I just want to acknowledge, the way you elaborated on community and village for your family is so beautiful. That type of village is wealth.

HappY New Year!!!

it's also to be understood that america itself has the highest divorce rate..divorce has been somewhat praised in this country, so it's more a mindset than actual stat. i wholeheartedly agree with glen, if failure is always in the back of your mind you will fail. if your foundation was built around a "maybe", it will struggle to stay together

A prenup also separates debt in death, so debtors can't hound the living spouse. It's really not a bad idea but we attach this divorce expectancy to it. I don't have one, though, lol.

Just watched first minute and had to stop to comment and say - I LOVE how Yvette is blossoming. Woman, you are some beautiful! Back to the show...

Having a community and village…My husband and I were just talking about this yesterday. I grew up with a village, whereas my husband not as much. I so appreciate growing up with a village of people.

I'm over here adjusting my screen brightness only to realize it's your lighting 😂😂

I’ve heard several people who have gone through a divorce say it feels like death. I’ve never heard a dead man say how death felt.

As an entrepreneurial family, it would make sense now more than ever to get a prenup - as a risk management strategy for the family. If one person were to make an unfortunate financial decision, the whole family wouldn’t be exposed to the risk of losing everything because some assets would be in the other partners name.

32:21 I like the comment Glen made about becoming a better person for your partner ans not for everyone, in general. On the other hand, because we are becoming better for each others, those in community or network may be recipients of this better version in some way.

Things are often set up for a house wives to be lost financially if you don’t plan for all the what ifs…no matter how much love you’re in

thank u for changing it from jessica to latisha

I'm not married, and I am not sure if I want to be, but if I did, I would suggest both parties get it. Perspective and the story you tell yourself matters. As a lady, I'm always going to lookout for myself because idk what the future holds. (Ie greedy family, health, etc) No matter what, I gotta have me. I'm not offended if my partner wanted to have himself by getting a prenuptial, too. It's a wise decision, in my opinion. I don't see it as an escape plan. Some do, but not me. Staying ready so you don't have to get ready.🤷🏿‍♀️

This is a very good conversation. I can identify with Yvette here.

You both made such a beautiful case for marriage! ❤

Glen said,” We are conforming to each other…” Snap snap!!!

"...it's making you a better person for ME" 😮 🎤

I’m gonna watch the rest of this episode later. It seems like a good one.

i already know that uncle Johnny Givez was one of the people Beleaf said hell nah to when Theo & Riah were talking about people who can teach them how to date women 😂 Great episode!

1. A newly wed who has no prenup be a we are building our life together but had hard conversations due to premarital counseling. Most people I know have hard conversations after and never had premarital counseling. I wish there were statistics on how many people actually do premarital counseling/have a Godly foundation. 2. I love how you talked about community and village. I grew up with communities because of doing a lot of activities/sports growing up but not a solid village and now with my husband who grew up with both… I’m now getting used to having a village. It’s very necessary for marriage, family, and life. I wish someone had that conversation with me when I was younger!

Peace & Blessings throughout 2024 and may you & yours receive abundant prosperity in good health, wealth, LOVE, and happiness. HAPPY NEW YEAR! And I thoroughly enjoyed Ep. 205.

love love love to hear it ALLL!

The jail analogy is 💯

Happy New Year!🎉🎉🎉

Happy New Year!

Marriage was created in Genesis, to be exact though.

The intro is fly!❤

I learn a lot listening to your podcast . Thank you

I don’t think they mentioned it anywhere, but the divorce video they were talking about is on the Soft White Underbelly channel!

OMGOSH THANK YOU LOL IVE BEEN WAITING

I just started, but the intro song is such a vibe. I find myself bobbing every episode. I hit like during the intro before you guys even get started 😊

Very nice. 😊 Very good information.

Thank you for the “like the video” reminder!! I need it every time! ❤️❤️❤️

I hear yvette. I love my man I don’t want to leave but…I need to have my back!

I feel like prenups are necessary & so are wills. Just look at all the young ppl who died during covid, didn't have a will & their partners had to go to court just to get access to their money. As Yvette said, I think it's just important to have a plan.

As a true partner, I want to protect my significant other from whatever. So I personally think, we should not be surprised or feel a way when our significant other wants to protect themselves from us. Me and my wife have the same understanding "I love you, but I love me first" so I'm going to continue to protect myself as if I wasn't married point blank period. So if someone ask for a prenup it shouldn't be looked at like "oh you don't trust me, or you don't have faith in this marriage" nah it's just a form of protection for self and that should be respected. Just like couples still should get tested for STDs and HIV, like why would you not? most insurance covers it for free so if I'm going to the doctor for a general check up, I'm checking for everything whether I'm suspicious of my partner or not and I suggest my partner to do the same. It's just logical for me, safety nets are in place for a reason and protecting self is necessary just as much as protecting "us" is necessary.

I’m not getting the notifications when yall premiere something 😒

I want a village for my son.

I wonder if having student loans are influencing some people to get prenups.

Still no link to the video, I assume you're taking about that Jordan divorce lawyer guy tho

Evette: You already have a prenup if you signed a marriage license kzfaq.infofqz600t4wTo?feature=share

As a Christian, prenups should be a no-go. Given that the union to us is way bigger than a legal contract - it's a covenant with God, 2 become 1. So a prenup is like having a plan B to God's union, a plan B to God's plan. Both sides work their entire life to prepare themselves what they join to in marriage. Whether one is a billionaire and the other was a post office worker, God prepared their lives the way He did so that when they join and become 1 it works out the way He purposed it to. We always lose sight of it when we say these billionaire vs below median incomes because money starts blinding people which is what the enemy wants. Now, if you're not a Christian, then do your thing. Still wouldn't advise it but go along with your governing doctrine. I am a Christian woman who is an attorney and I was taught in law school allll the benefits that come from a prenup - "you can get the legal out the way and focus on the love part during the marriage, blah blah blah", it all sounds enticing, especially from a legal/fiscal perspective, but as Christians its about our faith in the covenant that we are entering into with God. We died to self when we gave our lives to Christ. We died to "me" when sacrificed it at the marriage alter for "we".

Girl... marriage started with the trinity and in the garden...man manipulated it to fit their needs and desires...go back to its creator to understand how to do it towards righteousness... marriage fails because we look to the standards around us to measure success...LOOK UP...look to the word!

Happy New Year!