Be thankful for that you experienced it. My mother experienced. ID I belong to a club that did not experience. But i'd love listening to your experience. Some sisters get that experience. Other sisters don't.

Oh yes he's a bottle of Valium but he's a true man of Valor I'm glad she was blessed with that experience he didn't bring things he bought himself and the rest was all Trinkets and trophies but she got him..... and all of him❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

I feel you my sister. But it's time to move on in life.change are thinking and let the pass be the pass.cause you cant change that.but you could change your thinking and move on.i feel one should fine happiness some where with the life you have left. If not the pass will take you out of this world from pressure.to live is to let live and the pass is the pass that we couldn't change know matter what.know matter what we say or feel.to be strong is to let go and move on in life.if not it's your life.we talk a bout so many things but to listen is the big thing.its time to move on and let the pass be.

Amen

Judge few women experience this kind of love. For someone to tell you let your pain be the be put in the past. That is the worst self righteous advice some could Give you. After all those Years of a wonderful life. Keep moving at your own Pace. And listen to positive People that love you Judge and there are so many of us Who are with you and truly love you Judge. She never knew love like this before. So she is a empty Barrel. And you know what they say about those."they Make the most noise. We got you.😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

He gave her reason to speak that well about him. You can't get that if you don't have those types of qualities as a man or shit a person. People speak of people who treat them genuinely well. You just haven't met that woman. The question is do you treat women well genuinely to receive that from your woman? And also some aren't broadcast so you will never know unless you change your circle of men and women.

Positive?

So he is dead?

​@@sinceredatruth be 6'1" and do nothing. Got ya 👍

Her hubby past away?

Treat yourself how you would treat your woman or man if you're gay.

One thing that helped me achieve my goals that might help you is look into the mirror every morning without fail and simply say, "I will achieve more today than I did yesterday." Don't expect big steps. It's a slow process. Keep on keeping on. Much love

My friend - 1 day at a time. Please take care of yourself

PTSD fkn sucks been 5 years suffering. Best thing is to always sleep as much as you can cuz you will lose control really quick if you don't. Also live second by second because overthinking can stress you so much that it affects your muscles, stomach ect. Much love homie. Hope you win all your battles

@@RegesDeorumOFFICIAL I feel so bad for my family sometimes because I average 4-5 hours a night max. You're so right. Lack of sleep will make you flip a switch so quick.

Fr imagine if the girl weighing 200+

That part.

​@xAGiiL3UnTiTL3D a gross soul weighs more than any person, get gone

@@xAGiiL3UnTiTL3DThat’s why chicks gotta watch the cakes and burgers. Weight is not just a number. 🤣

Amen

That can't be true

@@joshuaphillips4958have you lost ur mind. The internet is so delusional. How u read this and that’s what y come up with

@@smdd6751 you think a 94 year old man picked up a 92 year old woman

@@joshuaphillips4958 picked up? What are you talking about haha I’m pretty sure the comment is just saying his uncle was a good dude and good husband to his wife, cared about her feelings and they had strong love for each other. She also trusted him with her life. They likely were together for many decades What did you think? Are you talking about the “Picked up by the ankles over a cliff” comment? U realize that was an expression and nobody is really doing that and also sure as hell not in ur 90s 😂🤦🏾

🙏🏿😢❣️

She's not 😂

Yeah and that's sad because he isnt the only one

a black woman too

I needed to hear that man thank you

@thepilgrim1842 you are more than welcome. I'm quite sure they are proud of you. Even if you do not think so. Honoring their memory is proof of it. ✌️

my gf just died this is very true

@jayden1033 I know this comes as no consolation to your lose but, I'm sorry to hear you lost her, truly. Keep her memory ever-present in your heart and mind, and stay strong .

😢😢

Yes.

Awesome 🙏

Big facts

Trust me. x

Lol the "brother" lost his soul because of what she did to him. Sounds sad to me

Some men claim to be madly in love with a womam and still proceed to yell and belittle her. You are the kind of man that she is speaking of. Not everyone strives to be better. Congratulations to you and your wife

Both are rare here brother. Poised, collected men and women who appreciate such men. Nowadays men are just as emotional if not more emotional than women, and women don’t appreciate good men. This can also be flipped around both ways.

Come from around them..go to the places where they are..hint it’s not on the internet or club. Pray for your future wife or husband..one more thing all churches are not equal choose wisely..only the ones who teach the truth.

Bc not everyone is worth that. She's worth it to him

Not many males are men to be spoken of with such great honor. A woman doesn't hide that from an honorable man, even if she herself is not the best.

Cause they can’t and have no reason too

Exactly 🙏

He was a simp to put up with this masculine girl

Yes❤

Dude got a boyfriend.. 😂

A real man would’ve never left until it was OK not come back if needed again

His character was beautiful! 😢

She's not talking about her husband 😂

And that's what's happening when you hear a woman talk about her man like that and that man hears this woman talking about him like that and no feet above this Earth that he can't handle

Whenever she speaks about her husband,my heart swells with emotions. You can feel the love. But I couldn't imagine her with nothing less than an exceptional brother because she is an exceptional woman ❤

@@toniecarter5597 ❤️exactly

Yes❤

We need more videos like this. Black woman speaking highly of their partners

Does she know you married her husband?

Dramaaa 😮

Same here ❤❤🎉 17 yrs going strong let’s keep it going

@@Zombieologist08 Any advice on how not to make it a routine ? Eventually the passion dies once the excitement of the discovery passes, so how do you guys manage to make the relationship still interesting ? I get bored of my partners and the life we live after a year, they're not bad partners it's just a problem within me I guess. With friends it's different, I'm loyal as one can be and I can hardly see my life without them.

@@charlesm.2604 try setting up dates during the week where you both dress up in cosplay costumes and act like you are complete strangers I mean really dive into the roles I promise you will be satisfied and so will she keep it spontaneous and never do the same cosplay spice it up even from some of your favorite tv shows one thing I have come to find out after being married so long is weather you want to or not peoples minds fantasize about things they may see here or even smell so my advice for you find what works for you any women can be anything you want same for men!

Yeah apparently at the end of the day he wasn't all that dependable

​@@optimisticallycynical.814tf bro why would you just make random shit up like that 😂 go get help

​@@optimisticallycynical.814if u not going to said something good stay quiet that brother is still with her spiritually this lady love that man love is beautiful went is real God bless

Who is it?

I never knew genuinely loving someone meant that u should have an affair on them for years!!!!?

This is exactly what women want. The freedom to do the craziest things and expect no accountability for it. The freedom to fulfull their destructive urges without being shamed for it. And if you attempt to stop them, youre "abusive, toxic, controlling, oppressive, cant handle them, not a real man, insecure, blah blah, blah." No thank you!

@@jayr3635No way she had an affair for years after all that mushy talk😑

Thats not love, sje is saying she abuse him amd he say nothing. He even ask for more, if you need me call me agian. That just a kinky sex those white man pay to be domnated in sex

@@hypnotize3224 yeah it's public knowledge, with her husband's best friend!

Act crazy as possible and see if he is that guy 😅

@EastfEden - Amen, true. ✝️🙏🏽

Mine too he left such a void. I miss him more than words could ever convey... sorry for your loss.

❤

Same , and my husband is like that.. he and my father calms the storms in me and the family.. the lord is so all knowing who to place where... ..

I could only wish 💔

Same 😢

He had no choice but to listen 😊 yes judge

😊mine is exactly the same nothing rattles him.

They not together no more?

@@twanany The wonderful angel has passed.

He passed away unexpectedly.

I’m so happy for you. IRS such a rarity to find your soulmate. I found mine too. 30 years in.

thank you for this! crying, I'm 35, no kids, no husband. none. just trusting God

Thank you.

Much respect to you and your family, you have a good man, from Ireland x

​@@kerrishagayle9708If you waiting on the Roman CATHOLIC version of hey Zeus to drop a man out the sky. You gon be waiting. How about YOU actually talk to men

Awwww how sweet. I hope you do.

While she is getting her cheeks clapped by his best friend like a cheap whore? 😂

💯💯💯💯

​@@barth9580You have no clue what you talking about.

Amen

Amen ❤

👏🏾👏🏾💯ok!

Yes!

Except women can't even do this for themselves so how the fuck are we suppose to take you seriously when it comes to your expectations of anything especially us

I don't know of any man I would trust to hold me over a cliff, I'm on the heavier side! 😂 But I truly have a goodly husband! RIP Eric

You definitely can tell he was a good husband/person 🙏🏽❤️

Was?

@@BrotherKnowledge.Big E passed away unfortunately.

@@OpinionatedBlues Damn... Thanks for the heads up, though... damn... I've seen so many clips talking about him and the love in her voice, and the way she talks about him always hit me. Didn't realize that the brotha had passed. Damn...

She's also an example of a good woman. I never heard her speak ill of him. We all have faults, but to tell it to the world is a terrible thing. It's poisoning your own relationship.

Blessings to your love, marriage, and your family.

Please say more..What does he do n doesnt do??Please give examples..I will be getting married soon and I I want to make that same promise n mean it.."

@@mandlenkosihlazo977 it's his character, integrity and honesty. When he says he will do something, he does it. We don't fight at all...instead we sit down and talk about stuff up until I'm ok. We don't have secrets, we use the same pattern of my name on all our phones. It is in the way He was raised I must say...because he says he's never seen his parents fight infront of them and that's exactly what he does not want in our marriage. And it has been like that eversince. My husband is just a good guy period. He proved that even the day he came to pay lobola(dowry) at home...we had never dated before...we even had s#x after we exchange our vows with the marriage officer.

Beautiful words ❤

God is better than Valium

You woman Run thru The wrong men & dis the obvious right Man thinking You can do better but end up settling for someone waaayyy worse in every way lol …. The joke be on Yall

BEAUTIFUL!!!!

@@jlove8441 You can't be talking about because, I damn sure not trying to chase a man down to have 1 by my side. Never! I stay in prayer and wait on God to chose a man for me. Love God and yourself 1st and all will follow.

He giveth and he taketh 🥺

Allot of y'all met the right man. Just that you gave up on your blessing.

Baby you see them every day and pass them by because they are broke to your liking. 😅

⁠​⁠@@chimakalu5195I get what you’re trying to say but I doubt you see them everyday. Not in these days. Great men AND women are out here but it’s becoming more challenging everyday to find. If you do meet a special person with a great heart, hold on tight, as c they should be holding on to you too!

​@@chimakalu5195or vise versa we don't fit the profile❤

You would have to be a woman like her.

That might not be what u need

She will be OK. Once you have had this kind of support and steadfastness it gives you inner strength. How do I know that? Because I had it. I lost my best friend, my partner, my rock 10 years ago next month. He had built me up enough that I know I will see him again God be with you, Judge.

​@@femvetusa5263right, a relationship like that you can still draw on when they're absent physically ❤

Who was the guy? And how’d he die? Was he a celebrity?

Amen brother 🙏

​@@pravoslavnibalkancilmao

And him

Good luck!

Yeah

What was his name and what’s her name

No, men should not only "feel" these things from women but the women should proactively show their appreciation. Words with no action mean nothing.

you completely missed it, unfortunately.

If women star acting like a woman should, then the man would treat her like that.

No woman is going to speak highly of a man if he NEVER earned it! He has to 💯 earn his woman's respect He is not automatically entitled to it! 😮

@@tamuz9633 Neither is a woman automatically entitled to anything. Just remembered that women are not just supposed to be receivers.

It's easy to do this when you are blessed with a real stand up man.

Yeah a pussy whipped man.. lol.. 😅😂

Sadly he passed last year & she went through it but she's coming out w/her children. She's a strong, accomplished woman w/the Best advice, personality. God Bless her.🙏🏻❤

And other women keep hoping there are good men too.

Only a few men earn it, though... 😅🎉

Good 👍 God's child oh you are now planning to be this beautiful. Oh God's child c'mon man, as God's child this is how you are supposed to be all this while.

God's child make a fast change now!!!!

God Bless you with much more than you ask for just do it

❤😊

Love what you.said.Somebody somewhere is watching you. You can be or make a difference in someone's life. ❤

I feel it in her voice.

Yes sad very sad....

He picked the right woman too lol. Smart man!

Just wondering if he taking in a lot of stuff and not really releasing his emotions cause his death… just a thought woman out live their men generally about 10 years…they emote all the time…I say let it out brothers every now and then or find a brother you talk to ….

I know that she does

... He's gonna to come back to her, just in a different body. Her Man will be back.

Same here😢 Man !! These testimonies make me really keep faith in mankind😢 Now this is what u call a man! I whoch i was that cool!! I do take very good care of my wofe nad children, but this cool temper ?? Man this is epic!🔥😌

Amen

YEAH!

Exactly

She was definitely blessed 🙌

What you said about sex mate or walking wallet, it's sad, but true. The thing is, while they are getting their fill of the sex and wallet, some have the acting down so good, you can't tell, until the time comes when it stops, or changes.

Facts!

You said that perfectly my sis.. perfect from God. Yes.

Omgosh you hit me he nail!!!!

He died? Who was he?

And then youre only the nice guy

😂😂😂😂.... 🧢🧢🧢🧢 You've never met a man who criticized you after listening to your complaints, troubles and worries (unless you're a nag). Men don't criticize when our women tell us their troubles; we're more solution oriented. We'll quickly start giving you solutions (out of instinct). We begin to criticize when you don't appreciate our efforts to help solve your problem which cry about and treat us with harsh rejection (there's no smoke without fire you know). The surprise is that I learnt this last month when researching for a lecture I want to deliver to single mothers on how to get a man who will commit and marry them (even though we despise single mothers for good reasons). Nobody teaches us these things. Even you women have no idea what you want us to do. She's lucky to have a man who has learnt this lesson on womanology.

she does, can't imagine finding a person like that and then losing them one day

No she married a certain kind of man and every other kind of man that exists is a man and your diminishing of that says a lot about your inadequacies and character flaws

Have u ever wondering if the man feels the same as reciprocity. I would just asked her, if she think she deserves a man like that comparing to her behaviors toward him?

@@crypwayne7197I wondering of you literate or NOT🤷🏿‍♀️😩😭😂

@@Zeebo216tf you just say you illiterate mf?

​@@Zeebo216he is, but by the way you spell, you're not.

Facts

From God? Really? And those which is probably most, where does our countenance come from; the boogy man 😈

❤❤❤❤❤❤

Only if you can do what big E used to do

Most humans don't deserve it

Not all men rise to the level of this kind of praise. They are very few.

​@@aykay9328There are few women that live up to Judge Lynn. Very few

​@@el-Cu9432Few women like Judge Lynn

😮..... What happened to HER husband FAM

​@@3for4PAHe passed away. 😢

@@harleynegan1988 Of WHAT.... Do you KNOW 🤔

​@@3for4PA covid 😂

She only love him cause he dead ... it glorifies them

That's love and respect.

I LOVE YOU JUDGE LYN TOLER😊😊❤❤❤ THATS BEAUTIFUL!😊❤

IKR😢

How she lose her husband? I don’t know who she is... Im assuming by what others have posted, this is Jude Toler... I'll search & see...

😂This is the best quote and comment on the thread. Yes, as a son of God may he have peace and salvation with the Lord on the day of judgment. 🙏✝️

But are there women still out there like this ?

@orravalb Yes. There are. Remember, A tree is known by the fruit it bares. A Godly, Respectable, Good woman will keep her Character & Demenor at all times.

​@@orravalbyes there are

My husband's name is William too! And he is also my personal gift from GOD!

❤❤❤

He's probably that way because she's controlling

Unless her man is white, then it’s just Stockholm syndrome right?

As rare as hens teeth!

she is talking about a lot of our fathers and grand father's husbands😀😀😀😀😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇🤠😇🤠🤠😇😇😇😇😇😇😇🤠

@joeIc3sv why u people always negative, I get you there's no men like that exist smh.

Wait...what?...watchu mean.

I also married a man like him. It is such a blessing to have him in my life. My husband got very sick at the end of last year and I almost lost him. It really shook me. I’m so thankful that he is still here with me.

​@@joycefernandezbaham8380 I am happy for you and I am hoping to meet and later marry a good man too so if you see him along your way tell him am waiting on him patiently❤😊

Why?

You are a very blessed woman.

What women dont understand is the repercussions if a man like that looses his cool.

I think I can speak on behalf of most men "we don't like to argue" Period with a capital P.

How did he pass??

🙏🙄 She just showed us all how to be better men ... The power of a strong black woman. 🗿🐢🗿🐢🗿🐢🗿🐢🗿🐢🗿🐢🗿🐢

Yeah but or he just doesn't give a fuck lol

based on this comment alone, the bar is so low for women its insane

inability to take basic care of yourself and putting responsibility for your own emotions and mental health on someone else is not a beautiful soul, it's mental illness

@@ryanbachmann4844huh?

She like the sound of her own voice clearly and just speaking complete shit

You are so fortunate to have that

I mean to say..FABULOUS ❤

Yes, Steadfast & dependable. Trustworthy?? Eehhh🤷‍♀️

Wow! God blessed you!

Did you yell at him? And if so why? I genuinely want to know your response. Might help me in the future.

Sorry for your loss ma'am

Im sorry for your loss