anxiety about being anywhere these people, who I have to deal with all the time, because First Nation's bureaucrats manage our lives, very sad situation. I did keep my documents and emails b4 I left.

@meloneymoore5102 2 жыл бұрын

Victims of workplace bullying should be financially compensated by the state and unemployment be made mandatory. I was targeted at Anthem aka Elevance Health for vicious severe brutal workplace abuse for the entire 10 years that I worked there. No law firm will take my case and law enforcement and Colorado Labor Department along with unemployment has repeatedly denied me financial compensation and unemployment benefits. Since leaving Anthem, I have been bullied out of several jobs as listed Gusto, Optum Health aka United Health Group, and OCC Advanced Orthopedics at Lowery in Denver Colorado and my apartment community Novi at Lowery in Denver Colorado.

@datnohi8612 4 жыл бұрын

it should be address but it never is - so u should get out as fast as u can - and lady they did u a favor when they fired u, and documented don't seem to help either I been working over 30 years in America and I have yet to find a job where there is not workplace bullying, I was harassed and bullied on ever job I had and I had a lot

@elmasodioda2261 5 жыл бұрын

I don’t want money. I want my rep cleaned

@Hawaiiansky11 13 жыл бұрын

Approach a bully in a "Polite" way - according to the male caller. No not politely - Kiss their Butts. Build their ego up. PLay on their narcissistic tendencies...i.e when they rag your ass, respond with "I sure do appreciate your intelligent coaching." Play the game. Be a fake (in their presence). Treat them like they are the most benevolent, kind and giving person on the planet - that is how they see themselves, and anything that threatens that "Must Be Destroyed" in their mind.

@raymondhardwick5183 3 жыл бұрын

I had to block a guy who I used to work with from calling on my Cellphone because he was a workplace bully he sounded sad but he did to him self

@gateclif55 11 жыл бұрын

person joined her and it was more than i could handle i walked out. I am healing slowly and found aanother job, less pay but wonderful ppl. However NO ONE from my old job even called me. Why would that be? I got along with all of them great. P.S. I am the third person to leave because of her.

@daysleepnightread6905 18 күн бұрын

Public librarian compassion fatigue and burn out is very real. Losing the mission is devastating but a chance to restrategize.

@elainecoyle2704 5 ай бұрын

Bullying affects immune system!!!!

@raymondhardwick5183 3 жыл бұрын

I am thinking about taking this to my church

@Hawaiiansky11 13 жыл бұрын

torment mental-physical connection cortisol levels (stress hormone) - immune system compromised stomach problems (GI issues) depression (suicide) lose ambition / drive to do a good job at work. uncontrollable crying / irritability reach out to help others - offer advice terrified of going to work PTSD - feeling anxious, fearful, emotionally charged when not in the situation / when just thinking about it.

@lilydalelah2 12 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, HR is there for management and to protect the org, not employees. I'm sure many HR professionals do care, and work to create a healthy equitable environment. But HR most often sides with a bully supervisor regardless of facts or plausibility. They listen and pretend to care, then act quickly to work w/ mgmt to squeeze out the "complainer" (usually a hard-working, loyal, but bullied target) as if this is somehow a way to avoid legal action; I still don't understand that rationale.

@kamea4023 6 жыл бұрын

I am in the same experience. What is the solution? At work? At school? In the playground? Everywhere. What can the CEO's do? What can the government do? What else can we do?

@Hawaiiansky11 13 жыл бұрын

I knew someone as smart as you would be able to help me today. And, "The boss / corporate (someone he or she admires...usually another bully) will sure be impressed!" But just be careful not to say it with sarcasm. You can throw up in the bathroom later, or privately journal your true thoughts and feelings on paper at home...but the ONLY way to survive while you are stuck at your current job with them without dealing with repercussion, is to bullsh** your way through it.

@shashankkulkarni993 2 жыл бұрын

Ok thanks for information. @ workplace bullying nasty behavior at work place creates Unwanted stress . Absolutely created lot of issues in my job's life Experiencing lot of unwanted hedache. fear of such brainstroke Heart issues due to nasty sarcastic work place physcopaths

@dishesandspoons 2 жыл бұрын

What tv show is this?

@trinity2860 4 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately very hard to prove

@shortstories3756 10 жыл бұрын

stand up to the bully

@mrsruthiecastro6484 7 жыл бұрын

Amy Wood: Supervisor @ Burlington Coat Factory 502-935-1030 Dixie Hwy Location Louisville, Ky. Questions to ponder on as a woman and mother. What legacy are you leaving to your daughters and sons to live by? What would they find when they google their mother’s name? ( Amy Wood Burlington Coat Factory Supervisor) A legacy of abusing other women’s Hispanic who you see as powerless and insignificant under your work “ supervision” or a legacy of Standing strong and saying, No! I am not participating in this abuse, and letting your daughters know that they also have value as women and should be respected by their future Employer? Is your pay check more valuable than your children view of you as an example to live by, view of life, view of other women in our community view of themselves, ethics? Would they find you...Mrs Amy Wood, stand for truth and Justice? Or find you Mrs Amy Wood; Standing behind a powerful Corporation and a paycheck at the cost of the tears...of another...WOMEN! Freedom of Speech & expression Right to peacefully assemble.

@auntstacey123 11 жыл бұрын

Yeah, the script(advice) given in many of these videos sounds good but doesn't usually work in reality.

@mcleanroom7997 10 ай бұрын

Terrorists are in the workplace

@999timepass 7 ай бұрын

Psychological terrorists. Damage is long term.

@shashankkulkarni993 2 жыл бұрын

Yes many bosses / coworkers / clients are full.of sacristic talks and fully of toxicity inside them.. Which makes people go away from them... Don't be sacristic to people based on there past life It show the person cheap characters if some one always sacristic to other person bullying him or her based on past. Sign of dirty humans . Not good work places with such sacristic bosses people around

@maxwillson 10 жыл бұрын

Do your best, and forget the rest. That's all I did and it worked.

@burningknuckle26 5 жыл бұрын

Explain

@noehernandez3269 7 жыл бұрын

hello

@annbell3864 6 жыл бұрын

Let the punishment fit the crime. There is absolutely no reason for overt violence on the targets part. But these stealthy criminals should really watch their drinks...

@Hawaiiansky11 13 жыл бұрын

@shashankkulkarni993 2 жыл бұрын