U start off dressing very covered than slowly wear more revealing clothing to build up intensity 😊

Only talking to some men is like fighting off a ravenous animal

It’s so disappointing

Once I made a really bad mistake of staying the night with someone I met on a trip to the UK In my 20s the entire night with him I couldn’t sleep or close my eyes, I had my hands grabbing his hands with such strength cause he kept trying to push my legs apart the entire night. I’ve never been so terrified that entire night and ran away the next day.

Facts🤦🏾‍♀️ I know a friend who had an ex like that so disgusting. I’m so sorry you experienced that.

My dad. But I don’t blame him. He was horribly abused by his father.

@@coachzaynab355 it’s important to understand why people do what they do. That shows you are a person with great empathy for others. But I feel like at a certain point behaviors should not be excused. It’s sad that your dad was abused but being abused is no excuse to abuse others. There are many people who suffer extreme abuse but make sure that they themselves are excellent parents. My father was abused too and while I can empathize with that, I can also acknowledge how much he messed me and my siblings up. He is not a good father. It is what it is.

@@fatimah230 yes of course, I have my boundaries in place. And also keep my distance. Last Night I had a dream of how much my grandfather used to abuse my father. But he was doing it to me. Not one ounce of human decency and kindness. I woke up crying because it was just too harsh. I am pretty sure my grandpa is a psychopath. No child deserves that.

Omg

Sorry that happened. Sending you love 💕 and healing.

Right 😂 it reminded me of Elle Woods in the best way Hahaa 💕

They are coping with some emotional issue or have scarcity mindset.

You're 22 and he's almost 30. Even if you wore black and were masculine you'd likely get the same response. You represent significant sexual status to him because of your age. That said being safe isn't always being fearful. Good luck.

Its looking at the world and our interactions in a different way, from engergy. As in we are all engergy and we play off each other, opening up different parts with what we offer. This is subconcious. You cant ecpect a man to 'get it' if he hasnt come across this infomation before, you cant really teach them iether with out embodymemt as mens brains are different and many men and women dismiss the femine principle . It is intially a lot more work for women but ìts a skill to learn and will hopefully become secound nature, a postive learnt behaviour that is adapted

I hear what you’re saying and find it frustrating when coaches put all the work/accountability on women - BUT She holds men accountable around the 8:30 mark, and her entire channel is devoted to helping women** do their inner work. There are definitely YT channels that address the inner work of men, but I think if anyone/she had to constantly play devil’s advocate to consider all POV, it would be a never ending video haha 🤪

@@savannathesiren I think the focus should be reiterated to find men who are also doing their inner work because it feels mindnumbing to imagine putting in 100% of the effort, meanwhile he puts 0% in

@@SaminSays yeah totally! She holds men accountable around the 8:30 mark & other coaches also hold men accountable. My fav men’s account is Ace Metaphor! Check him out. Mina’s account is for women’s inner work. Not really for men. But Ace- He’s super conscious and awakened to the experience of the feminine and is a POC, Which is also of huge value/perception in my opinion! Lmk what you think 🥰

@@savannathesiren ok I’ll check that out thanks

Same here. Even when I'm fully dressed it still happens so I don't get it

Male hormones, we can't help it. Makes us go crazy lol. We will always be this way unless we using that energy somewhere else and no longer attracted to you. Especially if she's sexy, you could be washing the dishes or folding cloths and we're activated.

@@TonyAtmos well at least you're admitting it's you and not something a woman is doing wrong.. which is what society is always implying Literally just breathing and existing seems to send men out of control

@@MuseSunflower O yea, I would never put our crazy minds on women. Men tend to crave physical contact, that's one of the main ways we communicate our feelings towards someone. An easy example would be smacking the butt we do it to yall all the time because we're showing affection and the same to men when we say good game. We're just sharing the jolt of energy you gave us, from just existing most of the time lol. This became longer than I wanted but yea don't change 😘😁

@@TonyAtmos thank you for your input! I appreciate it 😊 admiration is always flattering! it just gets uncomfortable when a guy goes into predatory mode because of his lust. As long as the self control is there you're good

Thank you!

Seconding this!

Interesting…

Maybe you give him too much and don't ask enough. Try slowly giving less and less of things you know he likes and start asking more. Anyway, give yourself more, this might make him think💜

Usually men treat us like we treat ourselves.... maybe you should be more generous with yourself, with your inner you

I believe she was in real estate

She was a real state agent

I have hundreds of students who are being provided for without kids. Where did you get these beliefs from?

my husband provides for me fully and we don't have children. I would also like to know where you got this idea.

Looks brown.

And now we are seperated..

What do you mean not be seductive

Where or who can help me with that? Thank you.

As a woman in the same position, Id say dont change yourself and have even stronger boundaries. Be a bit more forward if you are interested in a man. You will be hounded by creeps because they have nothing to lose. Most of the good men wont approach unless you signal them because they are considerate of your space

​​​​@@alexs2351 if you are super hot and approach men they wont take you seriously. I mean, it is always better to let them do the chasing until you decide if he earns your time. For me it doesnt work out, if you do the chase the man is doing nothing and you will end up doing all the work, tired and his ego will climb to the roof. Super hot women should show the other colours, that are slept inside. For me, hot females should improve her boundaries, NOBODY should make you feel that you are not worthy of respect and love. If you are super hot let them compite for your attention, and focus on your ALL the colours you have...the nurturer, the confident, however do it FOR YOU in the first place 😊😊 Men will notice when your energy is there (not only the sexy, but the nurturer the confident etc)... you will attract better partners if you do that