The problem here isn't his body, or how he understandably had a difficult time telling her. The problem is that since he didn't wait for religious reasons, I feel like the guy rushed into marriage to "lock her" and prevent her from leaving when she realises he has a micro penis. What else would he be waiting until marriage for? This is so manipulative...

"He was afraid I would leave him if he told me before the wedding." So...he trapped her? This is literally fraud, and not OK (you can actually list fraud as a reason for divorce).

Huge lie. Completely unacceptable. And gives people who actually do wait for marriage for religious or personal reasons a bad rap.

I feel like the lying is the largest issue. I feel so bad for her. It's like I understand his insecurity but you can't trap a person like that. Totally unacceptable. Like give her the option or find someone that would put up with that.

"its the motion of the ocean, not the size of the boat" but in honesty there's a lot they can do, but if someone lied to me for a year I'd be...upset to say the least?

I saw a comment on the original post that said, put the micro p aside. His way to deal with problems is to lie and hide it. How is he going to handle future problems in the marriage? That’s the real issue I think.

There are tons of options for intimacy in this case. It’s all about communication with the person you love. The problem was that he didn’t tell the truth about his reason for waiting until marriage. These guys had me rolling my eyes this whole video. This wasn’t a cool take

I died when you said a bullet vibrator and the guys just go “mmmm” at the same time 😭😂

Justin is watching this and yelling "communicate!!!"

I’ve been in a similar situation where I was with a guy with a micro and he didn’t tell me until we got intimate. I didn’t mind until I found out how selfish he is in bed. If you’re in that situation, you HAVE to make sure your partner is taken care of too. You can’t just think about yourself. So yeah, I dumped him. He semi stalked me and I had to block him on everything and every time he made a new fake profile, I blocked that too.

I have no preference for “size”. Literally none. If I had been convinced to marry someone before sex because of their morals & found out they had purposefully withheld this information AND had gotten married just because they didn’t want me to be able to leave as easily once I saw their dick… that’s not ok. If they’re willing to use something as serious as marriage to benefit their self esteem is terrifying and makes me wonder what else they’re hiding or lying about and what else they’re willing to do.

If I was bamboozled by a man like this I don’t even know what I would do lol

Sexual compatibility is a huge part of relationships, and he really did lie to her here.

According to Reddit, he found out about the posts and is upset. He's filing for annulment and considering suing for defamation of character.

I can understand a man avoiding sex due to insecurity, but the fact that he made sure it would be harder for her to leave when she found out is quite weird

Me & my husband waited until marriage & I literally made him measure himself over the phone (length AND circumference) because we were both virgins and I was highly concerned how things were gonna fit together😂

Imagine her not telling him she’s infertile until after they got married?

Wow. . It's not about the sex it's about the fact that he lied to her for so long. Anytime they do have sex she's going to think about it, anytime he tells her something where she needs to trust him she's going to think about it. It's going to be hard being able to get far in the relationship after the fact that their relationship is kind of basically built on lies.

I will die on this hill: HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE.

These guys were funny. You should have them on again!