Sadly, it's the lady who was pursuing the guy. He NEVER showed interest in her.
@fiddiggokirimi96302 жыл бұрын
Mag nam that was my thought. She was the one suggesting let go see my parents, am coming to your place, let do a small wedding. The Guy had no interest from word go. Plz let learn to observe n see red flags
@angulaaagula59262 жыл бұрын
No the guy is Criminals, Criminals actors make a woman to be on her by self The is Criminals
@magnam68072 жыл бұрын
@@fiddiggokirimi9630 💯
@sintoyiapulei91052 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your honest reply,, Yes,, I actually hated this lady coz,,i thing she kept the pregnacy to bring back that evil man. Lady,,you don't hv a kid with guy,, You hv a your own baby angle... You should hv concentrated with the baby ..not him.😢😢 You both ,never loved.this litle boy..i i'm crying..coz i feel so bad..ile toto went throu. Because of his own mother..who is just thinking of marriage..and keeping this man..for herself. Lady,you should hv given out the boy to be adapted.. Wewe uwende ukimbizane..na 'the lv of your life.." Who never gave a shit of you. Ai..so SAD! I should hv not listern to this.. Makes me so sad..what that kid went throu.
@esteleem17922 жыл бұрын
Waaaah ladies this is a lesson" don't ignore Red flags waa Aki these men......it is always good to listen to our parents
@favourd.blessings59032 жыл бұрын
I appreciate felister mueni for standing by me. Gal may God bless you so much for me 🙏❤️💗
@mylightiscomemaranatha.84832 жыл бұрын
She's so eloquent. Wow. Her boldness and facial expressions are just wow.
@favourd.blessings59032 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@favourd.blessings59032 жыл бұрын
@Kelly oigianber I don't have HIV virus..sell the herbal to the positive ones.
@reginadavid44542 жыл бұрын
Wooiy let us not ignore the red flag 🚩 guys especially ladies also taking someone back to your life you have to think 🤔 about some people come for a revenge 💔pole sana Damaris May God remember you
@bevelykadesh672 жыл бұрын
I won't judge you, because one thing i know, when you are Inlove you can do anything just to be with the person you love.... Hugs❤️
@estherkeru27172 жыл бұрын
Hii ilikua mapenzi ama ujinga, ladies let's learn to love ourselves
@damariszuckschwert94892 жыл бұрын
@@estherkeru2717 desperate house wife
@nugwafortunatus30832 жыл бұрын
I had never commented in any social media but this point hardly touch my soul,i have been in love so I know even if u see ten red flags u will still need that person it needs God mercy
@bevelykadesh672 жыл бұрын
@@nugwafortunatus3083 You are right... Unakuaga like"... Le me just give him another chance, maybe he'll change.... This life no balance😢
@bevelykadesh672 жыл бұрын
@@estherkeru2717 Uzuri ashajifunza.. She's not going back i guess
@bethwambui37152 жыл бұрын
If things don't flow am not there to force them,anything forced is not worth fighting for
@crazykids5779 Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯 💯
@malkiamusa2 жыл бұрын
One thing i am grateful for. I always listened to my mom regarding relationships and basically life when she was alive. I introduced my boyfriends to her and if she wasnt comfortable,i was done.
@maggierattz8552 Жыл бұрын
🤣
@lputaa Жыл бұрын
🤣
@vincentomondi56122 жыл бұрын
I like her English,, she is still beautiful
@joskyshams47582 жыл бұрын
Red flags from the word go. As a single person I'm picking my lessons.
@ritalukoowe51392 жыл бұрын
My God when u think you have problems u haven’t seen a thing yet, thank u for sparing me and my kids
@JUSTWANGUI2 жыл бұрын
Red flags from the beginning Ladies let's not force issues please.
@catherinekwamboka20652 жыл бұрын
It's always good to listen to your parents, thanks for sharing your story
@Millie-rm2wj2 жыл бұрын
Everything was so wrong from the word go. Ladies never be desperate for a relationship when it's clear the man is not interested some of the signs here were so obvious the man was not inlove or ready to settle
@cindy85882 жыл бұрын
True
@ritalukoowe51392 жыл бұрын
Preach it sista
@viv254queen52 жыл бұрын
Please say it again!
@EstellNEssy2 жыл бұрын
Partly is because it has been hammered into our brains that we need a husband. So when a guy shows the slightest attention we start building a house, children in it, and a happily ever after!
@stellalawrence28472 жыл бұрын
She took herself to the man's place introduced herself as a friend ,forced the man to visit her parents ,suggest that they wed .from the word go she was in a relationship alone and loved a man who never felt the same
@kmipos2 жыл бұрын
That man didn't love you but unfortunately you couldn't see it,he was a liar irresponsible and foolish,l hope you are worlds apart with him
@loisegitau48972 жыл бұрын
I don't know why many good girls end up loving bad guys. Bad guys have a way if confusing many straight forward ladies.
@Tuko2 жыл бұрын
Watch out for part two tomorrow, Wednesday at 9am
@esteleem17922 жыл бұрын
Anticipating
@yasminfarah10272 жыл бұрын
She said " I started seeing red flag after he started cheating" Girl the whole beginning of your relationship was red flag. Im sorry you didn't see.
@janengari95472 жыл бұрын
You are right, from the day he told her that she cant visit, i think she was too blind
@viv254queen52 жыл бұрын
She was blind in love. Saw the red flags very very late
@gakiijkinyua27532 жыл бұрын
She was Soo desperate ...am Soo mad nkt!
@joskyshams47582 жыл бұрын
Damaris, thanks for sharing your story. You are saving some souls out here. Thanks for sharing everything that you were going through. There's hope.
@favourd.blessings59032 жыл бұрын
True. Somewill will be saved
@crocodilemasala79562 жыл бұрын
You should have listened to your mum, she read the signs earlier than you. Some men will never mature.
@Jane-on4ec2 жыл бұрын
parents and especially mother's were born psychologist, the unique things they see waaaaaa. Thanks for sharing your story I believe it helps someone outside here. Red flags are rarely felt when one is in love.
@jacdez35202 жыл бұрын
When you’re pregnant by a man and he lives with you does that mean he is your husband? I hear women claiming this quite often in Africa. He needs to be yours by legal means so you may have security for your baby especially.
@maasaimkisii90892 жыл бұрын
*TRUE MAN AND WOMAN COMES FROM GOD*
@maggiemasai15062 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful girl with low self esteem.
@bettychebitok45932 жыл бұрын
Sorry sis, indeed being madly in love can make somebody ignore everything kabisa.
@janengari95472 жыл бұрын
Haki you were forcing things from the beginning, thats the biggest mistake you did
@gakiijkinyua27532 жыл бұрын
Talk of being informed of her husband's status and she still take it lightly 😳😳😳 atymes l don't understand women nowonder sometimes God is quiet on us... aaaai 77 red flags and your still blind 🤔🤔🤔🤔
@veronicanashtaria74032 жыл бұрын
This is painfull story 😭😭 Let God protect us
@YvonneKawiraTuko2 жыл бұрын
She's a strong lady.
@maggierattz8552 Жыл бұрын
A good Talk many lessons. I love the gentle spirit in Vyonne. She give the guest sufficient space to talk.
@joskyshams47582 жыл бұрын
Fellow Kenyans, the only thing we're supposed to force is the key gates not relationships.
@auntmso2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@georginamakena16602 жыл бұрын
Nywele ya Yvonne iko sawa
@YvonneKawiraTuko2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@georginamakena16602 жыл бұрын
@@YvonneKawiraTuko si rahisi wemen wacomment hiyo comment ,na wanaona,they assume kama mtu amebarikiwa ugakira Niki🤔
@YvonneKawiraTuko2 жыл бұрын
@@georginamakena1660 hahaha Make mwari wetu. Wi nkoro mbega. Asante sana dada
@vallerymoraa78192 жыл бұрын
God will guide you through ,,, it's not your fault to love but what i am sure is that God will pay him as he deserves , keep pushing it cause you're winning
@bluebrown55662 жыл бұрын
I do feel sorry for people but I just don't understand how she could overlook all the red flags! This guy did not marry her neither did he pay dowry and he never paid rent and as if its not enough he told you that he was not ready to be a father, why would you continue living with him and even allowing him to be violent in your home?
@meg-iv1sw2 жыл бұрын
You got a good point I think it’s pure foolishness and naive ..we got to use common sense ata kama ni mapenzi haiiiii..tuache kuchukuliwa utoto na ujinga na wanaumne…tujipende kwanza…
@gakiijkinyua27532 жыл бұрын
Some women are just sick in there heads ...like who does that even the most desperate idiot can not go that far nkt ! Amenibore
@censuskingbonface70022 жыл бұрын
I am lacking words .........Mungu ni WA maajabu
@tabithanamayi91722 жыл бұрын
Sanaaa
@iswinfred86312 жыл бұрын
No one is talking about her house manager 🤷🤷May God bless her..... This is so painful story pole sana wa Musyi
@milliemillen11312 жыл бұрын
I'm mad at you now☹️..... One phonecall is enough for you to run for your son even without asking permission at work
@sintoyiapulei91052 жыл бұрын
Exactly ,,but instead..she cadl..the so called baby daddy..coz that is not her husband.
@gw77682 жыл бұрын
Kwani how am I designed, from the first few lies to how she is received at his place, I would not even have bothered. I would have looked for a kiosk, drink tea and go home in peace. A man who is serious does homework on how parents are visited. The day you find yourself managing that process Pls laugh 😂 Ati when did u start seeing red flags? 😂😂😂😂
@annkariuki5432 жыл бұрын
I know right
@lookbabes87102 жыл бұрын
Men men men Ladies be careful with this gender
@mentionedU2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Damaris for your story,God will never leave you,The man will face his consequences from God,God will punish him,though,we should not force love,let a man fight to get you and give him many many tests to know him before putting him in your life,most men are wicked,don't show a man that you love him even if u really love him,lnstead,show a man that you don't care and can live without him,the only person you should show him,is only your real respectful husband,who has given u respect from the begging(waiting for part two)
@favourd.blessings59032 жыл бұрын
Thanks dr..part two is already out
@gachugumaggy2 жыл бұрын
The story is heartbreaking,,, stay strong God got you❤
@favourd.blessings59032 жыл бұрын
One thing I always celebrate is God got my back
@zachariahmaithya65722 жыл бұрын
Mwa ngai. Although am not an angel, that guy was never serious. It's just by luck to get a partner who understands you. Marriages are built through patience.
@crocodilemasala79562 жыл бұрын
The mattress was worn out 😳
@africanawang26742 жыл бұрын
I'm surprised to hear that solid food was introduced after two years. Pole for the ordeal though
@madamboss87582 жыл бұрын
This princess she was soo cute on her graduation gown ohh my God pole mama even now u fearfully n wonderfully made🔥🔥🔥
@mamalao85742 жыл бұрын
Yvonne is becoming beautiful day after a day. Money is guduooooh🤣
@christabelmusila20212 жыл бұрын
Things women do for LOVE waaaaaaah
@vincentomondi56122 жыл бұрын
She so beautiful,, kamba girls are always beautiful and tall, especially the ones from kitui.
@miriammichael67592 жыл бұрын
@@vincentomondi5612 u can say that again 🥰🥰
@vincentomondi56122 жыл бұрын
@@miriammichael6759 it's true, kamba girls are always beautiful with natural beauty, tall and attractive..Their eyes are beautiful..
@carinekavul76262 жыл бұрын
She's so beautiful 😍
@winfredkatungwakathendu59762 жыл бұрын
Yvonne you look great hair style and everything
@determiner13129 ай бұрын
Life isnt fair,,good hearted persons mostly find monsters of the opposite gender..i felt for her
@winniemutuku58922 жыл бұрын
Aish, you really wanted a relationship/marriage that you forgot your worth
@annenjenga64093 ай бұрын
Wanaume kwani mnatakanga nini.? This lady is very beautiful
@DeeDee-lc5et2 жыл бұрын
God bless all the Women we really go through alot in silence😭😭
@favourd.blessings59032 жыл бұрын
Sure
@madambossnanahogutu82482 жыл бұрын
Gai Dama.... I remember you we used to live in mombasa .... with Akina Noleen ondiba, your siz n the crew... woi pole...
@favourd.blessings59032 жыл бұрын
Auh remind me haki
@dennisollasa63482 жыл бұрын
Reach her plz
@jdeejedida69232 жыл бұрын
@@favourd.blessings5903 woooiii pole sana
@favourd.blessings59032 жыл бұрын
@@jdeejedida6923 it's well mama
@favourd.blessings59032 жыл бұрын
@@pipipipi287 this is a testimony actually we should thank God
@b.39402 жыл бұрын
Why is there an obsession with marriage in African countries? I have 3 children by 3 different women, one Black American, one white, and one Kenyan and never married any of them. I raised all my United Nations kids as a single father and looking at all the marriage headaches I hear about in Kenya, I made the best decision. My children are now adults and think of me as an angel dad.
@aishaharuni29372 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏
@Sofia-dl9vw2 жыл бұрын
Not all marriages are like what you see in the media. I think it is good that Africans value marriage rather than just have women raising kids on their own like what you are suggesting. Children need stability except when it is abusive. But I also think that marriage for the sake of marriage is not worth it.
@Sofia-dl9vw2 жыл бұрын
@Queen TC I actually agree with all that you have said here. We sometimes go to extremes as Africans. I was just disagreeing with the other extreme where some cultures have children with different women and never marry them leaving women raising children on their own. We should meet somewhere in the middle I think.
@Sofia-dl9vw2 жыл бұрын
Some cultures do not advocate for marriage and guess who is on the losing end? I can assure you it is not the guys. I have seen many women in some of these cultures left alone without even the dads being in the picture. I prefer my African culture to that mentality. Marriage is good but it has to be healthy or people should just divorce, and Africans have to also accept divorce because women stay in violent relationships sometimes because the culture makes them stay, sometimes it is even the church. I agree that some things should change but we don't have to throw away our whole culture away.
@patiencemusyoka52892 жыл бұрын
Oh my God. I know her hapo around barazani 🥺😥... May God protect you Damaris
@favourd.blessings59032 жыл бұрын
Amen wamusyi
@janengota39022 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this
@joskyshams47582 жыл бұрын
I thought ladies who have fathers in their lives can do better when it comes to relationship. Haki mapenzi wewe 🙆
@brianmweda31312 жыл бұрын
It's not good to judge,unaweza jipata kwa hyo situation of which you will be seing things are normal, bt have courage.
@brianmweda31312 жыл бұрын
We as women lets learn that we can make it without men because some makes as to loosd'
@keango3519 Жыл бұрын
Its true...love truly blinds you😂
@sandraraini6195 Жыл бұрын
How does someone introduce you as a workmate and start forcing him to visit your parents and go forward ety you planning for a wedding
@victorianzembi92012 жыл бұрын
First one to comment 😂😃 Leo Nalala n viatu
@self-mademillionaire45192 жыл бұрын
All those red flags and you still went ahead and became pregnant for him.smh
@patiencetina29332 жыл бұрын
Never ignore redflags
@damarismwande14332 жыл бұрын
I cant judge u mwiitu wa mwaitu,theres a bright future ahead
@sophiekindem9071 Жыл бұрын
Pole sana, it's part of life👍🏽 part of growing too.. Sending you love and light 💕
@sophiekindem9071 Жыл бұрын
Mbona hujamalizia.. What happen?
@sallychepkosgei69232 жыл бұрын
You are beautiful and may God bless you.
@ireneatuke15812 жыл бұрын
Part two plz
@YvonneKawiraTuko2 жыл бұрын
Part two coming up tomorrow. Stay tuned
@margaretmueni2542 жыл бұрын
Nakisoma Kyukoothe aki kana wazembanitye na kia mwathani .
@zipporahthomas41362 жыл бұрын
My strong and beautiful inlaw ❤️❤️❤️ I love you so
@favourd.blessings59032 жыл бұрын
Thanks mum. God is great
@elizabethwacira25612 жыл бұрын
Hugs dearie .you don't deserve that life I must say you are so brilliant..it's never too late..just turn the page dama
@annwanjiru82252 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story. You have really encouraged me mum.
@fkbroadcastingnetwork17552 жыл бұрын
You saw all the red flags from the beginning but you ignored them and continued entertaining stupidity. That man was an apology from day one.
@annerose33102 жыл бұрын
Very beautiful woman she reminds me of my nutrition teacher she looks like her
@favourd.blessings59032 жыл бұрын
She is my sister ..madam Christine right?
@annerose33102 жыл бұрын
@@favourd.blessings5903 she is called peris
@favourd.blessings59032 жыл бұрын
@@annerose3310 oooh
@joseckwasike19742 жыл бұрын
l know Damaris she used to stay in Shanzu she was my friend
@mumjake76032 жыл бұрын
I think u are too negative my dear,it is true hiyo unaita mouth ulcers utibiwa hivyo,hakuna parent anaeza taka kuua mjukuu wake😥😥😥😥
@annewanjiku30162 жыл бұрын
😭hugs my sister Damaris
@deborahkasala85592 жыл бұрын
The way this story is going, something need to be done on the boy child. This man seems very out of touch with everything even how to be human.
@ritalukoowe51392 жыл бұрын
Part 2 please
@antoninahesatia16772 жыл бұрын
Yvonne love ur hair
@lucindadicked6222 жыл бұрын
Waiting for part 2
@doreenmbaya23842 жыл бұрын
From the word go the guy was not serious red flags all over.🤦
@suzzymhish12342 жыл бұрын
Whaat painful waiting part 2
@jirehchannelnetworks11802 жыл бұрын
Too many red flags ... You could have seen that coming tho
@bettiejoy-mtotowamama2 жыл бұрын
Part two 🙇♀️🙇♀️
@YvonneKawiraTuko2 жыл бұрын
Part two coming up tomorrow. Stay tuned
@Tuko2 жыл бұрын
Part two airs tomorrow at 9am Stay tuned and thank you for watching ❤️
@annendindareber75582 жыл бұрын
Waiting for part 2 please
@catherinenjeri59162 жыл бұрын
Red flags na mapenzi ni vitu mbili tafouti.... Sorry dear
@janemusyoki78462 жыл бұрын
Unaenda nyumbani kwa watu bila kusema😂you gat jokes
@janekariuki327 Жыл бұрын
Penye nimekuwa pissed off...nikuskia umeambiwa mtoi ni mgonjwa n unalala na unakula..ungeraukia huko
@kevineotieno31942 жыл бұрын
Kuja na nyama na maziwa ni common........Anyway God help us men..........
@lindaokaye2 жыл бұрын
I think all womens problem starts from men became before you get involved with a man you are doing great in life.
@ongeradaisy66972 жыл бұрын
Yes most of us our stories are, I met him and then.... mess after mess
@katrainbow50472 жыл бұрын
All women problems starts with women...women should love themselves more.....we sacrifice alot for relationships and we think with emotions instead of using our heads...
@simongitu73112 жыл бұрын
How could you ignore all those red flags from the word go surely!!!!.Am so angry with you right now🤣
@rachelhalima38042 жыл бұрын
Part two
@moketemabatla8527 Жыл бұрын
Next time please remember not to do switching with your language. We follow from different countries and sometimes do not really relate to the language.
@grandmaempiresecret2 жыл бұрын
Pole mama
@rubyheart3652 жыл бұрын
What happened to the subtitles in this video.
@antoninahesatia16772 жыл бұрын
Hug's Damaris
@janemusyoki78462 жыл бұрын
Na why didn't you go for your baby immediately..yaani wewe
@FamousBerry1392 жыл бұрын
How do you get shocked you're pregnant and you were sleeping with him, aaaaa leteni story ya kubamba hapa jameni. We need to hear how things turned black mambo ya mimba is out ulitaka mimba
@theresaelizabethelijah1172 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@maggien11192 жыл бұрын
This woman banange ,something was wrong with your head 😒
@tubutwiyya Жыл бұрын
Mwana gwe your right
@sharonnyawira5756 ай бұрын
Wewe you were the one forcing issues,he never loved you