What it's like to be a Single, Unmarried Mother In India | Anmol Chaudhary | Karishma Mehta

What it's like to be a Single, Unmarried Mother In India | Anmol Chaudhary | Karishma Mehta | Ep 1

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Күн бұрын

“At 26, I wanted to end my life! Life took a sudden turn when I broke up with my then-partner… a few weeks later, I missed my period. So I took a pregnancy test-it was positive. I freaked out! I contemplated aborting my baby, and that’s what my ex pushed me to do, too. But when my sister and I went for my ultrasound, I heard my baby’s heartbeat for the first time. That moment changed everything. In two minds, I asked the Universe to give me a sign. And you won’t believe what happened next...”
As a pregnant 26-year-old who had just broken up with her then-partner and was on drugs, Anmol Chaudhary was faced with an impossible choice; but she chose the tough one - to have her baby out of wedlock. She lived a life fraught with challenges, but never once did she back down. Today, her child is her whole world…
From running away from her home at 14 and facing the horrors that come with it to becoming a single mother at the age of 27, Anmol’s journey has been anything but conventional.
In this episode, we spoke to her about her journey, battling with suicidal thoughts, what kept her strong throughout her pregnancy, and what it is like to be a single mother with a child out of wedlock in India. Join us as we take you through Anmol’s journey-a tale of a mother’s love, courage, and resilience.
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We spoke about:
. Her accidental pregnancy at 26
. Contemplating abortion
. Crowdfunding for her delivery
. Her family and society’s reaction to her pregnancy
. Filling the father’s void
. Body-shaming faced by new mothers
. Life as a single mother
Time Stamps
00:00- Precap
00:20- Introduction
00:53- Welcoming the guest
01:32- Finding out about her pregnancy
02:06- Drug abuse
02:37- Lack of love in life
03:04- Feeling suicidal
03:18- Seeking therapy
04:11- Realised she missed her periods
04:30- Pregnant at the age of 26
07:30- Leaving home at the age of 14
08:58- Emotional call with Mom
09:06- Started building a career
11:18- Views on abortion
11:24- Decision to keep the baby
13:45- Sister and ex-partner’s reaction to her pregnancy
13:56- Ex pushing her to abort
14:39- Figuring out finances
15:50- Crowdfunding for delivery
18:26- Parents’ support
19:28- Societal treatment
21:06- Filling the father’s void
22:03- The father meeting her baby
22:20- Tried co-parenting
22:40- Jayce’s resemblance to his father
23:22- Feelings on ex-partner’s marriage
23:39- Breaking down
24:27- Meeting her ex’s mom
25:56- Being a single mother
27:48- Message to all single moms
38:17- Pros of being a single mother
29:02- Being empathetic to mothers
29:42- Struggle for work
31:56- Figuring it out
32:46- Show & Tell segment
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@karishmamehta3337 Жыл бұрын

You are so brave and so strong. Thank you for sharing your story with us.

@humansofbombay2801 Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

@parth3337 Жыл бұрын

❤❤

@anirbanghosh1670 Жыл бұрын

PLEASE DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Apart from these things please talk about female foeticide. Which is still happening as before. But people don't care. See the sex ratio at birth in 2011. In recent video of achrya prasant titled "Hindu ladki gayeb". He explained with data provided by govt that it is not rural phenomena and have no connection with being educated. Urban middle class having one or two children have the lowest sex ratio as per census. And NO it is not pbm of haryana only bihar,up, Rajasthan and many others are there too. 952 women per 1000 male are the LEAST possible natural sexratio( nature makes lesser women by default, this is the least)o. And many states fall far far below that line, surprisingly all of those state people are self proclaimed " Sanskari bhartiya Kattar" Muslm and Hindu. Astonishingly Their sex ratio is quite low. And no body points it out. It can be easily calculated by any lay man by seeing govt data that at least 1crore female foeticide and infanticide happened in last 20 yrs. And those states who have less population of female they start trafficking females from other states which didn't kill daughters. Now people are so ignorant in this issue. We are sitting in time bomb, having our sanskari hands soaked in blood of our daughters. These issues are real unsolved issues. Please focus on it. Thanks to achrya prasant to shed some light on it.

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for all your support 🩷

@32024 11 ай бұрын

Please this type of Lady is going to suffer till end, as well men

@pratikshadasgupta9723 Жыл бұрын

Look the way she is narrating the story.... sitting on other side of the screen only I could feel the depth of it. It feels as if things are happening just infront me . She is worth!

@user-kh7wr7en5o Жыл бұрын

I dont think this woman should be portrayed as a role model. She led a rebellious life, got pregnant. Ofcourse we should not stigmatise but there is nothing to be proud of what she did either.

@MeganMercedes-zx6pr Ай бұрын

What about the guy who did it on pretext of love, and left her , he is the one responsible for her suffering

@vrishnisivakumaran1232 11 сағат бұрын

Rebellious women are the best

@srama8426 Жыл бұрын

Girls Its not easy Don't invite problems Be careful

@dahliajaji9547 Жыл бұрын

You are absolutely right. Don't glorify single mother status. What is the fault of the children ? They have to suffer throughout the life with stigma

@saraswatimeena6568 Жыл бұрын

Ya and the male counterpart just dust off his responsibilities.... Only and only women suffers in these situations..... Finance, society ke taane, parents reputation your own reputation, female ke character pe question, career and bla bla bla.....

@SwatiTiwari-oi7kx Жыл бұрын

@@saraswatimeena6568 truee

@samarpitasaha3214 Жыл бұрын

@@saraswatimeena6568so true

@rvind000 Жыл бұрын

@@saraswatimeena6568 But she told him that he was just a sperm donor.

@anushreeyewale8682 Жыл бұрын

More power to you! Thank you for sharing this story ❤️

@andwemet_1 Жыл бұрын

beautiful episode. thank you for doing a great job - we would share this on our social media....

@vinu-9248 Жыл бұрын

She’s so brave and courageous. Also there’s so much trauma she’s living with, I hope she gets the help that’s much needed for her to heal the tears and tears of trauma. I pray that you get the love and compassion which you missed in your life.

@cutie924 Жыл бұрын

No, she is not. She is just playing the victim card.

@tejug1161 Жыл бұрын

6:05 that story was amazing... You are really strong and resilient! ❤ More power to you! ❤ I am just relieved that the ex did not do any physical harm to you! 🧿 18:13 That crowdfunding story just restores our faith in humanity and goodness in people. ❤ Abortion is a women's prerogative and women should not abuse this right. I am happy that in India single motherhood is getting accepted. Not everyone is made for marriage but that doesn't mean that they should not become parents.

@prismagautam3 Жыл бұрын

I go back to your profile, once every month, my heart is full and so many of my questions have been answered through this podcast. Thankyou Anmol. YOU ARE AND INSPIRATION, AND DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHER WISE !

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

Thank you for all your support ❤️

@user-og8tv2cr6n Жыл бұрын

It's salman who made her pregnant

@bhargavijoshi317 Жыл бұрын

I feel that women who abort are also very strong and who don’t are strong as well its just a difference of opinion. I feel that how can having a baby before marriage is such a bad thing and after marriage it becomes a blessing? Also not everyone gets a fairytale ending so i just want to send strength and love to Anmol

@timetravel099 4 ай бұрын

If u had option to choose your parents, would u like a married couple of parents or unmarried couple of parents?

@aditirana1817 Жыл бұрын

Hats off to you Anmol for coming out so strong 💪 Also kudos to the presenter for being such a good listener.

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your support 🩷

@sukonyagogoi4462 Жыл бұрын

It’s not about being single or married. Parenting comes with so many responsibilities that it’s better to be financially independent before shouldering the responsibilities of another life. My husband and I waited for 7 years before we knew we could afford a kid, working our a$@s off in the meantime. But i understand that life happens. I hope she sails through this.

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

❤

@Priya-zp1qg Жыл бұрын

We are Assamese people, that's all. The environment we have grown up in is very different." But this kind of people possess a stupid modern mentality and never think about what will happen next before taking any step.

@sukonyagogoi4462 Жыл бұрын

@@Priya-zp1qg your comment is uncalled for.

@padmabatinaik4516 Жыл бұрын

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@Vijetak24 8 ай бұрын

@@Priya-zp1qgI agree with you. Irresponsible when this people enjoy life. Without precautions they do everything n later the child has to bear everything. Child should get both parents love. Doing drugs n having sex without thinking about any consequences. N how come this people become inspiration to anyone

@mariomercier4604 Жыл бұрын

Love stories can sometimes lead us in a sadness so profound. I lived such a story in the past. It destroyed my life. This lady went to the verge of dying because of a bad love story. I admire her courage, of having able to build her llife back. Specially in a country where women who are alone with their child, are not accepted by all the people.

@kratisharma930 10 ай бұрын

Her life is full of mistakes. Or even mistake is a wrong word .. she is a bad human who dont understand the pain of parents (living in her own world of drugs and alcohol )and how it could be inspiring ....this should be the story one should not opt for....being a single mom is something different..I hv huge respect for those ladies ...they are basically geninue ...even pre marital sex is not wrong.... People should understand what is wrong is her way of seeing things ...parents k sang galat...then wrong friendships ..then drugs alcohol.....how can somebody justify drugs alcohol misbehaviour with parents...just for the sake that ..I have the choice.. You had the choice because your parents brought you in this life...and what you did.....God...aise bachhe kisi ko na de... These people are shown on teenage programs like spiltsvilla n all...these set wrong examples to millions of young generation.. I feel pity

@Shaina_singh_amrita 5 ай бұрын

I also feel pitty for your thought process! And how quickly you judge others !

@sevenskies7708 Жыл бұрын

Honestly went through something a little similar but unfortunately i chose abortion.. I didnt want to but I had to. You all have no idea how much it breaks a person emotionally! I salute this woman. It must have been hard for her. I can totally understand. Amazing that she shared her story that most of the people don’t. You are just amazing !

@Iamacertifiedcandycane Жыл бұрын

You made the right choice for yourself and the baby.

@kaluvamaddhusudhanrao8457 Жыл бұрын

So brave no mater ejat what hats off to ypu keep it up my poor en life short nothing permanent 😅😅😅😅dont give xindagi na milaga dubara nise na 😅😅

@soniyachopde6934 Жыл бұрын

Bless you

@user-qo7op2cg5p Жыл бұрын

Yes same happened with me too and got forcefully aborted by my ex.. was and still in a pain its been approx 7 years bt i still get anxiety attack because of that everyday 😞

@nancysharma7647 11 ай бұрын

Nothing unfortunate..never feel guilty please it's your choice either way.

@Simmuandeku Жыл бұрын

What a brave woman she is ❤ lots of blessings to her ❤

@preetichawla8557 Жыл бұрын

God bless you. You are amazing! I pray for you to find all the happiness in the world 🤗. More power to you and may you have strength to go through the bad days!

@dr.saumyabadgayansnippetsw4420 Жыл бұрын

Best part of the interview is that she stayed real and did not glorify the struggles and give a more larger than life narrative #awesome

@dr.saumyabadgayansnippetsw4420 Жыл бұрын

@thezoldics7648 she did admit her mistake, and the best growth comes from acknowledging the wrongs and no where is she promoting single parenthood at all. There is a lot of pain in her. So for her child, she is an amazing mom.

@bhashasingh3756 Жыл бұрын

You r very strong woman,,,,you r so mature,,,you have changed the mind of society...you have choosen to be a mom at any cost .it shows the heart of mother can beat any heart

@radhikakejriwal3790 Жыл бұрын

Just more and more strength to you Anmol❤

@zainabchechatwala8924 Жыл бұрын

Excited to hear more such stories!!

@humansofbombay2801 Жыл бұрын

We have so many more incredible episodes in store! ❤

@yashrane7425 Жыл бұрын

Bestt anmol is such a brave person I love you so much and more and more power to you queen hope you succeed in everything you do from now onwardss❤❤❤❤

@Raj-mw9gb Жыл бұрын

Beautiful so inspiring. May god bless the brave daughter with all the abundance in life.

@everylastdetail.9591 Жыл бұрын

Such a heartfelt, inspiring story ❤ More power to you 💫

@humansofbombay2801 Жыл бұрын

Indeed! ❤❤❤

@nandinishakya1144 Жыл бұрын

Loads of strength to you, the way you have held yourself throughout this journey is commendable. Wish you a happy life ahead, it might not be "conventional happy" but yeah definitely full of your happy moments.

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your support ❤️

@sheetaljuneja7372 11 ай бұрын

Hi Anmol spending 34 mins on this youtube video was worth to watch I am so proud you, you are truly super women taking this big step by choosing to keep your baby and handling him all alone is not that easy for sure and A, seeing your partner giving up on you after knowing this and B, seeing him acting normal and living normal life is totally terrifying But you are such a bold women I must say and I have this suggestion that when your son will get old enough to understand what you have been through make sure you tell him everything so he’ll get to know what path he should follow, path of being like his strong mother or path of being like his coward father who was not strong enough to own his child up. Having sex is not an issue but I feel having sex with the right person who can stand with you is very important. Sending you so much strength and power Anmol.

@ankirani2998 Жыл бұрын

Salute and more strength to you ❤ some people could not gather such courage and some are exceptional people like you to choose the heartbeat ❤️

@NancyAggarwal-jd1dn Жыл бұрын

You are such a strong person, love the Kahani♥️♥️♥️

@humansofbombay2801 Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

@anantkaushik5822 Жыл бұрын

Such a powerful episode!

@humansofbombay2801 Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

@Aphrodite372 Жыл бұрын

She’s so inspiring I literally cried listening to her

@ppb27 Жыл бұрын

She is so brave truly amazing! more power to her❤

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

Thank you for all your support ❤️

@abtalks1686 Жыл бұрын

More Power to you n God Bless you n your Child ..!!

@nishashah95 Жыл бұрын

What an interview! Such a strong, resilient woman!

@humansofbombay2801 Жыл бұрын

We absolutely agree!

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

Thank you for all your support ❤️

@jharkhandicook Жыл бұрын

You are so brave..❤ ..you both are enough for each others..and i know your son is going to praise you for what you are doing..bless you and your son..❤❤

@jharkhandicook Жыл бұрын

And you will definitely find love in future, who will love you and your son ❤❤❤

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

For sure, we are enough for each other ❤️🥺 Thank you for your love ❤️

@lailakalyanwala1722 Жыл бұрын

You can't understand someone until you've walked a mile in their shoes. Stop judging her. More power to her . Sending my love ❤

@maverickmaven7168 Жыл бұрын

And how abt the choices u make in life. Wrong ❌ choice leads to wrong paths.

@adwayduttagupta9887 Жыл бұрын

Women☕

@rakshyapokharel516 Жыл бұрын

@maverickmaven7168 nobody has a dream to make wrong choices and suffer...not everybody has a very favourable environment around them to help them differentiate between them...some people have toxic families, some have toxic parents, some have completely ignoring parents and some have overly pressurising parents which leads to frustration and confusion in life...sometimes you are fade up of being judged and criticized from very childhood and you get psychologically affected...we can appreciate that she is in right path now, she didn't killed her baby and committed suicide...she inspired that people can still change their bad habits and come back to normal life again...let's not degrade them...let's be sensitive...not everyone gets a proper guidance from very age

@rakshyapokharel516 Жыл бұрын

@@maverickmaven7168 hope you understand

@rakshyapokharel516 Жыл бұрын

@@adwayduttagupta9887 some men also choose wrong path like some women day...don't keep so much hatred for any gender

@khushboomarmat2838 Жыл бұрын

U are truly an inspiration for young girls ❤ she is brave becoz she accepts her mistakes , correct them and give life a new chance . Abortion is very easy choice for her but she choose to keep baby which is very diificult !!!! I wish u all the best for ur life Pls take care of ur baby and love him unconditionally ❣️❣️❣️❣️

@Kannada_newzzzzzzcom Жыл бұрын

Basically if u can make it we all can make it❤!! U r such an inspiration. I just saw this vedio while I'm going through a rough patch of my life my mental health is literally exhausted nd after seeing this vedio just one thing hit my head that if you can do it I can do it too, infact we all can do it nothing is end of world, we just have to gain the courage start living again

@lavanisharma18 Жыл бұрын

More power to you Anmol! You are so strong ❤️

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

❤

@FariyaMuskan__01 11 ай бұрын

My mother was a single mother too I lost my dad before I was born. she raised me so well and am proud of her now am married and soon gonna give birth thanks to my mom that she gave me this life and i pray that may all the mother's in the world stay blessed and healthy. ❤

@MohitThorat0001 7 күн бұрын

Supermom❤

@MohitThorat0001 7 күн бұрын

❤

@moumitabiswas1801 Жыл бұрын

I remember I read Anmol’s story in 2021. I was having dinner at a restaurant with a friend & I couldn’t stop myself from reading Anmol’s story. The best thing I loved about her story is her courage, endurance and her maturity level. Off course life is not the way we all imagine to be. But leaving it & committing suicide is not the solution. More power to you Anmol & your son. @humansofbombay hope to see some more inspirational stories like this in the coming days.

@karishmamehta3337 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching. We have so many more inspirational stories coming up- please subscribe and turn notifications on:)

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

Thank you for all your love ❤️

@saanviraman9091 Жыл бұрын

I remember her from Splitsvilla 😍. I loved her in that show as well, such a strong girl ❤

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤️

@vaishnavipillay253 Жыл бұрын

So inspiring. Cannot imagine the pain she must have been through. More power and strength to her ❤

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

Thank you🥺❤️

@khanjanachauhan6014 Жыл бұрын

Mam, you are amazing... Your strength and courage is infectious...

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

🥺❤️

@humorhammer1608 Жыл бұрын

I ham very happy it worked out for her, but for many it won't & they might not have her luck so don't advertise this as something very normal... the message should rather go out as not to get into this situation by being vulnerable. I fully support being a single parent but please don't have unsafe sex for pleasure that can result into something you might not handle... babies should be borne when one is ready and wants it but not in a situation where baby's very own existence is questioned. Anyway I am very happy for her, have a blessed life ahead!

@shivangi_1223 Жыл бұрын

Words!! ❤ 📝

@beautyinout4669 Жыл бұрын

So so true

@maverickmaven7168 9 ай бұрын

U have aged with maturing aspect. ❤ load of love❤

@harshipatel5882 Жыл бұрын

Was in tears when i saw this, i have been following her since years and she is truly an inspiration

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

Thank you for all the support ❤️

@ritzzpitz Жыл бұрын

I liked this story very much she's told everything honestly that even if she has gone through alot doesn't mean now life is going very smooth and she doesn't need anyone now she is strong. Everybody has different needs and still she deserves a best best partner with whom she can sit in the eve have eve coffee and share everything with him I wish u good luck and all the best anmol.

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

Thank you🥺❤️

@benz4369 Жыл бұрын

So in short ekta is responsible for this innocent girl going off track so early in life 😀😂 There can be many more good souls wrecked by this big brand🙂

@jishanibakshi402 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing your story. God bless you 🙏

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

Thank you💖

@selcouth7084 Жыл бұрын

She is a strong woman no doubt about it but it was her choise to raise a baby alone so she should not name or shame the father of a child. Sex is a mutual decision & so is having a child. I might be wrong, sorry for that but I think girls who wish to have & raise a child out of unplanned pregnancy, somehow want their partner to come back and take care of them. They have a soft corner for their partner & hope that the partner might return after having a child. Having a child is responsiblilty of both parents not one. If one says yes & other says no then there is no point in having a child just to prove to the world that I am strong, self independent & super mom. Why not to adopt a child then?

@dosa83 Жыл бұрын

A grown up man should be man enough to accept if the women choose to keep the child . If it was your act , and it's not your body , then you should be man enough to face the consequences of your actions than running away like a coward and letting the girl suffer alone Sex is a mutual decision, but what a girl should do with her body is not a mutual decision. It's her body . A man has no say in if she should abort or have a child . A real man who is man enough will stand by her and support her no matter what decision she takes regarding her body . If you don't have enough b a l l s to stand up for your girl and pay child support or get married to her , don't get laid with her . Period

@selcouth7084 Жыл бұрын

@@dosa83 Yes... But these days most people are in casual relationships. Had they been couples who decide to date & then marry that's a different tale then. Today's generation is more into hook up, ONS, flings, live-in, experimenting & enjoying and then blaming the patner throughout by portraying themselves as victims. No, i don't agree to this. Never!

@dosa83 Жыл бұрын

@@selcouth7084 You are free to disagree, even in this , if it's the man's baby he should take responsibility for his act if the mother decides to keep the baby . If you went for ONS , and you were irresponsible to put your fluid inside a girl's womb, you should be ready to pay child support If you don't,you are not man enough For her he was in a relationship with her , he should have taken the responsibility than running away from his problems like coward.

@richageorge213 Жыл бұрын

Brave mother.i'm proud of you

@architapatnaik687 Жыл бұрын

Wow. 😢 just god bless this women.

@CuriousSomya 11 ай бұрын

Wishing you and your son so much strength and happiness🌺🌺

@wavyheadhere Жыл бұрын

incredibly strong woman.

@Dee14444 Жыл бұрын

God bless jayce. Keep growing.

@sidhartharora2542 Жыл бұрын

more n more power to you , may god shower his blessings upon you always

@aadritabordoloi1185 Жыл бұрын

I couldn't believe this is what happened to her because in Splitsvilla she was loved and adored by everyone and was so full of life. All the best Anmol❤

@beautyinout4669 Жыл бұрын

Which yr splitsvilla

@aadritabordoloi1185 Жыл бұрын

@@beautyinout4669 Splitsvilla Season 10

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much🩷

@devyanisharma8408 Жыл бұрын

Lots of love,blessings and hugs for them❤️✨😇

@Dreamdestination1110 Жыл бұрын

lets not normalise kids out of wedlock reason being not all can handle it... having a baby is a big big big responsibility. not judging Anmol She can live how she wants it but please do not normalise kids out of wedlock

@AnkitaSingh-xx2op Жыл бұрын

She's normalising and NOT glorifying. Normalising is a MUST since so many issues women deal with due to being a single mother, as simple as renting a house.

@guardianangel6314 Жыл бұрын

Normalising is not wrong stigmatising is ..... and anyway whoever is insecure enough that it may go against the so called societal regulations should really just mind their own business and by their own i do not mean of any relative either .....just their own

@saimanida Жыл бұрын

Let's not normalise men being irresponsible too.

@RadhikaRaghuvanshi111 11 ай бұрын

& what about peoples who marries have a kid with their wives and cheat with multiple women's Even if women takes divorce the kids stay with her indirectly she's also single mom Society judge them too What I'm trying to say is don't have child with a man who's not ready to bear equal responsibility

@farzanasumra3225 8 ай бұрын

But normalizing/glorifying forceful kids are ok huh???Mind your own business.

@amanpreetkaur7227 Жыл бұрын

Throughout this video i was only wondering how can someone have unprotected sex with someone you are about to breakup. Isnt that stupid and careless.. But what i like is that she didn't choose abortion.. Motherhood is the best.

@aartib7823 10 ай бұрын

How is this inspiring ? She enjoys love and blessings from her parents, support of her sister, her child also deserves the same. Neither mother or father can singlehandedly give justice to both the roles. Thank god Anmol has not glorified anything like the interviewer. More power to her.

@maverickmaven7168 Жыл бұрын

Awesome awkward of this glorifies of all the wrong choices in life... And what statement is that my baby my belly none of your 💩💩💩.. A man never disowns xome wht may. 2. You have a baby back home and ur roaming with guys on date. 3. Is this a mordern mom. Beta Tulsi kabi nahi badlegi... Par Mehir virani badalte rahenge. 4. The child has a suicidal and drug addicts as parents. Vicious circle normalised.

@ST-yq9yd Жыл бұрын

Women like you are inspiration ❤ You're stronger than you think . Everyone's story is different but the courageous vibe you gave to all of us through this interview is impeccable ❤🧿 wishing you most happiest life you could've ever thought 🕉️

@ShritikaUgale 9 ай бұрын

Honestly there's nothing to inspire only we can support

@yuktirana7933 9 ай бұрын

In tears... I m 21yo. Listening to this gives me more nd more resilience to face life. Wowwwww. I mean, this reallly really shifted my point of view towards gratitude yaar. I find myself always fucking complaining about circumstances, ppl around me, problem I m into nd everything. This for real gave me courage. I cant express completely what I feel internally right now. My belief in womanhood has grown stronger than ever. Idk how do I express but salute to everyone out there. Fighting, struggling, yet believing. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

@pragati3809 Жыл бұрын

More strength to you❤❤❤❤❤

@Kanchankelasi 5 ай бұрын

One point every one is missing is Ekta Kapoor's serials negatively effected lives of many girls of that era...this topic is really deep, those star plus shows of 2000's made a great bad impact on the young girls subconscious mind that they started acting like prerna , tulsi ,parvati in real life....

@suhylatonse1735 3 ай бұрын

Even Ekta Kapoor's serials also destroy family bonds.

@Chaudhary28saini Жыл бұрын

We are proud of her😘

@SwatiRaii Жыл бұрын

More power to you ❤❤

@samsharma6123 Жыл бұрын

The best sugar coating to ur mistake... Inspiring my A*s

@dhruvsharma2425 Жыл бұрын

So so so proud of you 👏

@priyakumari4830 Жыл бұрын

So proud of you god bless 🙏🏻

@aishwaryam3149 Жыл бұрын

The kid will be proud of you ❤

@cutie924 Жыл бұрын

All the comments of her being an inspiration and what not come across as foolish. This girl had a nice life going on, but for a petty reason she chose to leave her house and live a difficult life. People also fail to understand that she was not in the right mindset when she found out that she was pregnant because she had tried to kill herself just a few weeks before she found out. Also, just because you are the one carrying the child doesn’t mean you ask the guy to just fuck off, you didn’t make the baby on your own. How inconsiderate and selfish! Please don’t share stories of such idiots HoB.

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

Oh god! I feel nothing my pity after reading such comments. Sigh!! Sending you love ❤

@cutie924 Жыл бұрын

@@anmoljaycechaudharyyeah okay.

@christinax4s Жыл бұрын

finally somebody said this.

@rav7050 Жыл бұрын

Yeah. She was inconsiderate of him when he told to abort his own baby. 😬 I also don’t feel inspired after hearing her story because I’m not that strong to live as a single mother in our society. But u can see that she’s a strong women and a good mother.

@anupriyaakhade1526 Жыл бұрын

More power to you and your son 🙌🏻❤️

@humansofbombay2801 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely! ❤

@anchalshahi8862 Жыл бұрын

More power to youu❤❤❤

@prachi_11199 Жыл бұрын

You’re so brave and strong Anmol!!!!! More power to you. ❤️

@authentic_me9735 Жыл бұрын

Whoever this girl is ... Amazing single word ... Whatever happened with her is not a matter but what matter is the way she handle everything ❤

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

Thank you for supporting🥺❤️

@neharai3010 Жыл бұрын

I remember watching your videos during covid time.Back then I had a thought on my mind like how will she get through this and years later today I am watching your video I mean this video at first I had no idea you were the same girl I watched years ago and I searched through the instagram there I saw the video the pinned one that’s when I realised who’s video I am watching.So happy for you ❤️ Stay strong lots of love ❤️

@mahimatiwari5609 Жыл бұрын

So strong anmol after hearing your story I feel you are such a strong girl, !!!!!

@ManishavlogsLucknow 9 ай бұрын

God bless u n your beautiful child ❤️😇😘🥰stay happy n be strong in every situation. Be positive always ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@ridhikasharma4499 Жыл бұрын

You are so brave and strong

@suro0029 Жыл бұрын

No hate to anmol but the first guy she mentioned how PPL know u r unmarried single mom...he is curious as u have child but go on date ..he may just wanted to know are u married, divorcee, or just cheating...so please understand others too rather than defaming.

@kaminibhadoriya8946 Жыл бұрын

Inspiration ho ap sbke liy aane wale time me ky pta kon is situations se suffer kre bt jo v ho apse kafi logo ko sikhne ko milega or khudko kese deal kre insbse

@apoemadaywithkk4660 Жыл бұрын

This should have been in Hindi too or with subtitles.

@ishikajoarder4356 Жыл бұрын

She is sooooo...... Strong and beautiful women ❤

@tanishajain7323 Жыл бұрын

You’re so strong!

@humansofbombay2801 Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

@alpapuridudeja Жыл бұрын

I feel for the 3 year old child, I really hope he gets everything in life 😊My thoughts in general will be not to make children just because it will give one a reason to live or it will improve relations with the ex i.e. they will consider you brave, sympathise and start loving you again. A CHILD means so much responsibility towards them and the world we live in. But ofcourse I understand Anmol's unconventional story, I pray things turn better and best for her and especially for her little one. We have one life and we are entitled to live it the way we want, you are too good Anmol the way you narrated everything here and ofcourse how you faced everything in life.

@justanothergirl8106 Жыл бұрын

I agree with you but after hearing the heartbeat of your own flesh and blood it is impossible to kill it😭 You can fight but cannot defeat the mother in you❤️

@meghnakanwat7075 Жыл бұрын

@@justanothergirl8106 But sometimes we need to rise above our emotions & take a practical decision both for our life & the one you cannot take care of after being born.

@hibaqureshi8882 Жыл бұрын

Ur baby is just so proud of u that his mother is so strong😢

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

❤

@avantikabisht9848 Жыл бұрын

More power to you ❤💫

@doctor_introvertt 10 ай бұрын

You are an inspiration❤❤❤❤ hatts off🙌🏻👏🏻

@user-ns7ft7kj3z Жыл бұрын

What kind of this inspiring journey dude Society ko galat msg de rahi ho Before marriage sex then baby ye itna easy nhi hai aaj b Meri b 2 betiyan hai isliye soch samjhkar hi bol raha ho u r not inspiring at all Drug Sex Pregnancy Agar yehi inspire hona hai to humko nhi hona

@Sonaji12345 Жыл бұрын

Correct

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

Oho! Don’t take it personally. I’m sure no parents want such a thing for their kids but we all make our own choices. I don’t know how old your girls are but I wish them happiness and luck. No body is giving a wrong message. We are talking my strength, resilience and how I stood the ground. We make mistakes and we learn from them. That’s how we grow. ❤️ sending love you and to your daughters. ❤

@user-ns7ft7kj3z Жыл бұрын

@@anmoljaycechaudhary I am not taking personally who m I jo aapse inspire hunga I am not orthodox but jo aapne Kiya ye koi brave wala kaam nhi hai maine aise ladies b dekhi jiska koi nhi hai fir b apne bachco ko pal rahe hai mein unse inspire hona zyada pasand karunga aur ha mein try karunga meri beti jo 7 yr ki hai abhi se dost bne aur ye kadam na uthaye

@DrDivya-rq6re Жыл бұрын

Kindly comment on men who leave their wife after marriage with a child? There are many such cases.

@user-ns7ft7kj3z Жыл бұрын

@@DrDivya-rq6re men b galat hote hai main yeh nhi kehta but aurat b galat hai aajkal

@timetravel099 4 ай бұрын

How is this inspiring?! Take responsibility for own actions.

@rishikanim8889 Жыл бұрын

You ran away from your home at 14 and later in your 20's u got pregnant and had a baby alone. Are we supposed to inspired by this? There is nothing to be inspired, this is careless behaviour.

@anonymaskuslearning Жыл бұрын

We are no one to judge you, more power more love to you girl.❤

@MsVB-xm8qx Жыл бұрын

More strength to you Anmol and your son.God bless you both 😇

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

Thank you❤️

@runjhun7329 Жыл бұрын

You are a super woman, hats off.

@aditi160 5 ай бұрын

you really are so strong to stand up for your own feelings . standin up for our own feelings i s very hard . salute to you for doing that wihtout being unapologetically . ⏺♥♥

@kirtishreerathore9203 Жыл бұрын

Your baby is lucky to have you ❤

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

And I’m lucky to have him❤️

@ishugarcia-hx5bk Жыл бұрын

May God bless her always ,strong women ❤

@anmoljaycechaudhary Жыл бұрын

Thank you❤️

@saumilmadgavkar6257 Жыл бұрын

So brave! ❤

@humansofbombay2801 Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

@akashmanishadinesh 4 ай бұрын

There is nothing inspirational about this ! It's as good as two random people ranting about their life. Making identity out of the process, which happens so naturally to so many people just shows how underachieved oneself is in life. I feel really pitty for such kind of people that some bad things happened in life is their only identity.

@ushar6238 Ай бұрын

Bulls-eye !!