I am a femme boy (and that's okay!)

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4 жыл бұрын

femininity is beautiful and for all boys!
This was a vulnerable video to film, but I believe in sharing parts of myself with the hopes of helping others. To all my femme boys (cis and trans), I love you. xo
The Trevor Project (LGBTQ): www.thetrevorproject.org/get-...
Trans LifeLine (Trans Folks only): www.translifeline.org/
*remember: trans folks can use BOTH.
If you want a more detailed video about my transition-the physical changes, the emotions, and the process of finding a clinic, getting accepted for HRT, and legal stuff-comment below the heart from the thumbnail!
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original coming out video: • COMING OUT STORY
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connect:
Instagram: / jasonfeinberg_

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@smadaf 2 ай бұрын

I like the colors in this video. There's a very nice harmony among your skin, your hair, your eyes, the walls, the things in the room that are painted white, and your clothes.

@faginnyc 2 ай бұрын

This is so interesting to me-I really wasn’t trying and didn’t think this would get so many views haha. Do you think the colors in videos matter? I’m moving soon so I’m thinking about how I envision my space

@ninabrown1437 3 жыл бұрын

I love this video so much! So interesting, thanks for educating me on this topic. I’m so glad you’re finally able to live your truth and be yourself, so inspirational💗

@-toasty-444 3 жыл бұрын

God, I've never related to a video more. Thank you for this.

@faginnyc 3 жыл бұрын

yay, so glad!

@stephenscurlock1447 2 жыл бұрын

You're a sweetheart. As someone who didn't grow up gay but entered the community by way of my transwomen attraction I had no idea until recently that femme shaming was an issue in this community. I'm bisexual but lately I only date femme guys and I have one regular lover who cd's for me. I'm attracted to femininity so it's logical for me but it's sad how ignorance is available in every realm. Love yourself and find like minded people.

@miskatokarek7464 2 жыл бұрын

thanks for this video. it's just very sweet to listen it. ✨

@Willow.Moon86 3 жыл бұрын

I'm going to show my trans son this video. Thank you so much for opening up and telling your story! I love your outfit!

@faginnyc 2 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad u found it helpful! I recorded an updated one! I'll post it soon xo

@lucy1324 4 жыл бұрын

This is a great video I like how your addressing it! I Stan 🤍

@faginnyc 4 жыл бұрын

thanks

@Damianyorkify 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video. So important!!

@christopheralexander6766 4 жыл бұрын

I have enjoyed watching your videos for a while! I am happy to catch a glimpse of your journey in owning who you are. I first got hooked on your videos with the Sarah Lawrence College videos. The "Study With Me" was so calming and awesome! Are you still at Sarah Lawrence?

@faginnyc 4 жыл бұрын

thank you! this is really kind. I am so glad those videos evoked those feelings

@user-xj7gg7tv1s 4 ай бұрын

You be you. I think you are awesome.

@alazybutterfly._.817 2 жыл бұрын

I hope one day you can see through the false limitations of old traditions upon gender and see that however you identify will never be defined by what you wear and how you sounds and how you act. I’m at a point where I see everyone as a floating ball of energy expressing themselves however and whenever they want without the restrictions and judgements from other folks. I’m educating myself along the way to speak up for the trans community. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@faginnyc 2 жыл бұрын

@hughjarse8944 2 жыл бұрын

Are you a femme boy or a t-girl??

@faginnyc 2 жыл бұрын

reread the title :)

@smadaf 2 ай бұрын

I know it's been, as KZfaq says, "3 years" since you made this video, and I don't know what your point of view is nowadays. But I think that it may be better to replace the idea of "even higher standards of masculinity" with "even stricter standards of masculinity" or "especially rigid standards of masculinity". I think that such words as "high", "higher, "highest", and "height" often suggest something good and positive, whereas these 'masculinity' standards, I think, don't really have anything to do with "good" or "bad" (and, really, I think that branding things "feminine" and "masculine" is mostly a bad thing to do, even if it is meant as praise).

@faginnyc 2 ай бұрын

Yeah, noted. tbh thinking about deleting this video bc I do not even look like this anymore…I have a new video “I am a fag” (lol) which I think is more true to how I feel now.

@smadaf 2 ай бұрын

@@faginnyc , thank you for replying. Of course, it is your channel, your video, your copyright, and your voice and likeness; but, not knowing what would be your reasons for deleting it, I have my own preference, which is that you not delete it. I found value in it, other people in the comments seem to have found value in it, it's been watched more than 3,000 times, and I was thinking of showing it to some friends so that we could discuss some of the points you make in it. As for the differences between this and your new video: I think it's valuable-certainly for me and for others, and maybe for you-to be able to review a record of how people's ideas and feelings change. One of the more troublesome notions in life, I find, is that we mustn't change our minds.