LOVE LESSONS - 125+ Years of Marriage Advice in 3 Minutes

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How did they do it? Three couples with over 125 years of combined marriage experience share the secret to their success....

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@Christyandi 3 жыл бұрын

1. Eliminate small problems, minimize big problems. 2.Forgive, forgive and forgive 3. Laughs 4. Space 5. Gratitude

@itsnerdbehaviour21 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this list...its gold

@d.h.geetha7678 3 жыл бұрын

What do they mean by space... i didnt get that😔

@MariaJose-ub9rt 3 жыл бұрын

@@d.h.geetha7678 it means having time for yourself. For example, fyou want to go on a trip for couple of days alone, your partnet should be okay with that. It means not be together all the time, having time separated makes everything more light. ♡

@Christyandi 3 жыл бұрын

@@itsnerdbehaviour21 Actually I got it from our pastor who held a wedding seminar in our church and the Bible. He taught us how to make things simple in a marriage, because out there it is too complex, so try to really make your family a place for all family members to share, fun, help each other, full of love, joy, understanding, and being aware of their respective responsibilities. -Each. "The perfect family consists of family members who have imperfections and work hand in hand to create a heavenly atmosphere and environment before we are in heaven." 🙏

@JB-rp2ej 3 жыл бұрын

I especially agree with point 5, but point 2 is confusing. I don't think you should ever minimize your or your partner's feelings if there is a big problem. You should work through it with open, honest dialogue coming from a place of kindness. It isn't a competition of "I'm right, you're wrong" it's about taking challenges and learning/growing from them while being respectful and kind so you can build a stable future together. We got married at 18 and 19, which we received a lot of stigma and judgement for. Yet we've traveled the world together, worked as self-supporting uni students and and continue to build our life together. A few more years and I'll finish my qualifications to be a psychologist and he'll be an epidemiologist :)

@lahami2000 3 жыл бұрын

"You cannot change someone to fit the mold you want them to be." commenting this just for a reminder to myself

@roshnikhader5661 3 жыл бұрын

Yes. I see so many people trying to "fix" their partners, "mould" them into what they want them to be or try to change them into their type, which will never work out in any relationship, NEVER go into a relationship with baggage and don't be in relationship that brings in baggage, because neither of them will *ever* be able to fix each other's baggages. Try to fix it on your own and then go into a relationship. So yes, you can never change someone to fit the mould you want them to be.

@sonjazeh2975 3 жыл бұрын

@@roshnikhader5661 I also think that changing the partner into something that fills up the own emptiness or own insecurities won't work because you get dependent in an unhealthy way that won't help yourself or do good to the partner in the long term. But I think the thought or the rule that says that no one should be going into a relationship with baggage can kind of result in a relationship anxiety. I think if someone finds a partner that he/she loves it is brave to still go into the relationship even when having baggages - even sometimes big ones (if it's even possible for someone not to have baggages at all). It's just all about communication. When there is the right partner he/she will understand. I think it's kind of wrong to say no one should ever go into a relationship with baggages because i think that baggages even a lot of times firstly resolve when in a relationship because they then become very clear. Relationships are so awesome and difficult at the same time because they make someone more conscious about oneself. Staying alone is easy. Relationship is the difficult stuff. And relationships get so much more intimate when your resolving the baggage together, with the help of the partner, with talking and empathy. Not BECAUSE of the partner.

@sonjazeh2975 3 жыл бұрын

So yeah I kind of agree but I think it's just about openness and no one should be scared or too cautious of getting into relationship stuff. Because the problem is that many close up for years and they never will get into a serious one ever because they fear it too much. No one is perfect.

@MrsYehet 3 жыл бұрын

@@sonjazeh2975 you have opened my eyes to a new perception. Thanks for sharing your insight

@sulaganabiswas 2 жыл бұрын

Yes. This was just wow. the lady had my respect!

@wanderlyra 3 жыл бұрын

'she is the epitome of serenity' i aspire to be that kind of woman 🥺

@hayaatiilove 2 жыл бұрын

i would love to be the kind of woman that everyone feels safe around and when people think of my home, they think of positive experiences ✨🦋

@HoliGallistur1023 6 күн бұрын

I want to marry that kind of women

@auntdiane6605 3 жыл бұрын

Notice how “Intentional” all three couples LISTENED to their spouses while they spoke and gave good eye contact… critical in marriage communication along with close physical touch.

@CaroDuran29 2 жыл бұрын

YESSSS

@starclottt8618 2 жыл бұрын

This

@BlackoutMVs 3 жыл бұрын

I clicked expecting to see a couple that have been married for the past 125 years

@izziemoore6470 3 жыл бұрын

Literally 😂😂

@rosesankey6100 3 жыл бұрын

How ?! Lol When you can see clearly 3 couples in the picture before clicking on it lol

@lejendhasit3323 3 жыл бұрын

Saame and THEN it hit me 😅

@Thisworldisagoner 3 жыл бұрын

Thats the kind of dumb I am too 😂

@alliahrose2878 3 жыл бұрын

i was so confused aff

@xavierrainey8747 4 жыл бұрын

Notice the physical touch they all still have with each other

@aya123444 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely. The men still protect them. Love it.

@HG-qo9cx 3 жыл бұрын

Of course. They are in front of a camera.

@jijiipetti1433 3 жыл бұрын

@@HG-qo9cx Disagree. Their affection is real.

@tryingagain5123 3 жыл бұрын

Critical observation. It shows they truly still care about each other. I think their affection looks very natural.

@MoinAshrafSL 3 жыл бұрын

The director asks them to.

@jjrmmrrja4535 3 жыл бұрын

When the sweet woman in pink sweater told her husband that he's the love of her life, I think his face just got redder. After 50+ years of marriage, the spark is still there. Amazing!

@xxMpEGxx 9 ай бұрын

She seems like the serious type and somehow I believe her more when she smiles only once during this interview and says it.

@zyonamihlar 2 жыл бұрын

“Our marriage hasn’t been perfect. No marriage is perfect. There were times when she gave up on us. There were even more times when I gave up on us. The secret to our longevity is that we never gave up at the same time” Excerpt From All Your Perfects Colleen Hoover

@xinyiyuan2483 2 жыл бұрын

i love this

@wbkevzoo6188 2 жыл бұрын

So true

@IBeLieveInChrist07 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent words!

@anayaedwars7780 11 ай бұрын

powerful

@lauraescobar5806 3 жыл бұрын

I’ve only been married 36 years but I think what makes a lasting happy marriage is being good forgivers

@Daria-pg2yk 3 жыл бұрын

Only😱

@pippenyveritaz1621 3 жыл бұрын

Yes that definitely is !! You literally have to look past all of their mistakes and flaws!

@imjustezzy2076 3 жыл бұрын

Have you ever had to deal with like cheating?

@somebody9369 3 жыл бұрын

Yh you sacrifice the truth ;)

@rebekahguilder602 3 жыл бұрын

You have to! My husband is an excellent forgiver. Im trying to be more like him in that way.

@elyse443 3 жыл бұрын

Best marriage advice I’ve ever heard: “only you and your spouse are in your relationship. So actually it won’t/can’t be like anybody else’s. You two will have to figure that out.” The no-advice advice. 😂

@phoenixxena8194 3 жыл бұрын

I remember this one night when I was still in elementary school, my parents went to their bed room and talked. I overheard their conversations, which is basically both my parents agreed not to let any of their parents interfere with their marriage. And now...they've been married 39 years.

@otiliadragan7963 3 жыл бұрын

That’s kind of brilliant I think

@elyse443 3 жыл бұрын

@@otiliadragan7963 it was a game changer for me actually.

@cristabelhernandez1750 3 жыл бұрын

I’m just here to let you know I turned the 999 to 1k and it was satisfying 😂

@mrrob8263 2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@matotry 3 жыл бұрын

“You cannot change someone to fit the mold you want them to be.” The most powerful thing I’ve heard.

@Melly16yr10 2 жыл бұрын

Same here

@biancadiasoliveira6654 2 жыл бұрын

Hello maddy

@farahkabboura6549 2 жыл бұрын

can we get to know each other iam young man 25 years old

@orangeswild3699 2 жыл бұрын

My tips after being together for 9 years about to be married: 1. Talk about the hard stuff (money, kids, responsibilities with the house etc.) 2. Be sure you're on the same page when it come to each others families (like respect and boundaries) 3. Compromise, you can either be right, or get what you want you can't have both! 4. Always date each other, go out together, plan new adventures 5. It's good to have a life outside of each other 6. Actions speak louder than words

@Melly16yr10 2 жыл бұрын

Great advice

@nosiphodywili35 11 ай бұрын

What if the big thing is alcohol addiction ?

@queenofdahouse1591 10 ай бұрын

@@nosiphodywili35Treat it or get out! Raised in abusive alcoholic home…

@Tigersraa 5 ай бұрын

@@nosiphodywili35 I think you should love them but not marry them until they get better. If they don’t then they don’t really love you

@kenallenchannel3911 5 ай бұрын

Thanks 😊

@janarealbuto 3 жыл бұрын

Marriage takes two good apologizers & two good forgivers. Coupled with love.

@justinbaula8666 Жыл бұрын

I have heard this same concept from Dr. Billy Graham. :)

@azuk689 Жыл бұрын

thats is so true

@speakrighttogod Жыл бұрын

You said a mouthful!!!!!!

@Iamnajeem Жыл бұрын

And whole Lotta God in the middle! 🙏

@maiamiimaiam4343 11 ай бұрын

@Thawne1338⁠⁠assuming they mean you both have to be very forgiving and quick to apologize to one another instead of letting your person sleep unhappy with you

@aishasaddique2358 3 жыл бұрын

Nowadays I feel people are looking so badly for that movie romance that they really don’t try in a relationship and think when it’s hard it’s wrong.

@porschenator 3 жыл бұрын

agreed. should there be fights, it's a no go.

@natalie5892 3 жыл бұрын

@@porschenator so true. It’s so sad.

@kpv7438 3 жыл бұрын

@@wintersolstice4793 that's so sweet of u ma'am ❣️ Wishing u both a happy life ahead 🤗

@Kireniimran 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Give up easily!

@lizmartinez9506 3 жыл бұрын

this!!!

@marif2993 3 жыл бұрын

“She is truly the person I always wanted to be” IM NOT CRYING YOU’RE CRYING

@smgonz25 2 жыл бұрын

🥺🥺🥺

@thefarmhousegoddess5475 2 жыл бұрын

Together for 13 years, married for 7. My advice is to 1) Understand and accept that you are with an imperfect person, as you yourself are imperfect. 2) Be the kind of partner that you want for yourself and don't keep score. 3) You cannot change a person, so accept them as they are. Obviously, this doesn't mean to accept abuse or infidelity. Just to accept that they will never be the perfect man or woman and neither will you. 4) Agree that you will both do the best you can to care for each other and hold up your own ends of the partnership and discuss what that means to you before marriage. 5) Real love is not a Disney movie! There will be hard times when you're both stressed and aggravated, hot times when things are sexy and happy go lucky, and bland times when every day is the same, and these times come and go in cycles. 6) Commit to date and court your partner for life. The work isn't done just because you've got them. That's all I got. I believe in marriage and partnership, we're better together. Good luck, everyone.

@MsAldil Жыл бұрын

Thank you, I have saved this.

@karenhardie1132 3 жыл бұрын

Don't give up during the bad times and don't expect your spouse to be perfect.

@fredthomas4342 3 жыл бұрын

Hello Karen

@sarahj132 Жыл бұрын

Someone said “the perfect relationship isn’t perfect, it’s two people who don’t give up”.

@gypsymoth8977 3 жыл бұрын

“She is the person I always wanted to be” *chefs kiss ❤️

@charlesblaine7825 3 жыл бұрын

Really

@zerpwron8696 2 жыл бұрын

Omg 😲

@sis5239 2 жыл бұрын

Loll 💛

@yajairam.visoso104 2 жыл бұрын

😭🥺🛑🖐️

@LovelyMNGurl02 3 жыл бұрын

Advice: Even if you're mad at each other, try to go to bed with each other. Whenever my husband and I argue to the point where I don't even want to talk to him, I still want to go to sleep next to him. In the end we always come back together and we'll talk through our problems and work it out. Also find someone who is willing to fight through the tough battles with you.

@Envlo 2 жыл бұрын

My parents have been married for 42 years and ive never seen them hug, kiss, or say i love you to each other. Its refreshing to see older couples still expressing love

@emayan06 4 ай бұрын

Oh wow that’s crazy. My mom and dad stays kissing.

@ellaweezy0515 3 жыл бұрын

The woman in peach or salmon has aged so beautifully. I love what the other couple said about holding onto the Lord 😻

@Katarina23 3 жыл бұрын

She looks like she comes from money. Rich ppl have social circles they are in and have to maintain themselves to impress each other or just avoid being gossiped about

@catalinamartinezveloso6064 3 жыл бұрын

I thought the same, she's gorgeous!

@globyzeroivy 3 жыл бұрын

@@Katarina23 stop being bitter! she's beautiful, who cares about how or why, you don't know her.. 💛🙏🏻

@samrashafaq1717 3 жыл бұрын

I thought she was talking about holding on to the ROD

@MHACulayChannel 3 жыл бұрын

@@globyzeroivy it’s not bitterness...it’s a simple observation...You’re the one being bitter about the comment. Wth lol

@arlahunt4240 3 жыл бұрын

I have been married to my sweetheart for 51 years this past Valentine’s Day. What makes it last? We try to see out of the others eyes. We respect the other persons differences. We don’t compete. And we pray and love God. This makes the difference. Prayer solves a world of troubles.

@lydiautomwen 3 жыл бұрын

Amen!!!

@bibibibi7904 3 жыл бұрын

Amen ❤😊

@roshnikhader5661 3 жыл бұрын

Aww, yes! Amen.

@Prudentbeez 3 жыл бұрын

Amen!!

@EB1493 3 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@debbyseguin7131 3 жыл бұрын

Here’s all you need to know about having a successful marriage: Be a respectful caring human and don’t marry a narcissist.

@benfine2328 3 жыл бұрын

Hi baby Am Ben easygoing person I like good and do good I like friends that have understanding and fun to be with I love arts, museum and music l lunch luxury every Eve I compose poem and scripts am a civil engineer and a contractor I work for company and I work in Asia,africa,and Europe I need a woman who understands What love is all about, to be my own I saw your picture and I am impressed you're beautiful and baby you shines like a diamond springs In Sky nicely like flowers in the garden of Eden's I close my eyes all I is you at first sight I felt the energy of Sun rays angel'wings written love on it I love you so much baby I want a wonderful woman will love me and know who I am and be mine forever i hope You will reply soonest thanks.

@CIST3 3 жыл бұрын

Ain’t that the truth. You can be a Godly person or an atheist but if you marry a narc, your marriage is dead in the water because you’re all alone except to be abused. The narc is God (in their own mind).

@Shared-Experiences 2 жыл бұрын

But the narcissist is so charming.

@nishthagupta1357 2 жыл бұрын

Not marrying a narcissist is the greatest piece of advice ever! 🥺❣

@purdyprincess 2 жыл бұрын

@@benfine2328 are u ok?

@octavia590 2 жыл бұрын

Married 11 years now and I know I am blessed because it feels like I won the husband lottery. I have the best man in the world! To God be all the glory💝

@bcase2056 7 жыл бұрын

Who you marry is the most important decision of your life time. "Choose your love love your choice." Great video! Thank you

@justtoasted5377 3 жыл бұрын

Not if they choose to leave us😒

@ricwelbre2270 3 жыл бұрын

here's several things for making improvements in your marriage Try to discuss more Help each other out more Try to give and take more (I read these and the reasons they work from Pavs Partner Pundit website )

@madelynnazario8361 3 жыл бұрын

Who you marry is important...I was married to a narcissist for 12 years. Accept, get to know each other well, communicate, respect each other boundaries, make time for each other, appreciate each other, have each others back, be reliable, be emotionally supportive, care for one another, forgive each other, be loyal, be faithful to each other, never take each other for granted. After 16 years unmarried I'm still looking for the one who matches these qualities. Love the one you are with.

@Katarina23 3 жыл бұрын

@@madelynnazario8361 its terrible experiencing a narcissist but a man with all the qualities you mentioned does not exist. You need to settle for someone who makes you comfortable understands you and does not have any of your deal breakers. No one is perfect and very few ppl are blessed enough to find their soulmate

@TheGrams56 3 жыл бұрын

@@Katarina23 I have to disagree with your statement. There are a lot of people who have all those qualities and more! No one has them 100% of the time, you’ll be doing good to get 60%! That’s where pulling your share of the weight comes in, with patience, understanding and most of all forgiveness. You’re right that no one is perfect. My husband is not perfect and neither am I but I will tell anyone who will listen that forever and always he is the perfect one for me.

@massages_for_world_peace8909 3 жыл бұрын

I’ve found laughing together goes a long way. I started my marriage with “helpful criticism” like reminding him to use a cloth towel to wipe the sink instead of a paper towel. And “turning the light off when he left the room” and other habits I found annoying. He said oh yeah thanks but would still forget, and if either of us were tired or irritated, it was a sharp conversation. A few yrs into marriage I found I could express these same thoughts with humor and love. So now, when he’s finishing at the sink, I’ll say something silly like “oooh boy cloth towels are just such a cool invention, they are so superior to absorbing water than tree-paper!” And we’ll laugh and he’ll go grab a cloth. Or I’ll grab a cloth and do a silly dance as I sneakily tuck it behind the sink for him to use. After all these years he still forgets or maybe it’s just not his priority, but I get better results when I make it fun or silly, it helps me not get annoyed or exasperated too.

@ChikiruMEL 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I'm at the beginning of my relationship but we see ourselves going far and I think I have exactly the same problem as you. He don't have a logical mind so sometimes he do things and I can't hold my commentary "do like that it will be better" "faster baby im waiting" "baaabyy you can't do like this omg 😩". And it exhaust me, and him I'm sure. When this happens I feel like I'm against him and I see only the difference. To change the mood I need to be alone or come back to my family, do things to resource me. Do you have any other advice?

@leishasequeira7751 3 жыл бұрын

Love that!

@AnnaIsHere 3 жыл бұрын

Why drops of water are so important to wipe off?

@massages_for_world_peace8909 3 жыл бұрын

@@AnnaIsHere we live in a really humid area, so the stuff between the tiles mold if we don’t wipe the water off. We actually wipe the whole counter too, for spills and food bits so if someone puts a paper or mail on the counter, it doesn’t get ruined.

@junehoneycrisp 3 жыл бұрын

@@massages_for_world_peace8909 I can't believe you had to explain this

@Lacroix999 3 жыл бұрын

The key to sticking it out all those years is found in how those generations were raised. They had a different mentality back then: when something broke, they found a way to fix it. They didn’t just toss it out only to go out looking for a new one! Back then, things lasted longer. Today when we buy something, we do so with the mentality of it can always be replaced or returned if we don’t like it so we don’t have to get too attached if we don’t want to and if that shiny new thing rolls around, we can always upgrade. The new wears off and we get bored and it’s just easier to go out and replace it than to just fix it. Today, things aren’t built to last, they’re built to be replaced and we’re raised on a disposal mentality because it’s easier and more convenient. We’ve lost the ways of even wanting to learn how to fix stuff because we have such a short attention span and too busy to want to care to learn how to do so.

@foushoo 2 жыл бұрын

Been dating my sweetheart for the last 2 years. From our first date, I told my friends that she’s the one. They looked at me crazy, “wow you went to one date together and she’s all suddenly the one?” they would say. Here we are 2 years later, I gave her a promise ring on our first year as a couple, and I’m saving my scraps to buy her an engagement ring. I never thought I would experience the whole ‘when you know, you know’ moment. But it’s so subtly loud. It doesn’t feel crazy, it feels like.. love. There’s no jealousy, no competition, no silent treatments etc. Don’t get me wrong, every relationship has arguments but our arguments only made us stronger in transparency and communication. I always told her “people always say forever but forever is an idea, forever isn’t something that you reach and it’s smooth sailing from there. Forever is now, forever is every single day, one day at a time. I loved you yesterday, I love you today and I’ll love you tomorrow”

@MsAldil Жыл бұрын

Are u guys engaged now ? 💍 😇

@9Angstroms Жыл бұрын

Please update!! How's it going now?

@NiceMan-mi5po Жыл бұрын

Well no doubt she's lucky to have you, you are very in touch with your emotions. Thank you so much for sharing this.

@alexandria3177 Жыл бұрын

Update?😆

@ematique4392 10 ай бұрын

Are you still together now?

@nokubongamkhonto7784 3 жыл бұрын

I've always had this tiny fear that after years of marriage, my future spouse and I would basically fall into roommate mode and we'd stop being as affectionate. This gives me so much hope.

@Lilacs4 3 жыл бұрын

This is where I'm at right now, it's very frustrating and discouraging feeling like your hope is fading and you're talking to a brick wall. All I can do right now is pray and try to focus on my own growth. This video helped me, especially when that one couple said "sometimes the tunnel is long, and dark".

@samira201010 3 жыл бұрын

@@Lilacs4 I'm at that stage too. Have been here a while. I know exactly how u r feeling right now. Best of luck x

@Lilacs4 3 жыл бұрын

@@samira201010 Thanks so much, same to you, I'll pray it works out 🙏 let's give it out best!

@shell7142 3 жыл бұрын

My best piece of advice is, marry your best friend. I’ve heard it a few times before and it’s the truth. God lead me to my now husband and he truly is my best friend. Even when the years that people say the honeymoon phase would be over... it was never over. Learn to love God first, and you’ll learn how to love your spouse and others better. And when you do that, and they do it, It’s a lot easier. You’ll have arguments, you’ll have fights but try to minimize it. You’re human, ask for forgiveness. Ask God to be the best partner you can be to your partner. Laugh , love , forgive and pray often.

@ChelyAmour 3 жыл бұрын

Keep dating one another! Like anything worthwhile it takes work.

@kathytr616 3 жыл бұрын

- love the Lord - hold on no matter how hard. Hebrews: things get better - respect each other’s space

@mabuhayblogger4837 3 жыл бұрын

Definitely, you gotta to love the Lord. He is the only one knows our life.

@mitchellsmagicalmoments5730 3 жыл бұрын

Yes. Amen!! 🙏🏾

@pristinebeach2630 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah. I like this pair. Someday, I wish someone will tell and utter the word " serene" to me too.

@dinosaurcj 3 жыл бұрын

@@8box12israel9 I think the "Hebrews" part was a quote from Hebrews in the Bible.

@dinosaurcj 3 жыл бұрын

@@8box12israel9 I believe it may be Hebrews 4:16.

@maritzah.4039 3 жыл бұрын

“Really the only reason it worked in those early years is because we both loved the Lord. And we taught our children to love the Lord.” 🥺 omg thank you for this. So encouraging.❤️

@lulumarie7 3 жыл бұрын

1) Stay intentional with your spouse (don't go dormant or passive with communication or time together) 2) Don't be critical or judgmental (your way is not the only way) 3) People continue to change throughout their lives. Instead of being fearful of your spouse changing, celebrate each others growth. 4) Be open & honest! Hiding things from your spouse (including your thoughts or feelings) is only going to cause more harm than good. 5) Forgive. Forgive. Forgive. No one is perfect. Practice empathy and patience daily. (Unless it's abusive in any way! Then seek help.) 6) Laugh a lot! You're never too old to be goofy together. 7) Be grateful for your spouse. "The grass is greener where you water it." Remember why you chose that person, show your appreciation for him or her, and never stop flirting.

@benfine2328 3 жыл бұрын

@dogloveralok600 Жыл бұрын

Helpful👍

@agentorange153 6 ай бұрын

All of these are good advice, but #6 seems iffy -- like, for example, what if both spouses are quiet, sad introverts and don't like to laugh or be goofy???

@pamzungu6953 3 жыл бұрын

“We both loved the Lord and be taught our children to love the Lord”.........Got that one🙌

@josie9839 3 жыл бұрын

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@GG-yn6jw 3 жыл бұрын

Yesssss, amen

@rachelbrown3766 3 жыл бұрын

Amen to that!!

@coldfire9937 3 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏

@brianroca33 3 жыл бұрын

Yessssssss

@rosebud7105 6 жыл бұрын

Two things I've learned in my marriage to my husband are to be stubborn. Not to be stubborn against each other, but to be stubborn with each other by walking together, no matter what trial or hardship comes our way we are determined to get through it together. (We've lost four embryo babies in one year and we are currently paying off debt like crazy people. 42K in 18 months so far and counting!) The second thing I've learned is to laugh a lot and about silly things. For example, I love tickling his feet even though he hates it! :)

@BedroomMatterss 4 жыл бұрын

It will end in praise.

@Shayvideos1 3 жыл бұрын

Bless you both.

@gypsylady179 3 жыл бұрын

I do the same tickle to my man hahaha he feels the same way too!

@annasingh894 3 жыл бұрын

Solid advice! Good luck in your journey 🙏

@MissLovely42 3 жыл бұрын

Ah the little things. Whenver my fiance yawns I stick my finger in his mouth/cheek I fish-hook him. He hates it. But we always end up laughing. Thanks for your pearl of wisdom

@MarieriedLee 2 жыл бұрын

This made me cry, my husband and I are celebrating our first wedding anniversary this year, February 13th. And I can't wait to be like these couples and spend the rest of my life with him.

@biancadiasoliveira6654 2 жыл бұрын

Hello Marie, I must say you are pretty

@farahkabboura6549 2 жыл бұрын

can we get to know eache other iam young man 30 years old

@daprincekissedme 3 жыл бұрын

This is what I want, and it’s worth the wait. It’s going to be worth the wait. - 26 years of being single and still waiting

@palaanmukbang3280 3 жыл бұрын

Same, i'm 25, no boyfriend since birth. Sometimes I would think i'm gonna be an old single lady

@kelsyadhiambo6173 3 жыл бұрын

Nah, the wait is worth it!

@enerxiazelementa 3 жыл бұрын

Me too! Yay!

@p6h14 2 жыл бұрын

I'm 35. Still waiting. It will come. Have faith, y'all!

@JustMeg29 2 жыл бұрын

I am now 29 and I met my boyfriend at 26 before I met him I truly thought 8 I was going to die alone and then he found me 😊. He is out there don't ever give up hope!!

@2bhonest559 4 жыл бұрын

I don't see why people say marriage is bad perhaps it's the people in the marriage that are bad

@JonathanLoganPDX 3 жыл бұрын

I don't know about that, but rather so many people don't understand what it means to have a relationship, or to care for the other person's heart and their needs, or to have good boundaries in times of difficulty. Also, it seems to me that too few people are willing to reach out and speak about their challenges, hurt feelings, or problems that they have in a marriage with their church members or their family or their dear friends because they feel isolated, or afraid or even ashamed. But the truth is, having a broken place in the marriage is no different than having a broken leg. In both cases they need attention, loving kindness and help to get back in alignment and heal. It's so important to speak up and get help when we're in a tough spot, but not in the blaming way, but rather in a compassionate and hopeful way so that the marriage can be healed and a couple can move back into that beautiful space together that we see these three couple all share.

@nullinvoid1415 3 жыл бұрын

I honestly have felt this way for most of my life bc my parent's marriage was completely awful. Toxic. The way they split up was even more difficult so i grew up and said, i don't wanna commit and end up like them. I'm now 30 going on 31 with a fear of getting too close to someone bc I'm afraid it'll be a toxic mess.

@conradical41 3 жыл бұрын

Bad people?....based on what evidence?

@1980tiffani 3 жыл бұрын

Probably it’s people who didn’t do the work up front within themselves and basically we end up choosing the wrong person or are the wrong person... not saying either is a bad person, but it’s not the right person for each person. We don’t really pay attention to certain qualities needed for successful marriages or qualities that blend well with your qualities..

@missnlahi 3 жыл бұрын

Maturation is key I think

@kaleahdior132 3 жыл бұрын

i always get teary-eyed when i see old couples holding each other's hands and still in love

@CaroDuran29 2 жыл бұрын

Me too 🥰

@yambikes 8 ай бұрын

Attraction alone is not enough. Just because you feel good with someone, doesn't mean you can build a healthy long-term relationship. You need to align on values, respect one another, and have good communication. I play couple question games like Lovify. And, it actually does help in sharing expectations and build understanding. But, actively listening to your partner and putting efforts into understanding can take your relationship to a whole new level 💗

@cristinamacatane8888 3 жыл бұрын

Waiting is not wasting, it's preparation for you to become a healthy person. Healthy relationship consist healthy individuals, and it always worth the wait! 💚

@bestill365 3 жыл бұрын

I was given the advice that marriage should be 50/50, but I've learned that it can also be 10/90, 70/30, 40/60, 80/20 and everything in between, but we strive for 100/100.

@miranda57 3 жыл бұрын

Never thought of it that way, thank you!

@IntheMOMENT22173 3 жыл бұрын

Tell it! It changes all the time. Sometimes, one has to pick up a little more weight than the other to make it work.

@ibico907 3 жыл бұрын

In the same way marriage is not about you its about your partner and the other way around. Outdo eachother it works. Dont take my word for it go ahead and try it

@FruityHachi 3 жыл бұрын

@@IntheMOMENT22173 then that’s not a healthy relationship but codependent relationship a healthy relationship is 50/50, anything else is codependent and being with a wrong partner

@princesspinhead4516 3 жыл бұрын

@@FruityHachi no. No it’s not

@loreegang4477 3 жыл бұрын

Amen to everything they said. My late husband and I were married for 56 years 8 months and two weeks and we're looking forward to eternity together

@haileysanders6706 3 жыл бұрын

This is so sweet 😍♥️ I love this way of thinking

@WJH777 3 жыл бұрын

RIP

@deewils381 2 жыл бұрын

💝

@imissmybed3469 3 жыл бұрын

"How could you not kiss" So that's what love looks like.

@Amanda-hq9of 2 жыл бұрын

We’ve been married for 13 years and I’d say actively choosing to meet each other in the middle, talking to each other with respect even when angry, and continuing to have fun with each other has made our relationship very strong.

@nosiphodywili35 11 ай бұрын

I'm on year 1 and I'm dealing with his addiction to alcohol.. There are people who stay with addicts for years but I don't know if I can.

@gothameenair5365 10 ай бұрын

Such a good advice❤

@UltimateTS64 7 ай бұрын

@nosiphodywili35 Dang that sucks, did you know about this going into the marriage?

@BantuAzania 4 жыл бұрын

I'm not married but I want this with my current partner. Forever, kind of thing.

@saidaa9825 5 жыл бұрын

The way they hold and look at each other

@kelsyadhiambo6173 3 жыл бұрын

It's the look for me!

@truenorth5787 2 жыл бұрын

Even when it feels like love is waning, treat each other with utmost respect. Respect is the nourishment that love needs and thrives on.

@not_potaytoes_hobbit Жыл бұрын

I just left a toxic relationship that left me with trauma so I decided to look for videos for clarity and I found this. I am proud of myself for leaving even though I had emotional attachment. I know dating nowadays is difficult but I will not settle for anyone that doesn't treat me like the queen I am. I will carry on working on myself and leveling myself up.

@biggerbitcoin5126 Жыл бұрын

If you respect him like a King he will treat you like a Queen

@_Dynamight_ Жыл бұрын

@@biggerbitcoin5126 Not always. You also should know when to leave.

@rebeccawhite8459 3 жыл бұрын

Stay out of the fighting as much as possible... talk, but don't yell

@aramisy.cajigas744 3 жыл бұрын

Talk to the husband, but without anger. Amen, sister.

@CrystalDatingCoach 3 жыл бұрын

Communicate with respect and love.

@aramisy.cajigas744 3 жыл бұрын

@@CrystalDatingCoach Amén.

@OpiumBride 3 жыл бұрын

Married 7 years, happier than ever and our relationship is even better than when we first started dating. The secret is to FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT...fight it out until there is nothing to left to fight about. The key is to never give up and always fight fair and reasonable. Now we hadly ever fight because aint nothing left to fight about. I love him more every day.

@CrystalDatingCoach 3 жыл бұрын

@@OpiumBride Yes. Just make sure your in TWO that's fighting. 😉

@lazsubbz 3 жыл бұрын

I'm turning 20 this year and I prayed to God to help me prepare for marriage and to give me info about love. This is what I get within the next few hours. 🥺💕

@shell7142 3 жыл бұрын

You asked, He will show you. That’s how God is. Many people think God doesn’t show them anything but... the truth is they really just haven’t truly asked Him. You’ll do well. God will give you the perfect spouse for you just be patient and focus on Him. When you learn to love God you’ll learn to love your future spouse and others. ❤️

@lazsubbz 3 жыл бұрын

@@shell7142 Thank you, God bless you. 💛

@KelseyyRachel 2 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🏼

@s.f6851 2 жыл бұрын

@End times true lol

@kayleecowart2209 2 жыл бұрын

Don’t rush, sweet love! Divine timing, you will know. Although I gotta say, I had a few failures first. My greatest advice to finding the right partner (at this stage of life) is only to put yourself first, you must first find peace in your self and your direction and heal any past wounds. Then the right one will basically waltz in your life and compliment the ride. I always thought “when you know, you know” was a little ambitious.. but on our first date I thought “I’m going to marry this man.” And I wasn’t wrong!

@jdx3738 2 жыл бұрын

I would LOVE for Netflix to have older couples retelling their love story of how they met. With each episode a new story.

@mikethemechanic7395 2 жыл бұрын

Been married 13 together 21. What made my marriage last so long so far? We met at 25. Decided to date a long time so there were no surprises. We worked hard and saved up for a house first. Then we traveled a lot and work on our careers. Then we got married at 32 and kids by 38. This prepared us for our difficult time in our marriage when the kids were toddlers. Not having money stress or marital stress is the key. My kids are 8 and are very happy. It’s crazy how many friends of theirs are living in divorced single parent homes. Many are poor and struggling and you see it though the kids

@giftjacob4643 2 жыл бұрын

*+1 :( 2 : 1: 3:) 4: 4 : 1: 1: 2: 1: 3 whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here🥺🥺

@JC-li8kk 3 жыл бұрын

Every person is capable of being great. Hang onto your person & make them believe they are great, especially when they fail.

@christinep. 3 жыл бұрын

My parents were atheists. However, their marriage of 50 years was as good as any. They were completely devoted to each other and they ceased being together only by death. So, if religion is what you need that's fine, but for some folks that apparently isn't what holds them together and happy.

@aramisy.cajigas744 3 жыл бұрын

Father God blessed you with a stable home. Amen, bruh.

@slendercrescents 3 жыл бұрын

My parents still are atheists. Been married for 30 years :)

@fatimahjoy4221 3 жыл бұрын

My ex's parents were atheists...and they've managed to stay together for more than 50 years. To me, they looked as happy to be with each other in old age as those couples in the video. Personally (I'm a Catholic), I think I need more than faith in God to last with anyone. I need to make respectful-of-the-other choices, for one...and he has to do the same.

@bukolaakinsanya6715 3 жыл бұрын

What kept them together was the fact that they believed in the same thing.

@MsRamington 3 жыл бұрын

It's always atheists that have to point out that religion wasn't the source for them in any aspect when religion is mention by others. Why? Couldn't you just say WHAT DID keep them together, what was the marital advice? There were other two couples that didn't mentioned religion but you just zoomed on to that specific comment out of everyone. Y'all are like vegans for real always have to scream it at the top of the roof to be validated. No one cares that you don't believe, it's your choice. 🙄

@carypeterson9554 2 жыл бұрын

(15 yrs this Nov. 2021) 1. Do your laundry separately. Trust me. 2. Have times where you do your thing and your spouse does his thing. It’s okay not to do everything together. 3. Pray together. 4. Find something you enjoy doing together and do it! 5. You can go on dates at home. Put the kids to bed or put on their favorite movie, and then you two have dinner in the kitchen or drinks out on the porch (or wherever).

@agentorange153 6 ай бұрын

Good advice for the most part, but #3 is not necessarily true -- like, for example, what if one or both spouses are atheists???

@priyathangjam2946 3 жыл бұрын

"You cannot change someone to fit the mold you want" . I like this

@JenkoRun 3 жыл бұрын

And people these days say romantic love is just a social construct, what a joke. This generation just doesn't have the patience or lacks communication.

@porschenator 3 жыл бұрын

agreed.

@roshnikhader5661 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, very much lacks communication and patience!

@vtheb1299 3 жыл бұрын

Yes. Too entitled

@katielivingston4106 3 жыл бұрын

It is a social contract? How is it not.

@JenkoRun 3 жыл бұрын

@@katielivingston4106 I wrote construct, not contract.

@joleybaker3430 3 жыл бұрын

For those of you who are single and wondering where their soul mate is, I advise you to stop wondering. They are out there somewhere preparing to be your person even without you there. Patience is key to love, when it comes to; finding the one, dating the one, enduring the one and living a full life with one.

@benfine2328 3 жыл бұрын

@chunulimboo8216 3 жыл бұрын

@@benfine2328 😂😂😂🤣 wow never seen this kind of purpose . Good luck guys hope she replies you soon .👍🏻🤞

@p6h14 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the advice. I will continue preparing myself, while she's out there too, preparing. Hopefully the stars will align this lifetime.

@andrea.dandelion 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this! I really adore and appreciate this comment 😌

@ShubhamSharma-iz2qo 2 жыл бұрын

@aeringothyk5445 3 жыл бұрын

Marriage is the hardest, most excruciating, exciting, fulfilling experience I could ever ask for. All the lessons I’ve learned, the mistakes I’ve made and repented for, the things I’ve learned about myself and my spouse, I wouldn’t take any of it back. All in all, even the worst times, built me into the man I am and I am continuing to grow. Marriage is taking two stones and polishing them together into a more perfect fit. There’s no such thing as true love. Not like how the stories tell you. Nobody is created perfect for another. We achieve perfection by compromising and by growing to better suit each other‘s needs. By sacrificing and building together until the world you’ve made for yourself is a heaven on earth with you two functioning as the guardians of its garden. Live, laugh, love, and don’t forget to forgive.

@denisebohorquez132 2 жыл бұрын

I love this! So inspirational ♥️ my husband and I have been together since we were 13/14 years old and we’ve been together for 10 years, married for 4. I’m confident we will last forever because we have already been through 10x more than the average couple and we made it! I love him so so much! We just decided to start our family and I’m just so excited to start this journey and grow old with him! 🥰

@p6h14 2 жыл бұрын

Blessings to you and your husband ❤️

@lunarbubu 2 жыл бұрын

beautiful! Wish you both nothing but the best!

@sheherkeshorsedoor 7 ай бұрын

Beautiful

@nullinvoid1415 3 жыл бұрын

I want to marry my best friend. I don't have a best friend yet but i want a love where, when we're 80 we can still laugh at that joke from when we were 40.

@gabib.1780 3 жыл бұрын

I married my best friend. Truth is we can laugh even if we're miserable with one another...I think everyone has to be their spouse's best friend otherwise I don't see how it'd work on long term.. The problem is, if you don't make it you lose both your best friend and your lover...High risk - high reward

@littleincanwill46 5 жыл бұрын

Watching this (21) really just shows there’s hope, for anything. Things just take time, and in the mean time, self care is always the best :)

@amans8881 4 жыл бұрын

Right on ! 😸

@dianca8977 3 жыл бұрын

True!

@shell7142 3 жыл бұрын

May I suggest something? Learn to love God the way He loves you. You’ll learn how to love your spouse greatly, and in return you may get a spouse who loves and respects you the way Jesus loves the church. A man who loves God can be a gentleman, who treats and cares for his wife with respect. As long as you put God first, God will supply all your needs according to His will. You’ll be very blessed with love ❤️

@marylee1814 3 жыл бұрын

@@shell7142 how do I learn that? I was never taught anything about God

@kelsyadhiambo6173 3 жыл бұрын

Yess, self-care!

@TheCrazedEB 2 жыл бұрын

honestly, no material value could hold a candle to this... THIS is the biggest flex, I hope everyone in the future can find love and a partner like these folks.

@playlistsforgaming1925 2 жыл бұрын

The best advice I can think of is become best friends before marriage. I have been married to my best friend for 11 years. We've had our ups and downs. Even had people say I was crazy for getting married 19 but I am very happy where I ended up at and have plans to grow old with my best friend.

@joanjm3342 3 жыл бұрын

50 years and "how could you not kiss"... Not anything we see today

@williamrolls8075 3 жыл бұрын

Hello Joan

@kmzai24 3 жыл бұрын

I'm really praying for someone I can spend the rest of my life with just like my parents.

@TheDumblebee 3 жыл бұрын

You will found him/her. Just believe.

@jannydots3870 2 жыл бұрын

You will find that special someone. God answers all prayers. Stay faithful in his word and you will be blessed.

@shadowfurret 2 жыл бұрын

Something that is really important is wanting your partner to succeed with or without you, being interested in things that aren't just common or shared interests but in whatever they are excited about at that particular time. Learning new things as a method of bonding, if she is into a new hobby the (even if you think initially it is boring) learn how to share that joy and enthusiasm, especially early on in the little things. Listening, empathy, just attentiveness in general... treat your partner like they are the most important person in your world and that you always want their opinion or that it is safe for them to share their feelings. A relationship isn't a competition, you are a team and ultimately it should be about lifting each other up. Too many couples I see that have jealousy between one another.

@jeantrinidad7118 7 ай бұрын

We both love God, 4 months boyfriends and 2 months engage, married after 6 months, now we celebrated our 26 years. no need to waste time of grudges and anger but apologize and forgive = LOVE

@wclay8531 3 жыл бұрын

Me and my wife have had Our fair share of struggles, but what my wife and I have learned is... As long as we are all in, everything will work out. All in with the Lord. All in with our marriage. Miracles will always happen. Sometimes God just needs to work a few thing out.

@shenewnguyen 3 жыл бұрын

“be sure to buy 2 tubes of toothpaste” can it get any cuter than that!?

@mabell7000 3 жыл бұрын

Not me sitting here crying 😭❤️ I want a love like this one day

@collinsakwegbai9502 3 жыл бұрын

Dr Osose Can help you

@collinsakwegbai9502 3 жыл бұрын

+²³⁴ ⁹ ⁰ ² ⁴ ³ ⁹ ⁵ ⁴ ³ ⁴

@collinsakwegbai9502 3 жыл бұрын

C H A T H I M Up

@cosmic1115 2 жыл бұрын

Love is truly just a chemical reaction sending hormones through your body like dopamine. But after awhile those reactions will start getting lower and lower. That is why marriage is hard because it’s not always going to be puppy love. It’s just a different type of love and I think people forget that and fall out of love thinking they didn’t met their “soulmates” because it’s not always going to feel like rainbows and butterflies. So remember to take it easy and always keep trying to keep the romance alive

@aramisy.cajigas744 3 жыл бұрын

Society has to return to marriage, to family. We need to return to the father. Kids need their father at home. Men need to forgive their mommas. Drop the anger, the resentment, and love the father.

@leonie7356 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah such a bad thing that people in the past weren't allowed to leave a bad relationship.... It's good that we now are able to habe many partners but you are right, some people need to relearn to fight for their love

@aramisy.cajigas744 3 жыл бұрын

@@8box12israel9 Is yo momma perfect?

@aramisy.cajigas744 3 жыл бұрын

@@leonie7356 The desire to have many "partners" is a reflection of the void in the heart looking for fatherly love. That's why we need to forgive our fathers, love him, and return to him. I wish you the best, bruh.

@aramisy.cajigas744 3 жыл бұрын

@@8box12israel9 Did you go to yo momma to forgive her for being abusive?

@fastdeliveryl708 3 жыл бұрын

Lol u sound like a simp.

@artistfirst7011 5 жыл бұрын

The Lord is the core of our existence... grate advice

@marcoramirez313 4 жыл бұрын

Artist First Amen!

@reikomyles1495 4 жыл бұрын

Amen

@naumankhan422 3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@sgracem2863 3 жыл бұрын

God doesn't exist

@vb7668 3 жыл бұрын

Amen.

@danielcandela2887 11 ай бұрын

"We both love the Lord and we taught our childer to love the Lord" Thank you Jesus for this type of commitments.

@Beautytrends77 2 жыл бұрын

The lady in the peach sweater is stunningly beautiful!! The advice they all give is just priceless!!!

@halseygreenhalghtanner5265 3 жыл бұрын

"The epitome of serenity" 😭😭😭

@kelvingold4657 3 жыл бұрын

Hello

@MPT1983 3 жыл бұрын

Good communication, how things are said or things left unsaid can bring a relationship down.

@autumnlatte1611 2 жыл бұрын

Love the way they talk, it’s calm, respectful, a lot of maturity, would love to be like them in my 20s really

@megsaunders3493 2 жыл бұрын

Married for 6 years. My advice would be to always show appreciation in the hard times. It's easy to get lost in the world and trying to find your way out of difficult life challenges. When life gets hard make sure you still verbally and physically show your appreciation for your partner. There is nothing worse than feeling like things are hard an no one appreciate the work you put in.

@xw6475 4 жыл бұрын

Wow. These kind of love is so hard to find nowdays. Love, relationships everything has changed. Bless these wonderful lovely couples

@JC-li8kk 3 жыл бұрын

Love isn’t something that is found. It is something you create.

@xw6475 3 жыл бұрын

@@JC-li8kk But first, you need to find the right person

@weronikalinda4917 3 жыл бұрын

Always try to work as a team, never see the other as an enemy or an obstacle you need to overcome. Useful especially during disagreements and fights. If you trust each other to be on each other's sides, a disagreement turns from battle into working together towards a sollution or understanding each other better.

@benfine2328 3 жыл бұрын

@farahkabboura6549 2 жыл бұрын

your smile is beautifil l really like your character can we get to know eache other ?

@manuelagamboa4002 2 жыл бұрын

Listen, communicate your feelings, don’t yell, be patient , forgive and apologize, it’s both of you against the problem, not against each other. Always have hope, always pray for each other, be grateful and be kind, love is the only thing you should not save up, don’t hide what you feel and always know that both of you are humans who don’t have all the answers and can make mistakes.

@wismeiry31 2 жыл бұрын

The way they look at each other as if they just got married 🥺🥰

@mariasophiarb 3 жыл бұрын

Amén! Put GOD in the Center of Everything! Give Him your marriage.

@mabuhayblogger4837 3 жыл бұрын

For me love, patience and respect. I had learned that perspective from parents. My parents have been married for 50 years. And I had been married my husband for almost 16 years. Everyday is a learning process. It was not a box of chocolate and bed of roses. And you gotta to love the Lord. Prayers are only way to make the marriage more stronger. Goodluck to you all.

@masterpiece1492 3 жыл бұрын

Do you notice how they are attentive to each other when the other is speaking

@sunnyray4065 Жыл бұрын

"She's the person I always wanted to be" that's so lovely that he admires her so much.

@MichelleJohnson-ou4xz 3 жыл бұрын

I’ve been married for 8 years now, (not long in the grand scheme of things) I would agree with all those lovely couples - take time with each other, put effort into everyday with your loved one. We have never argued with each other, yes we get annoyed with each other but we talk about it and usually end up laughing afterwards. Also be best friends as well and husband and wife... it really does help. Talk about your day, listen to them - understand them and there passions. Enjoy every moment, good and bad 💛

@brendajohnson1774 3 жыл бұрын

True but some people they don’t want to put effort! Or spend time with your spouse!

@imjustezzy2076 3 жыл бұрын

I love this. Have you ever had to deal with cheating?

@MichelleJohnson-ou4xz 3 жыл бұрын

No, never dealt with cheating - being honest and truthful is one of the most important parts of any relationship

@kristinabaker4433 5 жыл бұрын

Word! The Lord has to be First and Foremost always 💖

@mauriceglass2854 4 жыл бұрын

He always should come first. Without Him I know a relationship will fail.

@reikomyles1495 4 жыл бұрын

Amen

@gracereed5561 3 жыл бұрын

Indeed! Put God first in everything will just follow, and unlimited forgiveness ❤ .

@sineadiloveyou 3 жыл бұрын

Except he doesn't exist 😂

@benfine2328 3 жыл бұрын

@youreworthit8146 2 жыл бұрын

The way each of the couples looks ar each other explains everythig🥺🥺😭😭may God bless you with long n happier life💜💜

@c.coffee3035 3 жыл бұрын

I just loved this. My fiance and I have been together for 11 years (I'm 29, we fell in love as teenagers and I'm always grateful). It's hard to become adults together. I think the most important lesson I've learned is to be okay with growing and maturing differently with different priorities. And appreciate differences! Dating yourself would be horrible. And to learn to not overreact when those differences cause problems. It's hard but getting through hard times strengthens the relationship!!

@lpgfamily5 3 жыл бұрын

Love a the key. Been married 20 years and love my husband so much. It’s just a choice you make to stick through the rough patches and you’ll see, love bonds get stronger with time.

@mabuhayblogger4837 3 жыл бұрын

For me, love, patience and respect. I learned that from my parents. My parents have been married for 50 years. And I had been married my husband for almost 16 years now. Everyday is a learning process and I have to extend my patience with my partner. It is not a box of chocolate and bed roses.

@Shahrezad1 3 жыл бұрын

My husband and I didn't meet till my early thirties and his mid thirties, and we have been married for almost two years now. The thing we've found is to have complete and open communication--if something is said that hurts your feelings, ask what that person meant by it. Usually you find out that they meant something different, or that anxiety about something else caused them to react more than they normally would. Also, being that we didn't meet till later we both are a little set in our ways. Discussing the differences and how we can meet in the middle smooths any bumps in the road. Also, marry your best friend. Then you just always enjoy spending time with them--much of our marriage has occurred simultaneously with the pandemic, but we've absolutely loved being able to be with one another every day. Probably because we used to have a hard time leaving each other at the end of each date back before we got married. 😂 We just love spending time together and talking with one another, over spending time with anyone else. So wait for the right one, someone who can be your friend through thick and thin. There are more important things than the Hollywood romance. Friendship and communication are Waaaaaay better. ❤️

@lexie02jones25 3 жыл бұрын

true about that!

@Melly16yr10 3 жыл бұрын

Don't mind me asking how did you meet?

@p6h14 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. I will make more friends and hopefully find that special best friend one day to spend my life with... Blessings to both of you ❤️

@t.l1357 2 жыл бұрын

I'm divorced after 20 yrs. Seeing this gives me hope I can be married again someday. Congratulations to all the couples still choosing each other everyday. It's a beautiful thing 💕💕💕

@MsAldil Жыл бұрын

Im sorry, How did you get over your divorce? I hope you find ur love soon

@xAlecto 2 жыл бұрын

While not religious, I appreciate the wisdom that these couples have. It's very obvious that they care for each other

@katemiller5990 3 жыл бұрын

Commitment to work through the hard times. Dig really deep to find out what makes each other tick and what makes the other feel loved, then focus the lion's share of your energy there. Avoid condemning the person, instead talk about the behaviour and how it makes you feel. Express anger if necessary, but try to tap into sadness so their compassion is aroused to motivate a change in behaviour. Don't manipulate. Be honest, kind and gentle. Don't let your life get so busy, you're exhausted and grumpy with each other. Make time to spend with each other, and relaxing time to laugh.

@williamrolls8075 3 жыл бұрын

Hello Kate

@OfficialMakingMoneyWithMama 4 жыл бұрын

It is so important to understand the fundamentals of marriage. I started dating my husband when we were 14 years old and have been together ever since. We now have one beautiful baby girl. I made a video of our marriage secret sauce too :)

@katsumichynn 3 жыл бұрын

I just subscribed to you :)

@JenkoRun 3 жыл бұрын

From 14? Congrats you got it right!

@imjustezzy2076 3 жыл бұрын

I just subscribed. You don’t have to respond but have you ever had to deal with infidelity? I’m asking because I think I found my person but I’m scared

@mimirizaldo2412 2 жыл бұрын

I always fancy looking at old married couple still faithful to each other♥️

@cwayzums 2 жыл бұрын

Best 2 marriage advice I can give is 1. Always Communicate. Share your thoughts with one another openly. 2. For those couples where jealousy is in the air, trust your partner. Otherwise, don’t be married.