This is why getting married is not mandatory in my views. It can build you, but can also destroy you! A partner in life is just there to supplement you. Happiness is our own responsibility to our self. We don't need anyone to give us happiness.

As Moira's said before in every rejection, is not actually rejections its God's way of redirection.

being dumped, cheated on, left alone to suffer is the most painful feeling that i wouldn't even wish it on my worst enemy, to those of you here in the comments who have loved truly, genuinely, unconditionally...i admire you and salute you all

People wont know how painful it is unless they themselves have undergone the same situation. It will be like a nightmare that would hunt you every night and would relive the pain over and over again. I feel you Moira. Stay strong and pray always for God is the only One faithful.🙏🏻

He said "Though my love for her has always been genuine" Why cheat in the 1st place?

Same story ng buhay ko. I married my bestfriend... Then after 13years... Ayun iniwan ako at sumama sya sa officemate namin. Realization ko sa relationship ko: 1. Kahit kinilala nyong mabuti yung mapapangasawa mo. Hindi mo masasabi na pwede syang kunin ni God or kunin sya ng iba.😁 2. Love changes. It's an emotion, a feeling that we can't control. Today mahal mo sya, bukas hindi na. But the important things is your "STAND" if your stand is to stay and fix the marriage. Thr problem is, Mahirap yung ikaw lang ang lumalaban samantalang sya sumuko na. 3. Kung may problema ang mag-asawa dapat sa "TAMANG TAO" ka hihingi ng advice or makikipag-usap. 4. Sabi nila "baka hindi na masaya kaya iniwan ka" nope... I don't agree with this. Maraming tao ang binubugbog, nasasaktan, niloloko ng paulit ulit pero Hindi pa rin nila kayang iwan o lokohin yung asawa nila. 5. Wag masyadong ma attach, Acceptance na d ka na talaga mahal, forgive them (legal wife: parang ako na kasi ang kontrabida sa lovestory nila) 6. Huwag tanungin si God bakit nangyayari sa inyo yung ganung bagay. Pwedeng inilalayo ka lang dahil hindi talaga sya para sayo or test lang yan para patatagin kayo. Last but not the least, Mahal magpakasal pero mas mahal magpa Annul. 😂😂

Love is not just a feeling, it's a Choice. It's a choice to commit to stay with the same person and forgive this same person over and over and over again, to love this person unconditionally meaning that even when the person deserve to be love or not, you continue to do it and choose to love regardless of whatever circumstances your in. Note that both has to be on the same commitment. Otherwise, the relationship wouldn't work.

Thank you. Your analysis makes sense and you discussed it with utmost sensitivity... Godly love is perfect, ours isn't. That's why we cling to Him in all the seasons of our hearts.

We, humans are wired to be emotional, few are logical thinkers. Once an emotional need is not fulfilled with your current partner, then you found it in someone else, and there will start the unfaithfulness on your partner. I agree with what you said "emotional immaturity" causes infidelity.

I agree that cheating is a decision one makes. Thats the most painful truth any partner could ever accept. That is why, oftentimes, ending the relationship and moving on is the best option. Based on experience, trust issues don't die. Being there for 2yrs now, I can say its toxic and it can really affect your mental health. So I think Moira did the right thing cutting ties and moving on eventhough Jason was courageous enough to confess what he has done. May God heal Moira and turn things around for her.

It's true that even if he (Jason) made mistake, he's man enough to admit and own up to his mistakes even if the consequences might be terrifying. That's why we cannot entirely claim that he's bad guy for hurting her, coz he still respect Moira in a way that he own up his mistakes and be honest with it... Sometimes, being honest with our mistakes makes it closer to our stepping stone to move forward and to forgive in time.

I learned so much from this video ❤️

I agree... "its hard to find a love we deserve"... 😢

Thank you for the lessons today kuya Darbs!

WOW!! These are helpful advices... Thank You for sharing...

Mahirap nga magtiwala ulit pag nasira na ito pero hindi ka naman magiging masaya pag hinayaan mo ang puso mo hindi na magmahal ulit..i salute you always kuya darbs☺️☺️

Salute to you bro. Galing po ng inyong mga opinions. Neutral ka poh and di judgemental. Sang ayon po ako sa 7 Realizations nyo. Very helpful po specially sa mga may pinagdadaanan at pagdadaanan na ganito sa relationship. Keep it up and thank u

True, love is a choice, choosing to see yun good na meron sa asawa mo at inde hanapin yun wala sa asawa mo na meron sa iba..

Eto ung pnka mskit ung sinubukan mu ulit mg tiwala at the end ung taong un pla ang mas dudurog sau.💔Praying for your recovery moira🙏

Real Talk. Nice analysis. More power!

This was so painfull,, live and grow and let God do the rest for us,, 💔

Hello Darbs thanks for being cool..my friend admire them because God is always in the center for both..and shockingly sad for what happened..we feel for Moira🙏💖💝

I love your analysis. Watching you all the way from Kenya Next time include some subtitles for the international audience

very good analysis Sir... Thank you

Hi I just came across your blog now n I instantly liked you.

I love how you made this kind of reaction. 👍

This was veryy so sad and traumatic ending to moira😣 The song that she was created "Paubaya" was suddenly really meant for her. I hope that she's ok..this is just only a test of life .. That You have to endure .. .but be always strong..because I know you will overcome it someday... not now . But eventually. You can heal yourself ..nobody will do that to you but yourself. Just wanna share for 40 years of existence..I've been through a lot of pain and difficulties in life ..I always broken hearted... I was enduring all of it in silence.. But one day I found myself for longest time ..Im ok.... I learned to be alone and enjoying it... Now having Companion for me is a choice. I have learned that I dont need to find my happiness to somebody for me to satisfy myself ..because I, myself can find happiness without somebody else .. Sa totoo lang Kinikilig na lang ako pagsahod na ..so many "me time" that create happiness that is why.. If somebody will come along and would love to have me for the rest of his life.. That will be a bonus.. Mawala man sya ulit di ko kawalan..kasi mananatili akong maligaya .. Because I know the art of being alone.

Wow, super na feel ko un emotion sa video mo. Naiyak ako while watching your video, especially dahil sapul na sapul lahat ng sinabi mo sa experience ko. I agree 100% sa analyzation mo. I have the same sentiments because of the lessons I learned from it.

Share ko na to kasi nakakaawa na si Jason. Wala pa ngang details pero grabe na yungjudgement sa kanya. From a confession na sa kanya rin naman galing, na kung tutuusin ay puwede namang hindi na niya sinabi sa public. Here's the info na galing sa isa sa mga close friends nila: walang ibang lover si Jason, babae man o lalaki. Hindi bading si Jason. Hindi rin sya nagka-affair. Pero ang mali niya is pumunta sya sa mga spakol for sex. Yan yung unfaithfulness na sinabi niya. This is because wala silang sex ni Moira, dahil daw sa depression ni girl. Na-guilty si Jason kaya nag-confess sya sa asawa niya, but it backfired. When Jason was in Dubai, his wife spent time with Zack Tabudlo the singer and I guess nag-click sila (as evidenced sa lnstagr.:im ny.:i). W.:ila pang idea si Jason na emotionally cheating na pala si Moira sa kanya. Tapos ayun, he confessed, unfortunately ginamit ni girl ang confession na yun to break up with him. Meaning, matagal na silang nagkaka-problema, naghintay lang ng tamangopportunity si girl. Pareho silang may fault pero ang masama dito is yung la\aki langang umako ng kasalanan. Grabe yung impact sa family ni Jason na according to people who know them, are really good and very down-to-earth people na ayaw sa showbiz spotlight, kaya sobrang lungkot na nagkaganito na. Tuesday pa yung pasabog pero until now walang statement si Moira, para bang hinayaan lang niya si Jason to be slaughtered by the public and she's enjoying all the positive attention 😞

i love the way you have explained the situition

Ganda ng number 4 mo... Everyone will experience extreme challenges pero we choose to stay together dapat.. It makes the relationship stronger.

It is so painful to realize that way of redirection led to a massive heartbreak. You trusted the process, you had faith in it. But what is lacking? It’s hard to put your heart again for another redirection. 😢

Very well said sir, nothing much more or less to say. . . . Peace everyone

very well said thank you for this video

Marriage is not really a guarantee that you will be forever with the person you love but rather a vow to be faithful, to always choose and love only that person you married for. But at the end of the day, it is still the choice of both parties either to stand for thier vow no matter how painful it is or to part ways and move forward.

TBH. While I think cheating should never be tolerated. (I got cheated by my 2 ex before) I think that couples who lasted several decades until their old age also gone through this. One way or another there were mistakes that were made but they were forgiven. As long as the person who made the mistake will not do it the 2nd time. Because that only means that he/she did not regret the mistake

True we choose the person to be beside us. Kahit sa dami ng pag subok na dadating. For 13yrs. Being married to my husband hindi lahat ng oras masaya. Sometimes i want to give up but still i choose to stay coz i still believe in love... so inspiring all what you have said! Thank you kasi still hanging and believing!

Take Note about Married Life, thank for your content, i learned a lot

Wise.. Marriage is difficult so any struggle if not resolved will be taken and magnified in marriage. Social media could magnify the failures of most marriages pero know that there are also many whose marriage works.

I just came across this channel and im hooked naaaa, i hope may spotify channel ka rin kuy darbs!

Thank you Darbs for protecting them..

Yung bang alam na nya past mo, ung trauma mo.. And then ginawa nya din sayo. If you're really unsure about how you feel towards the person, just pls tell them.. Dont marry them and then cheat.

It is not about the love but it is by the choice to stay and to trust your partner.

Thank you. I don't have a boyfriend since birth, I am 28, too afraid. There is more reasons why marriages failed I've seen not just cheating. I've seen that, and I realize no person is perfect for you, but its a choice if you let yourself be vulnerable to someone. You are right, there are million of successful marriages out there😊 I hope I get to meet a person who is stronger than my fears.and makes me strong to gamble too.

We should depend our happiness within ourselves. I think Moira has to work on healing from the past and learn on being responsible to be happy within her self. People change and cheat so we better back up ourselves

Spot on bruh!

sobrang sakit grabe d ako makapaniwala..from TAGPUAN to PAUBAYA😭😭😭😭💔💔

nooooooooo QAQ. This is actually heart breaking to hear/watch (TAT )

I do agree with you.really hope they will overcome this battle in their marriage.hope they will always remember their vow infront of God.

Very well said..

She just made a song for herself ....""paubaya really meant for her. That's what we called premonition. Felt sad for Moira, May the Lord guide her to surpass the obstacles she's been through.

mahirap din umamin sa isang kasalanan lalo na kung alam ung taong pagsasabihan mo ay mahalo o minahal mo... alam mong lubos siyang masasaktan lalo na kung mahal ka niya..

Minsan may mga tao talga na dapat na mawala sa buhay natin

A life without love is not a life at all. #KeepLoving

Dapat talaga mahalin muna talaga yung sarili bago pumasok sa segradong relasyon dahil hindi sa lahat ng oras papasayahin ka ng taong makakasama o kasama mo. Dadating at dadating din sa punto na hindi na kayo tulad nung dating nagsimula kayo.

Dmi kong natutunan dto...i feel how hard it is to moira,grabe naiiyak pa dn ako pag napapakinggan ko ang paubaya 😭😭😭

#6 - you nailed it!

Thanks for your messages... Kung ayaw ma sayo, wag nlng pilitin kc mahirap makipagsiksikan sa taong mahal mo na niloko ka lng...

Prayers for them

Ang hirap nyan kuya Darbs. 🥺 Let's pray for both of them.

Good lessons Kuya darbs God bless you and your family

Parang nakakatakot mag mahal ngayon kasi parang lahat ay laro lang

Its easy .if your not happy with the person you will end up separating.if you force yourself to stay you may end up depress. At least they separate early compared to someone they stay and work out but still separates after 15 or 20 yrs

Everyone wants true,, love but its very hard to find,, i learned a lot for this video salamat po,❣️

Ang sakit ng message sa dulo... 😥

Feel sorry for idol moi , so heart breaking 💔, idol be calm and think whats the best move to do. Sana sa pag hihiwalay ninyo makita nyo kayu pala talaga ang para sa isn't isa, Don't. Close the door para sa isn't isa, Baka pagsubok lng ng marriage ninyo yan. God will make the way kung kayo ba talaga. At kung hindi na ganon talaga kailangan Tanggapin. God is always there for you tutulungan ka nya gumaan ang pagsubok na yan. Let's all pray harder 🙏 GOD BLESS IDOL

Usually sasabihin natin sana di n lng sila kinasal. Pero kahit tayo hindi ntin alam kung anong mangyayari in d future. May mga bagay n s panahon. Nagbabago. Kung alam nila na mangyayrari yon bk di nila maiisip magpakasal. S buhay n tao may mga desisyon n sana di n lmg natin ginawa

Sobrang dali lang maghanap ng taong mamahalin, pero napakahirap maghanap ng taong magmamahal sa'tin ng totoo

If loving and waiting someone is a choice... Ganun din ang magcheat... Malalakas nalang talaga ang loob ng mga gumagawa nun, hindi makontento and maybe sakit na hindi pa nagagamot. Masakit lang talaga isipin kung bakit kailangan gawin pa. Or kung naranasan man lokohin bakit kailangan iparanas din sa iba lalo na sa totoong nagmamahal💔🥺😅

If one has been unfaithful, love is not genuine!

How Nice That Words On the Last Reason You Have☝️

Most touching episode 😭😭

Yes, matapos man ang araw stil naniniwala padin ako kung gaano ka sagrado ang kasal..

Very well said

They're living in one roof pa ba. My G! I wished may come back.

Darbs, dapat updated tayo! Umusbong na naman ulit issue nila. 😅

Very well said kuya 👏

Sa sarili kong karanasan, Ilang beses, ilang ulit na rin akong niloko ng asawa ko. Paulit ulit. Pero kami pa rin hanggang ngayon. Oo, tanga na kung tanga, pero ito ang pinili kong buhay pinili kong direksyon. Hanggat kaya kong magpatawad, magpapatawad at magpapatawad ako. Habggang sa mapagod na ko at masabi ko na lang sa sarili ko na...Tama na. Sagad na ako. Pero sa ngayon? Sa edad namin, kelangan ko na lang magpakatatag. Yun lang. Iba iba tayo ng pinagdadaanan sa buhay. Iba iba ang desisyon, pero kapit lang. Hindi habang buhay, iiyak ka, magmumukmok sa isang sulok.

Every thing happens for a reason. God is in control & He knows what is best for us. Usually unexpected sad situation happens dahil si Lord ayaw na nya tayong masasaktan pa ng matagal. He’s molding us to be strong, smarter & be prepared. Lagi si Lord may nilalaan na mas higit na magandang sitwasyon para sa atin. Ang hinintay nya lang sa atin ay ang magpakumbaba, magpasalamat, repent & remember Him everyday through PRAYERS. Moira, alam ko na kaya mong lagpasan itong pinagdadaanan mo ngayon. Believe & have Faith that God is always there for those who are broken-hearted. For now, mahirap kalimutan at magpatawad pero in due time magagawa mo pa rin magpatawad. I believe in the power of PRAYER. God is leading u to the right path & be grateful. I bet u will shine! Much better is waiting for u. God bless you, Moira. Take care.💕🌹💕🌹💖

Yes I agree with u .

Truly that there is no perfect marriage but there is perfect God whom we can trust and look up 2 in times of brokeness...broken heart,broken bidy ,broken family evn broken marriage bcz He is the only d One who can arrange us and fix the broken pieces in us....

may lamat na hindi na pwede mabuo kailangn ng may iba na magpapalit na mas matibay at buo kaysa dati kung pilit mong ayusin wla na hindi na ung dati na maayos at maganda kahit ulit ulitin man na ayusin wla na hindi mo na maibabalik sa dati masisira parin dahil sa tiwala

Marriage is always a choice.. A choice to be together.. You vow in front of God.. There will always be highs and lows.. It's a test.. I hope one day.. May be not today or tomorrow.. I just hope one day.. They will still choose to be together, accept, forgive, and forget.. Yes it's hard.. But I guess that's how marriages lasts a lifetime.. ❣️🙏And also not because their relationship is God centered they will not experience hardship.. The more so they will be tested.. The enemy would always want to see the people of God crushed down.. Praying for both them.. God bless.. 🙏 ❣️

MADALAS, hindi nating kailangan ang husgahan kasi lahat tayo makasalanan, mga tao na kayang kaya na wasakin ng evil (A3). Imbes na manghusga, intindihim nalang, lalo na kung yang mga salita na ibabato ay makakapagpabigat lang ng damdamin ng taong nasa Hard times. SPŔEADING POSITIVITIES IS WHAT MATTERS. CREATING NEGATIVITIES WILL NOW GIVE YOU REWARDS and also peaceful in the whole world. God bless you Both po.

Ang sakit nga talaga, maraming taon ko rin dinala ang sakit. Sobrang sakit, I know.

As a woman we give our 110% love n trust to our husband and we forgot to leave some to ourself.Iyong Taong minahal at you trusted him the most iyong pa nagbigay ng sakit .It’s not hard to forgive but it’s hard to forget what the person did to hurt you.Time can tell when to heal the wound .One the thing I realize that never trust n love the most except Allah .Hope both party learn fr each other mistakes.

She was singing Paubaya with so much emotion that it actually manisfested in her life. Her song became her anthem..🥲 it always takes two to tango but at the end of the day, love is a choice and to stay committed is a choice.

Paubaya is too painful to hear now.

There is no such thing like a fairy tale! Everything is a work in progress. People change along the years, you marry a different person and changes in yrs. Wala talagang perfect and walang forever

Masakit talaga, lalo na Moira truly and purely loved him. Pero at least she chose to let go. She still has time to let herself free if hurt and be happy.

Cheater have no respect to their partner moreover to themselves.

I was about to propose to my partner on our anniv date.but she cheated on me 2 weeks before our anniv. It hurts so much, I cant describe the pain. Such is life.

ito yun rason kung bakit ayoko na mag magmahal or sumugal, kasi baka maulit ulit yun sakit na minsan ko na pinagdaanan at naiwan ulit na mag isa. di madali mag umpisa ng bagong kabanata sa buhay mo na minsan, yun taong ginusto mo at pinili mo ay naging bahagi din ng buhay mo at naging mundo mo kahit sa panandalian na oras na magsama kayo.

Thank you so much kuya darbs. Ang daming life lessons yung naituturo mo sa viewers! :)

Good points🍻

Masakit ang maloko at masaktan pero Sna lahat din kasing lakas nya na aminin na he cheated..Yung mag gf/bf pa nga lang kau ang sakit n matuklasan n niloloko ka yun pa kaya na may basbas n ng simbahan..Pero naniniwala parin ako sa kasal at naniniwala parin ako n lahat tau may taong nilaan si Lord para makasama naten at kung wala man tama rin n matuto taung maging kontento at mahalin ang sarili naten at si God and maging masaya..Thank you Kuya Darbs for enlightening us today..Spread love everyone and be kind even the world is unkind to us sometimes..❤️

Agree!! Marami pa ring happy and successful marriages

Through this God making me realize that we should really buo with Him before pumasok sa isang relasyon and di lang bago magkaroon ng relasyon o kasal pero we really need God because we cannot be a person that He wants us to be if we do not have Him in our lives, di magiging maayos ang buhay at walang tunay na buhay kapag wala ang Diyos. God really loves Him kaya inaayos Niya tayo and also we should obey Him kase magiging hindi maayos ang buhay natin at hindi align Sakanya.

Real talk lang: The problem with stars, athletes, and influencers who have used their popularity to gain traction, especially in the aspect of finances would always plead for respect for privacy when disaster strikes in their personal life. But when everything was on a high roll or smooth sailing, they would want you to be glued on as their fans. I believe that once you make your life public, especially your love life, never request downtime from your fans especially when it's due to a breakup or separation. Once you allow it to be public, it's free for all. Accept that condition!

D truth in life is that we bump into someone we thought is d one yet in reality we bump to this people whom will give us so much lessons that we will carry as a we go ahead with the future weather he or she is w us or not.... Learning and accepting all kinds of thrives like a roller coaster ride and strengthening our selves to stand up for what we believe into all trial's hardship frustrations and disappointments....