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Her coming out and sharing her story is the final stage of healing

I think we as ladies especially us Africans must now begin to teach ourself the difference between dating, cohabitation and marriage. Sleeping with someone and end up having children or staying together does not make you the wife. So sad for what we put ourselves through 💔

The fact that so many women relate to her story is so heartbreaking

Pole sana for what happened. You don't need to ask him for child support. You can report him to USA Embassy in Kenya. He will pay every cent from the month the kids were born according to how much he earns plus interest. Social services abroad don't play when it comes to children well being. Get that child support for your kids. Sending hugs your way.

Dear ladies out there, if a man is not providing and keeps on asking for money with a lot of excuses... from day one know he is a conman and get rid of him asap

I really appreciate your brother for taking you in with the kids. Not easy but he was ready to do it for his sister

This lady is soooooooooooo calm despite all the trauma. May love and wealth shine upon you in reckless abandon.

So beautiful to watch, my relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, Really love her so much, i can’t stop thinking about her. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life but to no avail, I’m frustrated because i literally can't envision my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her..

Divinahs brother is so selfless. May he receive favour for his kindness.

Anytime a male friend ask me how women are able to withstand pain, disappointment and all that, I tell them God took his time to create us. It's laughable how women send themselves flowers on valentines day and other special occasions. We buy ourselves clothes and expensive gifts and claim its from our boyfriends and husbands. We go through a lot of pain, but we are very strong and that strength is what keeps us going. Ladies, let's be supportive of each other. It's a nice feeling when others are healed and well due to our help. Gifty from Ghana 🇬🇭

What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. You are a conqueror Divinah 😍

"Not all is lost" what a powerful statement. Love the strength in Divinah that she's even joking and laughing about this! Wow love you girl!

*No matter who your husband is just have your money * ...a strong message here divinah

This is what we call strength of a woman congratulations mama for not giving up on yourself and those beautiful queens 👑👑

Story of my life too. I can relate. I was lied to also in a long distance relationship. The guy kept on promising marriage but anytime he landed, he gave excuses. I later on discovered he is legally married in the USA with 3kids,here in kenya I was not the only girlfriend he was promising marriage either. We were many! It was a community

I have taught my daughter to always put yourself first. You placed this man first ahead of yourself and your children

Whoever is reading this and is fighting his/her own battles silently, may God chip in.

Thank you people i healed this has gone on for years only that i wanted to share when im fully healed i adore my girls. Even if it means walking without shoes i will to give them the best. God bless you all for the kind words. To Lynn Long life you are sinply the best.

Thanks to my mother inlaw for always cautioning me. As women we should not be on comfort zone thinking all is well no matter what.

I'm a man in South Africa,I'm so ashamed by what my African brother has done to this beautiful lady but most dissappointing is what he did to his children for such a long time.I hope one day he come to his senses and do what is right for his beautiful daughters.May Gid bring sanity to him.

I see myself in her story, nikama nawatch my whole life, na vyoote nilivyopitia kwenye story yake ,Ninachomshukuru Mungu my family especially my mother amenishika mkono ,I feel not abandoned

Just finished the whole episode and my summary is the red flags are always there and we should not ignore them, him disappearing after kids were born was a red flag & i applaud Divina she did her background check and dusted herself up❤️keep winning Queen and your babies are gorgeous 😍

Always know where you stand in someone's life.This guy was not her husband. Just someone she dated and got pregnant for. But what a heartbreaking story! May God continue to strengthen her. Ladies, always have your money like she said, it makes life easier esp. in her situation. It doesn't matter who your man is or what he does. You never know what tomorrow brings

The Divinar I saw today is not the Divinar I saw about a year ago. I told my hubby before I clicked to watch, “eish, ang’owa motimo Divinar yawa?” Translation: My goodness, what happened to Divinar? I remember how strong she seemed the last time. How supportive she was towards her “ex husband.” She seemed to be such a pillar. Today, she’s come almost as a shadow of herself yawa. But, that said and done, I put her in my prayer today. She is one heck of a strong woman. To come out like this, is the beginning of her healing. Her way to a full wholesome healing. She’ll be fine! And remember, what can God not do?! He’s taking Davinar to greater heights. To a place of victory!! Blessed and much love to her.❤

To whoever reading this ..may the Almighty give you strength to fight hard and win the battles you tackling in silence... thanks Lynn for airing this out.

'wanaume nyinyi mungu anawaona?' i was betrayed the same way by a man, fortunately i did my due diligence and i went to their home personally and confirmned indeed he married while we were dating and my son was a year older than the other boy, i thank God i accepted myself and moved on nowadays he is allover looking for me.Thank God i bounced back.

Please ladies Divinar doesn't require criticism but encouragement, you might even be in a worse situation but throwing insults let's spread love and support to all mothers ❤❤❤ may God continue blessing you Divinar

The entire family knew about his deception. This lady is really trusting

This is an eye opener interview. Those who think children can keep a marriage you need to think twice. This one has five and things went South

I have been following Divinar's story from way back when her quadraplets were still very young, watching her today i can tell she's soo low, i am sorry she went through all this, kudos to her close friends, all is not lost , May God see you through, you will manage and the babies will be fine

Three things I have learned in life so far; 1. Whatever is meant to happen, will happen. The sooner you reconcile your mind and your reality, the more meaningful your life will be. 2. We get tested with what we judge. Be careful not to judge other people's lives 3. Your expectations for other people are yours to manage, and not for them to meet. Learn to manage your expectations for other people and you will save yourself a lot of heartache.

my sisters, I'm in the USA and can attest that most men here are either married or in situationships, you have to join him, or he has enough savings to come back home or else be shocked that they are living a double standard life. Marriage here is for business. Too sad

LADIES LADIES in 254!!!🎤 🎤.. Don't fall for men from abroad,if he's not putting a RING and want you to join him,please Think twice most of them are married here,or are in complicated situationship...OKKAY..but our gals want them regardless shauri yenu...shideni huko mkituma dunes,,

Aki people stigmatize single moms without knowing their stories … this man is horrible

This story is similar to mine,,i eventually left my marriage,,i really went through depression and anxiety disorders,,but i m now okay,,u will be well,,time is the key factor

Hey Lynn awesome job again. Please tell the this lady to ask her babies daddy to file papers for them in America if he has his citizenship. Also that man should tell his current wife that he has children because if they had joint account her income also can get affected should this mum decide to file for child/children support. Because the government will come for that money as long as his name is on it. Please if this lady knows someone here who can talk sense in to this man and convince him to atleast file for his children that will help the children in the long-term. Their beginning might have been tough but their later years don't have to be. Please mami, you don't a great job taking care of your girls but please you don't have a right to say you don't want child support from their father, you can not deny the girls that. Please in America laws are followed so don't feel intimidated about getting the girls what is rightfully theirs, a right to decent life free of financial struggle unless the father is dead yeah. But if he is still walking breathing;he has a responsibility to raise support his daughters.

Tafadhalini leo nmefika mapema nepeeni likes

From 1989 in USA and he should have saved enough to even move back to Kenya,I think he is a user.

This host is awesome. She listened and gave sound advice. Keep the door open for love. Divinar, you are appreciated

Hi Divinah! Very strong and really level headed! Some of these things are hard to comprehend. You are doing a wonderful job raising those beautiful girls. He must be accountable to his children by providing child support. American Embassy can help you to force him to support the children. Lies go both ways - because I have also been lied to by a woman.

Her parting shot Not all is lost as long as you are still alive That's very deep ✨

Standing ovation for the friends and the support system

This story is almost like mine 10yrs ago I was left in Kenyatta wt a newborn in the NBU na even after coming out of hospital he never gave me any support (God hua TU mfaithful if u trust him he never leaves you alone u might go through a hard time lakini Mungu Yuko na wewe n ur kids (I wish one day I can get to share my story just to encourage someone)

No one is talking about the great gifts and blessings in her life...the kids.They are so beautiful and perfect..God gave you everything when He gave those kids...you shall overcome...may your favour be multiple like your kids.

Am so glad she has shared, that's N01 stage to healing, her body language shows she needs help, she's still frustrated..may God heal her 🙏

Not me going to the past video she did with Lynn and the "husband" was around. He was very strategic. He never showed his face 🤣 even when he was playing with kids in bed. He made sure he used one kid to hide his face in a very strategic way. He made Divinah look like a fool 😭. I feel her. If I was here I could go ahead and report to the embassy and ask him to pay child support. Because there is no way he has been in the US for over 2 decades and he doesn't have papers and his sister and cousin have papers. At this point Divinah has nothing to lose at all. Let her go ahead and file for child support and take it to the US embassy and they will follow up with him. Her case will be given priority as it involves children. And children take the number one priority in getting justice than any other case. Divinah take heart, you have beautiful babies and you've really done a lot raising them and you will truly hack it again and again. All the best as you take time to come up with a decision that will favor your children.

Divinar, don't blame yourself for what happened. Forgive yourself and walk the healing journey a step at a time. It will take time but give yourself grace. You will make it big time!! Thank you Lynn for offering a shoulder to cry on. Keep up the great work..

Doesn't matter what you are going through, always remember there's nothing you can't come back from.Inside you is a power that nothing can destroy, you just need to find it!It's never easy but it's worth it!

Divinar is such an amazing soul, she has stood with many women more so those suffering from cancer, she stood with the lady Nancy Jagongo until her last breath, i wanna meet her next Week

I'm glad I've heard from her. People really gossipped about her,if only they knew what she was going through. Divinar is a strong woman, and she has proved that.

The process of getting Papers in 🇺🇸 is so so frustrating 😢 .. nobody wants to share it at .. Is better to deceive than to share.. may God keep you strong 💪

As an American black woman-I think what he did to this nice lady is foul-I am sure the woman he married in the states does NOT know that she and those beautiful babies exist.. I am glad her people are there to help her and that she has found her voice. Good luck with those blessings that God has blessed you with-those children!

Men will embarass you!! Youll love them whole heartedly and still treat you like you dont matter.. shame on him

The father of my kids is in the US. Initially he neglected us. After some years he started supporting us. Now he pays for school fees for the kids, one doing a parallel program. I respect him for that. We don't have a relationship, we are not married tho our families consider us as so, but we are so disconnected but he is very connected to his kids. I don't know whether he is married in the US or what he does. But after listening to this, I salute him. Mapenzi najitafutia na maisha inasonga

Someone once said something like, 'When you can share your story without crying, you know you have healed'. It was glorious to see you Davinah laughing. ❤

I can relate to this story because my abuse lasted more than 10 years. I’m now over it but it can be very traumatic. For me I had to loose all I had earned single handed. He took my properties because he has guns and guards. But in all things we have to thank God. I came out strong.

As a person who lives in the US . Craigs List is a platform to be weary about most of the ads put up by people are not genuine and be ware. Also glad you are done because his lies will never end . Be careful also to not let him lie to the kids or give them false promises and end up not following through and causing emotional trauma to them as well .

The saddest thing is betrayal comes from those we love. Healing is a process and by you speaking out means you've healed. Congratulations

She should go to American Embassy and report, the US don't joke with kids .He doesn't dictate child support that is why he is fighting

Thanks Divinar. So bold of you to pour you heart out. You speak for so many of us who have been used and manipulated. Finding peace is the ultimate joy for living

HalleluYah for that friend that came and got her! I know how it is to be in such despair and to have those thoughts invading your mind. That "man" will pay for every lie that passed through his lips. He will reap all the deceit he's spread. He will feel every bit of pain he has put his children and this sister through. May Yahuah continue to bless, keep, provide for and guide you and your children Divinar 🙏🏽❤

This story reminds me of HOW important it is to KNOW the man you wed and/or decide to have babies with. It is far better to remain single than go through this kind of mental anguish and have to take children through it knowingly or unknowingly!

My sister salute your brother for taking care of you and the children. He is one in a million. May GOD see you and the kids through.

Oh my 😢😢 My heart broke when she said she cried after dropping the kids off at school. That guy is heartless. So many fail to realize life can turn in a minute. Keeping quiet add more stress and may cause a person to do something drastic. He used her to defraud her friends, then left and threw stones behind him. It would be great if she went to see a therapist. The babies are absolutely adorable. I pray God's continued guidance, protection, provision and blessings over you and your previous darlings lives and home. ❤⚘ sis as long as there's life there's hope.

You're a strong woman Div..i remember the time i was homeschooling the quads..you never treated me ill..I'll forever be grateful mama..

Divina is such a strong woman❤️infidelity hurts and you are never the same after you discover that💔

I just want to know how the man's sister and others live in the US and they NEVER sent any little financial or clothing support to help with their nieces. This woman doesnt have to ask them, it's just what we ought to do to help back home. Especially with the burden of quadrupplets. Sad!

Men and their normal tricks I suffered an exact picture and even more of your odeal some four years ago and yet to fully recover. I have had the pains 😭😭😭😭😭 of raising my son all by myself he will be four this June 2023. The deceit and trauma is a whole drama to write about. May God in His infinite mercy heal us all. Amen 🙏🏼 🙏🏼 🙏🏼 🙏🏼

This lady is blessed beyond words.. Let the guy go. These kids will surprise you someday.... Hugs all the way

people don't cheat by chance,they cheat by choice

Divinah, indeed not all is lost. You are a great lady despite the painful journey. I love what you are doing for your children and a big appreciation for all those who have supported your course. By your story, healing steps are on your way and you are about to celebrate graciously. Just continue moving on and let your children be your daily strength.

Ooh my... I now I understand you gal. My kids and yours are schoolmates. Infact my boy is a classmate to one of the gals. On their graduation I remember meeting you in the school corridors and wanted so much to say hi but I felt you were a lil reserved, I feared to intrude. Hugs dear❤. All the best! I thank God that there are some lessons you pulled from what you went through. I also thank God for the positive attitude you have to give it all for your kids.As long as your trust is in God dear, He'll see you through. They'll never lack anything . Mob love.❤

Lynn one day when I get courage I will share my story. Went through the worst betrayal ever. Healing slowly

If he left kenya 1989 huyo ni muguka thought nikijana amekaa 🇺🇸 like 10yrs?🤔,he's acting like boy yet nimzeee,why could he denie his kids honestly?he should be ashamed of himself somebody who's more than 50yr..

She's such a strong woman after being betrayed by someone she trusted. May God protect your children 🙏

What an inspiring and educative story. Your guest, l call her "a mother of 4nations!" She should be very pound for mothering her quadraplets so well as a single parent. At God give u the joy, peace and provision by blessing the work of your hands/skills. It's unfortunate that the father of your children is not committed to your relationship from the word go. So sad that he can't be proud of being a father of such beautiful kids. He is nassistic, liar and don't put your heart on him. Only God can change him, continue praying as u do your own things. Its tough but our God is a big God and where u stop is where God starts. May Wr be touched to send support this great young and beautiful pound

This woman is strong 💯💔this story is so heartbreaking,hugs mama quads, mama Ls...

Yaani the guy sent her 50k to buy kids clothes the made her kopa 100k🤔 50k yake ikarudi na 50 ingine juu....he is indeed a strange person

I’m glad to listen to this … I will definitely be reaching out to you as my son gets order for Swahili classes. I currently live in the USA but my husband and I vowed to teach our son and future children our language. He 2 now.

This is really touching. I went through something similar and it's extremely painful, I cried while listening to her story because it made me re-live what I went through.😭😭😭 🇿🇲🇿🇲

If she is laughing about it now it means the Lord has healed her and i thank God andshe is the super mum ♥️❤️🇱🇸

May I start by congratulating you Lynn??Coz mahn!!!the work you do is no joke.You are the strongest,brave, beautiful and kind-hearted human I've ever come across.I always pray for you cz I know the burden that you carry is not easy.God bless you

An example of a strong woman 💗🥰never ignore redflags in relationship

This story relets with my story exactly Lynn...OMG my husband married me bk in 2014 he went back to new Zealand n he blocked me upto date no communication,,he's married to mzungu am jst hustling hard with ma son now he's in form 1...

Let's appreciate this lady Divinar, she's is strong and resilient, no one could even tell she was going through all this, never be quick to judge unless you know their story

I always tell women to be very careful with men who tell them, “I love my private life, don’t post me on social media etc”…Social media has become a vetting platform, people can easily reach out and tell you, I know the guy you posted, he is married or has kids with so and so.I have seen so many women defending their hubbies on social media, oh my hubby loves privacy, that’s why I post myself and the kids!Woman wake up!

Am in tears listening to this, Am broken to my nerves, How on earth can someone do this to a woman with more kids. Men Men Men! God I bless her please let heaven drop that double blessings on her.

That's why am grateful to God for whatever happened in my life. Am 42 no kid,not married,it's all about trying to better my life coz that's all what matters. These kinds of stories break my heart knowing that if you were unable to give birth the guy would still take it as an excuse for leaving you.

So relatable I married a Kenyan and she ran away with her boss, it goes both ways men abroad suffer the same fate but I just hope you find the healing because it really wears you down and sometimes suicidal thoughts do come up, hang in there you got this am glad you have great friends. All the best with everything and thanks to LNN for her amazing work!!

I can relate to her story...my baby daddy came to see the baby after one year and a month...till today he saw her only four times before she turns even two years...now she is four years no dad at all...am hustling now as a single mom...keep pushing Davinnah u r strong and blessed so your Five gals...hugs😘😘😘

A very touching story indeed. A lesson to all our girls is to be patient and to stand your ground until you have known the man well. I was once there when one would feel like if I miss this man that was going to be the end but I thank God for my mom who always encouraged me to wait on God for the right time and the right person. As for you Divinar, thanks for sharing your experiences. I like your friends, they are such a blessing. May Jehovah God Almighty bless you all

Ladies, I don't care who it is, if a man is asking you for money, run away from him.

If the pain of betrayal can be explained in action I could explain but I understand what she feels living a life of a lie since I have gone through it

One person you can never advise is a person in love 😢

A very strong woman and amazing mother. May God guide her and bless her and her children ❤.

God saved you from that person!! Who knows what would have happened to you if you continued with such a person. i personally believe it was a blessing in disguise for him to go away. Its just sad that he is not supporting his children.

Lynn I’m in the USA and I can tell you this 1; when there is fraud the bank gives you money money and they deal with the issue 2: when you don’t work and you’re sick you file unemployment and the govt pays you 3: when you’re in the hospital you have your right to talk to your family and for Ladies if a man is in the USA If he’s willing to have you in their life make sure there is commitment and also he or she can bring you in the USA through K1 visa Visit visa Fiancé and many other ❤❤we love you back

I've listened to this story and have just realized I am a single mother of a diaspora husband

Mine left me when I was diagnosed for diabetes, only to call after 3 claiming if it wasn't for his nhif card, I would be dead by now.. but I thank God though I strain alot to gather for the kids, medications and rent, I thank God I rarely get admitted. Be strong devinar, there's a God in heaven.. though pple like judging single mummies differently, we will overcome 💓💓