I Am Fat - How to Be Confident and Love Your Body at Any Size | Victoria Welsby

I Am Fat - How to Be Confident and Love Your Body at Any Size | Victoria Welsby | TEDxStanleyPark

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6 жыл бұрын

Last year Americans spent $66 billion dollars on trying to become thinner. What if we spent less time, money and energy on the pursuit of thinness and instead focused on the things that actually matter? What if we could learn to love our bodies exactly as they are today? Fat, thin, tall, short, mullet sporting or leopard print thong wearing; we are all worth and fabulous. Victoria is a body image activist, confidence expert and Adjunct Professor at UBC. She went from being homeless, abused with self-esteem that was achingly low into the courageous fat activist and change maker she is today. Victoria helps people fall in love with themselves and is dedicated to changing the way society views fat bodies. You can connect with her here:
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Email: victoria@bampowlife.com This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@CITY_spock 3 жыл бұрын

"You do not have to be thin or healthy to be a worthy human being." Absolutely fab statement.

@mohit5709 Жыл бұрын

the only thing shes gonna be is patient if she not healthy.........no offense

@yuehwaa 11 ай бұрын

@@mohit5709bro there is thousands of people who still have successful life but they are unhealthy you can be a patient and be successful and happy at the same time

@yuehwaa 11 ай бұрын

@@mohit5709my best friend literally had cancer and he still was and is a very successful DJ and he is happier that 99% of healthy ppl of course he takes care of his health cuz he goes to a doctor but I hope u got what I meant

@camillemehta122 6 жыл бұрын

I especially loved it when you said that you dont need to be healthy to be worthy. Imagine how powerfully that resonates with anyone with a health-affecting-disability or a disease as well. Beautiful speech, beautiful message. Thank you Victoria!

@FierceFatty 6 жыл бұрын

YES! Because not everyone CAN be healthy, and prioritizing health over everything else is so damaging. Big love, Camille!

@cuteflygon 5 жыл бұрын

These people need to be honest with themselves, are they really exercising enough and not shoving loads of unhealthy food down their mouth

@goldendoors6174 5 жыл бұрын

Camille Mehta Exactly! I’m a chronic meth head and people who love me keep going: oh your teeth will fall out, your brain will be damaged permanently. I’m like “yeah whatever, I’m worth it sisters.”

@cosmickaristar8066 5 жыл бұрын

Yes, adore this entire presentation. That is an extremely powerful phrase to empower so many.

@cosmickaristar8066 5 жыл бұрын

I am a chronic overeater, and the only way of relief for me is stopping the self hatred associated with the reason I must diet or exercise. The self hatred takes all the joy from taking care of your body. When I love myself without any "got to look good for everyone else's opinion of me" involved, and just love myself naturally like a child would love themselves, it is only then I have any hope of improving self-care. Self love = self care.

@HarmonicPolyphonic 5 жыл бұрын

I was legit crying at the end. Mostly because I felt so happy watching and secondly because I want to feel that free

@sweetyc031 4 жыл бұрын

Same girl 💜

@carrielockhart7 2 жыл бұрын

Me too! I could never ever dance in a bikini in front of people. I wish I could be that free!

@yuktaraj9062 2 жыл бұрын

Oh my god, same, I thought I was weird for crying at this but watching this I realised I have never ever felt worthy and never felt free, constantly belittling my own self for not being the perfect size and shaming my own self. I wish I could love myself.

@HarmonicPolyphonic 2 жыл бұрын

@@yuktaraj9062 Totally relate

@blckstarbeautypurpleprint2153 Жыл бұрын

OH MY GOD I DID TOO! A HUGE WAVE OF HAPPINESS FLOWED THROUGH ME WAS I SAW HER SMILE!

@mandydurham3320 2 жыл бұрын

The audiences reaction to her dancing was just as powerful as her dance. I am smaller than her, and could NEVER have the courage to do that in front of total strangers. Kudos to her. 💪🏻

@clairelouise335 2 жыл бұрын

I've hated my body for as long as I can remember. Constantly on a diet and Constantly failing. This was amazing and has totally changed my perspective. I loved the part when she said "I don't want to lose weight". Inspirational. Thank you xx

@coldz2526 Жыл бұрын

Then you're doing it wrong

@ashleys7943 Жыл бұрын

Don't listen to haters love your fabulous self

@Ray-mj5mj Жыл бұрын

This girl said she was 23? She looks 35.

@sydneythomas3271 Жыл бұрын

@@coldz2526 free

@thebirdclan Жыл бұрын

@@Ray-mj5mj You didn't listen. She was telling a story of when she was 23.

@mellel1797 4 жыл бұрын

I love the ending of this video! If everyone could share that same level of self-love, confidence, and beauty, then this world would definitely be a better place.

@justcallmecommunist7697 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, I was feeling really really depressed about my weight. And this video just made my day.

@nomadactual2484 Жыл бұрын

workout nd fix ur self up..

@safeman1x Жыл бұрын

@@nomadactual2484 please just learn how to spell.

@suqma Жыл бұрын

losing weight is easy smh, I know exactly how to

@notwerkinginthishouse8634 2 ай бұрын

@@suqma then do it ;)

@suqma 2 ай бұрын

@@notwerkinginthishouse8634 already did lol

@nathmartins3154 3 жыл бұрын

Omg, the ending just made me cry, I’m building up my confidence and this helped me so much! Thank you!💖🥰

@mansimakwana5715 3 жыл бұрын

The audience is awesomee❤❤❤

@CourtneyBondTheBondisReal 4 жыл бұрын

..."Celery and DUST" I'm dying 💀

@user-dt3hk7fu8w 4 жыл бұрын

Saying that while vegans are on average the only group that's in a healthy BMI range

@karatheandroid1907 4 жыл бұрын

Because that is what vegans eat. If overweight people are tired of being made fun of, why pick on a group that, I can assure you, is equally tired of being a joking matter?

@Looly2012 3 жыл бұрын

@@karatheandroid1907 so true

@justicett0 2 жыл бұрын

@@karatheandroid1907 oh pls shutup

@justicett0 2 жыл бұрын

@@user-dt3hk7fu8w just because you're vegan don't mean you're healthy

@Ccal488 5 жыл бұрын

This was AMAZING!!!!!! I cried at the end seeing her dance in all her freedom and glory! Such an amazing inspiration to all.. Thank you!!!

@MT-qt9mw 5 жыл бұрын

Cp4 maturity is realising the decadence of the civilisation into laziness, cowardice and being succumbed to self gratification and impractical ideals.

@ajp2223 4 жыл бұрын

@S C You're lucky... I saw the dance... it wasn't pretty!

@sweetyc031 4 жыл бұрын

I cried too!

@OAmoretNoctis1Izzy 3 жыл бұрын

++++

@AntiWoke_Autistic 3 жыл бұрын

Due to lack of self-discipline she can't fly up a flight of stairs or run across a parking lot or help a friend move without breaking a hard sweat after only a few minutes while panting heavily. How is that inspiration?

@castiellagabriella6059 3 жыл бұрын

Man, I really envy her confidence right now 💃💃

@eveadamsdrag 3 жыл бұрын

I love myself enough to acknowledge that I was unhealthy and unhappy so I have made serious changes. I’ve lost almost 70 pounds and have been working on my health. Loving yourself to me means that you are treating your body with enough respect to make healthy choices.

@Looly2012 3 жыл бұрын

true

@kushim6813 2 жыл бұрын

True

@otissied652 2 жыл бұрын

love this comment

@lattiflim6545 2 жыл бұрын

Agree

@karync.6707 2 жыл бұрын

I'm curious to see if you have kept off that weight! That's quite a lot

@elenabattiato6929 4 жыл бұрын

Am I the only one who cried at the end and was blown away by her beauty?🥳

@suqma Жыл бұрын

"beauty"

@robertmae3416 4 жыл бұрын

I hate being overweight because I hate thinking about food all the time and the sore joints and back aches. I don't care what I look like to others, but I know I am this way because I eat and when I'm not eating, I'm thinking about food. It rules my life.

@williamlevy6964 4 жыл бұрын

Fast. Fast. Fast. Starve yourself to regain your respect for food. Religions do it for a reason.

@vampirexion 4 жыл бұрын

Ignore him. It takes lifestyle changes and time. Lots of time.

@Keyurbhuta Жыл бұрын

will cause diabetes or heart diseases soon enjoy

@sa_star3661 9 ай бұрын

@vampirexion I have to say that research shows intermittent fasting is actually good for your body. It's not about starving yourself. it's about letting your gut clean itself out. It also regenerates cells in your body and is associated with longevity.

@mellbell360 2 жыл бұрын

This video made me feel really good after spending the day crying while trying to shop online for clothing. I wish for this confidence for myself. I am worthy I am worthy I am worthy!

@alrahfree5797 2 жыл бұрын

lose weight

@kushhshh685 2 жыл бұрын

Go to the mall and try to pick up some guys and see how worthy u are

@click8708 Жыл бұрын

@@kushhshh685 Omfg that came out of nowhere, I wasn't expecting that 😅

@maske8619 9 ай бұрын

You definitely are worthy❤

@aaravgulati2 8 ай бұрын

No you are not lol

@bettystallworth8853 4 жыл бұрын

Bravo Victoria. I wanted to share that your sassy attitude and self confidence truly came though on this Ted Talk. You are an inspiration to many. I love that you are body positive. That is the message here. You go girl. That’s probably the first and only Ted Talk where I left smiling. Thank you.

@shazzalennon6327 4 жыл бұрын

"You don't need to be healthy to be a worthy human being"... So true 😃

@deannab5938 2 жыл бұрын

Loved this!!! Thank you Victoria for being gloriously you! It made my day and left me crying happy tears. Thanks for the message and the messages. Hugs. 🤗❤️

@MsRedinism 4 жыл бұрын

Amazing Victoria! Powerful message and loved the ending! Looks fab 😍

@donnajulius4735 4 жыл бұрын

you're amazing! It was a journey to get where you are. I'm so happy for you. I love your attitude and your confidence. Stay strong and keep going.

@keeprollinmaverick Жыл бұрын

apparently if you say something with enough conviction and confidence, even if factually wrong, you can be inspirational.. Sometimes similar happened in 1930s snd we got WW2

@harbimidiyosunkanka 5 жыл бұрын

As much as I applaud her simply for the fact that she tells people that they're worthy whether they're healthy or not, things such as food/cigarette/drug/alcohol addiction CAN be helped.

@trinitylivingston1286 5 жыл бұрын

If they have a physical issue like thyroid problems, genetic problems, and/or anything like that and they've been eating very healthy and trying to exercise, that's understandable. What's not really understandable is what you said about food, drug use, and other things. Though the reason they would do those things is kind of a psychological thing.

@AJ-cq5pw 5 жыл бұрын

She never said they couldn't be helped

@FourPartFox 5 жыл бұрын

Yes, they can be helped, but they don't need to wait until they're in recovery to be worthy, and perhaps understanding that would help some of them seek help.

@chekwechgaudencia351 4 жыл бұрын

Eda Nur people choose all those coz of self hate

@emilyjane2249 4 жыл бұрын

Wow! This was just what I needed about to go to out and have done drinks and I just felt so low looking at my tummy in the mirror feeling like it would matter to me if it mattered to other people when really it doesn’t and now I’m ready for anything so thankyou really changed my mind there ❤️

@jimisparx6953 2 жыл бұрын

Cancer, diabetes, and stroke aren't going to buy into your ridiculous denial of the fact that you've ruined your body through gluttony. Good luck with that.

@HairstylesbyCarol 4 жыл бұрын

Yes! Yes! Yes!!! I love her message and her public speaking abilities! You rock!!!!!!!!

@19shayable 5 жыл бұрын

She is a BADASS!!!! Her confidence is goals!

@thelubnaumar Жыл бұрын

Love her confidence! Confidence and self love are all you need!

@frugal10 5 жыл бұрын

This video is amazing!!! Your dance was spectacular and I just so needed this great message today !!

@Rachel-sg5ub 4 жыл бұрын

I am in love with her and her message! Thank you!! ❤️

@thalia.tenebris 3 жыл бұрын

She is so positive and GORGEOUS! I want to be confident like her!

@monuj6 5 жыл бұрын

Omggggg!!! You are so great!!! You inspired me so much!!! Your incredible wow! 😍😍😍😍

@mohammedleechang6025 5 жыл бұрын

type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure, heart disease and strokes, certain types of cancer, sleep apnea, osteoarthritis, fatty liver disease, kidney disease, pregnancy problems,...

@mohammedleechang6025 5 жыл бұрын

ruin your own live however you like, but don't encourage others to do so.

@pbtconsultants1761 4 жыл бұрын

The ending.... tht's confidence at its best! Wow...

@gaia4350 4 жыл бұрын

The end was amazing! Truly inspiring woman

@lilyochoa9974 5 жыл бұрын

I’ve hated my body ever since I remember. Will that change if I get skinny? Will it? My damage is irreversible

@cuteflygon 5 жыл бұрын

Lily Ochoa nope, but you will become healthier.

@neuroticastand2582 5 жыл бұрын

My damage is irreversible too. I'd be in therapy for the rest of my life. It's sad. I almost got gastric bypass but started crying at the thought of others treating me better just because my weight changed so I refused the surgery...it would have been just as hurtful as what Ive already been through. I do hope we can both be stronger than what we've experienced so we don't feel so damaged anymore.

@neuroticastand2582 5 жыл бұрын

It seriously shouldn't take getting skinny for people to finally treat others like a human being. No one should have to wake up to being harrassed about weight or go to bed hearing all the hurtful and hateful weight comments made ringing through your ears...even from yourself.

@Watchthisforfun2 5 жыл бұрын

Lily Ochoa not necessarily

@disneyprincessintraining2725 4 жыл бұрын

Focus on health. I was super skinny due to an eating disorder, and I wasn’t happy. Eat healthy foods you love, find ways to be active that spark joy. I’m heavier than I’ve ever been, but I work as a nurse assistant now, and I’m strong. I can lift those who can’t walk or help themselves. I’m happy because I’m healthy, and use my body as a tool, not an ornament. Go to beauty redefined. They helped me a lot

@jessicazeeprice6674 6 жыл бұрын

I love this, & I love you! Thank you. And to all the trolls, remember: you don't have to find someone attractive to treat them with respect. It is just not that hard to be kind & respectful.

@FierceFatty 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, Jessica! If only everyone had the same grace and kindness as you :)

@cuteflygon 5 жыл бұрын

Respect people who try to make themselves healthy, and not lazy fatties finding excuses for lazing around and shoving junk food down their mouth

@music_beauty9733 5 жыл бұрын

Lmao you say trolls but tbh those "trolls" are people with common sense if you had self worth and cared about yourself than you'd put down the donut and live a healthy lifestyle...

@ChanelGrayson 5 жыл бұрын

@@cuteflygon You should respect everyone. Maybe an individual has an illness that causes excess weight gain. Maybe he or she is dieting and trying to adopt a healthier lifestyle. Also, you can love yourself and still want to be healthy. Even if someone is obese, that doesn't make him or her less than a person who deserves your respect. Weight doesn't necessarily reflect values, personality, dietary habits, or self worth! I'm not a very healthy person. I'm aiming for a healthier lifestyle and eating cleaner, but I'm not going to stop loving myself if I have a cheat day. And I'd like to think people won't stop respecting me if I have a cheat day or if I do happen to "shove junk food down my mouth" sometimes. Loving yourself should be a basic innate trait because at the end of the day all you have in the world is your own body.

@music_beauty9733 5 жыл бұрын

I love how we're all called trolls for trying to make a point... But respect isn't given it's earned... Another thing though most of us are concerned about how this video can influence others to be underweight or overweight...

@bongoslide 4 жыл бұрын

Victoria your very funny and very pretty, and I admire your outlook someone will be very happy settling down to such a personality,, it is mass media sheeple following what there told they all should be, girls like you make this world a better place x

@nychispanicguy Жыл бұрын

This TedTalk has been one of the most powerful and inspirational that I've seen. It was funny too. I was shocked at the end when she did her daring dance.That act was bold. It sure got a lot of reactions from the audience.. I loved it. She communicates in a very clear and relatable way how tough it is for people with obesity dealing with the constant, overt and subtle, attack from society for being overweight, and how that condition should never define a person's worth. It's just sad that we live in a world where people can be so cruel to others. I admire this woman, above all she is brilliant!

@BlessedForever888 5 жыл бұрын

So entertaining and inspiring! Thank you!

@mimilion6072 5 жыл бұрын

The talk was Inspirational... the ending of her talk was FABULOUSLY BRILLIANT!!!!!!! Wowwwwzzza !!!!!!!

@FierceFatty 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much Mimi! I so appreciate your support!

@maraboumjolkchoklad475 4 жыл бұрын

I NEED A WOMAN LIKE THIS IN MY LIFE, NOW!

@charlee11127 4 жыл бұрын

🙄

@yogablossom100 11 ай бұрын

Oh my Goodness, I love you! I needed this message so much today! You go girl!

@nataliel6773 5 жыл бұрын

That was awesome!

@FierceFatty 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Natalie!

@redcrest5 4 жыл бұрын

It’s really true - we are so blessed just to be alive and able to experience the beauties of this world and the fascinating people around us (some of whom even give us the honor of loving us!). It’s a waste of time to self-ostracize ourselves from the world and experiences. We only get this short 70-80 years (if that) in the long scroll of human history. Might as well take a good look around and make the most of it while we can regardless of how “pretty” or skinny or perfect the bodies we’ve been gifted with.

@-chinafromtheinside391 2 жыл бұрын

woo wow wow wow wow!!!So inspirational! I can't even begin to imagine how much courage it takes to be so comfortable in your skin no matter what others say to you! Oh, I love your spirit beautiful!! If only we all could have a fraction of your confidence and courage darling!!!

@Dirnelle Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this. This are the things that make me want to keep having faith in people.

@vida8889 4 жыл бұрын

No words! Thank you Victoria!

@ladysmart1369 4 жыл бұрын

I love you’re personality! Love love your sassiness!!! You’re just amazing!!!

@antonichristian5845 4 жыл бұрын

living the life you truly deserve is without type 2 diabetes, cancer, stroke, heart attack etc... she's making about looks when it's about health.. emotions vs facts...

@durandcamille4103 3 жыл бұрын

Totally love her !! That Ted talk was AMAZING !!

@magenxmajestic 3 жыл бұрын

May your confidence bless us all

@lampuntomyfeet9072 5 жыл бұрын

One word, Victoria: AWESOME ❤❤❤

@blancalobo3217 Жыл бұрын

Such a great story teller 👏🏻

@blankslatepartners9854 2 жыл бұрын

Just the best! Way to go Victoria! Literally brought me to happy tears!

@cynthiafasulo3828 Жыл бұрын

You really are fabulous! I was so impressed; thank you, I feel better already.

@Feenix102 5 жыл бұрын

Im 40 years old, 6 feet tall and 250lbs. So, Im overweight. About 2 years ago I stopped drinking, and decided to have a load of tests done. I was quite surprised by the results - my cholesterol is 5, my heart, lungs, kidney, liver, EVERYTHING is working as it should I have around a 3% chance of having a stroke or a heart attack. I've been told since I was a young kid that I needed to lose weight, that it would affect my health negatively. It hasn't. Being overweight, for me, is no more or less healthy than spending 100 quid a week on booze (I had similar tests done about 5 years previously, when I was drinking, to do with anxiety issues I have). The thing is, I HATE being overweight. Why? Is it for health reasons? Seemingly not, judging by the evidence. Therefore it must be for some other reason. We live in a society where companies spend billions trying to make people into a shape that, in many cases, they can't achieve. An endomorph like myself is never going to be skinny, it simply wont happen because my body isn't designed that way, and yet I feel terrible every time I look in the mirror or find a piece of clothing that doesn't fit well. As long as there is a billion dollar industry trying to change people into what they can never be in many cases, a lot of people will feel bad for being overweight, ultimately because we can't compete with that level of manipulation. When I was in school I was bullied for being overweight, and I have never been able to let go of the negative self image that developed as a result of that. I suffer from depression and anxiety, possibly in part as a result of those experiences. So why can't I let the bad self image go? Many reasons probably, but one of them is because there is a more insidious, more sophisticated form of the bullying I endured at work in society today, and it is fuelled by the same billion dollar industry. I hope one day I can love my body or at least make peace with it.

@Name-uc7kt 5 жыл бұрын

if you suffer from anxiety and depression from it then lose weight! stop saying your body type won't allow you to be skinny because i am an endomorph and even tho it took 2 years, i got to my ideal weight, food isn't everything, i realised what i ate before was way too much, stop making up excuses

@Feenix102 5 жыл бұрын

I am not using my body type as an excuse (it can be harder for our body type to lose weight, as I'm sure you yourself have found, and being ones ideal weight is rather different in many cases to being skinny), and I did not say that my weight caused my anxiety and depression - I said it could be contributing to it, which is a very different thing and, frankly, there is some doubt about the voracity of my assertion because I have lost a lot of weight in the past and the depression and anxiety were still present. You say that you realised that you were eating too much, you stopped and you lost weight. Thats fine - I don't over eat particularly. Its true that I dont do a great deal of exercise, however I suffer from a mobility issue that could well turn out to be CMT or possibly MS (I'm waiting to see my neurologist later this month). My point is, there is no one size fits all fix - my point in the original reply I made to this video was that people should not need to feel embarrassed about their size just because society says they should. On one point however, we are in full agreement: food is not everything!

@kt1pl2 5 жыл бұрын

I'd say...don't settle for being overweight. This woman talking isn't going to live to see 50. You can do it for sure. I'm forcing myself out there (running and walking) and eating healthy and at first it was hard (the first week) but it doesn't stay hard.

@cuteflygon 5 жыл бұрын

Same here, I used to be obese, but lost 30kg in 6 months. U need to get active and learn to accept feeling hungry.

@turloughgirl5535 5 жыл бұрын

Feenix That’s a really powerful and eloquent and provocative comment. Thank you so much for sharing your experience.

@RyanAmero 3 жыл бұрын

Love it! Happiness & confidence is internal 💙 I still think we should thrive for a healthy body as it'll only improve are physical & mental well being, but never let it make you feel unhappy, insecure & definitely not unworthy!

@Tiffany_titus213 3 жыл бұрын

Great message Ryan!

@vickikerns1 5 ай бұрын

I really needed this!

@hannahbush9952 2 жыл бұрын

I am crying!!! Victoria, I hope you read this because I listen to your podcast, "Fierce Fatty," and I don't have anywhere on Spotify to comment - but I absolutely adore you!! You are brilliant and changing my life! Thank you for all you do!!

@alrahfree5797 2 жыл бұрын

interesting, how did she changed your life?

@Mina-jy8kd 3 жыл бұрын

Wow... just wow. This video changed my perspective completely. I feel like I too can maybe be happy AND chubby. Thank you Victoria!!

@merrikfenn5690 5 жыл бұрын

That bit at the end, oh my god I was ckapping so hard. SHE IS A STAR

@matchettelopez5851 3 жыл бұрын

That was awesome! I love how she danced at the end! Beautiful ❤️

@sweetnessmtui7052 4 жыл бұрын

This is so inspiring,I love the way I am now and forever!People's negative thoughts will never get me😉💃💃I am my own model

@mattyy101 4 жыл бұрын

You look skinny in your pic so I don't know why you commented lol

@jslayer159 4 жыл бұрын

1. You don't know if that's them 2. This is about all body types 3. I don't have a 3rd reason

@brielleanyez7113 4 жыл бұрын

She's really not even big, looks pretty normal to be

@tarachica3392 5 жыл бұрын

I cried so much at the end. I love you Victoria!

@margaretvalentine5957 5 жыл бұрын

Wow. Thank you 🙏🏼

@thokozanimkhize7617 Жыл бұрын

I think its such a low low when you're big and healthy but its just not enough. Especially when you see the judgy looks people give you when you have a meal or a piece of cake. The experience of being healthy, brilliant, witty and dare i say, beautiful has been poisoned by disapproving remarks from people who feel like because you're big you shouldn't enjoy anything or deserve nice things/treatment.

@KC1up 3 жыл бұрын

She’s right. Diets don’t work. Life style changes do. Loving your body at any size is important and so is taking care of your body by eating healthy, exercising and maintaining a healthy weight

@bindipus 5 жыл бұрын

I cried at the end, I so love you and your beautiful everything. You gorgeous girl.

@Vincevoices 6 жыл бұрын

Love it!!!

@FierceFatty 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much!

@SokkenEter 3 жыл бұрын

This was much more inspiring than I thought

@leahswenson7776 5 жыл бұрын

love it!

@mytmueller 6 жыл бұрын

I loved this! Thanks so much for sharing your story. It really touched me.

@FierceFatty 6 жыл бұрын

That's so nice to hear, thank you for your support! Big love.

@darynadixon8759 Жыл бұрын

I love this real talk! I used to care about peoples judgments but now I have realized that I am not living for other people. Nor am I competing with anyone else! The only person who has the right to make health suggestions is your doctor. You either love me or kick rocks and move on! 💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍😘

@emskeeeee 5 жыл бұрын

I want to be this confident 🔥🔥🔥

@elijahgarcia5504 4 жыл бұрын

Confident?:(

@AbianahBarbie 2 жыл бұрын

This was amazing and inspiring God bless her.

@nmcgowan34ify 5 жыл бұрын

Absolutely loved it.

@andreajanewilliams 4 жыл бұрын

Real woman. Very inspiring. Thank you.

@dougtaylor2803 4 жыл бұрын

If we all learned to love our bodies exactly as they are today? Among other things, the average longevity would begin to decline as diabetes, cardiovascular disease and man other ailments increased.

@gratefultammy 4 жыл бұрын

Lady you are Amazing ! The dance was supreme .

@peanuts7503 5 жыл бұрын

Wauw!!! Just wauw!! I'm blown away by her power!

@TheCmcginn 5 жыл бұрын

Having had (and still do) an eating disorder, watching this is inspirational! You're worth more than you're weight! Keep going! X

@FierceFatty 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! Hope you're doing ok and managing your ED.

@BlessedIndeed1 3 жыл бұрын

sweetheart you are beautiful...Love yourself as you are...there are always idiots that have no clue as to what real beauty is! I wish I met someone so confident as you!

@lifegenius763 4 жыл бұрын

Brilliant talk...thank you!!

@misscurvygirl_love Жыл бұрын

That was so beautiful!!!! 🥹🫶😭😭💖💖😍

@aroseinwinter05 5 жыл бұрын

Sassy and beautiful! I wish you good health❤️

@Purplelinings 5 жыл бұрын

Victoria, you’re absolutely rad ❤️ Thank you so much for being so inspiring 😘

@yvettenorris7970 4 жыл бұрын

Loved this.

@valeriasindicic6256 4 жыл бұрын

You're gorgeous! You positivity shines throug

@michelleblanco3240 5 жыл бұрын

Yaaas!!!

@SarahStephanieLandry 4 жыл бұрын

In fact... everyone complaining about vegans, unfollow. Next.

@manoma7 4 жыл бұрын

OMG! I love her so much, I wish I was surrounded by people like her🥺😍 God bless you, Victoria!

@dereichelhaher7685 4 жыл бұрын

You mean you would like to be in an echo chamber of people that encourage your self destroying behavior? Great.

@rhoda1946 4 жыл бұрын

Very inspiring!

@pikpik4957 3 жыл бұрын

she's amazing im crying

@kuleacounselling3376 5 жыл бұрын

You are RADIANT!

@soniavallance9199 2 жыл бұрын

Love this so much

@mattfitzpatrick4008 Жыл бұрын

I need to listen to this type of talk more often. Thank you intelligent beautiful lady!

@lynnm4625 5 жыл бұрын

This has changed my life! Go Victoria!

@jumikohueda1901 4 жыл бұрын

¿?? i dont have nothing against with her but i consider that people who loves themselves eat good (more fruits, vegetables ) its doesnt mean people dont eat hamburger or ice cream but control yourself make you different. so make more gym or bicycle. YOU WILL SEE CHANGE BUT YOU HAVE TO WORK.. LOVE YOURSELF¡¡