I feel for this man,hope he finds someone who is kind enough to love him without taking advantage of his kind

100℅ Respect for this man.

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This should be an eye opener. If you must make a mistake, never you marry a wicked and inconsiderate person.

He want to because of the children. That man is a good man .

I will support my kids but will never come close to such woman. Oga go enjoy life and make sure you hustle up to help your kids. That's all

She claimed she recently begged him for them to be together again but immediately said No without a second thought when she was asled if she would like to be together with him again. You can easily tell she is a dubious person.

This woman will definitely meet a man that you treat her worst than she treated this man. She is just something else. May God bless this man with someone that he will find lasting joy with.

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Judge funmi is a very principled minded woman,peaceful and intelligent 👍❤

I just feel for this man, this woman took advantage of his kind heart, but where the man went wrong was for neglecting his children

Never get into a relationship out of pity. There is a reason her first man left her.

“Don’t talk over me!” I Stan a Judge that assumes control #respect 🙌🏾

He has to provide foe his children!!! because a woman leaves you is no excuse not to look after your kids.

May we never enter marriage unprepared. May we never enter marriage without first building our relationship with God. We are experiencing this because the faith is completely lost among christians. The lady will live to regret her decision. God help us all

The lady has been decived by men out there. She will finally regret it at last.

This man is too responsible and calm for what the woman is making him go through. May our sons not come the way of evil woman

This is not fair honestly. This woman knows what she is doing. I feel for this man after hearing all the stories. The woman should be included in the upkeep of the children too.

This is a very good judgement. This case is about the CHILDREN's welfare. They are the ones suffering from the problems of the parents. Irrespective of their differences, a father should not harden his heart towards his children. When they were living with him, did he feed them, when he was living alone and eating didn't he feel in his heart oh what are my children eating?. Oh are their school fees paid?, how are they doing when they are sick? Its not about whether the woman is crazy or not it's about the children. You don't need to be with the woman but you need to be a good father because the children are watching. So if this crazy woman didn't drag him to court ,he wouldn't have thought of feeding his children, for 3 years he has not fed his children, 3 years because of anger, he neglects his children who are bearing his name ,who will be counted towards his family. For those saying he doesn't have custody , listen to the judgment again, during holidays and weekends he has custody of the children. I agree the lady is crazy but the man is wicked. Don't let his gentle talk fool you. A father that would not provide for his children deliberately because he is angry with their mother is wicked.

I really don’t know why bad things happen to “some” good people 😢 he really doesn’t deserve this kind of treatment. I hope he finds love again🙏

Judge Funmi, I admire your firmness and calmness put together. Well done to you and your team.

A big sorry for the man . I felt bad for him when he said “ his been caged “ the lady knows what she’s doing.

I feel so bad for this man... Such a calm and gentle man. God please don't give my brothers this kind of woman... 😢😢😢

Both parties are to blame. Eventhough the woman is problematic, for the man to be mute over the upkeep of their children for 3years, it doesn't tell well. Here, we learn to be in-depth and deliberate about the persons we chose as partners.

Such a gentle man.. the woman is something else so obvious she has moved on.

Everything about this woman is scary...signs of danger. Her facial expressions, her scary eyes and finally, worse off her earthquake, tremor, trembling voice...even if men were "born to suffer", this isn't worth it

less than 15 to 20yrs from now, she will look back and say, i wish she can turn back the hands of time.

"Don't talk over me.... let this be the last time you talk over me.."😅💀

Never judge until you hear from the other side, I remembered last when I was listening to this woman I felt like I had nothing until I hear from the man himself. And Boom, I don't know what this woman really want but I hope this man moves on. That's I can say

Such a gentle man. the Lady has moved on since 1960.

The man self nor try to leave the responsibility for that years for the woman,he nor wan even pay any money for the kids. The man self shuoo

I felt for this man, his been caged, and the woman has already planned things out, I pray he finds someone else that will make him help.

I really feel for the man. He has gone through a lot

We are here today again 😊....omo I feel pity for this man

Behold the most sensitive and intelligent judge I have seen. God bless you ma'am

This man is a complete gentle man

He should have a DNA for those children

Judge Funmi was really stressed on this case o. I commend her patience.

These are one of the reasons it's good to be together as one. A lot of issues always occur. And by splitting it also affect the children.

This is not a wife material at all. She think the judgement will be in her favour when she brings the man to the court. It is a very big problem to a man when his wife starts having extra marital affairs outside their marriage. I can't even pray for my enemy to have this kind of a woman as a wife. Her eyes 👀 go clear when those guys out there don chop her finish. She is not remorse. No atom of respect at all. Yeye dey smell

Wow this man is a real man I really admire him.

That you judge Funmi. The man deserves the custody of his children and never have anything to do with such a lady again. Wicked world.

Unfortunately, divorce creates double expenses... when the man pays the bills year after year nobody hears anything.. but she pays for just 1 year (and no available change for frivolous spending) and there is commotion everywhere.

Wait a minute, No one is talking about him not making effort to see his 4 children Since 4 years ! He didn't try to make sure they are fine or not.. Left the responsibilities for the lady alone . Kids are expensive to care for man!

This man needs to pay upkeep as he's not paying the children's accommodation. Let their mother go and hustle for a better life. Life goes on.

She is toxic, my dear brother let her move on...just train your children till they come off age to cater for themselves...well done Judge Funmi❤️

Aah this woman is something else. May God help us.

I just love this Judge. This is truly her calling.

The man should do DNA for those kids. I won't be surprised if some are not his.

😂😂 @14:20 judge asked how much he will be giving for his children’s upkeep, and under his breath, he says “e no concern you” so rude! since 2019…you’re in court, so you have to be ready so answer the judge’s questions.

She broke up with her first marriage, now second and she will be hoping for the third marriage, the circle will continue if she's not careful and might even affect her children when they grow up. She's looking for Love. Is there still Love in this social media era? She's dreaming of social media love and forgetting about her children at this stage. The man is very peaceful in nature. God help him to find someone who will build a good home with him.

A very good and fair judgement 👌. Judge Funmi is amazingly great 👍 👏 . Kudos to her & her team👍.

Both of them should take care of the kids in every way ....this man is too gentle 😠😠.

I’m led to tell the man to take those kids for DNA test before he starts paying any dime . May God be with him

This man has been through a lot . Why should this be happening to a gentle man like this ?

The woman is the one at loss, she will never see a man like this again.

Simple question how much upkeep can you drop for the kids. He s not responding. Since 2019 no upkeep. Some men na wa

I tot the lady will consider coming back and then live a better lives while individuals amend their ways

Such a gentle man.

The Lady has premeditated this marriage and relationship. you can see she has no real feelings. A narcissist female cannot stay in a marriage. They can plan to set you up phychologically so that you cant perform your fatherly duties. These people prey on empathetic men. At the end of the day they want people to see them as the victim.

Counselling is important 6months before marriage. Every 18 year old and above should attend marriage and relationship counselling in their faith or local community even when they are not in a relationship Families should come together often several before and after any marriage. Communication is key

Marriage without deliverance is really not easy. The sister should seek deliverance, spiritual marriage is her challenge.

This woman is the definition of trouble, even the man get e own .

I wanted to be crying for this man, I hope he become more successful in life and that his children love him

This lady is very heartless, I really pity the man and judge Funmi didn't give fair judgment to the man

For a man or woman to say they don't have an atom of love for you it means you haven't *"deposited any spousal benefits in your partners life"* so they wouldn't miss you when they leave you.

This man was just unfortunate. I really pity him

The woman will suffer, she took advantage of her bad life. man continue ur good heart

What will this woman pay? These children are they just this man children and not her too

This woman is cruel. May my brothers never meet such kind.

The judge should have back dated the child support and school fees. Since 2019 she has taken care of the kids with no assistance. What has he been doing with his salary????

The woman has to work to ease things period

I really feel for this gentle man. Nevertheless, it's a good lesson for young men. She left her first marriage and you decided to marry her without doing your own finding. You learnt your lesson in a hard way

I feel pity for the man, he's been caged and captive😢

Lesson to all young guys out there

@14:19 you see the guy’s real character come out. He said “e no concern you” under his breath. If he can do that to a judge, na only am know wetin he don do the girl. I hope they both heal and get to a better place

"A man that doesn't even have a single atom of love like this for me" If he's is the last man on earth I wouldn't want him....lessons learnt here. To all genlemen and ladies in Africa and beyond please make a proper findings before marrying a divorce person. And to the great woman honourable judge funmi Asaolu thanks ma for listening to both sides but da burden is just too too much on my gentleman please I urge the honourable court to reconsider this gentleman... thanks

This woman is a good example of a bad woman I'm sorry to say! 😔 I'm also married to a salary earner, I can tell you it's not easy, she's not being considerate at all, she planned the whole thing and she must surely reap what she sowed

Now, wit absolutely no "respect n remorse" dat woman is legitimately a "fairly-used", da 3rd man dat will run in2 her will be surely "doomed"

Any man that run from his responsibility will come back to it for real

D lady is wicked partially,d man is honest,let him take care of d food, school n health.

So some men are facing violence martial life from women. This platform is really thoughtfully and perfect..

Mr man take care of your children

The woman was already having an affair with another man before she moved out from the house, that's why she didn't want the marriage to work or go for marriage canceling

This woman is something else and she looks so troublesome. I pray God help us in choosing the right partner 🙏

I just feel for this man 😢 may my Son and brothers not come across a woman like this 😢

The judge must not be a Nigerian, she is too nice and professional, I like her

This man is truly been caged why so much responsibilities on him, after all he opted for reconciliation to make things easier for him and for his children and the woman said no, she too should take up some responsibilities for her Stubborn stands, the judgement is too hard and unfair on the man. Humming marriage from sweetie to Arc enemies, women's abusiveness and I'll responds, lack of fair considerations and understanding to Minor issues on their men are the roots of many broken marriages, the fact remains that there's no guarantee that the next relationship will be conflicts Free the circle continues O! Life

This woman does not love. She is only an opportunist. May God bless the Man with a virtuous and resourceful woman soonest.

This woman was already seen another right from day one why she was in the marriage, so i is clear she finally move in with the man behind this failed marriage

The woman started having kids at a very young age, she just want to spread her wings and explore life now that her children are grown.

Wickedness she used hot pepper on her maid, held a knife against her husband, fought her own sis pls pls where is social services, this woman shouldn't be with her children very angry person.

Single mother run ooooooooo . They are bitter and will descend those baggage from ex on you ,no love or commitment come from them

This lady is something else

It's obvious the woman is wayward and it's even cheating on the husband before moving out..I pity her daughters.i pray they don't take after her..this type of woman can never settle down and that's why her first marriage also failed..I blamed the man for not investigating who she is before he married her

I read through the comments and I am disappointed at some ladies, that the man talks calmly does not mean he is a nice man oo, they act calm in public and talk aggressively inside house oo, I have met his type, forget his stunt. If he is that good, the lady would give him a chance, who doesn't love a nice man. "she gets provoked to the extent of picking a knife" , guy what did you say to her, she is not mental naah, I don't support violence,but this man is not what he is presenting(God sees better shaa) And for the issue of responsibility, let's not forget 2 of the kids are in examination stage, and all schools pay 2 terms together, reason for the high fee, and it has to be paid. People are saying why is responsibility only on the man, did you also hear he has not dropped any feeding fee since they parted, is it not the lady that has been feeding the 4 kids?as a teacher she tried pls. Lastly he has an empty apartment, and he wants to fight for custody? He is just after taking the kids away from her, I thought he quickly agreed for judge Funmi for marriage counselor and quickly agreed for settlement from the judge, but listen from beginning his motives of taking the kids right from his speech😂Don't forget he told the lady he doesn't have a single love again for her, dear ladies forming Saint now, do you know how hurting that line of sentence is? A MAN CAN TALK ONE BY ONE BUT STILL BE A TIGER AT HOME. In everything the kids are the victim. May God guide we single ladies not to judge by sight, marriage sef come dey fear me😂😂and my mother is already planning her size of gele🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

This woman should contribute too

People like that gentleman they're always unlucky with good women but if i am that man I'll definitely move on without the little girl called wife ohh my justice court, woman that you know she already had boyfriend under your roof you man pray you've long life you better take your shoes off from your legs,and run as fast you can!!

This lady needs to go for mental deliverance, spiritual deliverance, and psychological deliverance.

This woman is a beast 😡😡