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@saludyvidaintegrales7982 Жыл бұрын
It happens to me, my family loves me while I'm below them
@SonyaOutThere2 жыл бұрын
In my entire 40 years of living, I learned that the more you please people, the more entitled they become (not grateful), and just expect more.
@Aquagirl-in6wr Жыл бұрын
Well said, wow this is my experience as well.
@user-yk9sk7pg6v Жыл бұрын
@sonya, very true, learned it too late myself
@TV-oc4ml Жыл бұрын
You should have just married him at 27
@SonyaOutThere Жыл бұрын
@@TV-oc4ml WTF are you talking about. I met my husband at 32 and married him at 33.
@TV-oc4ml Жыл бұрын
@@SonyaOutThere good girl
@Mimses-b4e2 жыл бұрын
At the core of being a bish is being in the energy of "my needs are not shameful" . I get to have my needs, no shame. This allows healthy shame to take its place and it manifests as healthy boundaries and vulnerability.
@Theprincessinyellow2 жыл бұрын
I’m gonna have to sit on that point for a minute! I am definitely a recovering people pleaser so to the way you put that is just *chefs kiss*
@staceyanne2432 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this 💫
@transformyourmindtransform70202 жыл бұрын
I remember your video, I think it was titled "don't complain, don't explain" and it reminds me of this. I catch myself explaining why I'm saying "no" instead of just letting "no" be a complete sentence. Goddesses don't have to explain anything. Let them think what they may 👸🏿
@fp76012 жыл бұрын
When I stopped acting insecure and people pleasing people started calling me a narcissist LMAO
@canesugar9112 жыл бұрын
Everyone is a psychologist these days. According to them anyone who is happy, confident and not self deprecating is a "narcissist".
@mjgreenidge2 жыл бұрын
Yes, it’s called having self esteem and they don’t want women to have it because if your love yourself, they cant manipulate you for their gain.
@Lisa_Fernandezhomeandlifestyle2 жыл бұрын
@@canesugar911 "everyone is a psychologist"... Right 🤣💃🏽
@StephanieDaniels2 жыл бұрын
This happened to me too. 😂 I went from being a target of narcissists to being called a narcissist. What a mind trip.
@nickycorrea2 жыл бұрын
@@StephanieDaniels hahaha I feel you, girl! Same here
@MayaJohn2 жыл бұрын
When you overextended yourself to help others you’re harming not only yourself, but them too. It’s actually condescending to assume a grown adult can’t figure out their problems. When you say no, you allow them to grow and learn independently, while maintaining your relationship with them!
@SarahMJordan Жыл бұрын
💅👑 yes!
@BrownDivinity2 жыл бұрын
I’m a proud BISH and everyone that knows me can vouch. Funny thing is, I just have solid boundaries but I’m still a kind human being. But it’s okay to be the villain in other peoples story sometimes 🤷🏾♀️😌
@SarahMJordan Жыл бұрын
Yes! Love this 💅
@HealingLight2312 жыл бұрын
“Allow people to decide for themselves” WOW
@rsamuels69692 жыл бұрын
I’ve had people actually tell me that my happiness actually bothers them! So bizarre! I REFUSE to dim my light to make other people more comfortable! Since deciding that my life has gotten exponentially better! It’s good to know that this is Goddess energy!!
@diplomat2623 Жыл бұрын
Woow.
@lindaabuado3213 Жыл бұрын
Yes, you’ll be surprised your happiness does bother orople
@tyramcneal12042 жыл бұрын
Yes love this message and it definitely hits home with me. I’ve always been the nice girl. Currently not answering phones, responding to messages saying “oh sorry I won’t be able to do that” , and practicing keeping my mouth shut when people purposely mention their problems around me. I just say “oh man I hope you figure it out that’s crazy” lol 😂 then I have to go because I’m getting another call.
@rinalovesbags87882 жыл бұрын
This is such an important message for us as women. We are conditioned to be the "Good Girl" who live to serve others and make everyones lives easier. You do yourself such a disservice when you put yourself last.
@lovefaith18562 жыл бұрын
Even the Jesus said “let your yes be yes and your no be no.” So true
@ajhenzler18522 жыл бұрын
Oh my, yes. I'm doing a Mina marathon and when I rewatched this , I was recalling all of the times I have apologized when I didn't do anything wrong...I feel like this has been so ingrained in us as women, to be the nice girl. I remember one time..I was in a boutique trying on clothes, and the music in the fitting room was loud. The SA accidentally opened my fitting room door when I was in the middle of changing. She didn't say anything...just stood there staring at me. I was apologizing to HER!! When I went to pay for my things, she still said nothing! These are the moments that I revisit and cringe...thank you Mina for bringing this to my awareness....stepping into more of that Goddess/bish energy thanks to your teachings 💕
@sandylucas42792 жыл бұрын
Mina, I remember some time ago you told stories of your hairdresser and nail tech and even I believe massage place how you were kind to them, but they saw you as a pushover. I love how you figured it out and resolved it! But of course, you always do! Love it and you! XO
@danicaharley62732 жыл бұрын
Do you remember how Mina resolved this soft nice pushover issues? Thank you, I have these same issues xx
@ummumami2 жыл бұрын
@@danicaharley6273 I would think... "by becoming a BISH"
@alisha555552 жыл бұрын
Wow - hate that ppl are like that. Do you happen to remember which video this is/was?
@amiraclefinds48672 жыл бұрын
" I understand why you think that / that you feel this way AND/ yet this doesn't work for me" " allow natural consequences to happen" from what I remember, with the appointments, it was more of accommodating, showing understanding and apologizing. They would have her wait or reschedule her appointment or rush through it due to their poor time management the natural consequence is "I understand you're not ready." This experience doesn't work for me.And they lose a good customer. They couldn't handle new customers anyway find someone who has the container to do so. hence timestamp 6:30 and 9:17
@africangoddess28332 жыл бұрын
I literally just made an IG story stating that my only responsibility is to live my BEST life and that I don't know how to live any other way. I'm with you sister 💖 thank you for giving yourself permission everyday and giving us all permission to do the same 💓
@rsamuels69692 жыл бұрын
Thiss!!
@maxineyu76662 жыл бұрын
Wow this came at divine timing! I was having a bad day today because I was cringing at myself for being too nice to people who don't treat me well and feeling resentful then guilty for standing up for myself but i shouldn't. Thank you for this video 💗💗
@IqraKhan-vc7lo2 жыл бұрын
Ever since I left my people pleasing self (which is taught to us eastern women to be a doormat), I get called a bish now by female family members. I could care less honestly. I'm no longer depressed, and happy
@lucidaandromeda2 жыл бұрын
This video is amazing, thank you. I used to be the same way, and people didn't show as much respect, and I did feel resentment. It is SO empowering to set personal boundaries and say no to what does not resonate. Yes, no more over apologizing! I've shared this with my mom and other women in my life, and we all stopped saying sorry when it wasn't necessary. Excellent point that people ARE capable of figuring things out for themselves! No need to sacrafice ourselves to save people. Loving your BISH vibe Mina! 👑💖🙏🌟
@kristenmoonrise2 жыл бұрын
I felt this! I had a friend who was a total nice girl: she was mistreated at work and in her relationship. I had to stop being her friend because I didn't want those low vibes rubbing off on me! It would irk me when she refused to stand up for herself.
@canesugar9112 жыл бұрын
You could have helped her though.
@kristenmoonrise2 жыл бұрын
@@canesugar911 who said I didn't?
@kristenmoonrise2 жыл бұрын
@@canesugar911 I guess talking with her, connecting her with a career consultant, a therapist, and giving her a book on self love affirmations that she all refused isn't called help. 🤷🏽♀️
@canesugar9112 жыл бұрын
@@kristenmoonrise you, you didn't say it. You just said that she irked you so you decided to end the friendship.
@canesugar9112 жыл бұрын
@@kristenmoonrise 🙄🙄. Read your first comment, where did you mention any of these
@GoddessOfUniverse2 жыл бұрын
I heard a convo of my fiancé ✨ with a work partner, yeah my girl is a SAVAGE ✨ I don’t mess with her ♥️
@reccyre2 жыл бұрын
12:02 when you lose those types of people, it's not even a loss! 🙏 I've seen the light. It's not about changing myself to fit in, it's about being myself and attracting my soul tribe.
@perleeartisanat22352 жыл бұрын
In my community there is an expression saying: « No bring arguments. » So people never say no; they say yes or smile but dont respond. I think its so toxic because most relationship or friendship are not genuine Idc I just say no.
@Thebettermanbysak2 жыл бұрын
I didn’t want to go out with someone and wasn’t sure how to say no. I’m going to be honest no sugar coat. Thank you for the confidence to to this! 😘😘😘😘
@AlexisSiriani5 ай бұрын
This video spoke to my soul. I used to be a people pleasing doormat and can relate your transformation!!!
@snjezanakristo76932 жыл бұрын
This video has just come for me at the right time, that's exactly what I needed to hear. My mother has been conditioning me through my entire life to be a dormat, a pushover and that my whole existence is wrong. But even though I've often heard "a bish (in original) doesn't mean anything wrong or negative", doesn't it sound offensive and derogatory? That should be something normal!
@ColouredSoul192 жыл бұрын
Every time I have something on my mind Mina you bring out a video discussing it. I want random men to know they can't come in my field just like that because I appear sweet. A guy had the audacity to compliment me with bashing other women because I was more clothed and then said men don't like stuck up women and I don't seem that way. I had to tell him he's mistaken, I am stuck up lol. So now I'm trying to exude such energy in my photos and communication so that they know I'm not the one but remaining in my natural kind energy. Trying to find the balance.
@canesugar9112 жыл бұрын
I don't know why guys think that modest women are push overs and low maintenance. Lol.
@ItsOkayToBeHappy2 жыл бұрын
Pro tip: if you tap the gear for settings you will see a handy little feature called "Loop". If you turn the loop on, this video will automatically play on repeat. I know I need to hear this at least 3 times. You're welcome. 💋
@pennypenny3762 жыл бұрын
F*CK YEAH to this message!
@lindasmith90062 жыл бұрын
Beautiful message Mina, God bless you for what you’re doing for women! Just by you being you and living your best life, you’ve inspired me so much and changed my whole existence from the inside out. My marriage also has transformed through inner work and becoming a Bish!! you’re so right ppl love you more when you’re authentic, nice girls finish last for a reason. In my nice girl mode, I so wanted to please ppl and manipulate ppl into liking me. Once I stopped caring and started showing up as the feminine savage that was already in me, those who align with my new energy love it, others are triggered by it and others deselected. Either way I’m living unapologetically and I’m so happy, my husband is obsessed with my Bish energy and I get to have it all!
@jazzyjenkins2 жыл бұрын
Omg I needed this. I .calling out to work tomorrow. Just because I need a day, and I have been stressing over it. Feeling as if I am going to let my co workers down. I have never called out never faked sick. I always do everything.
@reachoperator2122 жыл бұрын
OMG, love your content! I am a Libra as well... right away I connected with your energy! I was doing the same things... MS.YES, YES! 2020 the Universe shifted gears for me. God completely removed the people who were taking advantage of me and who largely did not have my back. Because of this people pleasing behavior, my relationship was declining, my significant other hated this to the core. Now I can see that he was protecting me from the cold vultures trying to prey over my kindness. Now I understand him. I can now focus on my career and do what's best for me. The UNIVERSE IS GOOD TO ME❣🙏🏽
@greyahmarie09052 жыл бұрын
You better talk about it Mina!💚
@zakiaikram43792 жыл бұрын
Ooooh beautiful message.
@prettiepagesofficial2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! I will receive my spiritual PhD!!! I will work with you one on one. Speaking it into existence!!!💕
@Aquagirl-in6wr Жыл бұрын
This is a great message that I needed to hear. I've been a people pleaser all my life and it only hit me recently and I realized I have to change.
@gangstalica2 жыл бұрын
Talk about synchronicity! THIS is exactly the video I needed..🙌
@GetElevatedWithMe7 ай бұрын
Mina, I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart! I’ve been a people pleaser my whole life and I’m so thankful I’ve found your channel. I found you through awwlexis! I’m married and your videos have inspired me to work on myself as well as my marriage! I’m so excited to purchase your book and I’ve already picked a couple courses I’d like to do ❤
@Maimmarei2 жыл бұрын
Mina , you are a source of energy and blessings, you are amazing, I really learn so much from you , god bless you ♥️
@timmiking-proverbs7462 жыл бұрын
Rediscovering my Bish energy...in my 50's. Lol! Better late than never! I'm absolutely DONE with the people pleasing! Some can't deal with it and that's perfectly fine with me!
@brklyn29222 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mina! I want the 'right people in my life'. Amen to that❤❤❤❤
@socialite82182 жыл бұрын
I love your style. You empowered me to stop people pleasing. Thanks! 💕
@luxelindz3881 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video Mina, you summarised who I was when I was married and now that I've ended it, I am truly coming into my own Bish-energy and leading with "If I loved myself, what would I do now".
@lutherevans9682 жыл бұрын
Maybe the people who are triggered by you are just jealous.
@reccyre2 жыл бұрын
They resent her for doing what they're not allowed to do or what they don't give themselves permission to do/be. For example in my community girls who are brought up being very restricted and controlled by their parents in every way were very resentful toward girls who were raised by chill parents who didn't police their every move. So they shamed those girls in an attempt to make themselves feel better.
@lutherevans9682 жыл бұрын
@@reccyre Yeah, I get it. I can relate to being overly controlled by a parent, but I never turned toxic towards others like that. There was one point when I did feel a bit envious of healthy people who are supported, but that went away pretty quickly. Mainly I just view them as an example of how I want to be more like, rather than going the toxic route of trying to make them feel bad or something like this.
@Ang36914 Жыл бұрын
It was also a health issue (my eyes twitching for 3 days straight) that was the final straw for me. I stopped pleasing others so much, caring so much about what others thought and keeping my truth back for fear of offending others. One doctor thinks it was nystagmus, which is usually caused by stress and fatigue.
@aliceandappetizers Жыл бұрын
I know that’s right Mina! Love that you came to this realization. Letting your “yes mean yes” and your “no mean no” is very important. Thank you for sharing!
@TheAdisa Жыл бұрын
I am so grateful that I found your channel! I just turned 25 and this knowledge is just confirmation of what I deserve 🎉Thank you🥰
@deepikajain64582 жыл бұрын
One of the best advices. You are shining inside out 💕💕
@alekxa902 жыл бұрын
Mina I am so grateful to you. To those that see this video for the first time, understand that when Mina gives something she gives all of herself. You are kind and so full of knowledge. Thanks for all you've have given me. Your knowledge, your generosity, your care are appreciated. This message is spot on. Thanks
@madelinesanchez3107 Жыл бұрын
I'm latina, thanks to you I'm more line with the things I want...and now I set up boundaries and i feel more feminine...thank you ..
@tithi87822 жыл бұрын
I love your dress today Mina 💗
@courtneypuryear42172 жыл бұрын
Thank God for you Mina, I pray for help and here you come with a video! That was a good friend to call you out and help you level up. Please keep doing savage, bish goddess energy videos!
@Jianglong372 жыл бұрын
Yes. I no longer feel guilty about the desires that I have.
@frankiem40622 жыл бұрын
People call me the mean girl but idc. I’m literally living my dreams while they are still scraping the bottom for pennies 🤭🤭🤭🤭
@lovefaith18562 жыл бұрын
Wow. I love that you look at the metaphysical aspects
@awesomearab132 жыл бұрын
Can you please elaborate on attracting triggered people into your life? That is literally my entire life experience and I have always blamed myself and looked inward to try and understand why I attract so many jealous people into my space when I am not a jealous person myself.
@Heather-AnnePaul Жыл бұрын
Love this. Yeeeeeeees girl. I’ve got to work on saying NO the first time , instead of a brutal Cut off 😂. This resonates so much .
@ichefz2 жыл бұрын
One of Mina's best videos!
@SanctifiedLady Жыл бұрын
Heal your body heal your life…and metaphysics book The game of life and how to play too! Love this channel we been through the same channels of self growth 🙌🏾
@truthorlies52822 жыл бұрын
Yass I was a nice and sweet girl for years , I couldn’t believe the way ppl took advantage and hurt me, the day I became a BISH , I was pushed to the point of it but happy I realized this sooner than later ,hunnnyyy yasss I don’t regret it and I am respected off rip!!! ❤️ The other benefits of this astounding
@lavieestbelle60682 жыл бұрын
Resentment can also cause ulcers. I am working on no longer being the fixer.
@amypelino5901 Жыл бұрын
I loved this. I used to have the same problem! And I too have stepped into my bish power too! It’s necessary.
@cynbod2 жыл бұрын
I love that you are mentioning RA as I have fibromyalgia and think there is an element of guilt/people pleaser in that. I dont always say yes, I just feel invisible and will therefore try to please and follow everyone in order to exist and not be alone.
@Heather-AnnePaul Жыл бұрын
This is brilliant Mina. You said you tried to dim your light, yet remember when you said that it was the women who triggered you the most in the past actually activated your own ascension and level up. Go ‘head and trigger everybody girl 👏
@emilyjane6153 Жыл бұрын
I have this video saved and regularly revisit, because it's just that good!
@DarlaReborn Жыл бұрын
You were preaching, girl! Love this! 🙌🏾
@wisdomfromprystinetheempress2 жыл бұрын
Grow your hair into this length naturally it absolutely suits you...it makes you look even more beautiful than you are anyway! I mean you decide but yeah... just thinking it out loud! Thanks for the video! I am enjoying being the BISH tbh...my health, my overall well-being is so much better! I agree with all of the words! 🙂👍🏻💯
@rensii-e8b11 ай бұрын
I agree she looks especially pretty here for whatever reason ❤
@risingroses2 жыл бұрын
Mina please copyright the😁 word "bish". 😂😂😂Cracks me up and pulls me together and I love it.
@KeshiaRice2 жыл бұрын
It’s a slang term that’s been used for 20 years, so I don’t think it can be copyrighted.
@RachelsResults11 ай бұрын
You used to be an exploding doormat!! 😂 Me too!! 💥
@ichefz2 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I needed to hear. Major wake up call
@savvymendoza_2 жыл бұрын
every video you look younger and sexier! you go girl, you are such an inspiration to me 💙💚
@asmas19 Жыл бұрын
Well they are capable of not getting triggered when you set a boundary. If they can't, then they need inner work. Sending them love
@chi_townpeach36262 жыл бұрын
I identified with this video so much u definitely gained a subscription
@The-Oneness112 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I am so inspired to become the real authentic me.
@asinsodojrn Жыл бұрын
Girl this is fire 🔥🔥🔥
@realneatfreaks9626 Жыл бұрын
This was soooo good!! Thank you Mina!!
@vturner2 жыл бұрын
“ Nice is only a place in France”
@ajohonly37212 жыл бұрын
Very important lesson to learn thanks 🙏 Mina.
@isabel49572 жыл бұрын
I embodied this thanks to you and it changes my life everyday❤️
@michelledirelle2 жыл бұрын
A "bish". Oh I go crazy😅😆😆😆 Very good. Very in balance. Thank you, Bish.
@jamescadzow95452 жыл бұрын
This is the way God intended you to become all along 100% Authentic in all aspects of life. Being honest or talking in a blunt fashion has nothing to do with being a bitch. Every child comes into this world perfect in every way until it takes on the pain and egos of other humans as their own. Always speak your mind it's a sign of strength not weakness. People pleasing is a sign of pure codependent weakness because you have the inability to form your own opinion. people pleasers typically are the baits of narcissists because they want a Yes Man with no opinion that is unwilling to rock the boat because they subconsciously fear any sort of confrontation. confrontation is actually a good thing because it resolves issues versus sweeping them under the rug like a codependent people pleaser would do.. I'm proud of you for overcoming this good luck my friend I love your energy.
@ruthhagen5230 Жыл бұрын
Glorious content, wisdom woman ✨
@Paulina-yv7go2 жыл бұрын
Love it! 👏
@elyciachanel88402 жыл бұрын
So grateful I found your channel. All of this video resonates with me. We have similar mindsets. New subscriber 💜
@drewpape4557 Жыл бұрын
Hey. I really needed your video. You gave me a great perspective on how to be in life. I am working on myself and this really helped. I'm going to use your advice.
@sectoudie18202 жыл бұрын
Very powerful what you convey really. Now you know why you experienced all that . A lot lot lot of people needs your teachings. It's wripling out through the universe vibrationally when you express it because I feel coming from your soul.You just made me quantum jump to another level lol lol 😆 am not joking 🤣 . I needed just this one. All my Blessings your way beautiful soul of the light
@amiraclefinds48672 жыл бұрын
Time stamp 7:50 and 8:24 is what I need to hear over and over again.
@allrightallrightallright191911 ай бұрын
Wow, I totally relate to your history ❤
@eliano66852 жыл бұрын
Love your energy❤️
@Theuniverseguru2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@FM-yk1yr2 жыл бұрын
Love this!
@blondsciousblondie89962 жыл бұрын
This is an excellent video!
@juliam56282 жыл бұрын
I love your energy Mina 💜
@elegantz17792 жыл бұрын
You look great.good video
@GLIMPSE13062 жыл бұрын
1.000.000 likes for this video. Never dim your light for anyone - especially not to make anyone like you. shine bright. be a bish. people who are meant to like will anyway.
@andrewdurhamenglish99772 жыл бұрын
I really wish she edited her videos so they'd be a bit louder. Awesome content.
@shanmukithulasiram66052 жыл бұрын
Amazing 💕
@pakmanmusik Жыл бұрын
when people decide to make their own definitions of words ______________
@GoddessOfUniverse2 жыл бұрын
Watching this while he is massaging and kiss my feet ✨ I have my AirPods in 💕