ഓർമിപ്പിക്കല്ലെ പൊന്നെ... ഇതിൻ്റെ extreme പോയിൻ്റ് കണ്ട് തിരിച്ചു വന്ന ഒരാളാണ്...നമുക്ക് ഒരാളെ തന്നെ ഒരേ സമയം സ്നേഹിക്കാനും വെറുക്കാനും പറ്റുമോ... Life is very hard, but not impossible... & i will not give up
@mayasamma-malayalam466611 ай бұрын
Hugs. Plz don't give up..
@sumadevi27372 жыл бұрын
ഞാൻ മാഡത്തിന്റെ ഇൻസ്റ്റാഗ്രാം follower ആണ്. എനിക്ക് ഇംഗ്ലീഷ് മനസിലാക്കാൻ അൽപ്പം ബുദ്ധിമുട്ടുണ്ട്. മാഡം എഴുതി ഇടുന്ന പല കാര്യങ്ങളും വായിച്ചു നോക്കാറുണ്ട്.. മനസിലാകാത്ത കാര്യങ്ങൾ google translate ന്റെ സഹായത്തോടെ മനസിലാക്കാറുണ്ട്. ഇനിയിപ്പോ ഇങ്ങനെ ഒരു മലയാളം ചാനൽ തുടങ്ങിയ സ്ഥിതിക്ക് മനസിലാക്കാൻ കുറച്ചു കൂടെ എളുപ്പമായി... 🥰
@akshara42212 жыл бұрын
Mentally torchering parenting is here i'm suffering 🥺🥺
@nandanaviswanathan61032 жыл бұрын
Me too
@diya52542 жыл бұрын
Me too😢
@missrose93882 жыл бұрын
Me too
@iseeyou34722 жыл бұрын
Me too
@mysteriousman8532 Жыл бұрын
Me toooo 😓😭😭
@meghnacp3801 Жыл бұрын
The only thing i regret in my whole life is opening up to my mom...cuz, it just did nothing for me except making my situation even worse🙂
@mayasamma-malayalam466611 ай бұрын
Omg that's terrible da.. Big hugs
@believeu93212 жыл бұрын
She always brings in thoughts that strikes in and never leaves ❤️ Thanks to you
@mayasamma-malayalam46662 жыл бұрын
Aw thank you.
@harithathampy Жыл бұрын
എന്റെ അച്ഛനെയും അമ്മയെയും വേണം ആദ്യം കൗൺസിൽ ചെയ്യണ്ടത്... എന്നെ ഈ രീതിയിൽ ആക്കിയതിന്റെ basic reason വേണ്ട രീതിയിൽ parenting ഇല്ലാത്തതുകൊണ്ടാണ്.
@jazeelashefeer2204 Жыл бұрын
Me also😰
@sumisasikumar9221 Жыл бұрын
Enteyum
@akhilava7854 Жыл бұрын
same 😣
@mayasamma-malayalam466611 ай бұрын
Sigh... Sending healing vibes to you all ❤️❤️
@reshmaroselinemony62672 жыл бұрын
Constant guilt tripping Blame me in front of everyone Don't have empathy Manipulation Put me down always I earn so you have to do This is my house Gaslighting Elam undu
@mayasamma-malayalam46662 жыл бұрын
Hugs sounds terrible
@GlafyPaul2 жыл бұрын
My siblings and I are victims of toxic parenting. My mom is the core problem, because of her 7 of us are suffering. Parents are being glorified in Kerala just because of they are parents. Have you ever heard of a mom trying to split up her kids ? Have you ever wished your parents were dead? Have you ever wished to be dead ? Acting, manipulating etc..
@simisean Жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear that. I hope you are having a great bonding with your siblings 💟
@nikhilv9975 Жыл бұрын
Yes i have been
@fragrence2000 Жыл бұрын
Spliting siblings by parents is common in kerala.. especially when parents wants money.. it happens when one of their child is in foreign land..
@TheKatChat472 жыл бұрын
Toxic parenting India il normalised annu. Parents glorification chyumbo, no one is worried about kids😪😪 beating annu main course in toxic parenting 😬😬
@mayasamma-malayalam46662 жыл бұрын
Yes. Hitting is definitely a part of it. 😔😔
@KarthikDJ-qp7he2 жыл бұрын
Also, they even encourage teachers to hit their kids (നല്ല അടി കൊടുക്കണം ടീച്ചറേ 😼)
@mayasamma-malayalam46662 жыл бұрын
@@KarthikDJ-qp7he yes. Sadly they do it too. 😔😔
@IndianmominLondon18072 жыл бұрын
Iam a victim of toxic parenting
@karthiksajeevan9542 жыл бұрын
@@IndianmominLondon1807 Same here... Since from my childhood😢
@sojansj77882 жыл бұрын
My parents are very toxic especially my mom 😐
@mayasamma-malayalam46662 жыл бұрын
😔😔
@peterv.p23182 жыл бұрын
ഒരു കാര്യം ഉറപ്പായി ! ഞാൻ ഒരു ടോക്സിക് പാരന്റ് ആണെന്ന് !! ഉപകാരം .... 💞👍💖 ഇനിയെന്ത് ചെയ്യാമെന്ന് പറയൂ ...പ്ലീസ് .... 💞
@mayasamma-malayalam466611 ай бұрын
Start your healing process to stop the toxic patterns. And slowly collect information on gentle parenting ..
@arsnjkstudios2 жыл бұрын
I am a victim of toxic parenting
@Ammumaz2 жыл бұрын
Me also🙂
@amaikrishna32192 жыл бұрын
Stay strong and fight ❤️
@fizanfreya75382 жыл бұрын
Me too... 😔😔😔 തകർന്ന് പോവുന്നു ചില നേരങ്ങളിൽ... ആരുമില്ലാതായി പോവുന്നു... കല്ല്യാണം കഴിഞ്ഞ് വേറെ വീട്ടിൽ വന്നിട്ട് അവിടെ നിന്നു ഒരു ദിവസത്തിന് ചെല്ലുമ്പോഴേക്കും കേൾക്കുന്ന സംസാരങ്ങൾ ബുദ്ധിമുട്ടുകൾ..... സഹിക്കാനാവുന്നില്ല..... ജീവിക്കാൻ തോന്നില്ല ചിലപ്പോൾ...
@Ammumaz2 жыл бұрын
@@fizanfreya7538 mrge khzjille hus enkilum ille
@fizanfreya75382 жыл бұрын
@@Ammumaz അതെ dear... പക്ഷെ husbndinum വീട്ടുകാർകുമൊന്നും ഇത് accepeteyyan ആവില്ല... കല്ല്യാണം കഴിഞ്ഞാൽ നമുക്ക് വീട്ടുകാരുടെ ആവശ്യം വേണ്ട സന്ദർഭങ്ങളിൽ പോലും നമ്മൾ ഒറ്റക്കായിപ്പോകും... ഒരു വിലയും ഉണ്ടാവില്ല അപ്പോ ഇവർക്കും നമ്മളെ... മരിക്കുവോളം നമ്മളിത് അനുഭവിക്കണം
@medicoooo Жыл бұрын
Very good topic....thnku so much I am also a victim..... Enita childhood full spoiled akkan nokkiya enita amma....othriii 🥺karanjitta onda..aroda parayum enna pollum ariyatha......eganna ok yoo mubotta poyee....last amma karanam enita brother inta adutha ninna ondayaa bad experience karanam njan veeda vitta irageee
@janakijenny79318 ай бұрын
എൻ്റെ അയൽവാസി toxic ആണ്. 5yr old boy ആണ് അവർക്ക് ഉള്ളത്. അതിനോട് ഉള്ള parenting ശെരി അല്ല എന്ന് പറഞ്ഞു ഞാൻ . അതിനു ആ mom എന്നെ പച്ച തെറി വിളിച്ചു. . ( ഞാൻ ഒരു toxic parents ൻ്റെ baby ആണ്)
@rasheedpm10632 жыл бұрын
അടുത്ത ഭാഗത്തിനായി കാത്തിരിക്കുന്നു .... ❤️👍
@surumic.s542311 ай бұрын
Ee videosinte ettvum nlla comedy nthann ariyamo... Ee videos onnum thnne toxic parents kanilla.. But avrde victims ahnu kanunnad.. Enne pole😢
@mayasamma-malayalam466611 ай бұрын
Yes unfortunately these things are for people who want to heal only.
@palebluedot36901 Жыл бұрын
I was the eldest child. im 24.. Im a victim of toxic parenting from both of my parents.. Im having BPD right now.... Enne enik control cheyan patunilla
@storiesofshadhy6968 Жыл бұрын
Same.im also bpd... doing therapy and surviving alone 😊...happy to meet a bpd
@storiesofshadhy6968 Жыл бұрын
Therapy eduk... control avm
@palebluedot36901 Жыл бұрын
@@storiesofshadhy6968 With whom are you taking therapy?
@Tom-hy4gx2 жыл бұрын
Parents are monsters..i wish i were orphan
@saranyakskpm5238 Жыл бұрын
100% correct
@deea88972 жыл бұрын
Am 40 have my own kids still not got over toxicity that I grew up with..sometimes though I try my best not to ..I also show my mom's characters as if it's inbuilt in me and behave like a demon with my kids
@pournamipooja96242 жыл бұрын
This is the biggest fear n ma life. And as u told, even i have some inbuild characteristics of my toxic mother and my father was an alcoholic as well.although m trying my best to stop the cycle, sometimes it comes.
@deea88972 жыл бұрын
@@pournamipooja9624 I understand..may be your mom has her reason to behave that way so does my mom because of my dad's inability to look after our family financially and making her feel secure
@fausiyashamsudeen16162 ай бұрын
Wow! How sweet ❤
@fragrence20002 жыл бұрын
Older married children also has toxic parents.. parents financially abusing their son and daughter in law for money saying its their responsibility to provide for parents needs and dreams since they raised their son. My in laws both got masters, acres of family land /family house and dowry brought by mother in law and later my dowry.. then my husband’s 5 years of engineer salary before marriage .. even with all this they always says they don’t have money to survive🤷♂️..they saw their older son as a retirement platform.. they build luxury home and bought above average priced car before son’s marriage without no money in their hand .. thinking their son will get married to foreign salaried girl with high dowry.. but they didnt tell all this at time of marriage.. after marriage my mother in law told me ( i was 24 yrs old at that time) I should give her 2 lakhs every month from my salary to support them otherwise they will sell home and Me and my parents will get humiliated. I didnt give since i need to show enough money in my account to sponsor my spouse visa.. after 7 months my husband came to USA and when he got salary he started shipping money.. i told him we need to buy home here.. save for emergencies but no use.. after a year i got pregnant and he got sense.. he stopped shipping them money.. since i can't work overtime anymore due to body weakness and also as family we need to save to buy home.. ofcourse we went through hell.. due to them trying to create guilty feeling /emotional black mailing by bending bible words ..later they asked for power attorney of land and house from my hus and he gave it . They sold the property for huge profit and built an average small house.( still they say they don't have money , i wonder what happened to almost 80 lakhs of profit). my dowry money and one year worth of money went to drain.. but i am happy we stopped it before we will be in huge loss.. now after 3 years.. here in USA we put down payment and brought a home.. have 3 kids.. of course his parents or his lazy sisters( 26 and 28 yr old don’t make zero money sitting at home saying its their brother’s responsibility to take care of them since they are girls) don’t talk to me any more.. well thats for good since i dont need to hear their financial abuses money talks .. etc and can be at peace..
@abraham_george Жыл бұрын
Such courage to open up about these issues. More power to you. Don’t break your head about them. They tend to become a menace after a certain age.
@karthiksajeevan9542 жыл бұрын
Madam toxic teachers ine patti oru discussion iddamo....
@Musicmelody699 Жыл бұрын
😂
@karthiksajeevan9545 ай бұрын
🙄
@mysignature457511 ай бұрын
എന്റെ ഹസ് ന്റെ ഫാദർ എക്സ് മിലിറ്ററി ആയ ഒരു ടോക്സിക് പേരെന്റ് ആണ് ഹസ് ന്റെ ബ്രദർ ഒരു മാനസിക രോഗി ആയി മാറി എന്റെ ഹസ്ബൻഡ് ഉം വല്ലാത്തൊരു സ്വഭാവകാരൻ ആണ് 😔😔കിട്ടിയത് അല്ലെ കൊടുക്കാൻ പറ്റു
@swathivenugopal83252 жыл бұрын
I was waiting for your video..
@jishnu97312 жыл бұрын
Can u please upload videos on regular basis???
@mayasamma-malayalam46662 жыл бұрын
Sure...
@fitnesstipsbyryan Жыл бұрын
Cheachy my parents are very very toxic njan engane parayan they are mentally harassing me to much i have no freedom in my life im 21 year old now but still no respect no freedom aavar parayanathu thanne ellam njan parayanathu keelkunilla not understand my situation not supporting my future. They are too old not updating with this generation 😔 i am mentally affected a lot sister i can't stay happy they are not motivating me they are demotivating me everything you can't ithu nennaku patulla like that and comparing with other people always thinking negative mind not thinking positive I'm hurting inside i can't live with them 💔🙏 i need to learn more i need to improve more i need to change because of my dam parents i can't do nothing
അവരെ ഫ്രീ ആയിട്ട് കളിക്കാൻ വിടണം . നമ്മുടെ സൗകര്യത്തിനു വേണ്ടി അവരെ ഒന്നിൽ നിന്നും പിന്തിരിപ്പിക്കാൻ പാടില്ല. വല്ല അപകടത്തിൽ ചെന്നു ചാടും എന്നു കണ്ടാൽ മാത്രം ഇടപെടുക. വളർന്നു വരുമ്പോൾ അവരെ ഒരു ഫ്രണ്ട് ആയി കാണുക, അവർക്ക് അഭിപ്രായങ്ങൾ പറയാൻ സ്വതത്രം കൊടുക്കുക... ചെറിയ ചെറിയ കാര്യങ്ങൾ അവരെ ഏൽപ്പിക്കുക.
Iam a survivor from toxic parenting. ഇപ്പോൾ എന്റെ ഹസ്ബൻഡ് same way ആണ്. ആളൊരു extreme male chauvenist ആണ്. Can i mannage him?
@mayasamma-malayalam46662 жыл бұрын
You are writing this because you are unable to manage the situation. I highly recommend therapy.. Talk to a professional. All I can suggest from my side is my workshop intimacy and relationships will give clarity on marriages and relationships. Details are on my website www.mayasamma.com. Else just try therapy.. Some good contacts are also there on my website. Also stay tuned for more content on relationships.
@sanvi19972 жыл бұрын
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Thank you😊
@knowfeedleadthesheep22852 жыл бұрын
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 are you sucssessfulwith these techniques in reality..
@mayasamma-malayalam46662 жыл бұрын
@@knowfeedleadthesheep2285 thats none of your business. learn about boundaries. you will know how to converse with people, what questions to ask, what not to etc..
@knowfeedleadthesheep22852 жыл бұрын
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 ok sister but need be this hateful of others ask questions..in parenting patience is the key...take care..
@jazeelmuhammed3655 Жыл бұрын
Couplsil arkenkilum mentali problem undenkil adh kutik feauturil kitumo Maya?
@user-fx8gh2mx8q2 жыл бұрын
Mam, mam സൂചിപ്പിച്ച ഗ്രൂപ്പിൽ എങ്ങനെ ജോയിൻ ചെയ്യും?
@mayasamma-malayalam46662 жыл бұрын
sorry which group?
@reshmiajayan71422 жыл бұрын
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 NGO
@mayasamma-malayalam46662 жыл бұрын
@@reshmiajayan7142 it's coimbatore parenting network. Offline events will be in coimbatore. But online workshops and awareness classes you can get to know details if you follow our insta page.
@user-fx8gh2mx8q2 жыл бұрын
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 mam, insta വഴി മാത്രമേ ഒള്ളു?
@mayasamma-malayalam46662 жыл бұрын
@@user-fx8gh2mx8q we have a fb group too where we post updates on online and offline events we organise.
@thomaskdthomaskd5343 Жыл бұрын
ഇന്ത്യൻ പേരണ്ട്സ് ബുക്ക് അടിച്ചപ്പോൾ നിങ്ങളെ കിട്ടി പക്ഷേ ഇന്ത്യൻ സൺസ് ബുക്ക് അടിച്ചപ്പോൾ വേറെ എന്ധോക്കെയോ വന്നു അതിൽ A ഒൺലി വരെ വന്നു കാർന്നോവന്മാരെ കേൾക്കാൻ ഒന്നുമില്ലേ?????//
@iseeyou34722 жыл бұрын
Hi mam,my parents are very toxic,and my father is an alcoholic
@jazeelashefeer2204 Жыл бұрын
കൂട്ടു ഉണ്ട് my father also alcoholic treatment ചെയ്തു മാറ്റി 2 കൊല്ലം drinking ഉണ്ടായില്ല. Ente marraige കഴിഞ്ഞു 1 year കഴിഞ്ഞപ്പോൾ വീണ്ടും തുടങ്ങി. Husband വീട്ടിൽ നാണം കെടുകയാണ്
@akhilava7854 Жыл бұрын
mentally torturing aan mam 😣😭😭
@user-vd4em5bi2v Жыл бұрын
mam njn sslc kayinjathaan enik commerce padich acca k povana aayrnnu ishtam ente prnts bio scnce l kondupoyi cherthu enne manasilaaknne illaa vellathe snkdm aaan enthnklm parnj tharumo now i hate them i dont want to live with them they are playing with my life my dream the dont undertand my feelngs i dont want to live🥺
@Bincy29311 ай бұрын
Enikk maduth edha cheyande 😢
@vipinjaxvellex88832 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺🥺
@anugayathri90612 жыл бұрын
Tq❤
@sanjanasajayan23722 жыл бұрын
,💖
@oxembergr5700 Жыл бұрын
My father is toxic higly toxic
@RkTrade-mr7iz Жыл бұрын
ഇത് ഒന്നും അല്ല ശെരിക്കും ടോക്സിക്, അച്ഛൻ വീണ്ടും വീണ്ടും, കുഞ്ഞനിയനെ /പെങ്ങളെ തരുന്നത് ആണ്. അച്ഛൻ തന്നെ എന്തോരം കഷ്ടപെട്ടിട്ട് ആണ് വീട് വെച്ചത്, അതും കുറച്ച് പറമ്പ് കൂടി വിറ്റു, ഇതേ അവസ്ഥ മക്കൾക്ക് കൂടി വരും എന്ന് വാഴ വെക്കുന്ന സമയത്തു ചിന്തിക്കില്ല, സുഹൃത്ത് പറഞ്ഞത് ഓർക്കുന്നു '"പട്ടി പെറ്റ പത്തെണ്ണം എന്തിനാ, പുലി പെറ്റ ഒന്ന് പോരെ " ഒന്നേ ഉള്ളൻങ്കിലും രാജാവിനെ പോലെ വളർത്തുക മികച്ച വിദ്യാഭ്യാസം, ഹെൽത്ത്, food കൊടുക്കുക., ആളുകൂടുമ്പോൾ ആളോഹരി കുറയും Jjjw