80 Year Olds Share Advice for Younger Self

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@KH-nt7ej
@KH-nt7ej 20 күн бұрын
This video should be mandatory viewing in schools and colleges. Excellently done.
@MrPathorock
@MrPathorock 18 күн бұрын
why? it is depressing
@KH-nt7ej
@KH-nt7ej 18 күн бұрын
@@MrPathorock No it isn't. It is about life, love and loss. That's life. You missed the point.
@norwegianblue2017
@norwegianblue2017 14 күн бұрын
@@MrPathorock This is actually a very positive video. These seniors are doing about as well as you could hope at 80+, mentally and physically. If you wanted to make a depressing video, show older people who are poverty stricken, living in a state home with broken bodies. Forgotten.
@theultimatereductionist7592
@theultimatereductionist7592 2 күн бұрын
Tax churches. Atheists need to stop carrying the freeloading churches. And outlaw executives getting paid more than any other worker. And outlaw the mass breeding holocaust mass murder of factory farming. Go vegan. Do THAT, before you start having kids. I'm 60 and my advice to young people is the same as when I was 20. Nothing special nothing important about these old people's opinions. Biased reporting, biased interviewing. Ask PRISONERS for THEIR opinions. Ask POOR old people for THEIR opinions. Get an OBJECTIVE perspective. Not biased sampling.
@alexhardao2742
@alexhardao2742 Күн бұрын
Great idea!
@johnnyb.5818
@johnnyb.5818 20 күн бұрын
"If you live in the past, you're depressed. If you live in the future, you're anxious. If you live in the present, you're at peace." Fuck, man. Spot on.
@lydiasalatino3765
@lydiasalatino3765 20 күн бұрын
This is a very good advice! Thank you for sharing with us!
@PolishBehemoth
@PolishBehemoth 20 күн бұрын
hard knowledge!
@steelearmstrong9616
@steelearmstrong9616 20 күн бұрын
This is definitely not true. I live in the past and it’s what drives me. I wouldn’t change it. If you live in the past and take drugs which also includes alcohol, then you will be depressed
@johnnyb.5818
@johnnyb.5818 20 күн бұрын
@@steelearmstrong9616eh, okay buddy.
@tulmenkov
@tulmenkov 20 күн бұрын
How do i achieve this?
@1991windsor
@1991windsor 17 күн бұрын
"Can you define the word love?" "Wishing the best for the other person."❤❤❤
@Kitiwake
@Kitiwake 15 күн бұрын
Catholic definition "Willing the good of the other".
@debbiebolek2117
@debbiebolek2117 15 күн бұрын
That's what I always wanted for anyone
@samsungtabs8121
@samsungtabs8121 15 күн бұрын
@TheRenaissanceGuys
@TheRenaissanceGuys 14 күн бұрын
Exactly, unconditional love. Infatuation is different from love. Infatuation is more of an energizing feeling while love is calming and empathetic.
@Feronom
@Feronom 14 күн бұрын
in Greek language there are 4 types words for love, Eros, Philia, storge and agape. Agape is the highest form of love
@pris_pris
@pris_pris 9 күн бұрын
Having your mom until you’re 70….wow ❤😞
@NoidoDev
@NoidoDev 8 күн бұрын
Well even some of my grandparents got to around 90. And even one great grandfather. Minus 20, for the age when people had kids.
@rskolkata
@rskolkata 6 күн бұрын
That's one reason having kids early helps. Though personally I didnt and wouldnt.
@nbassasin8092
@nbassasin8092 6 күн бұрын
theres a very famous Croatian actor who also played in some international movies, called Rade Šerbedžija, he is 77 as of now, his father died in 2017 while being 104 years old I once watched an interview with him (and I knew he was in his 70s) and almost spit my coffe when he said "well my father the other day said to me..."
@Nicole-ul1im
@Nicole-ul1im 5 күн бұрын
The guy in the red shirt talking about his mothers loss hits very hard. I (age 36) just lost my dad 2 weeks ago (age 78). It's so fresh I can't wrap my head around to write a great comment right now. But my dad was very healthy and active along with my grandma, his mother... who is currently alive at 97 almost 98. A lot of my grandmas siblings are alive and are in their 90s including one that is 102 and healthy. Being so adapted to my dads side of the family having this longevity, I didn't think about how lucky it is for my dad to have his whole life with his mom around.
@pris_pris
@pris_pris 5 күн бұрын
@@Nicole-ul1im I’m so sorry for your loss 😞 …most people in my family have passed away around 60 yrs old so hearing some people still have parents at an older age, blows my mind. Sending you lots of positive vibes ❤️
@meinternally
@meinternally 6 күн бұрын
I love how the interviewer stopped in the middle of the video to acknowledge the conversations that were being shared and to cause us to reflect. Awesome job!
@bhavdeep
@bhavdeep 12 күн бұрын
Not a single person spoke about money, property, cars, skyscrapers or wealth! Love them all! 😊
@deniss.6205
@deniss.6205 11 күн бұрын
Yet that's what most influencers brag about...
@_munkykok_
@_munkykok_ 10 күн бұрын
*Skycrapists
@IAMALLMUSIC
@IAMALLMUSIC 10 күн бұрын
That's because they live in the first world. They have their basic needs met.
@deniss.6205
@deniss.6205 10 күн бұрын
@@IAMALLMUSIC I doubt someone from a so called "3rd world country" would say they wanted more cash to be happy.
@reinerb.mugarura8033
@reinerb.mugarura8033 10 күн бұрын
​@deniss.6205 try living without money and good medical care yoo These guys have free medical health
@LindaLiang
@LindaLiang 16 күн бұрын
I applaud you for giving older people a voice! The society tends to forget them.
@sistacoin
@sistacoin 13 күн бұрын
They do, and some of them have sooooo much wisdom. I'm grateful that I've listened to them growing up and along my adult journey.
@noreason7587
@noreason7587 11 күн бұрын
WE forget Them
@HeyOlive239
@HeyOlive239 11 күн бұрын
Amen
@Amaybe898
@Amaybe898 11 күн бұрын
I am sorry, but older people are the only people who have a strong voice in western societies, because they are the majority. Steering with the US president
@user-sn5ih6fi6m
@user-sn5ih6fi6m 10 күн бұрын
Yes everyone simps for kids and people.in their 20s Then people become forgotten unless they are like Putin or trump
@shiftmotorsports9803
@shiftmotorsports9803 2 күн бұрын
My grandmother is 92 and bed-ridden in a nursing home. I asked her what she does all day. She said she mostly thinks about the days when her kids were young. That short window of her life was the most meaningful and memorable. That was eye opening
@TheSundayCall
@TheSundayCall 19 сағат бұрын
How "NICE"! Then her children will end up in the same situation, but she brought them here to die...and see her die.
@shiftmotorsports9803
@shiftmotorsports9803 18 сағат бұрын
@@TheSundayCall Hopefully
@HildeMoellerKnag
@HildeMoellerKnag 14 сағат бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. I have two little boys and sometimes daily life with them is exhausting. It is a lot of work. Comments like this help me to remember how significant this part of my life is and I appreciate this time. All the best to your grandmother.
@NinerRick
@NinerRick 11 күн бұрын
I lost my mom suddenly to a heart attack last October. She was only 62 and healthy. No signs or symptoms, it was a day like any other. One minute I was talking to her while she was eating and drinking water on her bed. I walked into my room for a minute and when I came out she was gone. You really never know, my life has never been the same since. She was my best friend, my mom, my teammate and we loved each other deeply. I can’t explain the feeling I have now that she’s gone. Cherish the time with people you love because you really never know.
@ABxx2011
@ABxx2011 11 күн бұрын
That's terrible, I'm truly sorry. I lost my mom a few years ago after a very long illness. It hurts.
@ancame8822
@ancame8822 10 күн бұрын
I’m so sorry for your lost, Same Happend for me i’ve lost my my mother 52 years to Heart attack while she was in hospital one day before she cane home, this year 23 february
@bradpnw1897
@bradpnw1897 10 күн бұрын
Very sorry. RIP Mom. A loss like no other😢❤
@user-zj5fb9rt4z
@user-zj5fb9rt4z 10 күн бұрын
I feel sorry for your loss! It must be very painful for you and your relatives. Your mother must have been a nice person if she had been blessed with such an easy death.
@Tacoburger22
@Tacoburger22 10 күн бұрын
I’m really sorry for ur loss, I lost my dad at an early age and the loss always leaves a huge hole, but then I remember they never truly leave you spiritually
@orion7873
@orion7873 13 күн бұрын
I'm only 40 but, I wish I could tell my younger self ...Quit being affraid of everything. If you want to talk to a girl, just do it. If you want to say something to someone, do it. Most people let fear rule their life and don't even realize it.
@fame_games810
@fame_games810 13 күн бұрын
This is me & I’m only 31.
@georginajohnson8985
@georginajohnson8985 10 күн бұрын
So true! Fear is paralyzing
@jennymccullough9517
@jennymccullough9517 10 күн бұрын
I dont let fear get me but then people think you're crazy or aggressive. All I'm doing us not letting others dictate fear to me. Try it sometime.
@zenadriel6966
@zenadriel6966 10 күн бұрын
You took the words out of my mouth. Well said. ❤🙏
@williamcarter9066
@williamcarter9066 10 күн бұрын
Even if you fall on your face at least put the effort to fall on your face!! I have hold myself back from running up because I don’t a F what anyone thinks of me in any capacity and with that alone the rejection wouldn’t matter one bit because you can’t get wet unless jump in the water first 😂😂😂😂😂
@user-hu8vb9vn3o
@user-hu8vb9vn3o 20 күн бұрын
The man in red t-shirt broke my heart when he cried remembering his wife😢
@LB-zc1hj
@LB-zc1hj 20 күн бұрын
Me too I wanted to give him a hug
@kimyoung3484
@kimyoung3484 20 күн бұрын
💔😢😭😘😘😘😘😘🙏
@KH-nt7ej
@KH-nt7ej 20 күн бұрын
​@@LB-zc1hjI am a nurse. I love my job. I make a difference in my patients lives every day. I get advice from my seniors all the time. And I TAKE IT!!
@G8rquest
@G8rquest 20 күн бұрын
It's been a few years for me and I can tell you; when those feelings come over me it's a blessing to know that I have loved. It's especially hard at first when it's fresh and frequent but those "visits" get sweeter as time goes on. The wet eyes and tight throat are like a quick homecooked meal these days.
@akin9868
@akin9868 20 күн бұрын
Just suffered the losses (Mother and Wife) two weeks apart, these wounds are still too fresh. 😢
@feistyferret13
@feistyferret13 9 күн бұрын
"What costs us the most to do, that's what we need the most." Ooh, boy. Truth bomb.
@Hepycckuu
@Hepycckuu 3 күн бұрын
Not really, it's just a goal you crave for. Things you already got - are not goals anymore. You still need them, but you have them, so they are not goals anymore.
@thuddupbith
@thuddupbith 11 күн бұрын
The older generations are the greatest untapped source of knowledge and wisdom.
@musical_lolu4811
@musical_lolu4811 6 күн бұрын
They've always been. But it is often the case that they will be considered by the younger generation to be quaint.
@dryvonne1999
@dryvonne1999 5 күн бұрын
It has always been.
@Hepycckuu
@Hepycckuu 3 күн бұрын
bullshit The only knowledge they have is knowledge of their own life at a perspective of how they lived through it. Think for yourself and think yourself. In my country old people are the most vulnerable part of society. They are not used to certain threats like social engineering that were not present during their younger days. You get experience and learn everyday and old people loose their ability to learn new things the older they get. The world around you changes every day and you must adapt to it constantly. Most old people either refuse to adapt or fail to do so. They are stubborn and their experience gets dated and useless as time advances.
@jeffmanty6721
@jeffmanty6721 2 күн бұрын
You are are being to rigid and lack understanding. These people were born in the 1930s when life was much more simple. 99% of humanity before then had no technology. Technology will end just like our time in earth will end.
@kindalazy1620
@kindalazy1620 Күн бұрын
@@Hepycckuuwhat an angry take. Are u 40?
@SyreLikeAFire
@SyreLikeAFire 20 күн бұрын
to the lady in the white hat who said that what we need is usually in the effort we‘re avoiding out of fear or boredom or laziness - your words resonated so hard
@harmonyhavencoaching
@harmonyhavencoaching 15 күн бұрын
That was wisdom right there!
@spencertmac9773
@spencertmac9773 13 күн бұрын
this lady is an Absolute G.
@AlitaMee
@AlitaMee 13 күн бұрын
Same this was one of the greatest wisdom I have ever heard
@wthomas5697
@wthomas5697 13 күн бұрын
She was definitely the standout.
@KoolGalAsli
@KoolGalAsli 13 күн бұрын
“In sterquiliniis invenitur”-in filth, it will be found. Carl Jung interpreted it as “that which you need the most will be found where you least want to look”
@hobbs1
@hobbs1 13 күн бұрын
To the guy in the red t. shirt, you achieved something huge; you made your wife happy and feel loved ❤
@ericamendez2434
@ericamendez2434 11 күн бұрын
I agree. After certain life events, I’ve learned nothing really matters but your loved ones.
@bradpnw1897
@bradpnw1897 10 күн бұрын
​@@ericamendez2434damn straight
@amberashley7559
@amberashley7559 8 күн бұрын
True❤
@user-qd4td7yb8e
@user-qd4td7yb8e 6 күн бұрын
​@@ericamendez2434 God is the Giver of life. He matters most.
@ericamendez2434
@ericamendez2434 6 күн бұрын
@@user-qd4td7yb8e I agree. When God is first, family is blessed.
@WesleyLawton
@WesleyLawton 11 күн бұрын
I wish I remembered the source, but I came across a study surveying people in their 70s, 80s, and 90s that asked them what time of their lives they missed the most. The most common response was their 30s. They missed having people rely on them, need them. They missed having responsibility and a sense of purpose. I'm in my 30s now. The things that tend to stress me out the most are having so many responsibilities and having people relying on me. Learning about this study helped me appreciate that the things that stress me out today may be the things I one day miss the most. Ultimately, I've learned that every stage of life has special aspects that we can enjoy, and a secret to happiness is focusing on those things that we have worked hard for and on those things we may someday miss - even if they're imperfect or cause us stress. It's a helpful practice to frequently reflect on the things we take for granted and to express gratitude for those things.
@dontplayformenero
@dontplayformenero 4 күн бұрын
Wow that's really good to know about that survey. I understand that and it resonates. That's the worry and stress I have now, though perhaps it'll be the most important time
@Joe900-px3nt
@Joe900-px3nt 3 күн бұрын
It's been eye-opening to realize how each withdrawal hinders the potential for my savings to grow through compounding interest. I now see the importance of meticulous planning, considering factors like inflation, healthcare costs, and a solid investment strategy. This is the advice I'd give my younger self
@DavidParker-sb9hp
@DavidParker-sb9hp 3 күн бұрын
I'm getting close to retirement and having a financial advisor has really paid off. I started investing later than most, so I couldn't just rely on compound interest from index funds. Even so, I've done quite well, earning more than some long-term investors. I'm set to retire with at least $6 million
@Joe900-px3nt
@Joe900-px3nt 3 күн бұрын
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@DavidParker-sb9hp
@DavidParker-sb9hp 3 күн бұрын
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@Joe900-px3nt
@Joe900-px3nt 3 күн бұрын
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@MichaelHamilton-mc9dc
@MichaelHamilton-mc9dc 3 күн бұрын
You are not alone
@mtwhatley3253
@mtwhatley3253 19 күн бұрын
I once saw an interview with Betty Davis. The host asked her “does age bring wisdom”. She quickly snapped back “if your stupid when your young, you’ll be stupid when your old”. 😂
@Ftnast
@Ftnast 16 күн бұрын
Don't have children, it's unethical to them ❤
@Anonymous-md2qp
@Anonymous-md2qp 16 күн бұрын
@@FtnastI completely agree. It’s incredibly immoral.
@laveniajohnson2283
@laveniajohnson2283 16 күн бұрын
These comments are so sad and not what you are seeing these wiser older people saying. In your old age all you'll have or care about is your family and to a lesser extent other relationships.
@laveniajohnson2283
@laveniajohnson2283 16 күн бұрын
I've seen several quotes from Betty Davis. She seemed to have learned nothing that matters from her life. I think Hollywood must destroy and ruin the people who are caught up in it.
@Apollo_Blaze
@Apollo_Blaze 16 күн бұрын
@@laveniajohnson2283 If you have a family that you like and you fit into. Not everyone has a great family.
@aye3678
@aye3678 12 күн бұрын
Bloody hell man, give that man in the red ferrari polo top a big hug.
@1985snx
@1985snx 4 күн бұрын
I thought that too...❤❤❤
@zzs33
@zzs33 4 күн бұрын
He choked me up 😢
@ThomasThatelo
@ThomasThatelo Күн бұрын
He really needs a hug, he's got a lot going emotionally.
@ghitakhaoulaniidrissi5874
@ghitakhaoulaniidrissi5874 4 күн бұрын
The fact that this is filmed in Westmount park, which is in one of the richest neighbourhoods in Montreal, yet none of these people (who probably live there) talked about money, wealth etc. Love that ❤️
@floatingsara
@floatingsara 2 күн бұрын
Because it was never an issue for them
@kevinleewilliams5119
@kevinleewilliams5119 14 сағат бұрын
The things that make human beings truly happy cannot be bought, like a life long relationship, children, good faith. Depressed people with wealth, billionaires committing suicide, it's obvious why when you know what really makes all of us happy inside.
@sheridavis5555
@sheridavis5555 10 сағат бұрын
they don't have to.. those things are a given .. not worth mentioning
@rob4b
@rob4b 11 күн бұрын
Met an old guy walking my dog he looked in 80's he was like me but I was in my 40s no kids, no one close, he told me have a family your regret it, your so called friends will not be there for you in the later years. I got to know John over 17 months before he died and went to his funeral. It was me and his carer it hit me hard and I promised him I'd act on his advice. Today 8 years later I have been lucky and blessed I have a great partner 3 children and a lovely family, my only regret is that I should have not listened to the media, corporations and so called friends and wished I did it sooner. Thank you John for your advice all those years ago.
@koul3709
@koul3709 10 күн бұрын
Brings a tear to my eye 😥
@romanr9977
@romanr9977 8 күн бұрын
I cried reading this. You did a great thing. If you had not spent the time to continue to see John, it would have only been his carer at the funeral 😭
@cupcakeladyattie2578
@cupcakeladyattie2578 8 күн бұрын
Thank you, you make me tear up❤
@mechtist
@mechtist 7 күн бұрын
this is horrible. bringing life into this atrocious world just so you aren't lonely when you're old is the definition of soul-rotting selfishness. shame on you.
@user-ie1zf3xl4o
@user-ie1zf3xl4o 7 күн бұрын
⁠@@mechtistI don’t see it like that… I think, he may have realized it later that having to share the love, and be loved is the most wonderful feeling in the world anyone can experience… There’s nothing wrong with realizing that having kids and a great partner is truly a gift. One that was shared with him by John, a friend that didn’t get to experience it… There’s no shame in that and clearly it’s not selfish either especially if he get’s to share it with someone he loves… I hope you get to have a partner that is truly meant for you too to experience all the love and joy in having a family someday… Blessing❤
@Jacob32905
@Jacob32905 13 күн бұрын
"Youth is wasted on the young." I take care of senior citizens for a living and while it doesn't pay that much, the relationships that I've made over the years are priceless to me. That generation is very lonely and have tons of wisdom to offer. It's sad how neglected and left behind it has become.
@TriggaTreDay
@TriggaTreDay 8 күн бұрын
Right. But what I find so interesting is how the younger generation is complaining about being lonely as well. It’s a really sad thing to think about when you really look at the reality of what the younger generation will experience when they are this old. We all have to start prioritizing giving genuine love to one another that has no strings attached. It’s worth it in the end.
@user56gghtf
@user56gghtf 8 күн бұрын
NOT ALL but some of them need to be left alone. They were evil when they were young and as they grew older they continued to be evil and treat people as objects to be used instead of people. Again I'm stating this is not all of them but some.
@1armeddrummerinaprisonrock244
@1armeddrummerinaprisonrock244 6 күн бұрын
yeah thats life, you get old and if you dont have your family around you, you will be alone. If you failed as parent and get shitty kids, they wont take you in their home and you wil be alone too. ( most likely you were a shitty parent, if the kids turn out crap) And if you have no kids, then you will be garanted alone in your old days, so having kids and raisig them right is the best insurance for every aspect of life.
@user56gghtf
@user56gghtf 5 күн бұрын
@@1armeddrummerinaprisonrock244 People shouldn't have kids just so they have someone to take care of them as they age. That's the same as a person getting married just so they have someone to take care of them. Very selfish and entitled. Also just because the parents are toxic doesn't mean the children will be and just because the children are toxic doesn't mean the parents were. We all have a choice and despite what hardships we go through people choose how they want to be in life.
@OldSaltyBear
@OldSaltyBear 5 күн бұрын
Agree... and its not just the very old who are getting overlooked. I'm Gen X in my 50s. Young college grads have told me to my face that I should retire so they can have my job. If any of them bothered to ask, I could easily pass along my knowledge and experience and insure their job security for life. Yet they don't ask. They just tell me "step aside old man" without having any comprehension or ability to do what I do. Its silly.
@novemberjuliettango2798
@novemberjuliettango2798 20 күн бұрын
11:00 "she ended up choosing some good people, me included I guess..." - damn... I started tearing up too.
@Sprouht
@Sprouht 20 күн бұрын
So many tears were shed
@isagrace4260
@isagrace4260 17 күн бұрын
@@Sprouhtme too, this broke my heart but also filled it. I’m so happy he had that love in his life ❤
@seanduncan9722
@seanduncan9722 15 күн бұрын
I did too that was powerful
@badmaus
@badmaus 14 күн бұрын
That got me too 😢
@SEALEDFOREVER
@SEALEDFOREVER 13 күн бұрын
Raw grief for this beautiful man
@p1andara1alves
@p1andara1alves 10 күн бұрын
No one talked about their work or career... That's what moved me the most 🙂
@TheDodoshwedo
@TheDodoshwedo 4 күн бұрын
The artist lady did. She said it's great that she can keep doing it indefinitely (she doesn't have to retire).
@prerana863
@prerana863 4 күн бұрын
I agree, at least they didn't talk about chasing money! Which most people currently are doing so, at a cost of their health. Just saddening
@Hepycckuu
@Hepycckuu 3 күн бұрын
@@prerana863 It's how this world works and you can do nothing about it, so either embrase it or stay in it's shadow.
@kevinleewilliams5119
@kevinleewilliams5119 14 сағат бұрын
​@@prerana863 a lot of people wonder why others are and can be so happy while having no money, it's because these people have families and God, the wealth comes secondary, you can't take happiness from people when they have things you can't buy.
@scottgresham6759
@scottgresham6759 7 күн бұрын
Look after your back, knees, teeth, hair. Accept you have long-term responsibility for your health and finances even if you can't plan beyond 1-2 years into the future. Social anxiety is normal for a large population, so 'dance' with it until you build confidence. 50 year olds still have fears, pains and problems, so get used to the idea that your fears are far more commonplace than you might expect.
@malapertfourohfour2112
@malapertfourohfour2112 15 күн бұрын
"What would you tell to your younger self?" "No! Everything was perfect. It led me to my present self." Wisest woman in this presentation. Perfect advice.
@Priscila-yy4wz
@Priscila-yy4wz 13 күн бұрын
Totally agree! She seemed the wisest.
@KaizenOz
@KaizenOz 6 күн бұрын
Nah, simple advice, floss. 🤣
@malapertfourohfour2112
@malapertfourohfour2112 6 күн бұрын
@@KaizenOz if your parents couldn't convince your childhood self to do so, doesn't seem like childhood you is gonna be willing to listen to time traveling grown up dork you if you traveled through time just to deliver lame-o advice like that. I know childhood me wouldn't have, at least 🤣
@Hepycckuu
@Hepycckuu 3 күн бұрын
@@KaizenOz It certainly better than all those "make children" , "make a family" crap.
@Hepycckuu
@Hepycckuu 3 күн бұрын
@@malapertfourohfour2112 depends on how convincing you are 😉 I am certain that it is more likely for you to find a way to convince your younger self on doing something than what it was for your parents. You lived his life and know the outcomes of events yet to come, making it easier for you to gain his trust. You parents act from position of authority, superiory and force - all those thing young age people don't like, not much of opportunity to gain someones trust. You on the other hand can act from the position of a helping friend and in time make him do stuff willingly.
@dabi_
@dabi_ 14 күн бұрын
In my job as a doctor, I am fortunate to get to talk with the elderly about their loves and worries and fears often. As a 31 year old, I think something I try to do is not to think as these people as old people who are seeing me, but people my age who are now in an old person’s body. That closes the perceived distance which, to be perfectly honest, is an illusion because we’re all closer than we think to each other. This was a wonderful video.
@DixieC-vj2sg
@DixieC-vj2sg 13 күн бұрын
Yes, I grew up without grandparents and then had the chance to spend a lot of time with my elderly parents - if you have patience, which is sometimes required, you will get amazing wisdom, advice, stories - and knowledge - even if you are treating them medically, I am amazed at how aware older people are of their own bodies, time, limits, what they need to keep them going and strong. It's knowledge for the medical professionals, too! You have a great perspective and it will pay off for you, too.
@ec1222
@ec1222 12 күн бұрын
I was touched by your comment, I love that you do that as a doctor. You reminded me I used to do the same, I used to like seeing photos of my elderly patients when they were young - usually war time photos, so I could picture the full humanity and life experience when I spoke to them. Strange how just seeing elderly folk sometimes we unthinkingly dehumanise or minimise them.
@DixieC-vj2sg
@DixieC-vj2sg 12 күн бұрын
@@ec1222 Exactly - as if they had never been young, made huge life decisions, started businesses, climbed mountains, etc. It's sad so it's amazing to hear people who can remember that! It will be all of us one day - if we are lucky enough! Good for you and this doctor.
@gabrielle916
@gabrielle916 12 күн бұрын
31 and you're already a doctor?
@drev487
@drev487 11 күн бұрын
Amazingly put! I lived with my grandfather for couple years when I was 25-30 and looked at him and talked to him like he was my age (he was 86-91 back than). And I knew he wanted me to perceive him like that...
@LAVirgo67
@LAVirgo67 11 күн бұрын
I'm 57 years old & embracing getting old. I have friends in their 80s and I'm taking their lead. They are active socially & have relationships beyond their family. This keeps them going & attentive. Yeah, we can eat better and exercise, but #1 is focusing on relationships. Finding your person to share your life. It's a good feeling. I'm lucky to have found my person 30 years ago. The down side of having a long marriage is that we get to the 'death do us part' and it can be heart breaking.
@Kitiwake
@Kitiwake 7 күн бұрын
You can appear and feel I 0-20 year difference if you control yourself and don't do excess.
@Hepycckuu
@Hepycckuu 3 күн бұрын
so all you do is relationships ?
@GabbyTeAma
@GabbyTeAma 9 күн бұрын
Having your mom with you to age 70 is a huuuge blessing! I hope he heals well and I pray I get to enjoy my mom for a long time as well. ❤
@Hepycckuu
@Hepycckuu 3 күн бұрын
The sooner you'll accept it, the better i'll be after.
@consciouscrypto3090
@consciouscrypto3090 13 күн бұрын
I love the woman who talked about pursuing what takes effort, and also that she wouldn't tell herself anything because she likes where she wound up. Truly inspiring.
@pcv-free-as-a-bird
@pcv-free-as-a-bird 20 күн бұрын
I am alone. Because I’ve gained a lot of weight in the last years. The more I was gaining weight, the more I became lonely. I’m 34 years old. I think is time for me to stop thinking about others but think about me first. I want to loose this weight and retrieve my true self. I’m afraid to go older and not doing it and regret it. I wish everyone health and love.
@Wanwan-mq3jw
@Wanwan-mq3jw 19 күн бұрын
Weight shouldnt affect Ur social life. Dont let ur self confidence influence by this. But in Terms of Ur health i agree.
@gabrielissac767
@gabrielissac767 19 күн бұрын
It seems many of us have isolated ourselves for different reasons in the past years from the pandemic. I'm truly hopeful that you'll be able to get back out there. I just started after 2 years of being completely antisocial & it feels amazing. You got this.
@pcv-free-as-a-bird
@pcv-free-as-a-bird 19 күн бұрын
Thank you guys for your kind words. I decided yesterday to go subscribe to swim lanes just 2 corners away from my place. Began to go every morning. I wish you also to find joy and hapiness ❤️
@dorothysimpson7040
@dorothysimpson7040 18 күн бұрын
Walk and swim ❤
@kadambariprasad208
@kadambariprasad208 18 күн бұрын
Hey if it helps at all, I am 32 and this read almost exactly like my life the past few years. Please know you’re not alone. And don’t hesitate to get support in the form of therapy and doing fun things with friends.
@Anonymous-do8jg
@Anonymous-do8jg 6 күн бұрын
God bless the man in red T-shirt because he’s definitely going through a rough time. I wish the best for him.
@user-kc3xt3ii7u
@user-kc3xt3ii7u 3 күн бұрын
"If you live in the past, you are depressed. If you live in the future, you are anxious. If you live in the present, you are at peace."👏
@user-hu8vb9vn3o
@user-hu8vb9vn3o 20 күн бұрын
I feel sorry for those who lost their loved ones and feeling lonely😢
@WaryofExtremes
@WaryofExtremes 15 күн бұрын
I wish i were old, near the end... I dont see kids or nieces or nephews in my life, and wonder if i can even make it to 60 to have some government pension and such. I wish a doctor would give me 6 months to live. I'd visit family, curl up on a couch with them. No more bs
@user-hu8vb9vn3o
@user-hu8vb9vn3o 14 күн бұрын
@@WaryofExtremes why you do not visit your family and wait for this moment . Take the step and visit cheer up dear and never think this way . Just enjoy the moment . Have your spirituality practiced everyday it would help you a lot.
@WaryofExtremes
@WaryofExtremes 14 күн бұрын
@user-hu8vb9vn3o 'read more' doesn't seem to be working. Expensive and busy...partner's demands, partially
@chantakchantal6065
@chantakchantal6065 12 күн бұрын
At least they had many years with someone they loved and who loved them back. A rarity these days.
@user-hu8vb9vn3o
@user-hu8vb9vn3o 12 күн бұрын
@@chantakchantal6065 that’s true
@wendyeskelin8765
@wendyeskelin8765 20 күн бұрын
That first guy 88 !! NO way ! He looks amazing, More than 10 years younger. He did something right.
@jeanc819
@jeanc819 19 күн бұрын
He loved his wife and his life...
@learnbyheart7
@learnbyheart7 19 күн бұрын
Yes indeed....I thought the same.
@davidhenryhudson3102
@davidhenryhudson3102 18 күн бұрын
@@wendyeskelin8765 he chose his parents well
@davisholman8149
@davisholman8149 17 күн бұрын
@@jeanc819. If he wants a lady friend in Scottsdale, Arizona USA - I will volunteer.🙋🏼‍♀️
@flickboogers9325
@flickboogers9325 16 күн бұрын
Called genetics... it's not that people do something do look that way
@tinahuang1411
@tinahuang1411 7 күн бұрын
My mother is living with my grandmother when she is 70 right now, and my grandmother still treats her like a child and takes care of my mother in her best way.I can tell how happy my mom is.
@themoonisjustthebackofthesun
@themoonisjustthebackofthesun 12 күн бұрын
My grandfather was 97 when he died. He lived a great life, full of work in different places that I can't even imagine, great energy and a loving grandpa. Sadly he had already lost all his brothers and sisters, wife (my grandma) and friends, he was very lonely if you think about it, of course he had us his sons, daughters and grandkids, but it was not the same because the people who would share memories with him of his youth were no longer there I hope I get to live a good life like him, but I kind of don't want to live as long because it really feels like it can be very lonely I miss my grandpa and granma, but I hope now they are together with the people who better understood them
@BellyLaugher
@BellyLaugher 9 күн бұрын
@OwninFools2020
@OwninFools2020 14 күн бұрын
That “gut” feeling and him realizing it was him breaking out of the matrix, learning the ability to say “no”. Grabbing life by the balls.
@jim-se5xc
@jim-se5xc 10 күн бұрын
Why the inverted commas around gut?
@willyhwang1059
@willyhwang1059 18 күн бұрын
I like how that guy said if you are still creative and benefiting someone Then you are not aging Love that
@cheekygrin6258
@cheekygrin6258 11 күн бұрын
When I watch these videos I feel like I’m an 85 year old travelling back in time to my 30s and realizing I get the chance to live my life again. Thank you.
@jenmurakami6269
@jenmurakami6269 19 күн бұрын
I didn't know, I was going to click on this video before work and cry my eyes out. I'm 45, I've already lost both my parents and much of my extended family. I'm grateful to have the most amazing husband and 3 beautiful children. Thank you for these videos, you have no idea how much they mean to those of us who no longer have the older generation in our lives. They have so much wisdom
@lindagardenlady
@lindagardenlady 19 күн бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss❤❤ You know you are loved because they are always with you. ❤❤
@limo5724
@limo5724 15 күн бұрын
Wow, I could have written this. Early 40s, lost parents, and no extended family. But 3 amazing kids and husband. So, SAME ❤
@CharonBecker
@CharonBecker 14 күн бұрын
Yes. I cried like a baby while watching this. I thought it was going to be a fun video, but here we are. I wish we valued older people more in our society. We tend to throw them away like garbage, we don’t prioritize seeing them, we don’t make it a point to be friends with older people outside of our families, when older people are our MOST valuable resource for wisdom. We all have a LOT to learn from those of us who have been around for 70 or more years.
@stephanie-fh5qv
@stephanie-fh5qv 13 күн бұрын
Same, but I’m 40, no husband or kids. I still have a little hope for kids. I have no extended family or family at all. Life is not worth it without family.
@takyrica
@takyrica 13 күн бұрын
Im sorry you lost your parents. It’s a different life, isn’t it? Im 42 and I also lost both my parents before the age of 40 even. Thank God I also have 3 wonderful kids and a husband who loves me. They make life worth waking up for. Hang in there ❤
@SheilaR.08
@SheilaR.08 19 күн бұрын
This is beautiful. I want to hug the man who was emotional about his wife. His pain and love for her is palpable. She must have been a lovely person. 💜
@Ic3h0rnEt14
@Ic3h0rnEt14 4 күн бұрын
I want to give every person in this video a hug, I was tearing up listening to this. Older people are far more interesting than young people, honestly.
@nicoleyap6070
@nicoleyap6070 20 күн бұрын
The 70-year-old with the red shirt and dark grey baseball cap brought tears to my eyes. I could relate to so much of what he said. Nice man.
@NondoKadzi
@NondoKadzi 12 күн бұрын
He is grieving for his wife big time. I wish sorry for him
@Katy-do1wo
@Katy-do1wo 8 күн бұрын
You could tell he just wanted to talk ❤
@albertobaruffi4517
@albertobaruffi4517 15 күн бұрын
He just happened to pick some of the coolest older folk walking this earth today. What a video. The gentlemen who lost their wives had very emotionally evoking thing to say my goodness.
@ferdinandmagellan9210
@ferdinandmagellan9210 9 күн бұрын
Yeah, I wonder how many people he asked that were not good enough to make the cut 😂. These were all genuine beautiful people.
@alexsdb9712
@alexsdb9712 7 күн бұрын
Most of them seem to be Anglophone (or mainly) as well. I noticed that.
@EbonyLPorter
@EbonyLPorter 4 күн бұрын
I am literally in tears and I am only three minutes in. 😢 I just set an alarm to call my great aunt this afternoon. My great uncle died about eight months and they were married for 52 years. ❤
@leonessbutterfly8813
@leonessbutterfly8813 6 күн бұрын
What I got from this: Wow! Wishing the best for someone. Keep producing. Everything has a beginning and an end. Enjoy your life and do what you can. Be patient with others and yourself. Follow your gut. Follow your expansion. And balance.
@davidn7032
@davidn7032 15 күн бұрын
I read once a proposed reframing for bearing with the loss of your partner. By being the one not dying first, you have saved your partner to go through the suffering you are going yourself through. I thought it was extremely powerful.
@lymphomasurvive
@lymphomasurvive 14 күн бұрын
Frankl.
@mariahspapaya
@mariahspapaya 10 күн бұрын
I cried hearing him talk about it. My grandfather was pretty lonely I think when my grandma died. They were together around 40 years. He didn’t talk about it much because he was a “tough guy” and very old school, but you could tell. But I don’t think my grandma could bear losing anyone else. It was a gift in a way since my whole life I wasn’t very close to my grandpa, mostly my grandma because he was much I’m more introverted in a sense. When she passed he moved in with us and it gave my mom and I a chance to know him better before he passed a few years later. It gave me a whole new appreciation and love for my grandfather and who he was in my life. I didn’t realize this until after he passed away.
@dayasubramaniam2929
@dayasubramaniam2929 20 күн бұрын
The interviewer has such a sweet spirit. God bless you
@Authorthings
@Authorthings 11 күн бұрын
The lady with the white hair and sunglasses is exactly who I wanted Tilly (my book character) to be. She's got a lot of wisdom. ❤️ Advice to younger self: you don't need to be impressive. You only need to keep growing into yourself. ❤
@kunalmarathe5542
@kunalmarathe5542 22 сағат бұрын
I want to be as humble and as wise as this interviewer. In this materialistic world, this guy has chosen to introduce us to the essence of life in its purest form. Thank you.
@dumbfoundeb9291
@dumbfoundeb9291 20 күн бұрын
Please, don't stop doing this, your videos helped me through dark times. Bless your heart and thank you!
@lindagardenlady
@lindagardenlady 19 күн бұрын
Hey Deb- I hope you're doing great!
@flashgordon6510
@flashgordon6510 20 күн бұрын
I'm "only" 60, but I see people around my age falling apart because they sit too much and don't exercise. Walking is a great exercise - brisk walking, not just strolling with the dog. If you can, you should take your body for a walk every day, and lift weights a few times a week. Now the rubber is really hitting the road, and I see the difference between people who have treated their bodies well and those who drugged and drank and overate. Bodies are just machines, after all.
@Dothework4u
@Dothework4u 20 күн бұрын
Perfectly said 🙏🏾
@anitapricecheck9554
@anitapricecheck9554 20 күн бұрын
true, I’m a little older, but walking the dog, yoga & sitting on the floor a lot (because you have to be able to get up) do not hurt
@dr.harnet466
@dr.harnet466 19 күн бұрын
I hear you, but it is a worldwide phenomena. I am in my 40ies... I have been 'sitting' severely ill due to C-vacc!ine injury for 2 years now. I was a perfectly healthy and hugely active woman before that. Millions share the same fate. They may not even know why they suddenly feel so exhausted.
@raredour
@raredour 18 күн бұрын
today i just realized brisk walk is a speed version of the normal walk !
@MerTees
@MerTees 17 күн бұрын
I'm "only" 61, but I'm one of those people who seems so much older😅 Here's what I did wrong: Ignored health concerns since age 18 Believed doctors..."they MUST know!" Put people's needs before my own Stopped doing yoga Stopped learning Karate Stopped walking, dancing, riding bikes Stopped drinking 6 to 8 straight water Etc etc🤦🏽‍♀️ All I can tell anyone out there is... Make your health... mental, physical, emtional and spiritual... make those your priorities. Put those things at the top of your list. Be good to you. Neglect leads to being a prisoner of bad health within your own body. My aunt lived 101 years old and she had a great nugget of wisdom too. She said "Everything you do or say in this world, good or bad, you always get it back... in a different way, but it always comes back to you! Be kind as much as you can... It means everything." ❤
@Turner_p
@Turner_p 6 күн бұрын
I'm 57 years old. I honestly hope I live long enough to see the younger generations change this crappy system we live under. I might not live long enough to enjoy a world where people don't have to suffer and starve and work themselves to death, but I would love to be around long enough to see that world come into existence.
@ThompsonWhite-h6
@ThompsonWhite-h6 6 күн бұрын
The U.S. population simply does not understand where and how they have been so screwed..It’s getting depressing. I have about $700k in emergency fund and I have been seeing good news about the stock market and would like to gain from that since I can’t let my savings be corroded by inflation. What stocks should I invest into as a newbie to safely grow my money.
@robertfurguson2678
@robertfurguson2678 6 күн бұрын
Truth, the suffering and stress caused by capitalism is just sad, life is so short, we’re allowing man to torture man…
@Taylor_m16
@Taylor_m16 6 күн бұрын
All our problems today is the result of 40 years of neoliberal rightwing success. The Reagan policies left everyone behind but the wealthy owners. Until then the U.S. economy was the greatest economy in world history. After we went from the biggest lender nation to the biggest debtor nation and never looked back. The wealthy and business elites know exactly what has happened. They just don’t want the public to know how badly the wealthy have screwed them. That would cause a great revolution.
@lunaezj-e9b
@lunaezj-e9b 6 күн бұрын
In my opinion, now is not the moment to rely on hearsay. Every individual, regardless of their level of experience as an investor OR in a financial market, requires guidance at some stage.
@Alex_will12
@Alex_will12 6 күн бұрын
That's really great. I've tried doing some research myself to hire a financial advisor, but it's really overwhelming. Could you recommend who you work with please?
@zel948
@zel948 11 күн бұрын
"Maybe if i had had them, i might have actually achieved them..." That struck a chord in me!
@Just4AZ1
@Just4AZ1 20 күн бұрын
I just turned 70 and retired over 2 years ago. I have felt lost with no sense of purpose. The new president of the company I had worked for asked me to come back, which I did. It has been great the second time around. I am much better at my job now than ever before. I plan to be more prepared the next time I retire.
@jm7804
@jm7804 19 күн бұрын
I'm glad. Working because you want to work is liberating.
@nataliaalfonso2662
@nataliaalfonso2662 17 күн бұрын
I literally cannot comprehend something like this. There is soooooooo much to do in a house! And soooo much to learn, so many books to read, movies to watch, languages to learn, cities and countries to visit. But even just running a home! Cooking every meal, cleaning, gardening……. How do have the time to do all that while working?
@Psychiatricnerd
@Psychiatricnerd 14 күн бұрын
@@nataliaalfonso2662I think working outside of the home allows someone to complete objectives. The home always has work to be done. It doesn’t feel like something was accomplished.
@christinamarin4875
@christinamarin4875 12 күн бұрын
Glad it's working for you!
@EB-gt1pq
@EB-gt1pq 12 күн бұрын
@@nataliaalfonso2662 agreed. I can’t wait to retire so I can actually pursue my hobbies! I have 20 years to go 😔
@ideaWorld403
@ideaWorld403 20 күн бұрын
For anyone watching this and feeling utterly heartbroken at the loneliness some of these people feel, I'd urge you to give some of your time reaching out to your grandparents, or elderly neighbour's, or give time to your local aged care home. I visit a few residents fortnightly in an aged care facility close to my house and I can't tell you how much I enjoy my visits with them, and they have told me the same. As society we need to do better at giving our time to connect with people so that it's baked in to how we exist as a community.
@lindagardenlady
@lindagardenlady 19 күн бұрын
Yes!! Great advise!!❤❤❤
@emmy-kz1pj
@emmy-kz1pj 19 күн бұрын
I made friends with my neighbour who was 85. Or rather, she became friends with me. She was so friendly and invited me over for cup of tea. She must have had self-confidence despite sight and hearing issues. She became such a dear friend to me and my little toddler. I miss her so much. She taught me a lot. She was single after difficult life events. But she still knew how to make friends at her age. I invited her to our family Easter celebration. She felt like a great aunt or something. She liked playing with my daughter. Some people know how to find friendship at any age and stage of life
@ideaWorld403
@ideaWorld403 19 күн бұрын
@emmy-kz1pj what a beautiful friendship you had with her!
@user-zu5do6ri6r
@user-zu5do6ri6r 14 күн бұрын
I would, however, ⅕ of my paycheck gets stolen every week. That ⅕, is all of my free time.
@lobsangmetok
@lobsangmetok 11 күн бұрын
In tears. Thank you for the video. That’s why I wanna make friends with seniors. Talking to them brings me serenity and joy.
@mcs5917
@mcs5917 12 күн бұрын
I am never impressed by what people wear, how much money they make, the things they own... but every once in a while, someone shares some insight, experience, or wisdom, and I can't help but be fascinated and in awe. Character and strong personal values matter more than anything.
@EffectiveLearning-ek6vo
@EffectiveLearning-ek6vo 9 күн бұрын
I don't have much 😂 ask me how it feels what having less money n income feels like, nobody likes you much if you earn less not even wife children noone
@TheMangyCalf
@TheMangyCalf 8 күн бұрын
I am impressed when people have nice musical instruments and can play them well.
@calistayasmin3833
@calistayasmin3833 3 күн бұрын
❤❤ go veggie x
@EffectiveLearning-ek6vo
@EffectiveLearning-ek6vo 3 күн бұрын
@@mcs5917 it's a lie
@colingoldthorpe5918
@colingoldthorpe5918 20 күн бұрын
I've been married for 30 years. I don't know how long I would last without my Wife. Seeing how much pain these guys are in, makes me even more nervous... Time is a clicking clock that never runs in your favour. Hug the one you love often, never argue about pointless stuff. And always tell her you love her everyday....
@sonyavincent7450
@sonyavincent7450 19 күн бұрын
You're right to be concerned about that possibility. My husband died suddenly in 2018. We were together 32 years, married for most of those years. Loss of husband or wife is absolute agony and its relentless.
@chezchezchezchez
@chezchezchezchez 18 күн бұрын
If you think about the future, you’re anxious. It was documented in this video. Just enjoy the present dude
@johnbrewer4003
@johnbrewer4003 18 күн бұрын
Well, lost my wife in '22. We were married 35+ years. No words can fathom the depth of this loss. What did I do right? I invested in my wife and children. For this, I have no regrets. I would say also that I should have made more friends than acquaintances. But what is is.
@saraelenaable
@saraelenaable 18 күн бұрын
Believe me, its the worst tragedy, l lost my husband 2 and a half yrs ago, some days l just think why l am still here,. No matter if you have children, they have their own life.
@JEEDUHCHRI
@JEEDUHCHRI 17 күн бұрын
Many people never get married, have a companion, share a life. That doesn’t lessen the loss but hopefully you can be grateful for what you had.
@milbourne4666
@milbourne4666 11 күн бұрын
Love is "wishing the best for the other person" is beautiful. I also love the humility of the host. Honestly a video that I needed right now.
@stephanieh5478
@stephanieh5478 5 күн бұрын
Didn’t expect to sob through this video. Sending much love and light to everyone ❤
@carnivoreforlifepodcast5664
@carnivoreforlifepodcast5664 20 күн бұрын
This is very sad to watch, but they are so INCREDIBLY lucky to have found love. I've had to face a life without love and I would have given anything to have found it. These are the luckiest people in the world.
@treesoul00
@treesoul00 20 күн бұрын
You can love anyone you meet. There’s no piece of paper or contract required. Just treat them like you’d want to be treated, be kind to every living thing, and you’ll be loved everywhere you go. Be it to receive it.
@PolishBehemoth
@PolishBehemoth 20 күн бұрын
Sad on the surface but incredibly meaningful and beautiful if you actually take it an soak in the words they are saying! THIS LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL WHILE WE ARE ALIVE!!! God bless you all!
@anitapricecheck9554
@anitapricecheck9554 20 күн бұрын
@@treesoul00that’s not what they mean; they mean a partner. not everyone gets one
@emmy-kz1pj
@emmy-kz1pj 19 күн бұрын
Such a good point. But then there's also a lot of people who find love and then lose it too and get divorced or whatever. A life partner I feel is rare. I think if I were single id get more pets and maybe adopt or help with foster kids activities or something.
@jolin5238
@jolin5238 19 күн бұрын
You will find love someday, a kind, smart, and a beautiful girl, you will meet her someday, don't loose hope.
@jebsmith323
@jebsmith323 12 күн бұрын
Touch is important. Touch someone's arm or hand. Give them a light hug. I lost my husband about 12 years ago, and I can count how many hugs I've been given since them. We need touch.
@Hepycckuu
@Hepycckuu 3 күн бұрын
I touch myself, does it count ? 😉
@kirbylover37
@kirbylover37 16 сағат бұрын
How many have you given out?
@miaomiao07
@miaomiao07 4 күн бұрын
The red shirt guy really brought tear to my eyes, I didnt expect it.. wish blessings to those interviewees.
@Joyce-id3dr
@Joyce-id3dr 8 күн бұрын
I have watched other people interview older people and enjoy yours the most. You seem to put your heart into what you are doing, interested in what they say. Someone who will take their advice knowing you can benefit from it. Thanks, enjoy your interviews very much I might add I am almost 76 and these people are spot on!!
@davidcattin7006
@davidcattin7006 17 күн бұрын
What I see as the common denominator with these people is that he runs into them when they are OUTSIDE. WALKING. Hello! They are vital, vibrant, and, literally, getting out there. They, for the most part, have taken good care of themselves. They are dressed well, because they respect themselves and the people they might run into. Good, no, GREAT examples for all of us. As far as eating alone, you don't need to. Call a friend. Start a dinner or lunch club. Here in small-town Indiana every fast-food joint has a group of seniors eating breakfast every day. In a big city it should be even easier to connect. Regards from Indiana!
@Pops_Gambit
@Pops_Gambit 13 күн бұрын
Great point man. I’m from NYC and we really are all on top of each other with no real connections
@BodeeneAmyot
@BodeeneAmyot 11 күн бұрын
So true about getting outside!!!!
@MrAndrewAu
@MrAndrewAu 14 күн бұрын
I'm surprised none of them said "have kids" like in the thumbnail, let alone the fact that none of the interviewees even alluded to it.
@nicolawson
@nicolawson 11 күн бұрын
The first interviewee mentioned having 3 sons and 7 grandchildren. Aside from that, I agree that the content was not consistent with the thumbnail.
@tiffy623
@tiffy623 11 күн бұрын
Clickbait
@devesaniradhika
@devesaniradhika 8 күн бұрын
I know! I watched the entire video waiting for one of them to say it.
@alexsdb9712
@alexsdb9712 7 күн бұрын
Because they're realists, they know that the world is completely different now and inferior in many ways compared to when they were young or their prime. The "nest" isn't so secure anymore, or if there is even one anymore.
@niche_interest
@niche_interest 5 күн бұрын
Exactly, what a lying click-bait thumbnail. I had to watch the whole video to find out that nobody actually said it.
@KiranMedia.
@KiranMedia. 8 күн бұрын
These pure and kind people made me want to give a big hug to each one of them
@Rio-jl6rl
@Rio-jl6rl 7 күн бұрын
Best advice was from the lady with the white hat. "What we need to do most is what will take the most effort from us, the one that scares us and what we don't want to do"
@conniefeltman4561
@conniefeltman4561 19 күн бұрын
This one I identify with … I lost my husband three years ago this July 17th 2021 … and it’s so hard! He was 78 and at the time I was 73. Massive heart attack … gone suddenly … to say the least … I was in shock for a year at least! My world was turned upside down! Your feelings don’t die with them … we were married 40 years and I miss him so much! I love your vlog … very enlightening and since I am now 76 … easy to understand their views! Thank You for doing this! You’re helping a lot of people … 🌈🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️🇺🇸🇺🇸
@soundbonz
@soundbonz 13 күн бұрын
I live in that solitude which is painful in youth but delicious in the mature years - Albert Einstein. SO TRUE! I’m 70, divorced, retired, living alone with my dogs…and happier than at any point in my life. I feel so free with no obligations to any one or any thing. Definition of success in my book!! I meditate daily, practice the piano daily, and exercise. Oh, and eat. I learned how to be a better cook. I can die tomorrow feeling blessed.
@roadie26
@roadie26 8 күн бұрын
@@Lee-wk3cb bruh
@MajorCanada
@MajorCanada 5 күн бұрын
This street reporting is the heart and soul of what content creation stands for.
@georgemckeon6710
@georgemckeon6710 6 күн бұрын
Love, friends, family, and good health. None of these gifts should ever be taken for granted.
@MissStatement
@MissStatement 20 күн бұрын
“Enjoy the moment !” “I would encourage more to trust your gut feeling.” “Risk It! “Do the right thing!” Well said 👏👏👏 great advices
@carmenlux1775
@carmenlux1775 20 күн бұрын
+ Relationships are the most important.
@MissStatement
@MissStatement 19 күн бұрын
@@carmenlux1775❤
@Hepycckuu
@Hepycckuu 3 күн бұрын
do a barel roll!
@melissat9193
@melissat9193 13 күн бұрын
If you live in the past you’re depressed if you live in the future you’re anxious and if you live in the present you’re at peace! LOVE IT!!
@CourtneyLaBree
@CourtneyLaBree 11 күн бұрын
That was my favorite! ❤️
@hansolo4942
@hansolo4942 11 күн бұрын
That's Eckhart Tolle
@lovingsunshine3515
@lovingsunshine3515 10 күн бұрын
Honestly though, I hear way more people living in the present more miserable than in the past though due to high living expenses. And they’re anxious for the future bc if it’s expensive now, life will just be more expensive later in the future.
@_munkykok_
@_munkykok_ 10 күн бұрын
That's an old classic
@SSTan-cz7eo
@SSTan-cz7eo 10 күн бұрын
She clearly had gone thru deep meditation
@Honeycomblife
@Honeycomblife 11 күн бұрын
The lady that says what costs us the most effort /trouble is what we need to look into /deal with . I felt that!
@EmilyPNW
@EmilyPNW 11 күн бұрын
Love this! I work as a physical therapist in a hospital and work a lot with elderly people. Exercise & maintaining a healthy social life will give you the best quality of life as you age.
@paul_domici
@paul_domici 20 күн бұрын
It's so beautiful to see people that have or had long loving relationships! I think that's the hardest thing to find today : (
@Sarah-ft8jr
@Sarah-ft8jr 18 күн бұрын
Because people are greedy these days and expect perfection. Just because a couple has been together for 60 years doesn’t mean it’s been roses the entire time. They may have gone through a million ups and downs, but it’s about perseverance and the ability to fall back in love again. And the commitment you make to one another to always make it work.
@thecircledance
@thecircledance 13 күн бұрын
@@Sarah-ft8jr I don't think it's fair to say people expect perfection. I've never expected perfection in any of my relationships. I've been cheated on, physically and sexually abused, stolen from, etc. There are some seriously bad people out there and many of us encounter them when trying to have relationships. Not everyone is single because they're too picky. I'd love to meet a nice, kind, normal man but it has never happened for me.
@jefferytonge916
@jefferytonge916 6 күн бұрын
So true call someone thank you for sharing I’m in my 60s We’re not here for a long time and don’t forget to say I love You..Be yourself and do good things
@firefly2508
@firefly2508 14 сағат бұрын
This was very insightful. Thank you to all these people who offered their advice. The best quote I heard: "If you live in the past, you're depressed. If you live in the future, you're anxious. But if you live in the present, you're at peace. Focus on the present." ❤
@louisel.sinniger2057
@louisel.sinniger2057 19 күн бұрын
These people are so right. I am a 72 year old nurse that chooses to still work, BECAUSE I WANT TO. As long as I can remember, I have had wonder & curiosity. Keep moving, keep exploring. Kindness, empathy. Have a good wholesome code of ethics, be true to yourself, be accountable. Hang out with people that have good, happy personalities, and who are genuinely GOOD. These points of view have served me well. I have been trying to cruise thru life having few regrets; so far no complaints. Thank you for these videos, I REALLY enjoy them.
@OneManOnFire
@OneManOnFire 16 күн бұрын
I'm 39 years old and to care of my Mom with Alzheimer's for 20 years. About 10 years into taking care of her I took photos and videos of her. About the last 8 years I made sure to kiss her every time I left the house everyday. Now that she's gone I have tons of photos and videos. No regrets about how I spent time with her. I could've taken her outdoors more but she was hard to pick up and take her out of bed.
@marygee3981
@marygee3981 15 күн бұрын
❤such a good child to your parent.
@Sumadeena
@Sumadeena 13 күн бұрын
You are blessed man.
@arijones9564
@arijones9564 13 күн бұрын
May G-d continue to bless you.
@ABxx2011
@ABxx2011 11 күн бұрын
You're a great son.
@TheresaRezentes-hd8hf
@TheresaRezentes-hd8hf 10 күн бұрын
Now that she’s gone, make your extended family a real priority in your life. You will need them if you never had children.
@nomcognom2414
@nomcognom2414 6 күн бұрын
Very nice people, also in good shape and with much spirit and lucidity in them. The man would kept getting emotional about his wife, so nice and touching. What a pity they couldn't enjoy more years together. But the important thing is they met each other and it was wonderful, because wonder/awe in life last forever, just as love. Some experiences in life are so precious we treasure them and they keep making us happy and grateful for the rest of our life. 😊
@pearle3777
@pearle3777 5 күн бұрын
I love the comment “ if you live in the past, you’re depressed. If you live in the future, you’re anxious. If you live in the present, you’re content .” Well said! God bless them all. 🤍🤍🤍
@onadipeoluwatoyin7826
@onadipeoluwatoyin7826 8 күн бұрын
Thank you🙏 Hadn't spoke to my mum in a little while Decided to call her after watching your video ...turned out she was down with a fever. Glad I spoke to her. The world needs more videos like this 🙏🙏
@duke613
@duke613 20 күн бұрын
I'm 59 and stopped dating 9 years ago. I'm just done with all of it. It doesn't work for everyone. I have no regrets. i have inner peace.
@anitapricecheck9554
@anitapricecheck9554 20 күн бұрын
you have to bite your tongue a lot & look the other way (guys, gals AND non-binary pals) instead of demanding justice & I could not do it
@sonyavincent7450
@sonyavincent7450 19 күн бұрын
I'm exactly the opposite. I was suddenly widowed in 2018 after 32 years together, most of those married. I'd love another partner, I miss the sense of being someone's favourite person.
@duke613
@duke613 18 күн бұрын
@@sonyavincent7450 Everyone is different. If you had a good relationship you were lucky. It doesn't happen to the vast majority of people because monogamous relationships just do not work for the most part. It's not natural for humans. Those still married after decades, many are mostly roommates. i know more divorced people than married people. I am a sociable introvert. I like people and socialize but need my alone time. I just cannot imagine being legally bound to another human being for potentially the rest of my life, living day in and day out, every day seeing that person and not having my personal space and freedom. Some people NEED to constantly be with someone and that is beyond comprehension to me. Living together full time is a relationship killer for many people. To each their own but I've never felt more inner peace than when I left all that behind.
@coolgainz9307
@coolgainz9307 18 күн бұрын
Honestly, as long as you have peace within yourself then you don’t need a relationship, do what works for you!
@ThinkingJames
@ThinkingJames 17 күн бұрын
Hey bro. Im 35 and married. I tell you, you are doing great!!!
@roymadison5686
@roymadison5686 20 күн бұрын
Living in the present , being calm, leave the rat race, let those you care about know that you care about them , help out , assist those in need , get 100% out of debt (dont feed the beast by paying interest), pray daily and read from the scriptures, eat right , be acrive , be gratifull, be caring and kind, imagine Jesus the Christ and try to think and act like you imagine he might. Endure to the end .. I'm married to the wife of my youth and the choice of my heart 47 years. Still going strong... knock on wood.. .
@bezagebremedhine5102
@bezagebremedhine5102 14 күн бұрын
Thank you. God bless.
@KhizriKhomyakov
@KhizriKhomyakov Күн бұрын
I love how the interviewer stopped in the middle of the video to acknowledge the conversations that were being shared and to cause us to reflect.
@Ecrios
@Ecrios Күн бұрын
I hope I am not the only one here who wants to give a hug to everyone answering the author's questions or at least suggest them all to be hugged, just for the matter of appreciation of that short time with these polite and wise strangers
@mmmwangi82
@mmmwangi82 20 күн бұрын
Ooooh l deeply feel for the 1st two gentlemen. Loneliness and Anxiety /depression is real
@fredrickrancour9687
@fredrickrancour9687 20 күн бұрын
What an incredible group of people and so generous to share their wisdom. Your ‘time out’ was very thoughtful, Will!
@volcanoarrima
@volcanoarrima 4 күн бұрын
As an Indian, who was fed with prejudice that Westerners don't live with one spouse for half a decade, this video brought me tears. I dare say these elders have a much better character and courtesy than my own grandparents.
@mariams416
@mariams416 7 күн бұрын
I lost my grandma exactly 2 months ago today, she was 97 and lived through so many things. I’ll never forget her smile, her hands and her little white head. She taught me, without even realizing it, to enjoy the moment and the simple things, have patience and to always treat older people with love and kindness.
@Carlyayi
@Carlyayi 6 күн бұрын
Me too, my grandma died on May 20th and she was 97. The most gentle loving person. Sending my condolences ❤
@emmanuelgriffith9342
@emmanuelgriffith9342 6 күн бұрын
🫂
@rebelresource
@rebelresource 9 күн бұрын
Wow - I loved what each person had to say. Such beautiful people. When my wife passes or if I pass... I will be distraught. She is the love of my life. Seeing their grief was so insightful and honest.
@cheryl2367
@cheryl2367 15 күн бұрын
Bless those old people with love, health and happiness. Their advice is gold.
@1821femina
@1821femina 16 күн бұрын
"If you live in the past, you are depressed. If you live in the future, you are anxious. If you live in the present, you are at peace". That was one of the best advice I have heard in a long time. That phrase could've come from Seneca. Great video!
@WaryofExtremes
@WaryofExtremes 15 күн бұрын
I wish i were old, near the end... I dont see kids or nieces or nephews in my life, and wonder if i can even make it to 60 to have some government pension and such. I wish a doctor would give me 6 months to live. I'd visit family, curl up on a couch with them. No more bs
@loveineverystitch
@loveineverystitch 7 күн бұрын
I love the guy that said don't be afraid to fall in love. Great advice ❤
@dfab2486
@dfab2486 20 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for this. We dont hold our seniors with as much regard as we should. I just turned 60 and it really messed with my mind. Like one of your guests said, i too never had a real "goal" or "passion" my family is my greatest achievement, i am proud of that. And the way that gentleman spoke of his late wife.... well, that he feels that kind of love, thats one big achievement many will never know.♥️
@PolishBehemoth
@PolishBehemoth 20 күн бұрын
4:35 "If you know how to challenge your creativity and you make others benefit from it, then youve defeated age" - Wow! Thats a quote worth screenshotting and remembering! That is amazaing for a older person and younge rperson i have to admit!
@TeachChildren-xi1lr
@TeachChildren-xi1lr 7 күн бұрын
Agree! I screen-recorded him saying that quote and took a screenshot of your writing it in quotes. Amazing advice and valuable secret for life moving forward!
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