I Don't Feel Like A Father | {THE AND} Keisha & Andrew

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Keisha (she/her) and Andrew (he/him) have a baby! During their seventh round on {THE AND} the couple talks about their new day to day dynamics with their 4 month baby girl. They discuss the different challenges of parenthood and their wishes for their newly grown family, how love grows in ways you didn’t think were possible, their immense and continuously expanding love for each other and how their baby has changed their relationship for the better.
As we explore new perspectives we invite you to step into the emotional space of connection and experience the deeper lessons that shared experiences can afford humanity. To everyone who has participated openly and vulnerably in our project - we appreciate what you have shared with us and hope others do as well.
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EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR | Topaz Adizes
PRODUCTION MANAGER | Marisela Delgado
DIRECTOR OF PHOTOGRAPHY | Kat Hennessey
CAMERA OPERATOR | Marlana Dunn
SOUND | Joe Hernandez & Sara Sandoval
EDITOR | Patricia Peregrín
WITH THE PARTICIPATION OF | Keisha & Andrew
We Had A Kid! | {THE AND} Keisha & Andrew

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@aviaaiken-brown9774 11 ай бұрын

Did anyone else scream when they saw this ??????? So happy they're still going strong!

@aishao6838 11 ай бұрын

FR I love them so much😭😭

@Syren90...Aka9 11 ай бұрын

I did!!! 🙋🏽‍♀️

@2008akir 11 ай бұрын

Yes i been checking to see when they was coming back i screamed when i seen this

@barbaramandela1371 11 ай бұрын

I am so happy for them!

@kevinenaturelle1 11 ай бұрын

Yes😂

@sharonstaggers-moss8176 11 ай бұрын

I have 2 grown daughters. Keisha got it right. They are not mine. I am theirs. I will always be theirs. My mom recently died. Before she did, my mom and daughter got into an argument about the way my daughter was talking to me. Mom said, "She may be your mother, but she is my baby." I almost melted. That's what parenting is all about. She will always be your baby.

@juliettebarasch6180 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing this, and I’m very sorry for your loss ❤️

@potvaliancy 11 ай бұрын

That’s beautiful. I hope you find the strength to withstand such a profound loss.

@nicoleraheem1195 11 ай бұрын

I love your mom for that line! My mom's baby is only my younger sister. It's like I only exist in her PAST. However, what your mom said is something I would say to my future grandchildren. That's love. ❤

@TheeMrsGrinch 11 ай бұрын

Awww

@janetcaesar1334 11 ай бұрын

@sharonstaggers-moss8176 I'm so sorry for your loss . That's soul deep ❤️❤️

@thecommentsection4913 11 ай бұрын

Him trying to read the card without clearing his throat first had me dying. He was fighting for his life lmao!

@nateishacampbell9830 11 ай бұрын

😂

@Syren90...Aka9 4 ай бұрын

Right!? 😂

@lemoncakesandmoonpies 11 ай бұрын

Keisha and Andrew are amazing, I love their series.

@ethioluv1dalluS 11 ай бұрын

💟

@lexi219 11 ай бұрын

They really are. It’s such a delight to see a couple that communicates so well and genuinely just enjoys each other this much. I feel like a creep saying this, but 20 minutes every couple of years isn’t enough!

@WholeHeartily 11 ай бұрын

There is nothing more romantic than telling your partner their love feels like home 🥺

@angelamiller3819 11 ай бұрын

“She will not be mine, I am hers” As a new mom to a little girl this hit me right in the deepest part of my heart. I had been struggling with the idea of her not “loving me back yet” - it’s not about this! I am hers. I am here to love her and give myself to her for the rest of my life!

@yzma6142 11 ай бұрын

This is so beautiful

@nenyeo6090 11 ай бұрын

Don’t make me cry 😭 ❤ that was very beautiful

@nayomegilliard 8 күн бұрын

This comment makes me want to sob, and I have no kids. Ughhh, so beautiful. You go girl!

@chioosuna4839 11 ай бұрын

Oh my god, the "I'm hers for the rest of my life" statement about their daughter was SO beautiful, love to see them back on the series.

@fionag5159 11 ай бұрын

❤

@papi_manny 11 ай бұрын

Please never stop bringing them back!!! When Andrew said "safety and home " 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

@SlasherChick 11 ай бұрын

I’ve never been so happy for a pair of strangers. I screamed they had the baby!!! ❤

@MaddiGirl16 11 ай бұрын

I’ve watched this couple for YEARS now…so happy to see them still going strong

@emarilynemarura3587 8 ай бұрын

What did she .mean by "when the mother of the kid left?"

@EN-mh6sr 11 ай бұрын

I love how they know each other so well. Their communication skills are incredible and enviable. They're open and honest and don't seem to worry about being judged by the other. As it should be.

@Lilzki 11 ай бұрын

Absolutely, it is lovely to watch them and be inspired

@TlhomphoDitedu 11 ай бұрын

As it should be

@mzmeshelle 11 ай бұрын

People have been giving marriage a bad rap on the Internet but this couple right here 🎉 this is everything to show the journey, imperfections, love, care, disappointments just life and I just love this example. I pray 🙏🏾 they keep going. ❤ them.

@goldenlifeinfl 11 ай бұрын

I like this channel, but in 100% transparency, Keisha & Andrew are THE ONLY REASON why I subscribed, because I had loved watching them since the beginning, and have appreciated their willingness to keep the public up with their lives. Congratulations on your baby girl, Keisha & Andrew! You are going to be phenomal (not perfect) parents! I think you're both cool 🤩🤩🤩

@nrsimmons178 11 ай бұрын

This exactly! 🥰🥰🥰

@elfredawright 11 ай бұрын

💯

@nqobilemalaza9838 11 ай бұрын

I think it's safe to say that the entire Skin Deep tribe is apoplectic with joy at the news... This kid's 'choosing your parents' game is next level. ❤❤❤

@papi_manny 11 ай бұрын

THEY GOT THE KID BRO 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 now I gotta rewatch the whole series because I am so fuckin proud and happy. I still remember when y'all lived in the studio to save up for your kid. When Keshia asked Andrew if he was over his white fragility 😂 I feel like Keshia and Andrew are my PEOPLE. I love y'all so much. I am so happy and y'all make me cry, laugh, smile, and be so proud all at the same time. The love, the love, the lovveeeeeeee 😩❤️❤️❤️❤️🦋🦋🦋🦋

@dezireejones8216 11 ай бұрын

They have a baby now 😩♥️ My heart!! I remember watching them for the first time 5-7 years back.

@EN-mh6sr 11 ай бұрын

They are my favorites in this series! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉CONGRATULATIONS 👶🏽💗🙏🏾

@juxbono3123 11 ай бұрын

What is the series?

@AsandaMahlangu 9 ай бұрын

@@juxbono3123they’ve been on the and for a few years so it’s basically a series

@moniquegyampo9517 11 ай бұрын

Keisha and Andrew are an all time favorite. I pray God continues to bless their family in a multitude of ways even more than they can imagine❤

@miznikki2u 11 ай бұрын

LOVE THEIR LOVE. They are best friends, and thats how it should be

@research4lifee 11 ай бұрын

"She will not be mine, I am hers" wow. A really profound statement! Great to see them again!

@TestorshiaTheeOne 11 ай бұрын

I can't tell you how glad I am to see Keisha and Andrew's dream come true - they've been talking about it the whole time we've been seeing them on The And, and to see them glowing and blissed out about their life together is so healing. It's like, it's not impossible - if you're consistent and open and loving, you can achieve anything. Thank y'all for allowing us to be along for the ride 🙏

@n4musica 11 ай бұрын

The way they can just stare into each other’s eyes like you can tell they could just do that for minutes. So sweet

@127kawaii 11 ай бұрын

Seeing their life updates has given me so much joy over the years. Thank you for continuing to be open and share your life with us^^ can't wait to watch it❤ Edit: This is the cutest video ever❤ Such good humans! I loved that they are so excited for this new chapter in their life and yet so ready. This kind of relationship with open and honest communication where vulnerability is not only allowed but welcomed and encouraged is something I aspire to have. Warmed my heart ❤congratulations to them both~❤

@goldenlifeinfl 11 ай бұрын

I always love their updates! They are going to be amazing parents 🤩🤩🤩

@deliteful1991 11 ай бұрын

Same!

@warreng5394 11 ай бұрын

I've been a part of their journey for so long! Happy to hear this news! 🤎🤍

@ops6804 11 ай бұрын

I'm so glad they're still going strong and still have the same chemistry and banter as when we watched them first 🥹

@stephenreggio42 11 ай бұрын

They have been my favorite couple and am excited that they have kid that brightens their marriage, greetings from Ghana 🇬🇭

@traveljunkie59 11 ай бұрын

The way they look at each other; it almost makes me blush. They personify love, it oozes from them. ❤️❤️

@WholeHeartily 11 ай бұрын

First of all, I’m happy for their love. Second, it’s clear they’re struggling to put words to the process of navigating adoption, but it’s sooooo beautiful to watch them TRY! I wish our world had more of that.

@davjaneetillis5108 11 ай бұрын

Yes, I was just wondering how they were doing the other day while watching another The Skin Deep video. I am hella excited to hear where they are in their lives. Wishing them and their union so much love, protection and abundance.

@emilychamberlain4854 11 ай бұрын

This made me love my husband even more. 37, 3 kids, been with him forever❤😂 I love raising kids with him. Your segment really resonated with me. Thank you for saying being together is awesome and raising kids is awesome. It is awesome if it’s what you want and you’re with someone who wants it too. I don’t regret a second of it. Your love for each other and your baby is beautiful!!

@Larouge07 11 ай бұрын

Your comment is encouraging. ❤️

@ThaisCunha501 11 ай бұрын

It's impossible to see these two and NOT smile BIG! They make me want to find great love like this.

@tinab8466 11 ай бұрын

These two were meant for each other. You can tell they love each other.

@M.I.22 11 ай бұрын

I am so HAPPY they have become parents, after talking about it for so long!!! 😍🙏🏽 They look the best they've ever looked, I'm overflowing with joy right now

@aliciamusiclover7810 11 ай бұрын

Congratulations to the parents. Congratulations to the girl, who has these wonderful parents. I am a pediatrician and have such a good feeling about this family with their humor, their great communication skills, the great foundation Keisha and Andrew have as a couple. The love for each other and their daughter shows so much in their eyes.

@TheMissDerby 11 ай бұрын

I Am so so happy we’ve gotten an update. They’re by far my favorite couple on the skin deep series. If I can’t find love similar to theirs I don’t want it.

@paulavanvliet4127 11 ай бұрын

Crying laughing crying with these two, can't imagine two people who are more capable of loving a tiny human and making their baby girl into a complex adult than these people

@michaeltatum959 5 ай бұрын

This couple just makes me happy! Was scrolling on insta and saw that another video came out and immediately ran to KZfaq!

@oxforddictonary 11 ай бұрын

They are the epitome of "I crave a love so deep, it makes the ocean jealous"

@katiegill4927 11 ай бұрын

They make ME so happy, I can’t even begin to imagine how good they must feel knowing what they have. Such grateful, wholesome and kind humans. That baby girl is as lucky as they are ♥️

@bobbyjaan5664 5 ай бұрын

Came straight from Instagram after seeing one clip 🤭🤭

@dereakcolumbus3603 11 ай бұрын

as someone studying psychology on a Master's level . I have VERY much enjoyed watching ya'll's progress over the years. I was elated when KZfaq recommended this one. thankyou for sharing.

@gorgeoustgirl 11 ай бұрын

I love how they can hold and maintain eye contact ❤

@agnettathess4431 11 ай бұрын

Can we get this till they are 90...love it!!!

@JohnDoe-tm9wz 11 ай бұрын

After years of watching them talk about having a kid...they finally got one! 🙌🏻❤️

@theamp1986 11 ай бұрын

Aw! Now I’m gonna watch the older filming! Love their perspective on parenting! “She’s not mines, I’m hers.” Not projecting expectations but “what she needs.” F the social constructs of mother and father lol. Raising a human. Love love love

@Shann0nxo 10 ай бұрын

As a mom of two little girls, what she said is so true, but also sad... "I feel like a mom because im judged by society"

@unapologeticallyhuman 11 ай бұрын

"What does my love feel like?" "safety" the drop of her shoulders says it all.

@EBvdee 9 ай бұрын

Honestly I need to find a way to their social media because they disappeared for a thousand years and then popped up!! They are like Adele and I click on the video/ buy the album every time like a happy fool.

@EBvdee 9 ай бұрын

And then the video is only 19 minutes. Bro y’all are killing me

@nathansalim 9 ай бұрын

ADELE LOL But youre right about they

@MissEvantiaMaria 11 ай бұрын

Can't think of two people more deserving of their dream. Bless you both, your love and laughter is infectious!

@shontelhorneonline 11 ай бұрын

I’ve never seen two people more perfect for each other. ❤

@simeonbusano7338 11 ай бұрын

When I tell you I’ve been waiting my whole life. These two have the most stable relationship of anyone I know god bless 😭😭😭

@misjuiceefroot 11 ай бұрын

So many nuggets of love, wisdom and beauty. But the biggest takeaway from this for me is that their baby is beyond blessed ❤

@byBrieMoore 11 ай бұрын

The update I didn't know I needed!! I'm so happy they're now a family of 3. I know that little one is going to be so loved. Thanks for bringing them back, and thanks to them for coming back. This made me smile!!

@Kay_Ess 11 ай бұрын

By far my favourite 'The And' series. Absolutely LOVE Keisha & Andrew and so thrilled to know they've become parents!

@kathy2888 11 ай бұрын

No way! So neat to bring them back! Can we expand to more couples around the world again? Like Europe, Asia, Africa, etc.

@LottoLogista 11 ай бұрын

We obviously dont know them but i couldn't have rooted for a better couple. ❤️

@iliizakarangwa5967 11 ай бұрын

I pray I meet a man this excited and intentional to be a parent. I have my doubts but I’d love this kind of support

@nbbim2012 11 ай бұрын

I'm so glad to see these 2 again. Seems like they adopted their child. CONGRATULATIONS on the addition to your family !!!!!!!!!!!!

@EN-mh6sr 11 ай бұрын

That's what I was thinking too. They're going to be the most amazing parents ❤️🙏🏾

@beatricedevarenne2621 11 ай бұрын

pretty sure it’s a surrogate

@yzma6142 11 ай бұрын

Oooo this makes sense

@polivepea 10 ай бұрын

It sounds like they had a surrogate

@yelleyw 11 ай бұрын

There are very few relationships I aspire to have but THIS right here is one of them. The mutual love, respect, adoration and friendship they have for each other is everything. They genuinely LIKE each other. Goals for sure. 🥰

@moussabby 11 ай бұрын

That was so beautiful. I'm probably very close in age to Keisha and Andrew but when they talked about what they wanted their daughter to take away from this conversation, it felt like the love letter I've always wanted to receive from my parents. Their appearance on THE AND always leaves me with so much more when I finish watching them. Thank you to everyone who made it possible.

@moira4784 11 ай бұрын

The internet's fav couple. Love to see them still going strong. ❤

@Shun_Lovette 11 ай бұрын

14:05 his answer… I instantly started to cry! So beautiful!

@nateishacampbell9830 11 ай бұрын

Same

@itsasamorse 11 ай бұрын

I've always loved how vulnerable and honest they are with each other. Congratulations to you two, Keisha and Andrew! You're already wonderful parents!

@chanelss727 8 ай бұрын

Congratulations! It has been so nice to watch Keisha and Andrew’s updates over the years.

@NC-qc7wd 11 ай бұрын

Wow, the honesty in the dialogue between these two people is surprisingly beautiful. Despite this openness, there is an underlying tension between them, as they both seem to be cautious in how they word their sentences. I only just started watching this channel, and I'm completely captivated by it. I'm eager to learn if I can foster the same level of communication with my life partner of 31 years. Keep doing this please

@ladze77 11 ай бұрын

how fast did you click to watch this video when you saw these two? they are so adorable and am so happy for them.

@user-gw9ue4wt9w 11 ай бұрын

Please never stop bringing them on TSD!

@mccnbinnie9840 11 ай бұрын

Oh my gosh, I remember seeing them like 5 years ago, I literally smiled went saw the video pop up. So happy they are still happily married ❤

@TheSkinDeep 11 ай бұрын

We love the fact that you smiled immediately

@yelleyw 11 ай бұрын

Best couple of this series!! To hear they had a baby is everything! So happy for them!!❤

@akherashepsutera2013 11 ай бұрын

Their daughter came earthside to be so ridiculously loved and supported 💗 I'm so curious if they'll have another... 🤷🏽‍♀️🥰

@Lene-ib7qz 11 ай бұрын

The fact that these two shared their lives over all these years makes me so happy! Cant wait to hear what life had in store for them.

@KEOSHAANEILIA 11 ай бұрын

I love …just the way they talk, look at, and interact with one another. They seem to know each other so well and just…idk. This is the way relationships should be (to me, anyway).

@lovelylife56 11 ай бұрын

I pray that they have a long happy marriage for many many more years.

@Zutentu 11 ай бұрын

So happy for them already!!!

@gilmoresrox2 11 ай бұрын

Yay I’ve been wondering about them!

@loveheals6184 11 ай бұрын

I'm soooooooo HAPPY about the title 🥰🥰🥰🤲🏿❤🙏🏿❤🙌🏿❤😎💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿 We know they've wanted a child for a while. I wish the whole family health, joy, harmony and longevity.💙

@beasamsung3803 11 ай бұрын

14:09 ALL THE FEELS! My favorite part of this whole thing!!! That’s true LOVE! ❤

@lydiahrussell1812 11 ай бұрын

Two beautiful people who make such a wholesome couple. Their daughter is so lucky to have great parents! So fun to follow these two and their journey.

@rubytuesdayism 11 ай бұрын

You’ll feel like a dad for the first time when she looks to you and says “dada” it’s wildly powerful🥹

@yelleyw 11 ай бұрын

“Holy shit that baby’s got a melon😳….I love her so much!”😊 Hilarious!!😂🤣 That little girl is going to be so loved! Congrats! ❤

@SaharaColeman 11 ай бұрын

Omg one of our fav couples is finally back and the vid premieres during my bday month!!! 🎉 I’m so happy to hear they had a Babygirl, hopefully we get to see her next go around. It’s so beautiful watching their eyes light up speaking about her. 🥰😇

@19Mazur 11 ай бұрын

They are the definition of partners. I lovr watching their story as people and a couple grow. I hope nothing but the best for them ❤

@michboa437 11 ай бұрын

I'm so glad they're still together. Still mad at Netflix for cancelling Astronomy Club. She's a great writer.

@thatawesometrucker 11 ай бұрын

I'm not crying y'all...I was just cutting onions😂

@ShayleeOfficial 11 ай бұрын

These two are the greatest! They are goals! Love their updates!

@s.b1192 11 ай бұрын

I'm screaming!🎉 I literally think about them all the time and after everything they've been through. I kept praying this would happen for them. The world needs more kids that are well loved. ❤

@chefauri228 11 ай бұрын

omggggggg i’ve been waiting for this! i love them! so happy for them

@DDtona93 11 ай бұрын

Yay! Glad they did it finally! thanks for the update!

@lusciousmaui06 11 ай бұрын

This is the video we all have been waiting for. SO happy and excited for them and can’t wait to watch it! 🥳🎉❤️

@only1tacy 11 ай бұрын

I my gosh! I love them! I can't wait for this update! ❤

@LauraRizzotto 11 ай бұрын

We’ve been WAITING for this!!What a beautiful love this couple has for each other. So grateful to keep up with their journey!

@yayag.1393 11 ай бұрын

Omg, I've literally been following y'alls story since your first video 😍 so happy to hear this, congratulations!!

@iamme2353 11 ай бұрын

I see Keisha and Andrew, I stop what I’m doing and click on the video!

@tyddavis87 11 ай бұрын

I love every update we get from them. ❤ you can feel their love and respect for each other through the screen.

@kaybraff 11 ай бұрын

I rewatched their videos recently and so glad to see there is an update. Congrats on your little girl.

@wildflower9065 11 ай бұрын

IM so happy to see them back!! I love them so much! The And, PLEASE MAKE THIS A SERIES!

@aeryn112 11 ай бұрын

How many years have I been watching these 2?? I don't even know anymore but I adore them and I'm so happy for this stage they're now in in their lives.