"I can't find a girlfriend"

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Күн бұрын

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0:00 Intro
0:05 "I can't find a girlfriend"
5:38 "My parents undermine me"
7:45 "My friends are jerks to me"
9:40 "How do you deal with death?"
11:03 "How do I stop losing motivation for content creation?"

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@nat_cat2923
@nat_cat2923 23 күн бұрын
0:50 this is the most genius movement niko throughout the history of Minecraft
@nikoyaps
@nikoyaps 23 күн бұрын
ALRIGHT BUDDY
@120Nxus
@120Nxus 23 күн бұрын
At least it’s wood
@guyonyoutubee
@guyonyoutubee 23 күн бұрын
wooden iron pickaxe
@Logman7_
@Logman7_ 23 күн бұрын
bro was tryna make a thiccaxe
@nulled7888
@nulled7888 23 күн бұрын
😂
@pekar43
@pekar43 23 күн бұрын
All I'm going to say is "Beautiful things don't ask for attention"
@Itscrows
@Itscrows 23 күн бұрын
U cooked with that one
@acilicitbones
@acilicitbones 23 күн бұрын
Love this 💗💯
@lucasneedham5630
@lucasneedham5630 22 күн бұрын
secret life of walter mitty is such an amazing movie bro
@pekar43
@pekar43 21 күн бұрын
@@lucasneedham5630 real
@ccelite3782
@ccelite3782 21 күн бұрын
Hollon... let em cook!
@Evwer
@Evwer 23 күн бұрын
did i just see you craft an iron pickaxe with planks..? 0:50
@nikoyaps
@nikoyaps 23 күн бұрын
ALRIGHT PAL
@David-ty6my
@David-ty6my 23 күн бұрын
I also noticed, his advice is good but the gameplay mid
@Evwer
@Evwer 23 күн бұрын
@@nikoyaps Thanks for the reply bro
@zzzzz6922
@zzzzz6922 Күн бұрын
@@David-ty6my why do minecraft players get so butthurt over someone not playing the way its "supposed" to be played
@David-ty6my
@David-ty6my Күн бұрын
@@zzzzz6922 probably because I watched all Dream videos and I'm the Dream of my friend Group. Someone's gotta be able to craft a boat in mid air.
@qakallsudjlashjlkdhalsjdhlh
@qakallsudjlashjlkdhalsjdhlh 23 күн бұрын
I am currently 17 (turning 18 in a month) and I feel that my youth is taken away from me. I wasn't able to enjoy my childhood and high school days because of the hundreds of responsibilities placed on me. My dad left me in a very young age and I have to work a lot to support my family and ourselves. Currently struggling to find genuine happiness outside of helping others. It feels like I missed out on so much in my early days that I will never get to experience again. I don't know what to do but to keep grinding working hard and trying my best to actively become better everyday. Life for me is just struggles and constant hardships and I am hoping to find true happiness one day. Just asking for advice on what I can actually do (would mean a lot) 🙏
@slenshye9876
@slenshye9876 23 күн бұрын
I really like to help people too, can't find happiness too.. I can't really say anything else so I'm going to say that: Always remember to love yourself, and also help yourself. And give yourself value, don't wait for others to tell you "you look good" "you're kind" etc because not everyone is going to tell you that, just acknowledge the good and bad you have. And don't crush yourself with the bad too much. Enjoy your life, and have a good day. I hope you won't struggle with jobs and family. wishing you the best! If you wanna talk more, I have discord
@MarkelKlas
@MarkelKlas 23 күн бұрын
if i forget happy bday already bro
@kkrock_
@kkrock_ 23 күн бұрын
happpppppy earllllllly birthday
@blayzcool7897
@blayzcool7897 22 күн бұрын
Skill issue+womp womp+Ratio+L+idc ( this is a joke )
@MilosPetrovic-bk2qp
@MilosPetrovic-bk2qp 22 күн бұрын
@@slenshye9876 cant find happiness at age 18 im not that good looking from serbia age 18 kind honest good nice person in general an amazing person to be friends with or more
@Ben94
@Ben94 23 күн бұрын
8:21 Although a nice perspective, I've always ignored anyone that said "oh there's 7 billion people, you'll find someone (be that friends or a partner)". But in reality you'll probably only meet between 300-1500 people in your life depending on your lifestyle
@LeFrenchDude
@LeFrenchDude 23 күн бұрын
Same. Even though there's 8 billion people, the people you meet are determined by your country, city, culture and social circle. So in reality, the number of people you can meet variates greatly between people and their origins. You could also introduce the concept of "changing over time". People can change and that's an issue for long term relationships, which are very difficult to have in the first place based on what I have said earlier. That's kind of a doomer thing but it really brings meaning into the relationship we have with people because if they are here they are very special.
@ragingsaviorkami9862
@ragingsaviorkami9862 23 күн бұрын
​​@@LeFrenchDude Things change much less later in life though. Lke yeah, at 15-20, you're still young and naive, but later on at 25-30 and above, people change less and less. There may be smaller changes, but nothing too drastic that would lead to a breakup. I feel like If that happens, that's just undeveloped character/lack of personality.
@jjQlLlLq
@jjQlLlLq 23 күн бұрын
300-1500 people is still a lot to me, it feels a lot less for my case But yea we have internet now, if you don't mind finding friends & potential date online who are possibly overseas, then definitely you can meet more people. Though gotta make sure to get the basics of bonding down - don't assess a person just from their bio & photos. Gotta actually spend time with them whether on vc, in game, just something. Mutual hobby/interest/activity helps.
@Snippyyy
@Snippyyy 4 күн бұрын
it is a rule of life, that when you stop looking for something, it appears soon after, this applies for relationships as well
@joeyRaven201
@joeyRaven201 23 күн бұрын
I need this video im really struggeling with life rn
@SPINEBUSTER2023
@SPINEBUSTER2023 10 күн бұрын
i believe in you
@TheWilburDog
@TheWilburDog 23 күн бұрын
yo, i just finished high school and even took an extra year, im 19.5 years old and never had a girlfriend and i feel like ive failed at life and missed out on everything good about highschool. did i really fail as hard as i think i did? it seems like everyone is in relationships but me, and i can't be happy with myself because of this.
@agoodler
@agoodler 23 күн бұрын
I'm 17 and never had a girlfriend, too. I know how you feel, because usually the folks with my age already kiss someone and stuffs like these. But that's something that I have zero experience in my life. Actually, I never had a friendship with a girl. I guess we need just ignore it and try become a better person, but don't feel sad bro! (Sorry for any mistakes, I've been learning English but I'm not good at it yet.)
@joylechanceux4805
@joylechanceux4805 23 күн бұрын
That doesn’t mean you failed at life, it just means you haven’t found someone for you yet I quit my gf almost 2 months ago now and it was the first relationship I’ve ever had but I can tell you that you shouldn’t really care about that, it’s better to wait for the right person than to be unhappy with someone who isn’t for you So yeah dw and good luck man 👍
@A.C.O_Akalideo
@A.C.O_Akalideo 23 күн бұрын
I'm 16 and I've never had a girlfriend either, I also feel like I failed at life.
@Miiotaur
@Miiotaur 23 күн бұрын
I'm 19 too and get what ya mean, I ain't in a relationship either but there's more to life than relationships, it's just the media is pushing it onto people making us think it's as important and as fun as they say, ya not missin out on anything, you'll find it more enjoyable if ya let it happen naturally instead of rushing the process
@rigbonet4272
@rigbonet4272 23 күн бұрын
Fellas am I cooked? I have a crush on this girl hard, I hungout with her and she left me on sent for weeks and I saw her with some other dude. I may never find someone like her and am fucking lost.
@hodstrat3722
@hodstrat3722 23 күн бұрын
Hello niko, started watching your content alot and it has been resourceful! I'm not gonna lie I am starting to feel like i'm chronically online these past years and I don't know how to get out of the bubble. I feel like the classic advice of "just go out and meet people" is out of place for me. I have met many cool people in video games tournaments, and I still talk to them, but I want to expand my reach other than just one web of interest. This video improved my perspective in the pursuit of romantic relationships, and now I feel like I have a better understanding on this topic, but I still feel incomplete socially and romantically speaking.
@MatMart
@MatMart 23 күн бұрын
This has been one of my favorite channels to watch as of recent, coming from a youtuber pretty much everything you say about being one is true. Even if it's the only job I think I can do well atm I wouldn't really recommend it for most other people
@EpicYT-GAMERFORLIFE
@EpicYT-GAMERFORLIFE 21 күн бұрын
@MatMart I love your videos
@justdandan2
@justdandan2 23 күн бұрын
Hopefully you ever talk about it in the next video or you do of these but how do I not blur the line between liking someone vs liking the idea of someone? Been an internal struggle I dealt with since trying to maintain platonic relationships and not just go in head first with said relationship being romantic
@josha618
@josha618 23 күн бұрын
imagine struggling to get the attention of a single woman when you can have thousands of FBI agents watching your every move
@randy1413
@randy1413 21 күн бұрын
i love the concept of awnsering questions about problems people have. I learn allot because of your video's, i try to upgrade myself constantly and your realy helping me with that. No screams, loud music and busy gameplay is also something i love about your vids so thank you. Greetings from the Netherlands
@Tullis87
@Tullis87 23 күн бұрын
I love this. The current demographic majority here seems to be very young men still in Highschool. I tell you now, all the young men here are most definitely going to over think life at such a young age. I know I did. The best thing you can understand to essentially answer a lot of the questions asked is understand that everything takes time, and it should take time. You will see rich 22 year olds or maybe younger and you will believe that you can do it. Though it may be possible it isn’t likely. Money isn’t all that and a bag of chips. Slow down, don’t overthink the picture and understand you need to keep yourself busy and take things slow. You have that unicorn blood at a young age, use it. And when it comes to women, if you care that much about the ladies then you’re caring too much about the wrong thing. You will find a partner one day, but if it comes fast then it’s not gonna be good. The realistic demographic is if she’s the same age as you she more than likely wants a guy older, I’ve seen 18yr girls who were dating 30yr old dudes. You think that’s weird when you’re an 18yr dude, but when you’re 30 that will change. Girls just generally go for older guys and they should because those guys have experience, they’ve found who they are and they are more than likely ready to start a family. Girls have a biological clock and the good ones recognize that and will chase the older gents. She wants an adult, not someone who hasn’t understood what it is to be one yet. When texting them if they don’t respond then you don’t respond, and don’t be stupid and ask why she didn’t. If she didn’t then she’s not interested my guy, she saw your text she’s not oblivious. What she is, is over stimulated with male attention. She’s got 30 texts from 30 dudes. If she hasn’t recognized you as different from the rest then she’s not interested and that is okay. There’s more females in the world move on. Accept and enjoy rejection, be a wanderer and be charismatic. Don’t linger. A 30 second witty and cute conversation will be more memorable to her then trying to force a 30 min conversation in the bar for instance where she struggles to hear you anyway. Be quick be witty and move to the next. Build a little jealousy and play the game she likes to see you play. She has enough fanboys, she wants the quick witty gentleman who’s talking all the other girls up and not making her feel special. The chase is fun and she loves to chase. It’s a constant tug and pull. So take it slow and have fun with it and enjoy life, don’t overthink it or take it too seriously. Better to live a short and fun life than to live a life where they’d blend together.
@nikoyaps
@nikoyaps 23 күн бұрын
Based
@coulsonknight
@coulsonknight 23 күн бұрын
Good read, but learn to space out your sentences next time.
@adriannd
@adriannd 21 күн бұрын
good lord dude that’s a lot of
@lemonleaks3672
@lemonleaks3672 23 күн бұрын
hey niko, I love your videos and I find them very helpful, and my question is how do you deal with overthinking and anxiety? I struggle a lot with this
@GamerVB1539
@GamerVB1539 23 күн бұрын
First off: The "get a scale" shit got me dying lmao Second: Yeah I get the want for a girlfriend. Eats at me too, but you gotta realize that the girl or woman you want should incite a side of you that you're too insecure or anxious to let out. Like for me, there's this girl that is challenging me to be more creative. I've had these wonderous ideas that I think would be neat, but never had an outlet or success in doing them. When I hang out with her and see that she does these arts & crafts that actually look cool, it makes me think that "hey, this is something that I share with her." It isn't exactly the same, but the concept is similar. So, I try to be creative in my own way to try to extend that connection that we have. Not to sound corny, but it's a beautiful thing to share a connection through hobbies, even if it's things that are mundane.
@BruhMoment-bs9qc
@BruhMoment-bs9qc 20 күн бұрын
you should do a video about "Moving on" whether it be grief or a break up
@columbuspatriot51
@columbuspatriot51 22 күн бұрын
Great Video. Really cleared things up. Thanks Niko 😊
@ExorcistQlawy
@ExorcistQlawy 22 күн бұрын
hi niko, my question is kinda similar to what ragesamuraiX asked, so my parents are abusive, and whenever i'm doing something productive they simply don't want it, not only do they bring me down but they forcefully stop me, i kind of ended up only turning to relationships because they made me feel like i actually had a family. currently i'm just trying to be prepared for my future but they're really stopping me at all times and this is just destroying me, i can't feel happy right now or feel prepared for my future either
@acilicitbones
@acilicitbones 23 күн бұрын
I love your channel man! 💯🔥 Not many KZfaqrs are as open, genuine, honest, and real as you. You're underrated as hell! 💯 (Keep up the amazing vids man! Never change, at least for the bad y'know lol)
@ProfessorPiggy9
@ProfessorPiggy9 23 күн бұрын
Hey niko! Got any advice for keeping consistent and building habits? How do you personally get yourself to "just do it"? I've been struggling to cultivate habits that I know I need to develop yet fail regardless, any advice would be greatly appreciated. Love your videos, keep it up.
@willabytes
@willabytes 19 күн бұрын
Interesting to hear! In Sweden it's quite uncommon that you ask people something along the lines of "Do you wanna go on a date with me?", and instead just get to know her more and more, get closer and closer, and then naturally become a couple. I prefer that to dating being the dominant form. Could just be because it's what I'm to lol.
@harrisonwood-heath716
@harrisonwood-heath716 21 күн бұрын
love this new format niko :)
@TV-MA.x_x.
@TV-MA.x_x. 23 күн бұрын
Rookie mistake. Find a boyfriend instead.
@nikoyaps
@nikoyaps 23 күн бұрын
True
@David-ty6my
@David-ty6my 23 күн бұрын
Idk that's kinda guy isn't it?
@coulsonknight
@coulsonknight 23 күн бұрын
@@David-ty6mythat is guy, you are correct.
@David-ty6my
@David-ty6my 22 күн бұрын
@@coulsonknight I swear I typed gay and it autocorrected
@casualkris4806
@casualkris4806 21 күн бұрын
​@@David-ty6my No, no, pretend it was the intended way.
@sxoul_
@sxoul_ 23 күн бұрын
Hey Niko or anyone who reads this, my friend says that he wants to work part time as a highschooler, and I personally support him, heck I might even try it myself but I don't really know much about work, neither does he. Our parents don't remember how they felt entering the working industry so we don't have anyone to give us advice. I've seen your other video where someone asked about a similar question but I feel like we're in different situations where he's entering full time while we're only students right now. What are the benefits of working as a student? Is it worth it? Will we get treated differently? How should I pick where I want to work? Too many questions and I really don't know where to begin. I'd really appreciate any advice.
@dxqth
@dxqth 23 күн бұрын
Hey niko, I went to a party today and felt so out of place. I have really bad social anxiety and often don’t know what to say to fill conversation which leads to awkward pauses. I feel less than everyone else and I feel like I’m just not meant to be there but I really want to be a more likable and sociable person
@sirdefaultus
@sirdefaultus 22 күн бұрын
hi niko, I recently discovered your channel and it is like finding out you have a little fortune in your cellar. days finally don't feel like mindless wandering through time and space because there is some place I view as a safe space, that being your youtube channel. i wanted to ask if you could do an episode about friendships. i am at a new school and being an overthinker it was pretty rough handling friendships. primarly because my friends and i just don't have the same thoughts and opinions which pisses me off but if i wouldn't talk to them i would have noone to talk to. i know this is long and probably won't get the same attention as another comments but still I hope you read this.
@awynaa3155
@awynaa3155 22 күн бұрын
Question time! I've always been a very curious person. I've always found it interesting to delve into a plethora of topics which are foreign to me. However nice that might sound, I actually feel that it is stopping me from truly investing myself into one of them and finding "my thing". Have you been in that situation before and if yes how do you recommend getting out of it and settling down for a "home-base" topic/activity. Keep up the great work!
@NETHER_NINJA
@NETHER_NINJA 22 күн бұрын
Mabey learning is "your thing"? What kinds of topics do you like researching?
@nes2ouf
@nes2ouf 16 күн бұрын
hey niko, i have a simple question for you do you recommend socializing on discord ?
@brunobc537
@brunobc537 23 күн бұрын
The video that I needed. Keep the great videos Niko!
@DuplexIty1421
@DuplexIty1421 21 күн бұрын
man your videos deserve more views, actual life tips
@RafikDjider
@RafikDjider 21 күн бұрын
I love your content and the way that you see things i need more channels like yours
@gamerzbuiltdiff
@gamerzbuiltdiff 22 күн бұрын
hey niko, i found this channel recently and been enjoying the content. im 18 right now and i feel as if im running away from something only to lead me into something new. im finishing up high school and im honestly scared for what the future has in store for me but i want to feel confident about it. what is something that you do that keeps your confidence on a high?
@IsolatedPegasus
@IsolatedPegasus 23 күн бұрын
Hi nico as a 18 year old going to 19 i been thinking since im mainly a car guy i wasnt sure what i wanted to do im overall a indecisive person when it comes to simple things but when it came to what i wanted to purse it was either i wanted to work at Toyota industries or become a race car driver and have that feeling of focus and driving style i would love to have some advice on what i should do because at least im aware that both sides has its down sides and ups especially when it comes to romance (ps i had a gf once but dumped her)
@katume7156
@katume7156 23 күн бұрын
Hi i feel the struggle man, i get older and older, already in my 20s and still no girlfriend. Nothing, not even a kiss. I tried several dating apps and I got matches and even a few dates. But when I had dates they were mentally ill or the conversations were just not flowing. Also the reality is as a man you get ghosted by women 90%+ times on dating apps. Its a game you barely can win. And if not dating apps, what else? Having reallife connections would be great but not everyone is blessed with good friends or a community where you can meet women And something else, don't just wait for love, DO something. For women it works, they can wait, but not for men
@jazzylev
@jazzylev 22 күн бұрын
eh. as a bi woman i’ve also been ghosted plenty-a-time on dating apps. it’s really just a personality thing imo. society is more self-centered these days as an inherent result of the way it operates. luckily i eventually found the most amazing selfless person with the best character you’ll ever see but it’s hard to find people, men or women, that are truly like that nowadays.
@iiCounted-op5jx
@iiCounted-op5jx 19 күн бұрын
I'm 18 and I don't think it's even worth trying, I accept single life
@65FM1Edits
@65FM1Edits 23 күн бұрын
8:09 I never realized how much you say "Okay", and, not to be that guy, but there're 8 billion now. W advice though, seriously.
@ArcticArua
@ArcticArua 23 күн бұрын
Love isn’t something you can find; it finds you. As a bi guy, it's difficult to find the right person, especially since women are hard to come across in the furry fandom, and many men, like myself, tend to keep to themselves. I've been single for almost a year, and I deeply yearn for love. I want it now, but I know that good things come in their own time.
@plainbubble
@plainbubble 23 күн бұрын
Lol no
@Ghosty6464
@Ghosty6464 23 күн бұрын
@@plainbubble Unironic Homelander pfp be like
@P_I_G_G_A
@P_I_G_G_A 23 күн бұрын
Bros playing on both teams and loosing lmao
@youcefsiouda
@youcefsiouda 12 күн бұрын
Why not go for an animal ? Since you act like one and have the same iq 😅
@verbose9062
@verbose9062 7 күн бұрын
Yeah I hate to break it to you but like 95%+ of women wouldn't touch a furry with a 10 foot pole
@333productionsorsmth
@333productionsorsmth 22 күн бұрын
Hi Niko, from the young age I have really great relations with women, but I really can't push these relationships further. My female friends say that I'm very good friend. I don't know if it is rejection, it's like I can't be anything more. I don't consider myself unatractive but still I'm scared of asking out for a date and getting rejected. What would you recomend for me? Going for it? I'm scared that rejection in this situation can destroy our friendship. Sorry for bad english and have a great day.
@Frosty_MC
@Frosty_MC 23 күн бұрын
Love the new thumbnail style!
@gchamberlain71
@gchamberlain71 23 күн бұрын
Hey man been watching you since pre 1000 subs. I am dealing with motivation issues at the moment. I have a lot good in life but know I can do better things but never want to do it. What advice do you have with this
@jpp01
@jpp01 23 күн бұрын
My advice to you is, don’t rely on motivation for anything. Life isn’t about motivation, it’s abut discipline, it’s about doing things even when you don’t feel like it, which is about 80% of the time.
@Tr3n_Motivation
@Tr3n_Motivation 23 күн бұрын
Just came home from a really great workout, thanks for this video bro, made my day even better!
@yolojolo1957
@yolojolo1957 19 күн бұрын
Is it weird that I’m 22 and still live with my parents and don’t want to move out? Seeing other people moving out at 18 and 20 years old, it feels weird to me and I just don’t get it.
@keeone20
@keeone20 22 күн бұрын
ngl youtube revealed a hidden gem to me randomly,your content is fun to listen to.
@BaumBapfel
@BaumBapfel 22 күн бұрын
I'm currently 19, and will be turning 20 this November. After a ending my relationship with my ex-girlfriend in september last year, I just seem to struggle to move on from it. The relationship itself was the most beautiful thing I had and it lasted for over 2 years. In the end of the relationship, it felt like we were slowly losing contact and she wanted to stop talking about many things that would've helped to keep the relationship going. I struggle a lot to realize that there were a lot of red flags like this and that it's better for me to be without her in my life, but I can't forget all the beautiful moments I had with her, be it the cuddle sessions at 2 am after having a deep conversation with her or the awesome dates we had at the beach. Ever since the relationship ended, I struggle with self-doubt because everything that lead to the end of the relationship has to do with me not being enough for her, making it hard for me to love myself and the stuff I do. Since I can't seem to get over the relationship, I'm not able to start a new one. Do you think that starting a new relationship at this point even makes sense?
@jazzylev
@jazzylev 19 күн бұрын
i’ve been in basically that exact same boat (high school relationship ending freshman year of college. same timeline and ages too) and yeah, pursuing a relationship right now would not be in your best interest. it sounds cheesy as hell but genuinely i learned it’s best to learn to love yourself first. be patient with yourself. understand that you’re enough for yourself and any person worth your time will see your value. this doesn’t mean be stuck up or selfish; on the contrary humility is necessary too. but don’t solely derive your opinions on yourself from other people, make judgements of yourself and understand where they’re coming from and if they’re helpful. no one is perfect and you may have areas you genuinely want to improve in; those are the only critical judgements you should accept, and still remain loving and patient and kind towards yourself in that process.
@BaumBapfel
@BaumBapfel 19 күн бұрын
@@jazzylev Thanks a lot for your advice. Self-improvement and trying to focus more on myself and what I want in life has been my goal in the past 1-2 months. I struggle a lot and get thrown back to where I was quite often, but I truly believe it's the best way to get over this situation. I hope you are surrounded by a lot of good friends that support you in these tough times, just like my friends have and still do. In the end, no matter how hard it's going to be to get through this, if we try hard enough, it's going to work out in the end. :)
@jazzylev
@jazzylev 19 күн бұрын
@@BaumBapfel thank you so much! yes, i am so lucky to have supportive friends and family and i don't know where i would be without them. and i have the same experience, my progress never feels linear and it feels like i take steps backward often. but there is still valuable progress being made and i believe as long as we don't give up we'll end up in a good place where we can be at peace with ourselves. i hope everything goes well for you, friend, you've got this :)
@jackoman688
@jackoman688 23 күн бұрын
Hey niko! A few months ago my best friend and I had a falling out, we haven't talked since and likely never will. The friendship ended because I became a toxic friend without realizing it and started depending emotionally on this person way too much. I was wondering how you would deal with feelings of guilt and regret and trying to accept being completely in the wrong in a relationship.
@Team109speedy-xl6bz
@Team109speedy-xl6bz 22 күн бұрын
hey Niko, im 14 and im falling behind a lot in school im from Australia and already 30 days behind i find it so hard to find the confidence to go to school and talk to people i hate the learning and people and im just lost could you give me some advice?
@lukedaly990
@lukedaly990 23 күн бұрын
Hi Niko, I feel like I spend my days doing nothing inside playing video games watching as life goes past me, part of me feels like I'm wasting my life, but the other part feels comfortable and happy in this state. I guess my question is, should I be ok with being blissfully detached from reality if it brings me joy?
@MadGamer1337
@MadGamer1337 23 күн бұрын
Question 1: You're young still, work on your confidence in the meantime, the ladies will come to you eventually. And have a lady that cares deeply about you, don't get those ladies that just want you for your middle part and for your deep pockets and looks. There are women interested in that stuff only, they'll ruin you. Find a lady that's being sent by the angels, not by the devils. Women sent by the devils will ruin you as this is the 2nd time I am mentioning women ruining you. My sister not long ago told me that if I were blue eye'd, I'm black haired, she wouldn't let any lady get close to me. Also, communication is important. Don't be a creep during communication, but do be outgoing in conversations. Initiate it. I'm an introvert, and I just can't bring myself to initiate conversations unless I'm forced to, but even then, that's a rare sight to see from me. I mainly talk about stuff I'm interested in, and only focus on those. I'm still young myself, I'm not working to find a girl I want to love, I'll let her come to me. I'll just work on myself in the meantime.
@thebigdog8284
@thebigdog8284 22 күн бұрын
Hi niko! I’m 20, My question is, how do I deal with my best friends having girlfriends? One is 26 and the other is 34, and this year they both gotten new girlfriends and I’m happy for them but I feel like they dont have any time for me like they once did. I’m struggling to accept all of this and it’s been making me upset, they’re both aware of it and one is trying to give me his time but the other isn’t really giving me his time. The 34 year old is closer with the 26 year old than me. Do you have any advice with this? Thanks
@BLOCK_MASTER
@BLOCK_MASTER 22 күн бұрын
Hey, i'm a 17 year old homeschooler and i feel like i have failed at life as a teen. I'm extremely far back in school, I've never been to a party or get together, And I've never had a girlfriend let alone someone I can call a friend in my entire life. The only way of social interaction i get is going to church and practicing taekwondo. My dream job is to become a 3D animator and i'm trying my best with animation on KZfaq at the moment but i know thats just a dream because I'll never have the skill to achieve what other animators can. I'm trying to learn a trade like welding at the moment because i know i won't be able to get into college with my current state of education but i don't know if I'm making the right decisions with trying to learn a trade just because it pays a lot. Thanks for reading this. love your videos and have a great day.
@NETHER_NINJA
@NETHER_NINJA 21 күн бұрын
Im not Niko but here's my advice dude Firstly, nothing is really a failure if you can learn something from it, you can't change the past but you can build the future. Secondly, you don't need school to be a 3D animater on youtube, you could take courses or learn online. Next, if you wanna get invited to parties or get togethers then you gotta make friends but party's are overhyped tbh. Next, if you want more "social interactions" and chances to make friends then try to join more clubs and make an effort to talk to everyone you see even just saying "hi" to people as you pass them on the street, practice makes better. Next, being a 3D animater is only "just a dream" if you decide that it is, your probably comparing yourself to people with alot more experience than you, you will get alot better if you keep at it. And finally, I don't think you should do welding just because of the pay, but of course you gotta eat so you could do welding part time while you work on achieving your real goals. Hope it helps Let me know if you have any questions or if my advice sucks
@BLOCK_MASTER
@BLOCK_MASTER 21 күн бұрын
@@NETHER_NINJA thanks I’m glad someone is finally listening to my question
@NETHER_NINJA
@NETHER_NINJA 21 күн бұрын
​@@BLOCK_MASTER Np, let me know if you have any questions
@jrowzie
@jrowzie 23 күн бұрын
hey niko, wanted to start off by saying i love the way you love to give advice. i live for that. but i wanted to ask about if i should worry about my life after school. ive been pulled out of school countless times to do homeschool, and then i always get put back into school, and then its a repeat. and ive just never seemed to do good in school with any of the schools ive been to, and even my homeschool life. ive learned basically nothing in the past 7 years and i dont think ill graduate. the only reasons ive passed my grades is because i end the year off in homeschool. do you think ill go homeless because i wont get a diploma?
@fishtrick1_
@fishtrick1_ 23 күн бұрын
probably will tbh
@zqria
@zqria 22 күн бұрын
Don't worry too much. I was homeschooled my entire life, you can just get a homeschooler's diploma. I did and I am just now finishing up EMT (ambulance medic) school with great grades... even though I got almost no biology/medical education from homeschool. And even if worst comes to worst and you're unable to get into school for anything (that 99% won't happen), you could join the military (would only recommend if you live in a western country). My point is that you probably don't have too much to worry about, I made it so you should too.
@Clayton-yd9vk
@Clayton-yd9vk 9 күн бұрын
Hey Niko really like your videos. I really think it’s nice that you take a step further into helping people that are in need I love that👍🏻. Im 17 and I’m in high school. But me and my girlfriend are having problems. We don’t really agree on much things. But as of lately, she hasn’t really been showing much energy or affection as she used to and she just acts like she doesn’t really wanna talk to me ever when we do talk. And I talked with her about it and she said that the reason she doesn’t show much energies because she’s just comfortable with talking to me. But she shows so much energy to her friend and they have been friends for two years and she shows her lots of energy and just be outgoing. But I feel like whenever it comes to me she doesn’t wanna talk ever or just brushes off everything I say with “ok” idk how to get her talking to me normally again?
@sithikunit
@sithikunit 22 күн бұрын
Hey there niko! Love your content. I started KZfaq in late 2020 and in 2024, I haven’t been growing all that much, I do enjoy the process and started uploading more consistently but I’m not getting to where I want to be with KZfaq. Basically another income stream and since I enjoyed it, I will try and continue making content on KZfaq.
@RyujiJames
@RyujiJames 23 күн бұрын
hey niko, I am 16 getting over a breakup recently. Anymore things you can talk about in a different video? Like your journey of moving on and learning how to live life as someone outside of a relationship again? Also what your thoughts about being "just friends" with your ex again is.
@reflex3569
@reflex3569 23 күн бұрын
If you got dumped, being just friends with your ex is hard, but if you can imagine her and see her with another guy doing everything you wanted to do with her and not feel pain then you probably can be friends. still I do not recommend - talking from experience
@RyujiJames
@RyujiJames 22 күн бұрын
​@@reflex3569appreciate the insight good sir.
@ChickenNuggieDev
@ChickenNuggieDev 6 күн бұрын
I've never personally had this problem because girls usually come to me, even when I think of myself as a below average looking guy. Like the girl who rejected me a year or two ago told me straight up that she wouldn't mind giving me another chance and actually liked me but that was after I gave up chasing her and treated her like I would treat anyone else. I think you shouldn't be afraid to talk to girls but treat them like people and be kind with no other motives or intentions and they'll come flocking to you. But I don't know how I do it maybe I'm just an outlier but I treat everyone like everyone else whilst being kind with no intention of gaining anything from them.
@martinmora2173
@martinmora2173 21 күн бұрын
Hello Nico, the thing is the following. From some experiences I feel that because I am a boy I cannot express my feelings because they would be ridiculed and not taken seriously. What should I do about that?
@_Valitha_
@_Valitha_ 23 күн бұрын
is it weird to say slay extremely excessively ? 🤯 edit: wow you cannot stop speaking facts niko woaah, why are u literally able to speak exactly to how i feel on everything
@guyonyoutubee
@guyonyoutubee 23 күн бұрын
yes
@Simbpilot
@Simbpilot 23 күн бұрын
yes
@FreezeMango-BlazeLychee
@FreezeMango-BlazeLychee 23 күн бұрын
no, slay queen
@_Valitha_
@_Valitha_ 23 күн бұрын
@@FreezeMango-BlazeLychee SLAAAY GIRLLLL
@SeraJanelle
@SeraJanelle 18 күн бұрын
3:20 "spawned in" 😂
@javacrow_
@javacrow_ 22 күн бұрын
Hi niko, I'm 16 so pretty young age to work on big projects but I wanna start one, and I don't know if I have ADHD but I always seem to lose my way whenever I want to be productive, and I just don't know how to keep going to stay more motivated, I also just always end up getting distracted and it sucks, how could I stay on track to work on things?
@micahblah4620
@micahblah4620 23 күн бұрын
One thing niko taught me was “you can’t go looking for someone if you can’t offer anything besides your own personal issues, you have to find someone with mutual interest “
@egoistausfun9413
@egoistausfun9413 12 күн бұрын
Just some stuff I would like to say about giving advices to someone: For this I will pick out the "asking a girl out"-example. The most common advice is "worst she can say is no". Well thats rly not true. For me it was a lie even. I remember when I was at uni, I had a low self-confidence. At the beginning of uni it was rly bad but it got better and better with time. And yeah I was just to shy to talk to new people at all. But I still met some and they are my friends till today. Whatever there was a situation at a party, where I saw a girl I rly like how she looked. And I told it to my friend. He made me to ask her for her number. Well I hesitated first, but then I did. To make it short, she rejected politely and I was felt a bit bad. Well... the problem after that was, that my brain somehow made it like a trauma. I regret asking this girl since that day. It also shattered my slef-confidence a lot. Fortunately I recovered from it and have an even better self-confidence today. But I still regret the decision of asking a random girl out. From this I learned that you should work on yourself first until you are actually ready for anything like a relationship. Just following advices blindly is also wrong. Keep that in mind guys!
@tdsunspoken5185
@tdsunspoken5185 23 күн бұрын
hey niko, im about to end school, going into the 8th grade. i just got in a relationship but she will be gone for the summer in Puerto Rico while ill be all over the place in terms of traveling so we will both be very busy. im wondering, how would you go through this long distance thing for the summer?
@ciuwandy9238
@ciuwandy9238 23 күн бұрын
In the start we all ask "What is love?" In the end we say "Baby don't hurt me, no more"
@shin.-.2521
@shin.-.2521 22 күн бұрын
Hey nico, I'm currently 16 about to turn 17 i have been going through a whole lot of medical problems which has put a lot on my mind. ive forgotten almost everything i have learned in school as of now im probably at a grade 5 level of academic learning. i know i need to do school but i lose all motivation as soon as i try and sit down to do it. do you have any advice? im home schooled btw
@JayxBeTrippin
@JayxBeTrippin 23 күн бұрын
Love your videos bro
@infernoonig4431
@infernoonig4431 23 күн бұрын
niko im a failing freshman in highschool and i dont know if i want to go to college or not. a lot of adults have told me that i should go to college and get a degree so i can have a comfortable life. I find it difficult to accept this as i have always dreamed of being a lot more wealthier and I currently want to make a living from stocks. I don't know if im saying this just because im really lazy or i actually want to be more successful in life. What should i do?
@Eight_Whisperin
@Eight_Whisperin 23 күн бұрын
Skibidi toilet is my partner in life, it is all i need, and it is all i ever wished for.
@user-qz9lb4rs7k
@user-qz9lb4rs7k 23 күн бұрын
W
@slenshye9876
@slenshye9876 23 күн бұрын
I'm so happy for you. I wish you all the best with them
@emreeryurt9758
@emreeryurt9758 23 күн бұрын
What you chase, will go away.
@GrootBe8r
@GrootBe8r 23 күн бұрын
Always a great day when niko posts
@guyonyoutubee
@guyonyoutubee 23 күн бұрын
love your videos niko
@bonus1085
@bonus1085 22 күн бұрын
Hey Niko, I'm currently 15 and have a girlfriend, our relationship is going semi-okay but I'm always screwing things up. Idk what causes me to say the things I say but it's starting to get in the way of everything. I'm scared of breaking up with her. I truly love her at the bottom of my heart but Idk how to deal with myself. Do you have any advice for me?
@xai204
@xai204 23 күн бұрын
Hey Niko I’m trying to figure out what to do. I recently graduated from high school and I’m currrently talking to a girl I could see myself with long term. The feeling seems mutual and our colleges will only be 30 minutes away but I’m having a hard time coming to a conclusion on whether or not to pursue this. Any words would help a lot thanks.
@gryzboy9741
@gryzboy9741 11 күн бұрын
11:03 "More than be scared to die you should be scared to not live" ~ Someone idk
@Mr.DND-0
@Mr.DND-0 9 күн бұрын
LIVE YOURS💯
@rafaelboentaran1341
@rafaelboentaran1341 9 күн бұрын
This guy is underrated wtf
@alexbamier2194
@alexbamier2194 23 күн бұрын
I'm 23 and had been single my whole life.I hit the gym,play sport,go to many social event and graduate college.Yet I wasn't able to find not even one girl who willing to date me.
@SvengelskaBlondie
@SvengelskaBlondie 22 күн бұрын
I think when it comes to "wanting to be like Mr Beast", it doesn't necessarily mean they want to do the stuff he does. I suspect they mean more they want to have the same fame and success as Mr Breast. While he was dominating KZfaq, the amount of just raw obsession of youtube isn't something I would ever want to replicate (I think it's not healthy to focus that much at something)..
@lulmanlulman
@lulmanlulman 22 күн бұрын
off topic but do u use a controller in mc java cuz head movement seems controller like
@lex9fy
@lex9fy 23 күн бұрын
hi nico, i am going to start college in a year and a bit from now, but i would like to move countries before i do due to the amount of shit people there are (ireland), but i have grants that make college free and increase my chance of getting into college, but they only apply in ireland, and i would like to use them. what would you suggest i do? also i love your content, thank you
@Leon-my6jq
@Leon-my6jq 23 күн бұрын
Bro is saying "im only 5'7" bro im 5'4 what im i supposed to do 💀
@iiCounted-op5jx
@iiCounted-op5jx 19 күн бұрын
do you want a blackpill answer?
@Leon-my6jq
@Leon-my6jq 19 күн бұрын
@@iiCounted-op5jxYea
@MalLazyboy
@MalLazyboy 23 күн бұрын
Ive just accepted im gonna die alone it is what it is for me but I hope yall find the love you deserve
@epic_paul27
@epic_paul27 21 күн бұрын
I have the same problem so im trying to talk to people more.
@Bammyy
@Bammyy 23 күн бұрын
Don't get a gf, a lot of them are self-centered and only want the best for themselves - some past experience.
@eatthis8924
@eatthis8924 23 күн бұрын
I don't want to seem like an Incel but it genuinely seems like in today's society that a majority of women are changing for the worst, I think I'm losing more and more hope the more I see modern woman's perception on men as a whole, makes me not even want to approach a girl at all, and also makes me feel like I'll most likely just remain alone for the rest of my life. I'm 22 years old and have experienced far less than most that are my age, so I don't really know if I should be talking.
@jazzylev
@jazzylev 22 күн бұрын
as a woman that’s into women: i think overall i’ve noticed people are more self centered in general. like you say that about women but also the friends that i have who date men have struggled with self-centered men too. i think overall our world of hyper-individualism and social media lends itself to encouraging and highlighting people’s narcissistic tendencies. so i think overall it’s just harder for good selfless people to find each other because it’s growing to be so few and far between regardless of gender.
@mickeyjo10va37
@mickeyjo10va37 18 күн бұрын
Hi I’m a lesbian who also just got my heart gutted and destroyed by a woman. Here’s some advice: Both women and men suck. There are a lot of shallow women out there who expect men to pay for everything and treat them like wallets. There are a lot of crappy men out there who expect women to “put out” for them without respecting their wishes. The reason you only hear about the bad women/good men is because (I would assume) a lot of the people you’re close with or look up to are men. They’re telling stories about the bad women them and their friends have dated as well as the good things they’ve done. This is true of most women as well. Most of the people we are close to/respect are women and therefore we hear a lot about the good women/bad men. We’re not hearing each other’s stories. Because of this, we understand our perspectives and when someone of the opposite gender (speaking strictly in binaries) mentions something bad, we say “well have you considered this?” If you want proof, this actually happened to me as I was watching the above video. I disagreed with something Niko said and thought “well, have you considered the social implications of xyz?” Anyways tldr: dating sucks. Dating men and women brings different struggles. I won’t say which is easier because I haven’t experienced both, but I will wish you luck my friend.
@korpzmarcelfranca6825
@korpzmarcelfranca6825 15 күн бұрын
trauma must be treated
@ultimadum7785
@ultimadum7785 10 күн бұрын
​@@eatthis8924 I think an important distinction to make is that the way "women act nowadays" is 99% coming from red-pill rage-bait videos, and really only exists online or for a very privileged type of woman. If you just practice having normal conversations with women you will quickly realize that they don't all act the way alpha male podcasters make you think they do.
@Claudiugh10
@Claudiugh10 23 күн бұрын
want to speak about falling in love with life?
@broncoxy
@broncoxy 22 күн бұрын
let bro cook fr
@floofypenguin
@floofypenguin 23 күн бұрын
Hey Niko, I noticed you said that you believe it's just lights out when we die. May i ask your history with Christianity? It's changed my life. So I encourage you, can you give Christianity a try for me. And I understand your doubts, I may be young but I was unsure about Christianity for a time in my life. So, could you give it a try for me? And don't be afraid to ask questions. Ask those questions, its worth it. I love your content btw, it's very insightful. Thanks for reading, hope you have a good day!
@jaromeltuzerad9267
@jaromeltuzerad9267 20 күн бұрын
TIL I'm older than Mr. niko. Phuck. Where my life gone, when all content creators I follow are younger than me. Anyway, thanks for the videos, sir, they are quite thought provoking.
@maril1
@maril1 23 күн бұрын
Hey, I'm a bit of a determinist. I came to this conclusion from studies, not a baseless belief. I think there are biological and enviornmental factors that set someone up for either sucess of failure. I wanted to ask, do you genuinely believe in the things you say? That pursuing your passion will lead you to success? That anyone can "make it"? I love your videos, and I don't mean to come off as accusatory. But are these things really that realistic?
@dahousegamer8895
@dahousegamer8895 23 күн бұрын
Can you help me pls, I always get rejected and ignored just because of my ethnicity
@NoahIsAqt
@NoahIsAqt 23 күн бұрын
Thanks dude!
@KazamaJ1n
@KazamaJ1n 20 күн бұрын
10:31 no way niko got destroyed.
@firupito.2l0oo71
@firupito.2l0oo71 22 күн бұрын
Thx Niko
@Anastasius38
@Anastasius38 23 күн бұрын
What do you think of the youtuber dbdr?
@pumpkinz-Roblox
@pumpkinz-Roblox 23 күн бұрын
8:21 --- There is actually 8 billion people now!
@2xYou_
@2xYou_ 23 күн бұрын
why do u say goodnight and good luck, i just finished dying light recently so im js now noticing u say that
@P_I_G_G_A
@P_I_G_G_A 23 күн бұрын
Im 16 and i clicked this video out of sheer boredom and im suprised that not everybody knows this, i mean its just logic
@legoal248
@legoal248 6 күн бұрын
Could've used this 4 days ago
@i_hate_losers
@i_hate_losers 23 күн бұрын
i hate it in my country, in our culture there's no dating only marriage and the parents have to pick your partner for you, it just sucks im so jealous of you 1st world countries
@RenatoRevisadas
@RenatoRevisadas 23 күн бұрын
I dunno if it helps but, when you get married, try to get along well with your partner alright? I think it's better to live with someone you at least tolerate
@i_hate_losers
@i_hate_losers 23 күн бұрын
​@@RenatoRevisadas yeah ik, all i can do is hope she's my type
@joel-jp2zg
@joel-jp2zg 22 күн бұрын
india?
@i_hate_losers
@i_hate_losers 22 күн бұрын
@@joel-jp2zg No, india is like that too? i thought they were way smarter
@joel-jp2zg
@joel-jp2zg 22 күн бұрын
@@i_hate_losers i mean they are shifting towards more into dating and getting to know each other before marriage but still there are some people here like you mentioned
@kkoreantrash
@kkoreantrash 22 күн бұрын
Niko I invested in a penny stock and it hasn’t gone up to 5 million dollars on the first trading day after my investment. This is absolutely terrible and if I don’t get the opinion of a professional Minecraft philosopher like yourself then I’m afraid I’ll be stuck in this terrible debt for the rest of my life. Please release me from this anguish.
@painuchiha2694
@painuchiha2694 20 күн бұрын
Advice seems Aight but I wouldn’t fish for compliments maybe just talk about things of interest and how are ya or small talk
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